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52 Yisroel Laskin-Manager AMZ Heating & Cooling Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Yisroel Laskin & I currently manage the Commercial department by AMZ Heating & Cooling. I’ve watched Avrohom Pam grow from a handy Teenager to a Senior Technician in our company. Avrohom Pam has always been a pleasure to have around for any job we have. He has an amazing head and is constantly teaching everyone in our company new techniques or concepts that he learned. The more knowledge he has, the more he loves to share so he can help another person. Avrohom Pam is currently in school to hone his skills even more so he can become the best technician for himself as a personal way to become the best person he can be. Avrohom Pam has always been that guy who is looking to better himself & finding ways to help his community. Sometimes we get calls right before the Holidays that Someone's A/C or Heat is broken. Even though it's after hours, Avrohom Pam makes himself available, with a smile, whenever he can so that person doesn't have to be uncomfortable during the Holiday. When I heard about this unfortunate incident, to be honest, I didn’t believe it. It's so unlike Avrohom Pam to do something like this. Avrohom Pam's true nature is nothing like this. Avrohom Pam's true nature is filled with Selflessness, Discipline, Honesty and integrity, and kindness. It would be a great loss for us not to have Avrohom around. Additionally, all the people that he helps would miss him greatly He is not a risk to the community but on the contrary, he is helpful and caring to all around him. I have known Avrohom Pam for just about 5 years and I would definitely allow him into my house/car unsupervised, as I know his true soft and honest nature. I remember a time when I was working after hours at a job & my wife called that she is in labor. The next day I called Avrohom Pam asking him if he could possibly help me out and work a few hours to get part of the work done. Avrohom Pam not only did a little to help me, he brought over a friend & they finished the rest of the job together. All with a smile and all with a “Yisroel it's no big deal. Your having a kid & I'm available so of course I'll help you”.
53 Yisroel Laskin-Manager AMZ Heating & Cooling Just to show how in tune Avrohom is with the people around him, he will randomly call me just to tell me he was in a store & saw a tool I mentioned 3 months ago in passing. This is Avrohom Pam in a nutshell. Avrohom Pam grew up in a Jewish religious home in a town that is Jewish & religious. Jail for Avrohom Pam will expose him to elements of society he never dreamed he would learn about & see. The Mental harm Jail can do for Avrohom Pam is tremendous & detrimental to his well-being in the long run of life. Community service is something that Avrohom will excel in and I can definitely see Avrohom Pam continuing to contribute to whatever service it is as he is and always has been about helping the community. Additionally, for Avrohom to be able to finish school in order to get his HVAC license will be unbelievable for his growth in life & society. I hope to see Avrohom excel in school, in our company & in our community for a long time. People are counting on him for his generosity & kindness. Sincerely, Yisroel Laskin The more knowledge he has, the more he loves to share so he could help another person
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57 He is a selfless and caring individual who cares for the weaker and needy portion of society Rabbi Aharon Pritzker 8 Moscato Drive, Lakewood NJ 08701 732-363-8394d To the honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Aharon Pritzker and I am studying to be a Rabbi at Beth Medrash Govoah. I am Avrohom Pam’s uncle through marriage and have known him since I met my wife Bracha Pritzker, nee Pam, 15 years ago. I would like to share with you my impression of Avrohom and my personal experience with him. He is one of the kindest, sensi�ve, and pa�ent people I know. As the head of a low-income family living on a �ght budget, I can’t really afford to repair appliances that break down. However, whenever my HVAC breaks down, I can remain calm, as I know I can rely on Avrohom to come to my rescue. He graciously does not charge me at all! Except for the cost price of parts that need to be replaced. Although I never asked him to do so! He does it with utmost sensi�vity to protect my dignity. Although he knows he will not earn a cent off me, he takes full responsibility for the job and gets to it quickly, which at �mes can be on ‘off �me’ hours, like late at night or weekends. Watching him diagnose the problem and repair it I am always amazed at his pa�ence and perseverance as he goes about his work calmly and diligently. It is especially impressive knowing that he is working just to be helpful and not earning anything from the job! In short, he is a selfless and caring individual who cares for the weaker and needy por�on of society. He is an integral part of his family and community who is constantly giving back. Considering the above I respec�ully ask you not to place him in jail. I feel it will be harmful to his good and sensi�ve character as he will be exposed to darker elements of society. The poten�al damage to his emo�onal health is real. I find it hard to believe he will emerge as a be�er member of society. Jus�ce and society would be much be�er served if he were punished with community service and proba�on. For the sake of myself and countless others who benefit from his kindness I ask you to help Avrohom become a be�er person by not sending him to jail. Respec�ully yours, Aharon Pritzker
58 There was one nephew I called… that was Avrohom, because I knew he cares Shlomo Pam 220 Murray Street Lakewood, NJ 08701 To the honorable Judge Palmer My name is Shlomo Pam and I am Avrohom’s uncle. I am a local elementary school teacher and an educa�onal consultant. My family and I consider ourselves extremely close to Avrohom. He is definitely a favorite nephew and cousin. Avrohom is a sensi�ve, caring, and very responsible young man. My beloved nephew is on his way to building the founda�on for a very produc�ve and promising future. He is responsible, mature, hardworking, and kind hearted. I recently went through a health issue with one of my daughters. There was one nephew I called to ask him to pray. That was Avrohom because I know he cares. Ever since then, every �me I speak to him, the first thing he asks is how is my daughter Yehudis? Avrohom is always there to help another person. I have called upon him many a �me at the most inconvenient �mes. He has always been there for me. He is there not only for me but for anyone who he can help; whether an individual or an organiza�on. He always does it with a smile and a kind word. Community ac�vism is Avrohom’s heartbeat. Whether the local food pantry or burial society, he is always ready to help. Avrohom has strong roots in the community and has always lived up to his reputa�on as a community person. Avrohom is unique in that he is always even keeled, never angry, never holds a grudge or says a bad word about anyone. Avrohom is furthering his educa�on, produc�vely working hard and long hours, constantly volunteering and being the wonderful friend that he has always been. I think it would be detrimental to him and the community to have such a gem in prison among others with the opposite character traits that he possesses. A prison is meant to be a correc�onal facility. I fear that a prison would be harmful to achieving our goal and I am fully confident that the best place for Avrohom to con�nue to become a be�er person is in the community where he can con�nue to be a produc�ve member and contribute to society at large. Thank you in advance for your considera�on, Respec�ully yours, Shlomo Pam
59 He uses his charming personality to benefit others Yehoshua and Penina Pam 265 Read Street Lakewood, New Jersey 08701 Sept. 18 2023 To The Honorable Judge Palmer, We have known our dear nephew, Avrohom since he was a young toddler. Avrohom is a family-minded young man with a sterling fine character. He uses his charming personality to benefit others. His companionship is simply calming! Avrohom, and his group of friends have always been crime-free and drug-free. Avrohom’s family live around the block from us. Our children know Avrohom as the go-to cousin when we need anything, at any time of the day! Avrohom has a warm and caring heart. Just a few weeks ago, on a hot August afternoon, we noticed our air conditioner was not working properly. We called Avrohom! Over the phone, he patiently described to us how to fix the problem. When that didn’t work, he came over and fixed it quickly and professionally. Avrohom lovingly cares for his special needs sister. When our brother and sisterin-law need to leave for medical emergencies, Avrohom, with his good nature cares for the family. His parents know they will always come home to a calm and clean home. Many local organizations have come to count on Avrohom’s dedication. He distributes food to needy families. He has also set up refrigeration at a local food bank, and fixed the air conditioner at a school, all after hours. Avrohom spends his free time helping others. Avrohom’s selflessness to help those in need; is inspiring to all! Avrohom was involved in an unfortunate MVA. Serving jail time will have a lifelong negative and damaging effect on him. Kindly consider a more suitable punishment for Avrohom, so he can continue to benefit our family, and society at large. Respectfully, Yehoshua and Penina Pam
60 He always comes over with his trademark smile, with a kind word… Eliyohu Pam 2 Raven Lane Lakewood NJ 08701 HONORABLE JUDGE PALMER, My name is Eliyohu Pam and I am an uncle of Avrohom Pam. I have known my nephew all his life. We live less than a mile from each other and I have watched Avrohom grow up into the exceptional young man that we all know him to be. Avrohom has always been the kindest, most sensitive boy /man that I have ever seen. As a young boy, he would come over and show interest in all his cousins and extended family, especially the very young and his elderly grandparents. He always comes over with his trademark smile, with a kind word, usually asking if he can be of help in any way. Ever since he went into the HVAC business his primary concern has always been helping people, not just getting the job done. I can’t forget that hot July day when our air conditioner went. We knew how crazy busy he was; he would not go to sleep until he got to our house, spending much time on the unit. We couldn’t believe that he refused payment because we were family. Additionally, he did not leave until he made some small talk with our children who were still up. He really showed what kindness, friendship, and family are all about. We know that Avrohom is facing charges that are quite serious. Please consider his integrity, kindhearted personality, and his selflessness. Please consider that he is an upstanding law-abiding citizen with no prior criminal record. Avrohom is someone who would literally take his shirt off his back and someone who’s constantly volunteering for anyone in need, especially special needs children. I am so concerned that jail will expose Avraham to elements of society that run so contrary to who he is, and will have so much negative influence on him. Thank you for allowing me to write on Avraham’s behalf and allowing me to beg for mercy in this unusual case of a very good person with such an unfortunate mistake. All the best, Eliyohu Pam
