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VISIT US ONLINE AT OUTSFL.COM OUTSFL FEBRUARY 8, 2024 VOL. 2 • ISSUE 6 VISIT US ONLINE AT OUTSFL.COM OUTSFL @OUTSFL PAGE 36 THE SINGLES ISSUE THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH BEGINS IN CENTER HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

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4 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH COVER 1: Kal Gajraj. Photo by Carina Mask. COVER 2: Tina Berardi . Photo by Carina Mask. February 8, 2024 • Volume 2• Issue 6 2520 N. Dixie Highway • Wilton Manors, FL 33305 OutSFL newspaper is published on a weekly schedule. You should not presume the sexual orientation or gender identity of any featured individuals solely based on their names, appearance, or inclusion within this publication. Any opinions shared within stories, columns, graphics, or letters to the editor should not be assumed to represent the opinions of OutSFL, its Publisher, or its co-founder. Any stories or content, either in print or online, and also including any articles that are featured in conjunction with any media partners, are protected under federal copyright and intellectual property laws, and this ownership is carefully and jealously guarded by this media group. Nothing that is published may be reprinted, either in whole or in part, without first receiving written consent from the Publisher, Jason Parsley. OutSFL is owned by Jason Parsley and Justin Wyse, and is represented legally by Russell Cormican. As a private corporation, OutSFL reserves the right to enforce its own standards regarding the suitability of advertising copy, illustrations, and photographs. Copyright © 2024 J&J Media Group. PUBLISHER Jason Parsley [email protected] CEO Justin Wyse [email protected] EDITORIAL ASSISTANT TO THE EDITOR Kimberly Swan SOCIAL MEDIA DIRECTOR Christiana Lilly ART DIRECTOR Julie Palmer GRAPHIC DESIGNERS Kyle Willis • Craig Tuggle GRAPHIC DESIGN CONSULTANT Brendon Lies ARTS & CULTURE EDITOR Rick Karlin [email protected] COMMUNITY EDITOR John Hayden [email protected] PHOTOGRAPHERS J.R. Davis • Carina Mask COLUMNISTS Brian McNaught • Jesse Monteagudo Sabrina Haake • Fred Fejes John Porter • Kelly Ghweinem SPECIAL TO OUTSFL Steve Rothaus • J.W. Arnold CORRESPONDENTS John McDonald • Sean Conklin Deon Jefferson • Aurora Dominguez Denise Brown • Mary Rasura Terri Schlichenmeyer • Gregg Shapiro Kennedy McKinney • Michael Anguille Robert DeDominic • Aaron Kinchen Tessa Becker • Christopher Flores PUBLISHING CONSULTANT Pier Angelo SALES & MARKETING For ad placement, call 954-514-7095 SALES MANAGERS Edwin Neimann [email protected] Silvio Carvana [email protected] Andrew LaRochelle [email protected] DISTRIBUTION SERVICES Richie Wilson • Johnathan Rey • Tyler Brayton NATIONAL ADVERTISING Rivendell Media 212-242-6863 CAN’T WAIT FOR PRINT? FOLLOW US ONLINE. OUTSFL.COM MIRAGE ON HER ‘DRAG RACE’ EXIT AND VEGAS DRAG Spot an error? Let us know at [email protected] when PFL bailed on the beach. PFL was allowed to slap their logo on promotional materials, but sources close to the 2023 event tell OutSFL that Pride’s financial contribution, if any, was minimal. In 2024, PFL canceled its signature events (which were set for this weekend), the parade and Pride party near Fort Lauderdale Beach. POTD expanded to two nights to help businesses which count on the big weekend for sales. Hunters’ and Alibi’s parking lots will be the center of attention. But the events are, technically, just parking lot parties. Jeff Sterling of Wilton Manors Entertainment Group (WMEG) says POTD is a marketing concept designed to help any and all businesses along Wilton Drive have a successful weekend. He told OutSFL that WMEG would promote any bar or restaurant this weekend, and POTD is in no way linked or tied down to one location. This is somewhat of a surprise to Hunters. Despite shelling out more than $45,000 for talent, staging, and other costs for the weekend, their logo is absent from much of the prominent advertising. In addition to holding the events, Hunters is supporting a VIP area for PFL and making a donation to the organization. However, according to people close to the event, Thunderpuss and Kristine W concerts are PFL’s events, not Hunters, and PFL is doing the ads. WMEG is doing POTD ads, prominently featuring PFL, but no venues. If you’re confused, you’re not the only one. “It’s chaos.” Those were the words of Hunters’ Bruce Howe when trying to explain the situation. In the end, both Howe and Sterling believe commitment to community is more important than who gets credit. Wilton Manors and the LGBTQ community support the weekend and pack the drive. That is what Sterling wants. “I don’t really care why; we just want them to come here.” When Thunderpuss takes the stage at Hunters Nightclub Feb. 9, the thousands of people packing the parking lot will assume they’re at a Pride On the Drive (POTD) event. They will be wrong. That’s because even though POTD is this weekend, POTD also doesn’t exist. That show, plus Kristine W on Saturday, are Hunters events, and Pride Fort Lauderdale (PFL) advertises a VIP area. But like so many things connected to PFL, details are sketchy, fuzzy, and often feature incomprehensible, circular reasoning. POTD came into the public consciousness a year ago, when PFL failed to produce any Pride events on Friday night plans down by the beach. The idea became a collective rescue to help PFL save face and give people a fun night. Wilton Manors Business Association (WMBA) and Hunters booked in DJ legend Thunderpuss, reuniting for the first time in nearly 20 years. Originally scheduled for Thursday of Pride 2023, it moved to Friday PRIDE ON THE DRIVE NEWS HIGHLIGHT John Hayden SIMULTANEOUSLY SOMETHING AND NOTHING Thunderpuss. Photo by Barry Harris, via Wikimedia Commons. HUNTERS’ AND ALIBI’S PARKING LOTS WILL BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION. BUT THE EVENTS ARE, TECHNICALLY, JUST PARKING LOT PARTIES.

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6 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH LAST WEEK'S COVER FROM THE NEWSROOM - TAYLOR SWIFT DURING HER RECENT CONCERT IN CHICAGO SCAN HERE TO VIEW THE ISSUE ONLINE LGBTQUOTEABLE QUOTE OF THE WEEK “I’m just equal. I’m just even. It has nothing to do with any parts of me or how I dress or how I look. It’s literally just how I feel.”  - MILEY CYRUS ON BEING GENDER-FLUID Photo by Raph_PH, via Wikimedia Commons.

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8 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH OUT AND ABOUT PHOTO OF THE WEEK Steven Bialos, owner of NO Manors Bar & Lounge, with actress and activist Candis Cayne celebrating her new series, “Candis Cayne’s Secret Garden” streaming on The Advocate Channel with a surprise performance at NO Manors in Wilton Manors. Photo by JR Davis

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12 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH NOH8 CAMPAIGN COMES TO SOUTH FLORIDA T he NOH8 Campaign will be coming to South Florida in February for a series of photo shoots. The campaign is known for its iconic images of people in white shirts, duct taped mouths, and a face marking that reads “NOH8.” Starting in California, NOH8 has become a symbol of silent protest for the LGBTQ community. In 2008, California Proposition 8, banning same-sex marriage, was passed. In response, NOH8 was formed. Since the legalization of same-sex marriage in 2016, NOH8 has continues to be a symbol of LGBTQ protest, embraced by many around the country. NOH8 uses still photos of people in white shirts and duct tape on their mouth, symbolizing the silencing of LGBTQ voices. These photos are taken in photo shoots at various places around the country. In February, NOH8 will be coming to multiple South Florida cities, including Lake Worth Beach, Fort Lauderdale, and Miami. In addition to south Florida, NOH8 will also host shoots in St. Petersburg, Orlando, Tallahassee, and Jacksonville. To participate in the campaign, go to the shooting location on the day and time of the shoot. Come to the shot “photo ready” wearing a clean white tee and any cosmetic you want in the photo. To get a solo photo, the cost is $40. To get a group photo, the cost is $25 per person in the photo. NEWS LOCAL Sean Conklin BELOW IS THE DATE, TIME, AND LOCATION FOR EACH SHOOT: LAKE WORTH BEACH: FEB. 17, 12-2 P.M. AT COMPASS COMMUNITY CENTER FORT LAUDERDALE: FEB. 17, 6-8 P.M. AT HAMPTON INN FT. LAUDERDALE/PLANTATION MIAMI: FEB. 18, 1-6 P.M. AT BAY 13 BREWERY AND KITCHEN SOLO PHOTOS: $40 | GROUP PHOTOS: $25/PERSON Photo via NOH8 Campaign, Facebook.

