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Contents
       Departments                                                     Features
 7 Viewpoint                                                      10 Reflections from the Bottle
  8 Fraternity News
18 Member Profile                                                             Casting light on the effects of alcohol on women.
             Mary Daugherty Hartong, N u Omicron                  20 Helicopter Parents
             (Vanderbilt U)
                                                                               Hovering parents have landed at a campus near you.
24 Life Loyal A O I I
37 2007-2008 A O I I Directory                                    26 Convention 2007
42 Foundation Focus
                                                                               Reflections from Phoenix - A Convention journal.
             Alcohol Education Adds U p
             Donor Profile - Anne Buechlein Wilmes                56 The Chrysler and Us
             Scholarships - Picture Yourself a Winner
             Convention Commendations                                          A charming 1930's road trip for four A O I I sisters.
             The Perfect Pitch - A O I I Strike O u t Arthritis!
                                                                  62 Chance Encounters
48 Collegiate News
58 Alumnae Chapter Profiles                                                    Sisters connect over and over, again, i n N e w Zealand.
             Calgary Alumnae                                      68 Less Stress for the Holidays
             Long Beach Alumnae
                                                                               Tips to make the busy season more stress free.
64 From the A O I I Archives
66 Things We Love                                                 71 A O I I Foundation Annual Report
                                                                               The 2006-2007 Annual Report of Donors
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ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7                                        To DRAGMA • 3
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To Dragma is the official magazine of Alpha Omicron Pi                    From the r ditor
Fraternity, and has been published since 1905. The mission
of To Dragma of Alpha Omicron Pi is: to inform, educate and               Reflections.
inspire our readers on subjects relevant to our Fraternity, our           I recently opened a letter f r o m the U of Alabama and noticed a shiny silver
chapters, our members, or Greek life; to encourage lifetime               car decal flutter to the floor. I found it odd that they had mailed me a
AOII involvement; to salute excellence; and to serve as a                 National A l u m n i Association car decal when I could not remember the last
permanent record of our Fraternity's history.                             time I paid my alumni dues. Once upon a time I had been an extremely
                                                                          loyal alumnus, but as the years past and family obligations increased, my
How to Contact To Dragma:                                                 allegiance to my Alma mater slipped down my list of priorities. I didn't
To Dragma, 5390 Virginia Way, Brentwood, TN 37027                         even realize it at first, but the little silver decal brought back a flood
(615) 370-0920 fax: (615) 371-9736                                        o f memories o f my collegiate days - the fall leaves falling on the quad,
[email protected]                                               puddle slushing between classes in the rain, Denny Chimes ringing in the
www.alphaomicronpi.org                                                    distance, even squeaky car horns playing "Yea, Alabama" bright and early
                                                                          on Saturday mornings signifying it was football time in Tuscaloosa. I was
How to Update Your Name or Address:                                       remembering things I had not thought o f i n ages, and I smiled. A few
Go to Update Profile on the private side of the AOII website              nights later the phone rang and a young girl politely introduced herself
(www.alphaomicronpi.org) or email your old and new address                as a student at the university as she read f r o m her script, "Mrs. Sasseen,
to [email protected]. You may also call the AOII                  I want to thank you for your past loyalty to the university and ask i f you
HQ receptionist at (615) 370-0920.                                        might consider..." She didn't even have to finish her sentence because I
                                                                          interrupted her to say, "Yes, I'd like to rejoin." The shiny decal had done its
A Note to Parents of Collegians:                                          j o b because it made me remember.
Your daughter's magazine is being mailed to her home
address while she is in college. If your daughter is no longer            I guess I'd have to admit that is what we hope happens when To Dragma
in college or living at home, please send us her updated                  falls out of your mailbox. As you read about A O I I today, maybe something
address, as indicated above.                                              in these pages w i l l cause you to reflect on what A O I I has meant to you
                                                                          in the past and what it still means today. Everyone is not happy w i t h the
                                Managing Editor                           7c> Dragma distribution changes that are coming. You don't care i f the
   Mariellen Perkinson Sasseen, Alpha Delta (U of Alabama)                magazine is bigger or award w i n n i n g or anything else, as long as it just
                                                                          keeps coming. We appreciate your frustrations and respect those opinions.
                                 Assistant Editor                         But, that change is coming, nonetheless, and we still have a lot o f time to
             Erin Burcham, Zeta (U of Nebraska - Lincoln)                 pause and reflect on our options. You can turn your back and walk away
                                                                          or you can remain loyal. Life Loyal A O I I does not imply that you didn't use
                                Creative Director                         to be loyal, it just means you want to remain loyal. We would love to have
           Rebecca Brown Davis, Delta Delta (Auburn U)                    everyone become a Life Loyal A O I I - that would be awesome.
                               Graphic Designer                           But Life Loyal A O I I is not the only option you have to continue to
        Whitney Frazier, Rho Omicron (Middle TN State U)                  receive all issues o f the magazine. Another is through an annual magazine
                                                                          subscription of $25 that we w i l l begin offering next year. The last option
Alpha Omicron Pi is an international women's fraternity                   is even probably my favorite - j o i n your local alumnae chapter. Over 135
promoting friendship for a lifetime, inspiring academic                   cities across the US and Canada have A O I I alumnae chapters and there
excellence and lifelong learning, and developing leadership               would be no better way to show your love and loyalty for A O I I than by
skills through service to the Fraternity and community.                   joining one. Talk about benefits - how about a chapter full of new friends!
Founded at Barnard College in New York City, January 2,                   The one benefit unique to all three options is your To Dragma w i l l keep
1897, by Jessie Wallace Hughan, Helen St. Clair Mullan, Stella            coming. I know my Alabama alumni magazine, which they stopped
George Stern Perry & Elizabeth Heywood Wyman.                             mailing to me years ago, w i l l once again show up in my mailbox. N o w
                                                                          that I think about it - I look forward to that, too! Reflections.
                           International President
                  Susan Danko, Phi Upsilon (Purdue U)                     Regards,
                                                                          Mariellen Perkinson Sasseen,
                               Executive Director                         Managing 1-ditor
    Melanie Nixon Lampertz, Lambda Sigma (U of Georgia)                   Alpha Delta (U of Alabama)
Alpha Omicron Pi is a member of the National Panhellenic                                                                                                                ISSUE NO. 1 • FAU. 2007
Conference and the College Fraternity Editors Association.
                                  COLLEGE FRATERNITY EDITORS ASSOCIATION
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MAGAZINE CRITIQUE                       been for my family and me. I              efforts to provide a significant         that I do. What you are doing
                                             am still hearing from A O I I       amount of quality information              by charging another fee for To
            Our brand new Alpha                                                  about individuals, chapters and
         O m i c r o n Pi magazine is     sisters f r o m years past. A l l o f  your fine organization to your                Dragma, something that was
   wonderful! M y husband has             us thank you for printing the                                                     promised as life long, is pretty
 commented to me three times             article i n such a fabulous way.           constituents. A l l best wishes        close to lying, not at all sisterly,
   now: "You must have every                                                     as you continue to "exceed the
        word memorized, you've               I'll always be grateful I am                                                           and extremely unloving.
    read it so much!" I couldn't             an ' A O Cutie, Cutie Pi," a          expectations" of your friends              You are breaking the faith o f
       seem to stop reading all o f       song I still remember singing                 in the Greek community.
   the interesting articles. Even          at a convention in Roanoke,                                                           the sisterhood. I f this new
        the crossword puzzle was                                                                             Fraternally,    policy is not rescinded, I w i l l
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      a thrill the publication has     truly remarkable summer 2007                            Breaking promises is
                                                                                     something that I do not do.                                  Broken Roses,
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iEWPOLNTT
It's been a magical summer. Even before the Harry Potter mania erupted in July, over 600 A O I I
attendees had already experienced many magical moments during our International Convention
in Phoenix, Arizona last June. As we joined hands to sing the Epsilon Chapter song at the
conclusion o f an inspiring Rose Banquet, it occurred to me that AOII's magical ingredient is our
sisterhood. It's revealed i n each laugh, each conversation, each smile and each hug.
The Oxford American Dictionary defines magic as a quality that makes something seem removed
f r o m everyday life, especially i n a way that gives delight, (i.e. The Magic o f AOII.) Well, maybe
I added the last part for effect, but what a wonderful way to think o f our sisterhood. Some o f the
best magical moments I can remember from my collegiate years can be credited to A O I I . For
those who have stayed involved as alumnae, you know that these magical moments continue.
D o you believe in magic? I f not, there are lots o f reasons found i n A O I I that should change
your mind!
A t convention, I am thrilled to say we rolled out the updated Rituals Book, Book o f Rituals
Instructions and a new Ritual Educational Manual for collegiate and alumnae members. After
several years i n progress, this has been a large accomplishment for A O I I . Because o f the
dedicated efforts o f the Rituals, Traditions andjewelry Committee, chaired by Past International
President, Ginger Banks, these publications have come to life and are providing instruction and
insight o f our R i t u a l to thousands o f members i n the United States and Canada.
I f the whimsical feeling o f our Ritual isn't enough, the thousands o f       r-.
new members that we have gained over the past few months should
help everyone see the magic o f our sisterhood! One o f the most
memorable moments for all AOIIs is the experience o f meeting their
sisters for the first time after accepting their bid. We are so proud o f our
collegiate chapters for all o f their hard w o r k during recruitment and are
continually enchanted by their dedication to the future of A O I I .
As we move into the most magical season o f all, I hope that you'll keep
the same spirit o f fraternity and love that we share as an organization o f
servant leaders.
A l l is well i n the world o f A O I I !
W i t h Fraternal Love,
Susan Danko, International President
ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7                                                                              To DRAGMA • 7
RATERNITY A/EWS                                                  A O I I HOSTS "GREEK FOR LIFE" WORKSHOP
NEW ALUMNAE CHAPTERS INSTALLED                                   O n August 24 and 25, Alpha Omicron Pi was honored to host
Tile Alumnae Department is thrilled to announce the              the first ever alumnae summit, "Greek for Life — Connecting
following Alumnae Chapter installations:
•The Richmond Area Alumnae Chapter in Richmond,VA                through the Alumnae Experience." A O I I welcomed 67
was installed on August 6,2007. Linda Collier, PIP, was the
Installing Officer and Jennifer Arthur was elected Alumnae       attendees from all 26 N P C organizations to our Headquarters
Chapter President.
                                                                 in Brentwood.Tennessee. Dan Shaver, President of Affinity
                                                                 Marketing and Kathy Jensen,AOII Vice President o f Alumnae,
                                                                 served as the facilitators for the weekend.