61 Avrohom’s priorities are straight. He is very responsible and always follows through on his commitment. Tova S. Hunger 125 Spruce St. Lakewood, NJ 08701 September 20, 2023 To: The Honorable Judge Palmer I would like to tell you about my dear nephew Avrohom Pam. I am privileged to be his aunt and neighbor, so I get to spend extra quality time with him. Avrohom is a real person, a family-oriented person, a person with one of the biggest hearts I know. Avrohom enjoys spending quality time with his family and extended family, and the feelings are mutual. Whenever Avrohom is around, he brings with him happy, warm, and enjoyable vibes. That's why the holidays are always an exciting time, where we get to spend solid time together. During these times, we never saw him drink anything or do anything inappropriate. It's also during these times, we get to see how Avrohom treats his mentally challenged sister Chana. I wish you could see firsthand how he treats her. Tears well up in my eyes just thinking about her huge smile when he walks into the room and gives her a big hug. He takes such good care of her! You can see the connection they have is a special bond. Chana is not the only one who loves Avrohom. I have 2 young sons, but the years don’t matter to Avrohom when it comes to giving my boys a good time. He is only too happy to have a game of ball with them. always makes time in his busy schedule to play with them. He connects with young and old alike. I see the way in which he treats and respects my in-laws. Always with a smile, and with a "what can I do for you" attitude. Avrohom's priorities are straight. He is very responsible and always follows through on his commitment. Avrohom is a true asset to our community. There are endless stories of his acts of kindness. There was the time when he was working in a home and noticed one of the children home from school – looking like this was something that was the new regular routine for this child. After asking the parents' permission to talk to their son, he in a loving and mentoring way explained to the child the importance of education and the importance of following through. The boy took his words and the time he gave him to heart, the next day he was back in school. He notices, he looks how he can make a difference. Like the time he saw there was a storm coming, and he called to ask if he could come over and help us put our "Sukkah" away so that it can be stored properly before the rain came. Avrohom is always thinking how he can avail himself to others. Avrohom is considered in the Jewish tradition – of Priestly descent. It is therefore customary for him not to be on the premises of a cemetery. One evening or shall I say in the very early morning, there was a problem with the fridge in the morgue. Since it his forbidden for him to enter this premises, he had a dilemma on how he can possibly help as desperately as he wanted to. He figured a way he was able to fix it through the window, or a hole even though it was extremely cold outside. It did pose a great difficulty, but not great enough to stop him from keeping to his faith and not great enough to stop him from helping in a time of desperate need. After being a part of Avrohom's life for so many years, I truly feel lucky, honored and privileged to call him family. Knowing who he really is and all that he represents, knowing his true and inner desires – I can't help but strongly and humbly believe that jail would do more damage than good. "Community Service'' – I am humbly begging that you find favor to do just that, do a service to the community and allow Avrohom to do community service in place of jail. Who is going to make Chana smile the way he does? Who is going to help people with all the many emergencies? He has so much to offer our community. He is an asset to our community. Please allow Avrohom the chance to show you that Community Service was the right choice. Thank you, Tova S. Hunger
62 He’s the type that wouldn’t hurt a fly Yechiel and Devora Teichman and Family 172 Caribou Rd. Toronto, Ontario Canada September 7, 2023 Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, I am writing this letter in support of Avrohom Pam. He is an upright, respectable, good citizen of this country. He has a noble character and spends his days helping people. My family has known and admired him for many years. He is extremely refined and comes from a very much loved and respected family. Anyone who has a conversation with him or his family members walks away inspired and uplifted! This summer, while we were in Lakewood, we had a problem with our air conditioner. He was unable to come over at the time but directed me over the phone to explore the parts of the system. He was able to troubleshoot over the phone. He didn’t charge anything for his time and expertise! The next week, when he was available, he spent time fixing the problem. Again, he didn’t charge! He always presents as soft-spoken, calm, and nice. He’s the type that wouldn’t hurt a fly! We were heartbroken, and shocked when we heard about the unfortunate accident two years ago, and the trauma that he and his family went through! I pray and beg of you that this matter be handled in the best way possible. They have suffered enough! I trust that you will find it in your heart to allow him and his family to continue doing their great work in service of our community. He is a young boy with much potential ahead of him. He is clean from all types of things that kids his age get into. It would be detrimental to expose him to the elements of society that are found in prison. The good lord should bless you, and I thank you in advance for your help! Yechiel and Devora Teichman
63 There is nothing I enjoy more than to spend time with Avrohom Meir Teichman 315-834-2462 To the Honorable Judge Palmer My name is Meir Teichman. I am Avrohom’s cousin. I’ve known him his whole life. I am currently a student, learning abroad. I have a wonderful wife and 4 children. I would like to present my perspective on Avrohom Pam. There is nothing I enjoy more than to spend time with Avrohom. He is friendly, generous, patient, kind, etc. Avrohom is someone who is friendly and greets friends and strangers alike with a friendly smile. Avrohom is always willing to help those in need, Avrohom volunteers for multiple local organizations and helps care for special needs children and those of us who are less fortunate. Avrohom can be characterized as someone who displays kindness, patience, restraint, and professionalism in his interactions with others. I remember when my car wouldn’t start, Avrohom was the first person I thought to call to help me out. Avrohom is an upstanding citizen with no criminal record, surrounded by a loving family and friends, and is part of his community. Avrohom is a talented hardworking young man, who is currently developing his profession and furthering his education to be a productive member of society. As you will come to know Avrohom is currently on the right track in life and it would be detrimental to him and counterproductive to take him from his loving family, friends, and profession and force him to associate with the kind of people generally found in our prison system. I understand that Avrohom would be happy to give back to society in the way he is currently involved with the multiple organizations that he volunteers for and all the people that he helps. With much appreciation for your time and concern, Meir Teichman
64 Avrohom’s golden hands are matched by his golden heart Addd d 09/08/2023 1 To The Honorable Judge Palmer, I am writing this letter on behalf of my cousin Avrohom Pam. I watched him grow up and have known him all throughout his life. Avrohom is a multi-talented young man. Firstly, in his professional career. His profession as a licensed HVAC technician started way back as a young child. He was always happy to help others with small repairs. When he was old enough, he studied on his own to obtain a legal license to install HVAC systems in New Jersey. He went even further to study for a New York City license which necessitated learning tremendous amounts of material all on his own. Avrohom’s disciplined nature is what compelled him to reach the level of profession where he stands today. Today, he is still in school and is working on taking his education even further. He has a respected job with a steady income and is well-known within his field. Avrohom’s golden hands are matched by his golden heart. He is a giving person who goes out of his way to help others. One example that comes to mind is the time when he drove from central New Jersey to Brooklyn, NY to help his elderly grandparents install a few air conditioners. He even made the trip a second time when the installation needed a touch-up. What struck me most was the way Avrohom nonchalantly mentioned this trip, implying that many others would do the same and travel such a distance for something that any local person could have done instead. Avrohom is very close with his grandparents and the rest of his family. He has a way of looking out for his younger siblings and making each one of them feel special. He is the first to volunteer when any family member needs help, and it is always with a kind smile. In all the years in which I’ve known Avrohom, I have never seen him get angry or aggressive. He is an especially humble and caring individual. It is for these reasons that when I got word of this accident, I was so distraught. It's very unfortunate that someone of his caliber is facing charges that do not reflect the kind of person that he is. Jail will have a negative effect on him in so many ways. He is an upstanding, gentle boy who does not need exposure to tougher and lower elements of society. Also, it will be difficult for him to retain his faith in such an environment. The emotional effects of prison will be long-lasting. Finishing school will be a better way for him to benefit society than jail time. I respectfully urge you to look favorably upon Avrohom Pam and consider sentencing him to community service instead of jail time. Sincerely, Zev Hunger 718-787-6529
65 I have never seen him get angry at anyone Yocheved Braunstein 1317 E. 14th Street, Apt 3I Brooklyn, NY 11230 To The Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Yocheved Braunstein. I am Avrohom Pam‘s first cousin and I have known him since he was a young boy. It would not be an exaggeration to say that I don’t know many people who are as universally loved as he is. Avrohom is kind, he is friendly, he goes out of his way to be helpful. I have never seen him get angry at anyone, and the accusations of road rage are extremely out of character. He is a young man, trying to start off his life on the right foot. He has never been in trouble with the law and is a hardworking and industrious person. What could possibly be the public interest in taking this young man and putting him in jail, exposing him to the worst elements of society, and setting him back many steps on his path to being a productive member of his community? Society does not need to be protected from people like Avrohom; on the contrary, we must protect them. Sincerely, Yocheved Braunstein
66 Ahuva Cukier 30 King David Drive Lakewood, NJ 08701 September 7, 2023 To Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Ahuva Cukier. I am Avrohom Pam's older cousin. I am married with four children and live nearby. Getting to see Avrohom over the years, I have witnessed his character and values. Avrohom who is very close to my family has always been such a caring person. Through many examples, he has shown his care for others. He would do anything to help out another person, making him someone my children and I want to be around. Avrohom is a hard-working and responsible individual. With his talents, he always finds opportunities to help out. We can always count on him to help us out whenever we need repairs done around the house, and it's always done with a smile. Unfortunately, Avrohom has been involved in a vehicular accident. It saddens me to think that he has to be in this situation, being that Avrohom is such a kind person. In my humble opinion, I think he does not need rehabilitation, as Avrohom is not a threat to society. I kindly ask for leniency and consideration when determining Avrohom’s sentencing. I want to thank you on behalf of my family for your time. -Ahuva Cukier Avrohom is a hardworking and responsible individual