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14 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH T he Republican-dominated state House of Representatives is launching another attack on adult entertainment, this time by redefining the word “adult.” HB 1379 would prohibit “...employment of persons younger than 21 years of age in adult entertainment establishments.” Violations would be second-degree felonies. This would prevent anyone under 21 from working in “strip clubs.” That doesn’t just include dancers. Bartenders, servers, and other support staff would also need to be 21+. The reason given for the bill is to cut down on human trafficking. HB 1379 passed the Regulatory Reform & Economic Development subcommittee and is now being reviewed by the Judiciary committee. HB 1379 cites that Florida is ranked third nationally in human trafficking cases, and accuses adult entertainment venues as being fertile recruiting grounds to “coerce” young people. Charles Horton, owner of LeBoy in Fort Lauderdale, says responsible clubs look out for their employees and sees this as an attack on young adults trying to start their life. “We always have plenty of dancers. What it affects is job choices for 18–21-year-olds. I run a fun club. The dancers work when they want. They enjoy the atmosphere.” Horton says LeBoy, which just celebrated its ninth anniversary, has open lines of communication with employees. “The dance manager is primarily there for dancers’ safety. I’m also very approachable. Most dancers are comfortable speaking ... and do regularly with concerns and suggestions.” Florida Republicans have made it a habit to tell people, parents, their children, and other adults what they can and cannot do with their bodies. In recent years, they’ve restricted care for trans kids, trans adults, reproductive care, drag entertainment, enacted “Don’t Say Gay,” banned books for K-12 students and banned courses for college students. This latest attack, raising the age to work in an “adult” venue, may stick. While you only need to be 18 to vote and die for your country, invasive laws, like raising the age to buy tobacco to 21, have passed legal muster. FLA. REPUBS TARGET LGBTQ ENTERTAINMENT – AGAIN LeBoy’s 9th anniversary party. Photo by JR Davis. NEWS STATE John Hayden ‘AN ABSOLUTE NIGHTMARE’ GAY HIGH SCHOOL TEACHER HARASSED BY STUDENTS; CALLED A ‘FAGGOT’ I n his 13 years of teaching at Alexandria City High School, English teacher Matthew Henry had never been referred to as a “faggot.” Until now. Henry, who identifies as gay, and holds a doctorate degree, reported being verbally and physically threatened at the school he works at in Virginia, according to the Washington Blade. He said school officials have failed to adequately respond to the students’ behavior, which included calling him a “faggot” on two occasions. He sent a detailed two-and-a-half-page letter to the Alexandria School Board through its online public comment site, describing how he believes he’s facing threats by students. “In my 13 years at ACHS, a school I love, I have never previously been called [a] faggot to my face,” Henry stated in his letter. “I have never been made to feel less than by any student that I can recall due to my sexuality, even if their religion, culture, church, neighborhood, friends or family tells them otherwise.” “Twice now this year, students have used that word toward me simply because I have asked them to go to class,” his letter continued. “Twice within a month’s time: November 13 and December 13. Twice now. A third time I was physically threatened, though that word was not used.” Henry stated that on the day he wrote his letter to the school board, a student “wondering the halls” asked him a question about a location within the school he was looking for, the Blade reported. When Henry responded, another student replied, “We ain’t talkin to you, faggot.” The letter, a copy of which the Blade received from an Alexandria Public Schools spokesperson, had no date on it. But the Alexandria Times, which was the first media outlet to report the story on Henry’s letter, reported that the letter was sent early this year. Henry had not responded to an interview request from the Blade about his report of antigay threats from students. His letter also did not specify how the students learned that he is gay, or whether he self-identifies as gay at the school. In a response to a request, the Alexandria Public Schools sent the Blade a statement from Julia Burgos, the school system’s Chief of School & Community Relations, which was released in response to media inquiries. “Please know that safety is a top priority at Alexandria City Public Schools,” the statement read. “We are dedicated to creating a safe and Matthew Henry. Photo via LinkedIn. welcoming environment for all students, staff, visitors and members of our school community.” “To that end, we place a strong emphasis on adherence to our Student Code of Conduct with our students,” it continued. “When we are made aware of matters that do not align with our code of conduct, we address them and take appropriate action with those students as warranted.” The statement did not say whether school officials have taken action against any of the students who Henry said have threatened him, or subjected him to anti-gay name-calling. Henry said because the teachers count on the administration and the district to defend them when needed through quick and efficient consequences, he felt like the school and district are “letting him down,” the Blade reported. “This is why I’m so shaken by this,” he wrote in the letter. “I am not allowed to defend myself and my instinct is to defend, both myself and others, especially LGBTQ+ students, in all aspects of my life.” “The word ‘faggot’ immediately alerts me and other LGBTQ+ people that a situation is now dangerous,” Henry’s letter continued. “The response by campus leaders was very unsatisfactory.” Henry wrote the hallways of the school are “an absolute nightmare.” “I love being an educator, I love this school, and teaching is something I think I’m really good at. Many in this building feel the same,” his letter concluded. “It saddens me that a small group of students in this school is taking that away from us and is forcing many of us to look for off-ramps.” NEWS NATIONAL Kim Swan FLORIDA REPUBLICANS HAVE MADE IT A HABIT TO TELL PEOPLE, PARENTS, THEIR CHILDREN, AND OTHER ADULTS WHAT THEY CAN AND CANNOT DO WITH THEIR BODIES.

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16 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH BACKLASH ERUPTS OVER SEATTLE GAY BAR RAIDS T he Washington Liquor and Cannabis Board has paused lewd conduct enforcement following fierce backlash from the LGBTQ community over raids of Seattle gay bars. In a news release, the board also announced it was suspending participation in the City of Seattle’s Joint Enforcement Team and that no citations or violations would be issued to licensees impacted from the Jan. 26-27 “visits.” Inspectors took issue with a bartender’s exposed nipples and people wearing jockstraps inside the Cuff Complex and Seattle Eagle — two leather bars located in the Capitol Hill neighborhood. The owner of Cuff told reporters that police and fire personnel entered the bar using flashlights and photographed patrons. “This is unacceptable and a painful reminder of the kind of prejudice and bigotry the LGBTQ+ community experienced for decades,” Washington Sen. Marko Liias said. “We must get to the truth of why and how this happened and ensure businesses aren’t being targeted Photo via The Cuff Complex, Facebook. because of the people they serve.” Ironically, Seattle city code permits public nudity, but not inside a business that sells alcohol. At the board’s Jan. 31 meeting, queer activist Dan Savage blasted authorities for invading safe spaces. “These were raids, stop calling them visits,” Savage said. “If everyone in a bar leaves when you show up — 10 of you in uniform with flashlights — they are not experiencing your presence as a social call.” NEWS NATIONAL John McDonald SUPPORT OUR JOURNALISM donations to OutSFL can be made here: outsfl.com/donate

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18 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH JANUARY’S TOP 5 ONLINE STORIES WILTON MANORS COUPLE GOES VIRAL AFTER MELTDOWN AT AIRPORT by John Hayden NEW OWNER OF THE WELL SHARES PLANS FOR RESTAURANT by John Hayden 3 HOLY MACKEREL! WILTON COLLECTIVE IS MOVING by John Hayden 4 TEEN ARRESTED IN MURDER INVESTIGATION OF GAY NEW ORLEANS TOURIST by John McDonald 5 PARKING GARAGE AND NEW COMPLEX COMING TO ALIBI PLAZA by John Hayden READ MORE AT OUTSFL.COM E. JEAN CARROLL DIDN’T WIN $83M. TRUMP LOST IT. A n old colleague and I exchanged a rolling text dialogue during the E. Jean Carroll jury trial last week. We were riveted by Donald Trump’s performative alpha-hood. He angrily shook his head while Carroll was testifying. He furiously passed notes to his counsel. He tried to get the last word when the judge admonished him. He delivered nonstop insults obviously meant for jurors to hear, our favorites being “con job,” “witch hunt,” and “ick.” “Ick,” for those who didn’t follow the trial, was what Trump blurted out when the judge described a sexual assault verdict delivered against Trump last May, by a different jury that adjudicated Trump a rapist. As the judge described the previous verdict, Trump blurted, “ick.” He meant it as a slamming refutation, a show of disgust that he could ever have had sexual interest in an older woman. My texting buddy and I have almost 50 years’ experience in front of civil juries, enough experience to convert Trump’s performance into instant dollar signs. With every caustic quip Trump let rip in front of the seven men, two women jury, the dollar signs grew. When he noisily pushed back his chair and walked out in a huff during Carroll’s closing argument, we texted each other, simultaneously: KA-CHING$. The plaintiff’s bar knows something about human psychology and shifting power dynamics. They know that juries are emotional creatures. They don’t like bullies. Mainly, they don’t like to see the judicial process insulted while they are sitting in a jury box with eight strangers, taking time away from their own families and careers, because they believe in the American legal system. It doesn’t take a trial lawyer to intuit that Trump’s childish outbursts fell under the “don’t” column of Courtroom Antics 101, which took me back to a case I tried in front of a Chicago jury some years ago. Our client lived on the fourth floor of a five-story Chicago walk-up. One day she fell down the stairs. It was a doozy of a fall; she fractured her ankle in a complicated break that required several surgeries. The potential damages were steep, but the Photo by julieannesmo, via Wikimedia Commons. liability side of the case said, “run.” Every major law firm she approached before us turned her down. The case wasn’t winnable, they said. Since she had used the same stairs for years without falling, and the stairs hadn’t changed since she moved in, it would be nearly impossible to convince a jury that the construction defect (the risers were not uniform), and not her own carelessness, caused her fall. Sensible firms with deep pockets politely said, “No.” We were hungry. We said yes. We couldn’t afford fancy trial props. We certainly couldn’t afford a model of the staircase for an expert to demonstrate why every building code in the country requires uniformity of treads and risers. Our “expert,” an equally hungry architect in our building, ended up using the staircase model we could afford: an 8 1/2 X 11 piece of white paper, folded. He used it to demonstrate the structural components of a staircase: vertical risers support horizontal treads where we step, and what happens when measurements are out of whack. Opposing counsel sneered at our disadvantage. He mocked the paper model. At one point, he asked our expert to take off his shoe and hand it to him. He then intentionally crushed the paper with the shoe, just to hit home how out-maneuvered, underfunded and inferior we were. His clients, builder-developers, sneered like Trump did while our client was testifying. When she cried on the stand because, wheelchair bound for months, she put on over 40 pounds, defendants found it humorous. The jabs and insults continued for a weeklong trial that felt like a year. Then the verdict came back. The Cook County Jury Verdict Reporter tagged it as a record, the highest verdict ever returned for the type of injury (bimalleolar fracture). We cried. I’d like to say we won that record verdict, but I’d be lying. In truth, the defendants’ VIEWPOINTS OPINION Sabrina Haake THE HAAKE TAKE Read more from Sabrina Haake is a 25-year litigator specializing in 1st this author here and 14th Amendment defense. Her columns also appear in RawStory, Chicago Tribune, Salon, State Affairs, and Howey Politics. She and her wife split their time between South Florida and Chicago. Follow her on Substack. arrogance lost it. Their blatant disrespect for us and our client (all women), our poverty, and our theory backfired. Carroll’s lawyers did an outstanding job during last week’s trial. They were credible. So was Carroll. But they didn’t win that $83.3 million verdict. Trump lost it. His contempt for the rule of law was palpable, and the jury saw it firsthand. He demonstrated that he will not be bound by rules, proving Carroll’s theory of the case. He insulted the legal process, one that jurors respected by virtue of showing up, every morning, to serve in a trial when they had other important places that they, too, needed to be. Small wonder Trump sees the judicial system as the one authority he can’t con.