                                                                 The meeting was an exciting opportunity
                                                                 for organizations to learn best practices as
                                                                 well as network with one another. It also
                                                                 provided an open forum for organizations
                                                                 to talk about the challenges we all face
                                                                 when working with alumnae.                    G R E E K F O R LIFE:
• The Chicago N o r t h Shore Alumnae Chapter was installed      EXTENSION NEWS
on September 8,2007. Linda Grandolfo.Vice President o f
Collegians, was the Installing Officer and Elizabeth Marcus was  A O I I is pleased to announce that we will recolonize the
elected Alumnae Chapter President.                               R h o Beta Chapter (Virginia Commonwealth U),and
                                                                 colonize a new chapter at Columbus State University
                                                                 during October o f this year. RJio Beta was the 149th
                                                                 installed chapter of Alpha Omicron Pi Fraternity and
                                                                 was closed in May 1995. The reestablished chapter
                                                                 will j o i n five other N P C organizations on the campus
                                                                 of the Richmond,Virginia university. Alpha Omicron
                                                                 Pi will also be the third N P C group to j o i n the Greek
                                                                 system at Columbus State University. The decision from
                                                                 the Panhellenic system at Columbus State to open the
                                                                 campus for extension was made in order to permit a
                                                                 local chapter. Alpha Delta Omega, to affiliate w i t h an
                                                                 NPC' group. Alpha Delta Omega has 19 members and
                                                                 was founded in 2003. If you are interested in assisting
                                                                 or serving in an adviser capacity to either colony, please
                                                                 contact Julie Anne Walter [email protected].
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FOUNDATION HONOR GIFTS                                THE PANDA PROJECT
                                                      Under the new AOII communication initiatives, the Fraternity w i l l
Looking for the perfect gift for the woman
who has everything? Consider making a gift to         provide a virtual media k i t for one service project each year. This year,
the A O I I Foundation in honor o f a sister as a     an international Panda Drive was chosen to be held for participating
Holiday gift to her this year. This is a purposeful   collegiate and alumnae chapters. The virtual media kit for the Panda
way to show her you care. She will receive a
card notifying her of your gift. Honor gifts w i l l                         Project is available on the "Graphics" portion of the
also be listed quarterly on the Foundation s web
site. Another idea - purchase the Foundations                          M y AOII website. Chapter members w i l l find a
newest Limoges. Contact the Foundation
(615) 370-0920 for more information on these                                 Panda Project Manual, as well as design templates
unique Holiday gift ideas.                                                   for promotional materials which w i l l help them to
                                                                             carry-out their individual events effectively. Though
SCHOLARSHIP APPLICATIONS                                                     it is not mandatory, we encourage everyone to take
DEADLINE                                                                     advantage o f the new tools offered through this project.
                                                      For more information, please contact Courtney Dillard at cdillard@
The deadline for submitting scholarship               alphaomicronpi.org.
applications to the A O I I Foundation is March
1,2008.Visit www.aoiifoundation.org for               CHAPTER CLOSURE
information and to download an application.
                                                      W i t h sadness we announce that the Executive Board has voted to accept
NEW SCHOLARSHIPS                                      the decision o f the Chi Delta Chapter ( U o f Colorado) to withdraw their
                                                      charter as o f September 20,2007. Clara Tomsula, the Chi Delta Chapter
The A O I I Foundation will award the Iota            Adviser, will be the closing officer.
Sigma Chapter Scholarship and the Carole
Jurenko Jones Honor Scholarship for the first         W I T H APPRECIATION
time at Leadership Institute 2008.The Omega
Chapter Scholarship has also been endowed and         To Dragma of Alpha Omicron Pi recently received an impressive compliment
may be awarded this year.                             from Quebecor World Midland, our printer in Midland, Michigan who also
                                                      happens to be one of the largest printers in the United States. Out of more
PLANNED GIVING                                        than 450 magazine titles that Quebecor Midland prints, their staff selected
                                                      7c) Dragma as one of their best, and has featured us in the display case i n the
I f you are interested in leaving a planned gift      main lobby of the plant. Michael Moxley and Susan Casalini of Maury
to the A O I I Foundation, please consider this       Boyd & Associates, our printers representatives in Indianapolis, share our
sample wording in your documentation:                 pride. As Susan states, "Mike and I were so excited when we saw this! The
                                                      Greek organizations don't usually get this kind of respect against all the fancy
I hereby give, devise and bequeath to Alpha           newsstand magazines!" It is gratifying to be recognized by an industry leader
Omicron Pi Foundation, a Tennessee non-               such as Quebecor World Midland. In turn. Alpha Omicron Pi openly
profit corporation located at 5390Virginia            salutes Maury Boyd & Associates and Quebecor World Midland for the key
Way, Brentwood,TN 37027, (either... the sum           roles they play in producing 77) Dragma.
of S , or... percent of my estate, or.. .the
remainder of my estate when other bequests                     Quebecor World
have been paid).
Please notify the Foundation of your gift so we
can properly thank you for leaving your legacy
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ISSUE NO. 1 • FAU. 2007                               To DRAGMA • 9
Reflections
from the Bottle
                             A t 16 , Susan was the life o f the party.
                             Attractive, charming and outgoing - she was the
                             girl everyone loved to be around. There was no
                             harm in sneaking a few beers w i t h friends when
                             her parents weren't around - it was f u n . She was
                             a good girl who just liked to have a good time
                             - and alcohol was part o f the f u n .
                             B y 2 1 , drinking was a regular part o f her
                             college life and now that she was "legal,"
                             things were more simple. During her first
                             three collegiate years, underage drinking was a
                             challenge, but those w i t h a w i l l and a way knew
                             how. She loved college life and by her 21st
                             birthday, Susan was well on her way to loving
                             alcohol. She made a conscious effort early on to
                             learn what her d r i n k i n g l i m i t was because she
                             never wanted to be one o f "those" girls who
                             couldn't hold her alcohol. Those were the girls
                             who went too far and ended up in some public
                             bathroom puking their insides out - disgusting.
                             After all, this was all about having f u n - not
                             getting sick. Friends labeled her as a girl w h o
                             could handle her liquor as well as any guy-
                             and to Susan that was a real compliment!
                             A t 26 , she was still the life o f every party.
                             Single and dating, Susan's life centered around
                             her career and her friends. Several nights a week
                             after work, she'd go out w i t h friends for happy
                             hour. She could meet the girls for cocktails one
                             night and j o i n the guys for beer and the game
                             the next. Hostesses, waitresses and bartenders
                                                                  (continued on page 13)
                                                                                                                 ISSUE NO. 1 • FAIJL 2 0 0 7
Changing Consequences                                              Did you know that drinking alcohol                                          f.'
                                                                   affects women differently from men?
Social pressures and risks related to the abuse of alcohol
change as a w o m a n ages. Understanding all the risks            Being aware of what those differences are could save
and realities can help women who choose to drink, do               a life. For w o m e n , t h e g o o d news is fewer w o m e n than
so more responsibly.                                               m e n drink. T h e b a d news is w o m e n can g e t d r u n k faster,
                                                                   become addicted sooner, develop alcohol-related
Adolescence                                                        problems quicker, and often die younger than men with
                                                                   similar drinking problems.
The law says that drinking under age 21 is illegal in every
state, but the reality is that adolescent girls d o drink. Girls   And the bad news keeps coming. A m o n g heavy drinkers,
today are four times more likely to be drinking by the age of      female alcoholics have death rates 50 to 100 percent higher
16 than their mothers. A recent survey revealed that 4 1 % of      than male alcoholics, including deaths from alcohol-related
9th grade girls (14-year-olds) reported drinking in the past       accidents, heart disease, stroke, liver cirrhosis, and even
month with 20% of those having had 5 or more drinks on             suicide. With liver disease alone, w o m e n tend to develop
a single occasion. Teenagers claim they are most likely to         p r o b l e m s 10 t o 15 years earlier than m e n , even if w o m e n
drink alcohol to have a g o o d time, to experiment, or to relax.  consume only a fraction of the daily alcohol that men do.
Young p e o p l e w h o begin drinking before age 15 have a 4 0 %  Another alarming study showed that 40% of alcoholic
higher risk of abusing alcohol some time in their lives than       women attempted suicide, compared to only 8.8% of
those who wait until after age 21.                                 non-alcoholic women. To make matters even worse,
                                                                   treatment of alcohol abuse in w o m e n lags behind that for
Peer pressure plays a large role in whether a teenager drinks      men. Experts believe women face a greater social stigma
or not. Research has shown that girls often begin drinking         and are thus less likely to seek help. A n d until recently, most
not to impress boys, but to endear themselves to other girls.      studies have been conducted on males rather than on the
In a 2001 study, 1,000 sixth-grade girls were f o u n d to be      more complex female anatomy.
twice as likely as boys t o succumb to peer pressure to drink.
While boys at that age tend to move among social groups,           After drinking a given amount of alcohol adjusted
girls already had formed powerful cliques. Fortunately, g o o d    according to body weight, women have higher blood
parenting has a role in the process, too. Teens who grow up        alcohol levels than men. Why? A woman's higher body fat
with supportive parents who talk openly with their children        ratio, changes in alcohol absorption rate due to a menstrual
about alcohol are less likely to drink than their peers.           cycle, and difference between men and women in the
                                                                   amount of gastric alcohol dehydrogenase (the stomach
One of the significant consequences at this age involves the       enzyme that breaks down alcohol) contribute to these
dangers of drinking and driving - one of the leading causes        differences. W o m e n tend to become alcoholic more easily
of teen death. Additionally, drinking makes young women            and experience medical complications more quickly than
more vulnerable to sexual assault and unsafe and unplanned         men - even when they drink less.
sex. Just as young w o m e n are starting t o date, adding
alcohol to the mix only makes their ability to make rational           V
decisions more difficult, and sometimes impossible.
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Mocktails - Offerinq a Choice
People generally drink for one, or more, of six reasons; to quench thirst, to enjoy social drinking, t o
enjoy t h e taste of the beverage, t o f e e d an a d d i c t i o n , as part of a religious or traditional ceremony,
or t o g e t drunk (binge drinking). W i t h social drinking, if your intention is merely t o enjoy t h e occasion,
you rarely set out to become drunk.
G o o d hostesses should understand that s o m e guests will want to drink less than others, or maybe not
at all, and should always provide a variety of non-alcoholic beverages. Sodas and water are easy and
advisable, b u t it's n o t always c o m f o r t a b l e drinking a c a n n e d soda w h e n everyone else is s i p p i n g
from a wine glass. When hosting your next social gathering, why not offer a tempting choice
that will make everyone feel at ease by serving one of these stylish fruity concoctions.
SORBET COLADA                             HIBISCUS MIST
1 cup fresh pineapple, cubed              2 rosehip-and-hibiscus tea bags
1/2 c u p cream of c o c o n u t          1-6oz frozen limeade concentrate,
1/4 c u p c o c o n u t s o r b e t
1/4 c u p t o a s t e d c o c o n u t        thawed
                                          3 cups Sierra Mist Cranberry Soda
In a blender, c o m b i n e 2 cups
ice with pineapple, cream of                 Fruit garnish
coconut, and coconut sorbet.
Blend mixture 1 minute. Fill o n e        Place tea bags in a glass mea-
small shallow bowl with water and         suring cup and fill with 2 cups
another with toasted coconut.             boiling water. Steep 5 minutes
Dip rims of 6 glasses in water            and discard bags. Cool. Prepare
then in coconut. Divide mixture           limeade concentrate according
evenly among glasses. Serve with          to package directions, replacing
fresh fruit garnish and a paper           water with 3 cups soda. Stir in the
u m b r e l l a . (6 servings)            tea and chill. Serve over ice with
                                          fresh fruit g a r n i s h . (6 servings)
CHERRY FIZZ                               WHITE SANGRIA
1/2 c u p frozen cherry juice             1/4 c u p o r a n g e juice, chilled
                                          2Tbsp sugar
   concentrate, thawed                    1 orange, sliced
1/2 c u p g i n g e r ale                 1 kiwifruit, peeled and cut
Pour cherry concentrate in a glass.          into wedges
Slowly stir in ginger ale. Garnish        1 cup watermelon balls
with a s t e m m e d cherry. (1 serving)  1 cup cantaloupe, cubed
                                          1 cup pineapple chunks
                                          2 (750 mm) bottles sparkling
                                            pear juice
                                          In a bowl, c o m b i n e orange juice
                                          and sugar. In a separate b o w l ,
                                          combine all fruit and drizzle with
                                          juice mixture. A d d sparkling
                                          pear juice, cover and chill 2 hours.
