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02 1. Opening Prayer by the Noibi of Ijebu-Owu. 2. Introduction of the officiating Imams and dignitaries. 3. Recitation from the Holy Quran. 4. Interpretation of the verses recited from the Holy Quran. 5. Supplication for the deceased. 6. Lecture by the Guest Lecturer - Dr. Mustapha Ibrahim Al-Adabiyy, Resident Imam University of Lagos Muslim Community, Director, Islamic Centre for Dawah and Researches(ISCDAR). 7. Donations to Ijebu-Owu Central Mosque. 8. Vote of Thanks. 40 DAYS PRAYER FOR ALHAJI ADESUPO ODUKOYA Time : 10:00am - 12:00pm
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05 he family records showed I was born at about 10am Wednesday, 2nd October, T1940 as a twin. My Co-Twin baby was a female named Kehinde. My mother told me she died at about eight months old. My father who I never knew was Abdulahi Adelaja Disu of the Disu Sikunoye Owoeye Family. The Royal family of Imayan quarters, Owu-Ijebu, in Ijebu East Local government area of Ogun State . He was an illiterate local tailor and later a petty farmer at Lewere village in Ehin-Oshun from where his corpse was brought back to Owu-Ijebu and was buried the same day August 25, 1952, when I was in Standard four, in the primary school. Tragically, he never took a photograph. My mother was madam Sadatu Efunbowale Oliga, born 1903 to pa Sunmola Oliga of Imagbon quarters, also in Owu-Ijebu. Pa Oliga was the first son of Adigboluja of Esure in Ijebu-Imushin. My Maternal Grandmother was Ayanfowoke of Oke Iru in Oru-Ijebu. I grew up in Owu-Ijebu as the son of a woman farmer, while I was attending school at St. Michael's Anglican School between 1946-1954 with an excellent result completing standard six examination and my name was Rasheed Taiwo Sanni. My Father's elder brother was Sanni Disu, whose first name was used as my Surname. I attended Owu-Ijebu community secondary school in 1955. The school was closed down in December 1955 as there was no teacher to continue. We had only one teacher and he taught all the subjects and was also the sportsmaster. I later attended the African Church Secondary Modern School at Ijebu-Ode between 1956 and 1957 and obtained the secondary modern school certificate in Dec 1957 in flying colours. In1958, I proceeded to Ibadan and learnt to be a typewriter. In March 1958, I was lucky to secure a job as a clerical assistant at Ibadan high court when Sir Adetunkbo Ademola was chief justice and Mr. J.J. Marinho was Chief registrar respectively. I resigned my appointment to further my education having saved some money. In 1958 December, I took the examination for admission to Ijebu-Ode Grammar School and was admitted to Class II in 1959. I was in Ijebu-Ode Grammar school between 1959 and 1964 for my WAEC and higher school certificate (HSC). For three consecutive years I was Food Prefect (1962), Chapel prefect (1963), and Head Prefect (1964). I had the best result at WAEC grade one and HSC in Pure Written by Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya in 2019”
06 In Sept 1965 still a staff of the ministry of works but under a commonwealth scholarship programme I attended the university of New-Brunswick Fredericton, Canada (1965-1969) and obtained the Bachelor's Degree in surveying engineering and returned the same year to the Federal Survey department as a pupil surveyor in May 1969. I worked there till September 30, 1975 and retired voluntarily with gratuity and pension as acting Senior Surveyor. During this period, my field assignments took me through the present 36 states of the federation. I took part in several survey projects- Map production, Geodetic and Magnetic surveys. My last project was the control for mapping of the entire Port-Harcourt city as officer in charge as chief surveyor. In Jan 1965, I joined the Federal ministry of works (survey Division) as Asst. Technical Officer in training and was later sent to Federal Survey School, Okene now in Kogi State for a special basic course (Jan –Sept 1965) and finished as the best student. In 1975, I took an appointment with a Swiss company that works in the Oil Industry. Our operations were based in Port Harcourt, Warri, and Lagos as headquarters in Nigeria. In 1977, I was promoted to the post of executive director. That was the peak for me as the managing director was permanently a Swiss and a major shareholder and his father based at the international headquarters in Switzerland. maths, Applied maths, Physics, Chemistry all at principal level. In July 1969, I met my wife Alhaja Memunat Olayinka Odukoya (nee Sanni) and together we had six children - Engr. Adekunle Odukoya, Mrs Oluwaseun Ojukotola, Mrs Abisola Opaleye, Dr. Adedoyin Odukoya, Mrs Oluwakemi Banjo and Dr. Oluwafunmilola Abraham. I resigned my appointment in 1977 and went into private practice with my good friend Surveyor Olugbenga Adekoya whom I met in 1965 at the University of New Brunswick, Canada. We registered a company Map Data Services Ltd and practiced as Survey Engineers and Map Makers. Some of the projects we completed include Sokoto Township mapping (1/25,000) covering over 70 X 70 miles, one port complex in Rivers State, Niger/Niger Boundary mapping (1/50,000) from west – east, conversion of analogue maps to digital maps for over 300(1/50,000) map sheets, survey of many Military Barracks including Dodan Barracks,Tradoc, as well as
07 In Lagos where I lived, I served as the chairman of the residents association for 13 years (2001-2013) before I voluntarily resigned. During this period we ensured there was security, peace, clean environment and very cordial relationship among the residents. many oil positions for the NNPC. We also undertook many layout surveys for state governments and a lot of cadastral surveys for major companies –Chevron, Julius Berger PLC. I also served our professional body-Nigerian Institute of Surveyors- in many capacities and was 2nd Vice president in 1990 and 1st vice president in 1991 and was made a fellow in 1988 and received distinguished fellowship in 1993. I also served as an examiner in surveying for West African School certificate for years and was the chairman for West Africa for the West African region before I finally retired. My community service covers my hometown Owu-Ijebu and neighboring towns and I took part in many developmental projects – churches, mosques, town hall, schools, and provision of amenities-water, electricity, and road maintenance where and when the government were not forthcoming.
