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THESE BOOTS ARE
MADE FOR WALKING
Vivid hues, bold prints, fun textures—on the scale of ‘drooling’ to ‘OMW
to get RN’—these babies will have you covered not just this winter, but for
seasons to come. By Priyanka Yadav; Text: Humra Afroz Khan
Ecco, Dune
Zara, `19,403 London, Call It
`9,990 `16,999 Spring,
`7,100
approx
Guess,
`12,500
approx
COWBOY
Will the real Western Pavers
lovers please stand Massimo Dutti, England, Truffle
`12,590
up?! Or, just get these `12,999 Collection,
boots. Others, take `5,699
G,
Saint G,
Saint G,
a cue from A-listers `10,50010,500
0
like Gigi Hadid and `
Priyanka Chopra Jonas
Priyanka Chopra Jonas
(even Kate Middleton)
and get in on the trend.
and get in on the trend.
Yee-haw!
Steve Madden,
`13,600
approx Rosso MICHAEL
Brunello, Michael
`8,499 Melissa, Kors,
Vanilla `9,499 `46,000
Moon,
`14,990
Mango,
`11,990
H&M,
H&M,
` ` `9,9999,999
THIGH-HIGH
’Coz if it ain’t lofty, it
ain’t no good anymore...
Topshop, Fendi, be it your #LifeGoals
topshop. Dune price on
com, London, request or your boots! Take a
`14,600 `15,000 neutral pick to play
approx approx subtle or roll with more Fashion Intern: SAHIL VASUDEV
outré choices...it’s a
free world.
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Topshop,
topshop. Guess,
Birkenstock, com, `10,600
`16,990 `8,000 approx
approx
Kielz,
`5,4995,499
99
` `
Call It Spring,
`7,100 approx
ANKLE–LENGTH
A go-to in the boot-
world, this style will
always be in style! With
Oceedee, Intoto,
`8,999 so many options, you `2,699
can wear ’em all year
long, in flats, kitten heels
or block-heel numbers.
Promod,
`4,190
Ca to Love
Carlton
London, , Moschino,
`4, 9`4,495 `12,100 Nine West,
approx `14,150
approx
Scotch &
Soda,
`14,900
approx
Notion London,
`3,999 Aldo, Charles & Keith,
`8,500 `7,499
Lavie,
`5,899
Zara,
`8,990 Kate
Spade New
York, Dorothy
`46,100 Perkins,
approx `3,500
approx
Geox,
`11,450
Metro, approx
`3,290
ANIMAL PRINT
This style is perf for
when basic just won’t cut
it. Keep the outfit subtle Steve
Diesel, so the focus remains on Madden,
`17,600 `20,999
approx these boot-eous babies.
Gucci, price Or, if you’re team OTT,
on request
pair one of these with an
animal-print ensemble to
keep all eyes on you!
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fast glam
fast glam
NOT SO
KNIT-PICKY
Jumper, H&M, It’s no secret: a cosy, knitted piece—
`2,999
jumper, skirt, or dress—is the perfect way
to stay stylishly warm. Oversized cardigan,
Scotch & Soda,
`15,800 approx
Sweater, American
Top, Zara, `1,590 Eagle, `2,999 Colour blocked
pullover, Only,
`1,400
V-neck jumper,
topshop.com, ASHLEY WILLIAMS ASHLEY WILLIAMS Textured jumper,
`3,200 approx French Connection, French Connection, By: PRIYANKA YADAV; Fashion Interns: SAHIL VASUDEV, SALONI KOHLI, AND SHIVI KHOSLA
`6,3006,300
Turtleneck jumper,
Uniqlo, `6,990
Beanie,
Aeropostale,
`1,400
Ribbed midi
skirt, Marks & Striped
Spencer, booties,
`3,200 Accessorize,
`2,950
CHRISTOPHER KANE CHRISTOPHER KANE
Collar with buttons,
United Colors Of
Benetton, price on
request
Pencil
skirt,
Marks &
Spencer,
`1,790
Skater
dress,
Cover
Pants, Story,
Only, `7,990
`2,699
High-waist
shorts,
Forever 21,
`1,199
Clutch,
ajio.com,
`1,995
KEEP IT
CLASSIC
Nothing spells elegant quite like DOLCE & GABBANA
the good ol‘ houndstooth print. And
its latest versions can be taken to
causal-chic outings, too!
Scarf, AND, Hooded
`2,299 sweatshirt,
Promod,
`1,740
CHANEL
Shirt, Vero
Moda,
`2,499
Tote,
Christian
Dior, price
Thigh- on request
high
boots, Cap, Zara,
Charles & `1,790 Bow-tie,
Keith, Calvin
`9,999 Gloves, Klein,
Dorothy `7,990
Perkins, `750
approx
fast glam
fast glam
fast glam
Shearling
jacket,
Coach,
price on Chevron padded
request coat, Ted Baker,
`22,200 approx
Jacket dress,
Sameer Madan,
`12,500
Faux-fur
jacket,
G-Star,
Jacket, `20,000
DRIES VAN NOTEN
H&M,
`3,999
PUFFER
Jacket,
DADDY United Colors Of
Zara,
`4,990 Cropped jacket,
Benetton,
`14,999
Available in a host of colours and
styles, puffer jackets are just the
punctuation your winter look needs
Jacket, to go from drab to glam in a jiffy.
Gucci,
price on
request
Dow
Down
jacket,
jacke
Fendi,
Fend ,
price
price on
r reque tequest
Jacket,
acket,
A erican
American
American
Eagle,
agle,
`6,9996,999
`
Jacket,
Guess,
`10,800
approx
SIDDHARTHA BANSAL
Cropped jacket,
topshop.com,
`4,700 approx
Cape, Gap,
`3,500
approx
Blouse, Patchwork coat,
Glamorous at United Colors Of
topshop.com, Benetton, price
`1,600 approx on request
Skirt, Uniqlo,
Sunglasses, `2,990
Burberry, `18,700
approx
TARTAN
ARMY
From coats and jackets to shirts
and skirts—even shoes and
accessories—plaid is all the rage
this season. Take your pick.
Jacket,
Ralph
Lauren,
`31,100
approx
Tweed blazer,
Marks &
Spencer,
Trench Embellished `8,300
coat, pants,
Vero Rahul CHRISTIAN DIOR
Moda, Mishra,
`7,999 `29,50029,500
Ankle boots,
Ankle boots,
A kl b ots,
Mini skirt, Ankle boots,
For
e 21,
French Forever 21,ever 21,
`
Connection, `2,2992,2992,299
`7,900
approx
Bag, Accessorize,
`4,251
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THE PRECIOUS FEW
A royal dose of all things bright, bling and beautiful, these baubles—
from lapel pins and brooches to earrings and rings—will make sure the
spotlight stays on you long after the party is over!
