BUSINESS & REAL ESTATE 31 FOX TRACKS 4 HEALTH & WELLNESS 18 LEISURE 28 OPINION 10 Democrats Sweep Bedford pg 6 ELECTION VOL. 2 NO. 8 PRSRT STD US POSTAGE PAID WEST CALDWELL, NJ PERMIT #992 A MONTHLY PUBLICATION NOVEMBER 16 – DECEMBER 7, 2023 WESTCHESTER’S DIAMOND STORE THIS IS WHERE YOU WANT TO BUY YOUR DIAMOND SHOP ONLINE STORE NOW SCARSDALE 914-722-1940 914-864-2688 MOUNT KISCO The community marched to Mount Kisco’s Village Hall in a show of solidarity with the hostages taken after the Hamas attack in Israel on Oct. 7. See more photos from this powerful event on page 16. PHOTO COURTESY OF DIANA BINGER BY CAROL REIF STAFF WRITER It looks like J. Michael Cindrich will be reprising his role as Mount Kisco mayor after besting Lisa Abzun in the Nov. 7 elections. According to unofficial results released by the Westchester County Board of Elections, he received 1,310 (56 percent) to the incumbent deputy mayor’s 1,036 (44 percent). Abzun, who ran on the Democratic line after beating back a primary challenge from Tom Luzio in June, conceded to Cindrich not long after the polls closed Tuesday night. With a year to go in her current term, Abzun will remain on the Village Board. Fellow trustee Anne Bianchi was the top vote-getter in the race for Westchester County Court judge. A Democrat who was mayor for 14 years before being ousted by outgoing mayor Gina Picinich, Cindrich ran on the independent Village Inclusive Party (VIP) ticket, along with trustee hopefuls Theresa Flora and Angie Garcia-Guerra. Flora received 1,203 (26 percent) and Garcia-Guerra, 1,157 (25 percent), according to the unofficial results. Abzun’s running mates Jean Farber tallied 1,129 (25 percent) and Karine Patiño, 1,057 (23 percent). Farber is a former deputy mayor who had served for a time with Cindrich. Patiño is the first Latina to be a village trustee. The final outcome won’t be known until the BOE counts absentee ballots and certifies the election. Cindrich promised that “transparency” would be key in his administration and praised his running mates, both of whom were new to politics, for their perseverance during a difficult campaign. Meanwhile, Bianchi, a Democrat, was elected Westchester County Court judge with 99,269 (63 percent). Her Republican opponent, Stephen Dewey, received 58,440 (44 percent). Farber told The Mount Kisco-Bedford Times last week that she and Abzun SEE CINDRICH PAGE 25 Cindrich wins Mount Kisco mayoral race
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NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 3 BY JESSICA JAFET CONTRIBUTING WRITER It has been long believed that horses have an innate ability to bond with humans. Seemingly, the highly perceptive animals can sense human emotions and appear to communicate non-verbally, therefore making them ideal companions for those in need of emotional support, empathy and unconditional acceptance. To foster these types of healing connections, The Endeavor Vet Program was established in 2016 at Endeavor Therapeutic Horsemanship and takes place at its Santomero Family Foundation Veteran Center on Croton Lake Road in Bedford. The non-for-profit organization has a mission “to empower individuals through the healing potential of the horse,” and offers its equine-assisted activities and therapies to active service members and veterans, free of charge. John Bengis, a 71-year-old United States Navy veteran who has struggled with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder, was connected to the weekly program at Endeavor through mental health professionals at Veteran Affairs in Montrose, NY, where he receives treatment. He said he first came to the farm over a year ago during a low period in his life when he was really suffering; he felt unable to interact with people and had difficulty functioning in daily life. “I had to make a decision to just remain silent or step up and face the facts—and the staff at Endeavor are the most compassionate and knowledgeable people you will ever meet,” Bengis said. “You are in an environment where you are on a farm, not a hospital; it is a calm place, and the focus is on nature and the horses—you are hugging a horse and his head is on top of you, and you can feel the horse saying that you’re okay.” Helping to facilitate those magic moments for veterans during therapy visits is what Laurie Ciavardini calls her “purpose on this earth.” As manager of Endeavor’s veteran program, the Bedford-based clinical social worker explained that the sessions are overseen by a team of certified military counselors and equine specialists. “We are the most accredited in the country,” Ciavardini said. “There is a mental health provider present for every single session on the property.” Using horses to help veterans explore and process their emotions is just one of the therapeutic goals at the farm. In addition, they work with children and adults with special needs, atrisk youth and others who could benefit from the highly effective psychotherapy methods. The program’s customized approach, for individuals or in a group therapy setting (and virtually as well), has been offered to roughly 1,500 veterans and their families thus far, and the staff ’s credentials are unique among equine caregivers in the state, according to Ciavardini. “We have a premier accreditation through the Professional Association of Therapeutic Horsemanship (PATH) and also hold a military designation for the Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association (EAGALA).” It is the power of the relationship between the veterans and their horses that is incredibly effective at building trust, she added. “The horses are magnificent and can reflect back what they sense in their presence because they are prey animals— and are constantly reading the environment, looking for peace and safety.” For Bengis, the time he has spent over the past year with Pelusa, a 30-year-old ex-Polo horse, has touched him profoundly. “I brush her, I hug her and give her a little massage; we just look at each other and when I am doing that, I am living outside my thoughts and nurturing somebody else,” he said. “As I am always being told to do in therapy, my horse forces me to stay in the moment: I am right there with Pelusa and Pelusa is right there with me, because horses are always in the present— they are very calm and very alert.” Veterans find peace and strength through therapeutic horsemanship Amazing things are happening at the Santomero Family Foundation Veteran Center in Bedford. The Endeavor Vet Program was established in 2016. PHOTOS COURTESY OF ENDEAVOR/KRISTEN VALLEJO PHOTOGRAPHY Horses help veterans to explore and process their emotions.