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18 You served your children, grandchildren, your extended family and your various communities throughout your lifetime. Omo aji fi epe sire, October 2, 1940 - January 19, 2024 Ẹ̀jìrẹ́ ara Isokun Ẹdúnjọbí aranmose bumi ki mbaerele fimi ki npada lehinre. Goodnight. Your wife, Taiye Lolu Ọkọ mi, Omo Olowu Oduru, Adesupo Odukoya, my husband, my older brother which my mother never had. We met in July 1969 and got married on January 27, 1973. Memunat Olayinka Odukoya (Nee Sanni) You took care of me when you were alive and also made provision for me after your death. Balogun dodonda wa. You were a professional father and grandfather. You took full control of the house and was not prepared to share your authority with anybody. This has reflected in the lives of our children and grandchildren. Tribute formy husband SurveyorAdesupo Odukoya WIFE – ALHAJA MEMUNAT OLAYINKA ODUKOYA
19 It was a phase of building mutual respect and understanding, even though I still believed you didn't have to be so uncompromising. I miss you so much my best friend, continue to rest in perfect peace. ENGR. ADEKUNLE ODUKOYA Daddy, thank you for being the WICKED ONE. It was what I needed the most at the time. Later on, I began to understand your thinking and decisions and it started to make sense to me. As your first born child and son, you were my tormentor. I just could not understand why I was so unfortunate to have a father who was so mean, strict, and worst of all completely uncompromising in his ways. My Tormentor…My Mentor…and…My Best Friend After all, my friends also had fathers but none like mine the 'THE WICKED ONE'. As I became older, I started to realize that you were only expressing your love in the best way you knew how. Then I started to listen more and learn. It became crystal clear that if I followed your instructions the success rate was significantly higher. You had become my mentor. I couldn't do anything without seeking your opinion and blessings. Daddy, you were the greatest mentor anyone could have, a rare blessing from God. The last three weeks have been very difficult, knowing that my best friend has gone to rest in perfect peace. I take solace in knowing that you left this world the way you always prayed to with Dignity and Honor. I shall cherish forever all the special moments we shared. I am not much of a talker, but we would sit down and talk for hours at a stretch almost everyday of the week and Mummy would ask, 'What do you people always find to talk about?’ CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN
20 MRS OLUWASEUN OJUKOTOLA(NEE ODUKOYA) The story of your life never ceases to amaze me, from the mystery of your birth as a twin, your journey through life, and finally your graceful, glorious and almost enviable exit… You have proven to me once again that some people are wonderfully made while others just pass through. Daddy, Papa Oduks, 'Of All, A Se Ore, Alhaji, Grandpa…You had so many names and you lived up to every one of them. Discipline, integrity, courage, resilience, confidence, diligence, commitment, generosity,...The verbs are endless when I think of you and the values you instilled in us and everyone you related with… You were a tough one, no doubt but one thing was clear, your intentions were always g o o d a n d si n c e r e a n d y o u w a n t e d t h e b e st f o r e v e r y o n e o n e . You had so many quotes… “Nothing but the best is good enough for you as long as it's within your means” “Whatever is good and ceases to be better would cease to be good”… You tasted poverty, and you would constantly say God delivered you and you wanted nothing to do with poverty and indolence… I am forever grateful that your grandchildren Ayomide and Olaolu had the privilege to be tutored by you like all six of us did and their academic results, a testament to your commitment and brilliance. You had a plan and a path for all your children and grandchildren which you constantly reviewed and communicated. Each time we saw you, you always had an update to share, I would laugh and wonder if you ever slept ...thinking so much… I could write a book about you and it will still seem inadequate. Daddy was like a superhero, with him on your side you truly believed nothing was impossible, his words, actions and support just made you know the sky is the limit and his life was a testimony to this.. You were truly great, the thought of filling your shoes is daunting no doubt… You did your best in this world, I pray almighty Allah forgives your shortcomings and
21 rewards your countless good deeds. Surely you are resting peacefully right beside your mother like you always wanted… Love always Seun your grandmother reincarnate... You will surely be missed and never forgotten... Baba Oduks was self driven, he always said “I have tasted poverty and I want nothing to do with it again” not out of arrogance but from a place of love, knowing the ramifications and therefore making it his life mission to enable everyone he came in contact with, to try and ensure they were on a path to self sufficiency. Even in older years after all of us kids had transitioned to our careers, he moved on to preparing his grandkids for SSCE, he mentored them on career choices and university education . He was very passionate about passing on knowledge and wisdom and more often than not, gave a lot of himself selflessly. MRS ABISOLAOPALEYE (NEE ODUKOYA) I have so many examples of his spirit of excellence, perseverance and determination that this tribute would end up being a thesis. Anyone who met Baba Oduks would leave the meeting wiser, till his last days he was still always dishing out words of wisdom and advice to his doctors. Today, Agility is being touted as a major key skill for success, Baba Oduks had been doing this way back, he tailored his parenting to each child's unique abilities never giving up on any of us. He was my greatest cheerleader. I look forward to the future knowing that you would be cheering me on from the great beyond. He was a very present and hands on father! One of his earliest impact on me was my senior years in secondary school. Imagine a father who had a scientific/Engineering background being thrown a daughter who had zero interest in sciences rather than get discouraged or pass on the tutoring responsibilities(not Baba Oduks) he took it upon himself to educate himself on the social sciences. He bought all the social sciences curriculum and textbooks to educate himself on social science and tutored me through SSCE exams! Needless to say, his results are evident. Baba Oduks and Daddy as we fondly called him, was a father like no other and I mean it literally. In so many ways he inspired, mentored and motivated me to be who I am today. I would miss our Sunday evening calls surely, if I was bored all I had to do was raise a
22 From my earliest recollections, you taught me the value of kindness, teaching me to extend compassion to all, regardless of background. This lesson has proven invaluable, shaping not only my personal interactions but also my contributions to a world in need of empathy and understanding. Your insistence on choosing the path of righteousness over the easy road of indifference has left an indelible mark on my character, guiding me to pursue what is just and noble, even in the face of adversity. Your legacy is not measured in accolades or achievements but in the countless lives you touched and transformed. We, your family, pledge to carry forth your legacy, extending kindness, guidance, and s u p p o r t t o a l l w h o c r o s s o u r p a t h s . Over the past three years, I've attempted to steel myself for the inevitable moment when you would no longer be by my side, providing steadfast guidance. Yet, despite my efforts to prepare, the reality of your absence weighs heavily upon me. You were not merely Rest on dear Dad! Earth's loss and Heaven's gain! Your legacies live on in many many lives. I look forward to the future knowing that you have equipped me with all the necessary tools I need to embrace opportunities and challenges DR. ADEDOYIN ODUKOYA Though initially hesitant to pursue advanced studies, your foresight illuminated the path towards greater knowledge and skill. Through graduate and post-graduate studies, I acquired a depth of understanding that transformed my approach to life, allowing me to embody your belief in uplifting others to reach their fullest potential. I was reluctant to return to the East Coast of Canada to work after completing my PhD because of my unpleasant experience in New Brunswick. I felt there were more opportunities in Ontario. He encouraged me to try it out and fortunately, I listened. Newfoundland is now my home and I met my wife (Jill) and we built an amazing family together. In loving memory of my father, a man of unwavering strength, boundless wisdom, and endless love. The loss of you, my hero, confidant, and mentor, has left a hole in my heart that I fear will never be filled. He gave me the courage to take on any challenge without fear as I knew if anything went wrong I could always count on his support. I recall my time in Nigerian Military School Zaria, which was the toughest challenge I faced in life. He was the only one who would routinely travel with me, visit me, and encourage me to try my best. topic with him on our calls and I was sure to have an interesting conversation. We shared the bond of the love of talking .
