Morah

Morah

What is love? I've read the article. If we use the glasses of an
anthropologist to look at love, you will find that there are many
interesting aspects.
This lustful love is what binds sexual feelings and desires
together into a strong love, breaks the rules and is accurate,
bold, and has a greater dimension of 'enchantment' than any
other form of love.
Walking hand in hand, hugging, long and sweet kisses. Writing
letters to each other on days that are far apart or surprise loved
ones in various ways. This kind of love is about taking the story
of 'two people' into their own story, not stuck in the social
framework. It is a universal love that everyone has ever had.

“I love you.” many times we hear these words from the mouths
of lovers.

Romantic love life is sweet. This kind of love looks beyond the
relationship of two people. Because it is to look for advantages
and disadvantages, disadvantages and shortcomings of the
other party. Recognizing and understanding each other's
habits.

“According to Greek mythology, humans were created with four
arms, four legs, and ahead with two faces. Fearing their power,
Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to
spend their lives in search of their other halves.” Plato

“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”
Aristotle

“There is always some madness in love. But there is also
always some reason in madness.” Friedrich Nietzsche

“Love is an ideal thing, marriage a real thing.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

And in your opinion, How long we can be with someone?
somebody says, two months, one year, three years, six years, a
lifetime, or it depends on each person's patience. As for me,
I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now.
My name is Morah. I’m a teacher. Working life is like a normal
salaryman. There were joys and sorrows until one day as I was
on my way home.

Recently, Kanin and I don't have much time for each other
because we were busy. We argued almost every day. But every
time we argued We'll sit in the bedroom with our backs facing
each other. We refuse to face each other. The quarrel was only
a small matter. It has accumulated over many years, like
yesterday.

“Morah, where did you put my shirt?”
“I hung it in front of the wardrobe!! Why didn't you find it!!”
“If you look for it, you can find it, not asking for everything
from me.”
"I'm sorry, I was in a hurry so I didn't notice."

we argued again, I was silent and didn't reply to him. Most of
the time, when arguing, he'll apologize first if he's wrong. But I
cook what he likes instead of saying sorry. I drove about 10
minutes to get home. It's 6:00 p.m. Kanin usually arrives at
home, but why is the house quiet like no one else?

I walked into the house with my belongings and turned on
the light.

“Honey, where are you?”
"Honey!! Can you hear me?”

I called out to him, but there was no response. So I have
already packed and called him but he's not answering. I sit in
the living room. My feelings are pretty bad right now. He never
came home late, no matter how hard we argued.

Where did he go, what is he doing and when will he be back?
Should I go cook now?

I don't know how long I've been sitting in the living room. As I
sat there, the lights in the room went off and the TV turned on.
The projected image is Kanin sitting on the sofa, smiling.

“Hey honey, we don't have time for each other lately and we
argue a lot.”

I just noticed that in the living room or even the kitchen there
are red roses and on the TV there are red roses all around.

“We've been together for seven years. We've been through
a lot together. Do you think it's time for us to get married?”

The red rose is what Kanin uses to flirt with me and to give as a
present on our special days. It's my very favorite flower.
Because of its meaning, the crimson rose represents a deep
love that never fades from the heart.

“I am now ready to live with you forever. Are you ready? No
matter how much we fight or if bad things happen. I promise not
to let go of your hand.”

Newton's 3rd Law 'To move forward we must leave something
behind.
In my opinion, anyone can have a married life and some may
have a married life because of loneliness or for one reason or
another. Which is different from the word spouse.

A spouse is someone who will be with you for the rest of your
life, do not abandon each other, and intimate friend.

A spouse is people who accept each other, loves with heart, not
by external appearance such as wealth, beauty, and
handsome.

A spouse is someone ready to suffer, and happiness together.
The person who will never let go of the other hand when
problems come, the person standing next to us help solve
problems or always encourage each other.

“If you agree to marry me, please stand up.”

I stood up immediately after he had finished speaking. There's
no need for me to refuse. Everything that has passed is just the
color of life. After this, there must be more colors for us to learn.
So don't be afraid, there are still many things in this world that
we do not know.

The lights in the room turn on, Kanin walked in front of me
holding a red rose. Around us, there are family members who
stand and smile.

“Will you marry me?”
“Of course.”

He put a ring on me and we kissed. Everyone clapped their
hands in congratulations. After that, we ate together.

Today I am very happy, and I hope that after this there will be
only happiness in my life and my family.