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”BLACK OPAL” Magazine showcases “RAW GEMS”
from around the world & their “RARE BEAUTY”

& “REAL STORIES” & . . .

The “&” stands for “EVERYTHING” that this unique magazine will cover! This magazine is
exactly what founder & Owner Queen Lea’ Gardner believes in & has made it not just her
purpose & plight but has built her brand & business around it with her non profit “Queen
Of Queens Productions, Modeling & Management.” Our name has become synonymous in
helping models/artist/dancers/others in all industries in helping ALL individuals of all
sizes, ages, sexual orientation, skin disorders, disabilities & more who have inspirational
stories, promotes beauty of ALL types as well as fashion, events & more helping train mod-
els, providing modeling opportunities in shows like NYFW & all over the world & more!
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RO’S “TRENDSETTERS” & REAL PEOPLE from around the world! We do our best to ensure
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TABLE OF CONTENT

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Queens Legacy “Queen Of Queens “King Of King “International "Autism"
Of Love Honoree Recipient” Honoree Queen Of Queens "Author Lea'

Grand Opening “S. Yolanda Recipient” Honoree Marie"
Robinson” “Skip Young” Recipient”
Page_28 “Protasia
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written by Emily Model Model Page_40 Page_42
Alyssa (JaeCee) Kimberly Despas
Claire, Model Model
Symonne Cherise Nasia Najea

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Model Model Model Queen’s ‘I’AM FAT Model
Chrishawna Betts Siimone Latriice Sydney Kendrick FREE” Campaign” Faith Barnes

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Commercial Shoot
Aw Crap
By Reade Green Page_57 Page_60

"QSA" "QUEENS 5 Incredible Female
SERVICE Influencers You

ANNOUNCEMEN Should Be Following
T" "QSA" on Instagram

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Queens Legacy Of Love
Grand Opening

This past fall on October 10th, was the amazing
dream come true for my “soft Launch” grand
opening of my two in one boutiques , “Queens
Custom Creations Boutique” which the entire
store are my very own custom creations that
are handcrafted by my very own hands. From
my International & NYFW Fashion line that
has debuted in Dubai, Paris, London, Italy,
Tokyo, a tour in Africa, Nationally and several
shows at NYFW along with my lash line, candle
line, doll line and more. An entire store of my
very own creations that are custom created one
of a kind keepsakes as well when you shop at
“Beautiful Baby Butterflies Boutique” which is
dedicated to the “Babies’’ in helping celebrate
mothers monumental moments for their special
bundle of joy and new arrivals. I’ve created
everything from custom onesies, my very own
baby fashion line, “Baby Cakes Keepsakes
Couture” baby fashion line! So you can get
the ultimate shopping experience at a store that
caters to all women and sizes and especially
the “MOTHERS” who can shop for themselves
and their kids and then go right next door
at “QUEEN OF QUEENS STUDIOS” for their
photo shoot!
“Queen Of Queens Studios” is a filming
& photography studio where we specialize
in themed photo shoots, small or large
productions for filming or photography, pod
cast and television and we can accommodate
most needs if given the appropriate amount of
time to pull all resources to bring your vision
to life.
Opening three small businesses right before
the pandemic wasn’t ideal but it was already in
progress well before the pandemic but it

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Queens Legacy Of Love

Grand Opening

hit at the most imperfect time. But the show
must go on so to speak and having female rap
icon “RAH DIGGA” being a part of the event
and gave an epic performance as well as an
Encore performance for the community was
awesome and her support means everything to
me. Incorporating my purpose in everything I
do through my non-profit “Queen Of Queens
Productions, Modeling & Management”
where we support the dreams of our youth,
single mothers and seasoned ladies who have
raised their kids and now, want to pursue their
dreams, we give them a place, an agency and
a business that not just helps train them, give
them the tools but also provide opportunities
for them to pursue these dreams, showcase
their talents and have someone who believes in
them and supports them. That is what “Queen
Of Queens” believes in and strives to help and
be of service in everything we do! So it was
no big surprise to find several worthy models
to put time, training and opportunities behind
and help support their dreams!
I casted several models and made them aware
that I would be choosing a winner and putting
her on the cover of my magazine provided that
she do a great job, maintain professionalism,
great listener, work hard, enthusiasm and
wonderful attitude and hands down most of
these models has those qualities and then some
so I am very proud of all of them and their
efforts and a great job doing the event and
making it a success and I am very honored
and proud of these ladies for all their hard
work and they executed their model routine
excellently and I can only look forward to
working with these “QUEENS” again!
I’m proud and honored to Introduce “Queens
Legacy Of Love” WINNER IS . . .

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Queens Legacy Of Love

Grand Opening

MODEL LYSSA JC

Model Sisters
Symonne Cunningham
Nasia Wallace
Kimberly Despas
Chrishawna Betts

Special Thank you to the following

Celebrity Female Rap Icon “RAH DIGGA”
You are an amazing Sis and I love you to pieces
for the “PULL UP” & to have your support and
love is amazing and I will truly cherish you
forever & always! Xoxo

Model Nasia Wallace - Photographer

Scott & Sandi Mowery of Millsworks Studios
Elite Limousine Service
All the models
All the helpers
All the volunteers

Queens Glam Squad Team Lisa
Tracy Miranda - Hair Whisper IG
Tristan Michael - Tristan_michaelhair
Lisa Whittington - Earthlysoulram IG
Whittington FB

Queens Custom Creations Boutique &
Beautiful Baby Butterflies Boutique
2020 Leonard Ave., Suite 100 N
Columbus, Ohio 43219
614 378 5698

Queen Of Queens Studios
2020 Leonard Ave., Suite 100 M
Columbus, Ohio 43219
614 278 5698

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“Queen Of Queens
Honoree Recipient”
“S. Yolanda Robinson”

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“Queen Of Queens
Honoree Recipient”
“S. Yolanda Robinson”

written by Queen Lea’ Gardner

I met S. Yolanda Robinson through one of her
mentee’s and I was taken back by how amazingly
“HELPFUL” this woman has been to our community
and how dedicated she is with a real passion for
change, equality and sisterhood.