By Priyanka Yadav; Photographs: Faizan Patel
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3
4
2
5
7
8
6
9
1. Fish brooch, AGZA, `2,850. 2. Fleur
Blue Lapel Pin, AGZA, `2,000. 3. Brooch,
Atul Jewellers, `42,923. 4. Ruby and
diamond brooch, Atul Jewellers, Fashion Interns: MANVEEN GULIANIA AND SAHIL VASUDEV
`1,12,500. 5. Chevron Insect Brooch,
AGZA, `2,850. 6. Bee brooch, Aparna
Chandra for Nicobar, `3,500. 7. Colour
Pop Bee Lapel Pin, AGZA, `2,950.
8. Opal brooch, Atul Jewellers, `1,42,500.
9. Eye brooch, Olivia Dar, `2,900.
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2
3
6
5
8 7
10
9
1. Double finger ring, Ambrus Jewels, `3,50,000. 2. Swarovski studs, Deepa Gurnani X Confluence, `4,500. 3. Zambian emerald
earrings, Kasmia by AKM Mehrasons, `7,30,000. 4. Columbian emerald ring, Ambrus Jewels, `2,20,000. 5. Diamond and emerald
earrings, Kasmia by AKM Mehrasons, `3,75,000. 6. Pearl and black diamond ring, Kasmia by AKM Mehrasons, `2,85,000. 7. Studs,
House Of Aynat, price on request. 8. Burmi ruby and emerald earrings, Kasmia by AKM Mehrasons, `8,50,000. 9. Black diamond
earrings, Kasmia by AKM Mehrasons, `2,15,000. 10. Double finger ring, Resa Fine Jewellery, price on request.
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1
2
5
3
4
7
6
8
1. South sea pearl earrings, Atul Jewellers, `2,50,575. 2. Half-moon stud earrings, Isharya, `8,599.
3. Diamond and pearl earrings, Ambrus Jewels, price on request. 4. Floral brooch, Ambrus Jewels,
`40,000. 5. Pearl ring, Latique, price on request. 6. Pearl and rose gold earrings, Kasmia by AKM
Mehrasons, `3,42,000. 7. Rose gold and diamond earrings, Ambrus Jewels, price on request.
8. Diamond and pearl ring, Kasmia by AKM Mehrasons, `2,51,000.
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MAGNETIC
FIELD
We call it the subtle art of not trying
too hard...and yet being the ultimate
party-starter! When not awashed in
metallics all over, let these shiny head-
turners do the needful.
Serpenti Forever
Shoulder Bag,
Bvlgari, `2,70,000
Serpenti Tubogas By: PRIYANKA YADAV; Photograph: IRINA USOVA; Prop Courtesy: THE DECOR KART
Watch, Bvlgari,
price on request
Block heels with
fringe detail,
Gucci, `62,105
f you’re planning to fly off to an exotic
locale with your BFFs for a bachelorette,
Itrust Emirates Business Class to turn
that trip into a memorable one. We’ve got
a detailed list of luxe experiences—that
start even before you board the plane—to
prove the same.
The Emirates Business Class offers you
a complimentary chauffeur-driven ride
straight to the airport, and once you are
through with the hassle-free check-in, you
can head straight to their bespoke lounge.
The Emirates Business Class lounge is a
great place to relax—you can enjoy the
gourmet refreshments and free Wi-Fi
while the excitement seeps in. The best
part: you can board the flight directly
from the lounge, avoiding the manic rush.
Once you’re settled in the aircraft, let
the journey of a lifetime officially begin!
Get comfy in your PJs and turn on ‘ice’
entertainment, where you’ve already
created a secret playlist that will sync
with all your girls well in advance—the
bride-to-be will certainly not see this one
coming. Once she’s snuggled into plush
duvets, she’ll be served cake and a glass
of premium champagne, kick-starting
the celebration thousands of miles above
the ground. Now all you need to do is let
Emirates’ impeccable service take over.
They have an in-flight bar and lounge,
where you can refill your drinks—it has
a wide array of cocktails and mocktails,
vintage, limited-ed wines, and rare spirits.
Feeling peckish? You can indulge in
delicious cuisines from across the globe
on-board. Don’t forget to try pralines and
bonbons from 8 gourmet chocolatiers like
Godiva, Pacari and, Forrey & Galland.
During long journeys, it’s important to
clock in on the Zzz—the Emirates staff
will turn your seat into a flat bed with a
soft, comfy mattress and a cosy duvet.
Wake up fresh and enjoy VOYA’s line of
skincare along with an exclusive fragrance
kit by Bulgari.
So what are you waiting for...book your
Emirates flight right now!
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IN FULL PLUME
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2
5
3
4
’Coz this season, the stylish are all flocking the town with a feather
in their...shoe! Photograph: LUIS ALVAREZ
1. White Rooms, Jimmy Choo, `79,100 approx; 2. Flat sandals, Zara, `3,990; 3. Nude sandals, Aquazzura, `51,700 approx;
4. Yellow feather mules, Angradema, `33,420 approx. 5. Feather ankle sandals, Liu Jo, `23,000.
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CONSCIOUS
LUXURY
Raffia, jute, wicker and straw...luxe brands around the world
are breathing new life into these sustainable fabrics, turning
them into covetable accessories. The best part: they work for
a cocktail soirée just as well as they do for the beach.
GG Marmont
Raffia Shoulder
Bag, Gucci,
`1,42,500
By: SAMAR RAJPUT; Photograph: YASHASVI SHARMA; Location Courtesy: THE DECOR KART
Leather
espadrilles with
Double G logo,
Gucci, `44,500
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ON NEUTRAL Every outfit needs the right kind
of cheerleader to let it shine.
GROUND And with 2020 rife with loud,
‘look at me’ trends, neutral
accessories are the style BFFs
you need right now.
Shar 85
Heels,
Jimmy
Choo,
`60,000
Jacquard
Baguette,
Fendi,
price on
request By: PRIYANKA YADAV; Photograph: IRINA USOVA; Fashion Intern: VANYA VERMA; Floral Set up: SAAQUE
fast glam
PRIYANKA GUPTA, 24
“Socks with sandals can be tricky
to pull off, but when done right,
this is pretty much all you need
to stand out! Here, I’ve worn a
striped pair with golden strappy
heels, matching ’em to the
details on the dress. The final
MAHI BAKSHI, 24 touch: a gold clutch for a more
“The newspaper cohesive look.”
print is iconic! So
when I opted for
a bodycon in it, I
decided it’s best
to let the dress be
the focal point—
skipping accessories
altogether, and
going for a pair of
transparent heels
(another big trend!)
to complete
the look.”
STREET
STYLE
NOHARIKA
We took the battle of the best- GANGARAMANY,
25
dressed to the streets, and were “Chunky shoes
are my thang.
wowed by your style picks and I’ve clubbed my
cool looks. bordering-on-the-
iridescent pair
with a basic tank
and high-waist
belted shorts for
a casual-cool vibe.