23 Though you have departed this world, your spirit lives on in the lessons you imparted and the love you shared. In your absence, I find solace in the knowledge that we, your children, armed with the wisdom of your teachings and the strength of our familial bond, will continue to walk in your light, carrying your legacy forward for generations to come. Your devotion to your children was unparalleled, a testament to the boundless love you held in your heart. With patience and understanding, you tailored your support to meet each of our unique needs, ensuring our success and nurturing our growth. Your influence extended far beyond our immediate family, reaching nephews, nieces, grandchildren, uncles, aunties and countless others who sought your wisdom and counsel. Although Leo and Eli will not be privileged to learn from you directly, I promise to guide them with the same rigour. Daddy, Baba Oduks, Grandpa, Omo Iyasuna, Omo Olowu Oduru, Omo Ajifepesere, my sweet daddy, I always called myself Daddy's only daughter. You were a guiding light throughout my life. I always felt the need to care for you and be by your side, and I am happy I was close to you till the end. brilliant; you were a beacon of inspiration, a paragon of excellence that I strived to emulate, yet always felt humbled by. Your timeless wisdom echoes in my mind: "Whatever is good and ceases to be better would cease to be good." I hold these words close as I navigate life's journey, continually seeking improvement in all that I do. I recall after obtaining my doctorate and Project Management Professional designation, I was not successful in initially obtaining my professional Engineering designation and on every Sunday phone call, he was continuously encouraging me to reapply and position myself to be successful. Due to his persistence, I eventually obtained my Professional Engineer designation. MRS OLUWAKEMI BANJO (NEE ODUKOYA) Rest peacefully, Papa Oduks. Your memory will forever be a guiding light in our lives. I will always remember the closeness we had from childhood until your transition. You were so precious and unique. You lived selflessly and thought so much about others. You set goals, dreamed dreams, and aspired aspirations for not just yourself but for us all.
24 Oreoluwa and Opeoluwa still go to your room every morning to greet you before going to school. We miss you so much, and our hearts are sore. The fact that you are no longer here still fills my heart with pain. I am hurt, but I won't be sad. I will remember all you have taught me. There are not enough words to describe just how important you were to me and always will be. Thank you for loving us. You were there for me through the hardest times, not just holding me but pushing me back up. I am forever grateful for you seeing me through all of my dreams, even when you thought I was doing too much. All the late nights helping with my assignments and project remain indelible and precious memories. Living in America was difficult for me, but you made it easy with all your words of encouragement and phone calls. Thank you for your love of family. With all your love in our hearts, you will walk with us forever. My dearest Daddy…Where do I even start? Being your last child and daughter is one of the greatest privileges God bestowed upon me and I am immensely grateful to God to have called you father for 38 years of life. I could write books and books on all the knowledge and wisdom I garnered from you from birth up until our last phone call on Friday January 12, 2024. On Father's Day, my favorite thing to do was to remind you of this Bible verse - ”Children's children are the crown of old men, and the GLORY of children is their FATHER.“ DR. OLUFUNMILOLAKAMILATABRAHAM (NEE ODUKOYA) Proverbs17:6 NKJV. These words of Scripture will forever ring true for me. You were very blessed with a devoted and loving wife, 6 wonderful children (2 sons and 4 daughters), 6 caring son and daughter in-laws, 14 beautiful and brilliant grandchildren (12 grandsons and 2 granddaughters). God surely used you to help me learn how to live a godly and impactful life! Many look up to famous people on the internet, but I had you to look up to and learn
25 As I once told you, your life reminded me of Cornelius in the Bible (Acts 10:2 - a man who gave generously to the poor), he found special favor with God because of his love and kindness for people. You also found great favor in the eyes of God and men. You lived beyond the boundaries of religion, tribe, age, and socioeconomic class. Your love was boundless as God would expect of each and everyone of us. You left many with eternal words of wisdom. Some of my favorites words from you were the Bible verses, prayers, and worship songs you taught me to cherish and keep close to my heart (Philippians 4:8, Proverbs 22:29, Psalm 91, Psalm 121, Psalm 23, Psalm 126, ”Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment with promise: “that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth.” Ephesians 6:2-3 NKJV. May God in His infinite mercies forgive ALLyour sins in Jesus Mighty Name I pray. from. The stories of God's favor and miraculous works in your life has always inspired me and will continue to be my inspiration for the rest of my life. Your life taught me to not despise the days of small beginnings (Zechariah 4:10), but as you would say, to TRUST that with God ALL things are POSSIBLE. You started your life as a child from very humble beginnings in Ijebu, but built a life and legacy of noteworthy, global, and inspirational impact. You were a world class citizen worthy of emulation and great respect! You set an example in generosity, hospitality - a deep and genuine love for complete strangers, a father to so many, a right guide (as your Muslim name, Abdul Rasheed means rightly guided), a teacher, and a devoted helper. Many of your actions brought the Bible to life for me…in giving…in caring and particularly in supporting those in great need. Like any human, you were not perfect, but you surely tried to live a perfect life, in the best way you knew and understood how. You always set the bar high…but this allowed me to soar even higher…We would always joke, many say the sky is the limit, but we both would always conclude the SKY is ONLY the BEGINNING!!! Your great love and devoted mentorship allowed me to dream and dream big…To accomplish what seemed merely impossible with man but only possible with God! You modeled for me an extremely strong faith in God, which I have taken to heart and strive to pass on to my children, 3 of your grandsons. My favorite worship songs you taught me - To God be the glory, Stand up stand up for My dearest Daddy…Your spirit is alive and well…Your spirit continues to greatly live on and is reincarnated in the lives of your children, grandchildren, and all the amazing lives you touched with your talent, time, and treasures of wisdom and generosity.
26 Jesus, Ese o Jesus, Great is thy faithfulness. These songs are a great comfort as I think about your demise. Thank you for setting an example for me in so many aspects of life. Like one appreciates aging wine, I have come to appreciate having you as a father as I get older and continue to hear cherished memories of your amazing character. I am honored to be known as your last child and daughter. I will be forever grateful to God that He chose to make you my earthly father. You are greatly missed but your legacy and great acts of love will eternally live on. I cherish you…I miss you deeply…and I will always love you very much. You taught me so many amazing things about life…how to think and act wisely…how to strive for the best in all areas of life…how to not settle for nothing but the BEST. Your favorite acronym to me…PHD stands for P- Passion, Persistence, and Perseverance; H - Hardwork; and D - Dedication and Determination. You not only taught me these principles which I have taken to heart and strive to pass down to my children and my mentees, but you provided continued guidance up until your dying bed…practical support to achieve and live out these principles in every aspect of my day to day life. In parenting, you taught me that the best gift I could give my children was not money or wealth, but rather my devoted attention, encouragement, and presence. You showed me the power of providing positive and wise guidance to my children and to not let their destinies meander. In marriage, you taught me to strive to elevate and seek out God's best in my spouse and make their life better and stronger than I met it. From a very young age up until college, you were my English, Mathematics, Further Mathematics, Physics, and Geography teacher. You knew my academic abilities better than I knew my very own self. In my career, you insisted I become a pharmacist when I wanted to study electrical engineering. God used you to help me study pharmacy in college and to eventually pursue a career as an academician and professor. These 2 career paths I wouldn't have chosen but for your counsel, devoted guidance, and teaching. You knew I would excel in these 2 career paths that you chose for me. In friendships and relationships in general, you taught me to be a good friend and cherish good friends. You cared deeply for your friends and strangers as if they were your blood family.