                                          Serves beautifully out of a punch
                                          b o w l . (10 servings)
12 • T o DRAGMA
Reflections                                                                    Young and Middle Adulthood
      from the Bottle                                                               Young w o m e n in their early 20s to mid-30s are
                                                                                    more likely to drink than older women. O n college
                      at her favorite hangouts greeted her by name.                 campuses, assaults, unwanted sexual advances,
                      D r i n k i n g had become easy. Beer went d o w n            and unsafe sex continue to be more common
                      like water and first date jitters were best settled           among students who drink heavily on occasion
                      over cocktails. She rarely kept track o f her limit           (four drinks or more for women). Campuses are
                      anymore because she never had any problems.                   reporting alarming numbers of females with
                      She could drink a lot and never feel a thing.                 alcohol levels far higher than average males being
                      She liked the attention she received because                  treated in emergency rooms for alcohol poisoning.
                      she could "hold her o w n " w i t h the guys, while           The associate dean of students at one major
                      other girls sipped their fruity mixed drinks.                 university says, "Our w o m e n are drinking one for
                      Overreacting friends sometimes tried to tell her              one with men, but they're coming in much more
                      she might have had a few too many drinks, but                 damaged. We're seeing a real role shift going on
                      they did not understand how well she could                    here." A t all ages, drinking t o excess by a w o m a n
                      handle her liquor.                                            makes it more likely that she will be a target of
                                                                                    violent or sexual assault.
                      B y 35 , Susan had met and married the man
                      of her dreams. He shared her love o f a good                  The ability " t o drink like a m a n " is a label m o r e
                      time so they regularly socialized w i t h other               and more w o m e n seem to be earning, but it
                      married couples at trendy restaurants and friends'            should be a red flag. Research has shown that
                      homes. Their core group of friends were loyal,                drinkers who are able to handle a lot of alcohol
                      but some old friends never called anymore.                    all at once are at higher - not lower - risk of
                      She didn't k n o w why they lost touch, but they              developing alcohol problems.
                      weren't much f u n anymore anyway. Susan now
                      had two young children, a home and a career                   Stress is a c o m m o n t h e m e a n d c o m e s into play
                      to manage. Although life was pretty good most                 at this time in a woman's life. Research confirms
                      days, it was more stressful than ever as demands              t h a t o n e of t h e reasons p e o p l e drink is t o help
                      on her time and energy seemed to increase                     them cope with stress. Ironically, heavy drinking
                      daily. Since those great nights' out were harder              causes even more stress in a j o b and family.
                      to arrange, Susan made sure they counted by                   Depression is closely related, a n d w o m e n w h o
                      partying harder and staying out later. She would              drink at home alone are more likely than others
                      regularly call i n sick to work and sleep until               to develop drinking problems. Research shows
                      noon because it was getting harder to recover                 that women who have trouble with their closest
                      f r o m a hard night o f partying. Susan now knew             relationships tend to drink more than other
                      she didn't have to go out to drink. W i t h her               women and women whose husbands drink
                      hectic life, it was easier to just stay home. A               heavily also tend to drink more.
                      drink after work, with dinner, after the kids
                      were asleep helped ease some o f her mounting                 Drinking poses a significant risk to pregnant w o m e n
                      stress. It still amazed her how well she could                and their unborn children. Fetal alcohol syndrome is
                      handle her liquor.                                            a far too c o m m o n set of birth defects that includes
                                                                                    growth and mental impairment. In addition t o these
                                                            (continued on page 14)  years being child-bearing years, a woman begins
                                                                                    to experience some of the long-term health issues
• NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7                                                              related to heavy drinking - liver, heart, and brain
                                                                                    disease, as well as cancer.
What is a standard drink?                                                    Reflections
  • One 12-ounce bottle of beer or wine cooler                                from the Bottle
   • One 5-ounce glass of wine
   • 1.5 o u n c e s o f 8 0 - p r o o f d i s t i l l e d spirits             A t 47, it was really alcohol, not people, that
   (Note: the alcohol content of different types of                             offered Susan the best company. It was much
   beer, wine, and distilled spirits can vary quite
  substantially).                                                             easier and pleasurable to drink in the privacy o f
                                                                             her own home, than out w i t h a group. Besides,
 What is moderate drinking?                                                 when she went out, she would not dare to drink
   For a w o m a n , consuming less than seven                                  as much as she would like for fear o f someone
  drinks a week or less than 3 drinks in any                                 making one o f "those" comments. People spied
  s i n g l e d a y is c o n s i d e r e d w i t h i n t h e D i e t a r y
  Guidelines for moderate drinking. Recent                                       on her - and they nagged. Susan thought she
  studies have shown there are several health                                 still looked good for a woman o f her age, when
  benefits from moderate levels of alcohol use.
   Understanding when moderate drinking ends                                      she made the effort, and was tired o f hearing
   a n d w h e n a b u s i v e d r i n k i n g s t a r t s is crucial t o    others imply otherwise. So what i f she looked a
   understanding the risks.                                                 little sloppy now and then? Her so-called friends,
                                                                              her husband, even her kids made up stuff about
  Even moderate drinking is risky.                                          her. She was just a little depressed, and often felt
  The chances of being killed in a single-vehicle                               r u n down, that's all. A few drinks were easier
   crash are increased at a b l o o d alcohol level that a                  than taking an antidepressant. Alcohol made her
   140—lb. w o m a n w o u l d normally reach after having
  just one drink                                                              feel better, her friends and family made her feel
   on an empty stomach.                                                     worse, so the bottle became her best friend. She
   • M o r e than 150 medications interact harmfully
   with alcohol including many                                                   learned a few years earlier that it was easier to
   cough and cold medications.                                                 hide a bottle around the house than to listen to
   • Research suggests that, in some w o m e n ,
   as little as o n e drink per day can slightly                                                   someone lecture her like a child.
   raise the risk of breast cancer.
   • Drinking by women who are pregnant                                         B y 54 , life was no longer a party. Years o f
   can lead to Fetal Alcohol Syndrome.                                         hard drinking had taken it's toll on her health,
   • Additionally, moderate drinking can lead                                   her appearance, and most o f her relationships.
   to alcohol abuse. Even w o m e n who
   drink less than seven drinks a week are                                             O n some level Susan knew it, wanted to
   at increased risk of developing alcohol                                         change, but there was nothing she could do
   abuse or d e p e n d e n c e if they occasionally                              about it. She believed that it was easier to lie
   have four or more drinks on any given day.                                   about the d r i n k i n g than tell the truth because
                                                                                    no one understood. She dreaded the yearly
To DRAGMA                                                                   lecture f r o m her doctor and his insinuations that
                                                                               she was abusing alcohol. There always seemed
                                                                                  to be tension and arguments at every family
                                                                                                                     (continued on page 17)
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Older Women
       Aging seems to reduce the body's ability to adapt
       to alcohol. Due t o an age-related decrease in the
       amount of water in the body t o disperse alcohol,
       older adults reach higher blood levels of alcohol
       even when drinking the same amount as younger
       people, and feel some of the effects of alcohol
       more quickly.
       Alcohol problems among older persons are often
       misdiagnosed. Loved ones need to know that
       alcohol may be the cause of problems assumed to
       result from age. These include depression, sleeping
       problems, heart failure, and frequent falls. Elderly
       patients are now admitted to hospitals about as
       often for alcohol-related causes as they are for
       heart attacks. They are more susceptible to falls
       and fractures, not because they are "falling down
       drunk," but because alcohol can weaken muscles
       and damage nerves.
       Drinking can often make older w o m e n feel like
       eating less. Alcohol also blocks the body's ability
       to absorb and use vitamins. Both issues can lead to
       poor nutrition, which puts the body under stress.
       More than any other group, older women use
       medications that can affect mood and thought
       and can interact with alcohol in harmful ways.
       These include medications such as those for
       anxiety and depression.
       Research suggests that it may be more common in
       women than men for alcohol problems to develop
       late in life. Unfortunately, older women are especially
       sensitive t o the stigma of being alcoholic and less
       likely to admit they have a problem. For successful
       rehab, women with shorter histories of problem
       drinking d o better in treatment than those with
       longer-term drinking problems.
ss M.
The Consequences of Alcohol ABUSE
The health effects of alco-    Heart disease: Chronic              How to Get Support
hol abuse and alcoholism       heavy drinking is a leading         for A Loved One
are serious. Studies have      cause of cardiovascular dis-
found that more women          ease. A m o n g heavy drink-          You are not alone. Most communities
than men are more prone        ers, men and women have               offer the following support groups:
to several health dangers      similar rates of alcohol-re-           • Al-Anon - A s u p p o r t g r o u p for
including alcohol-related      lated heart disease, even             spouses and other adults in an
organ damage. Health           though many women drink               alcoholic's life.
problems include:              less alcohol over a lifetime           • Alateen - O f f e r s s u p p o r t for children
                               than men.                             and teenagers of an alcoholic
Alcoholic liver disease:                                             • Call T h e Center for Substance
Women develop alcoholic        Osteoporosis: This is a               Abuse Treatment at 1-800-662-HELP
liver disease more quickly     skeletal disease in which             for information about treatment
and after drinking less alco-  the bones become brittle              programs in your local community.
hol than men. Women are        and fragile from loss of
also more likely than men to   tissue. Studies have shown     References:
develop alcoholic hepatitis    that heavy alcohol use         http://www.athealth.com/Consumer/disorders/womenalcohol.htnnl
and to die from cirrhosis.     decreases bone density         http://www.postgradmed.com/issues/2002/12_02/cyr2.htm
                               and increases the risk of      http://www.time.com/time/2002/wdrinking/story2.html
Brain disease: Most alco-      osteoporosis.
holics have some loss of                                                                                               ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7
mental function, reduced       Psychiatric Disorders
brain size, and changes in     All psychiatric diagnoses
the function of brain cells.   are more c o m m o n in alco-
Women appear to be at a        hol-abusing w o m e n than in
greater risk for Alzheimer's   non alcohol-abusing wom-
disease than men. Research     en or alcohol-abusing men.
suggests that women are        Depression and suicide
also more vulnerable than      rates are high, paranoia is
men to alcohol-induced         prevalent and anorexia and
brain damage.                  bulimia are more common
                               in alcoholic w o m e n .
Cancer: Many studies
report that heavy drink-       Assault: Drinking also
ing increases the risk of      increases the risk that a
breast cancer. Alcohol is      woman will be assaulted
also linked to cancers of the  physically or sexually.
head and neck (the risk is
especially high in smokers
who also drink heavily) and
the digestive tract.
      l o DRA<
-: 1
Reflections
          f r o m the Bottle
       gathering. It was frustrating how everyone she
            loved was out to get her. Her marriage was
      rocky and her two children rarely called except
        to lecture her about getting help. She couldn't
             just check into a rehab facility because her
              friends would talk about her i f they knew
                                 she had a d r i n k i n g problem.