67 Chana Hunger 732-966-6683 Honorable Judge Palmer, I sit down to write this letter with a heavy heart. I am a first cousin of Avrohom Pam. Growing up, the Pam house was a second home to me. A home full of warmth and love, a home where everyone feels comfortable. I have known Avrohom for as long as I can remember. Avrohom is a product of this wonderful home. He is a truly talented and gifted young man, really well-liked by everyone he knows. At home, you'll find him to be a relaxed personality, not someone who angers quickly but very calm and patient. He’s always available to help around the house from the smallest chores to the biggest tasks. At work, you'll find him to be hardworking and responsible, a real asset to the company. Avrohom is quite popular among his co-workers and cherished by his boss. He is a committed and loyal worker who has come to earn the trust of everyone around him. In his free time, Avrohom is only giving back to the community. He gives up his time and volunteers to stock the hospital pantry with kosher food for anyone who may be stuck there. Avrohom has come to my house countless times to do repairs, big and small, free of charge and always with a smile. I would therefore like to suggest that prison time would be detrimental in Avrohom’s case. It would expose him to behaviors and ideas that he was never exposed to before, as well as have him face challenges that would conflict with his faith. It would be much more beneficial for him to be placed on probation while he serves the community with community service, which will enable him to finish schooling and become a mature adult. I appreciate you taking the time to read my letter, and I hope it helps you understand that Avrohom made an unfortunate mistake and it doesn't reflect his true character. Sincerely, Chana Hunger Not someone who angers quickly but very calm and patient
68 His passion for helping people is truly exceptional Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Moshe Y. Teichman. I am a Rabbinical student at Yeshiva Torah Vadaath in Brooklyn, New York, and a cousin of Avrohom Pam. Allow me to provide a brief testimony regarding the character of Avrohom. Avrohom grew up and lives in a home where ethics, character development, and community involvement are a primary focus. Both his parents are teachers and have dedicated their lives to educating children. His father also gives a class to adults in the evening and both his parents are actively involved in supporting local charities. Avrohom is very close to his family, is very family-minded, and participates in every family get-together and wedding, etc. His character reflects the home where he grew up. All those who know him can attest to his gentle kind-hearted nature and his eagerness to do anything for anyone. He is hardworking, diligent, and responsible. Avrohom has found success working in the HVAC industry and uses his skills to help others and give back to the community. I have heard multiple first-hand accounts of him helping family, friends, or even local private schools, who couldn't afford to pay, at little or no charge. His passion for helping people is truly exceptional. It is clear that to put this soft and impressionable young man behind bars would be detrimental to his growth and development as well as his practicing of religion. Community service and probation are far more suited for Avrohom. Sincerely, Moshe Y. Teichman 732-264-5524
69 Avrohom is not scary and not mean!!!
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72 ...my life is immeasurably enriched by our friendship. REUVEN N. HELLMAN, ESQ. 255 West 88th Street, 3D New York, New York 10024 October 12, 2023 The Honorable Judge Palmer Re: State of New Jersey v. Avrohom Pam Dear Judge Palmer, My name is Reuven Hellman, and I write to you today on behalf of my dear friend Avrohom Pam. To the untrained eye, Avrohom and I make for an interesting pair; I am a 45- year-old real estate lawyer and father of six, and Avrohom a 21-year-old HVAC contractor. Yet, since the day we met, I remain magnetically drawn to him by his sterling character set, and my life is immeasurable enriched by our friendship. Avrohom possesses a remarkable set of attributes. His dedication to friends and strangers alike knows no bounds. Avrohom would do absolutely anything to help someone in need. Avrohom cares deeply about other people. I have observed the way Avrohom interacts and inspires at-risk youth; he conveys a deep sense of care and security that make all around him feel comfortable and at ease. Avrohom’s kindness and compassion have touched the lives of many, including mine, and I believe these qualities are indicative of his true character. Without in any manner diminishing the seriousness of Avrohom’s conduct before the court, I am proud to call Avrohom a dear friend, and firmly believe that Avrohom is a good person (in fact an extraordinarily good person) that made a serious mistake. I am deeply pained by the prospect that the future of a young man can be irreparably altered by a heat-of-themoment lapse, albeit a very serious one. I firmly believe that this tragic incident should be viewed as an aberration in his life rather than a reflection of his overall character. I hope, Your Honor, that you will take into consideration Avrohom’s exceptional attributes and the tremendous potential he possesses to make amends and continue contributing positively to society. While I understand the necessity of the legal process, I also believe in the power of redemption and second chances. It is my sincere hope that Avrohom will have the opportunity to learn from this tragic event, make amends to the best of his ability, and continue on a path of selflessness and care for others. Thank you for taking the time to consider my perspective on this matter, and for your dedication to delivering justice tempered with compassion. Respectfully, Reuven N. Hellman
73 He is tremendously caring and sensitive to other people’s feelings THE WELLSTONE GROUP LLC 362 EAST KENNEDY BLVD LAKEWOOD NJ 08701 718 838-1500 REAL ESTATE MANAGEMENT SERVICES September 11, 2023 To His Honor Judge Palmer; I would like to share a few thoughts with you regarding a very special friend of mine, Avraham Pam. I am the owner of a Real Estate company that owns and manages properties all over the US and I have known Avraham for many years as he has always been ready and willing to help me with advice and actual expertise in actual repair work that I have needed over the years. Recently, we were having a party in my house when I realized that my HVAC system was not working properly. After the initial panic that we had, I called Avraham who literally dropped everything to come over and make sure the system was working and the party would not be hindered. The amazing part was that he refused to take any payment for this desperately needed service call and when I asked him why, he responded that he is working very hard at giving back to the community to make up for what he was going through. He felt that doing good deeds would somehow be a sense of solace for the situation. Over this past summer, I spent a lot of time with Avraham. I realized some of his true inner character traits that I haven’t previously picked up on. Besides his warm and friendly personality, he is tremendously caring and sensitive to other people’s feelings. He has no interest in the bad stuff that is going on with the kids of today. He told me numerous times how terrible he feels about what had happened. I have never seen such remorse from a kid his age. This truly shows me how mature and understanding he is. I really feel that at this point, rehabilitation is not what he needs. Going to jail will harden his soft spirit and expose him to stuff that he shouldn’t be exposed to. I implore upon you to please realize that he can be such a good asset to the world now and be lenient in your judgment for his case. Thank you for taking the time to consider this letter. Sincerely, Alexander Hoffman
74 That is the Avrohom that I know and love; one that is helpful and compassionate. September 21, 2023 Your honor, the Judge, This letter is regarding Avrohom Pam. I have known Avrohom for close to 13 years as a family friend. Over the years, I have spent recreational time together with him, and I have learned that he is an incredible person. Avrohom is well known in the community as one who is compassionate, and does many great acts of kindness. He would never hurt a fly, in fact, I have personally benefited from his great deeds. I recall that once, when I arrived upstate in the Catskills, he immediately came to our bungalow and helped us unpack as soon as we pulled in the driveway. Avrohom was not asked to help us he just came on his own. That is the Avrohom that I know and love; one that is helpful and compassionate. As you consider the sentence you will impose on this young boy, please consider the impact that the sentence will have on him. A jail sentence would expose him to elements he has never been exposed to. It will cause him emotional distress and make it difficult for him to keep the tenets of his faith. Probation/community service would be more appropriate so he can give back to the community and continue to do the wonderful things that he does for others. I do not think that Avrohom could ever commit the offense intentionally – on the contrary, he would help in any way that is necessary. He is not a flight risk, and would never harm someone on purpose. Rabbi Moshe Oelbaum Rabbi September 21, 2023 Your honor, the Judge, This letter is regarding Avrohom Pam. I have known Avrohom for close to 13 years as a family friend. Over the years, I have spent recreational time together with him, and I have learned that he is an incredible person. Avrohom is well known in the community as one who is compassionate, and does many great acts of kindness. He would never hurt a fly, in fact, I have personally benefited from his great deeds. I recall that once, when I arrived upstate in the Catskills, he immediately came to our bungalow and helped us unpack as soon as we pulled in the driveway. Avrohom was not asked to help us he just came on his own. That is the Avrohom that I know and love; one that is helpful and compassionate. As you consider the sentence you will impose on this young boy, please consider the impact that the sentence will have on him. A jail sentence would expose him to elements he has never been exposed to. It will cause him emotional distress and make it difficult for him to keep the tenets of his faith. Probation/community service would be more appropriate so he can give back to the community and continue to do the wonderful things that he does for others. I do not think that Avrohom could ever commit the offense intentionally – on the contrary, he would help in any way that is necessary. He is not a flight risk, and would never harm someone on purpose. Rabbi Moshe Oelbaum Rabbi