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20 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH CULTURE FOOD R HOUSE IS NOT JUST ABOUT DRAG Photo via R House Wynwood, Facebook. R HOUSE 2727 NW 2ND AVE., MIAMI 305-576-0201 RHOUSEWYNWOOD.COM So much has been in the news about R House and its battle with Ron DeSatan, excuse me, DeSantis, that it would be easy to forget that it is primarily a restaurant. The drag shows are just a bonus. We were in Miami Beach to attend the opening of the “David LaChapelle: Happy Together” exhibit at VISU Contemporary Art Gallery with our friends Karen and Pat. We were trying to decide where to grab a bite afterward and Karen said that she had seen Ana Novarro discussing R House on “The View”. It was early for a Friday evening, and we were able to get a table, so we headed over to Wynwood. The food at R House does not have to be as good as it is, it could survive on the publicity it got from a mention on “The View” alone for years, so kudos to them for delivering top-notch meals and friendly, if not the most efficient, service. We were early enough that cocktail hour was still in effect, so we ordered a bowl of guacamole (only $5 at happy hour). Described simply as cilantro and lime, but it is so much more. It is studded with corn and sprinkled with bacon, which I loved, but made it problematic for my vegetarian hubby. A dish that is usually vegetarian should list meat additions on the menu or, at a minimum, the waiter should notify diners. I pointed this out to our waiter, and he brought out a small side portion, sans bacon. I also enjoyed a nice $7 glass of Rose Kennedy with well vodka from the happy hour menu. Other happy hour treats are short rib or spinach and kale empanadas, house-cut chips, and charcuterie bites all well under $10. There are also $1 sweet chili wings and, on Fridays, oysters for a buck each. For our main dishes, Pat raved about her Cuban and said the bread was phenomenal. It should be it’s from Michelin Awardwinner Zak “The Baker”. Karen was feeling adventurous and ordered Brazilian Moqueca, a stew of local fish and shrimp, and scallops, with bell peppers and tomato in a coconut milk base. It had just a hint of spice which was perfect for Karen. My hubby ordered the veggie paella bowl, a nice mixture of saffron rice, cauliflower, brussels, butternut squash, and wild mushrooms. I had been craving fried chicken for a while and R House’s version did not disappoint. The cayenne fried chicken featured white and dark meat, all boneless, in a crispy, spicy batter sitting atop a pool of spicy cilantro sauce. I would have preferred the sauce on the side so that the piece sitting in it didn’t get mushy, but it made for a beautiful presentation. When we received our bill, I was charged for top-shelf vodka, I pointed this out to our waiter and after a few minutes back and forth with the manager it was corrected and $10 was deducted from our bill. There was no drag show while we were dining, it was too early (but “RuPaul’s Drag Race” was playing on the TV and during commercials, they aired bits from the R House girls’ appearance on “The View”). Our bill was $40 a person. As with many Miami places, an 18% service charge is included in the bill, which we rounded up because our waiter was so nice. The R House Drag Brunch on Saturday and Sunday is $60 with two seatings, 11:30/11:45 and 2:30/2:45, is quite popular and reservations are required. Rick Karlin HOT DISH Read more from Rick Karlin is OutSFL’s arts & culture editor, but the this author here views and opinions he expresses in his columns are solely his own and do not represent the official viewpoint of OutSFL. Have a culinary tip to share? Email Rick at [email protected]. TO-DO LIST [email protected] Compiled by Rick Karlin PRIDE ON THE DRIVE, ROUND 1 Hunters stage has Thunderpuss, The Manor kicks off a two-day Carnivalthemed event. The Eagle features music by Janney Boozer, Pub on the Drive has Fierce Fridays, and The Well wastes no time getting into the action, with DJ Nena’s Flashback Friday. FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 9 PRIDE ON THE DRIVE, ROUND 2 Hunters’ hosts an afternoon of sing-along show tunes with the Gay Men’s Chorus of South Florida and the Bears of South Florida at 3 p.m., later that night Hunters’ stage welcomes Kristine W. The Eagle holds a Mardi Gras extravaganza with DJ Joe Gauthreaux. Elsewhere, The Parker Playhouse hosts a tribute to The Man in Black: Johnny Cash while Sunshine Cathedral welcomes the Black woman with all the cash, Latrice Royale. SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 10 GAME DAY I hear there’s some sort of game going on. Something about taking a shot every time they show Taylor Swift on the screen. Sounds like fun! Don’t Swift and drive. For those not into the game, Bubbles & Pearls has oysters for a buck, until they sell out! SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 11 SEXY & SULTRY Antonio Edwards is appearing at Alibi tonight. MONDAY, FEBRUARY 12 GET CORNHOLED LIT’s holding a cornhole tournament, Monday through Thursday nights. Check at the back bar for more info. It’s also Taco Tuesday at Alibi, $6.99 for a taco plate with two tacos, rice, and beans. TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 13 MY WHAT A BIG…. It’s a “Battle of the Bulge” contest at Ramrod as men compete for the biggest basket, and we’re not talking about Easter. Palm Beach Drama Works continues its production of “The Cancellation of Lauren Fein.” THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 8 [email protected] DO YOU THINK HE’S SEXY? Hard Rock Live welcomes Sir Rod Stewart, who is still rockin’ it out at nearly 80 years old! WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 14

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22 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH (ES)CAPE TO THE KEYS A s last year began drawing to a close and the holidays loomed, I needed an escape, and, when you think of a gay tropical paradise, what else comes to mind but Key West? It seems that the folks at Provincetown’s legendary Crown and Anchor had the same idea because they bused an entire crew of performers down for a weekend residence in Key West the week before Christmas, in what they hope will be an annual event. Havana Cabana, named one of Florida’s top 10 resorts by Travel & Leisure, was the host hotel. With many of the events being held at the hotel. The weather, usually the one thing you can count on in Florida, did not cooperate. The entire program of events took place during one of Florida’s few cold snaps (meaning in the ‘60s) and it rained all weekend, which washed out the slated pool parties, but everything else at the hotel took place on the lush, covered veranda. So, we all threw on sweaters and enjoyed the shows. Located waterfront, Havana Cabana radiates Cuba’s joyful and sometimes rebellious spirit, embracing the art and culture that famously seduced Hemingway and deeply influenced Key West. As you arrive, stroll past vintage cars gleaming in the Florida sun, as the sound of Flamenco music and the aroma of hand-rolled cigars draw you inside. Although not in the middle of all the bar action on Duval St., when adventure calls, hop on a Vespa or 5-speed bike, or hitch a ride in the hotel’s shuttle or classic mid-century Chevy for the short ride to historic Old Town. Our rooms were lush, with two queen beds and as an old married couple, my husband and I enjoyed the opportunity to each hog our own bed for a change. Our pup, Coco (yes, the hotel is dog-friendly and even provides a welcome kit for your pooch), hopped from bed to bed, not certain where Photo courtesy of EOS Hospitality. CULTURE TRAVEL Rick Karlin to sleep. The room was huge, clean, and comfortable and the staff couldn’t have been more accommodating. Events at the hotel included a welcome cocktail party on Thursday, Dec. 14 with performances by Yoli Mayor (seen on “America’s Got Talent”) Delta Miles, and Alexander Zenoz. Friday night another cocktail party, as “RuPaul Drag Race” contestant Tina Burner hoste d “AnythingBut-Silent Night.” Burner sings in her own (spectacular) voice. Something that wasn’t highlighted fully on “Drag Race”. The holiday sing-along also included Matthew Darren (American Idol), Yoli Mayor, Yaron Spiwak, João Santos, Delta Miles, Roxy Pops, Qya Cristãl, and Boomer Banks. Many of the performers also joined us on a trolley tour of holiday lights with Delta Miles hosting. Saturday started the day off with A Holly Folly drag brunch which in Provincetown, ushers in the holiday season, recreated on the hotel’s veranda, with performances by all the performers and a delicious brunch buffet. In the evenings, the fun moved to Sidebar in the Aqua complex. Thursday night’s show focused on Tina Burner’s one-woman show “I’d Rather Be Naughty Than Nice,” with Tina as Mrs. Claus taking a hard candy look at her relationship with her husband, and how things aren’t always a Winter Wonderland. Saturday saw us back at Sidebar for “The Holiday Follies: Spread Queer Cheer,” featuring all the Provincetown performers, along with Key West guest artists. I was impressed by the fact that all the queens sang in their own voices and did so very well. Sunday’s Detox pool party was canceled because of the chilly weather (it had finally stopped raining), but we were worn out, anyway. We’re hoping this does become an annual event and look forward to attending next year. VALENTINE’S DINNER AT HOME Y ou want to do something special for your valentine, but this year Valentine’s Day is on a Wednesday. Making dinner reservations the weekend before or the weekend after is great, but if your schedule is too hectic for that mid-week dinner date, Papageno’s Wine & Provisions has solutions that are simple, elegant, and tasty; all sorts of ways to make your Valentine’s at home memorable. Let’s start off with a little Asian flair. Korean food continues to gain popularity, but the mystery of it can be unnecessarily intimidating. Papageno’s Wine & Provisions has Kisoondo’s Strawberry Gochujang, a sauce that is sure to surprise and delight you and your valentine. This version is milder than a traditional gochujang, and the strawberry gives it a unique finish. Stir-fry beef, chicken, pork, or your favorite vegetables and serve it with Two Brook’s Farms Mississippi Blue Jasmoon Rice. Now that you have the main course taken care of, let’s figure out the rest of the meal. Get your favorite combination of greens and vegetables and toss them in Acid League Pink Peppercorn Honey Yuzu Vinaigrette for a delightful salad that sets the pace for a flavorful and fun meal. A memorable wine pairing for this meal is Tozai Snow Maiden Junmai Nigori, with subtle notes of honeydew. This Nigori sake is best served chilled, then shaken for the ultimate experience. For dessert, try Chocolat Moderne’s Kimono Collection; Asian inspired bonbons with flavors such as Honey & Yuzu, Shisho Lime, and Matcha Green Tea. You and your valentine can share these with Deutz Brut Rosé Champagne. The perfect way to complete this perfect meal. If you’re looking for something a bit more traditional, let’s talk pasta, because pasta is always perfect for date nights. Semolina Artisanal Pasta makes such incredible pasta, and it begs to be topped with Bio Orto pasta sauces. While the pasta is cooking and the sauce is simmering, you and your valentine should enjoy your favorite Italian cheese: Bel Paese, Asiago, or even Gorgonzola with Paul & Pippa Black Salt Crackers and Maui Fruit Jewels Passionfruit fruit paste; a fun variation on traditional membrillo. A simple and elegant salad of chopped romaine dressed with MNMLST Balsamic Vinaigrette partners Photo courtesy of Papageno’s Wine & Provisions. CULTURE FOOD Marco Gomez and Douglas Haines well with your pasta, and the Ser Lapo Chianti Classico Riserva completes the experience. Now that you’ve enjoyed your pasta, let’s move on to dessert. House of Knipschildt Signature Collection is six flavorful bonbons for you and your valentine to enjoy with a chilled bottle of Rosetto Moscato. If you are able to manage mid-week dinner reservations, but still want a little treat waiting for you when you get home, we recommend chilling a bottle of the Laherte Frère Brut Nature Blanc de Blancs. This organic champagne is full-bodied and brilliantly balanced, giving notes of nougat and fresh bread. Pair this magnificent sparkling wine with Chocolat Moderne’s Strawberry Balsamic Hearts. A whole strawberry that is soaked in balsamic vinegar and strawberry syrup before being enrobed in milk or dark chocolate—sweet, tangy, and memorable. Many of our best memories are centered around food, and this Valentine’s Day should be no different. Whether you’re at a five-star restaurant or at home with candlelight, it’s important to have fun. After all, the fun is what creates new memories, for Valentine’s Day or any other day of the year. Papageno’s Wine & Provisions recently opened in the Victoria Park neighborhood of Fort Lauderdale. We aim to provide a compelling experience for the culinary curious as well as the everyday shopper, one that feeds the imagination as well as the palate. We believe that food and wine are friends and family, celebration and fun, and honor them as such. Stop by Papageno’s Wine & Provisions for culinary delights that are fun and provide a sense of discovery. Marco Gomez and Douglas Haines are coowners of Papageno’s Wine & Provisions. PAPAGENO’S WINE & PROVISIONS, 1201 NORTH FEDERAL HIGHWAY, SUITE 1B, FORT LAUDERDALE, FLORIDA 33304