S. Yolanda Robinson whom I refer to so fondly
as “YOYO” because her heart is HUGE but her
PURPOSE is even GRANDER!

I along with so many truly adore this HEAVY HITTER
in Community Advocacy and an excellent Mentor
to so many women of ALL AGES! It is because she
believes in her community & has an unconditional
love for us all ... WE RECOGNIZE HER LEGACY OF
LOVE that she gives so willingly to us daily and
expects nothing in return with the most humble
spirit! I’ve been trying to give acknowledgement
to this woman who is very hard to catch up with
because she stays busy, but when establishing the
idea of this Magazine and its purpose,

S. Yolanda Robinson is the 1st Queen that came
to mind for me because she has given so much
of herself to so many, including me that this is
well deserving of this Queen and we love you & we
appreciate YOU! CONGRATULATIONS QUEEN OF
QUEEN HONOREE S. YOLANDA ROBINSON!

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“Queen Of Queens
Honoree Recipient”
“S. Yolanda Robinson”

Bio for Black Opal Magazine

S. Yolanda Robinson grew up on the near east
side of Columbus, Ohio. She attended Franklin
University and graduated from the University of
Massachusetts @ Amherst where she received her
master’s degree in education.

S. Yolanda Robinson is an activist and leader who
has overcame many obstacles. “Life has not been
easy,” she said. “I have had many obstacles and
disappointments going through this journey. The
more challenges that was put in my way the more
I prayed, she said. “ God answered my prayers.
With each success I learned to trust God more
than anything else. He is worthy of all honor and
praise,” she said.

S. Yolanda Robinson is a multi-media personality.
She host the popular radio show, All In Our
Family on Talktainmentradio. She is also a social
commentator. S. Yolanda Robinson has been a
commentator or the Today show, Black Issues in
Higher Education, Essence magazine,Bounce 23
Khari: Free At Last; 95.5 Straight Talk Live, WOSU
Radio, Columbus Call and Post, the Communicator
News, Facebook (Sarah Robinson).

S.Yolanda has worked as an administrator for a
city wide tutoring program, instructional coach for
Columbus City Schools and the Family Wellness

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Manager for CMACAO Head Start. Under her families, increase day care services on campus,
leadership the Family Wellness Department was strengthen staff development programs, staff
the recipient of the John Glenn Best Practice representation on university committees.
Award for its work with low income families.
S. Yolanda Robinson was the first Vice President
S. Yolanda Robinson worked at The Ohio State of the Ohio Black Political Assembly where they
University as acting manager of The OSU Black lobbied to get more Blacks elected to office and
Studies Community Extension. She was selected worked on the Black Agenda.
to be the national conference chair where she
served in that position for 13 years. S. Yolanda Robinson was elected president
of the African American Triumph Consortium.
In both these positions she worked with many This was a consortium of 14 African American
notables (Kwame Toure aka Stokley Carmichael; organizations that came together to support
Harold Washington, the former mayor of Chicago, programs for the bicentennial. (1992)
Illinois; Ashford and Simpson; Stylistics; Dick
Gregory; Tony Brown, Tony Brown’s Journal;Betty S. Yolanda Robinson presently serves as the first
Shabazz (wife of Malcolm X); Sonia Sanchez, vice president of 100 Black Women Columbus.
John Henrik Clark, Dr. Leonard Jefferies, Mole 100 Black Women Columbus gives scholarships
Asante, Diane Abbot,Congressman Parham to students in Arts, Science and Technology
Mitchell; Dr. Alvin Poussiant and many more). and recognizes local artist and advocates for
Under her leadership the OSU Black Studies their work in our community. They also support
Community Extension Center was recognized displaced women and families.
a a model program by the provost office of the
University of Texas at Arlington in 1996. S. Yolanda Robinson is the recipient of numerous
awards for her work with women and families.
S. Yolanda Robinson has been a peer reviewer She is the recipient of The Ohio State University
for the Corporation of National Community Distinguished Affirmative Action Award, Women
Services and Faith Base Organization and the Coming Together Advocate of the Year; Avery
Ohio Commission on Minority Health. International award, 2015 Umoja Award,
Columbus, Ohio Kwanzaa Committee.
S. Yolanda Robinson is the former president of
The Cumberland Ridge Civic Association. Under In 2019, S. Yolanda Robinson was inducted
her leadership the neighborhood was able to into the Greater Columbus Basketball Legends
accomplish 18 of their 34 goals. Association Hall of Fame for her outstanding
work with the organization.
She was also president of Cardinal Nine to Five.
This organization was on the ground level of Her bio is profiled in Outstanding Young Women
the family medical leave act working with their in America (1979); Black Women in America: An
national president Karen Naussbaum who wrote Historical Encyclopedia edited by Darlene Clark
the book 9 to 5. Under S. Yolanda Robinson Hines (1993); Who’s Who Among Black Americans
leadership they were able to get pay increases (1988); An Encyclopedia of Path Breaking Women
for the clerical staff, fee waiver for staff and their at The Ohio State University (2017).