        A t 58, her death certificate listed "cirrhosis
         o f the liver" as the cause o f death - one o f the
     many dangers her doctors had warned her about
          for years. The last couple years o f her life had
            been enormously challenging as she finally
           acknowledged that she was an alcoholic and
      began to try to fight the disease that was k i l l i n g
          her. Each rehab checkout brought new hope
           to her and her anxious family, but hope was
        usually dashed w i t h i n weeks o f her departure.
    She wanted to stop, but neither her body nor her
      mind was up for the fight. Ultimately, her urge
         to drink was as strong as her hunger for food.
            D u r i n g her last few months, Susan learned,
     slowly and painfully, how tragically the abuse o f
    alcohol can affect women. She didn't understand
           how she ended up this way. She had always
     been the girl who just liked to have a good time
                           - and alcohol was part o f the fun.
                                 by Mariellen Perkinson Sasseen,
               Alpha Delta (U of Alabama), Managing Editor
ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7
PROFILE
                    Miles from Ordinary
"No                 Mary Daugherty Hartong, N u Omicron (Vanderbilt                       one o f w h o m was still very small at the time, Mary
matter our          U ) does not call herself a runner. There are much                    found it hard to find time to get in her long runs.
backgrounds,        stronger athletes out there who w i n races, and are hard             Often times they would take four or five hours
we come to          on themselves when they can't beat the clock, or don't                out of her day and they were getting impossible to
peace on            end up with a gold medal around their neck. Those                     schedule around her already busy routine, so half
the track,          people, are runners. Mary, despite not being a runner,                way through her training Mary quit. Quitting gave
a n d t h e r e is  has completed nine marathons and has even traveled                    her a feeling worse than any blister or sore muscle
something to        overseas to race with athletes from around the world.                 ever would. Mary never wanted to feel that way
be said             She laces up her shoes six times a week, puts in thirty               again, so she recommitted herself to the goal, signed
about that."        to forty miles ot pavement time and participates in a                 up for a marathon in Washington B.C., and hit the
                    track workout to increase her speed and agility. It is                sidewalks once again.
                    safe to say that by anyone else's definition, Mary is a
                    runner, and a very dedicated one at that.                             The Marine Corps Marathon in Washington D.C.
                                                                                          was Mary's first marathon. D u r i n g the race, Mary
                    Perhaps it is because she didn't start out w i t h a love             felt great. She remembers at mile 17 thinking " I
                    for running, that it is hard for her to identify herself              could run forever." Then mile 2 2 came, and Mary
                    as a runner. Mary, who has always been athletic,                      "hit a wall," or runner's lingo for her breaking
                    enjoyed sports, but did not start running until she                   point. " I can't make it," she thought. Somehow
                    was in her late thirties. R u n n i n g was boring, and               Mary said she "dug deep inside" and found the
                    she would much rather play tennis than go for a jog.                  energy to finish the race. The feeling she felt when
                    Then one day her friend needed a running partner.                     she crossed the finish line was greater than any
                    "Me?" Mary had asked her, "You want me to train                       pain she had endured during the race. Completing
                    with you for a marathon?" Not very confident that                     that marathon changed Mary's life, and began her
                    she could run a mile, let alone 26.2 miles (a f u l l                 "positive addiction," she says.
                    marathon), Mary set out to run three miles. She
                    completed her run, and committed to training for                      Running helped Mary "find herself," she says. As
                    the upcoming Chicago Marathon. She joined a                           she grew older, so much o f her time had been
                    running group and started building up mileage in                      devoted to other people and projects. She had given
                    anticipation for the marathon, but time was Mary's                    up many of her activities, and had lost time for
                    largest road block. The mother of three daughters.                    herself. R u n n i n g was something for just her, and no
                                                                                          one could take that away f r o m Mary. "As a woman,
                                                                                          you have to preserve yourself," she says. "Running
                                                                                          does that by improving your self esteem, fitness, and
                                                                                          mental toughness. I am a better mother because I
                                                                                          have my o w n hobbies and my own outlets."
                                                                                          Today, Mary is training for her tenth marathon.
                                                                                          She w i l l r u n the N e w York Marathon i n November
                                                                                          for the third time. Mary's collection of finisher
                                                                                          medals are f r o m marathons in Chicago, London,
                                                                                          Athens, and the Country Music Marathon in
                                                                                          Nashville, T N , where she resides.
                    Mary meets a fellow American while competing in the London Marathon.  Mary's aunt. Liz Ramsey, also an A O I I , has been
                                                                                          one of her biggest fans. W h e n Liz's three boys were
18 • To DRAGMA                                                                            grown and out o f the house, she found she had time
                                                                                          on her hands. Her friends encouraged her to take
                                                                                          up bridge or j o i n the gardening club. Instead, Liz
                                                                                          took up running. When Mary started running,
                                                                                          Liz was always excited to talk mileage and distance.
                                                                                          When her aunt Liz needed knee surgery due to
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she would complete one of her dreams tor her. Liz       that she would be the finisher of nine marathons,
had always wanted to run the London Marathon,           when she went for that first run around her                  different sporting events
and asked i f she successfully came out of the surgery  neighborhood. R u n n i n g is something that anyone         and leagues in your area.
i f Mary would enter the race. She did, and Mary        can pick up with proper training, because you are
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and proud of her niece, Liz cheered on Mary             R u n For the Roses race, you can individualize             from personalized training
throughout the entire race, and traveled to several     your program to fit your needs. One thing that
different spots along the route to take pictures.       Mary stresses is that it is much easier w i t h a running             programs, nutrition
                                                        partner. " K n o w i n g she is waiting for me each        information, race calendars,
Running a race in a different country was very          morning makes me make the commitment to get
emotional for Mary. There were so many runners          up and j o i n her," Mary says. She also suggests the        injury prevention, and tips
from many different parts o f the world all uniting     book Running Until 100, by Jeff Galloway who                    from the pros including
together for the same event. Even i f the runner        helped train Americans for the Athens Marathon. It                            Jeff Galloway.
beside her could not speak her language, each           focuses on a run-walk program that w i l l keep your
participant had an understanding for each other, and    joints healthy and is less stress on the body.             by Erin Burcham,
a shared passion for the same sport. " N o matter our                                                              Zeta (U of Nebraska-Lincoln),
backgrounds, we come to peace on the track, and         4:23 is Mary's marathon personal record. When              Assistant Editor
there is something to be said about that," Mary says.   asked which race it was, she could not remember
                                                        o f f the top of her head, which is testament to her                     To DRAGMA • V)
Last November. Mary flew overseas once again to         character as a runner. To Mary, the race is not
run in the Athens Marathon i n Greece. The route        about the clock. The seconds on the stopwatch do
is the original course of the very first marathon,      not define her true measurements. What matters
run by the soldier Pheidippides from a battlefield      much more than the time it takes to finish the race,
                                                        is the time spent doing something you love, just for
                                                        you, i n your o w n way, at your o w n pace.
ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7
by Erin Burcham,               1
   Zeta, (U of Nebraska-Lincoln)
   Assistant Editor                  ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7
20 • TODRAOMA
Ahh, the first day of school. What an exciting time it was. Dad
                         bought you a new backpack full of number 2 pencils and spiral
                         notebooks. Mom helped you pick out your outfit, complete with
                         matching headband, took your picture, and held your hand as she
                         walked you to class. Having her there made you feel safe. She
                         introduced you to your teacher, kissed you goodbye, and promised
                         she would be back to pick you up as soon as the bell rang.
                         Then, she marched into the office of the Dean of Admissions and
                         demanded to know why you didn't receive the scholarship you
                         applied for over the summer.
                         We're not talking about Kindergarten, we're          Instances like these, are actually happening.
                         talking about an invasion that is o c c u r r i n g  The helicopter is ready for take o f f and landing
                         across college campuses. Put on your goggles         at any sign o f distress, and no issue is too small
                         and step back f r o m the landing zone, because      for the aircraft to handle.
                         the Helicopter Parents have arrived.
                                                                              Helicopter children are classified i n the
                         A term used more and more frequently since           generation o f people b o r n between the 1980s
                         the year 2000, "Helicopter Parents" refers to the    and 2000. Born to baby boomer parents,
                         group of millenial parents that remain overly        this generation o f individuals has been the
                         involved i n their children's lives as they enter    most "protected" group to walk the suburban
                         and continue through adulthood. Beyond               streets. These children grew up as the w o r l d
                         looking out for their children's best interests,     was becoming more dangerous and products
                         helicopter parents are taking it to the next level   were getting safer. Parents o f these children
                         and choosing their children's classes, calling       were constantly reminded to keep their kids
                         professors, involving themselves i n roommate        safe by purchasing bike helmets, baby gates, and
                         disputes, and frequently visiting campus to          elbow pads. Parents attended "neighborhood
                         ensure their children are safe. They earn their      watch" meetings and stayed informed on toy
                         name by "hovering" over their children and           recalls. The millenial generation was the first
                         their daily activities.                              to go to bed at night w i t h a baby m o n i t o r next
                                                                              to their crib, the first to grow up with personal
                         "Don't forget to buy your text books today," a       computers, and the first to have cell phones.
                         text message may read. Just a friendly reminder      For the first time, parents were able to stay i n
                         from a helicopter parent.                            constant communication w i t h their children,
                                                                              whether the kids liked it or not. Long since are
                         Then, the d o r m r o o m phone rings at 7:00 A M .  the days o f the "honor system," when keeping up
                         It's not an emergency, but a wake up call sent       w i t h your children's social interactions. Today,
                         every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday from the         a parent can track their child down by ordering
                         chopper to ensure their child is up and ready for    the GPS option on their cell phone plan.
                         math class.
                                                                              So it seems only natural that the urge to protect
                         Or, the visit to the professor o f psychology, term  would continue when a child enters college, a time
                         paper in hand, arguing that the child clearly        of big transition and change. Interestingly enough,
                         deserved a much higher grade for all o f the         many children welcome this attention from their
                         research, a'hem, she d i d .                         parents. Instead of feeling smothered, many
                                                                              students keep the communication frequent f r o m
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Being a helicopter parent is a stressful job. Research
                shows that many parents judge their own self worth by
                their children's accomplishments and failures.
                their end, which keeps the chopper circling. Calling            Learning to be self sufficient is extremely
                home at any sign o f trouble, f r o m what to do about          important for the growth and maturity of all
                a leaky faucet to how to separate laundry, validates a          people. A n adult should be able to make his
                parent's reasoning for keeping the nest not so empty.           or her decisions and be able to hold their o w n
                Parents don't realize however, that the overall results         in the w o r l d . Accountability is essential i n the
                f r o m this "hand holding," can have negative effects          professional world. Would you trust a banker
                on a child's transition into adulthood.                         w i t h your money i f you knew he had just placed a
                                                                                call to his m o m to drop o f f his rent check for him?