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24 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH My husband and I moved to Wilma five years ago. We have developed a large circle of great friends, and we do a LOT of entertaining - mostly small dinner parties. We also generate a ton of getting together with our friends outside our home: theatre, movies, restaurants. We really do like our friends, but only a few of them reciprocate, and we’re starting to feel like we do all the work at considerable expense without feeling like there’s a healthy balance in the relationships. We’ve tried being gently honest with a few couples, and that resulted in no change. It feels like if we stop being the “hosts with the most,” we’ll spend a lot of time without these otherwise great guys. Suggestions? Dear Hostess doing the mostest, I’m from the South, and we’re guilty of being too polite, so I understand trying the gentle honesty route, but some folks don’t like it gentle; they need it rough and direct. Find your inner Ouiser Boudreaux and get to the point. You would also be surprised how many people are simply completely unaware of themselves and the situation. Some folks need you to be direct and let them have the unvarnished version. That can make you uncomfortable, but try to find some humor in pushing back. Tell them, “I’ve always wondered what brunch would taste like at your house,” the next time you host. Always remember that people will have the relationship with you that you allow them to have with you. It’s perfectly ok to say some of you need to pick up the slack and start pulling your hosting weight in the friend group. What I hear also is a fear that if you don’t do this, you might lose some of this friend group, and there is no easy way to say it, but if that is the case, then it isn’t real to begin with and they’ll be doing you a favor. Never waste time on people who won’t waste time on you. John Porter ASK JOHN PORTER CULTURE OPINION PARTY OF TWO? Submit your John Porter is an entrepreneur and founding questions here. partner at Oasis Asset Management. He has served as a political organizer and strategist within the Democratic party, as well as serving as an executive board member for the Miami Yacht Club. Photo via Adobe. The advice offered in this column is intended for informational purposes only. Use of this column is not intended to replace or substitute any financial, medical, legal, or other professional advice. THE MOST LOCAL MLB GAMES Regional Sports Networks req’d and add’l fees may apply. CHOICE Package or higher. Blackout restr’s apply. Avail. of RSNs varies by zip code and pkg.©2023 DIRECTV. DIRECTV and all other DIRECTV marks are trademarks of DIRECTV, LLC. All other marks are the property of their respective owners. 1-866-406-0210

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2 OUTFAU | FEBRUARY 2024 OutFAU newspaper is a part of J&J Media Group. You should not presume the sexual orientation or gender identity of any featured individuals solely based on their names, appearance, or inclusion within this publication. Any opinions shared within stories, columns, graphics, or letters to the editor should not be assumed to represent the opinions of OutFAU or its publisher. Any stories or content, either in print or online, and also including any articles that are featured in conjunction with any media partners, are protected under federal copyright and intellectual property laws, and this ownership is carefully and jealously guarded by this media group. Nothing that is published may be reprinted, either in whole or in part, without first receiving written consent from Publisher, Jason Parsley. OutFAU is owned by Jason Parsley and Justin Wyse, and is represented legally by Russell Cormican. As a private corporation, J&J Media Group reserves the right to enforce its own standards regarding the suitability of advertising copy, illustrations, and photographs. Copyright © 2024 J&J Media Group. FIRST COPY IS FREE, EACH ADDITIONAL IS 50 CENTS G ENERATION Queer? According to a recently released survey, 28% of Gen Z adults identify as LGBTQ+ compared to 16% of Millennials. Those numbers are a stark contrast to 4% of Baby Boomers and the Silent Generation who identify as such. “The reality is that people have always been LGBTQ+. The results of this survey don’t show an increase in the number of people who are queer, it shows an increase in the number of people who feel safe expressing their full and authentic selves,” said Maxx Fenning, the Executive Director of PRISM. The organization works to expand access to LGBTQ-inclusive education and sexual health resources for youth in South Florida. “As policymakers in states like Florida create legislation that harms the LGBTQ+ community, they’ll have to reckon with just how sizable our community is and how ready we are to show up and stop them,” Fenning said. More than 6,600 people were surveyed. It was conducted by the Public Religion Research Institute between late August and mid September of 2023. Gen Z is defined as ages 13-25 in the survey. Only respondents aged 18 and older were asked about their GEN Z SO QUEER Study: young adults are identifying as more queer and progressive than older generations BY MARY RASURA EXECUTIVE EDITOR WE’RE LOOKING FOR WRITERS, PHOTOGRAPHERS, AND DESIGNERS! EMAIL [email protected] VISIT US ONLINE OUTFAU.COM FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @OUTFAU Subscribe to our newsletter! Executive Editor MARY RASURA Assistant Editor KENNY RUFF Designer IVAN BENAVIDES Advisors MICHAEL KORETZKY JASON PARSLEY BRENDON LIES AURORA DOMINGUEZ Sales & Marketing FOR AD PLACEMENT, CALL 954-514-7095 OR EMAIL [email protected] OUT FAU FEBRUARY 2024 VOL. 1 • ISSUE 2 This publication is solely the expression of the author and/or publisher and it is not an official publication of Florida Atlantic University, nor is it in any way intended to express any policies or opinions of Florida Atlantic University, or its personnel. Cover: Photo from Youth Action Fund. Spot an error? Let us know at [email protected] “The results showcase the incredible diversity and vibrancy of Gen Z.” - Elijah Manley sexual identity. “The results showcase the incredible diversity and vibrancy of Gen Z,” said Elijah Manley, a 25-yearold who lives in Fort Lauderdale. “We are the first generation to be empowered to show up as our authentic selves. As a result, we live in a more inclusive society than our parents.” A closer look at the results shows that 15% of Gen Z adults identify as bisexual; 5% as gay or lesbian; and 8% as something else. Among all adults 10% of the population identify as LGBTQ. Manley believes these results show that the anti-LGBTQ movement is losing. “Right now, our country is facing an unprecedented wave of anti-queer bigotry,” he said. “These survey results show that despite this, the conservative antiLGBTQ+ movement has lost. As society becomes more inclusive, we will continue to see the rates of queerness increase. We are the most progressive generation in American history, and conservatives are scared of what this may mean for their culture wars.” Other findings include 21% of Gen Z adults identifying as Republican, 36% as Democrats, 30% as Independent, and 13% as other. Only 49% of Gen Z adults believe college is a smart investment while 75% support a $10,000 student loan forgiveness program. Please contact me with any questions, concerns or tips at [email protected].

BLISSS INSTAGRAM: FAUBLISSS EMAIL: [email protected] BLISSS will be hosting their next event, Girl Dinner, on March 14. FEBRUARY 2024 | OUTFAU 3 BLISSS Spills the Tea P AINTING TEA cups and spilling the tea. That’s how BLISSS started off the semester with its first event. On Jan. 16, BLISSS, which stands for BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ Individuals Seeking Safe Spaces, hosted their first event of the semester, Tea Time. Around 15 students showed up to paint tea cups, enjoy the drinks, and to talk with their fellow students. The event also gave students the opportunity to discuss hard hitting questions about the LGBTQ+ community both on and off campus, such as if dating within the queer community has gotten more difficult or thoughts on the queer culture on campus. “I do think we tend to think outside of the box [when creating events] and we tend to strive to meet different identities,” said Stanley Bertilien, BLISSS secretary and sophomore neuroscience and behavior major. BLISSS promotes inclusivity and utilizes their events as a way to connect with people from a wide range of cultures. “I feel like meeting people is one of the biggest things I’m for, especially for us being an organization that is open for BIPOC students,” said Tyler Doll, BLISSS marketing chair and sophomore health science major. “I feel like I want to know more about students like us on campus.” Queer Clubs Welcome Students Back Courtesy of BLISSS Lavender Alliance Has a Kiki L AVENDER ALLIANCE kicked off the new semester at FAU with a meet and greet mixer on Jan. 19. The student organization, one of two major LGBTQ+ clubs on campus, was formed in 2023 by Kenny Ruff and Paige Allen. “When Paige and I started the club, it was to get people and allies together because legislation made us feel unsafe on campus,” Ruff explained. “We also had no place for us on campus, since we didn’t have a club to come together.” The Friday night mixer opened up in the Student Union with New Year’s resolutions, asking people in the audience what theirs were. This was followed by asking the crowd to look back at 2023, what they are proud of, and if they have anything they wish to leave behind. But really, the night was about reconnecting after the break. Kayla Barnes, who is an interdisciplinary studies major, enjoyed talking with the attendees at her first meeting. “I feel like I’m amongst friends. I enjoy getting out of the house and socializing,” Barnes said. “The primary objective of Lavender Alliance is to establish a friendly and uplifting LGBTQIA+ and ally community at FAU,” the club’s description on Owl Central reads. BLISSS, the other major LGBTQ+ club on campus, hosted their first event of the semester, Tea Time on Jan. 16. “It’s our queer history general body meeting,” Ruff said. “Essentially, we’re gonna have a PowerPoint where we will discuss important moments in queer history up until today, and it will be open for discussion and commentary for anyone who would like to talk.” Lavender Alliance handing out swag. Photo by Jason Steinfeld. LAVENDER ALLIANCE INSTAGRAM: @FAULAVENDERALLIANCE EMAIL: [email protected] Lavender Alliance’s next event will be on Feb. 14 to celebrate Valentine’s Day. BY KENNY RUFF BY JASON STEINFELD

4 OUTFAU | FEBRUARY 2024 C OLD hard cash. That’s what Youth Action Fund is giving out to assist young people in their activism. The premise is simple. Give out money to young activists so they have the means to protest, to push back, to stand up. For many queer youth activists, it’s the difference between pursuing their aspirations of making a difference, or taking a job to make ends meet. YAF is the brain child of Cameron Driggers, a 19-year-old freshman business administration major at University of Florida. The organization officially launched a few months ago. “All of us have experienced problems with the established nonprofit industrial complex,” said Driggers, who is serving as YAF’s Executive Director. “Within Florida, where billions and billions of dollars are funneled into the state, to supposedly fight the rise of fascism, and all types of things happening, but really, with all that money spent, there’s not much to show for it. Hardly any of it actually gets to people on the ground.” All of the founders of YAF are Gen Z college students. The organization is a nonprofit led by LGBTQ+ college activists. Its goal is to allow all students with an interest in activism, regardless of their socioeconomic position, to affect change. They’ve created two main programs. One is for individuals that provides funding up to $500 for youth activists that can be used for personal expenses. The other is for groups planning campaigns that can be funded up to $1,000. “We are really focused on expanding young people’s access to advocacy and activism,” said YAF Board Chair Maxx Fenning, a 21-year-old senior business administration major at University of Florida. Fenning is also the executive director of Prism, an organization focused on youth LGBTQ+ education. He was brought into YAF because of his nonprofit management experience. “Oftentimes young people are extremely under-resourced Cash Against the Machine BY MARY RASURA “Young people are the future and young people are going to change the world, but only if we give them the resources to do that,” Cameron Driggers YAF’s Executive Director Youth Action Fund’s bold bid to boost young voices Photo from Youth Action Fund.