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In her own family she publishes a family newsletter and participates in family prayer twice a week
with family and friends around the country.
S. Yolanda Robinson is the author of There Is Magic in the Blackberry Patch. There Is Magic in the
Blackberry Patch is a supplemental text for the Columbus Public Schools.
S. Yolanda Robinson is the proud mother of Pastors Chad Heath and Sherry Robinson who has an
on line church at 1waychurch.com. She is the proud grandmother of Akeisheunte, Yazmina and Ava
Robinson.

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“King Of Kings
Honoree Recipient”

“Skip Young”

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“King Of
Kings
Honoree
Recipient”
“Skip Young”

Is More than A Basketball Player

Skip Young aka Ahmad Aliyy grew up on the
eastside and north side of Columbus, Ohio. His Skip started going to Beatty Center and learned
father introduced him to sports by teaching a lot about basketball from Mr. White and Mr.
him to play baseball. Skip’s father was a semi Patterson. He tried out for the basketball team
professional baseball player that played with at Franklin Jr. High School in the seventh grade
the Maryland Aces. and was cut from the team. This motivated him to
practice more and work harder. In the ninth grade
Skip later found out that he wanted to play Skip became one of the best players at Franklin
basketball and he knew he had to get permission Junior High where he was coached by Vernon
from his dad to change sports. One day as Barkstall.
he was riding home with his father Skip told
him that he really wanted to learn how to play Graduating from Franklin he attended Linden High
basketball. His father drove him to a basketball School where he was coached under the legendary
court and said “Son, get me my hush puppies.” Hall of Famer Vince Chickerilla. “I had many
He challenged him on the court and beat him. people who helped me at Linden. Jim Burton had
When they got in the car his dad gave him a tremendous impact on me. George Mills the first
the permission he needed to start. He writes African American high school coach in the city was
about this experience in his book, Give Me My also helpful. The school librarian, Jane Jacobson
Hushpuppies: My Dad Is A Super Hero. helped me intellectually and socially,” Skip recalled.