27 Grandpa Oduks Hmmm where to start? I guess the beginning. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree is what I discovered when I met you daddy, the qualities your children present, are as a result of years of quality upbringing. As time went on I learnt that many of your relatives, friends and extended family were blessed with your touch in one way or another. As I got to know you more and more in the early days, I began to get your fatherly emanation towards me. It was with this feeling that when you asked that I move in with Kemi to live next door to you, I made the decision with no hesitation. I am so happy I did, as I got to learn so much more about you, your trials, tribulations and successes in life. I got to learn more about your positive outlook towards family, friends and life. I also learnt some things about my family from you, I guess it was the Ijebu connection that helped. When I first met Kemi there were some traits that immediately increased the fondness I had for her: Kindness, caring, loving, selfless, always wanting to help others, and a very strong sense of family to mention a few. I initially wondered where or how she acquired these characteristics. After meeting her two siblings in Nigeria I discovered that they also had the same traits. I wasn't surprised when I saw the same qualities in her three siblings: 2 in Canada and 1 in the USA, it apparently was a family tradition. Our Boys Ore and Ope will miss their early morning routine of coming over to greet you before their school day and at weekends. They are continuing the tradition with Grandma now. I still remember the day before you went in for your routine procedure at the hospital, we sat you up in a more comfortable position on your bed and through your discomfort you bravely discussed amongst a number of things, the future education strategy for Ore and Ope, what secondary school they should go to, boarding or not (Pros and Cons) and if they should do University in Nigeria or abroad. MR YEMISI BANJO Daddy, Sir, Papa Oduks were some of the ways I spoke to you or referred to you. I will start by saying a very big THANK YOU! To you and Mummy (Mama Oduks) for bringing to life and raising a wonderful daughter called Kemi. Dear Daddy, it was indeed very sad and heartbreaking to hear that you would not be coming back home again. I really do hope you are in a better place and sharing your wealth of knowledge and experience with others like minds and hearts. Adieu! Till we meet again Daddy. I personally will miss our short 2 hour talks and our on occasion 4 hours + discussions on everything from life experiences, family, traditions, Engineering, repair work, design and “Nigeria”, its problems and possible solutions.
28 MR. OLUDOTUN OJUKOTOLA It will be cliche to say I can't believe you're gone but really, I still can't believe you're gone. At the last throw of dirt, I wished so dearly that you would stun us all for the last time, I guess you're only human. My father in law was a great thinker, exceptional, nothing was taken at face value, no room for errors. Obviously my assimilation into the Odukoya family was seamless, I looked forward to every opportunity to visit Ilupeju, anything and everything was worth celebrating. I remember all the get togethers and birthday parties with food and drinks in abundance, even my close friends anticipated them with excitement. Our early trips to Ijebu for Christmas and New year, visit to family and friends capping it up with thanksgiving at the anglican church in Owu. Greatly misunderstood, the testimony of his goodness is overwhelming from those he touched in one way or the other. Every single interaction with him was a lesson which I will always cherish. Surveyor Adesupo Odukoya made me realise that strength is more mental than muscle, his ability to take tough decisions was never in doubt, he would do what he believed in and be ready to accept the outcome. Now that I know you're never coming back to us in flesh, I am comforted that you're in a The first thing that struck me was how as a father of six he was able to immerse himself in each and everyone's life, little wonder they all adored and looked up to him with respect and admiration. He was ever ready to lend a helping hand to those who sort it and many times those who did not. Alhaji's life is a story of destiny, courage, strength and above all a testament to the power of the human spirit. He told his stories over and over again to serve as wisdom and guidance to the discerning mind.
29 better place with eternal resources to guide, guard and protect us in all our life endeavours. Rest in peace Dad MR. OLAKUNLE OPALEYE Grief is unbelievably tough, but your words of wisdom lives on in my heart. Thank you for accepting me into your home. Thank you for the prayers and support during the good and tough times. Thank you for nurturing a wonderful family and for trusting me with your daughter. Thank you for the love and care you had towards my children, your grandchildren. MYFATHER IN LOVE When we spoke earlier in the year, I had no idea that would be the last time that we'll be communicating in person. I cannot forget those words of wisdom. One of which was "Yo u 'll n e v e r s e e s ome o n e b e i n g b l ame d f o r b e i n g t o o p a ti e n t " . As I get older, the respect and awe that I have for you continues to increase. You're a builder, supporter, leader, encourager, wise man and generous to all. Thank you Daddy and continue to Rest In Peace. Daddy, I came into your family not knowing for sure what to expect, but you gently eased my mind and welcomed me with open arms, embracing me as your daughter. You did not only accept me as your child, but my mum and family members also became your family too. Your acceptance and genuine affection made me feel cherished and valued, filling my life with immeasurable joy and happiness. That I will never forget! You were always there for me to offer your guidance, support, and encouragement in any way you could, treating me with the same care and respect as your flesh and blood. Your unwavering belief in me empowered me so much. Even when I did not think much of MRS. ZAINAB ODUKOYA(NEE SHONIBARE)
30 As I reflect on the countless memories we had, I am filled with gratitude for the love and blessings you brought into my life. Your love transcends titles and boundaries, weaving us together as a family in the truest sense of the word. You took my mum like your younger sister and you always looked out for her best interest. Thank you for being a pillar of strength to her. The bond you shared with my grandfather was unique and special, I just wish it had lasted longer! Well, I'm guessing you would continue your chats in heaven now. How you loved your grandchildren to bits and how you constantly kept track of their activities was very remarkable. I was always eager to remind them how lucky they were to have a grandpa who loved and cared so much for them. They will surely miss those chats they used to have with you, especially at the end of every school term. Not to worry Daddy, they will always make you proud. Amen. what I had attained at times, you were very quick to celebrate my little wins and advise me on how to navigate life's twists and turns. I will surely miss all those long conversations we used to have, even though I was always in a hurry! The last conversation we had still plays in my head, I will cherish that memory forever! May Allah (SWT) forgive all your sins and correct all your wrongs .. AMIN. MR. KAROSIBINAABRAHAM It is a great honor to call you Daddy… I am indeed forever grateful to be married to your daughter as that gave me free admission to your exquisite classroom. I have learnt so much from you on how to be a dedicated father which has helped me with parenting my three sons, your grandchildren. You have modeled how to be very engaged and intentional about raising the next generation, to leave nothing to chance but to contemplate on all things. You were a pillar and a rock that gave vision, support, strength and courage to all who were fortunate to be in relationship with you. I have fond memories of all the times I spoke with you, you will always pray and say a blessing to me. Your words were wise, deliberate and encouraging. Extremely fortunate and proud to have known you and become your son. Your legacy lives on, your impact Though you may no longer be with us, your spirit of love and acceptance will forever guide and inspire me. Thank you dear daddy for being more than I could ever hope for.
31 MRS. JILLODUKOYA(NEE EASTON) The first time I spoke to Daddy was New Year's Day, 2017. I recall a brief conversation where he expressed that he was happy to speak with me and wished me “many happy returns” as we entered into a new year. Following this conversation, we would speak most Saturdays until we met in person in the summer of 2017. During our first encounter, I attempted my best Nigerian greeting. Although I don't believe that I executed it well, no one ever said a word! After that, though, in true Newfoundland style, I hugged Daddy each time I saw him! continues to generations untold, and your memory is forever blessed. The next time we saw each other was in March of 2018, just before Doyin and I got married. Daddy and Mommy spent some time with us at our home in St. John's, Newfoundland, Canada. During this time, we got to know each other a little more and a few days later we all traveled to the Dominican Republic for our wedding. I am beyond grateful that he was able to make that trip! Daddy's dedication to family was always evident. After our children, Leo and Eli, were born, our Saturday conversations shifted a little. He would always ask about the children and if they were keeping us busy! He reminded me that soon they would be my best friends and that I should “not work too hard, just hard enough!” I will forever cherish the moment you met them in November of 2022. It was so heartwarming! I promise you that we will keep your memory alive through them as they learn and grow. I need to thank you, Daddy, and Mommy too of course, for giving me the gift of Doyin; for he is the best husband and father there is. I will forever miss our Saturday phone calls. I will remember your famous line when I would ask you how you're feeling - “compatible with my age” you would say. And at the conclusion of each call, you would tell me to “relax, and enjoy your flight of life”. I will do my best to take your advice! And, as you have taken your final flight, I hope that you are in a place of peace and tranquility, free of worry, pain and suffering. Rest easy, Daddy.
