Hai clash Si (Snake) that carry the energy of Bing fire (Direct Officer), Geng metal (Rob Wealth) and Wu earth (Direct Resource). Here the husband star (DO) is being push away which is not that good for woman but you can see men would have push RW away which is good for the Wife star (DW). This combination of Xin Hai is more suitable for man than woman due to the complication of spouse star. Attractive woman that seek attention is often hard to keep while the man know how to keep their woman occupied. Overall this combination is a rather bold person that want to be seen and found. Its a exploration boat that is full of treasure and if its not carefully manage will one day end up at the bottom of the sea becoming one of the many Odyssey. 壬申 REN SHEN, THE SUBMARINE How do you hide a large chunk of steel … submerge it in a large body of water. Ren Shen have the honor to be the ocean that hide all. Ren the mighty ocean water infuse with wisdom. They are smart individual, appear strong and vast. Like the ocean, their action is rather unpredictable but still seems purposeful. You have a natural trust and respect for his action and how he choose to get thing done. You have this natural fear that there is something unknown, just beyond the boundary of your understanding. Ren Sitting on Shen that brings along Geng (IR), Ren (Fr) and Wu (7K). The calm on the surface is a mere mirage to the current underneath. Indirect Resource (IR) bring 2 great advantage. First is the ability to know without learning, more commonly know as intuition. Second it represent the regeneration star which give vigor and life. They are individual that is very resilient, they can move into situation that is completely unknown an still expect to come out unscratched. Resource is also the traditional star of knowledge and when this couple with water being wisdom, this make them a rather smart individual that can gather and utilized data with ease. Flank by Ren the friend star, they do have the ability to merge into people life seamlessly. This ability to appear same same no difference to other, help them in their survival of the unknown. While on the other end, they carry the 7 Killing (7K) star along with them. The action star that make thing happen. Action will be taken once the condition is conducive. Shen attract Si in a combination bringing in Bing (IW), Wu (7K) and Geng (IR). They can see wealth, more importantly the potential of future opportunity. This help drive their survival instinct as there is still hopeful future ahead. Relationship is slightly better for the lady than men since 7K appear in both the pillar. The issue here is that both the partner star is of the opposite polarity which indicate instability. They are great and exiting lover but will come short of a proper home maker. Shen repel Yin in a clash pushing out Jia (EG), Bing (IW) and Wu (7K). The very thing that they attract is being repel, this make them rather ironic. Eating God (EG) the future creator and enjoyment and being push aside. 51
Even when future stare them in the eye, they come short in creating it. The earlier partner star of IW and 7K is now repel away, which again make them unstable in relationship. Overall this pillar carries many baggage. Brilliant on the outcast, rather heavy and mess up internally. What is given to them is also taken away. Their life is of many hit and miss which transform them to a very suspicious (secretive) lifestyle. Its hard to size them up and to chart their course. Like a submarine, once they submerge, you will not see their next attack coming from which direction until it is too late, of course. Like how you handle submarine, echo location need to be apply. Talk to them … they are usually very responsive people. Not the best talker, but they will give you an answer due to their heavy knowledge base, they are naturally willing to spill. REN CHEN 壬辰 , SOME MEN IS AN ISLAND Legend say that no man is an island … no one should be able to function alone but what if some men is an island and are able to function rather on their own. The Ren Chen pillar fortunately is able to move on without much consensus from other. Being an Island surrounded and separated by a large ocean, you would have no choice but to developed independent survival skill. Ren water is the representation of large body of water, being water they are clear of their direction which is to reach the ocean. Water is the only element that bypass their obstacle, as they will find way around what is blocking them. People of Ren element is very perceptive to their goal and they see obstacle as something to go around rather than going head on. Even if you try to wall them in, they will just wait for the crack to form under their enormous pressure and spring their great escape. Ren is seated on Chen (Dragon) which carry the main energy of 7 Killing (Wu Earth) with 2 sub Qi of Hurting Officer (Yi Wood) and