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Skip became co-captain of Linden’s basketball Going to college and reading about Paul Robeson
team along with Jim Cleamons and Skip made and the Autobiography of Malcolm X inspired
All American Basketball. “Jane Jacobson, Skip to be more than just a basketball player.
the school’s librarian, helped me prepare my After reading the Autobiography of Malcolm X,
presentation for accepting the award and told Skip became an avid reader. Education moved
me what to wear. She also supported and to the top of my agenda. “ I wanted to be able
stayed in contact with me as a student at Florida to feed my family and make a difference in the
State,” he said Skip was one of the first African community like Paul Robeson and Malcolm X.”
American Athlete to attend a predominately “Playing on the basketball team and traveling
white institution in the south. He became the down south I saw some of the worst poverty
team’s co-captain, second leading scorer and ever.I also experienced racism.There were only
assist leader alongside Dave Cowens who was 2 blacks on the team. We often received threats
later drafted by the NBA Celtics and nominated for being on the team.” Skip said.
as one of the 50 Greatest NBA players in history. The threats did not discourage him. Skip wanted
Skip is currently ranked as 12th All Time Assist to do more. He wanted to do whatever he could
Leader and Top 100 All-Time Scorers along with to change the conditions he saw. “Most people
playing on a team (1969-70) with the best overall only saw me as an athlete. They thought that all
record (23-3) in the school’s history. I could do was play ball. This encouraged me to
continue my education.” Skip stated.
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Skip hurt his knee in his senior year at FSU but school. The school was received high academic
still managed to be drafted as a first round pick in ratings. Students in the school averaged 3 to
the Celtics NBA team. He played with the Celtics 4 grades above their grade level. They started
for a year. Following his release from the Celtics, a community garden and a co-op. The garden
he went on to play for the American Basketball fed and taught many residents on healthy living.
Association (ABA), Kentucky Colonels. After He put together a basketball camp for boys. The
playing with the Colonels he returned home to first camp he brought in Jim Cleamons who was
finish his degree. He received his degree in his former co-captain at Linden High School.
Social Welfare and Criminology and got married. Jim Cleamons was the former assistant coach
with Phil Jackson for Shaquelle O’Neil, Kobe
Skip Young aka Ahmad Aliyy Bryant and the Lakers and the Chicago Bulls
the Minister lead by Michael Jordan. While hosting the
camp Jim and Skip worked with the children in
Skip became a Muslim minister (Iman) aka the schools.
Ahmad Aliyy and immediately he and his wife, Skip Young developed a prison ministry serving
Akiba Aliyy started to put in place his dream of Muslims and other denominations throughout
serving the community. They started a charter the state of Florida.
As an Iman he and his wife also established an
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Helping the Youth in Ghana The camp had tremendous support from the
residents of Accra.” said Skip. The remaining
Skip often dreamed about traveling to Africa. of the visit the group met with heads of states
As the founder and CEO of High Five Sports from many countries and discussed ways to do
and Academic Association and working with business in Africa. The group also visited the
Brothers Exporting to African Nations, his Liberian Refugee Camp. The Ghanian assisted
dream came true. He was part of a group that Liberians in fleeing their country from the civil
The Ghana West Africa and the Ghanian Sports war.
Authority invited to their country to host a Upon the organization’s return to the United
youth basketball camp. “Each youth were given States their fact-finding mission. they collected
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learning materials and shipped them to Ghana, graduates of Ohio State University. Dr. Howard
West Africa. “This was one of the most rewarding is a former Professor Emeritus and Associate
experience in my life,” Skip proclaimed. Dean of Arts and Science at St. Johns River
Skip continued to conduct basketball camps in State in Palatka, Florida and myself. “Initially
Georgia, Florida, South Carolina, North Carolina we wanted to recognize and support individuals
and Los Angeles, California. While formulating who have made significant influence in the
the founding of Optimum Performance field of basketball in Columbus, Ohio and the
Systems, Inc. Optimum Performance Systems, surrounding area.” Skip said. It has evolved
Inc. assisted high school, collegiate and into more than that. We continue to reach
professionals basketball players, male and out to support the youth and providing food to
female to reach peak performance. disenfranchised families in Columbus Ohio and
surrounding areas. We are collaborating with My
Helping Young Girls As Their Brother’s Keeper, 100 Black Women Columbus,
Basketball Coach James Preston Poindexter Foundation . The
2019 Hall of Fame enshrinement year consisted
In 2004 Skip was hired to coach the girls of a collaboration with the Ohio Historical
basketball team at Florida A & M University High Connection to create a exhibit highlighting sports
School. This was another great moment in his throughout the state of Ohio and recognizing
life as he watched these young girls grow in GCBLA’s Heroes and Heroines which introduced
sports and as individuals. He led the team to their our 2019 to the public. “ Lastly the Hall of Fame
first state championship. And later to five more event was held at Ohio History Connection and
which included (7) state final four appearances attended by 500 people, our largest attendance
in eleven years. He was twice nominated Coach yet. What an outstanding year. We will do more
of the Year. Florida’s record book currently after COVID 19.” Skip said.
shows Florida A & M University High School as
the third winningest girls basketball program in Skip Young, Author
the state of Florida. Ninety-four percent of the
girls graduate attend college on an academic or Skip is presently venturing into book publishing
athletic scholarship. and has written a children’s book dedicated to the
memory of his father Edward Young titled, Bring
Skip Young, founder and Me My Hushpuppies, My Dad Is A Superhero.
President of the Greater He is also working to complete publishing The
Columbus Basketball Panther Way, The Rise, Fall and Rejuvenation
Legends Association of a Championship Culture. This books tells the
story of a basketball championship at Skip’s
The Greater Columbus Basketball Legends high school Linden McKinley. The book is co-
Association was founded at a meeting with authored by Don Sellers an alumnus and player
Dr. Wallace Chandler, Dr. John Howard, both on several state championships team at Linden
McKinley and former NBA Scout, NBA G-League
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Lebanon professional leagues and Linnie Collins
Haynesworth, professional printer, and Linden

McKinley alumni. we were in college. I knew she was the person I
wanted to share my life with. She was Director
Skip Gives Advice to of our school and made certain the students
Youth Aspiring to Become were educationally and psychologically tested
Basketball Players each year while maintaining a tremendous
responsibility on a regular job. She along with
When asked what advice he would like to give to other women developed a group educating a
young people aspiring to become professional preparing young girls for womanhood. We
basketball player. He said “Set your goals but have been married for 49 years and have been
don’t let basketball override your education.” together for 51 years,” Skip said. ‘ My parents
and wife were instrumental in helping me
Skip Young will be inducted into the state of navigate through the system. I am truly blessed
Florida Sports Hall of Fame in 2022. to have them in my life.” he proclaimed.

Skip Young And His Family When asked about a legacy for his children
and grandchildren, Skip answered “I want my
Skip Young said he would not be where he is children and grandchildren to place their love for
today if were not for his Mom, Geraldine Ragland God and truth at the forefront of their life, speak
Young and Dad, Edward Young and his loving truth to falsehood, love your family and your
wife, Akiba Aliyy of 49 years. “I met my wife when people. They should know that their grandfather
beloved and lived his life accordingly.”
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“International Queen Of
Queens

Honoree Recipient”
“Protasia Torkington”

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“International Queen Of Queens

Honoree Recipient”

“Protasia Torkington”

Challenges and Changes Health Disparities for Black People

Dr. Portasia Torkington has helped many Black
people in Liverpool, England and South Africa. As
a high school student, she wanted to be a teacher.
After attending the local school, she enrolled at
Mariannhill College near Durban, to train to become
a teacher, only to find out that she could not go into
the classroom because of her age. In her country, you
had to be 18 years old to teach. She then decided to
train to become a nurse. This would enable her to
earn an income to help support her sisters’ education.
When she completed her training as a nurse, she
decided to train as a midwife. However she was
not immediately able to get a job. Out of the ten
students who started nursing school with her, she
was the only one who did not get hired. Then, one
day she received a message from the matron of the
school that Dr. Lionel Steel was interested in hiring
her. Dr. Steel was a veterinarian and the overseer of
a health clinic, and he hired her to work there.
“Working in the clinic, I fell in love with midwifery,”
Pro said. “I also fell in love with my husband, Tony