                Children w h o have been raised i n an
                overprotective environment often lack the skills                Many college campuses are taking action to
                they need to function independently. Because                    prevent hovering. Sessions are being added to new
                decisions have always been made for them,                       student orientation, and information specifically
                and because they have never had to solve their                  for parents is being added to university web sites.
                own problems, these new adults have trouble                     In addition, some institutions have hired additional
                negotiating and remaining accountable. I f they                 staff members to take on the increase in parent
                are expecting a wake up call to get them to class               phone calls. Some schools even have "parent
                each day, w h e n w i l l the "extra help" and hovering         bouncers," or students who attend freshman
                end? College graduation is not always the last                  orientation and distract and prevent parents f r o m
                flight o f the helicopter.                                      meeting w i t h academic advisors. Others, are
                                                                                implementing N o Fly Zones, and refusing to cater
                Parents are becoming more and more involved                     to the helicopter parent trend. Colgate University
                in the j o b search and the career moves o f their              recently changed their policy f r o m p r o v i d i n g each
                children. Helicopter parents have been spotted                  parent w i t h a list o f administrators' phone numbers
                attending interviews, and have been overheard                   to sending out a statement about Colgate's
                making calls to potential employers to question                 philosophy on self reliance.
                salary and benefits. Many employers w i l l hear
                "Let me discuss it w i t h my parents," f r o m                 Universities encourage parents to instill a sense o f
                candidates before agreeing to take a position.                  independence in their children before heading o f f
                Seeking a parent's advice may seem normal, but                  to college, and suggest "and hovering" techniques
                it's when a parent makes the decision or is the one             when dealing with their student children. One big
                doing the j o b negotiating where it crosses the line.          thing that parents can do, is to allow their children
                                                                                to call them, rather than checking i n every day.
                Instead o f pilot, experts suggest parents take                 When the child does call w i t h a problem, parents
                on the role o f "coach," when it comes to their                 should listen and suggest resources to help solve the
                children's lives. Offering support, but giving                  problem, rather than making decisions for them.
                space, w i l l give a child the o p p o r t u n i t y to learn  Additionally, parents should stay out o f any type
                responsibility. I f conflict is always removed out              o f social or romantic relationship problems, unless
                o f a child's life, he or she w i l l never learn to deal       their child is i n danger.
                with sticky situations on their own. Kids grow
                up a lot w h e n they are held accountable f o r bills,         Being a helicopter parent is a stressful j o b .
                scheduling, and chores.                                         Research shows that many parents judge
                                                                                their own self worth by their children's
                There, o f course, is a difference between hovering             accomplishments and failures. Many blame
                and "treating." Unexpected gifts, a tank o f gas                themselves i f their children are not successful.
                on Dad, a trip to the mall over fall break are all              Additionally, once their children finally do spread
                perks that come with being "missed" by mom and                  their wings and gain independence, parents find
                dad. A parent is probably hovering however, i f                 they have little to fall back on as they have l i m i t e d
                the unexpected g i f t is a surprise visit to campus            their o w n social activities for so long.
                to clean their apartment or i f dad bought the gas,
                because the child didn't k n o w how to pump their
                own tank.
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W i t h increased education about the topic,               m
hopefully parents w i l l see the importance o f
letting their children learn life's lessons on their
o w n , but it almost seems as i f an
inevitable cycle is occurring.
Helicopter parents are now
becoming grandparents, who
w i l l ultimately influence the rearing
of their children's children. Technology never
slows down and the next generation w i l l
undoubtedly be exposed to products we have yet
to even imagine. Parents o f toddlers are already
deeming themselves helicopter parents, some
even wearing T-shirts to make a statement that
hovering is not a negative t h i n g . So what w i l l
campuses need to do to prepare for the class o f
2025? "Take your m o m to school day?" Hover-
ers Anonymous groups? O r perhaps, they may
just need to build bunk beds big enough to
sleep m o m and dad.
       Helicopters circle sorority village:
Sorority life is seeing its fair share of helicopter parents.
Some schools are reporting mothers "moving" to campus for the week to help
their daughters get dressed and ready for recruitment parties.
Chapters have experienced phone calls, letters, and personal visits from parents
demanding to know why their daughter was not chosen as a member.
Parents have requested to attend chapter relations committee meetings and
have argued chapter decisions.
A g o o d way to stay involved without hovering... AOII Parents Club!
ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7                                                        To DRAG MA • 2 3
W i t h grateful appreciation, A O I I recognizes the following 4 2/1 new
Alpha Delta                    Beta Phi                   Delta Theta                   Kappa Chi
Mariellen Perkinson Sasseen    Ellogene Griffith Jackson  Mary Walters                  Heather Bandy
Gloria Hamner Stewart          Elizabeth Hafher Pietsch
Donna Willis Fearing           Margaret Danko Hajduch     Delta Upsilon                 Kappa Delta
Susan Franklin Dournaux
Heidi Hovell Stanley           Beta Pi                    Lauren Frazier Rowe           Susan Arnold Targove
Alpha Kappa                    Lynne Garvey Robinson      Epsilon                       Kappa Gamma
Kathy Templin Creekmore        Beta Tau                   Michelle Bressler             Grace Schumacher Ward
Anna Perry Davis                                                                        Tori Sandbrook
Debbie Lovelady Rains Gardner  M.J. Refaussejacobsen      Epsilon Alpha
                               Linda Sheridan Nichols                                   Kappa Kappa
Alpha Lambda                                              Janet Holmes Linsenmaier
                               Chi Delta                  Linda Gillespie Moyer         Maria Brownlee Pagano
Michelle Finley                                           Elizabeth Eagelman Alexander
                               Joan Lott Starika PhD                                    Kappa Omega
Alpha Omicron                                             Epsilon Chi
                               Chi Lambda                                               Cathy Rodgers Carnes
Mary Kay Thomas                                           Heather Myers                 Jodi Stanley-Brewer
                               Shauna Cavins              Kate Stejskal
Alpha Phi                                                 Jenn Tesno                    Kappa Rho
                               Chi Psi
Kerry Hanson                                              Epsilon Gamma                 Dorie Wilderman HefFner
                               Denise Chavez Morgan                                     Roberta Ruth Peterson
Alpha Rho                      Erin McGranahan            Ann Marie Jacques-McColm
                                                                                        Kappa Sigma
Margaret Benton Russell        Chi Theta                  Epsilon Omega
                                                                                        Mandi Watkins
Alpha Theta                    Amber Warren               Jill HillikerAllgier          Monica Kelly
Amanda Knous                   Delta Chi                  Epsilon Sigma                 Lambda Beta
Kristin Moffat Wilson
                               Andrea DiGirolamo Segeda   Jamie Elizabeth Schroeder     Barbara Penland-Maun
Beta Lambda                    Nancy Gallo Speake
                               Allison Smith Zuefle       Gamma Alpha                   Lambda Sigma
Elizabeth Formentini
                               Delta Delta                Julie DeCicco                 Anne Wooten Ruzic
                                                                                        Veda Ann Colston Creighton
                               Laura Bendey Israel        Gamma Delta                   Gayle Chandler Fischer
                                                                                        Jenny Lambert
                               Delta Omega                Aimee Rivera
                                                                                        Lambda Tau
                               Karen Hill Johnson         Gamma Omicron
                               Emily Forbes Small                                       Evelyn Redding Zagone
                               Jennye Mason Grider        Cristina L . Malphus
                                                          Joyce Wray Alford             Nu Beta
                               Delta Pi
                                                          Gamma Theta                   Wendy Agnew Hutchins
                               Lindsey Ammons Zucker                                    Katherine Walker Herndon
                                                          Rita Madden Berger            Sally Monroe Busby
                               Delta Sigma                Kristen A Condella            Sarah Boggan
                               Erin Osborne Murphy        Melissa Picciola              Nu Lambda
                               Jo Ann Tartaul Hawley      Allison Marshall
                                                          Meredith Zenge                Dorothy Parlapiano Forrester
                                                          Kappa Alpha                   Nu Omicron
                                                          Laura Bruce Spadoni           Martha Graves DeBardeleben
                                                                                        Sara Wells-McCook
members who joined between May T - I . 200f - September - M , 2007.
Omega                        Tau Delta                  GINGER BANKS, LIFE LOYAL N 9 3
Ruth Tallman Pifer           Angela Camp Morrow Baker   Pi Kappa (U o f Texas. Austin)
                             Rita Allgood Tubbs         A O I I Past International President (K)8i-11)85")
Omega Omicron                                           Rituals, Traditions and Jewelry Committee Chairman
                             Tau Omega
Jan Douglass Bishop                                     M y decision to join A O I I i n 1967 w h e n I was a freshman at the
                             Laura Weathersby           U o f Texas provided me friends, a home, and a support system
Omega X i                                               on a large campus. Beyond my family, the people w h o have
                             Tau Omicron                most influenced my life are A O I I alumnae. T h e i r leadership,
Annette Davis Shields                                   guidance, and friendship helped me grow immensely.
                             Hope Parish Brazzell       Without their mentoring. I'm absolutely convinced that I
Omicron                                                 wouldn't have been elected AOII's International President
                             Theta                      at the ripe o f age o f 32. I also k n o w that w i t h o u t m y A O I I
Kate McDonald Dangler                                   experiences through the years. 1 w o u l d n ' t have progressed as
Sara Swann Teets             Catherine Davis Kennedy    1 d i d as a communications professional and member of upper
                             Judith Hull Messick        management at the State Bar of Texas.
Phi                          C . J . Hancock Cleland
                                                        Since I became a Bast International President i n 1985, the
Jane Lages                   Theta Eta                  many additional friends I've made and experiences I've had
                                                        while volunteering in A O I I have enriched my life beyond
Phi Alpha                    Pat Prashaw Lockhart       description. A O I I has always adapted t o the times, w h i l e
                                                        h o l d i n g fast to o u r f o u n d i n g principles as expressed in o u r
Patricia Davis VandeHey      Theta Pi                   Ritual. As a result. A O I I continues offering members o f all
                                                        ages friendship, f u n , support, and personal g r o w t h .
Phi Sigma                    Gina Noce
                             Bridget Pfeiffer Scanlon   I urge you to join me and become a
Joyce Bryan Strout           Irma Bahr-Madrid           member o f Life Loyal AOII. By doing
                             Elizabeth Hamann Lawrence  so, you'll invest i n Alpha O m i c r o n
Psi Delta                                               Pi and the role we play in helping
                             Theta Psi                  women further build strong character,
Christina Tumminello                                    develop lifelong skills, while actively
                             Sandi Buresh               demonstrating compassion for others.