75 He has been an inspiring positive influence and role model on my two younger boys... From, Emil and Suzana Dedovic 177 West Pleasant Grove Road Jackson NJ, 08527 Date: October 12, 2023 Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, I am writing this letter asking for your lenience for my dear friend Avrohom Pam sentencing. My family and I have known Avrohom for over a decade and I have been working closely with him and the company he works for, for the last few years. I have always known Avrohom to be a caring, trustworthy and a devoted friend. He is a polite, respectful, hardworking young man with a bright future ahead of him. He has been an inspiring postive influence and role model on my two younger boys and an outstanding member of his community. Your Honor I hope you take this letter into consideration towards Avrohom sentencing. Unfortunately mistakes have been made, but the occurance is not the defintion of who Avrohom is as a person. Since I have known him, I have never known him to be any threat to anyone or society as a whole. Actually he will go out of his way to help you if he can. He is a great young man that was involved in an unfortunate situation. Thank you for your time, Emil Dedovic 732-614-1114 [email protected]
76 … enjoying his good nature and zest for life personality David Holtz-Four Points Realty 609 River Avenue Lakewood, NJ 08701 Dear Honorable Judge Palmer; I am writing on behalf of a dear friend, Avrohom Pam. I have known Avrohom intimately for over 10 years and as time goes on I am more and more impressed by his loyalty, serious work ethic, extremely responsible and caring nature. Avrohom has proven himself to be a friend that all can count on at all times. I have seen Avrohom grow and thrive in his loving family environment. He has a sister with special needs and he speaks so highly and is so proud of her. Nothing will stand in his way of helping her and being proud of her accomplishments. He has a really caring heart and will do anything for anyone at any time of day or night. In addition to his soft character and sensitivity, Avrohom has proven to be a really diligent and skilled worker. I recently had a plumbing job that was a little bit of an emergency and Avrohom had no problem helping out with his skills and expertise following through until the job was done. Not only is Avrohom a total non-threat to any person or society he is an extremely big asset and fun-loving friend that all adore to be around. We spend many summers together with Avrohom and his family and all ages and stages hang around Avrohom enjoying his good nature and zest for life personality. I was shocked and saddened to hear of Avorhom’s sentence and hope that Judge Palmer will in his mercy re-think Avrohom’s sentence so that he can continue his vital work and friendship to all who adore and admire him. If you have any further questions please do not hesitate to call me at 908-278-9301. Sincerely, David Holtz Broker/Four Points Realty
77 My entire family enjoys being in his company 9/13/2023 Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, I am the CEO of SambaCare and Samba recovery and have known Avrohom Pam for five years. In all the years that I have known Avrohom, he has shown himself to be a selfless individual. He is always warm, caring and a pleasure to be around. My entire family enjoys being in his company. He uses his skills to help others. On two occasions he assisted us in a time of need. In one instance my heat wasn’t turning on, on a cold night, he volunteered to go in the attic and adjusted the igniter for us. Just recently we had a sewer gas issue with an open pipe in our unfinished basement. He came over to assess and to show me how to fix it by installing a P-Trap and filling it with water. He never asked for compensation. There are many others that Avrohom encounters that are recipients of his kindness as well. He is a true asset to our community. It is my feeling that someone of his caliber, with no criminal record would have a negative impact for him to be in jail with people of poor character. This would have a reverse effect on his character, faith, and emotional well-being. There may possibly be other avenues such as counseling, community service, and probation that would be far more effective. Thank you in advance for your consideration. Sincerely, Josh Bamberger | Chief Executive Officer P:908.312.1423x102 C:732.642.1610 250 Cedarbridge Ave Lakewood, NJ 08701 [email protected] | www.sambacare.com
78 This is classic Avrohom. Speak little, do a lot, all without fanfare. Menachem Sirota 166 Daniel Drive Lakewood, NJ 08701 September 8, 2023 Honorable Judge Palmer, As a close neighbor, I have known Avrohom Pam for a long time; since he was born! He is good friends with my son, who is exactly his age. He is also friends with my other sons. We are close with him, his parents, and with the rest of his family. He makes a point to attend all of our family occasions, such as weddings and the like. He has many very positive qualities. He is responsible and can be totally relied upon - if he says he will do something, he will do it. Throughout the years, whether in my business or personally, he is the person I turn to. He has come to our aid countless times. I run a seasonal business. At the start of that season, I hang up a huge sign. To do so, one needs to climb on the roof and from there, hang the sign. Avrohom knows exactly when this needs to be done. Without being asked, he shows up and does what needs to be done. He is like clockwork! Without thinking about it, I know this will get done, every year, on time, just like last year … and the year before! He is a very caring, kind-hearted young man. He would never harm anyone or speak negatively about another person. He is friendly to all and is always eager to help out. Once, we had a leak under our sink. He came down to look at it and realized he needed to buy a part at Home Depot. He went back and forth, bought the part, took care of the leak, and did whatever had to be done until the matter was resolved … without taking any money. This type of incident is not an isolated one. This is classic Avrohom Pam. Speak little, do a lot, all without fanfare. Avrohom has been involved in good and wholesome activities. He has been working in HVAC for several years and is currently attending school to get a degree. He is hard-working and disciplined. I have driven with him in a car many times. He is a good, responsible, and safe driver. I believe that what happened was an unfortunate and sad accident. I believe that he definitely had no intentions to harm anyone and that this was not a case of “road rage”. The world needs a person like Avrohom Pam around. Even at this young age of 21, I can say that Avrohom is someone who is a true contribution to our community. Sitting a prison term would have a very negative effect on him and his life. Having him do community service and probation would be a more suitable punishment in this case. In this way, he will continue to be a positive asset to the world, continue his schooling, and grow emotionally. I would personally vouch for him, Avrohom Pam. Please consider my request for community service and/or probation. With much appreciation, I remain, Menachem Sirota
79 He is particularly passionate about caring for special needs children and underprivileged individuals. Hon. Judge Kenneth T. Palmer, J.S.C. Criminal Division Ocean County Superior Court 118 Washington Street Toms River, New Jersey 08754 September 7, 2023 Dear Hon. Judge Palmer, I am writing this letter on behalf of Avrohom Pam, a person I have had the privilege of knowing as a friend and neighbor. My name is Mordy Gross, Esq., of 221 Pine Street, Lakewood, N.J., and I serve as the Chief Legal Officer of Xchange Telecom LLC, a telecommunications company based in New York City. I also volunteer my time as a member of the Lakewood Zoning Board of Appeals. I am writing this letter to provide a character reference for Mr. Pam, whom I believe is a person of good character and deserving of your consideration. This letter is being written in my individual capacity. Over the past two summers, I have spent a considerable amount of time with Mr. Pam, especially during weekends when he would visit his family. During these interactions, I have come to know him as a fine and deep individual. Despite the personal struggles he may have faced, he has shown a clear determination to overcome them. He is a responsible, hardworking individual with a generous heart and a kind spirit. Mr. Pam is a talented individual who shows great sportsmanship. We occasionally play ball together on the weekends, and he always encourages both sides of the court, lifting everyone's spirits. If I ever miss a game, he makes it a point to check in on me. This shows his caring nature and his ability to connect with people on a personal level. Mr. Pam is also a dedicated volunteer for multiple organizations, demonstrating his selflessness and commitment to helping others. He is particularly passionate about caring for special needs children and underprivileged individuals. He is currently furthering his education, which is a testament to his discipline and dedication to personal growth. Mr. Pam is an upstanding individual from an upstanding family. He has a close-knit relationship with his family and friends, and he is a valued member of our community. He has no prior criminal record and is not involved in substance abuse. His honesty, integrity, and accountability are traits that are well-respected within our community. Given these attributes, I believe that a jail sentence would not be a fitting punishment for Mr. Pam. This is not a case that requires rehabilitation. Exposing him to the elements of the society present in the prison system could potentially harm his faith and have long-term emotional effects. A more suitable punishment would be community service and probation. Moreover, allowing him to complete his education would be a more beneficial way for him to contribute to society. In conclusion, I believe that Mr. Pam is a person of good character who has made a mistake – one that he has learned from, and continues to learn from, on a daily basis. He is a valuable member of our community who has much to offer and would be better served with the mercy of the court. I respectfully request that you consider these factors in your sentencing decision. Thank you for your time and consideration. Mordy Gross, Esq. (484) 680-0768 [email protected]
80 Goldie Horowitz 1120 East 14th Street Brooklyn, N.Y.11230 September 8, 2023 To the Esteemed Honorable Judge Palmer, I am writing this letter in regard to the charges faced by Avrohom Pam. I have been a close friend of the Pam family for the past 15 years. We spend the summer months together in a bungalow colony located in the Catskills region in upstate N.Y. Being that we are together in very close proximity (as the grounds are not very big and the homes are close to each other) we really get to know one another quite well. We spend a lot of time together. Our children form bonds and are extremely close. That being said, I have watched Avrohom Pam grow up. Having spent the last 15 summers together, I have seen him mature from childhood to adolescence to young adulthood. Avrohom always had a special place in my heart. He is kind and sensitive and was so, even as a child. He was always well liked by adults and peers. As he grew older, Avrohom showed care, concern and responsibility for a lot of the younger children. Just this past summer, there were numerous times I observed Avrohom supervising his sister and her friends, my daughter among them, around a campfire. Not only did he watch them to ensure their safety, he provided the hot dogs and marshmallows for them to roast. His generosity and giving heart made him a friend to all the children in the colony. I am not only a homeowner in the same bungalow colony as the Pam family, I am also the lifeguard. One summer, without being asked, Avrohom surprised me with a gift. On his own, he built two lifeguard chairs (1 for each of our 2 pools). Handy as he is, he went out, bought the wood and worked meticulously to construct sturdy, high, well made lifeguard chairs to enhance the safety at the pool. Not because it was requested of him - because he cared and was concerned for the safety of others! He is selfless, hardworking and unassuming. Never looking or seeking recognition or applause for his good deeds.