I’ve spruced things
up more with a
fuchsia jacket, a
pair of cat-eye
sunglasses, and
this cute Fendi
TANYA ARORA, Baguette bag—all
26 set to turn fun days
“I’m an out-and- into glam nights,
out accessories- SANIYA DAWER, effortlessly!”
person, who 27
especially can’t “I wanted my fun
get enough of boots to do all
dainty trinkets! the talking, so I
Here, I’ve layered decided to create
multiple gold- the rest of my
toned chains, look around ’em. Compiled By: SHIVI KHOSLA AND SAHIL VASUDEV
and paired them I have opted for a
with fun earrings, neutral palette for
instantly perking clothes, and kept
up an otherwise the accessories to a
casual outfit.” bare minimum.”
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White front tie-
DECONSTRUCTED knot dress with
schiffli eyelet
KNITWEAR embroidery,
In its freshest makeover, the `14,000
TREND OF THE MONTH winter essential has changed form
and become more statement-y
than ever! Take your pick from
flowy, asymmetric, and oversized
options—tied up, knotted, pieced
BURBERRY together, even cut out or cinched
in. Team with a pair of pants and
boots for an ‘I mean business’
vibe, à la Burberry, or take a cue
from Tibi and Christopher Kane, STYLE
and wear over a dressy skirt (or TIP
blingy dress!) to serve hot party Buy things you
lewks when the temps go down. adore—and that
Because the silhouette is roomy, you’ll wear for many
pair it with well-fitted pants or years—to minimise
skirts... But then, again, don’t shy consumption.
away from doing you.
STYLE Pernia Qureshi
NEW ON THE BLOCK
TIBI NEWS Going the sustainable way, Pernia Qureshi
CHRISTOPHER KANE THE NEWEST, LATEST, AND has launched a new organic label, Gur.
The collection is entirely made from
forest-friendly fibres that are GOTS
MOST TALKED-ABOUT
including sources like milk, rose, banana,
Anemone FASHION STUFF (Global Organic Textile Standard) certified,
Cross Body, eucalyptus, and aloe, among others. “It’s a
Cork `4,799 FOR A labour of love and a work-in-progress to be
Bow Tie, REASON able to make effortless chic clothing from
Bow Tie,
Bow Tie,
`1,8501,850
The PETA-approved vegan
The materials found in the environment. We
brand, FORet, makes don’t use any plastic, elastic, zippers etc,
fashion accessories for and all fabric is dyed in organic colour. The
both men and women using idea is to create a brand for the future...a
both men and women using
Meander Earth-friendly materials, more sustainable, conscious future,”
Meander
Meander
uch as cork (obtained from
Cork such as cork (obtained from Pernia told Cosmo. Adorned with hand
Bracele ,Bracelet, Bracelet, Bracelet, Bracelet, the cork oak trees grown embroideries and ethical crafstmanship,
the cork oak trees grown
`1,7991,799 in the Mediterranean). “We the SS20 collection of Gur boasts pieces
in the Mediterranean). “We
seek to blend nature and that can easily go from day to night.
glamour to craft designs “A pair of wedges/kitten heels or cool
that are not just eco- earrings will do the trick,” Pernia adds.
Men’s friendly, but also stylish, “My favourites are the eyelet white pieces.
Cork They are timeless.”
Wallet , and can complement any
`3,799 look,” Founder and Creative
Director Supriya Satam told
Gold Cosmo. Also, with every
Iberis sale, the brand contributes
Loops, Earrings,
`1,350 `3,899 a portion to help develop a
forest in the Ahmednagar,
Maharashtra, and support
the farmers.
The perfect wardrobe this ACCORDING TO A
season should include... CELEB STYLIST...
“A white shirt; a pair of jeans (ripped Shaleena Nathani, stylist to the likes of
works the best for me); a fanny pack
Deepika Padukone and Kiara Advani,
or a sling bag; some gold jewellery that dishes out advice on all things fashion...
or a sling bag; some gold jewellery that
you can layer; and chic sunglasses.”
Kiara
Advani
A ‘tough’ trend I’d say you
must try...
Kim
Kardashian “Cycling shorts. It’s not easy to carry
West them, even I felt a bit intimidated
at first. They’re best paired with
something oversized—you need to
balance the tights with something a
little loose. (You can even add a long
jacket.) Belt it up with a smart fanny
pack to complete the look.”
Radhika
Apte The sartorial rules I follow
when picking an outfit...
Cardi B “More than the rules, it’s about how Shaleena
you’re feeling at the time, the trends Nathani
that matter, and the event or occasion Deepika
that matter, and the event or occasion
the outfit is for. For me, it also depends
the outfit is for. For me, it also depends Padukone
Kendall
on the mood of the person I’m styling,
Jenner on the mood of the person I’m styling,
and the brief I’m given, to which I add “Feel confident in everything you wear. It
my personal sense of style.”
can be something extremely simple and
My one, ultimate fashion basic, but you can totally own it with the
advice to the Cosmo right attitude. It’s truly how you feel that
woman is... makes or breaks a look.”
Bella
Hadid
ABEL OF THE MONTH
Nora LABEL OF THE MONTH
Fatehi i
THÉLA
LEATHER IT UP! THER IT UP! Founded by Diti Kotecha, a graphic designer by profession,
LEA
this plastic-upcycling initiative is a by-product of Diti’s love
The resurgence of leather has been on the for “making things with hands, and living as mindfully as
rise for seasons now, but right now, it’s possible”. “The main idea was to reduce the amount of
about embracing the fabric in all its glory— plastic that ends up in landfills and oceans, and also to
head to toe. And while neutrals like blacks increase awareness about its impact and alternatives,” Diti
and browns are ruling the roost, there’s also tells Cosmo. Théla (‘plastic bags’ in Hindi) uses discarded
a multitude of more vivid options (like Cardi plastic bags collected from garbage bins, local markets,
B) to choose from. Screaming GLAM in all streets, etc., to handcraft accessories. “We meticulously
caps, the look needs minimal accessories, cut the bags by hand to convert into yarn or ‘plarn’, and,
and, as these A-listers testify, slicked-back then, crochet or weave them to create products,” she says.
hair is such a rock-chic route to take. Just so Diti, who is currently based in Athens, makes the crocheted
you know, Team Cosmo is all about vegan or pieces herself. For the woven goods, she works with like-
faux leather pieces. minded, ethical organisations in India.
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Athleisure seems to be revolutionising the way we
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just to playfields or gyms. It’s taking the runways
and streets all over the world by storm, too. A
casual brunch with friends, a fancy date night with
bae, and all else in between, athleisure wear has
something for everyone and every occasion. And
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continues, hummel, the 95-year-old Danish
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Who said your off-duty look has to be boring. Case in point:
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Cycling shorts are all the rage
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With ‘gym looks’ becoming a legit
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shouldn’t jump on the
bandwagon! This celeb-approved
look is cool, without trying too
hard, as well as functional. “That’s
the best part about athleisure,”
Vaani concurs. “From chilling at
home to going out, the trend Gypsy
works so well.” You can team fitted Seamless
pieces together, top and bottom, Sports Top,
or opt for a contrast and pair your Camilla Tights,
tight leggings with a loose-ish, Sneakers, and
oversized top, marrying two of Stadil 3.0
the hottest trends of the season. Suede, all
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‘I’m fearful
of living
in fear’
VAANI KAPOOR’S YEAR HAS
BEGUN ON A HAPPY NOTE—
WITH A FUN, (UNUSUALLY)
SOCIAL HOLIDAY, AND HER
FOURTH BOLLYWOOD FILM.