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Barbara Cryer Bowermaster
                             Wanda Grizzle Frady
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Abby Epps
Christen Culpepper Lundgren  Christy Hamilton Schegg
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Patti Cudney
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Sigma Lambda
Anne Kienitz
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Cindy Crane Chabolla
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Lisa Menin Suarez
Rochelle Connelly
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Directory of Volunteers
Executive Board                               Foundation Board                     Past International
                                                                                   Presidents
 INTERNATIONAL PRESIDENT                      For a complete listing, see page 72
                                                                                   Ginger Banks
Susan Danko                                   Properties Board                     Pi Kappa, ( U o f Texas Austin)
Phi Upsilon (Purdue U)                                                             [email protected]
susan.danko@us. fujicsu.com                   PRESIDENT
                                                                                   Linda Peters Collier
 V t C E PRESIDENT OF OPERATIONS              Janette Breckenridge Tessmer         C h i Omicron, (Central State U )
                                              Gamma Theta ( U of South Florida)    [email protected]
Louanne Condreay                              [email protected]
Phi Upsilon (Purdue U)                                                             Peg Kramer Crawford
[email protected]                        V I C E PRESIDENT                    Iota, ( U of Illinois)
                                                                                   [email protected]
 V I C E PRESIDENT OF DEVELOPMENT             Krista Malmquist Whipple
                                              Omega (Miami U)                      Ann McClanahan Gilchrist
Allison Allgier                               [email protected]           Theta, (DePauw U)
Epsilon Omega (Eastern Kentucky U )                                                [email protected]
[email protected]                         DiRECTOR
                                                                                   Barbara Daugs Hunt
V I C E PRESIDENT OF FINANCE                  Barb Dunn Zipperian                  Phi Delta, (U of Wisconsin Milwaukee)
                                              Kappa Kappa (Ball State U )          [email protected]
Barbara Zipperian                             [email protected]
Kappa Kappa (Ball State U )                                                        Carole Jurenko Jones
[email protected]            DiRECTOR                             Alpha Delta, (U of Alabama)
                                                                                   [email protected]
V I C E PRESIDENT OF ALUMNAE                  Kimberly Altemus Carroll
                                              Delta Chi ( U of Delaware)           Joan Deathe MacCallum
Kathy Jensen                                  [email protected]                  Kappa Phi, (McGill U)
Theta Omega (Northern Arizona U)                                                   [email protected]
[email protected]                    DIRECTOR
                                                                                   Nancy Moyer McCain
V I C E PRESIDENT OF EDUCATION                Allison Allgier                      Rho, (Northwestern U)
                                              Epsilon Omega (Eastern Kentucky U )  [email protected]
Kristy Lee Manchul                            [email protected]
Kappa Lambda ( U o f Calgary)                                                      Sally Wagaman
[email protected]                        DIRECTOR                             Sigma Tau, (Washington College)
                                                                                   [email protected]
V I C E PRESIDENT OF COLLEGIANS               Katherine Leach Andrews
                                              Gamma Theta ( U of South Florida)    Mary McCammon Williams
Linda Schwartz Grandolfo                      [email protected]  Phi, ( U o f Kansas)
N u Iota (Northern Illinois U )                                                    [email protected]
[email protected]
V I C E PRESIDENT OF COLLEGIANS
Phyllis Gilson
Sigma Phi (California State U at Northridge)
[email protected]
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Committee                                 Public Relations Committee       Cynthia Skiver, Omicron Pi
Chairmen                                  Judith Gambrel Flessner          [email protected]
                                          Iota, ( U of Illinois)
Archives                                  [email protected]           Shelly Stevenson, Delta Theta
Joan Deathe MacCallum                                                      [email protected]
Kappa Phi, (McGill U )                    Rituals, Traditions and
[email protected]                  Jewelry Committee                Ali Summerford, Delta Alpha
                                          Ginger Banks                     [email protected]
Budget/Finance Committee                  Pi Kappa, ( U o f Texas Austin)
Barbara Zipperian                         [email protected]            Kay Welch, Theta Pi
Kappa Kappa (Ball State U )                                                [email protected]
[email protected]        Alumnae Network
                                                                           Bryanne Weston, Kappa Lambda
Constitution Interpretations and          Directors                        [email protected]
Revisions Committee
Julie Brining                             Karen Galehan, Phi Lambda        Jennifer Zoni, Sigma Phi
Gamma Delta, ( U of South Alabama)        [email protected]                [email protected]
j u 1 ieb @mobis. com
                                          Lori Goede, Gamma Omicron        Collegiate Network
Education Committee                       [email protected]
Kathy Brakefield Sowell                                                    Directors
Lambda Tau, ( U o f Louisiana at Monroe)  Specialists
[email protected]                                                     Becki Bair, Theta Psi
                                          Sharon Boison, Kappa Kappa       [email protected]
Fraternity Development Committee          [email protected]
Rebecca Herman                                                             Amber Countis, Pi
Chi Lambda, ( U of Evansville)            Jacque Cashdollar, Zeta Kappa    [email protected]
[email protected]                      [email protected]
                                                                           Amiee Gold, Delta Chi
Government Relations Committee            Lisa Dutt, Phi Sigma             [email protected]
Alexis Babcock                            [email protected]
 Upsilon, ( U of Washington)                                               Laura Haran, Theta Pi
 [email protected]               Rene Fitzgerald, Pi Kappa        [email protected]
                                           renefitz@sbcglobal .net
 Human Resource Committee                                                  Stephanie Rendon, Delta Theta
 Anne Buechlein Wilmes                     Erin Gaddis, Gamma Theta        [email protected]
 Chi Lambda, ( U of Evansville)            [email protected]
 [email protected]                                                      Becky Rogers, Epsilon Omega
                                           Marty Harrison, Lambda Sigma    [email protected]
 NPC Delegate                              [email protected]
 Carole Jurenko Jones                                                      M a r j i Stevens, Beta Kappa
 Alpha Delta, (U of Alabama)               Shari Kagan, N u Iota           [email protected]
 [email protected]                     [email protected]
                                                                           Specialists
 Parliamentarian                           Sky Louapre, Pi
 Ingrid Latimer Schulz                     [email protected]                 Kelly Abbott, Sigma Phi
 Beta Lambda, (Illinois Wesleyan U )                                       [email protected]
 [email protected]           Stephanie Murphy, Lambda Iota
                                           [email protected]               Jen Bair, Theta Psi
 Perry Award Committee                                                     [email protected]
 Barbara Daugs Hunt                       Julie Peterson, Kappa R h o
 Phi Delta, (U of Wisconsin Milwaukee)    [email protected]      Karen Batzle, Alpha Gamma
 [email protected]                                                    [email protected]
                                           Dolores Rhodes, Alpha Delta
                                           [email protected]          Courtney Boehme, Tau Lambda
                                                                           [email protected]
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Jamie-Lynn Burns, Theta Pi     Barbara Kormanyos, Theta Psi      Lori Williams, Gamma Delta
[email protected]     [email protected]             [email protected]
Rochelle Connelly, Sigma Phi   Lorie Leitner, Pi Alpha           Vicki Williams, Sigma
[email protected]           [email protected]     [email protected]
Anna Davis, Alpha Kappa        Rachel Lyles, Kappa Omicron       Colony Development
[email protected]            [email protected]            Network
Laura Dunlap, Kappa Tau        Rachel Maris, Lambda Eta          Director
[email protected]          [email protected]
                                                                 Brandi Nunnery, Rho Omicron
Megan Ehrisman, Iota           K i m McCollom, Delta Alpha       [email protected]
[email protected]            [email protected]
                                                                 Specialists
Jill Frondorf, Delta Omega     Kaya Miller, Gamma Theta
[email protected]           [email protected]                   Lori Curci-Reed, Lambda Iota
                                                                 [email protected]
Debbie Gardner, Alpha Kappa    A n n Marie Pascarella, Theta Pi
[email protected]               [email protected]                     Tammy Glenn, Epsilon Chi
                                                                 glenn [email protected]
Tiffany Gilbey, Kappa Lambda   Christin Pratt, Pi Alpha
[email protected]     [email protected]          Tracy Gust, Theta Psi
                                                                 [email protected]
Michelle Gilliam, Chi Epsilon  Celia Reed, Lambda Sigma
[email protected]          [email protected]                     K i m Keaton, Epsilon Chi
                                                                 [email protected]
Ethnie Groves, Chi Delta       Shala Schweitzer, Kappa Lambda
[email protected]            [email protected]                  Rebecca Myers, Alpha Delta
                                                                 [email protected]
Beverly Hatcher, Theta Psi     Alyssa Simon, Delta C h i
[email protected]            [email protected]         Christine Walters, Iota Chi
                                                                 [email protected]
Christie Hines, Delta Upsilon  M e g Sisk, Phi C h i
[email protected]               [email protected]        Carrie Whittier, Theta
                                                                 [email protected]
Bashan Holt, R h o Delta       Barbara Smothers, Kappa Sigma
Eleanor. B. [email protected]       [email protected]
Brooke Holtzman, Theta Omega   Pam Thomas, Alpha Pi              Thanykou
[email protected]                 [email protected]
Jaynellen Jenkins, Phi Beta    Anne Marie Toy, Rho Omicron
[email protected]  [email protected]
Kat Keller, Theta Pi           Amy Vanourek, Phi Upsilon
                               [email protected]
Cathleen Kelly, Iota
[email protected]           Jess Ward, Epsilon C h i          Volunteers!
                               [email protected]
Veronica Kentish, Lambda Beta
[email protected]              Brooke Wesley, Kappa Omega
                               [email protected]
Steph Kinser, Theta Psi
[email protected]
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i\EUNiONS
                )
LAST JUNE, OVER 30 SISTERS ATTENDED THE IOOTH
ANNIVERSARY RECEPTION FOR THETA CHAPTER (DEPAUW
U ) OF ALPHA OMICRON PI. THE PROGRAM INCLUDED THE
SHARING OF FAVORITE MEMORIES, A TOUR OF THE FORMER
CHAPTER FACILITY, SINGING OF THE EPSILON CHAPTER SONG
AND THE OFFICIAL DEDICATION OF A NEW A O I I BENCH
COMMEMORATING THE EVENT. SEVERAL SISTERS CONTRIBUTED TO THE PURCHASE OF
THE BENCH THAT WAS PLACED ON THE FRONT PORCH OF THE FORMER CHAPTER FACILITY.
ALUMNAE OF THETA CHAPTER RAISED OVER $2,500 FOR THE PURCHASE AND DEDICATION OF
THE BENCH. THE EVENT PROVED TO BE A WONDERFUL TIME TO SHARE TREASURED THETA
MEMORIES WITH SISTERS FROM FIVE DECADES, RANGING FROM 1952-I998.
40 • To DRAGMA  ALPHA OMICRON P I WAS WELL REPRESENTED AT THE
                60TH REUNION OF THE CLASS OF I947 AT MONTANA
                STATE UNIVERSITY I N MAY. O F THE 15 CLASS MEMBERS
                ATTENDING, NINE WERE WOMEN AND OF THOSE NINE,
                SIX WERE MEMBERS OF THE I943 INITIATION CLASS OF
                A O I I . " W E ALL ATTENDED THE 50TH REUNION AND
                ARE MAKING PLANS FOR THE 7OTH."
                Members - left to right- Ruth McDonald Hadzor, Gladys (Hap)
                Anderson Dudik.Jean ( Kootch) Farris Barrett, Martha Wright Suter,
                Margaret A n n Simpson Nolan, Jean (Bunny) Lenham Hansen.
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Alcohol Education Program
Adds Up to Success
Numbers that Count
  1,400 college students die each year from alcohol-related causes.
  70,000 students are victims of alcohol-related sexual assault or
  date rape annually.
  400,000 students have unprotected sex under the influence of
  alcohol each year.
  500,000 students are injured annually as a result of alcohol use.
  25% of college students report that their drinking caused them to
  fall behind in classes and receive lower grades overall.
  34% of college students say they've missed at least one class
  because of their alcohol or drug use.
 • 34% of college students admitted to failing a test or project
  because of the aftereffects of drinking or drug use.
 1 One night of heavy drinking can impair your ability to think abstractly
  for up to 30 days, hampering your ability to understand complex
  concepts or even think through a basic math problem.