81 ...not because is was requested of him- because he cared and was concerned for the safety of others. Another display of his kind-hearted personality comes to mind as I think of the beautiful rustic vases that enhanced the decor in my summer home. One summer, about 10 years ago I was looking for vases in which to hold flowers. I mentioned to Avrohom that I love the wood, country look. Without asking for pay or compensation, he drilled holes in some barks of a tree that he found in the woods. It took a lot of time, effort and hard work. Finding the right drill, a strong enough bit and muscle to accomplish this was not easy. Yet, he did it! And they are the prettiest vases that I own! I use them every summer and they bring me much joy. When I thanked him profusely and tried to give him some money, he refused. He was genuinely happy to make me happy. To him, bringing joy to others is his mission in life. It's what gives him the greatest sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. Wow! If only there were more like him. As evident from my relationship with Avrohom, it is clear that he is an authentically good person. The fact that he was involved in a vehicular homicide accident is an unfortunate tragedy. It is pathetically sad. However, Avrohom remains an upstanding, honest and well respected member of his family, community and neighborhood. He is loved by all those who know him. It is my utmost hope and wish, that my testimony to Avrohom's good character and noble deeds will weigh heavily in convincing the honorable Judge that a jail sentence is an undeserving and unfitting punishment for Avrohom. I also hope and pray for the day where Avrohom will be dismissed of all charges so he can once again walk the streets- a free man. Thank you for your time and attention. Sincerely, Goldie Horowitz
82 We have always been duly impressed with his soft-spoken maturity and thoughtfulness 6555 W. MAPLE ROAD TELEPHONE FAX WEB SITE WEST BLOOMFIELD, MI 48322 248.592.2687 248.592.2688 www.jewishhospice.org Adding the Jewish Component to Hospice Care • Palliative Care • Hospice Care BOARD OF DIRECTORS Zina Kramer President Robert Nusbaum Vice President David Techner Founding President Mitchell Bleznak Dana Burnstein Cathy Deutchman Howard J. Gourwitz Nancy Grosfeld Martin Laker Susan Lewis Spencer Partrich Steven Schanes Mickey Shapiro Rabbi Levi Shemtov Lisa Shiffman Steven Weisberg Larry Wolfe Alan Zekelman ADMINISTRATION Rabbi Joseph H. Krakoff CEO Rabbi E.B. Freedman Founder September 11, 2023 Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My wife, family and I have known Avrohom Pam for more than 10 years. He visited our home in Detroit on a high school trip to Michigan a few years back and we in turn, visited him at his home a number of times in Lakewood, New Jersey. We have always noted that he was very bright with an inquisitive and intellectually curious head on his shoulders. As a young boy in high school, we watched him grow up and observed his work ethic and his enthusiasm for building his now formidable skills. We have always been duly impressed with his soft-spoken maturity and thoughtfulness. We cannot weigh in on his conviction. We don’t profess to know all the details of the accident he was involved in, nor any of the legalities of the case. We do feel that a young man of his nature would benefit society in so many ways if he is given some kind of alternative sentence that would avoid imprisonment or at least an abbreviated sentence. I’m sure his productive nature can be channeled into something useful that will hold him to a higher moral standard of greater responsibility and social obligation. If you have any questions feel free to contact me on my cell 248-613-8846. With deep respect for your honor, Rabbi E.B. Freedman on behalf of the Freedman family 6555 W. MAPLE ROAD TELEPHONE FAX WEB SITE WEST BLOOMFIELD, MI 48322 248.592.2687 248.592.2688 www.jewishhospice.org Adding the Jewish Component to Hospice Care • Palliative Care • Hospice Care BOARD OF DIRECTORS Zina Kramer President Robert Nusbaum Vice President David Techner Founding President Mitchell Bleznak Dana Burnstein Cathy Deutchman Howard J. Gourwitz Nancy Grosfeld Martin Laker Susan Lewis Spencer Partrich Steven Schanes Mickey Shapiro Rabbi Levi Shemtov Lisa Shiffman Steven Weisberg Larry Wolfe Alan Zekelman ADMINISTRATION Rabbi Joseph H. Krakoff CEO Rabbi E.B. Freedman Founder September 11, 2023 Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My wife, family and I have known Avrohom Pam for more than 10 years. He visited our home in Detroit on a high school trip to Michigan a few years back and we in turn, visited him at his home a number of times in Lakewood, New Jersey. We have always noted that he was very bright with an inquisitive and intellectually curious head on his shoulders. As a young boy in high school, we watched him grow up and observed his work ethic and his enthusiasm for building his now formidable skills. We have always been duly impressed with his soft-spoken maturity and thoughtfulness. We cannot weigh in on his conviction. We don’t profess to know all the details of the accident he was involved in, nor any of the legalities of the case. We do feel that a young man of his nature would benefit society in so many ways if he is given some kind of alternative sentence that would avoid imprisonment or at least an abbreviated sentence. I’m sure his productive nature can be channeled into something useful that will hold him to a higher moral standard of greater responsibility and social obligation. If you have any questions feel free to contact me on my cell 248-613-8846. With deep respect for your honor, Rabbi E.B. Freedman on behalf of the Freedman family
83 Avrohom is always respectful
84 …and gets along with everyone he meets To The Honorable Judge Palmer, We have known Avrohom Pam for many years now. He was friends with my son in Elementary school and we have watched him grow up within the community. Recently, he has helped us numerous times with his HVAC business. Avrohom is a reliable and trustworthy worker and is excellent at diagnosing and solving our HVAC issues. He is respectful, hard-working, and someone who makes himself available to help when he can. We have called him at all hours to help us when we were in a bind, and he showed up with his trademark smile to help solve the issue. Additionally, we spend our summers upstate with Avrohom’s family. Avrohom will often come up for the weekend with some friends and we are able to see him interact with others. He is very well-liked, has many friends, and gets along with everyone he meets. His father works with my husband and is known to be a stellar educator and role model for the other teachers. His mother is a warm and nurturing educator as well and they have raised a beautiful family who give back to the community in whatever way they can. A much more appropriate discipline measure for Avraham would be some form of community service and/or probation. This would allow him to live at home in a safe and morally secure environment. Avraham has suffered enough through this entire ordeal, and it appears as though sitting in jail would not do much for him in terms of rehabilitating him. He would be exposed to different elements of society that would not benefit him morally. A tragic accident occurred, and we don’t want to slaughter another life on the altar of justice. With much appreciation for your time and concern, Sarah M. Neuman M.A., CCC-SLP 848-525-4932
85 He said, “Why should the workers sit in the heat when I can get it done on the weekend?” 9/6/2023 To the Honorable Judge Palmer Re: Avrohom Pam I have known Avrohom Pam for a number of years as a member of the community. His pleasant demeanor and positive outlook are really an example for those around him. He is well liked and a stalwart participant in all civic activities. Twice our company needed a HVAC technician to service our business and it was hard to find someone who was available and able to complete the job on time. I tried our usual service companies and they were not able to make time for us. Someone suggested that I try asking Avroham Pam who is very capable in doing the repair. Avroham responded in a courteous and professional manner, searching for and finding the specialized replacement motor, making sure that he could attend to our need after regular hours. He went above and beyond due to his consideration of others, making sure that our seventy employees were not left without cooling in the hot summer. He also did another HVAC job for us a few weeks later, proactively repairing one of our condenser units during a rainstorm since it was a Sunday and he felt it was easier than leaving the power off during business hours. He said “why should the workers sit in the heat when I can get it done for them on the weekend”. In addition, Avrohom always speaks in a courteous manner with great respect and consideration. It is with a heavy heart that I write this letter as I feel that he is the victim of circumstances and NOT one that acted in an irresponsible way. Overall he is a caring and considerate person with a good nature and attentive to all those around him. Please contact me at 732-662-6393 if I can provide any additional information. Yours, Eli Fisher, VP Unbeatablesale.com
86 He is responsible, reliable and honest September 1, 2023 To Honorable Judge Palmer , Eta Kaufman Eta Kaufman KAUFMAN 106 SPRUCE ST LAKEWOOD NJ Thank you for taking the time to read my letter and hear about Avrohom Pam. I am a 48 year old woman who has been neighbors with Avrohom since he’s born. I have dealt with him as a neighbor , an employer. I know him personally and professionally . My family and I have also been the lucky recepients of his volunteer work and kind heart. Anybody that knows Avrohom Pam can attest to his super fine character. He is an honest , hard working young man who is the first to help out with anything needed. We have hired him to fix our heating and cooling systems many times. He is responsible , reliable and honest. (He also has been able to fix units that nobody else could ). Avrohom Pam is the first one to volunteer his expertise and help for anyone who needs. He is an integral part of our neighborhood and our community. He is hardworking and persistent. He is an example for everyone around him. How many young people nowadays are working full day shifts while putting themselves through school to further their education? There are elderly people and handicapped people who rely on Avrohom Pam DAILY for his assistance. If theres one person you can bring along when stranded on an island (besides your loved ones) you would want Avrohom Pam. As a law abiding citizen, mother and grandomother , I strongly feel that Avrohom Pam would have not benefit going to prison. He comes from a warm, loving upright family and community. He has never been exposed to drugs and immoral behavior that is going on in the world. His home does not even have a television. Mistakes happen, people sometimes use poor judgement. This is the FIRST