THE ACTOR OPENS UP TO
COSMO ON ALL THAT
BECKONS IN 2020, AND
WHY HER LOVE LIFE IS
OUT OF BOUNDS...
FOR NOW.
Styling: Zunaili Malik;
Photographs: Taras Taraporvala;
Interview: Humra Afroz Khan
Top, Manish Arora;
pants, Dhruv
Kapoor; earrings,
Deepa Gurnani;
boots, Jimmy Choo
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cosmo interview
aani Kapoor has just returned from a
holiday to London.
And she has brought back with
her a rather exhaustive list of places spolight. In reality, though, she often
to eat at. prefers to be by herself. As outgoing
“Don’t go by my appearance, I’m as her roles have been on-screen,
the biggest foodie you’ll ever meet,’’ Vaani is uncharacteristically reserved
she laughs, almost reading my mind. off of it. We tell her as much. “You
The fact that food is one of her know, even Hrithik [Roshan] told me
greatest pleasures is just one of the that. He had seen me in Befikre
things we discover about Vaani before we worked together in War,
Kapoor. Sharing a common adoration and later told me that he had thought
for all things carbs-laden, we’re soon I’d be a bit intimidating. I do get
exchanging notes on the hidden gems mistaken for an overly bold and
in the Brit capital. “You must try gregarious girl, like the characters I’ve
Little Moons, they have the world’s played,” she laughs. “But that’s not
best ice cream!” she tells us, bad, really...I must be playing them
animatedly. “And Zuma, for the best well. And because I don’t talk a lot in
Japanese in town...or, Burger & real life, a lot of people think I’m
Lobster, it has the most amazing arrogant or unapproachable. That’s
burgers. You know, I had booked a the most common misconception
fitness trainer for myself there, but all about me. But I’m not like that...I just
I did was eat...and walk—which I take time to open up.” This is a
hope burnt some calories. I don’t confession Vaani had made even when
even feel bad about we had met her back in 2017, just
missing the gym, the food after her second film, Befikre. “And
“Negative was amazing!” And then, nothing has changed since then,” she
comments and barely stopping for quips, “I’m still struggling to come out
of my shell. Being in the profession
breath, “I think my spirit
getting trolled animal is a pig, ’coz I can that I am, it would have helped if I
online feel like eat non-stop,” Vaani were more of an extrovert, more
too small a thing declares. social. I try, but you know, it’s just not
to care about, but When she wasn’t who I am in my fabric,” she smiles.
But certain things have changed.
there are moments playing the role of an When we were prepping for this
unofficial restaurant
when you think, critic, Vaani did a spot of interview, the 31-year-old was
‘You know what, I socialising...something, trending on social media for telling
need to stand up she tells us, she doesn’t her trolls off. She had posted a
for myself!’” do often. “I met and photograph on Instagram, and soon
connected with so many the detractors were at it, calling her
people in London, which I don’t do “manly” and “malnourished”. The
normally,” she divulges. This is Vaani of 2017 would have probably
surprising. Because if there is one ignored it. (“It’s the best thing to do,
thing we assumed about this actor, it no?”, she had said at the time.) But
is that she isn’t one to shy away from today, silence is not on the menu and
being in the centre of a social Vaani is not afraid to clap back. “Now,
I’ve learnt to not get affected or take
it personally. Usually, negative
comments and getting trolled online
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One-shoulder
top, skirt,
boots, and belt,
all Mango
cosmo interview
“I’m fiercely loyal. When it
comes to friends, I take
my time, and make only a few,
but they mean the world to me.”
cosmo interview
Embellished
dress, Falguni &
Shane Peacock
feel like too small a thing to
care about or get carried in shape. Having been on
away by, but there are both sides of the fence,
moments when you think, mean the world to me, and what does she feel about
‘You know what, I need to are like my extended body confidence and the
stand up for myself!’. This family. I stand by them pressures women have to
was one of those times. But forever!” Does anyone deal with? “I won’t deny
I wasn’t spiteful. I just from the film industry that people in our society
asked this dude not to be so make the cut? “I’m very are obsessed with
harsh on himself, and that close to Shanoo [Sharma], appearances. And in the 1) The one thing
there’s so much more to the casting director at YRF. film industry, especially, that I’m totally
life, he should really stop Also Hrithik, I am you are required to be hopeless at...is
reflecting hate.” extremely fond of him. He’s presentable. But, honestly, lighting a matchstick. I
On the professional front, been an amazing co-actor... it should never be about have paranoia of fire.
too, there is movement. he’s a senior in the industry, size—about being thin or 2) I don’t know how
Her recent film with Yash a mega star, but he’s been fat. It should only be about to...cook.
Raj Films (YRF), War— so kind and supportive.” fitness and health.
co-starring Hrithik and And is she dating anyone? Thankfully, that mindset is 3) The causes that I
Tiger Shroff—released in Vaani sidesteps that one changing, and people are hold close to my
October last year, and, with a subtlety you’d expect getting smarter.” heart…sustainable,
Vaani is now neck-deep someone to have mastered As we near the end of our environment-friendly
working on her next, after spending six years in chat, we ask Vaani what she clothing and shoes. My
Shamshera—opposite the public eye. “You know, I considers her most special parents run an animal
Ranbir Kapoor—slotted for want to talk about it only achievement so far. “It’s a welfare NGO, and my
later this year. She’s wiser, when I’m super-confident personal one, actually,” she mother organises anti-
more experienced, and about someone. Until then, smiles. “The ability to take polio campaigns. Those
looking set to break the I’d like to protect my care of myself financially. It are some other causes
pattern of doing films few private life for as long as I makes me extremely that I feel strongly for.
and far between. “There can. But I do have a huge proud,” she beams. “I 4) One thing people
have been some gaps crush on Bradley Cooper,” stopped taking money from don’t know about
between my films, but that she jests. She does tell us, my parents as soon as I me is...I can be very
was intentional. I wanted to though, that the first thing began working at 17, and I funny.
be a part of good projects, she notices about a man is kept it that way, even if it
and they took some time how he carries himself— meant cutting down on 5) Never have I
coming my way. But I’ve “not just the clothes and expenditure. It’s the same ever…skydived, but I
been patient enough not to shoes, but how he conducts even now. You feel so will soon.
sell myself short as an himself”. Her prospective empowered when you’re 6) My New Year
artist,” she explains. “I man should respect women not dependent on anyone resolution is...never
know what kind of films I and be self-assured. And monetarily.” And what’s her to set any for myself,
want to be part of, and the infidelity is an instant deal biggest fear? “I’m fearful of because: no pressure!