FEBRUARY 2024 | OUTFAU 5 and unfortunately a lot of older folks in this space do not help in that arena,” Fenning said. These leaders understand that activism isn’t cheap. Students are the most energized and engaged, but also the least funded. YAF hopes to change that. “In order to make activism accessible and equitable, it’s so important to get that funding out there and to support activists embarking on really diverse and comprehensive actions that they want to do in their local community and even across the state,” said YAF Deputy Director Jack Petocz, a 19-year-old freshman political science major at Vanderbilt. Besides just cash the organization will offer advice and help with strategies to those who want it. Additionally they’ll be given access to other tools like Canva. “We expect that young people on the ground [will] accomplish far more than the more established nonprofit organizations in Florida, if you give them the resources to be successful,” Driggers added. Will Larkins, a young activist and freshman FAU student acknowledges he had a leg up on his activism. “I have been in a lucky position where my parents were able to support me through high school,” he said. “There’s a lot of students who are not in that position. There’s a lot of students who are working to organize projects, who don’t have the ability to fundraise, or don’t have the ability to just use their own money.” Larkins, who was previously involved with YAF, mentioned that he’s spent upwards of $500 on his own projects so he fully understands the costs that actually go into making it work. “I couldn’t get any large organization to reimburse me. And I spent all that money on this protest that I organized,” he said. “ I was lucky enough to be in a position where I was able to do that financially where I was able to spend that time during high school – not working – and instead working on advocacy.” Larkins acknowledges the influence of his financial standing on his ability to engage in activism. “I also have gone to Tallahassee more times than I can count to testify against bad bills and bring students there,” he said. And that’s the whole point of the Youth Action Fund – hand out cold hard cash to the energized youth who can make the most difference in the state. While all of the leaders of the organization are members of the LGBTQ+ community – the activism they’re supporting and encouraging isn’t limited to that issue. However they won’t get involved in political campaigns. For example a recent campaign they took part in was pushing back against HB 49, which would roll back decades of child labor laws. “Obviously, as a youth based organization, that’s of great concern to us,” Driggers said. YAF zeroed in on Linda Cheney, the bill’s sponsor, launching a pressure campaign. Driggers was a part of an effort to occupy Chaney’s office last month. Meanwhile, Chaney hid in her office and refused to confront the young activists. “We demanded to speak with her. She actually was hiding in her office away from us, which was pretty funny,” Driggers said. Older generations will often talk about how the youth are the future, but Fenning believes it takes more than just lip service to make true. “Young people are the future and young people are going to change the world, but only if we give them the resources to do that,” Fenning said. “There’s no use passing the baton to the next generation if we’re going to shackle their feet to the ground. It requires an intentional investment in young people and young leaders to really build a better world for future generations. We have to be able to give them the resources to do that.” Photo from Youth Action Fund. 201 North Dixie Hwy Lake Worth Beach, 33460 CompassLGBTQ.com Entourage (Ages 18 - 30) Thurs, 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Compass Entourage is a community for anyone who identifies as LGBTQ, who want to have fun, socialize, form relationships, and build a stronger community in which to work, live, and play. Entourage has events and groups every month. PBC Gender Support Group (18+) Thurs, 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. This group is for transgender individuals and their supportive family members. LGBTQ+ Mental Health Support Group 2nd and 4th Tues of the Month, 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. A support group for individuals who are 18 and up, living with symptoms of a mental health condition, and identify as LGBTQ+. The group is facilitated by trained peer facilitators from NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness). This group is a drop-in support group, with no RSVP needed. Contact mentalhealth@compasslgbtq. com for more information. Good Orderly AA Tues, 7 p.m. This support group is dedicated for individuals who are recovering from alcoholism. Coming Out 1st and 3rd Thurs, 6:30 pm. A support group for people of all ages who are seeking or offering help with the coming out process. Non-Binary Support Group Wed, 6:30 p.m. to 8 p.m. This support group is for those who identify as nonbinary and would like a safe space to discuss their experiences with other non-binary identifying folx. Trans Masculine Support Group 1st and 3rd Tuesdays, 6:15 p.m. - 7:15 p.m. This social and support group focuses on the needs of those who identify on the trans masculine spectrum. This information is pulled from Compass’ website. For more information about any of them email [email protected] SUPPORT GROUPS hosted by

6 OUTFAU | FEBRUARY 2024 The early history of queer activism at FAU WHEN FAU officially opened in Fall 1964, university life in America was just beginning to step out of the stupors of the Silent Generation of the 1950s. That summer students from northern colleges took part in “Freedom Summer” where hundreds of students traveled south to help register Southern Black people to vote. That fall the Berkeley campus of the University of California erupted in chaos when hundreds of students protested the university’s attempt to shut down efforts to organize support for the Freedom Summer campaign and Civil Rights. The university then changed its policy about student political activities. This marked the beginning of the political activism that would characterize campus life today. Florida universities were a little slow in getting into the act. They still followed the policy of “in loco parentis” (in the place of the parents) when it came to dealing with students’ lives on campus. This came to an end in 1967 when a University of Florida female student appeared in a nude photo in an off-campus humor publication. Following “in loco parentis” the university moved to expel her. Normally this would pass without notice. But this was the 1960s when ideas about sexuality and gender were beginning to change. When the Faculty Disciplinary Committee met, over 200 protesting students gathered outside the small meeting room, forcing the Committee to move to the larger law school auditorium. In the end she was expelled but the era of student activism was born in Florida and soon “in loco parentis” was dropped. One of the students protesting was Joel Starkey, a student from Dade County who was there to hand out leaflets about sexual freedom and gay rights. Starkey was an early member of the “Stonewall Generation,” those young gay activists connected more with the radicalism of the 1960s than with the assimilationist politics of the 1950s generation. In 1971 he moved to Boca Raton where he enrolled for a second BA at FAU. He also started a newsletter Southern Gay Liberator similar to other newsletters and early newspapers started by other local gay groups across the country. Starkey felt that gay men and lesbians were a unified class with common needs and outlooks and needed to become visible and organized as a community. He placed ads for a gay consciousness raising group in the student newspaper and in October 1972 the first small group, comprised of both FAU students and local residents, met at the University Center, later moving to Starkey’s apartment. Although they wanted to become a recognized student organization and thus able to use University resources such as meeting rooms and bulk postage, at the time the Florida Board of Regents denied campus gay groups official recognition. Instead the group met at Starkey’s apartment and undertook informal activities such as establishing an information hotline for the community. To gain more visibility for the group and their demands, Starkey ran for the FAU student senate, finishing eighth in a field BY FRED FEJES From Silence to Solidarity of 21 candidates. He ran on a radical platform of “human liberation” calling for free childcare, free abortion on demand, the hiring of more women and minorities and the end of discrimination against gays. As a student senator, he helped pass a resolution saying that no portion of student activity fees could be used by any FAU organization that discriminates on the basis of race, religion, gender or sexual orientation. He also worked on a resolution that supported the United Farm Workers’ strike in California and for a bill in the U.S. Senate targeting rape. Starkey’s informal group began to disband as he and its members graduated or started to work with groups in Miami or Fort Lauderdale. However, one member, Mark Silber, a junior from Fort Lauderdale who tried to start a gay group at Broward Community College, saw the need to start an official FAU campus gay group. His first step was a January 1975 front page article in the student newspaper The Atlantic Sun titled “On Being Gay.” In it he declared “I am a gay person. A ‘queer,’ a ‘faggot,’ a ‘pervert.’ But I am not ashamed of what I am.” He then went on to challenge the various stereotypes and beliefs about lesbians and gay men: that they were child molesters or that their love went against God’s command. His article sparked a lively debate which the newspaper encouraged and over the next few months articles and letters to the editor appeared either for or against Silber’s stand, attracting new members to the group. Silber and the group’s members moved to become an official campus student organization. By now legal challenges against bans by Florida’s Board of Regents on gay groups had been settled by U.S. courts in favor of the rights of lesbians and gay men to organize on campus. In February 1975 it announced its formation as the FAU Gay Academic Union (GAU), similar to other campus gay groups across the country. Although he had already graduated, Joel Starkey remained active in the group. In contrast to many other gay groups active across the country, FAU’s GAU strove to incorporate feminists in its membership and politics. In 1976 they organized a successful protest against a local gay bar that discriminated against women. It sponsored fundraising dances which sometimes included drag performances, including one at a gay disco in West Palm Beach that attracted 400 revelers. One of the important goals of GAU’s activities was to provide support for students to “come out” and be open about their Photo submitted by Fred Fejes. GUEST COLUMN