Torkington. Tony was a Catholic priest. We left South Africa and moved to Liverpool, England and
got married. Tony writes about our experience working together and fleeing the country in his book,
“Love with No Regrets”. We got married and had two sons, Mark and Simon.”
Although busy as a wife and mother, Pro continued to pursue her career while facing inequality. Her
degree did not sit on a shelf. She used it positively to impact the lives of thousands of families in
South Africa and Liverpool, England. Working in the health care system in both countries, I discovered
discrimination. In South Africa, we had laws that reinforced discrimination with apartheid. In England
there were laws against discrimination but the reality of it was that it still existed. In South Africa
you could not go to certain health care centers if you were Black. Often times, people died because
the system cared little about the health concerns of Black people. Black health care workers did not

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receive the same pay as their White counterparts.
Pro successfullycompletedadegreeinSociology
from Liverpool University. She did her Doctorate
also at Liverpool University which was based
on research into racism in the National Health
Service in the England. Pro wanted her research
to make a difference to people’s lives so she
was involved in a number of practical initiatives
in Liverpool like sickle cell, Granby Community
Mental Health Group and Mary Seacole House,
and the Translation and Interpreting service in
Liverpool.

Some time later a friend of Pro’s read her research
and she wanted to make a financial contribution
to help health needs in South Africa. Pro took
a year’s sabbatical from her job to look at the
health care system in South Africa. With the
support of the Minister of Health, I was able to

go into the hospitals and centers and document
what the needs were,” she said.

As the political climate changed in South Africa,
so did its health care system, making Pro’s
research and documentation helpful. “Under
President Nelson Mandela, a free national health
care service was provided for all South Africans.
Unfortunately, many citizens experienced
challenges to access medical care. “I found
many of the people had to travel miles to get
their medicine and services. When health care
providers came to the rural areas there were long
lines of people waiting for medicine and other
services. As a result of the research that I did
in South Africa, a health care center was built.
Today, the health care center provides services
for thousands of families. A new maternity wing
was recently added to the building,” said Pro.

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In addition to health care, Pro has made an
impact in education. This began with her running
Women and Health courses in outlying estates in
Liverpool. She explained, “This class has helped
many students. I was often told by students who
took my class how much it changed their lives.”
One student, Margaret, stated, “Dr. Torkington,
has changed the world because she touched our
lives. She is truly inspirational. She treated us
like human beings. I know we will always hold
her in our hearts. To her I say, ‘Thank you for
everything.”
She began advocating and teaching a black
studies class at Liverpool Hope University
College . In fact, she was one of the first people
to introduce a black studies class into higher
education in England. Appreciation for her
innovative work on Black Studies and health care
came in other ways, also. The late Dr. William E.

Nelson, Jr., then chair of The Ohio State University
(OSU) Black Studies Department, invited Pro
to the United States to look at the health care
system in the US. S. Yolanda Robinson, who
worked with Nelson at the OSU, took Pro to meet
health administrators and tour many of the health
facilities in the Columbus, Ohio community.

“Looking at the health care system in the United
States, I found that it did not have a National
Health Care System like England” , observed Pro.
Pro’s book, “Their Untold Stories”, contains
accounts of people’s life experiences and
describes how these have impacted on their
mental health and lives in general. Pro expounds,
“One of the client’s in the book said that dictating
his story for the book helped him. Having my
pictures in the book gave me confidence and
greater self-trust,” he said.

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“Their Untold Stories “ helped to bring awareness community meeting where we were advocating
to the discrepancies in the Black mental health for a better health care system and a community
programs in England. leader gave me the title of professor. At that
When Pro was asked about the challenges she time, I was a researcher. I corrected him and
faced doing her research and advocating for said I was not a professor. The leader stood
change, she replied, “It took years to get these up and said, ‘Why is she not a professor? Dr.
issues to be heard. I worked with everyone who Torkington knows our issues. She has helped us
wanted to help make the change. But I did not make changes in our community. She should be
want my research to be just lying on a shelf. I a Professor. This is what we have been talking
just could not write it and walk away. My research about this evening; the discrimination that
had to make change and help people. And it did. exists in our community.’ The rest is history. I
It gave clarity to their issues.” was promoted to Professor. “

Although Pro advocated to improve healthcare Looking ahead, Pro shared recommendations
for Black people in the system, she said, for future generations. “There is still work that
“There were White people that worked in the needs to be done. I recommend that the younger
system who recognized the discrepancies and generation keep challenging the discrepancies
were extremely helpful in bringing our issues to until something is done.” She emphasizes the
the forefront to getting things done. We could importance of research with recommendations
not have done it alone.” for effective change. Also, tell the story in every
Not only were Black health issues of concern venue possible until it is resolved. Research
to workers in the health care system but also must make a difference to the people you are
by the community as well. Pro explained, “The researching. If I do research, I need to identify
community put the work I did in high regard the potential outcomes and how it will benefit
because of its impact. One day, I was at a the conditions of the people concerned. ”

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He has one of the most beautiful & infectious smiles as he absolutely loves
to greet everyone when out in public and especially loves to introduce
himself, “Hi, my name is Zyi!” Zyi is full of life, energy and loves to have fun.
From playing with his baby sister Moaci, to going to the park and he loves
animals and movies. Zyi’s most favorite movie . . . “Lion King,” in which he
can sing every word to every song. With Ziyi's larger than life personality
and full of energy, he is a fun loving little boy who happens to live with
Autism. At first glance you wouldn’t notice with a milder case than most
that Zyi’s emotions can change instantly and is very sensitive when it
comes to his feelings. Each child who suffers from Autism deals with
certain emotions differently and each child’s needs are different in how
you can help them through these times with bouts of emotions from
anger, rage, yelling & screaming and sometimes hitting, you have to be
able to assist them in guiding their emotions to help. Zyi's Mother, Starla
Lea Hanks, 30 year old mother of 2 has had some difficult times where a
great deal of patience and restraint had to be used by her to not allow Zyi
to push her buttons and get upset as well as use an extreme amount of
understanding to his difficult temper tantrums, outburst and more.