offense in the innocent life of a 21 year old! I I beg you from the bottom of my heart and for the benefit of my family, neighborhood and community- allow Avrohom Pam to learn his lesson and repent by continuing his good work and doing community service. Lets not expose him to people serving crimes that he never heard of. Respectfully Yours , Thank you for taking the time to read my letter and hear about Avrohom Pam. I am a 48 year old woman who has been neighbors with Avrohom since he's born. I have dealt with him as a neighbor, an employer. I know him personally and professionally. My family and I have also been the lucky recipients of his volunteer work and kind heart. Anybody that knows Avrohom Pam can attest to his super fine character. He is an honest, hardworking young man who is the first to help out with anything needed. We have hired him to fix our heating and cooling systems many times. He is responsible, reliable and honest. (He also has been able to fix units that nobody else could). Avrohom Pam is the first one to volunteer his expertise and help for Anyone who needs. He is an integral part of our neighborhood and our community. He is hardworking and persistent. He is an example for everyone around him. How many young people nowadays are working full day shifts while putting themselves through school to further their education? There are elderly people and handicapped people who rely on Avrohom Pam DAILY for his assistance. If there's one person you can bring along when stranded on an island (besides your loved ones) you would want Avrohom Pam. As a law abiding citizen, mother and grandmother, I strongly feel that Avrohom Pam would have not benefit going to prison. He comes from a warm, loving upright family and community. He has never been exposed to drugs and immoral behavior that is going on in the world. His home does not even have a television. Mistakes happen, people sometimes use poor judgment. This is the FIRST offense in the innocent life of a 21 year old! I beg you from the bottom of my heart and for the benefit of my family, neighborhood and community- allow Avrohom Pam to learn his lesson and repent by continuing his good work and doing community service. Let's not expose him to people serving crimes that he never heard of. To Honorable Judge Palmer, Respectfully Yours,
87 …he has always taken the responsible role of BIG Brother To the Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Nechama Zucker and I have been a neighbor and friend of the Pam Family for the past 25 years. I rejoiced with the Pams at all their happy events and witnessed their strength and resilience on other occasions in their life. Avrohom Pam has always had a strong place in the family. As the oldest son, following a multihandicapped daughter, he has always taken the responsible role of Big Brother. He is extremely talented and capable and uses his strengths to help family and neighbors alike. I have watched him schlep tables and chairs to accommodate family gatherings, always with a smile and a creative way of getting things done. He is the one who will be sitting center at the Head Table and also the one who will stay as late as needed until the place is cleaned up and back in order. Avrohom was born to lead and produce. He loves learning new things and figuring out how to do things in a more productive and efficient manner. He is a tremendous asset at his job and put many hours into his schooling to further his career. It is rare to find a young adult, these days, who has the work ethic that he possesses. He uses his knowledge and expertise to help out family and neighbors as well as doing volunteer work for many Schools and Synagogues.. When my Air Conditioner was on the blink I called a proper service to repair it. Avrohom noticed the truck at my home and mentioned to his mother that he felt bad that I had to pay so much for a service when he could have helped me out as a friend. The unfortunate circumstances that led to Avrohom Pam facing jail time is just that, devastating and unfortunate. Avrohom, with no prior criminal record or history of any substance abuse, Avrohom, who always is the first to help out anyone in hard times, now finds himself involved in such a tragic story. Tragic on all ends. My heart goes out to the victim's family but my heart goes out as well to another potential victim of this terrible story. Avrohom is so productively involved in his family, community, and work that it would be truly tragic and counterproductive for him to be locked up in jail. For him to be exposed to elements of society which as of now are foreign to him and the long-term emotional effects of a long prison sentence will serve no purpose and be damaging to his well-being. Avrohom is not a threat to society in any way and community service and probation is a punishment that makes much more sense as it will only benefit everyone in the long run. Community Service and helping others is something Avrohom has been doing since he was a child. Let all the good he has done for us as a community stand for him now in his time of need. We need to help people learn from and become better from their experiences and I believe that Avrohom has proven that he will only be an asset the quicker he is allowed to rejoin society as a free man. Sincerely, Nechama Zucker 848-525-7184
88 I have a high regard for his integrity and honesty HIRSCH OELBAUM BRAM HANOVER & LISKER TEL: (212) 227-8034 CERTIFIED PUBLIC ACCOUNTANTS, PC FAX: (212) 227-8045 42 WEST 39TH STREET, 4TH FLOOR NEW YORK, NEW YORK 10018 To the Honorable Judge Palmer, We are the accounting firm that has assisted Avrohom Pam with his tax preparation. We have had multiple meetings to assist him with setting up his business and record keeping. Avrohom has demonstrated with his actions his understanding of his tax obligations and tax compliance. I personally have met with Avrohom and explained the recordkeeping requirements and his filing requirements. I found him to be a very pleasant person, with sterling character traits. In fact, he assisted me with moving a greenhouse on his pickup truck after Corona. I have a high regard for his integrity and honesty. I understand that he was involved in a serious auto accident that resulted in the loss of life. It is heartbreaking to the victim's family and is irreplaceable. May I suggest that he be given a sentence requiring community service, but not to be incarcerated in jail? This would help him develop into a responsible person as opposed to being exposed to the dregs of society. It can lead to the wrong exposure and have a negative effect on his sensitive character. We want the best for him and hope this lesson will help him to take responsibility for his actions. We all know that driving is a privilege that cannot be taken lightly. Sincerely, Eli Oelbaum, CPA
89 He does not hesitate to go out of the way to accommodate someone in need Abbi & Chani Hirsch 501 Spruce St Lakewood NJ 08701 To the Honorable Judge Palmer; We are writing to you on behalf of Avrohom Pam. Our family has been friends of the Pam family for more than 20 years. My wife and I are friends of Rabbi and Mrs. Pam, and we are the better for it. Our children are friends of the Pam children, and they are the better for it. Our neighbors live in the neighborhood with the Pam family, and we are all the better for it. Avraham is an embodiment of that wonderful family, and he is the better for it as well. We have known Avrohom Pam since he was a small child and have seen him grow and mature into the fine young man he is today. We understand he has been charged with a crime, but knowing his true and virtuous personality, we know in our hearts that the crime for which he is charged was a temporary lapse of judgment incongruous with his otherwise sterling character. That sterling character is on display every time we interact with him. We’ve interacted with Avrohom Pam both personally and professionally and he’s never displayed anything short of exemplary character traits. His demeanor is always polite, his speech soft. He does not hesitate to go out of his way to accommodate someone in need. He is hard-working, disciplined, and well-intentioned. We recall a time we found ourselves in desperate need of his services as an air conditioning technician. Our call to him was late one evening, after the first hot day of the season, any AC technician’s busiest day. As it was already evening on this very busy day, all the other technicians had already shut their phones, sending all calls to voice mail. Not only did Avraham take our call, but he responded affirmatively and said he would come just as soon as he can. He came close to midnight that same evening. The exact nature of our problem has faded from memory but his demeanor and helpfulness under those extraordinary circumstances remain with us. He is constantly striving to better himself both personally and professionally. He volunteers to work with kids with special needs in his spare time. He is going back to school in furtherance of his professional goals. His incarceration will be a loss both to himself and to the community in which he has come to be an integral part of. We ask you to give him the ability to atone for his mistake through community service and probation. We beg you to allow him to continue his personal growth outside of jail and the detrimental effect it will most certainly have on his faith, his psyche, and his place in the community. He is not a threat to society but an asset to us, our family, and all those who count on his sunny disposition to lift our spirits. We thank you for your kind consideration. Abbi and Chani Hirsch
90 Avrohom Pam possesses great qualities that shine in whichever environment he finds himself Meir Simcha Shechet 12 Bryant Dr Jackson NJ 08527 732-492-4868 Honorable Judge Palmer, For the past two and a half years, I have been attending night studies at the same location as Avrohom Pam, thereby becoming acquainted with him. I have also personally witnessed Avrohom Pam at multiple work sites. As soon as I met him, I was introduced to a wonderful, sweet and happy individual who is soft spoken and very calm. Avrohom Pam possesses great qualities that shine in whichever environment he finds himself. While at night class, he studies with his partner with sincerity and great devotion. He exerted much effort and completed a section of Talmud. A party was held to celebrate this tremendous accomplishment. At the event, Avrohom Pam was found greeting and thanking all those that participated in his accomplishment in a personable and refined manner. He is a person of stature who has made great strides in life and will continue to do so. On a professional level, he proves to be a hard-working and dedicated employee. His interaction with customers is highly commendable. While repairing the air conditioner unit at my parent’s house, Avrohom Pam took the time to patiently describe the problem with the unit, providing the customer with a sense of clarity as to what the issue was as well as the method of repair. He proved himself to be a pleasant and trustworthy employee whom my parents would happily hire again. On another occasion, while repairing the air conditioner at the school I study in, Avrohom Pam was extremely respectful of the studies going on around him, working diligently in a refined and quiet manner to get the AC back up and running. This unfortunate situation in which Avrohom Pam finds himself bears no correspondence to the person he truly is. Avrohom Pam poses no threat to society, quite the contrary. In a positive environment, Avrohom Pam can take his sterling character traits to further benefit society. Jail time will only expose him to behaviors and interactions with which he has never been exposed to before. Furthermore, as a practicing Jew, jail time will present challenges for him to remain true to his faith. The consequences of what has transpired have already penetrated and jail time will only add damaging future emotional effects. Community service and probation seems like a more fitting punishment as it will enable Avrohom Pam to prove his societal worth. In conclusion, I am beseeching you to take his positive attributes into consideration to protect and give him a chance at a successful future to benefit mankind. Thank you in advance for your time. Sincerely, Meir Simcha Shechet