kind of people I want to breaker. fear...of living in fear. I
work with.” Anyone who’s seen her hope I never have to, nor in 7) In 2020, I want
She’s just as clear about films will concur that Vaani, the insecurity that comes to...do a lot of good
her associations on the today, is a perma resident with it.” Amen to that. n work, get fitter, and
personal front. “I’m very of ‘hot-bod, great-looks’ travel a lot... I really
close to my family and land. But what not many Hair: Suhas Mohite; want to visit South
some select friends,” she people know about the Make-Up: Anil Chinnappa; Africa and Japan.
smiles. “I’m fiercely loyal! actor is that she wasn’t Location Courtesy: Hilton 8) My hidden talent
When it comes to my always like this. Growing Mumbai International Airport is...not-so-hidden
friends, I take my time, and up, Vaani was “actually a Hotel; Photographers anymore: I can eat
make only a few, but they chubby teenager with Agency: Inega Model a lot.
braces”. And by her own Management; Fashion
admission, still needs to Assistant: Humaira
Lakdawala; Fashion Interns:
really watch her diet and Saloni Kohli and Shivi Khosla
exercise rigorously to stay
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LET’S acceptability of an ever-
widening sexuality spectrum,
says US-based Jane Ward,
TALK PhD, an associate professor
of gender and sexuality
studies at the University of
ABOUT California, Riverside. What
might have shocked us a few
years ago no longer does.
These days, when I hear of
SEXUAL a woman who has changed
sexual preferences, I think,
‘Well...she’s just like me’.
FLUIDITY SWITCHING SIDES
For most of my life, I
considered myself straight.
I crushed on boys in school,
It seems like more people—a slew of loved Channing Tatum,
celebs, some of your friends—are no and flirted with men at
longer strictly hetero or strictly not. bars. I always assumed my
dating life would limp along
Katie Heaney explores the increase until I found the right guy.
in elastic attraction. Now and again, though, I’d
wonder if my interest
in women went beyond the
ex has never authors Elizabeth Gilbert average straight girl’s.
been simple. and Glennon Doyle Melton By 28, I was ready to
But lately, (who had previously been find out. I created a lesbian
“Swe’ve been married to men) announced dating profile and started
flooded with examples of they were dating women. swiping. Within a span
just how nuanced it can be. Look around and you of three weeks, I met the
A text I received from my may realise that a growing woman who’s now my
friend Chiara framed the number of your pals—who girlfriend, and came out as
shift: ‘It kinda now seems once had serious BFs—are ‘gay, I think’. The idea that I than men, research suggests.
like everyone is gay...or at now in relationships with was gay all along doesn’t Evolutionarily speaking,
least a little.’ women, too. And although quite line up with the this may have helped them
The high-profile it seems to happen less genuine flutters I’d get when raise kids or reduce tension
examples? Kristen Stewart frequently, some men— I liked a boy. Yet I wouldn’t with other females in
and Cara Delevingne like Younger actor Nico call myself bisexual, either. polygynous (multiple wives,
publicly admitted they Tortorella—have admitted That grey area is where one husband) relationships,
were in love with their to dating guys and girls. the concept of sexual fluidity although some experts argue
girlfriends (now exes); Parks Such sexual fluidity— stems from. Attractions it could more likely be due
and Rec star Aubrey Plaza, being attracted to whomever, can swing back and forth— to social and cultural factors.
Brooklyn Nine-Nine actress regardless of gender—is sometimes once or twice Whatever the genesis,
Stephanie Beatriz, and It rising in popularity, partly in a lifetime, other times fluidity is common: in
Girl Bella Thorne all came because those outspoken more frequently. Women a study that spanned from
out as bisexual; best-selling celebs have increased the are more likely to vacillate 1995 to 2005, more than
IDENTITY Some people don’t want to be an American suicide-prevention non Gay
defined by a sexuality or gender
profit for LGBTQ+ youth, shares
Anyone who is attracted
GLOSSARY label, while others appreciate these definitions. Keep in mind, to their same sex or
though, that each person identifies
the validation of a name. Either
way, you should know the most with these differently, says Ashby gender. Some women
prefer to use the
common terms. The Trevor Project, Dodge, the group’s Clinical Director. term ‘lesbian’.
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23 percent of women ages
18 to 24 are not attracted
strictly to just one sex.
For some fluid women, a
burgeoning attraction is
cut off at the prospect of
actually getting physical.
But for those turned on
by the thought, diving into
intimacy has its rewards. Of
her first time with a woman,
Chandni*, 32, a designer,
says, ‘I was worried it was
going to be terrible and
awkward. It wasn’t. Skills
transfer.’
LASTING ATTRACTIONS
For those of us who grew
up with images of hetero-
only relationships, today’s
fluidity didn’t always
seem like a valid option.
However, attitudes are
evolving. A recent report
found that about 10 percent
of US women ages 18 to
24 identify as something
Photograph: SHUTTERSTOCK.COM; *SOME NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED
two-thirds of female she first found herself around women’. other than straight, and 23
participants changed their attracted to women, she was Confusing, sure, but this percent of women in the
sexual identity at least once, surprised—and skeptical: is also exactly why sexual same age-group are not
switching among bisexual, ‘Being gay never even fluidity can be so freeing. attracted strictly to just
unlabelled, lesbian, and crossed my mind, so I It offers the chance to one sex.
heterosexual. thought it was a bit absurd,’ explore, learn about The more we talk about
she admitted. yourself, and break away our own sexual fluidity, the
EXPLORING URGES Aastha*, 32, an from gender expectations. more common and relatable
This is not to say that inside entrepreneur, wondered ‘Dating a woman has made it becomes. As Sara*, 26,
every woman is a lesbian- if her first same-sex me aware of a masculine a techie, says, ‘I came to
in-waiting, but simply relationship was ‘a sexual- energy I have and can play terms with my sexuality by
that female sexuality is orientation thing or a matter into, which is fun,’ says seeing people who were
complicated. Tahira*, 23, of how much easier I find Eram*, 33, a reporter. open about the complexities
a writer, says that when it to be myself when I’m And then there’s the sex. of their own’.” n
Bisexual Cisgender Genderqueer Queer Nonbinary
Someone who is A person who identifies A word that describes A broad term inclusive Anyone who doesn’t
attracted to both with the sex assigned someone whose of anyone who is not identify with the binary
men and women, at birth (example: you gender identity is not straight and/or system (aka the two
or to more than one were born a ‘female’ and just ‘a man’ or cisgender. Now mostly opposing sexes: male
gender identity. still identify that way). ‘a woman’. used in a positive way. and female).
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BE THE BEST AT
BREAKING UP
Because you can win even if you’re the one getting dumped.
By Hannah Smothers
Want to know the most ironic thing about relationships? The way someone handles the end
of one—no matter which side they’re on—tells you everything you need to know about
them, and whether they’re worthy of dating. Chronologically speaking, is this helpful? Oh no,
not at all. Sorry! But in the grand scheme of your love life, it’s incredibly useful intel. That’s Photograph: HORMIS ANTONY THARAKAN
why it’s important to put your best face forward at the very end. Just like a super-punishing
workout, splitting up may hurt like hell in the moment, but if you push through, it’s a huge
growth opportunity that you’ll come out of stronger and better. Put simply: being good at
breaking up is like having an emotional revenge body. So, here’s how to do it right.