Rob Wealth (Gui Water). There is high level of stress with all this aggressive energy being pent up. You have Water that nourish, Wood that sustain and Earth that stabilized, you actually have a good self-sustaining environment. Their action is their word since Hurting Officer is in-charge of being noisy and communicative, their communication can change like the cloud engage by the wind but their agree action being 7 Killing remain the same like the ever dependable mountain. Their method will change over time but their goal remain the same, once they are set to do something, the Rob Wealth (Yi Wood) ensure they remove all competition. Chen merge with You (Rooster) which carry a singular energy of Xin metal (Direct Resource). This star is neutral for both male/female in term of marriage. Resource represent knowledge and assistance. They will never be short of helpful people and helpful knowledge in their life. if you wish to be their partner you would naturally need to be very smart and independent as they are expecting you to run as fast as them, if you slip for some unforeseen reason, you will be left behind without reservation. 52
Chen push away Xu (Dog) which consist of Wu Earth (7 Killing), Ding Fire (Direct Wealth) and Xin Metal (Direct Resource). Here you can see the wife star (Direct Wealth) is being rejected. You would have already know that relationship is not something that the male counterpart will place importance in. They are too into the idea of getting thing done and the usual neediness of female will just get in the way. Here you have someone that is rather aggressive and will get to their goal with or without your assistance. First rule of engagement is not to stand in their way, you would need to build your goal along his path of destruction. They are superb at breaking through logger head situation. REN WU 壬午 RAGING EMOTION Love the scene in Lord of the Ring where the Elven call upon the power nature to wash away the pursuing wraith king. This is where pent up water start raging forward, nothing can really stand against it. REN water is frozen in winter and block by wood in spring, only during summer that it can move in glory … the race horse barrier open, crowd cheer and they bolt toward greatness. REN has an uncanny ability to gain stability, they seek balance … do good and good shall be repay, cross them … and you taught karma was bad. Water will always level itself up. Ocean is a representation of water that is how they encompass knowledge. They are great seeker of knowledge and through experience, they have a foothold in wisdom. Power accumulation is one of their secret game. The water may be calm on the surface, no one know what strong current lies beneath. When dealing with REN, better not to step in with both feet. When REN is seated on WU (Horse), it evoke the primary energy of Ding Fire (Direct Wealth) and supportive energy of Ji Earth (Direct Officer). This is a task master that is under pressure. REN dislike Ji earth, as soil impede the purity of water. REN has the tendency to get power drunk. Already naturally forceful and smart, what would happen when people surrender their power to a REN? Direct Wealth make them relentless toward their goal and they are not thinking clearly … havoc ensure as they can potentially lay waste to object in their path to the ocean. WU call in WEI (Goat) in a combination that carries Ji Earth (DO), Yi Wood (HO) and Ding Fire (DW). Its not that overly good for the female in relationship as HO is attracted into the equation which will disrupt their husband star the DO. It fair better with the mail counterpart with DW the Wife star being pull in. You will have a more communicative male as the YI put some filter in the troublesome JI. WU push away Zi (Rat) in a clash which repel Gui Water (RW). This is great for the male counterpart as RW is unable to disrupt DW the wife. This also means both the male and female are less subjected to any spendthrift activity. Competition is overall not their thing, they usually prefer to carry everyone along … where got competition? 53
This is a pillar that carries wealth and power in its proper form. They conform to most of all society rule which include study hard, earn your money, raise a family and contribute back to society. Position of power should be avoided as it does more damage to the surrounding that good in the long run. We did mention somewhere that water is emotional ? REN ZI 壬子 , FORCE OF NATURE Hurricane is a force of nature that know no fear. It will go where ever it want and will sweep up all that is in its path. There is no stopping it and no slowing it down, You can only get out of its way as fast as you can. Ren Zi is when 2 forces of water meet each other, giving intense emotion and creating wealth of knowledge. Ren water is the embodiment of wisdom. They have this ability to stay balance, where an eye is for an eye. They