32 You had this amazing way of making everyone feel loved and valued. You shaped us into who we are today with your kind advice and unwavering support. Our home was a safe haven because of your compassion and understanding. MR. AYOMIDE OJUKOTOLA The memories we shared together will forever preserve your legacy. Whether it was happy family gatherings or quiet moments of reflection, each one was a priceless treasure. Your guidance and inspiration will help us overcome life's challenges and remind us to be kind, strong, and true to ourselves. In loving memory of my dear grandpa, who brought so much joy, love, and wisdom into our lives. You were our rock, always there to lift us up. Your stories and life lessons will always be a part of us. As we say goodbye, we take comfort in knowing you're at peace, reunited with our loved ones who have passed. Your spirit will always be a guiding light, watching over us and r e m i n d i n g u s o f t h e u n b r e a k a b l e l o v e t h a t b i n d s o u r f a m i l y. MR. FEYIFOLUWAOPALEYE May you rest in peace, Grandpa. In loving memory of a remarkable man, my dear Grandpa, As I write this, I am filled with a profound sense of gratitude and admiration for a life well-lived. Grandpa, you were not just an important part of our family but a beacon of wisdom, strength, and unconditional love. Your life story was a testament to resilience, hard work, and a deep sense of family values. Your presence brought comfort, and your absence leaves an indescribable void. In times of challenge, you stood as a pillar of strength, offering a source of unwavering support. Your words of wisdom will forever echo in our hearts, guiding us through the trials of life. Grandpa, your legacy lives on in the cherished memories we hold dear. As we mourn you we celebrate the remarkable life you led and the profound impact you had on each of us. Your love will continue to be the guiding light for each of us going forward. You will always have a special place in our hearts for you, grandpa, and we will miss you terribly. May you rest in perfect peace and may your love and legacy inspire generations to come.
33 Mr. OREOLUWAOPALEYE MR. AFOLUWASHO ODUKOYA To my dear grandpa. You brought joy and warmth to our lives with your kind spirit and your willingness to always want to help others. You taught me a lot both in life and academically and you also always believed in me which is something I remain grateful for. Your wisdom and love were constant sources of comfort. Thank you grandpa for always believing in me. In loving memory of my grandpa I would like to share words of sorrow. As I was not the closest to my grandpa I still loved him with all my heart and I wish I could've spent more time with him and could've shared more conscious memories with him, My grandpa would pray for me, wish me luck on my test and send all of his wishes to my studies, He was a very smart and loving person and I wish I could've had more time to spend with him. He raised the best mom I could've ever had and I am grateful for all the loving and caring actions he had committed towards me. He was many things to many different people, a mentor, a father, a husband but to me a grandfather. Despite coming from nothing, his principles and morals served as an inspiration to all those around him. He set high standards not only for himself but for anyone who worked with him, he stood for excellence, and he never believed that anyone should ever be second best at anything. If there is one thing, I will never forget he ensured he lived his life by ``whatever is good and doesn't become better automatically ceases to be good again”, he always strived for consistent improvement in everything. He once said that anything worth doing should be done well, meaning that we should always strive to do our best. Even as I mourned his death, I realized we shouldn't cry for his departure, but be grateful for the time he spent with us and the wisdom he has shared with us. MR. OLAOLUWAOJUKOTOLA
34 TRIBUTE TO AND UNCLE, LATE ALHAJI (SURVEYOR) SUPO ODUKOYA (NICKNAMED – “OF ALLWORLD WIDE”) BISIMILAHI ARAMONI ARAHEEMI……………………. ALHAJI ENGR. WALIU LAWALAare Musilimi of Owu-Ijebu. Ÿ Asalam Alaykun Warahamatumllahi Wabaraah Katun Ÿ Certainly all mortal shall taste death at individual's time that WE have appointed Ÿ Inalilahi Wa Inaihialahin wa ranjiunn The high, the average and the down trodden across all the divides were enveloped by the dark cloud of bereavement. No one, needed be told that a support Pillar has fallen and that Owu-Ijebu has lost one illustrious son, an unbroken record-setter and a distinguished land surveyor. 1.0 Recalling memory of your sudden death recently, remain echoing the sad news that befell on and sundry nationwide as it was shocking down to the marrow. For from Allah we all come and unto him shall we all return. 2.0 Surveyor Supo Odukoya, fondly known and called (OF ALL), you were an embodiment of truth, honesty, excellent academic pursuits, feats, courage and above all, a high class promoter of patriotism and community development. FORMER BALOGUN OF OWU IJEBU COMMUNITY 3.0 By testimony, I affirm that evidenced from the little opportunities/time shared under your monitoring, I received great motivations resulting into improvements in my academic performances. You were a leader and teacher that would set tall standards for achievements. Your charge is for all learners to read from “PALI to PALI” meaning to read from the front cover down to the back cover pages of all documents, texts and books. Beyond mere reading, your emphasis is “STUDY” and studies more. Education, I mean total & complete education is your choice of life-time priority and positive accomplishment and this was what you cherished till your home calling. 4.0 Balogun 'Supo Odukoya was an all rounder Icon. The Muslim Community of Owu-Ijebu like the larger Owu nation shall remember you as a motivator & Architect of the modern OWU-IJEBU CENTRALMOSQUE. FAMILY AND FRIENDS
35 He was a loving husband and a caring father. He taught his Children and grandchildren many subjects and was always guiding them in their career choices. ALHAJAMUHIBATABBAS Death moved a mover. Uncle has gone to be with his maker but his memories and good deeds shall always be remembered. May God grant my sister, children, grandchildren, and every one of us related to him the fortitude to bear his departure. Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. Psalm 116: 15 My husband, I, and indeed my entire family mourn him. We pray that his soul rests in perfect peace in the bosom of Father Abraham until we meet to part no more. I beseech Allah to overlook uncles' shortcomings and grant him aljanat firdaos. Though Alhaji Odukoya was my sister's husband, he was like a father to all of us, including our children. He was very caring and generous. He invited my family to stay in his home for more than 3 months when we had issues of armed robbery in 1988 and needed to move out of our home as a matter of urgency. He was a mentor to me and two of my children and I am forever grateful for the useful guidance I got from him in more than four decades. ADUNNI & SEGUN ALAWODE. Adieu Uncle! Adieu! Adieu! Alhaji Odukoya, the husband to my senior sister for almost 51 years, was different things to various people. To his Schoolmates, he was lord of all, but to me and his friends, I am his firstborn child. My siblings and I called him Uncle. I lived with him and his wife for 10 years and even a friend later came to stay with me in his house for some years before we married. He was my friend and mentor while growing up and later became my confidant. After the death of my dad, he became a father figure to all of us in the family. There was nothing we could not talk about from career, religion, current affairs, and life issues. His house was home to many people and he cared genuinely for others. He was a generous man and a loyal friend. He loved and served God. He was a peacemaker. He was full of wisdom and his usual mantra is that patience could never be too much.