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FOR THE DUMPER saw,” says Jane. “I don’t think that’s Look forward to the glow-up.
Say Bye, With Feeling anyone’s job.” And your perspective A 2003 study published in the
Resist the urge to ghost them. is subjective: what you wish were academic journal, Personal
Straight-up disappearing is a different about them might be the Relationships, co-authored by Ty,
cowardly thing to do. It forces your very quality someone else will love. If found something incredible: for
partner to break up with themselves, they press you for feedback, you can every negative outcome people
which is cruel. Plus, “if you ghost offer a few reasons connected to your experienced from a breakup, they
someone, it’s likely that you’ll sit own preferences instead of specific reported, on average, five positive
with guilt or shame,” says Jaime personality pointers. No-one likes a changes, too. These shifts ranged
Gleicher, a US-based social worker preachy defector. from a boost in self-confidence
who focuses on adolescents. Not to learning how to be a better
only can that be psychologically partner. “When you have an event
unhealthy, it can also make moving FOR THE DUMPEE that disrupts your normal way of
on harder, because there’s zero Get Over It Faster thinking, it creates this opportunity
closure (which would have helped Face the cold, hard facts. to re-organise things,” explains Ty.
you both recover). So have a brief Most people want to immediately The most common benefit people
in-person convo, or at the very least, skip the ‘feeling like sh*t’ part, which noticed in the study was that a split
send a text. makes sense, but it’s better to start made them want to choose different
the healing process by embracing kinds of partners in the future—a
Give a legitimate reason for the hurt. Sadness plays a big role in true ‘thank you, next’ bonus. n
why you’re leaving. heartbreak recovery, says Ty Tashiro,
No-one who’s ever delivered a PhD, author of The Science Of
cliché like, ‘It’s not you, it’s me’ or Happily Ever After. “It makes you BREAK-UP MUSINGS
‘You deserve someone better’ (gag) contemplative about what you want
has actually meant what they said. to do and skeptical about things that FROM A BACHELOR &
“It’s a cop-out,” explains US-based haven’t been working,” he explains BACHELORETTE
relationship therapist Jane Reardon, (For instance: if your partner Listen: if you can break up on TV,
Co-Creator of Rx Breakup, an app dumped you because you’re focused you can break up anywhere.
that aims to help the broken hearted. on your job, that sucks, but it also
These are phrases you say when tells you something about who you’re T H E D U MP ER
you are either checked out or just better paired with). “Sadness also BEN HIGGINS
“not that deep and can’t come up draws people whose support we need from US TV show The
with anything more original,” Jane closer to us—it’s a beautiful thing,” Bachelor, Season
explains. Instead, be honest and adds Ty. Admit what’s bumming 20, on how to dump
someone:
direct about why you’re peacing out you out about the split, and lean on
of the relationship. Try something friends during rough days. “You’re dealing with a human who
like, ‘The way we feel about each has feelings and emotions. Anytime
somebody is telling you, ‘My life isn’t
other doesn’t match up, and I don’t Set a strict wallowing limit. going in a direction where you should
see that changing anytime soon’ or ‘I This is a firm amount of time be in it’, it’s going to hurt. So be direct,
simply don’t trust you, so continuing you’re allowed to indulge in the but also show respect and care. I think
to be with you is no longer working depths of your sadness—all the ice- there’s a small possibility then for a
for me’. It may feel harsh to say the cream-eating, rom-com-binging decent breakup. Not good, but decent.”
full truth, but most people would stereotypes—before you have to T H E D U MP EE
rather hear it than be kept in the dark get your act together again. Without
with some generic breakup line. deciding on a deadline, you may BECCA KUFRIN
from US TV show
think that feeling like a loser is your The Bachelorette,
Keep all the receipts. new, permanent way of life. (It’s not!) Season 14, on coping
You’ll probably be tempted to coach There’s no rule on how long this with a split:
your new ex on how to be a better period should last, but Ty says two to “Time will heal. You will heal.
partner to the next girl. Hint: don’t four months is typical (and it’s normal You will move on. You’ll hopefully
do that (unless they were being for sadness to pop up again later). learn and grow from that relationship and
manipulative or abusive, in which Try your best to move into your fresh take something with you that can turn
into a positive and a silver lining. In the
case they’ll need more than just your rebirth phase when your time is up. situations where you don’t think time is
help). “You don’t have to bring up It’s a more fun and hopeful time your best friend, it really is.”
every red flag and annoying thing you (with better music!).
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WHY GETTING
DEPRESSED AFTER
YOUR WEDDING
IS A THING
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes...a tonne
of ugly crying? By Annie Daly
A with my mom and my wedding therapist Diana Kirschner, author of
couple of weeks after
planner, and then it was just...over. I
Love In 90 Days. “That high can be
Aahana* got back from her
honeymoon, she called her
all the excitement. It felt like a
mom in tears. She had just had the felt bored and nostalgic and missed so intense that when your wedding
ends, it can cause a giant and
most amazing destination wedding whole fun phase of my life had unexpected emotional crash.” That
in Udaipur, followed by a beachy just ended.” sudden bummed-out mood can also
week of bliss in Bali. She thought TBH, this kind of ‘wedding make you feel guilty, like you’re an
she’d be ecstatic. Instead, she felt comedown’ isn’t rare. In a 2018 ungrateful monster for not being
depressed. study of 152 women, 12 percent a 100 percent psyched about your
“It was surprisingly hard to settle reported feeling depressed after wonderful celebration, and—oh
back into normalcy after being they tied the knot. yeah—your new spouse. (Pause that
on such a high for so long,” the “The whole process of getting spiral, girl. It’s gonna be okay.)
33-year-old recalls. “There had married can be one of the biggest Understanding why this slump Photograph: SHUTTERSTOCK.COM
been so much build-up, from the highs in the world, from the happens to even the most in-love
bachelorette party to the bridal proposal to the planning to the newlyweds might help you figure out
shower to the constant phone calls party,” says US-based relationship how to enjoy the whole ‘Oh, we’re
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says. But after she actually got ‘Before the wedding’ can seem more
married, depression hit. “I found fun because it’s all about the party,”
myself thinking, ‘What am I working says Diana. Without that, leading
towards now?’. I even Googled: a hype-free existence might have
‘What to do when you’re sad after you freaking out. Plus, people who
your wedding’, because I didn’t were checking in on you regularly
know what to do with myself.” To get (oh hi, #BridalBesties) may not be
through the slump, Kriti, who works hitting you up on the reg. “When I
in PR, set two huge objectives at first started feeling this way, I was
work (to revamp her website and to like, ‘What the hell is wrong with
get two more clients) and one in her me?’. I felt so selfish for wanting
personal life (to teach more yoga). the attention back on me and my
Making and crushing those goals husband,” admits Bandana. But once
(which she did, natch) helped her she commiserated with another bride
channel that energy into her future. about how they both felt so sad—and
guilty about feeling sad—she became
YOU MISS PLANNING TIME WITH BAE much more grounded.