Source: Core Institute: American Campuses 2003 and National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism
The AOII Foundation believes that providing the Fraternity with
 educational, leadership and programming grants for programs such as
AlcoholEdu® offers opportunities for AOII women to enhance personal
strengths, gain important leadership skills, and strengthen career values.
Every year, thousands o f new students         College in the Summer and Fall of 2005           the scenarios to gauge and m o d i f y blood
march o f f to college campuses w i t h the    demonstrate the effects o f the program.         alcohol levels by varying the frequency o f
perception that drinking large quantities      After taking the course:                         drinks, type of drink consumed, drinks
of alcohol is part of the college experience.  • 74% said they now k n o w more about           with food and other factors.
Sadly, they are right. Effective alcohol       blood alcohol concentration (BAC).
education is crucial because alcohol           • 72% said they w o u l d recommend the          Through this unique approach, specific
statistics, such as those at left, are         program to other students.                       behaviors can be examined and compared
staggering. Alcohol education that is          • For the entire academic year o f               to alternate choices. This capability to
designed to prevent problems rather than       2004/2005, students who took the                 customize the education process for each
address after-the-fact violations is believed  course had significantly fewer negative          student is key to the program's success i n
to create safer and healthier campuses.        personal, health, and academic                   motivating behavior change. Part 2 o f the
For that reason, A O I I is committed to       consequences."                                   AlcoholEdu course is completed 30 days
AlcoholEdu" for College to help our                                                             later and assesses the program's realistic
members make educated decisions when           The online course combines proven                impact on behavior during that period.
it comes to the use of alcohol.                prevention strategies with science-based
                                               research to create engaging, multimedia          The Fraternity has determined that every
AlcoholEdu® is an online training              lessons that should appeal to our members.       collegiate member of Alpha Omicron Pi
program designed to examine and teach          The lessons address unrealistic expectations     w i l l be expected to complete AlcoholEdu
students about the consequences of the         about the effects of alcohol, link choices       during the fall of2007. Additionally, all
use of alcohol. The A O I I Foundation is      about drinking to academic and personal          new members must complete AlcoholEdu
pleased to provide a grant to the Fraternity   success, motivate behavior change, and           as a requirement for initiation.
to fund this outstanding program for our       help students practice healthier and safer
collegiate members. AlcoholEdu is a            decision-making.                                 The A O I I Foundation believes that
product of Outside the Classroom, a private                                                     providing the Fraternity with educational,
developer, and is being used by numerous       Part 1 of the course takes approximately         leadership and programming grants for
fraternal organizations and universities to    2 'A to 3 hours to complete and includes         programs such as AlcoholEdu" provides
help students make better informed choices     in-depth surveys and education. A student        opportunities for A O I I women to enhance
regarding alcohol. It is the goal of Alpha     begins the program by answering questions        personal strengths, gain important
Omicron Pi in implementing this program        regarding their own gender, weight,              leadership skills, and strengthen career
that members w i l l be motivated to assess    and current behaviors. Based upon the            values. Supported through contributions to
and subsequently modify their alcohol use i f  student's answers, it customizes subsequent      the Loyalty Fund and investment income
necessary. The program is not designed to      information and questions to address             from the Endowment Fund, $100,000 in
lecture, but rather teach students how to use  specific aspects of alcohol use and its effects  grants have been awarded to the Fraternity
alcohol responsibly.                           on each student's personal experience.           for the coming year. The A O I I Foundation
                                                                                                remains grateful to the our donors for
Research has proven that the program is        Biological effects of alcohol are explained,     their generous contributions which enable
already a success. Outside the Classroom       and blood alcohol content facts are              programming, such as AlcoholEdu, to be
reports, "Surveys from more than 70,000        explored. Additionally, the course uses          available for our members.
students who completed AlcoholEdu for          scenarios and allows the student to alter
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FOUNDATION TOCUS
FOUNDATION DONOR SPOTLIGHT
ANNE BUECHLEIN WILMES
Loyal Connections
W i t h an A O I I mom and an A O I I daughter, Anne Buechlein Wilmes.      to represent her chapter at the 1979 Convention in Nashville when
Chi Lambda (U ot Evansville) truly understands the meaning ofbeing          Chi Lambda received a prestigious Distinguished Service Award.
a Lite Loyal A O I I . A dedicated member of the Indianapolis Alumnae
Chapter for over 26 years, Anne epitomizes the word loyalty.                Since graduating from the University of Evansville, Anne has loyally
                                                                            served as her alumnae chapter's Membership Education Chairman,
"'Becoming an A O I I filled a need for me to find an organization          President and, most impressively. Panhellenic Delegate for 15 years.
that helped people become the best they can be," says Anne. " I             O n the international level, she held the position of Regional Director
never really saw myselt as a leader, but my A O I I sisters saw things in   for five years and has served on the Human Resource Committee for
me that I didn't, and I w i l l always be grateful." Her sisters astutely-  the past four years - chairing for the past two. Anne and husband.
recognized Anne's leadership qualities and elected her Chapter              Art, have two daughters. Her oldest, Katie, is a graduate student at
President. Her proudest collegiate moment was the opportunity               George Washington U , and Mary is her A O I I daughter, a Delta
                                                                            Rho (DePaul U) sophomore. Anne's mom. Marjone Anne Lamport
                                                                            Buechlein, was also a C h i Lambda. " M y mom has always said she
                                                                            never had quite as many opportunities in A O I I as I did because she
                                                                            didn't pledge until herjunior year," says Anne, then shares, "But when
                                                                            Mary pledged last year, mom signed up right away to be a Life Loyal
                                                                            A O I I . This past year has been very exciting for all three o f us."
                                                                            Through the years, A O I I has given so much to Anne, so contributing
                                                                            to the A O I I Foundation's Loyalty, Endowment and Scholarship
                                                                            Funds are her ways o f giving something back - and saying thanks.
                                                                            " I had the good fortune ot receiving a Diamond Jubilee Scholarship
                                                                            while I was in school," she said, adding, " I always promised myselt
                                                                            i f I ever had the opportunity to give something in return, I would."
                                                                            A former special education teacher before her children were born,
                                                                            Anne keeps very busy as an active volunteer in her community. She
                                                                            shares, " I have learned f r o m involvement with many organizations
                                                                            that small gifts made on a regular basis always add up to make a
                                                                            difference. M y gifts are not large, but when combined with others,
                                                                            I believe they really count." She also notes, "Regular giving helps
                                                                            make giving a habit - and that is a good habit for anyone to have."
                                                                            When she reflects on the good works o f the A O I I Foundation,
                                                                            she is especially impressed w i t h the Foundation's commitment
                                                                            to supporting arthritis research and providing scholarships to our
                                                                            members. Recognizing that every gift matters, Anne is very
                                                                            pleased to be able to show her lifetime loyalty to A O I I by annually
                                                                            sivins? o f her talents and resources to the A O I I Foundation.
44 • To DRAG MA                                                             "Regular giving helps make giving a habit -
                                                                            and that is a good habit for anyone to have. "
                                                                                                                                                           ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2007
YOURSELF A WINNER
                                                                                            $63,000 IN SCHOLARSHIP MONEY
                                                                                                                  WAS AWARDED TO 39 RESERVING
                                                                                                                  SISTERS FOR THE 2007-2008
                                                                                                                  ACADEMIC YEAR. TAKE ADVANTAGE
                                                                                                                  OF THIS GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY
                                                                                                                  TO FURTHER YOUR EDUCATIONAL
                                                                                                                  GOALS AND APPLY TO BE ONE OF
                                                                                                                  NEXT YEAR'S WINNERS. THE A O I I
                                                                                                                  FOUNDATION AWARDS NAMED
                                                                                                                  SCHOLARSHIPS TO MEMBERS
                                                                                                                  OF A SPECIFIED CHAPTER, AS
1 WELL AS TO MEMBERS-AT-LARGE
                                                                                                                  THROUGH DIAMOND JUBILEE
                                                                                                                  SCHOLARSHIPS. THERE IS A
                                                                                                                  SCHOLARSHIP OPPORTUNITY FOR
                                                                                                                  EVERYONE. THE DEADLINE TO
                                                                                                                  SUBMIT AN APPLICATION FOR
                                                                                                                  THE 2008-2009 SCHOOL YEAR IS
                                                                                                                  M A R C H I , 2 0 0 8 . APPLICATIONS
                                                                                                                  ARE NOW AVAILABLE ONLINE AT
                                                                                                                  AOII FOU NDATION.ORG.
2007-2008 NAMED SCHOLARSHIP WINNERS                                                                 2007-2008
    LiNNF.A S c H R O W A N G . Nu Iota            VICTORIA SANSOM, Alpha Chi                       DIAMOND JUBILEE
    Helen Hallcr Scholarship                       Rachel Allen/Alpha Chi Scholarship               SCHOLARSHIP WINNERS
    A R I A N N E BAKER, Delta                     A LAN A SCOTT, Sigma                             Graduate Students
    Muriel T. McKinney Scholarship                 Angels of Kappa Theta Scholarship
                                                                                                    KlMBERLY M i N N i s . Iota Sigma
   JESSICA DE J ARNEIT E. Lambda Sigma             JENNIFER D E P I E T R O , Lambda Chi            SARAH BELEW, Omega
    Edith Anderson Scholarship                     Kerri Keith Memorial Scholarship                 JESSICA JONES-HUGHES. Omega
                                                                                                    J A M I E BROWN, Kappa Omega
    HEATHER EDWARDS, Kappa Alpha                   SIERRA STEPHENS, Kappa Kappa                     SARAH HOEFLE, Delta Delta
    Martha McKinney Wilhoite/Thcta Scholarship     Carey Griner Memorial Scholarship
                                                                                                    Undergraduate Students
    LINDSEY MEYERS. Chi Delta                       BAILEY LEE, Nu Beta
    ASHLEY M i N i C H , Chi Delta                 MAEGAN S M I T H , N U Beta                      AMANDA GENTZ, Omega Omicron
   Jaime Frantz Memorial Scholarship               Paulajones Salter/Nu Beta Scholarship            CRYSTAL WLNFREE, Epsilon Omega
                                                                                                    GENEVIEVE SIHOTA, Kappa Lambda
   SAMANTHA S M I T H , Chi Lambda                 JENNIFER BOWMAN, Delta Delta                     LACEY M C M A N U S , Omega Omicron
   Jennifer Heuring Combs/Chi Lambda Scholarship   Ruth M.Johnson Memorial Scholarship              SALLY JARVLS, Gamma Delta
   and Martha McKinney Wilhoite/Theta Scholarship                                                   W H I T N E Y W i L G U s . Kappa Omega
                                                   LAUREN HOUSER. Sigma Omicron                     BRANDY CROCKER, Alpha Phi
   SHANNON W H I T E , Chi Psi                     Lou Meginnes Couch/Sigma Omicron Scholarship     KRJSTA N APOSKT, Epsilon Chi
   San Diego Alumnae Chapter Memorial Scholarship
                                                   ELIZABETH CHINCHILLA, Kappa Gamma                                                      T o DRAGMA • 45
    ERICA W H i T T i N G T O N . Delta Upsilon    Kappa Gamma Scholarship
    Pi Kappa Scholarship
                                                   KATHRYN FOTI, Delta Delta
   ASHLEY STERN, Beta Phi                          VALERIE LAZZARA, Theta Psi
   Pi Kappa Scholarship                            Robert and Eleanore MacCurdy Scholarship
   VERONICA KENTISH, Lambda Beta                   ERICKA SCHNEIDER, Kappa Alpha
   Alumnae Chapter Honor Scholarship               Jo Ann Gibbons Scholarship
    ERIN CORNELIUS, Alpha Delta                    A N A PAULA D E L i M A , Gamma Omicron
   Langston-Purdy Scholarship                      Lauren Weiss Memorial/Gamma Omicron Scholarship
ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7                         TARA BUCKLEY. Pi Delta
                                                   Karen Tucker Centennial Scholarship
MENDATIONS
                                                                                             \
                      Mary Batman Converse, Phi
                      Kappa (Morris Harvey College)
                     was named the recipient of the
                      Barbara Daugs Hunt Award
                     which recognizes an alumna
                     for lifetime service to the
                      Foundation. "When I think of
                     her," says one of her sisters,
                      "words like 'lifetime commitment
                     to AON' come to mind." Mary
                      has served AOII since becoming
                     a member in 1962 and has been
                     a friend of the Foundation since
                      its inception.