are smart but also emotional. Due to their fast ability to adjust themselves, they are often label as ruthless and often called cold. They have the ability to move on, no matter what is the obstacle ahead. Their ability to sweep everything around them along make them a rather good public figure often inspiring other to dance in their tune. Ren is seated on a Zi (rat) which carry a single energy of Gui water (Rob Wealth). The seamless interchange between Gui and Ren make other people confuse as they sometimes is on your side and at time against you. They often used their acute sense of emotion to move people around them. They accumulate masses of information and used them to plot the movement and course of everyone else. Relationship is rather bad for the male counterpart as they are seated on RobWealth which push the Direct Wealth (Wife star) away. They often ignored petty subject of love and go for the easy one as they know there are many for them to choose from. Lady are okay but may suffer just a little if they do not keep their emotion in check and may end up as a vengeful storm. Zi combine with Chou (Ox) which invite in the energy of Ji earth (DO), Gui water (Rob Wealth) and Xin metal (Direct Resource). This bode well with woman as DO the husband star come along and further aggravate the male as RobWealth further invade. Since Ji earth represent the beach, this also signified the storm landing on the beach where it will exert the most destruction on the locals. Zi clash with Wu (Horse) that bring along Ding fire (Direct Wealth) and Ji earth (Direct Officer) which spell trouble for both male and female as their spouse star is under attack. Basically the Ren water do not want to be tie down by other people and want to retain their freedom to roam around. They accumulate their power far out in the sea and come rushing in when they build enough power. Do not ever think that the quiet is weak and never disturb the gentle looking sea. REN YIN 壬寅 , JOY NATION Sunshine, vast sea and some sturdy coconut tree, this is how life should be. The open coastal front as most people would associate a fun and freedom time of their life. Have anyone mention that Typhoon and Tsunami 54
tend to land on those place too? Ren Yin is exactly this type of people, cover with joy and possibility but carry a larger danger that has been conceal. Ren water is the element of vast greatness. It cover the entire surface of earth and connect end to end with every other body of water. Since they make natural connector that have the ability to blend with people rather instantly. They are a super chameleon with the ability to instant blend in and be part of your life. They give you this eerie feeling of a long lost friend that you never know. The caveat is that they are hard to get rid off … you cannot really run away from the sea, even Noah tried to run with his boat … Ren is resided on Yin (Tiger) which has the main Qi of Jia Wood (Eating God) flank by the sub Qi of Bing fire (Indirect Wealth) and Wu earth (7 Killing). On its own the Yin branch is rather good with Wood giving progressive growth, Fire bringing the sunshine of happiness and Earth providing the stability of trust. It is when it is pair with Ren that thing get a little sinister. Jia wood being the enjoyment and artistic star of Eating god will project a scene of sophisticated serenity. This generally will disarm most people around them. Indirect wealth the opportunistic star will carry the agenda in plain sight scanning for the open window. 7 Killing is the ultimate goal of getting thing done and it fall on earth which is another abundant element we stand on. This pillar cover the land and the sea … unless you fly, there is no escape. Yin combine with Hai (Pig) that hold the energy of Ren water (Friend) and Jia wood (Eating God). Both this star is not involve with relationship star of husband/wife. Since the natural state only carry IW and 7K which is the girlfriend/boyfriend star, they are not into the long hull game. Much like the sunshine water front, you cannot be there 365.5 day of the year. Yin clashes with Shen (Monkey) which will remove Geng metal (Indirect Resource), Ren (Friend) and Wu earth (7K). So the lady would be a little more clean with their relationship as they are willing to go without it. The male counterpart would be a little more strategic with their love. Overall, approach with care as there is no free lunch from them. Please do not think that they are naturally evil but they are just much better at playing card when compare to most other people. Everyone need a summer vacation near the water front … overstaying the hospitality is your own fault. 壬戌 REN XU, HYDRO DAM A force of nature, under control. Ren Xu is akin the mighty river meeting its opponent the sturdy earth. Each not yielding, not losing their footing. We on the other hand has decided to harness this force by building turbine and generating electricity from it. Its an epic battle of 2 rival force. Ren the mighty element of movement, sweeping everything within its path. It gives life and it take life, often showing no mercy. As the representation of vast wisdom and deep knowledge. Ren people are often secretive on 55