36 'SUPO ODUKOYA, A MAN OF AN ERAWHOSE STRIDES ARE WORTHY OF EMULATION. 7.0 MAYYOUR SOULLIVE ON AND ATPEACE WITH THE CREATOR Noteworthy of mention in your moral, financial and more importantly, technical contributions in the Design & Construction of Owu Central Mosque. Beyond infrastructural developments you ably midwife human spiritual developments in Islamic faith. Among these, was my own installation as the AARE MUSILIMI of OWU IJEBU to the glory of Allau ta Allah. Surveyor Odukoya, a genius to the core you were! 6.0 For emphasis, for clarity, for evidential record and to motivate our students of today I reproduce Surveyor Supo Odukoya's WASCE and HSCE results as listed below: A. WASCE RESULT: 1) English A1 2) Mathematics A1 3) Physics A1 4) Chemistry A1 5) Biology A1 6) Additional Math A1 7) Literature-In-English A1 8) Economics A1 B. HSCE RESULT: 9) Geography A1 1) Physics A1 5.0 You were nicknamed "OF ALL SUBJECTS” by your school teachers and mates in acknowledgement of your total excellent performances all rounder in the West African School Certificate Examination (WASCE) and the Higher School Certificate Examination (HSCE). The two are the highly dreaded “real” test of knowledge and students' medulla oblongata capacity in those glorious days. But alas, Owu- Ijebu born' Supo Odukoya ever came first and with “Distinctions”. 3) Additional Math B 2) Mathematics A1 What a fantastic & commendable results which have remained unbeaten. The record still remain intact and fact checkable at Ijebu-Ode Grammar School, Ijebu-Ode.
37 In conclusion, Alhaji Abdul-Rasheed Adesupo Odukoya was a great fatherly figure and mentor, who played vital roles in the lives of many of us in the Sanni family and our relations, especially on my maternal side.May Allah grant him Al-jannah Firdaus and guide and protect his children, grandchildren, wife and the rest of us. There was no major decision I took, since our father died, that I did not sound Alhaji out on and obtained his invaluable input and advice. He was very accessible and went out of his way to add value and be of great help. Afew examples will suffice. He was a great pillar of support and assistance, when I was critically ill, just about a year after our father died. He played, very well, the role which our father would have played. I also owe the building of my country house in Ijebu Imusin, at a relatively young age, to his indefatigable efforts and assistance. He made me overcome the fear of building a house from scratch and he was to play an immeasurable advisory role in the building, about 17 years ago, of the house which I live in Lagos, now. MR. YOMI SANNI - BROTHER IN-LAW Alhaji, as he was fondly called, was a very wise, knowledgeable, kind, energetic, selfless, fearless and supportive 'member' of the Sanni family. He never saw himself as an in-law and he was very close to my late parents. Our late mother believed very much in him and would always ask me whether I had discussed any idea or issue I brought up with 'Baba Kunle', as she fondly called him. She never failed to ask me to thank him for taking good care of her while she was living in our family house at Tejuoso, Surulere. The welfare and progress of all of us (my siblings, inclusive) and our children were dear to him. He was always encouraging us to aspire to the highest level and leave no stone unturned in taking good care of ourselves and achieving ambitious goals and objectives. With our late father, his relationship was at a different level. Alhaji was always acknowledging the immense benefits he derived from his closeness to our late dad and that the strong relationship made him not to miss the fact that he did not get to know his real father very well. He was very determined to fill the void created by the death of our father, about 27 years ago, when most of us were relatively young. The verdict, in my own view, is that he discharged that responsibility creditably and to the best of his ability, which was great by any standard. Adieu, great Alhaji!
38 DR. LATIFU SANNI Often, when I am asked to write a tribute about someone, I struggle to find the right words, especially if I haven't been close to them or only had limited interactions. However, that is not the case with Alhaji Odùkọyà. I feel incredibly proud and fortunate to say that I knew him and had the opportunity to engage in deep intellectual discussions with him, free from religious and cultural biases. I deeply respect his intellect, courage, and his ability to provide guidance and comfort when approached for advice. Although he was my sister's husband, I saw him more as a senior brother or uncle, especially considering the pivotal role he played when the University of Lagos mistakenly issued my medical school certificate to someone else. His valuable advice on how to handle the situation was indispensable. Throughout my interactions, he was always willing to provide assistance and constructive advice, unbiased by personal sentiments. I held him in high regard and trusted him as one of the few individuals I could turn to for guidance. Our most recent conversation, when my wife and I visited him on the 24th of December 2023, reminded me of his vast knowledge and wisdom. I am truly grateful to the Almighty Allah for granting me this privilege, and I will undoubtedly miss him. Farewell, "aṣore má ṣìkà," the brilliant individual known among his peers as "of all subjects." May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Sùn re o, bàbá rere. MRS. BOSUN AINA Death where is thy sting? Alhaji Odukoya was like a father to me. I lived with him and my sister who is his wife for 15years.My teenage exposure to life was from their home with strict rules and guidance.I appreciate all I learnt as regards being an independent lady and striving to be the best in all my endeavours. His wisdom is like that of Solomon and his guidance always leads to positive results.
39 He was my cheerleader in my career and business. He has a listening ear, was a very patient man and a bridge builder. He was a mentor, adviser and guiding angel to me and my siblings. Only the best was good for Alhaji during his lifetime and he also wanted the same for those close to him. We have really lost a gem and a man with the heart of gold, who can never hurt a fly. You will be greatly missed by all. He has been very supportive of me and my immediate family in major decisions we took. MR. ADELEKE SANNI. FNIVS, RSV. Adieu to a man of many parts. My dear uncle shone brightly amongst his peers and was a guiding star in my life. To be honest, had anyone mentioned that I would find myself composing a tribute for my mentor, my father, and above all, my confidant, I would have dismissed the thought outright. Given his condition in December, during my customary festive visit, he appeared vigorous, robust, and mentally sharp for his age. As was his custom, Alhaji, as we all affectionately called him, shared tales of his youth and life lessons advising me to glean wisdom for the sake of my children and outlining his hopes for them. Little did I grasp that these stories were subtle hints of what was soon to unfold. Shortly after the visit, I received a call informing me that he was unwell and wished to see me. Given our bond, akin to that of a father and his first son—a title bestowed upon me by those around us due to our closeness—this request did not come as a surprise. This connection wasn't a mere chance but was either a deliberate act by my late father (Chief Jimoh Adekoya Sanni) or Alhaji's own initiative to look after me following my father's passing. I can recall, amidst the bustle of my father's funeral reception that Alhaji approached me—then a young man of 29, reeling from loss, and seated somewhat isolated with little or no guests except for my wife and a few inMy mentor (Adesupo Odukoya ) “Lord of All”
40 Surv. Alhaji Adesupo Taiwo Odukoya was a great and courageous man. He lived a good life and left a great legacy. There are many virtues to learn from Adesupo's kindness, generosity, calmness, eloquence, social manners, and laughter. He was always happy, and he was a great counsellor to family members and friends. Alhaji Supo was ever amiable, cheerful, smiling, caring, and joyfully devoted to his family, relatives, in-laws, community and duty with all his heart, wisdom, monetary resources and energy. Alhaji Supo was undoubtedly an intelligent and charismatic man who commanded respect and love from people. He was a man of the people. He enjoyed the company of family members and friends and was a great historian who never failed to tell us his laws. He pulled me aside to offer consolation, sharing that my late father had spoken highly of me and expressed concerns before his demise. His assurance filled a void, promising support and guidance, a pledge he honoured, profoundly shaping the person I am today. CHIEFMRS. F. ADEBISI OMOLAYOLE Alhaji was the epitome of selflessness, diligence, and loyalty, deeply caring for his family, relatives, and friends, often taking on challenges to achieve his goals. He played a pivotal role in my professional journey, steering me towards becoming a Fellow of the Nigeria Institution Of Estate Surveyors and Valuers. He always emphasized the importance of reaching the pinnacle of one's career. His parting words to me, "Leke, take charge," resonates deeply, though I find his shoes too large to fill. I pray that Almighty Allah forgives his sins and grants him Aljana Firdaus. I hope to honour his legacy and repay his kindness to my family and me. Rest in Peace, my Father, Mentor, Confidant, and Hero. He was very close to our father, Late Balogun J. A. Sanni who gave him Memunat Olayinka as wife. He never disappointed our father. He was a loving husband and a great father to his children. Supo was number two in the hierarchy of husbands in Sanni's family while my husband Omokayode Omolayole was number one. The two of them were very close. Alhaji was also Dr. Ayo Omolayole's good friend and confidant.