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" "A U T I S M
" ' "A U T H O R L E A M A R I E

But YES there are times where she has had to walk away or take a break
and ask for help from her family that she relies on to help her with Zyi
which has been her support system in much needed times like these. I’m
happy to showcase this story because I think that awareness needs to be
brought to Autism so that people begin to understand children like my
nephew & all children dealing with a condition that is through no fault of
their own. People are quick to label them as “Difficult” or “Bad” or “Worse”
when they simply can’t help their condition and may need a little bit more
understanding of how to help them communicate what is causing their
stress and what they are trying to convey how they feel or may need. I’m
honored to be able to do this story about my nephew & also to do a writing
collaboration with Writer Emily Claire as she provides more in depth facts
and details to bring more awareness to Autism.

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Do you help a loved one secure It can be challenging to accept your How to
drugs or the funding for drugs? Do role as an enabler in a drug addicts' stop
you help them manage basic tasks life, so it is important to remember enabling
they can no longer accomplish? Do that it's not totally your fault. Most the drug
you keep telling yourself this is the addicts are adept at pulling you in, addict in
last time you'll help them? Just this saying what you want to hear, and your life
once. You're an enabler. It might be making promises they have no
hard to hear, but if you are an intention of keeping. Naturally, you written by Emily Claire,
enabler, you are not helping. No want to think the best of them; this
matter how good your intentions hope can often lead to misplaced
are, you are not helping. You are trust in their actions and finding
enabling the cycle of drug abuse to yourself in a cycle of trickery and
continue. The difference between guilt. Some addicts are so
an enabler and a helper is that a manipulated by the drugs, they are
helper would provide the same level unaware they are doing this to you.
of support even if the person was So how to break out of this
not an addict. An enabler is downward spiral? Well, you need to
someone who offers additional start by identifying your
support that allows the addict to problematic behaviour. Recognising
continue using drugs with minimum and accepting that you are not
impact to the rest of their life. helping is the first step. Pay
Covering up your loved one's attention to what words they use
problems is not helping. Protecting that cause you to react. What do
them from the full implications of you regularly do that you wouldn't
their choices is not helping. This will do for them if they were clean?
help keep you accountable for your Once you've identified these things,
actions. you need to set boundaries.

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You should also communicate these You can still take steps to help them How to
boundaries to the addict so they can recover, such as encouraging and stop
see the changes and understand supporting them through recovery enabling
them. This will help them to see that programmes or even funding their the drug
you aren't abandoning them and rehabilitation. Use the money you addict in
that you are trying to do what's best would usually set aside to pay their your life
for them. Perhaps the hardest thing bills, to help them get clean. Of
to do is nothing. As an enabler, you course, this might mean it gets
may find yourself stepping in to stop worse before it gets better. As
the addict from facing the full addicts experience the consequence
consequence of their actions. From of their actions, they may lose their
lying for them, paying bills, job or go hungry. Without you as a
providing food and shelter to safety net, they will be forced to
defending them to others, you make a change. In difficult situations
ensure they don't face up and accept like this, a little tough love may be
the consequences. You need to let more effective than unquestioning
them understand the full impact of support. The question is, do you
their choices. It can be difficult to do have the strength to be cruel to be
nothing when all you want to do is kind?
help. But if your actions aren't
helping, then doing nothing might be
the answer.

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The
impossible
double-
standard
of growing
old

written by Emily Claire,

You'd think growing old would be No one ever looked at a woman with because the face in front of the
easy. The relentless marching of a "mum-bod" and praised it for its brain has a few fine lines. Imagine
time making it a natural progression experience. No one ever looks at how much knowledge we are
of life. But it isn't. Growing old is older women for their wisdom missing out on as a society because
hard. Actually, that's not true. unless it is to ask questions about we can't see past an older woman's
Growing old is only hard if you're a being a mother. In industry and the looks. Luckily, the double-standard
woman. That's not to say that media, any woman over the age of is starting to be recognised. Women
growing old as a man doesn't have 40 might as well be 70. In films, the over the age of 40 are now being
any challenges. The aching muscles, male lead is often in his late 50's cast in leading Hollywood roles and
back pain, receding hairline, and an while his female love interest is are receiving recognition. Across
increasing need to pee in the night several decades younger than him. the professional sphere, women are
aren't exactly joyful. The difference He is allowed to age; she must standing up for themselves and not
is that they happen. We know they remain young or faces being allowing age-related judgement to
happen, and we allow it. Men are, in replaced by a younger woman. This hold them back. But there is still a
fact, allowed to get old. Women are double-standard might not seem long way to go. If we do allow
not. Women must continuously important until examining how women to age, we expect them to
strive to appear young, vibrant, and appearance affects everything from "age gracefully" – doesn't anyone
full of the joys of youth, even if they job suitability to divorce rates and know what this even means? I've
aren't. An older man is often mental health. It's an ongoing joke never seen a man told to grow old
referred to as wise, professionally- that a man might leave his wife for a gracefully. Before we start telling
experienced, and worldly; his years younger woman. Except it's not a women how they should and should
give him additional qualifications, joke because it happens. Putting an not age, let's just let them age.
and he continues to add to his age cap on a woman's abilities and
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lined face give him a rugged become wise, women become
maturity and appeal. Even having a irrelevant. This effectively takes half
"dad-bod" has become a kind of of the world's brains and skills and
fetish. disregards them simply