the surface, calm and unassuming. Underneath, they could carry a current that is so strong that no one can escape its draft. XU the Dog, making Ren sit on its 7 Killing (Wu). A constant threat loom under the calm water of Ren. They display this constant drive and aggression toward getting things done. They seems to owe the world something that they have to delivered. They will try and try until success is finally theirs. Both Direct Wealth (Ding) and Direct Resource (Xin) flank the Xu package. They are down to earth and are very accustom to knowledge. This of course jive very well with Ren ultimate plan to break free, finding its way to escape the clutches of the controlling earth. Having both Wealth and Resource also means that they are not ever short of opportunity, either self discover or assisted by other. Xu (Dog) combine with Mao (Rabbit) welcoming Yi (Hurting Officer). In term of relationship, its rather sticky for female, less of an issue with male. They like to propose change and rock the boat with the current ruling status quo. Woman will often end up, voicing out their disapproval and this may actually jeopardize her relationship. Xu (Dog) clash with Chen (Dragon) which push Rob Wealth (Gui), 7 Killing (Wu) and Hurting Officer (Yi) away. When it has a plan to escape, as the same time it is also trying to lessen the impact by trying to be less aggressive. all the 3 rather aggressive star of RW, 7K and HO is not their preferred way. Hence this give the ultimate control of themselves. Overall its a tall order to control a force this strong but Ren Xu has manage to get the job done. They are focus and determine people that want greatness but are not willing to swipe everything with destruction. You may see them as a gentle placid individual but if the dam ever break, you may get to just taste their wrath. 癸酉 GUI YOU, POLISHED GEMSTONE Creation of perfection is a delicate process, no other do it better than your average Gui You. A drop of water and the slow process of discovering what is precious inside. With precision the craftsman produce something so precious and prized. The result is timeless admiration. Gui being the softest of all element is both mysterious and caring. Like the mist and the dew drop of the morning, it is able to grow other with its gentle caring nature. Soft and totally accommodating, all your guard and worry will be lower in front of them. The ability to change form and being totally sensitive to their surrounding environment, give them the added advantage of awareness. They can be there but yet not being there, like the passing cloud, you hardly notice they are there. 56
Sitting on You with a singular Xin (Indirect Resource) make them very unconventional learner. They basically learn by trying thing out. They will attempt all the weird and unapproved path in search of enlightenment. IR also represent one’s health and life force. This give them the “no die” attitude since they are almost always backup by an invisible hand assisting them out of unfavorable situation. Xin also provide them with this little perfection and detail oriented mind, couple with this tenacity to learn they made themselves into some rare and precious. You combine with Chen attracting Wu (DO), Gui (F) and Yi (EG). The Husband star (DO) is seen present and this garner well with the female Gui You. With a Friend star tagging along they are also blessed with confidence and support of their peer. The present of EG help with their creative and future looking attitude, this is also supporting their need of perfection. You clash with Mao repelling Yi (EG). Directly they lack the ability to actually enjoy themselves. They don’t seems to give themselves a break and again conflicting themselves. on one corner they would wish to be prefect but at the other end what ever come along goes along. Overall this a delicate sensitive soul that required some time to craft. They may look directionless most of the time but hide within is a very precious treasure the is waiting to be form into something magnificent. The entire pillar does not seems to attract or repel wealth, so you can already know wealth don’t drive them very far. To get to their heart, you need to take a friend approach. Gain their trust and admiration and they will go far for you. GUI MAO 癸卯 , PLANTER BOX. Plants grow when they are properly nurtured. Gui Mao is like the little plant farm where it will grow whatever seed that has been sow into the plot. With tender loving care, one can see their slow progress of growing and maturity. Some will be able to transfer the seedling into the actual