FEBRUARY 2024 | OUTFAU 7 sexuality. Lesbian and gay students often faced rejection and harassment from other students, and some faculty. To support lesbian and gay students, the GAU published two newsletters. One, Liberation!, printed items about GAU activities but also pieces about lesbian and gay life that celebrated their common struggle and shared culture. They also published another newsletter Florida Gay Liberation News which was more directly political and regionally oriented, trying to knit together other Southern lesbian and gay organizations and make lesbian and gay students at FAU feel part of the national movement. In May 1976 they organized the firstever celebration on “Gay Pride” in Palm Beach County. Throughout the week the club organized events like an art show, poetry readings, a discussion of “gay authors” in literature, a panel on religion and homosexuality and a disco dance. Members of the club, invited by interested professors, would often go to individual classes to speak about and answer questions about being gay. The organization was open to both FAU students and members of the Boca Raton community. At one of their early meetings a local man attended and told them how Boca Raton police officers, either dressed in plain clothes, or sometimes just a swimsuit, would come up to single men on the beach and make sexual propositions. If the man showed any interest he was arrested. Silber, and other members of the GAU went to a meeting of the Community Relations Board and complained about the entrapment. The Board expressed concern and opened an investigation. Although the police denied doing this and the Board closed its investigation without taking action, the GAU’s actions garnered a good deal of favorable publicity, with stories appearing in all the local newspapers. A major goal of the GAU was to challenge all the negative stereotypes about lesbians and gay men. In 1976 an FAU student body organization organized a free viewing of the 1970 movie The Boys in the Band, a film version of Matt Crowley’s 1968 play about an evening gathering of a group of New York gay men. Although it was the first film aimed at the national audience that attempted to give a “realistic” portrayal of gay life, many found the effeminate depictions overly stereotypical and negative, bearing no relation to the lives that the GAU students and other members of the younger generation lived. They likened it to a film about Black people featuring Steppin Fetchit. GAU’s protest generated a lot of campus discussion about the popular but inaccurate negative images of gay life, but also about the whole issue of censorship. In the end the movie was not shown, but also many people on campus were educated about the new sense of gay and lesbian identity. By early 1977 Silber and other members graduated and the club activities declined. That fall Anita Bryant led a widely publicized campaign to repeal Dade County’s antidiscrimination ordinance. While in the short run this anti-gay effort was successful, it generated a national conversation about lesbians and gay men, a conversation that firmly placed them within the fabric of American life. Silber and other GAU members went on to become active in South Florida gay organizations. But what they learned and taught at FAU about being gay also became part of the fabric of campus life at the University that long outlasted anything that Anita Bryant and others like her said. Fred Fejes is Professor Emeritus at Florida Atlantic University, where he taught LGBTQ Studies. He is a Research Scholar at Stonewall Library. He is the author of Gay Rights and Moral Panic, a history of the 1977 Anita Bryant campaign against gay rights. Photo submitted by Fred Fejes. Part of this article is based on the 2011 University of Miami Master’s Thesis by Elliot D. Williams “Out of the Closets and onto the Campus: The Politics of Coming Out at Florida Atlantic University, 1972-1977.”

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34 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH Terry Dyer, an award-winning author and activist, raises HIV/ AIDS awareness, develops community programs and grants, fosters LGBTQ+ engagement, and engages in athletics. He wrote “Letters to a GAY BLACK BOY,” sparking discussions on racism, homophobia, mental health, family, and love. Rev. Skip Jennings, an author, podcaster, transformational coach, and yoga/meditation teacher. He is a New Thought Minister and his notable work, “The Little Book for Transformation,” inspires change and living an authentic spiritual life. ECHOES OF REBELLION THE RESOUNDING IMPACT OF LITTLE RICHARD, BAYARD RUSTIN, AND LIL NAS X I n a constantly evolving world, where race, sexuality, and fame intertwine in complex, often challenging ways, the remarkable lives of Little Richard, Bayard Rustin, and Lil Nas X stand as profound exemplars of courage, defiance, and authenticity. As Black gay men, we deeply connect with their stories, seeing reflections of our own journeys. These trailblazers navigated tumultuous waters, transforming challenges into opportunities for groundbreaking change and self-expression. Little Richard’s electrifying performances and unapologetic persona broke through racial segregation and homophobic prejudice in the mid-20th century. His groundbreaking musical odyssey was a bold declaration of selfidentity in an era when such proclamations were met with scorn and danger. As Black gay men, we recognize his story’s echoes in our struggles to find and assert our identities in unwelcoming spaces. Bayard Rustin, often a hidden figure behind major civil rights movements, brought his whole self to the fight for racial equality. As an openly gay man in a time of rampant homophobia, Rustin’s steadfast commitment to nonviolent protest and social justice was a beacon of hope, a testament to living one’s truth. His legacy reminds us that the fight for civil rights and LGBTQ rights are interconnected struggles against discrimination and intolerance. Lil Nas X, a contemporary symbol of defiance and self-acceptance, uses his platform to challenge stereotypes and norms within the music industry and society. As a young, Black gay artist achieving fame in the social media age, his journey speaks to the ongoing challenges and opportunities for our community. His fight against homophobia and racism, especially in the heteronormative space of hip-hop, demonstrates our progress and the work still needed. The stories of these three extraordinary individuals are more than personal triumphs; they are chapters in the broader narrative of the black queer experience. Their lives and legacies continue to inspire, offering lessons in resilience, authenticity, and the impact of living truthfully. They carved out spaces for themselves and future generations, showing our voices and stories are powerful and deserving of being heard. Reflecting on their contributions, we find strength and motivation in their examples. Their lives remind us that while the journey towards acceptance and equality can be fraught with adversity, it also offers opportunities for profound change and self-affirmation. They encourage us to embrace our identities, battle against opposition, and continue their work towards a more inclusive world. In their stories, we find a call to action – to live authentically, fight for justice, and make a lasting impact. As we continue our journeys, we carry the lessons from Little Richard, Bayard Rustin, and Lil Nas X – lessons of courage, resilience, and the transformative power of living one’s truth. LITTLE RICHARD: THE ARCHITECT OF REBELLION Born in segregated Macon, Georgia, Richard Wayne Penniman, known as Little Richard, experienced racial tension and religious fervor from an early age. His early life was marked by dichotomous experiences — from church choirs to rhythm and blues. Despite racism and homophobia, his indomitable spirit found expression in music, revolutionizing the entertainment industry. “Tutti Frutti” was a cultural earthquake, transcending race and sexuality barriers with its electrifying energy and flamboyance. His music, pulsating rhythms, and wild performances challenged the racial and sexual norms of the 1950s and 1960s, profoundly impacting music across genres and generations. Behind his glamour, Little Richard wrestled with his identity. Growing up in a religious household, he grappled with his sexuality, often at odds with conservative values. Terry Dyer and Rev. Skip Jennings GRITZ AND GLITTER CULTURE OPINION This internal conflict, recurrent in his life, influenced his music and personal decisions. Despite struggles, Little Richard’s legacy in rock ‘n’ roll and popular culture is undeniable. He was not just a musician but a trailblazer for self-expression, especially for the black queer community. His persona and groundbreaking music continue to inspire artists and fans globally. BAYARD RUSTIN: THE SILENT FORCE BEHIND A MOVEMENT Bayard Rustin’s journey in West Chester, Pennsylvania, began in a family active in the NAACP, instilling a strong sense of justice and activism. His early civil rights involvement and recognition of interconnected social justice issues set the stage for his role as a key strategist in the civil rights movement. Rustin’s significant contribution was advising Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., particularly in organizing the 1963 March on Washington. His nonviolent protest advocacy shaped the civil rights movement. However, his open homosexuality often put him at odds with other leaders, overshadowing his contributions. As an openly gay African American, Rustin faced relentless discrimination, both from society and within the civil rights movement. His sexuality undermined his work and contributions, but he remained undeterred, fighting for civil rights and LGBTQ rights. Rustin’s legacy is resilience and unwavering commitment to justice. His role in the civil rights movement, though often underrecognized, was pivotal. Today, his work continues to inspire activists and leaders, embodying social justice intersectionality. LIL NAS X: A MODERN ICON OF QUEER EXPRESSION Born Montero Lamar Hill, Lil Nas X’s rise to fame with “Old Town Road” marked a new era in the music industry. His social media savvy and unapologetic embrace of his identity made him a symbol of a new artist generation refusing to conform to traditional norms. Lil Nas X’s success in the hip-hop industry, traditionally dominated by heteronormative narratives, is groundbreaking. His visuals and social media use challenge societal norms and express his identity, sparking important conversations about sexuality and representation in music. Despite backlash and criticism, Lil Nas X navigates his fame with confidence and authenticity. His role in bringing LGBTQ narratives to mainstream music is reshaping the industry and inspiring others. As a role model for younger generations, especially within the Black queer community, Lil Nas X’s influence extends beyond music. His career symbolizes potential for greater representation and acceptance in popular culture, paving the way for societal norm changes. The enduring impact of Little Richard, Bayard Rustin, and Lil Nas X on social justice movements testifies to the importance of authenticity and resilience. Their lives inspire current and future activists and artists to remain true to themselves and fight for a more inclusive world. In our conversations, we reflected on how the lives of these extraordinary men intersect with our own experiences and the broader narrative of the Black queer community. Their triumphs and struggles resonate deeply, offering lessons in authenticity, resilience, and living one’s truth. As we navigate our journeys, their legacies remind us of the importance of standing tall in adversity, embracing our identities, and paving the way for those who follow. Their stories are not just personal triumphs; they are beacons of hope, guiding us towards a world where every individual can live authentically and freely.. Little Richard. Photo by Anna Bleker, via Wikimedia Commons.

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36 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH OUTSFL’S MOST ELIGIBLE LGBTQ SINGLES Interested in meeting one of these individuals? Email us at [email protected] and we’ll make sure to connect you. S outh Florida is home to tens of thousands LGBTQ folks looking for love – sometimes in all the wrong places. So we decided for this Valentine’s Day to let our readers nominate themselves, or others, so we could choose and highlight a few of them. We received more than 75 nominations – far more than we expected. There were so many wonderful nominees - we wish we could have spotlighted many more. We hope to make this an annual tradition where we highlight some of our region’s most interesting and eligible singles who are looking for a date for Valentine’s Day. This issue is brought to you in partnership with CAN Community Health. We thank them for their generous sponsorship. THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 37 Photo by Carina Mask. HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? Queer. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? I split my time between Broward and North Florida WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? Someone who invest in their mental, physical and spiritual well-being, has a positive outlook on life, a person of faith, supportive of my ambitions, confident in who they are and authentic individual. BIGGEST TURN OFF? A procrastinator. BIGGEST TURN ON? A person who is emotionally intellectual. HOBBIES: I am going to say traveling because it needs to be. ANY CHARITABLE/ VOLUNTEER WORK? My life is committed to transformative work through my nonprofit. I am an advisory member of Sister in Health and Unity with TransInclusive Group, a board member of FlockFest and council committee member of Lambda Legal. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? I don’t have pets or children, both are expensive and I am looking forward to the opportunity of caring for them one day. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Acts of kindness. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? An intimate dinner, getting to know one another. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Wine. ONE OBSCURE FACT A BOUT YOURSELF: I am afraid of heights. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Little by little becomes a lot. CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲ LATONYA HOPSON • 34 NONPROFIT PRESIDENT AND FOUNDER / SPORTS MANAGEMENT PROFESSOR