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Having a child with autism often This can be anything from How
means they require extra attention, embarrassment over the child's children
care, and aid. Depending on where behaviour in a public place to with
your child sits on the spectrum, this additional stress, concern, worry, autism
can range from small acts such as guilt, resentment, and anger. Autism affect the
extra aid with schoolwork, specific is generally an invisible illness, so a family unit
hobbies, and providing additional child can be viewed as out of control
emotional support to dealing with or as having anger issues, leading to written by Emily Claire,
sudden outbursts, requiring unfair judgement from strangers.
professional in-home care, and Often both parents and siblings can
needing financial assistance. feel overwhelmed. Another result of
Understandably this can add having a family member with autism
additional stress and anxiety to is additional stresses placed on the
parents' lives and impact any marriage. If parents disagree on the
siblings and other close family best course of action, have different
members. It is therefore crucial that attitudes and approaches, this can
the family has open communication lead to conflict between couples. It
of frustrations, problems, and can be hard to find care and support,
issues. Only by identifying points of which may also lead to arguments
stress, which are a side effect of about schedules and commitments if
living with a child on the autism both parents work. If one parent
spectrum, can a family unit deal with works, it can lead to money worries
any challenges. One of the most as caring for a child with autism
significant ways a child with autism incurs considerable additional costs.
can affect siblings and parents is
emotional.

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How children with
autism affect the
family unit

Siblings may also feel jealousy if Autism is a spectrum, so every child
parents spend more time with a will be different, but every child will
child with autism. Neuro-typical need time. Time to understand what
siblings may find it hard to accept you have said and what you want.
that their sibling needs special Time to think and respond. Time to
treatment, extra care, and more feel. And you need to take time too;
attention. This can breed time to understand them, time to
resentment and anger and cause help them, and time to understand
intense sibling rivalry. But all this your own actions. It can be
doesn't mean a child with autism will overwhelming dealing with a child
necessarily disrupt the family unit. with autism. That child can have a
Clear communication of boundaries massive impact on the way family
can help keep things simple for life takes place. But children with
everyone in the house. If you need autism, like any child, have so much
help setting boundaries counselling to offer. Yes, there will be moments
can help keep everyone on the same of difficulty, but that is true for
page so that moving forward, any every child. Children with autism
challenges caused by the child with are a little different, but then again,
autism can be tackled together. aren't we all?
Neurotypical parents and siblings
must understand the needs of the
child with autism as only by
understanding can they take the
appropriate steps. Children with
autism may need additional care,
but they are still children at the end
of the day. They still require all the
love and attention you would give to
a neurotypical child. The main thing
to understand about a child with
autism is that things take time.

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“BLACK OPAL MAGAZINE”

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ALYSSA
(JAECEE)

Alyssa (JaeCee) is fashion
model in her time not working as
a software engineer. She has
modeled consistently since the
year 2018. Booking her first
runway show with Columbus
Fashion Week.

Originally from New York, Alyssa was
born and raised in Brooklyn. The
cultural influences of going up in
New York is what peaked Alyssa's
interest in fashion. But, she was able
to discover her love of runway
modeling much later.

Alyssa found that she was able
to express herself creatively
through her modeling. that has
helped her to become a better
technologist in her day job.
Today, Alyssa loves to speak to
younger woman and students
about the importance of being
well-rounded. She has found
that has had positive impacts
for mental health as well as
career achievement and self-
esteem.

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ALYSSA
(JAECEE)

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Kimberly Despas

“Originally born and raised in the San
Francisco Bay Area, California, Kimberly
has a passion for people, research, and
the arts. Kimberly graduated from the
University of California, Berkeley where
she double majored in psychology and
sociology, spent a semester studying
abroad in Southeast Asia and conducted
an independent ethnographic field
study focusing on intersectionality in
the African-American community. After
working for a large corporate insurance
firm for a few years, Kimberly decided
to continue pursuing her passions for
people and research, independently
traveling to several countries
throughout Africa, Europe, and Central
America, and attending law school at
The Ohio State University.

Now working full time as a licensed
attorney practicing civil litigation,
Kimberly has opted to return her
attention to her passion for the arts,
diving into the art of professional
modeling with Lea Gardner’s Queen of
Queens. Here, Kimberly embraces the
opportunity to support Queen’s mission
in being a positive role model for young
women and demonstrating that women
of all backgrounds can pursue multiple
passions, no matter how different each
of those passions maybe.”