Bandana*, 33, felt similarly
disoriented after her wedding last REALITY IS WAY LESS GLAM
year, a 370-person destination event Getting married can also put other
in Vietnam. She and her husband parts of your life into perspective.
spent a year and a half working on That’s what happened to Sara*, 27,
the celebration. Throughout the who got married in 2018. While
process, they developed a Sunday on her honeymoon, she got so
routine: wake up, run errands, make bummed thinking about returning
coffee, and plop down in front of to her corporate desk job that she
her laptop to work on wedding- actually burst into tears on the last
related Excel sheets. Co-ordinating day of their trip. In the Maldives.
the whole hoopla became a thing Overlooking an infinity pool. (Hard
that actually brought them closer times, indeed.) “It felt like a fun
together, and they didn’t know how phase of my life had just ended. I
to deal once it was all over. “We’d was in the most beautiful location
been working on this ‘project’ ever, just sobbing,” she says. At the
together for so long that it felt like time, she had a job in sales, but
backtracking if we just went back to working on a large-scale event made
the way things were when we were her realise that she loved having an
dating,” she says. artistic outlet, and didn’t want to
The best way to combat this missed stay at her gig. “Knowing I had to
time? Lean into your first year of then go back to the ‘normalcy’ of
actually married!’ thing. Here are marriage by not making another my job, which was not creative in
some reasons why you might catch huge decision, like buying a house, anyway, made me so depressed,”
those post-bliss blues—and how you right away. That’s how Aahana and Sara adds. But she didn’t go back
can get over them. her husband kept their bond electric, to her normal life. Instead, Sara
post-wedding. “Spending such rethought her entire career and
YOU’RE MARRIED—NOW WHAT? quality time together on vacation and started a side hustle planning
While some brides hate dealing with with family before we took any other wellness events. Eventually, she
the little details, many, like Kriti*, 31, big steps really helped me appreciate left her job to run that business
are all about that life. After her now- what marriage is all about,” she says. full-time. “The good news is that,
husband proposed in September unlike your actual relationship, the
2017, they booked her dream venue ADMIT IT—YOU LOVE THE ATTENTION post-wedding comedown only lasts
for the following June. For about For other brides, the wedding a couple of months, says Diana. In
eight months, she was laser-focused comedown might be caused by the meantime, you always have your * NAMES HAVE BEEN CHANGED
on all the planning minutiae. missing the spotlight. “A lot of brides insanely gorgeous photos—and of
“During that time, I was working divide their lives into ‘before the course, your marriage. n
towards a single, steady goal,” she wedding’ and ‘after the wedding’.
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you, you, you
HOW TO
SAVE A
GIRLS TRIP
WHEN
THINGS GO
WRONG Photographs: ANUSHKA NADIA MENON
Hi, it’s your drama/disaster survival guide!
By Ashley Mateo
s there anything better than a 3. YOUR LUGGAGE IS G-O-N-E 5. YOUR BUDGETS ARE
vacay with your BFFs? Answer: Nobody wants to show up in paradise ALL OUT OF WHACK
no, especially when it includes without their #OOTDs, so tell To avoid on-vacay drama, pose
Idrinks. And gorgeous scenery. your squad to stuff basics into their this to the group a few weeks
And all that bonding time. Also: carry-ons: “A change of clothes, beforehand: ‘Setting my vacay
group pictures. Still, let’s be real— some toiletries,” suggests Julie budget and would love to get a
stuff is going to go down. It always Falconer, who blogs about travel at sense of what we want to do! Is
does. But making sure your friends aladyinlondon.com. If your suitcase putting X amount aside for the
don’t kill each other might be easier goes MIA, don’t throw a tantrum in boat ride realistic?’ If some people
than it seems. baggage claim. Instead, do a little want to bail out, that’s fine. Just say
local shopping, says Alyssa. “You you’ll probably skip the more extra
should have some budget set aside activities. Chances are, someone
1. HAVE A SOLUTION-ORIENTED for souvenirs and emergency funds, else will pick the free walking tour
PERSPECTIVE and technically, this qualifies.” over the expensive boat ride, too.
When you throw together long
flights, different time zones, and
weird sleeping arrangements, it’s
hardly surprising that your crew can
go from tight to fight. “Confront
drama early—just not in front of
everyone else,” says Kelly Lewis,
Founder of Go! Girl Guides. Bring
your most-annoyed pal to the
side and ask her what’s up. Is she
whining because she really wants
to go snorkelling but everyone else
is dealing with the aftermath of last
night’s party? Play counsellor and
build a few hours of free time into
your schedule every day. That way,
she can have an actual adventure
while the sleepy crew sleeps. But
if one gal really just isn’t a good
traveller—fun!—don’t be mean
about it. Ask what she needs to feel
more comfortable.
2. THE HOTEL CATFISHED YOU
That adorable motel covered in fairy
lights on Insta? IRL, it’s more like 4. THE FORECAST CALLS FOR RAIN 6. ALL THE MOST ’GRAMMABLE
a horror house. If you legit don’t You thought you’d be on the beach RESTOS ARE FULL
feel safe sleeping there, don’t, says taking selfies. Instead, you’re at Don’t let a two-hour wait stop you.
Kelly. Search online for last-minute the resto with everyone else and “Try bypassing the reservation list by
situations. If you already shelled out their moms. Guys, it’s gonna be eating at the bar,” says Alyssa, “or get
for the whole trip and the place lied okay: Google ‘rainy day activities + a drink to see inside, then eat your
to you but isn’t dangerous, suck it up [location]’ and look for URLs that mains and desserts somewhere else.”
(sorry, it’s true!). But def spend time take you to niche travel blogs, like Still starving with no options? “Post
at the front desk asking for extras like ones run by influencers or locals. an Insta Story asking your followers
a few drinks on the house, says travel (They actually know what’s up.) for ideas,” says Julie. “A lot of people
influencer Alyssa Ramos “I’ve found indoor flea markets, know hidden gems.” n
(@MyLifesATravelMovie).
underground libraries, and local
grape tastings to make up for being
rained out,” says Alyssa.
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HELLO, Here’s a look at
some of the most
FEMINIST prominent women
in the country’s
STAMPS history, as honoured
by the India Post.
By Meghna Sharma
NEERJA BHANOT
INDIRA GANDHI A flight attendant
The first female ARUNA ASAF ALI for Pan Am, Neerja VIJAYA LAKSHMI
Prime Minister of MIRABAI An independence died while helping PANDIT
India, Indira Gandhi The first Indian activist, Aruna Asaf passengers escape An Indian diplomat
has graced many woman to grace Ali was dubbed as from Flight 73, and politician, Vijaya
a stamp—not just a postal stamp, the Heroine of the which was hijacked was elected as the
in India, but also Mirabai was a royal, Quit India Movement by terrorists during first female President
internationally. who gave up her as she put things in a stop-over in of the United Nations
She was known privileges to become motion by hoisting Karachi, Pakistan. General Assembly
for her iron will, a Krishna devotee. the flag at the Neerja’s act of in 1953. She was
and is among the One of the key Gowalia Tank maidan heroism made her also sent to London
most noteworthy saints of the Bhakti in Bombay in 1942. (posthumously) win as India’s most
politicians in the Movement, Mirabai’s Post independence, the Ashoka Chakra important diplomat
world. In fact, in bhajans, dedicated Aruna remained Award and has also after serving as
1999, she was to the supreme lord, active in politics, and inspired the Sonam Nehru’s envoy to the
named ‘Woman of turned her into also became Delhi’s Kapoor Ahuja-starrer Soviet Union, the
the Millennium’ in a an icon. first Mayor. biopic, Neerja. United States and
BBC poll. the United Nations.