91 He would treat paying jobs and just ‘volunteering jobs’ the same way
92 Avrohom sees his personal free time as the community’s time Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Dovi Portnoy, I am 21 years old and live in Toms River NJ. I am currently in Hebrew School overseas in Israel studying to become a Rabbi of Jewish law. I had the privilege of making an acquaintance with Avrohom about 5 years ago. An acquaintance that pretty quickly turned into a real intimate friendship. Right from the beginning I noticed a few traits in Avrohom that attracted me to develop a real relationship with him. With your permission, I would like to go through a few of those traits now. 1) Avrohom has a certain sensitivity to how those around him are feeling. He is hyper-aware of the current emotional and physical well-being of whoever he is around and he is always doing what he can do to make those around him feel happy, loved, and secure. Whenever I am having a tough day and look down he is the first to say “Dovi, what’s on your mind? How can I help” 2) Whenever I have some good news to tell Avrohom he is always 100% genuinely happy that I am happy. This trait is in my humble opinion incredibly rare to find in a person. In order to truly be full of joy with the happiness of your friend you must care about that person on an extremely high level. This trait is one that I am personally aiming to acquire from myself. Avrohom is my personal role model in this area. 3) Avrohom sees his personal free time as the community’s time. He works in heating and cooling and after work, he is running to people's houses who can’t necessarily afford to pay for service and fixing their appliances absolutely free of charge. We Jews observe the Sabbath, on Friday from sundown until Saturday at sundown we do not interact with anything of electricity, we don’t cook, shop, etc… I’m sure you can imagine how busy and stressful a Friday afternoon can be for a Jewish person with all of the preparations required. On Fridays after work until just moments before sundown Avrohom is going to stores and picking up food for those unfortunate families who cannot afford to buy food and dropping it off anonymously at their houses. He doesn’t get paid to do this. His view in life is that he is given time and money to be able to help out others in need. And therefore he is an agent of God always giving to others. His selflessness is to be jealous of. Dear Judge, for the above reasons I was desperate to form a friendship with Avrohom. And I am fortunate that he gladly accepted me with open arms and love. About 2 years ago there was a tragic, heartbreaking accident. My heart and prayers go out to the family of the deceased. But I know as one of Avrohom’s closest friends that the incident that happened was an absolute accident. I would like to end off with a blessing to all involved in this tragic accident. May God in his infinite love shower upon the Pam family, the family of the deceased, and anyone who is fortunate enough to have a relationship with either of these beautiful families an abundance of joy, health, and blessing. Amen! Dovi Portnoy [email protected]
93 Avrohom Pam has a unique heart the overflows with empathy and compassion for his family, friends and beyond Dear Honored Judge Palmer, My name is Yossi Sirota. I am studying in an advanced Academy in Israel, I am excelling in my studies and I am very happy. I have had the privilege of enjoying a close friendship with my dear and close friend, Avrohom Pam, for the past 20 years. He has, is, and always will be, someone who respects others, someone who cares for others, and, most importantly, someone who would give the shirt off his back for others! Three summers ago, when a mutual friend of ours was missing after going on a hike with a camp, Avrohom dropped everything he was doing, called me, and said, we have to go search for him. Avrohom Pam has a unique heart that overflows with empathy and compassion for his family, friends, and beyond! He has a wonderful charismatic personality, which makes him beloved and respected by all. Avrohom has sterling characteristic traits and he does no harm. Avrohom is a responsible driver and safety is his utmost concern. The situation he is in was a true accident and something like this could have happened to you or me as well. Please, Honorable Judge, the world needs more people like Avrohom Pam, someone who cares and gives to their community the way he does. He is good-hearted and is well-liked by me and all my friends. Please drop all charges. Sincerely, Yossi Sirota 929-380-2127
94 Yechiel Greenspan 113 Grasmere Road Bala Cynwyd, PA 19004 (610) 348-4379 [email protected] Honorable Judge Palmer Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Yechiel Greenspan. I am currently employed as a construction foreman for Platinum Developers and I have known Mr. Avrohom Pam for three years. I met Avrohom Pam on a job site, where he was working on the HVAC and I was working on construction. Avrohom was so nice to work with: he was happy to teach others what he knew on the job site and we became fast friends. Avrohom is a good friend with a big heart. Approximately two years ago, while driving after a snowstorm I got my truck stuck on a pile of snow. I knew that if I called Avrohom, he would drop what he was doing and come help me out. I was correct. Avrohom answered my call and came out right away to help shovel me out. That is just the kind of individual Avrohom is. All of our mutual friends feel the same way about Avrohom. He is always looking out for each of us, doing what he can to help out when needed. Avrohom not only helps his friends but his community as well. There is a community grocery store that also sells many prepared dishes and baked goods. When food is not sold the owners like to distribute it to needy people in the neighborhood. Avrohom spends his free time (and he gets his friends to help as well), packaging up and organizing distribution, so people experiencing hardships can have fresh, healthy, tasty food to feed their families. I have been so
95 Avrohom is a good friend with a big heart inspired by Avrohom’s selflessness to help others whom he does not even know, that I also joined the local food drive. The unfortunate accident that happened two years ago, is not a reflection of Avrohom’s true character. Avrohom is a responsible, respectful, caring person who is always looking out to help others. Avrohom is in school to become a licensed HVAC technician. He is not only a caring person, he is hardworking and responsible as well. Avrohom takes his schooling very seriously and even when our friends are getting together, if it is a school night, his classes always come first. Avrohom is an integral part of his family and community. He was never involved in substance abuse and has no prior criminal record. Avrohom is a central part of his family and helps take care of his sister with special needs. When I spend time with Avrohom and his family in the summertime I join him as he visits with neighbors and brings smiles and good feelings wherever he goes. Avrohom always made sure to associate with law-abiding, upstanding peers. Being in jail will expose him to behaviors and beliefs that he has not been exposed to in the past. It may be hard for him to retain his strong faith in a jail setting. Avrohom does not need to be rehabilitated in jail. He is not a threat to the community, he is an asset to the community. Avrohom’s family, neighbors, and extended community would be missing his warmth, care, happiness, and help if he were not there. Respectfully, Yechiel Greenspan
96 To the Honorable Judge Palmer As Jews around the world prepare for the holiday of Rosh Hashanah (the Jewish New Year) we pray and beseech God to grant us and our family a happy and healthy year. The age-old question comes to mind, we are asking God to judge us favorably but how do we have the audacity to do that? As everyone knows, a fair and impartial judge will base his ruling on the law and nothing else. So too, God should judge us based on our actions and nothing else. An answer that comes to mind is, we are not asking God to ignore our misdeeds. Rather, we are asking Him to decide our fate not just based on our past actions but also to take into account how we have changed since then and how we plan to conduct ourselves in the future. So too, I humbly ask the Honorable Judge to do the same in regard to my dear friend Avrohom Pam whom I’ve known for the past 5+ years. As a Judge, your job is to decide what consequences fit a crime, but I humbly request that you also take into account the type of person Avrohom Pam is today. He is somebody I have seen countless times when someone calls because their AC is broken, he’ll spend hours in the summer heat getting it up and running, and then when offered payment will flat-out refuse, knowing the person struggles financially. When I asked him how he could afford to work for free, he responded. “How can I afford to take somebody’s money that he needs to feed his family.” On top of the fact that he is in school and is a full-time employee, Avrohom has mentioned to me multiple times how he wishes to join the fire department to give back to the community he feels so honored to be a part of. A story that comes to mind is, at the time Avrohom was being held in Ocean County jail, his mother reached out to me and told me that Avrohom keeps on mentioning he is very bothered that he would not be able to participate in the yearly fundraiser that was being held for SCHI (School for Children with Hidden Intelligence). It shook me to my core that someone who is going through such a trying time in his life has his thoughts focused on how he can help a school that takes care of the less fortunate.