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Symonne Cherise

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I am Symonne Cherise. Born & raised in Columbus, Oh by my two loving parents Bob &
Judy Cunningham. Growing up I’ve always had a dream of becoming a model, always
watching America’s next top model trying to pick up a few tips from Tyra Banks her self
through my television screen lol but due to weight being an issue for me I had to work
twice as hard to reach my dreams. After losing weight and being more than confident in
my skin I met a woman who would change my life and help with reach my dreams with her
knowledge, guidance, and training in the modeling industry. Queen Lea Gardner has given
me the opportunity of a lifetime. I’m so honored to be featured in the Black Opal magazine
along with my fellow models. I’m proud to say at 28 that my dreams are starting to come
true but don’t blink, You may miss what I have in store for you :dizzy:
*** NOTE Congrats to Model Symonne Cunningham for being chosen as the centerfold
model to our new sister magazine . . . “Lady Scorpion” & being chosen to sign to “Queen Of
Queens Model Dream Team” as well as signing to “Queen Of Queens Production, Modeling
& Management” as a model late spring, CONGRATULATIONS!
NOTE: (this information goes under her 1st pic)
Blundels- Jerica Mitchell @gribyourbundles (IG)
Install- Delisa Renee @delisarenee (IG)
Makeup- Myself @queenmone_ (IG)
Lashes- Tyrra Bing @bingxbeauty (IG)

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I am Nasia Najea, 27 years Old.
Born and raised in Columbus
Ohio. I am a full-time Bank
Specialist in the claims
department. I’m inspired by
my
The 1-year-old son gives me
great joy. I plan to spend my
timehereonEarthencouraging
women on their independent
journeys to practice patience,
self-love, and doing all the
things they set their minds to.
I’ve always been told “you
should be a model”, and though
I knew I was photogenic I just
never thought I’d be able to fit
the lifestyle into my schedule.
And like the seasons, my
perspective on life has changed.
I strive every day to be a better me pushing my creativity to the next level. What
else am I capable of and who can inspire me?
My goal is to be the fact that every woman recognizes and thinks “If she can do
it, so can I”.
Nasia is also a great photographer and took the umbrella images of the other
models & the images of Celebrity Female Rap Icon “Rah Digga” at the “Queens
Legacy Of Love” Event.

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My name is Chrishawna Betts
I’m 37yrs old & grew up in
Canton, Ohio but I’ve been living
in Columbus, Ohio for 9yrs
I’m a mother to 4 wonderful
young adults (my fav 4)
I’m a beginner in the modeling
world, but it has always been a
passion of mine since I was a
young girl.
My goal is to one day open up
my own modeling agency in my
hometown and give anybody
interesting in becoming a model
the same opportunities I was
giving her in Columbus
To show women that you’re never
too old to live out your modeling
dreams or meet any goals no
matter your age or life status.

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Watch The Queen in Me
Move so Freely!

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Siimone Latriice

My Beauty does not define ME but my Beauty DEFINES
me, as my inner beauty shines through & that is what
makes me a QUEEN!

I move fluid and FREE in the beauty I BE, because that
beauty is natural & she is ME!

Feminine & Delicate, yet Strong & Confident & learning to
believe IN ME, the QUEEN that God Almighty created me
to BE!

Comfortable in my OWN skin, FREE as can be, my paths
will be many as I’m on my lifes Jorney and moving ever
so FREELY!
With these wings that I’ve been GIVEN, I will FLY HIGH &
SOAR!

I am woman enough, I WILL KICK DOWN DOORS SO HEAR
ME ROAR!

My destiny is MINE & I will not allow anything or anyone
to DERAIL IT!

I believe in my GOD & I know GOD GOT IT!

Written by Author Queen Lea’ Marie

Thank you to Model Siimone Latriice for bringing this
piece to life and capturing the essence of it while model-
ing in this creative art form and I am so grateful to your
ability to bring my visions to LIFE! This is a new type of
modeling I want to incorporate in fashion productions &
runway fashion events! Once again you and I have accom-
plished something groundbreaking & creatively amazing
& I’m honored to share this elevation with you young lady!
You never cease to amaze me & I look forward to working
with you again! Love you, Queen xoxo

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Hello! I’m Sydney Kendrick and I’m 23
years old. I’m also a model. I have a lot
of goals as a model. Some of which would
include; Changing the modeling industry
for acceptance of all body types, to be
a role model for other disabled women
as well as that disability doesn’t have
to be gloomy and dark. We have happy
moments and we can be fashionable too!
There are a few things that I am rather
passionate about. One of which is
awareness. I have a rare genetic connective
tissue disease called Classic Ehlers
Danlos Syndrome. Classic EDS, is a
malformation of collagen and collagen
is the most abundant protein in the
body. This causes everything and I mean,
everything, to be overly stretchy and
fragile. For example, I have hypermobile
joints and I also have issues with my
gastrointestinal system. Among other
bodily systems as well.

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My joint hypermobility as it’s cool to see,
also causes things like chronic pain and
full joint dislocations. It can get quite
painful. My gastrointestinal system
has the blunt side of my issues and is
where I’m most affected. I have severe
dysmotility which is where the GI tract
is paralyzed and well just doesn’t work.
I can’t digest food. So, I’m fed through a
central line in my chest. Which is a thin
catheter that goes straight into my heart.
I also have a feeding tube that is used for
my many medications.
But, it’s because of those things that I am
alive today and I am very thankful for
that. I hope that somebody that looks like
me and has similar problems can see that
they can be beautiful too. Tubes and lines
don’t matter. You can be beautiful with
tubes, lines, surgical scars, and stretch
marks. We are beautiful.

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