environment where they will mature while other might just get destroy for a different plant to grow. Gui is the dewdrop of the morning dawn. Its an element that give live and further nurture it. They have this ability to stay on and linger like the mist even if the situation is unwelcome. You can kick and hit the mist but it will just temporary move away but will surely come back again. Gui is seated on a Mao (Rabbit) with a single energy of Yi Wood (Eating God). EG is the star of enjoyment and hence they are great at chilling out. The combination of Wood Eating God gives them an edge when it come to people interaction. They know how to get into people physiological need and lash on to it like a rope. Mao act as a peach blossom and further involve with the Zi-Mao uncivilized punishment which make them susceptible and rather popular with sexual related scandal. Mao will attract the energy of Xu (Dog) that hold Wu earth (Direct Officer), Ding fire (Indirect Wealth) and Xin metal (Indirect Resource). For the woman the husband star Direct Officer is a welcome element while the men only want temporary attachment with the present of Indirect Wealth Star. 57
Mao will be attack by You (Rooster) that carry the energy of Xin metal (Indirect Resource). Here its neutral to relationship but carry crucial role in controlling Hurting Officer which cause trouble to female relationship. The pillar is much more favorable for a female as its a nurturing role that it represent. With a strong connecting to DO and control over HO, female gain a better chance to continue their relationship. They don’t have much requirement apart from wanting to be taken care of. Although, they are easily exploited from their weak outlook but they are capable of manipulating other to do their bidding. GUI SI 癸巳 , BREWING COFFEE Among all the coffee brewing process a Vacuum/Siphon brewing is the most elaborated. It involve boiling water and having the steam pressure push the heated water up to the coffee chamber and later removing the fire and letting the cooling process allowing the brewed coffee to fill back up the bottom chamber. The challenge is to get a clear brew. Gui Si is like the elaborated process trying to make heated steam do something. Gui are water droplets or the morning dew. They are often formless and cannot be control. Without good direction they disperse too easily, even under gentle gush of wind. Gui is famous for having an un-opinionated mind and a local crowd pleaser. They generally will go away from pressure and end up in more relax situation. In the first sign of trouble, you will often seen them scatter and move to safety. Gui is seated on Si (Snake) that carry the main energy of Bing fire and 2 sub energy of Wu earth and Geng metal. Being seated directly on the Wealth star (Bing fire), this make them one of the more hardworking combination. They are usually very generous with their effort that they will gladly take in other people busy. This actually put them in the motion as pressure builds. As Direct Wealth (DW) represent the Wife star in the male chart, Gui Si is one of the more responsible husband among the 60 pillars. The sub Qi of Geng metal translate into Direct Resource. Resource cover noble helper and they usually bring with them valuable knowledge. Gui Si is smart with practical knowledge as metal deal with actionable item. While Wu earth translate into Direct Officer, This star give them a certain respected control over law and order. for the female, this is also their husband star. Direct Wealth, Direct Officer and Direct Resource is part of the 3 noble star which form the Wealth, Officer & Seal structure that bring extreme nobility. Generally they will only be involve in proper conduct and will not be entangle in shabby situation. Success is generally easier for them as people will be more likely accept them and assist them in their life. Si will form a clash relationship with Hai (Pig) which carry the energy of Rob Wealth (Ren water) and Hurting Officer (Jia wood). Both of these are relationship counter star to male (RW) and Female (HO). Hence the individual will often avoid confrontation and seldom will go against the society ruling. They are very law abiding and socially adapted individual 58