97 Now, that he doesn’t have a license, Avohom is a friend that anybody that gives him a ride to work, he insists on paying them for their service. This is after all the years, all his friends knew, that as long as he wasn’t working or volunteering delivering food, if you asked him for a ride he would be there faster than Uber. One might have thought that somebody as selfless as Avrohom, who was always available for anyone one in the community, would now let other people help him. But, when I told him this, his response was just another glimpse into his selflessness. He told me “I can look at it as they are just giving me a ride and then take the favor for free. Or, if they are enabling me to go to work we are both in essence doing my job, the driver to get me there and me to fix the AC. How can I take the money that two people worked for?” Now, having known the Pam family for 5+ years I can’t think of a more loving and kind family in which Avrohom will have the support system he needs. I am no judge, but I respectfully wonder how it would benefit Avrohom to be placed in jail where he will be bereft of the love and care of his family and the community that shares his faith. There is one other thing God takes into account on Rosh Hashanah when judging us. That is, if someone has made himself indispensable to the community, even if he deserves punishment, the individual will be spared for the community’s sake. So I humbly ask the Honorable Judge to take into account my description of Avrohom as an asset to his community, family, and friends. I can’t picture a world where we don’t have him available to help anybody who may need him with his constant smile and iconic laugh. Sincerely, Yosef Weinberg 848-224-2876 I can’t picture the world where we don’t have him available… with his constant smile and iconic laugh
98 Avrohom has always been a good friend. Loyal and easy to get along with. Mordichai Shapiro 732-547-7633 To the Honorable Judge Palmer, I Mordichai Shapiro have been a good friend to Avrohom Pam since I was 13 years old. We met the summer after 8th grade, at my aunt’s bungalow colony upstate. He was good with his hands and so was I, so we went around doing odd jobs and any small fix-it work the families needed. As I know Avraham since then he has always been a respectful and kind person. We worked together that summer and I know that the mothers were impressed with our work and our diligence. We met up again in High school where our friendship really grew. At that time he got very interested in HVAC and I was into electricity. We both attended a small school and got part-time jobs in those areas. As far as I know, he did very well. He was very helpful to his company and the clients they serviced. We graduated and he went on to work in HVAC and attending night school to learn the trade and get his degree and license. Avrohom has always been a good friend. Loyal and easy to get along with. He has never shown me or anyone in our group, anger or any sort of aggression. He is calm and collected, answers all adults with respect and I am sure all his coworkers and clients have only the best things to say about his personality. This whole case came as a big shock to me and all of our mutual friends. If he was found guilty it was a one-time thing that not any of his friends could even believe he did! Many people don’t know this but because I was helping him out with work,( I driving him to different jobs) I am privy to his caring nature. More than once we went to help out a family that needed their air conditioning fixed. I noticed they didn’t pay him. I would remind him back in the truck that they didn’t pay and he would explain that he wasn’t going to actually charge them because he knows for a fact they can’t afford it. Another time our Yeshiva (religious institution for the study of Torah) was in need to move into their dorm for the new school year. They couldn’t get permits because the building needed a lot of work. Avraham spent three days and nights free of charge and totally dedicated himself to fixing it up alone! The yeshiva moved in shortly afterward. Recently he knew I was in need of a job so he said until you get something solid. Drive me around and I will pay you. Being that Avrohom doesn’t dive, I drive him around a lot. He ALWAYS shows his appreciation. Avrohom Pam is a wonderful person. In every way. He is kind, hardworking, a good friend, and generous with people he knows and even those he doesn’t know. He is known to all of his friends and someone who wouldn’t ever hurt a person. Let alone cause a tragedy. We are shocked and upset about the news regarding his inditement. He deserves a second chance! Thank you, Mordichai Shapiro
99 His commitment to doing what’s right and being disciplined is admirable and unquestionable Aryeh Kaplan 120 14th st Lakewood NJ 08701 9/11/23 Dear Judge, I hope this letter finds you in good health. I am writing to provide a character reference for Mr. Avrohom Pam, who is scheduled to appear before your court for sentencing. I have known Mr. Pam for several years and feel compelled to share my perspective on his character and the circumstances surrounding his case. I have been a close friend of Mr. Pam for seven years, and during this time, I have had the opportunity to witness his character and actions up close. First and foremost, I want to emphasize that Mr. Pam possesses exceptional character traits. He is a person of unwavering honesty, integrity, and selflessness. His commitment to doing what's right and being disciplined is admirable and unquestionable. Let me share a specific incident that shows Mr. Pam's selflessness. A few years ago, we helped a client with a broken air conditioner, knowing they couldn't afford the repair. Mr. Pam decided not to charge them for the service, and their gratitude was evident. This selfless act left a lasting impression on me. Furthermore, Mr. Pam is actively involved in our community and consistently devotes his time to helping others. He volunteers regularly, especially during Jewish holidays, at a local food distribution center that helps people in need (Tomchei Shabbos of Lakewood), where he fixes refrigerators and freezers for free. He has shown a genuine commitment to "paying it forward" and contributing to causes that help those in need. Regarding his current situation, I strongly believe that jail time is not the right choice. Mr. Pam's character is fundamentally good, and this unfortunate incident is unusual and doesn't reflect his true self. Putting him in jail could expose him to harmful influences and harm his emotional wellbeing. Instead, I respectfully suggest that community service, probation, or an opportunity to continue his education would be more appropriate and beneficial for both Mr. Pam and society. These options will allow him to make amends, grow as a person, and ultimately contribute positively to our community. In conclusion, I wholeheartedly support Mr. Avrohom Pam and believe in his ability to grow and improve. I kindly request your consideration of the information in this letter when making your sentencing decision. Thank you for your time and understanding in this matter. Sincerely, Aryeh Kaplan 848-245-6672
100 Yehoshua Barkin 24 13th Street Lakewood, NJ 08701 (848) 238 5053 [email protected] Honorable Judge Palmer Dear Honorable Judge Palmer, My name is Yehoshua Barkin. I currently work as a welder, building railings and other metal products. I have known Mr. Avrohom Pam for about five years now. I first met him on a weekend getaway with a few other friends. As soon as I saw his warmth and happiness, I knew he was someone I wanted to be able to call a friend. I was fortunate to get to know him very well over the years. Avrohom is an amazing friend with a heart of gold. Earlier this year, I had an accident and was taken to the emergency room. As soon as Avrohom heard the news he stopped what he was doing and came to sit by my side. He is someone that always puts others first no matter what it takes. He is an integral part of our friend group. He is someone who not only cares tremendously for his friends and family, but everyone around him. Whether it's a neighbor or a community member he may not even know, he is always looking for a way to help others. He will do whatever it takes to make sure those around him have what they need. Over the years I've seen him take on countless acts of kindness for those around him. He is very involved with a mass food distribution program in the community called Tomchei Shabbos. The organization prepares thousands of gourmet meals every week for the less fortunate. Avrohom is always willing to lend a hand at any hour to make sure those around him have food to put on the table. Being around