41 His unforgettable impact in my life: An admirable Brother in-law: He was married to my elder sister, but we had a stronger relationship than mere in-laws. A very generous man. When his advice as a mentor required spending money to assist, he offered the assistance before you request. Avery enthusiastic coach and mentor to many younger people, including myself. MR. BABATUNDE SANNI Avery friendly personality: age was never a barrier to our friendship. life history from birth to how he rose to become a great surveyor. Indeed, a kind family man, teacher and mentor who imparted many lives has gone to rest. He would be sorely missed by all of us in Sanni's family. We however rejoice in the knowledge that he lived a principled, selfless, encouraging, exemplary and fulfilled life. May his soul rest in peace. TRIBUTE TO ALHAJI ADESUPO ODUKOYA: MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PERFECTPEACE My mentor per excellence, Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya, was a great thinker and talent hunter, endowed with the ability to bring out the best in whoever sought for his advice or mentorship. He had a way of bringing out the best in you. So, if you were open to advice and not rigid, you would thank God for listening to him, as I did. I started my career as a chemist at the Food and Drugs Administration (now NAFDAC), but Alhaji Odukoya advised me to change my career to Accountancy when I discussed with him that I wanted to apply for Master in Business Administration (MBA). Hence, my journey to become a Chartered Accountant started from his office. As young chartered Accountants, a few of my friends and I set up an Accountancy
42 That was how I got back to NNPC and shortly after, I was enlisted into the Committee that reorganized and commercialized the company between 1987 and 1991, where training school and Alhaji Odukoya was our chairman. Apart from supporting us financially, he always came to the closing ceremonies of each set of students, where he encouraged them. In my first spell, I resigned to join a consultancy firm, because of my interest in consultancy. But two years after, NNPC was being commercialized and reorganized and they were Head-hunting for talents. My department wanted me back, but they did not have my office phone number (no GSM then). Somehow by providence, I was invited for an interview for another job advertised by a consultant and I put my former Manager in NNPC as a referee, so, I decided to go and inform him. That was how he said I should go and bring my application for NNPC job immediately and within months I was offered employment again at a higher grade. But when I went to resume work there was a problem, so I had to consult my mentor ALHAJI ADESUPO ODUKOYA, may Allah bless his soul in Al Janna. I had a unique opportunity of being employed on two different occasions by NNPC, thanks to Alhaji for his support and guidance: What was the problem? I reminded the NNPC personnel officer that I was once a staff, so it would be interesting if he gave me the same Identity number. He went to search for my file and when he came back, he said “but you have not finished paying back the car loan you took, so my Manager said you must pay before you start work again”. I was disappointed and irritated, because when I was leaving then, my new employer wanted to pay off the loan balance, but the personnel department could not confirm how much. They saw the letters my new employer wrote for them to confirm how much to pay, which were not replied. I paid several visits to them then, before my new employer stopped me. So, it was time to go back to Alhaji Odukoya who had congratulated me for the new job. I told him that I wanted to change my mind about the job, “these people had not changed”. He just took it calmly and asked “how much do you have in your savings that you can spare?” I told him. Then, he said, ”OK, I will give you a loan of this much and you will go to your eldest sister, Mrs Omolayole to give you the balance as loan, you will pay us back gradually, don't stress yourself, there is no problem”
43 my consultancy experience counted. I subsequently had a very rewarding career and retired as a General Manager. God bless my Mentor's soul , Alhaji Odukoya for his guidance. Religious tolerance: Call him Alhaji Odukoya alias the “Best Pastor not commissioned”, he would agree with you and the Christian Community of OwuIkija will agree. If there is anyone who understood me inside-out as if I lived with him from my childhood, that was Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya the great thinker and psychologist. His closeness to our late father was impressive and I enjoyed listening to him when he narrated his experience with the man, whom he related with like a father. What he missed: To the best of my knowledge and belief, the only thing that Alhaji missed greatly was the opportunity to contribute to the Academia, as an exceptionally brilliant Scholar. How did he fix this, as a bridge builder? He encouraged two of his brilliant children Doyin and Funmi to be academicians in Canada and USA respectively. I learnt that he was called “OF ALL”, when he was in secondary school because he always came first in any subject he offered and I can attest to the fact that he is unbelievably versatile, bring out any topic and you would be impressed by the depth of his knowledge. ADIEU GREATSOUL!! RESTIN PERFECTPEACE IN AL-JANNA To An IOCN - Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya. There are men and women that played important roles in our individual lives, as we navigate through the challenges and opportunities that we are faced with in life. On my returning to Nigeria from my 14 years sorjourn abroad in 1993. Two important men play vital roles not only as role model, but as loving and caring brother and father to me. They guided my steps, offer well meditated and positive advice to OTUNBA(DR.) KUNLE HASSAN
44 Despite all his landmark achievements, he was an embodiment of humility, integrity, and dedication to his family, friends, and his community. He was always there to help all to the best of his ability and influence . He was a Selfless man and an enigma that is well balanced both Spirituality and Temporally. The family that he left behind is a witness of his success in life as a disciplined , godly and family man. Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya, was faithful to the laid down principles of the gospel of Allah as a true Muslim and as a lover of the good deeds of other religion. He is not only brilliant and excellent in all endeavours of life , from his elementary to higher institutions of learning, but earned and held many top leadership positions that put him ahead of his peers and time. MR. FARUQ OLANREWAJU ABBAS me when the going was tough and provided solutions backed by native intelligence and sincerity of purpose. Without this vital life line support, and directional guidance, the success story of Eye Foundation today would not have been possible. May Allah continue to comfort and sustain his family and the larger family under his sphere of influence. The two fatherly ICONS are Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya and Bashorun Kayode Omolayole, both are of blessed memories today, but their legacy of verified trust and unparalleled charity towards many of their mentees lives on in our memory. These exemplary worthy actions and our sincere prayers, will continue to lighten up their luminous pathways in the Spirit World. They will be counted towards many blessings that will be bestowed upon them in the day of resurrection in Al Jana and towards their posterity. They have demonstrated the fact that, when we are in the service of mankind, we are in the service of God. “When the student is ready, the teacher appears.”—Old Proverb Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya, also known as “Daddy Ilupeju” or “Lord of All”, passed May his soul continue to rest in perfect peace. We will definitely miss you , but your good deeds are interred in our bones and memory. Sun re o.