Si will combine with Shen (Monkey) which carry the energy of Direct Resource (Geng metal), Direct Officer (Wu earth) and Rob Wealth (Ren water). Here you will see that the male will still attract some relationship issue with the Rob Wealth star but would likely keep it under the wrap as both Earth and Metal control and drain water. With the attraction of Direct Officer (husband), female is generally more sought after and finding a mate is rather easy and its usually well assisted in the process. Gui Si has a highly noble configuration and are more than willing to be under pressure. With proper guidance and ruling they acquired necessary knowledge in their life and progress to ward their destination like a pressured steam. Like the steam, it need to be guided, if left unchecked it will just disperse into the atmosphere and never to be found again. GUI WEI 癸未 , SWAMP OF LIFE A place that is often misunderstood as dangerous, creepy and dark. Swamp hold many life surprises under the mud and clogged water. Many people has since know how to drain the swamp and to obtain additional productive land for used. Gui Wei happen to bu one of such pillar that hold treasure within them, Yin Water sitting on Yin Earth making them rather emotionally attache to things. Gui Water is the most Yin of the 10 elements. They are associated with sensual emotion and have the sensitivity of the cloud that detect change of wind direction and reacted immediately. They are often people that lack own identity and try to assume their surrounding mood. You will often find them unpredictable and even unreasonable. They do have a very nurturing and gentle nature within them that can be rather over caring toward certain circumstances. They are exceptionally good with taking care of the young, which make them a rather good mother candidate and even a better child educator. Wei (Goat) bring in 3 elemental energy namely Ji Earth (7K), Ding Fire (IW) and Yi Wood (EG). By sitting on 7K as the main Qi, one does not assume that this gentle water is no aggressive. Much like the swamp, they are very dangerous people if push/explored wrongly. Water and sand often create the unassuming quicksand, one wrong step and you may not come out at all. People of this pillar are often very daring and open to challenge, much like storm cloud that carry the hurricane, they come to wash thing away. Indirect Wealth (IW) provided them with the foresight of opportunity. They have the patience to wait for the right opportunity. This is what make them such good caretaker of the young, they look beyond the child current situation (Naughty cheeky little roach) and place confidence into their future. The crucial element that keep the storm at sea happen to be the Eating God (EG). EG provide control to the raging 7K, they are able to internalized their aggressive nature creating scenario in their mind, weighing the consequence of their action. Relationship is not so good for both male and female having 7K (boyfriend) and IW (girldfriend) in the natural state. Gui water is feeling uncomfortable with the very idea of being steady. Wei form combination with Wu (Horse) which attract further Indirect Wealth (Ding Fire) and 7 Killing (Ji Earth). This just compound the entire 59
situation of wanting to be rather free. On the side note, this does make them rather good girlfriend since they are not looking for permanent status ? (guys be responsible, OK !) Wei clash with Chou (Ox) that repel 7K (Ji Earth), Friend (Gui Water) and Indirect Resource (Xin Metal). This make female a little more conflicting as they are trying to also avoid the boyfriend status all together. By rejecting Friends and Resource, it also indicate that they do not want help and support and want to go at it on their own. Overall, we do have a sensual person here that would rather keep all the aggressive rage inside of themselves. They are caring enough to bare the burden and ensure people around them are not hurt. This in-turn would hurt themselves if they do not find a channel to unleash those feeling and love. Often you will see them as good wri ter (EG) with imaginative foresight (IW) talking about life practical thing (7K). GUI CHOU 癸丑 , A SWEET SURPRISE Ice cream chocolate lava cake, it answer all your question. Indulgence can be a godsend to many but overly indulging can have its drawback. The combination can be unassuming and look harmless enough but we all know the amount of sugar in the above combination can cause some nasty health issue over the year. Gui Chou is good in moderation as well. Gui is the element of gentle nurturing water, like the morning dew landing on the tree leaf. Its caring and nurturing nature is often call upon to handle matter of emotion. It has the ability to avoid personal damage as its sensitive toward other people emotion and are able to move away when needed. They are often noted to be carefree where they come as they please and leave unapologetic. Gui is seated on Chou (Ox) which carry the main energy of Ji earth (7 Killing) and sub Qi of Xin metal (Indirect Resource) and Gui water (Friend). They have an overly sensitive disposition on friend around them due to the Xin metal bolstering the water. at the same time the Ji earth try to absorb the emotion (emotion) which cause them to lose their original ability to walk away. They become rather intense in trying to solve other people problem. Relationship is bearable if you are not too concern of his friend dependancy as he can bolt out to attend to their friend at moment notice. The appearance of 7K also suggest a more aggressive and surprise front of them. As longs you are okay with them being hero to their buddy it is usually stable to be their mate. Its a little difficult for female partner as 7K represent boyfriend (guys can get equally jealous) Chou combine with Zi (Rat) which carry the energy of Gui water (Friend). For female, friend star is actually more damaging for their relationship as friend star can potentially combine with their husband star while for man it can weaken the wife star as well. Overall the person is more concern of their buddy and associate. There 60