PANDITA RAMABAI
MOTHER TERESA A pioneer in SAROJINI NAIDU
In 1950, she education and the A noted poet (which NARGIS DUTT SAVITRIBAI
founded the emancipation of earned her the title, A truly iconic Indian PHULE
Missionaries of women in India, she Nightingale of India) actress, Nargis Known as the first
Charity—a religious was the first woman and an independence Dutt’s film Mother female teacher of
congregation that to be accorded the activist, Sarojini India was India’s India, Savitribai
manages homes titles of Pandita (a Naidu became the first submission to Phule was a poet
for people suffering Sanskrit scholar) President of the the Academy Award and social reformer.
from tuberculosis, and Saraswati by the Indian National for Best Foreign She played an
leprosy and HIV/ University of Calcutta. Congress in 1925, Language. She was important role in
AIDS. Also known She was one of the and was also the the first patron of improving women’s
as Saint Teresa 10 women delegates first woman to the Spastic Society rights in the country
of Calcutta, she at the Congress be appointed the of India, and Nargis’ during the British
received the 1962 session in 1889, Governor of the work with them rule, and worked
Ramon Magsaysay and the Founder United Provinces earned her a Rajya towards abolishing
Peace Prize and the of Mukti Mission, a (now Uttar Pradesh). Sabha nomination. discrimination
1972 Nobel home for destitute based on caste
Peace Prize. women and children. and gender.
RUKMINI DEVI
RUKMINI NEELAKANDA
LAKSHMIPATHI SASTRI JIJABAI SHAHAJI
RAJKUMARI A woman of many Featured in India BHOSALE
AMRIT KAUR BEGUM HAZRAT firsts, Rukmini Today’s list of ‘100 Referred to as
A royal, Rajkumari MAHAL Lakshmipathi joined women Who Shaped Rajmata Jijabai, she
Styling: PRIYANKA YADAV; Photograph: IRINA USOVA staunch follower of and seized control female prisoner in Bharatanatyam Maharaj, Founder of
the Indian National
India’, Rukmini
Amrit Kaur was a
She took charge of
was the mother of
Congress in 1923.
Devi is responsible
social activist and
the state of Awadh
Chhatrapati Shivaji
for the revival of
She was the first
freedom fighter. A
of Lucknow after
the Maratha Empire.
from its original
the Salt Satyagraha
Mahatma Gandhi,
her husband (Nawab
She’s known as the
Movement (1930),
sadir style. A
she was a member
Wajid Ali Shah) was
guiding force who
Padma Bhushan
later became the
of the Constituent
exiled to Calcutta.
inspired Shivaji to
first woman to
awardee, she was
Assembly, and
Begum Hazrat Mahal
fight against the
be elected to the
the first woman in
went on to become
also organised an
Mughal empire, and
the first Health
be nominated as
and the first to serve
Minister of India
actively took part in
strength behind all
as a minister in the
a member of the
(and served for 10
the revolt of 1857.
his victories.
Rajya Sabha.
Madras Presidency.
years as the same). army of women and Madras Legislature Indian history to the silent source of
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quiz
M EG A MY JO BE TH
WHICH LITTLE WOMEN
CHARACTER ARE YOU?
The classic tale about four sisters coming of age after the American Civil War
hits cinemas next month—revamped by Greta Gerwig and complete with
Saoirse Ronan and Timothée Chalamet’s sensational barnet. This flowchart will
help you decide which sister to side with...
What’s
your favourite
Crying, obviously! way to spend Tearing it up at a karaoke night.
a Sunday?
Who’s on
The last thing your dream
I complained Gosh, I don’t Campaigning for a dinner party
about was… mind—as long as worthy cause. list?
Complaining is like everyone enjoys Mozart, Kimmy Schmidt,
oxygen to me. the canapés! and Nigella Lawson.
Lady Gaga, Mhairi Black and
Maya Angelou
The patriarchy.
What’s Mars Bar
your party Both, or Dairy
trick? duh. Milk?
What’s Charlie’s Speak your
Mean Girls, your favourite Angels. mind or wait
natch. ’00s film? your turn?
Hold my beer. Excuse you,
Anything with Ferrero Rocher
Just sheer popularity. Hugh Grant in it. or nothing!
Really good hugs. Uh, I’ll just form an
orderly queue.
AMY BETH JO MEG
The baby of the family, Amy Beth is the quiet, butter- The change-the-world One of the nicest people you’ll
is way into material things. wouldn’t-melt sister, and a total sister who’s done with the ever meet, but secretly into the
Nowadays she’d have a very sweetie. A pair of biker boots patriarchy. Today she’d have finer things in life. Says things
strong Instagram following. Use and a screamo concert would a blog all about female are from Zara when they’re
code AMY20 for 20% be her worst nightmare...but oppression and be everyone’s actually from Gucci. Come on, By: DANIELLA SCOTT
off all girdles and bonnets. might do her some good. favourite at that art event. Meg! Do you!
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How to
Upgrade
Your
Jeans
and a Top and bag, both
isawitfirst.com;
jeans, Fiorucci;
Nice thin earrings, Lark
& Berry; hoops
and choker, both
Freedom at
topshop.com;
belt, Dorothy
Top Bimba Y Lola
Perkins; sandals,
Well, what else do you need for
a night-out (out)? Apart from
enough money for the drinks,
some blister plasters, and an
extra battery pack for the
inevitable drunk-dialling?
Styling: Amy Bannerman;
Photographs: Elliott Wilcox
Jacket, V By Very;
T-shirt, Citizens Of
Humanity; jeans,
topshop.com; hoops,
Freedom at topshop.
com; star earrings,
Thomas Sabo;
necklace, Argos;
bag, Les Petits
Joueurs; sandals,
Bimba Y Lola
Blouse, ASOS;
jeans, Wrangler;
earrings and anklet,
both Seol + Gold;
bag, Maison M;
pumps, Mulberry
Top, Yolke; jeans,
topshop.com;
bamboo earrings,
Seol + Gold;
constellation
earrings, Thomas
Sabo; hoops,
Freedom at
topshop.com; bag,
Chanel; boots,
Carvela
Bralet, Simone
Rocha; T-shirt, Miu
Miu; jeans, Levi’s;
bamboo earrings,
Seol + Gold;
sandals, Sandro;
trainers, Converse
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