45 I must sit at the dining table with my books from 7 pm-10 pm every day. As a teenager, I was quite playful and had a lot of friends whose favourite pastime was to engage in truancy. My close interaction with these friends had a negative impact on my academic performance, leading me to repeat S.S.2 at the International School, University of Lagos (ISL). To steer me in the right direction, my parents decided to send me to Alhaji Adesupo Odukoya's residence in Ilupeju. When I got to Daddy Ilupeju's residence sometime in 2000, I was given various sets of rules that I was to abide by. While I cannot recall all of them, the ones that remain etched in my memory are: I had to be in bed by 10 pm every night. I was not allowed to have visitors or leave the house after school. After carefully explaining the rules to me, Daddy Ilupeju told me that his primary objective was for me to excel in my West African Examination Certificate (WAEC) and Joint Admission Matriculation Board (JAMB) examinations. He also emphasized the importance of dropping my truancy and becoming a well-behaved individual. away on Friday, 19 January 2024. His demise has left a huge void in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to have a relationship with him. I am one of those people, and I feel compelled to write a tribute in his honour based on his significant impact on my life. I could not go home on weekends. Initially, I was hesitant about staying in Ilupeju because I felt confined, and I complained to my dad through my letters, but he ignored my complaints. I knew I couldn't complain to my mum because she was the one who hatched the whole idea of me going to Ilupeju. However, I decided to embrace and adapt to my circumstances when I began to experience the reward of my stay in Ilupeju. The Rewards Although I had always loved reading books before going to Ilupeju (thanks to my late dad), I didn't believe in studying my school books because I believed I could always pass any examination without studying. However, since Daddy Ilupeju confined me to the dining table from 7pm-10pm every night, I had no choice but to start studying my school books. Initially, when I sat at the dining table, I would listen to the details of Daddy Ilupeju's conversations with his friends while pretending to be reading, but
46 I left Daddy Ilupeju's residence after graduating from ISL, but I kept in touch with him because he was one of the wisest men I have ever met. I went to him whenever I needed advice on major life issues, and I know several others (including my mother) who also sought his advice based on his wisdom. Indeed, his friends didn't call him “Lord of All” for nothing—they gave him this appellation based on his uncommon brilliance and wisdom. Daddy Ilupeju also regularly visited his ancestral home in Ijebu-Owu to maintain ties with his people, and he encouraged me to adopt this valuable habit. He was also the first person to offer me the opportunity to compere an event (his last daughter's traditional marriage ceremony), and since then, I have received several invitations to compere family events—he also invited me to compere his 80th Birthday ceremony three years ago. He affectionately calls me “My SAN” and always prays for my success in achieving this prestigious rank. With the benefit of hindsight, the major lesson I learned from Daddy Ilupeju's lifestyle was the importance of being actively involved in one's children's lives. Daddy Ilupeju not only taught his children further mathematics and other science subjects, but he also derived satisfaction in mentoring other people's children. He once told me that he reviewed the PhD thesis of two of his children who were schooling in the United States of America and Canada, and he made useful inputs. Although Daddy Ilupeju has gone back to meet his Lord, his legacy lives on through the many leaders he has mentored. Therefore, I am glad that I can always turn to these l e a d e rs w h e n e v e r I n e e d a d v i c e o n a n y ma j o r iss u e i n l if e . Daddy Ilupeju believed in me and was fond of pushing and encouraging me to be the best version of myself. He was one of the few people, aside from my late father, who fully encouraged me to run for political office in 2019. While others expressed concerns and doubts, Daddy Ilupeju told me to go for it, and I am grateful for his unwavering support. after doing this for a few days, I felt it would be much better for me to read my books. When my first term result in SS2 (repeat year) came out, my teachers had to invite me for a meeting because they were amazed at my good results! They asked me what had happened, and I told them I had started studying. Since I loved the new respect from my teachers, I decided to follow Daddy Ilupeju's rules religiously, and I eventually passed my WAEC and JAMB with good grades!
47 May the Almighty Allah forgive Daddy Ilupeju of all his sins and admit him into AlJannah Firdaus. Amin. Our dearest Uncle, also called Papa Kunle, my mum would always lovingly and proudly talk about his dedication to his beautiful wife, Auntie Yinka, and his family; he was my mama's go-to person. She cherished his opinions. He was kind and loving. I came to appreciate Uncle more ,as I grew older. He was an amazing, selfless person who touched many lives. My cousin, who while growing up lived with his family ,would comment that he treated them like his own children. My aunties relied on him for his counsel, and he was their brother from another mother. PROFADETUTU ADETONAANYAEGBUNAM He was very attentive and would listen to everyone's problems and offer solutions to them. Fortunately, he was remarkably intelligent and filled with wisdom so everyone could always count on him. Uncle, you are an award-winning uncle and we will always remember you as a father, uncle, brother, Papa Kunle, and will live on in our hearts. Unfortunately death snatched him away from us, on that day l could not tell my mother it was heartbreaking. The news of your death came to me as a big shock. I am still finding it difficult to accept the reality of your exit. You were too good to have slipped away from our hands just like that. You were very important to almost everyone around you. Rest in perfect peace. MR. BAMIDELE ADEBAYO
48 point at the University he attended in Canada where he studied Civil Engineering; Federal Ministry of Works where he practised as a Surveyor, and the pioneer private surveying company, Map Data Nig. Ltd., which he co-founded with his late partner, Sur. Prince Gbenga Adekoya; the firm contributed in no small measure to detailed geodetic mapping of Nigeria. He was without doubt the Doyen of the Survey Profession in Nigeria. On a personal note, he related to me as a younger brother with regular visits especially every New Year's Day up to 1st January, 2024. Our usual parting song was: “Igba muren wa tun wa, igba muren wa tun wa, ese re de me si nibe we o” after which he would say “My Brother, mo fi yin sabe abo Olorun.” Little did I know that that was our last moment together. My consolation lies in the fact that our loss occasioned by his departure on earth is a gain in the heavenly realm. Alhaji Supo Odukoya was a rare breed. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace and arise in glory. Amen. May God grant his widow, children, grandchildren and all his loved ones the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss. Amen. The most painful part of his sudden departure is the non fulfillment of his wish to relocate permanently to Ijebu in December 2024 marking 70 years of leaving Owu for Lagos from where he criss-crossed Nigeria and other parts of the world! God knows best. It was always a pleasure to be in his company and learn from the profundity of his knowledge on life matters. His exemplary character was a source of inspiration to many of us younger ones right from school days. His generosity knew no bounds, always helping the poor, the needy, widows, orphans, communities and diverse religious organisations. Surveyor Supo Odukoya was a rare friend filled with humility and high degree of A TRIBUTE IN HONOUR AND MEMORY OF A CHERISHED FRIENDS SURVEYOR SUPO ODUKOYA OTUNBA& OTUNBA(MRS) J.AOGUNDEKO