is a degree of management required to remain their partner as you need to constantly share them with other “stranger” that they call friend. Chou clash with Wei (Goat) which has the energy of Ji earth (7 Killing), Ding fire (Indirect Wealth) and Yi wood (Eating God). Since everyone is their buddy, they have little need for boy/girl friend. Sound good but its much more complicated as their line blur and they are more than happy to please their friends, everything is on the table (include casual sex) Overall they are not the standard lover but an adept social butterfly that fiercely defend their friend. It is overall great to be their friend but headache to be their partner. Other just have to worry about the having other boyfriend/girlfriend but you would have to worry and share with his many friends. Everyone love the chocolate lava you are having … GUI HAI 癸亥 , TYPHOON TEMPEST Droplets of water that is so weak in its natural state. Once the environment permit it raise into a force to be recon with. None stands in its way or you will be remove without mercy or hesitation. Gui Hai is much like the miles manner Clark Kent, quite and unassuming. Once condition is met they transform into something of the polar opposite with wondrous power to thing ahead. Best not to stand in their path. Gui water the gentle element among the 10. They are the nurturer being like the mildew to the young tree, forever there slowly providing and ensuring growth. The sensitive element is emphatic to feel your feeling and make adjustment to themselves. Like the cloud guided by the wind, a slight change in direction will reshape the cloud. They come into your life quietly and will leave you without a trace. They are a true believer of come with nothing and shall leave with nothing. Gui is seated on Hai (Pig) which carry the Qi of Ren water (Rob Wealth) and Jia wood (Hurting Officer). Both these are aggressive energy especially Jia being the progressive element, it tend to escalate. RW give them the ability to compete and take from other while HO bestow them with the need to go against establish rule and regulation. For if change is not happening, then they shall take change into their own hand. Much like how typhoon come to clear its path so that the old can be remove and the new can be rebuild. For relationship purpose, Gui is a natural giver and they have the ability to walk away. When this link with the 2 hell bringer of relationship twin HO and RW, this spell disaster to those that seek traditional relationship with them. HO push away the Husband star while RW deal away the Wife star. In their life relationship is totally optional as they have a larger purpose in life which is to change the current undesirable environment. They are critical and competitive with their partner and demand that they keep up with their pace. Unless you are now of those storm chaser else you are in for quite a surprise as to how his/her heart change in a rapid pace. Hai combine with Yin (Tiger) which bring the gift of Jia wood (Hurting Officer), Wu earth (Direct Officer) and Bing fire (Direct Wealth). Direct Wealth is the star of Wife for male while Direct Officer is the star of Husband 61
for female. Here you can see that they do want to have a relationship but situation often force them to choose between big picture or relationship. Its more difficult for female as the combination also brings the Hurting Officer along for the ride which will destabilised the bond between Direct Officer. Hai clash with Si (Snake) which carry the Qi of Bing fire (Direct Wealth), Wu earth (Direct Officer) and Geng metal (Direct Resource). We can see the pushing away of again the Husband (DW) and Wife (DO) star. Not wanting to be tied down and now with the additional pushing away of the resource star, they don’t even want your assistance. My business remain exclusively my business. Its a total challenge following a Gui Hai pace and its even more challenging when you are trying to be their lover. Your normal privilege is being taken away and most of the time you are being toss away. They key to be with them (around) them is to stand aside when the storm surge and come back when it end. In war … this is aerial bombardment. you go in and do the cleanup after the dust has subside. No-one crazy would go and stop a bomb in mid air. 62