                                                              ISSUE NO. 1 • FALL 2 0 0 7
PITCH
                         THE PE^
When it comes to successful fund raising,       for everyone, such as autographed golf     fabulous complimentary Public Service
the ladies o f Chi Phi ( U o f South Carolina   gloves, baseball items, perfume baskets,   Announcement on the event - and air
Aiken) only needed one year to develop          golf packages, hardware and much more.     it! As for next Spring, C h i Phi Chapter
a winning game plan to help A O I I Strike      Stephanie Creech had the privilege o f     President Erin Hasty says plans are
O u t Arthritis! O n the first anniversary      singing the National Anthem at one o f     already underway to try and double their
weekend o f the chapter's installation last     the games on Saturday to make her sisters  proceeds. They also plan to produce
April, chapter members carried out not          proud. Tickets for the delicious barbecue  another T V commercial to broadcast
one - but two - A O I I Strike Out Arthritis!   dinner, sponsored by a local restaurant,   throughout the community - which
events i n correlation w i t h the USC-Aiken    were pre-sold and available on game day.   proved to be the perfect pitch last year!
Baseball games. Their successful 1-2 pitch      The chapter even had members working       Erin exclaims, "Because we have already
was the result o f outstanding team effort      the stadium concession stands to earn      started working, I truly feel like our next
and creative promotion. A O I I Strike          half the weekend proceeds while other      Strike Out Arthritis! weekend w i l l be even
O u t Arthritis! is the fraternity's signature  members manned information tables to       better than it was last year. I cannot wait
philanthropy event that is sure to be a         promote the A O I I Foundation and the     for April to be here!"
winner on any campus.                           Arthritis Foundation.
                                                                                           There are 66 million people i n the United
Beginning on Friday night, April 6, the         Under the direction of last year's         States living w i t h the pain o f arthritis.
new C h i Phi AOIIs hosted "Kid's Night"        Philanthropic Chairman Sarah Younts,       A O I I is committed to helping eliminate
at the baseball park that featured f u n for    the weekend showcased a great team         this disease and its debilitating effects on
all ages. Stations for face painting, AOPie     effort by the whole chapter. Collecting    old and young alike. Raising nearly $2,300
in the Face, and a fire truck for the kids      auction and raffle items and securing      in their first ever philanthropic event, the
to play on were especially a hit with the       sponsors kept the costs down and members   members o f C h i Phi definitely stepped up
youngest fans. They even arranged for           used their personal connections wisely,    to the plate to do their part to help A O I I
13-year-old juvenile arthritis patient,         such as convincing the local T V station   Strike Out Arthritis!
Cole Colbertson, to experience the thrill       where a member worked to produce a
o f throwing out the first pitch o f the
game - a treat that warmed everyone's
heart. Members sold raffle tickets on
Friday evening for USC-Aiken baseball
attire, spa packages, and numerous gift
certificates. Fans even cheered on AOII's
Brittany Leverette, whose amazing voice
wowed the crowd as she sang the National
Anthem. It proved to be a beautiful night
for baseball!
A Saturday double-header set the stage
for the chapter to promote its A O I I
Strike Out Arthritis! Silent Auction and
Barbecue event inside the baseball park.
Donated auction items included something
ISSUF.NO. 1 • FALL 2007                                                                    T o DRAGMA • 4 7
OLLEGIATE   EWS
           Chi Psi Chapter Sets the
           Standard for Excellence
    "Chi Psi puts forth the best possible image    They are N C A A athletes, cheerleaders, student
   of what a sorority should be. Being involved    government leaders, university ambassadors, singers,
   in campus clubs, working professionally in the  dancers, and gifted scholars. They can be found
   community, volunteering for local events, and   supporting the university at sporting events, as
   responsibly having a good time shows the        leaders of campus tours, and participating in other
   community that a sorority is an asset."         organizations' events.
48 • To DRAGMA                                     They support AOIl's philanthropy and give their time
                                                   to other service projects. Their sisterhood events bring
''///'In...                                        them together for T V nights, retreats, and book club.
                                                   Individuals are recognized for their accomplishments
                                                   and talents.
                                                   They make recruitment personal, and retaining
                                                   members a priority. They support other chapters and
                                                   make an effort to connect with alumnae and other
                                                   collegians, despite being located three hours from
                                                   another A O I I chapter. They send as many members
                                                   as possible to Convention and Leadership Institute to
                                                   allow them to see the "big picture" of A O I I and to
                                                   teach " A O I I for a lifetime."
                                                   They are the women of Chi Fsi Chapter at California
                                                   Polytechnic State University, and they are the
                                                   recipients of the Jessie Wallace Hughan Award,
                                                   making them the overall best collegiate chapter of the
                                                   2005-2007 biennium.
                                                   Taking home t h e J W H Award at International
                                                   Convention means taking home the top honor for a
                                                   collegiate chapter. Though the women of Chi Psi may
                                                   make it look easy, winning the J W H is no simple task.
                                                   Contention for the J W H starts at the beginning o f
                                                   each biennium. The award is based on the A O I I
                                                   Standards o f Excellence, or the nineteen areas
                                                   of operations that the Fraternity feels are most
                                                   vital for the success o f a chapter. Chapters are
                                                   rewarded based on the percentage o f standards they
                                                   accomplish over a given biennium. In order to be
                                                   considered for the J W H , a chapter must be a Ruby
                                                   Level chapter, meaning they maintain 90% of the
                                                   Standards o f Excellence.
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Community service is just another aspect of sisterhood.
                                                         Their annual "Mr. Fraternity" pageant is a favorite jfmong the greek community.
It takes much more than just formulas and numbers to with sisters of all ages. This May, the chapter
be the top chapter in AOII. Chi Psi Chapter has used invited all AOIIs in California to their first
the Standards of Excellence as a guide, and created a    annual "Alumnae Networking Luncheon." The 5
well balanced planforsuccess.                            event gave collegians and alumnae the chance =
                                                         to mingle, make job connections, and to listen E
To keep everyone involved, the chapter redesigned        to AOII speakers share their stories of success in
their chapter meetings to include power point            their careers.
presentations, "spotlight sister of the week," fun AOII
facts, and "Rose Vines" to recognize a sisters who have Chi Psi has a strong reputation on campus and
gone out of their way to help another.                   in their community. They are a model for other
                                                         sororities on their campus and they work to
"Recruitment School," is something that members continually exceed the expectation as an AOII
look forward to, because in addition to brushing         chapter. Their Alumnae Advisory Committee
up conversation skills, practicing songs, and            states: "Chi Psi puts forth the best possible image
perfecting rotation, the chapter takes time out for of what a sorority should be. Being involved
"pump-up" activities.                                    in campus clubs, working professionally in
                                                         the community, volunteering for local events,
"With the internal business and sisterhood of the chapter and responsibly having a good time shows the               **4
running so well, we have now been able to branch out community that a sorority is an asset."                                 "///,"nil.'""//ll/l mi
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read. The chapter hosts "Mr. Fraternity." a male beauty- Winning the J WH is something that not only takes
pageant that raised over $3,()()() last year. Additionally hard work, but takes time. Chi Psi Chapter has not
the chapter went above and beyond their service          always been a Ruby Level chapter. The members
requirements, when they started a chapter-wide service made a commitment to improve. "We re-evaluated
day that was implemented each quarter. Members           every aspect of sorority life," they say. "We set goals
volunteered at homeless shelters, convalescent homes, for each area and accomplished them."
and participated in beach clean-ups.
                                                         Today a shiny crystal bowl is proudly displayed
The chapter says they, "just want to make sure           in the Chi Psi Chapter House. To guests, it may
sorority life is fun and exciting-no matter how          just look like a piece of beautiful decor, but to the
long you have been a member of AOII." Chi                women of the chapter, it symbolizes two years of
Psi celebrated their 20th anniversary in March           accomplishments, and the dedication it took to
2006, and used it as an opportunity to reconnect         become the best chapter in AOII.
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                                                                       X^X ACADEMIC DEVELOPMENT:
                                                                       \ y In addition to boasting the highest GPA amongst all sororities
                                                                       S> at Tufts U, Delta Chapter, meets this standard by implementing a
                                                                       ^ program to assist members and new members to reach their highest academic
   How can your chapter                                                potential. With a 3.41 cumulative GPA last Spring, their average is much higher
   wintheJWH?
                                                                       than the 3.14 requirement to be eligible for an AOII Academic Cup.
   By understanding the
   Standards of Excellence                                              Each chapter member sets academic goals for herself at the beginning of each semester
   and incorporating each                                               and submits it to the Vice President of Academic Development. Sisters are rewarded
   category into your chapter                                           for meeting their goals and members with the highest CPAs are treated to a scholarship
   operations.                                                          dinner. As an incentive to attend every class, members who don't "skip" enter their
                                                                         name in the "Skippy Jar" for a chance to win prizes in a weekly drawing. Sisters
   Learn more about how
   some of our collegiate                                                can focus on scholarship by reviewing a scholarship bulletin board which posts a
   chapters are meeting                                                • list of chapter members' majors, study tips, study hours, and scholarship deadlines
   each standard.
                                                                              and information.
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| ACTIVITIES:
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                                                                       chapter whose overall academic
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                                                                       Theta Pi (Wagner College) knows what "AOII for a Lifetime"
                                                                       means. As winners of the award with this namesake, they
                                                                       work with the New York/New Jersey Metro Alumnae
                                                                       Chapter to maintain an active and mutually beneficial
                                                                       relationship. The chapters co-host an annual AOII Strike
                                                                       Out Arthritis! bowling event. Because of their positive
                                                                       relationship with alumnae, Theta Pi has a supportive
                                                                       Alumnae Advisory Committee and Corporation Board.
ATTENDANCE:                              "o,
Kappa Tau (Southeastern Louisiana U) keeps
members excited to come to meetings and
educational sessions by incorporating games, sing oris,
and sisterhood into the agenda. The chapter loves to
dress up and go out to dinner after chapter, giving
everyone something to look forward to after a business
meeting. When it comes to international events, register
Kappa Tau for a delegate, plus one...or plus...many sisters.
The chapter had fourteen members attend
% Convention 2007!
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