38 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH Photo courtesy of Rigo Mendez. HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? Gay Hispanic Male. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? West Palm Beach. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? I am looking for a partner to enjoy life with. Someone who has fun in all moments to be had. Nothing in life should be too serious. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Someone who is not transparent and cannot communicate their feelings. We are human beings, creatures of feelings, we should always be expressive and authentic to ourselves. BIGGEST TURN ON? Someone who is always eager and excited. To look forward for anything is such a turn as you are always moving with your best foot forward. HOBBIES: I love to exercise, swimming, reading fantasy books, video gaming, and traveling to new places from small cities and towns to new states or countries. Sight seeing is amazing. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I volunteer for local LGBTQ+ events tabling for my job. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? 1 senior dog who is a sweetheart! All he does is eat, sleep, and stay by my side. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Words of affirmation and acts of service. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? I have a favorite date day activity and it would have to be kayaking. Being on a small water craft on the water with someone is really intimate and opens up to vulnerability and amazing conversations. It is also great for building trust as it can require teamwork so it is a good way to see if there is chemistry. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? My guilty pleasure would have to be chocolate chip cookies. If I eat just one I will eat the whole tray. Who can deny a tasty chocolate chip cookie? ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I am able to slackline. Something I have been practicing as of late. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Future me crosses future bridges so present me can handle present bridges. RIGO MENDEZ • 27 SOCIAL WORKER ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 39 Photo by Carina Mask. HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? I identify as Pansexual. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? I live in downtown Fort Lauderdale. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? In a partner, I am looking for a kind, empathetic, openhearted romantic, fun, and funny person. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Biggest turnoff is meanness. BIGGEST TURN ON? Biggest turn-on is confidence. HOBBIES: Hobbies include biking, jogging, playing with my pooch. ANY CHARITABLE/ VOLUNTEER WORK? Volunteer for all fundraising events at Sunserve including completion of this past SMART ride on November 17th. Placed in top 10 of women. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? 1 brilliant dog named Rockstar ... no kids. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? love language is diamonds ... should say “are diamonds” I have no idea ... I’m still learning the language. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? My favorite date night activity is dinner, yummy conversation, and snuggling. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? I would feel too guilty sharing ... ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I don’t participate in any online social media apps. SUSAN GRITZ • 59 DIRECTOR OF SUPERVISION AND EDUCATION CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲

40 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH Photo courtesy of Gerald S. Arroyo Prada. HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? My pronouns are HE/HIS/HIM. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? West Palm Beach. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? Honesty, stability, drive, commitment, adventure, care, communication, and someone who is goal-oriented and not afraid to go after their dreams and make them a reality. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Laziness. I work very hard to make my life and goals a reality, I am always working on bettering myself, my life, and my goals. Someone who isn’t willing to match that energy is a HUGE turn-off. BIGGEST TURN ON? Genuine care or interest in something that means something to me, just because you know how much it’ll mean to me. I’ll deliver that same energy right back. HOBBIES: I am a HUGE family guy and I love to share with them. I love to travel, escape to the movies, cook, anything creative always sparks my attention. I love a good theme; Halloween isn’t just Oct. 31 it’s a whole month thing. I am a Disney annual passholder (YES . . . I am a Disney Gay lol). Orlando trips in general, I love attending a good concert, Broadway show, or my favorite bands. I’m not shy and pretty daring, dancing, going out to eat, hanging out with friends, social media (love to create content), supporting local events, supporting friends, supporting family, and ice cream. Miami trips for non-abuela Cuban cooking and Miami shopping. There’s more, but that’s a good list for now. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? Through the law firm I work for, I have had the opportunity to really dive into working with our local communities. A lot of the work I focus on is to help local families and the Latino community. Fiesta De Pueblo, Read for the Record, Back to School Drives, and Palm Beach Pride/Compass. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? No pets and no kids. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? (see biggest turn on) WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? When I am getting to know someone, I find it best to not do anything where the attention will be focused on the activity. I like to talk and discover more about the person. I love to find a scenic spot and talk and just get to know each other. If the date is going well, then it will unravel as you go. The best outcomes usually come from letting this happen naturally. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Shoes and Disney. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF. I was born in Costa Rica, immigrated to the US at 9 months of age and only raised with the Cuban side of my family. Culturally and ethnically I was raised Cuban, so that’s how I identify. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Live the Dream ... Why let it be impossible, when it can be I’M POSSIBLE? GERALD ARROYO PRADA • 36 PERSONAL INJURY ATTORNEY ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 41 Photo by Carina Mask. HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? I am a gay man that happens to be a trans man. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Fort Lauderdale area. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? A partner should become my best friend first and foremost. I’d like him to be stable in life, no hang-ups, have a sense of humor, easy going, independent, masculine, and enjoys going out for cocktails and doing things; between 35 and 60, and he must love dogs! BIGGEST TURN OFF? Bad oral hygiene and people that are rude to the service industry. BIGGEST TURN ON? Someone with a kinky side! HOBBIES: Saltwater tank enthusiast, my pool, my dog! ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I have done a lot over the years in the leather community! PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? Dog and saltwater fish. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Honesty and integrity. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? If I ever go on a date, I will let you know! WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Chocolate truffles. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I do not like cologne. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? If you don’t ask, the answer will always be no. JAMES TYRCHA • 46 BARBER CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲

42 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? As a seeker. I am on a journey of experiences and have been my whole life. Travel is my passion and my teacher. Sometimes I journey alone and meet the most amazing people, and other times I go on adventures with friends and create those indelible memories from these experiences. Oh, and I am gay. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Fort Lauderdale. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? A fellow seeker. A man on his own journey, hopefully someone that looks at the greater good of the universe. Mainly, I am attracted to someone’s energy too, as I hope mine is just as attractive. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Smoking. BIGGEST TURN ON? Authenticity with a bit of self-reflection and someone who is not afraid of changing themselves the more they look within. HOBBIES: Travel, hiking, being in nature, the beach, and swimming. I also like cruises, attending Burning Man and similar events, making bead bracelets for gifts to people, and trying to make my dog laugh. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I have always worked with Equality Florida (former Board Chair and Broward Steering Committee member). I support the great work they do here in Florida. I have donated time as the pro bono attorney for the Smart Ride as well as being a rider over the years. I often work for individual clients pro bono because that’s what we should all do. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? I have a wonderful Chocolate Lab. Her name is Playa. She comes to the office with me every day. The name comes from her love of water and my love of where the major art pieces are at Burning Man. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Touch. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? Going to the beach to watch the moonrise and sit and talk about life with or without food/wine. Conversely, watching a sunrise is just as inspiring. I have hundreds of sky photos that I post on social media. They never cease to amaze me. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Chocolate, but hey, it’s not guilt for me. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I love to go camping and used to be a white-water canoe instructor in college. I once unintentionally pirouetted a canoe in the river while playing in class 4 rapids and lived to tell about it while in North Carolina. An old-timer came up to me and said, “I ain’t never seen somebody do that before.” I just laughed and told him that it was all perfectly planned. I was an officer in the US Navy and served in the Persian Gulf War. That was an amazing experience. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Live this life, now. TOM RUNYAN • 58 REAL ESTATE ATTORNEY Photo by Carina Mask. ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 43 Photo by Carina Mask. HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? Lesbian. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Boynton Beach. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? Someone who is down to earth, enjoys the simple things in life, loyal, trusting, honest, non-judgmental, low maintenance and secure with themselves. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Drinkers, disrespect, jealousy, controlling, and possessiveness. BIGGEST TURN ON? Complete honesty and respect. HOBBIES: The beach, singing karaoke, bowling and shooting pool. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? Two beautiful children, a 25-yearold son, a deceased daughter and a cute Pomeranian dog. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Quality time, physical touch, acts of service and words of affirmation. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? Dinner for good conversation, then going somewhere for karaoke. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Snacking on junk in the middle of the night. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I am brutally honest to a fault and I don’t sugarcoat anything. I believe it’s best to tell someone the truth about my feelings so it doesn’t leave them guessing. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Live in the moment, and enjoy every day as if it’s your last. Life is not guaranteed. TINA BERARDI • 56 PERMIT AND INSPECTIONS COORDINATOR CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲

44 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH KAL GAJRAJ • 42 SENIOR COMMUNICATIONS & DIVERSITY OFFICER / PROFESSOR HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? Gay, First Generation, Indo-Caribbean, Muslim American. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Plantation. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? The most meaningful qualities I look for in a partner are honesty, compatibility, respect, and support. I am also looking for shared values like kindness, loyalty, and determination. Trust and communication are also essential to building a healthy relationship. Finding someone who respects, understands, and supports my boundaries is important to me. Furthermore, we should share the same core values and chemistry, and we should be able to convey our goals, dreams, and desires. The person I am most attracted to is independent and loyal, as well as empathetic and understanding. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Poor hygiene, lack of ambition, being avoidant, and selfishness. BIGGEST TURN ON? Having intellectual conversations, being friendly, making me laugh, and teaching me something new. HOBBIES: Volunteering, activism, reading, traveling, amusement parks (roller coasters), Broadway/theater, art/photography, and writing. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? Board Director, Communications Committee, HarmonyWaves, a 501c3 non-profit performing arts organization in South Florida. We recently produced events in Wilton Manors, such as An Evening with Tony-Award winner Gavin Creel, the Wilton Manors Holiday Spectacular featuring Tony-Award winner Matt Doyle, and the upcoming Rock the Block Street Music Festival featuring American Idol-star David Archuleta. News Anchor/Host, It's Happening Out Television Network, a 501c3 LGBTQ+ media outlet for news, information, entertainment and education, featured on Queer News Tonight, The FayWhat?! Show, and It's Happening Out Entertainment Show with over 10 million views worldwide. Advisory Board Member, University of South Florida, School of Business. Advisory Board Member, Communications Committee, Greater Fort Lauderdale Public Relations Society of America. Florida State Representative, Grant Panelist, National Endowment for the Arts (NEA). Juror, Academy of Interactive & Visual Arts (AIVA Awards). PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? I have a 13-year-old Shih Tzu named Patches. I adopted him at 7 months old while volunteering at the Humane Society of Broward County. His previous owner gave him up, and we've been together ever since. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? My primary love language is physical touch (37%), followed by words of affirmation (27%), then qua lity time (23%), acts of service (7%), and then receiving gifts (7%). WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? My favorite date night activities are experiences, such as going bowling, visiting a museum, going to a concert, doing an escape room, or a cooking class. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Binging reality TV shows, singing in the car/shower, and eating Taco Bell. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Breathe in courage, breathe out fear. My story represents who I am, where I've been, what I've felt, and where I'm going, not only as a human but also as one who has learned when to pause, catch my breath, and be proud of what has been accomplished. I am also grateful for the people who made me who I am today. Photo by Carina Mask. ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 45 HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? She/Her. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? I literally live out of my suitcase, traveling the East Coast covering amazing events. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? Most important and key is a beautiful soul who is spiritually grounded and has their own special relationship with divine source. BIGGEST TURN OFF? One who lies. BIGGEST TURN ON? Confidence. HOBBIES: Indulging in creative projects, spending time in nature. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? None. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? All of them! WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? Being a little spontaneous. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Rice crispy treats. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I have to think about that one. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Empower love and healing through music. IFA HALIMA BUMI DJ / RADIO PRESENTER / OWNER OF SHEER ELAN LLC Photo by Kim Roseberry, SheDriven photography. Mixed media effects by Carina Mask. CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲

46 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH AMANCIO PARADELA • 38 DEVELOPMENT MANAGER HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? I identify as non-binary and queer. I comfortably present as male. Any pronoun is fine. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Fort Lauderdale. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? I’m open, and I like to leave room for exploration, but ideally someone who is: Kind, open in communication, has a desire to work towards mutual understanding, considerate of others’ needs, comfortable with commitment, affectionate, self-aware, sexually expressive, emotionally and physically available, values companionship as well as autonomy, and identifies as polyamorous. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Bullying or otherwise toxic behavior. BIGGEST TURN ON? Kindness, confidence, and being outgoing. HOBBIES: I’m an artist to my core. I’m a sculptor and writer. I love exploring in terms of creativity and geography. I love being outdoors, and I do love my time at the gym. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I work for a nonprofit, and sometimes it feels like it is all I do. I also do a fair bit of service work for my recovery. If it involves helping someone to be their best self, I’ll probably say yes. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? I have a 27-year-old tortoise. She’s a hoot, and she’ll probably try to chomp on you. I’m interested in having kids, but only with the right partner. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? This is tricky. Quality time and Physical Touch are everything, but Words of Affirmation is growing on me. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? When getting to know someone, I like to be able to hear the person and absorb what they’re saying. Let’s keep things chill and do ceramics at OCISLY, or take an O, Miami workshop, tour the Norton, or hike Jonathan Dickinson. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Chocolate in all its forms and teen dramas. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I’ve yet to check Australia and Antarctica off my travel list. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? E ultreia, e suseia! (Let us go further and higher) Photo by Carina Mask. ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 47 WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Wilton Manors. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? I value honesty, communication, and a sense of humor in a partner. Someone who shares similar interests and values is important to me. I believe in mutual respect and support in a relationship. Ultimately, I’m looking for a connection where we can grow together and create a positive and fulfilling life. BIGGEST TURN OFF? I don’t like it when people are negative all the time because it brings down the mood. Also, being honest is really important to me, so when someone is not truthful, it’s a big turn-off. BIGGEST TURN ON? I really like it when someone is kind and caring because it shows a good heart, and that’s attractive to me. I’m also attracted to people who have big dreams and work hard to achieve them, as ambition is something I find very appealing. HOBBIES: I like making and trying new cocktails. I enjoy taking cute and spontaneous pictures, mainly my pets. I also enjoy tasting wines and tequilas to discover new flavors. And, of course, I love going for walks with my dog! ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I’m not volunteering right now, but I really want to help animals at a shelter in the future. It’s something I look forward to doing. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? Two loving pets: Pitbull Vizsla mix and a Tabby cat. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Physical touch, like hugs or holding hands. It makes me feel connected. Acts of service also mean a lot to me. When someone does something helpful or thoughtful, it really shows they care, and that’s how I understand and appreciate love. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? I really like spending date nights cooking together at home. It’s fun to prepare a meal together, and pair it with a nice bottle of wine. It feels cozy and special. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? I have a bit of a guilty pleasure for eating sweets. It’s hard to resist having chocolates, cookies, and desserts. Even though I know it’s not the healthiest choice, but the joy it brings is amazing! ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I like trying really rare and unusual foods, even things like exotic animals or insects. It’s a bit adventurous, and I enjoy exploring different and unique flavors. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? Hope for the Best, Prepare for the Worst. MARI CARMEN • 34 BARTENDER CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲ Photo by Carina Mask.

48 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH VON BIGGS • 60 COMMUNITY OUTREACH COORDINATOR HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? I embrace a queer identity, but I’m not inclined to adhere strictly to labels. I prefer identifying as an individual within the LGBTQ community. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Lauderdale Lakes, FL. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? I am seeking an individual who not only finds immense joy in their volunteer work and passions but also exudes vibrant energy, confidence, care, and love. I highly value someone who appreciates camaraderie, is self-sufficient, and brings a dynamic presence to the table. I am enthusiastic about embracing and valuing cultural differences in our approach to learning and navigating relationships. Furthermore, I am keen on connecting with someone who is not only comfortable sharing the limelight but brings their own energy and enthusiasm to the shared experiences we create. BIGGEST TURN OFF? A combination of arrogance, sloppiness, and individuals who lack clear goals in life. When present in a potential partner, it is likely to diminish my interest or attraction. BIGGEST TURN ON? I am particularly drawn to confidence, internal beauty, and energy as my main turn-ons. The captivating spark that emerges when connecting with someone on an energetic level ignites a strong interest and inspires me to pursue meaningful connections. HOBBIES: I am an accomplished mixed media artist, with a specific expertise in crafting textile creations utilizing resin. Complementing my artistic pursuits, I am a lifelong learner and am presently engaged in academic endeavors, studying Health Care Service Administration at Keiser University. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I currently serve as the Vice Chair for the Broward County HIV Health Services Planning Council, where my advocacy is focused on empowering individuals within the HIV community. My approach involves harnessing the collective power of voices, providing platforms for marginalized communities, and ensuring that those directly affected have a significant role in shaping policies that directly impact their lives. I am dedicated to creating a more robust and resilient HIV community through initiatives such as mentorship programs, leadership development, and capacity-building efforts. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? I share my home with a delightful Yorkshire Terrier named Oz, who is 4 years old and holds the title of the spoiled prince in our household. Additionally, I have a 38-year-old daughter and a 33-year-old son, both residing out of state. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Among the five love languages, Physical Touch stands out as my primary preference. Being a passionate individual, I find great joy in physical expressions of affection. Following closely is my appreciation for Quality Time. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? Personally, I’m grateful for the expansive circle of friends that graces my life, allowing me to frequently engage with the community. Ideally, a perfect night entails a splendid dinner accompanied by meaningful conversations, culminating in a leisurely stroll along the beach under the stars. While I may not be an ardent sun worshiper, the allure of beach evenings holds a special place in my heart. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? I frequently find amusement in the inquiry about my guilty pleasure. Surprisingly, it’s indulging in the “Real Housewives” series. Coming home from work or an event and immersing myself in this reality show, which showcases behaviors one “SHOULD NOT” exhibit in public, serves as a reminder and anchor to the person I am and aspire to remain. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: A surprising fact: I served as a children’s pastor in Indiana. As an adult in the LGBTQ community, I explored church dynamics on homosexuality, deepening my awareness and commitment to inclusivity. Studying scripture inspired me, guiding my push for empathy in religious spaces. These insights gained significance when I came out, enriching my understanding of faith, acceptance, and the LGBTQ journey. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? I proudly embrace two mottos that stem from my disruptive advocacy in the community: “I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples.” - Mother Theresa. “Disrupting Norms, Empowering Lives: Advocating for a Future Free from the Burden of HIV/AIDS.” Photo by Carina Mask. ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE

THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH | 2.8.2024 • 49 HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? I identify as open gay and fabulous. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Wilton Manors WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? Effective communication. An individual with their own life, passions, and journey. Someone to make me smile and laugh. A man who sees the value in courting and taking time to date. I am seeking someone who has lived life and can come together, hold hands and create our own memories. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Cigarette Smoking. Lying. Mean girl negativity. BIGGEST TURN ON? I am saying it publicly - I am a butt man! A beautiful smile and eyes are the true gate to the soul. Someone romantic. HOBBIES: Sports, gym, traveling, documentaries, game nights with friends, movies, and cooking. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? Board member - Plays of Wilton. Steering Committee - South Florida HRC. In the process of joining two additional boards. Have volunteered with various organizations in town such as Neighbors4Neighbors and Broward House. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? Dog daughter - Zola. She is my world. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Quality time. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? SO many favorite date night activities. Food/wine/ games (Xtreme Action Sports in Fort Lauderdale). Just something where there’s space and opportunity to engage with one another. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Also - SO many guilty pleasures. Old sitcomes - Golden Girls, The Nanny, Roseanne (even though she is canceled). Ice cream and chips. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: I was invited to perform at Carnegie Hall. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? No expectations. No disappointments. Stand for something and fall for nothing. TERRY DYER • 43 AUTHOR / ACTIVIST / MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER / CONSULTANT Photo courtesy of Terry Dyer. CONTINUE READING ON NEXT PAGE ⊲

50 • 2.8.2024 | THIS ISSUE IS BROUGHT TO YOU IN PARTNERSHIP WITH CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH ARABELLA DUNBAR • 30 MARKETING DIRECTOR FOR VIDA DIGITAL HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY? I’m not into being labeled. I like what I like. Connection is connection and I know it when I feel it. WHERE DO YOU LIVE? Miami. WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR IN A PARTNER? Someone who shares my basic values, someone who takes responsibility for their actions and is comfortable with raw and transparent conversations. BIGGEST TURN OFF? Insecurity and lack of respect for any living being. BIGGEST TURN ON? Intelligence and willingness to learn and grow. Ambition is beautiful. HOBBIES: Playing the guitar/ukelele, writing, photography, and anything nature. ANY CHARITABLE/VOLUNTEER WORK? I’ve been involved with 4Ward Miami and Gay8 Festival since 2017 and it’s been one of the joys of my life. It is a beautiful feeling to be a part of a movement much larger than any of us. We’ve helped bring a whole new dimension of love to Little Havana and beyond, and I’ll never get over that. PETS/KIDS/NEITHER? I have one dog: Teo. He’s my LIFE. No kids yet, but one day, if it’s in the cards. WHAT’S YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE? Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE DATE NIGHT ACTIVITY? Anything adventurous. I am all about spontaneity; it’s the Gemini in me. WHAT’S YOUR GUILTY PLEASURE? Binge-watching trashy reality TV shows. ONE OBSCURE FACT ABOUT YOURSELF: Nothing scares me, but I am terrified of butterflies. WHAT’S YOUR MOTTO? No day but today. ⊳ CONTINUED FROM PREVIOUS PAGE Photo by Carina Mask.