PAGE 4 – MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES The Staff EDITORIAL TEAM Tom Walogorsky Editor: 914-302-5830 [email protected] ADVERTISING TEAM Paul Forhan (914) 806-3951 [email protected] Bruce Heller (914) 486-7608 [email protected] Lisa Kain (201) 317-1139 [email protected] Corinne Stanton (914) 760-7009 [email protected] Jay Gussak (914) 299-4541 [email protected] Pam Zacotinsky (845) 661-0748 [email protected] PRODUCTION TEAM Tabitha Pearson Marshall Creative Director Photographer [email protected] Noah Elder Designer Bri Agosta Designer Haven Elder Designer EXECUTIVE TEAM Brett Freeman CEO & Publisher 845-208-8151 [email protected] Deadlines The Mt. Kisco-Bedford Times The deadline for advertisements and editorial submissions is the Wednesday before the next publication date. For more information, call Tom Walogorsky at 914-302-5830 or email [email protected] Location 118 N. BEDFORD ROAD SUITE 100 MOUNT KISCO, NY 10549 Published Monthly by Halston Media, LLC ©2023 HALSTON MEDIA, LLC NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 Mt. Kisco Christmas Tree Lighting Friday, Dec. 1, at 6 p.m. The Mount Kisco Chamber of Commerce, along with the Village of Mount Kisco, will celebrate the start of the Holiday Season with the annual lighting of the gorgeous Christmas Tree! There will be celebratory singing, dancing, refreshments, and a visit from a very busy man from the North Pole! Come join in on the festivities and enjoy the community camaraderie. To be held at Mount Kisco Village Hall, located at 104 Main St. Home for the Holidays Pound Ridge Saturday, Dec. 2, from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Join in on Westchester Avenue as the Pound Ridge Business Association presents their holiday market, and stay for the tree lighting and the final Sip & Shop of the year. For more information, visit www.shoppoundridge.com Pound Ridge Library Located at 271 Westchester Avenue, Pound Ridge, NY 10576. For more information, email info@ poundridgelibrary.org or call 914- 764-5085. To register for these events, visit the calendar at www. poundridgelibrary.org. OPENING RECEPTION Saturday, Nov. 18, from 2 to 5 p.m. Pound Ridge Library’s Schaffner Gallery will host the photography of Steven Vandervelden in an exhibit titled “The Art and Beauty of Dance” through Dec. 30. Breathtaking images of some of the world’s best dancers in the world captured in studio by a longtime Pound Ridge resident. BOOK JEOPARDY FOR KIDS! Saturday, Nov. 25, at 1 p.m. Come play “Book Jeopardy” at the library! It’s just like the TV show, except the only category is children books! Come test your knowledge! Prizes to be awarded! Program appropriate for students in grades 1-5. Limited to 20 participants. Please register on the library website. Mt. Kisco Senior Group ANNUAL CRAFT SALE Friday, Nov. 17 and Saturday, Nov. 18, from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Featuring handmade crafts, jewlery, knit projects, floral arrangements and more, made by local senior citizens. To be held at Fox Senior Center located at 198 Carpenter Ave. in Mt. Kisco. For more information, call 914-666-8766. Shine Bright Bedford Friday, Dec. 1, at 5 p.m. Stop by the Bedford Free Library for hot chocolate and treats as the community joins together to celebrate Shine Bright Bedford, presented by the Bedford Village Business Association. Featuring luminaries and caroling on the Village Green, followed by the tree lighting ceremony at 6 p.m. Westchester Bluegrass Club www.westchesterbluegrassclub. com TOO BLUE Saturday, Nov. 18, at 6:30 p.m. Traveling freely between the genres of bluegrass, swing, Celtic and jazz, a Too Blue performance is a dynamic dose of serious fun. Smooth harmonies and adventurous musicianship bring stellar arrangements to life and leave the listener anything but “blue.” Doors open at 6:30 p.m., Acoustic Jam from 6:30 -7:15, Open Mic from 7:15 - 8, and featured artist from 8 - 9:30 p.m. Donation: $25. FOX TRACKS SEE TRACKSPAGE 24 Thank You For Your Service. SCAN HERE FOR MORE INFO! ENJOY 0 DOWN, 0% FINANCING! FEDERAL & STATE INCENTIVES UP TO 30% AVAILABLE! SUPER SAVINGS on your Heat Pump project while program funding lasts... CALL NOW TO SEE IF YOU QUALIFY! CALL US TODAY! ACT NOW BEFORE IT’S TOO LATE! LIMITED TIME OFFER UP TO INSTANT REBATE EXP 11/30/23 Please call or visit us online 845-600-8004 $ 10,000 AIR SOURCE HEAT PUMPS INSTANT REBATE EXP 11/30/23 Please call or visit us online 845-600-8004 $ 25,000 GEOTHERMAL SYSTEMS UP TO EXCLUDES SERVICE CONTRACT • EXP 11/30/23 Coupon must be presented at time of service. Cannot be combined with any other offer. $ 50 OFF ANY OF OUR SERVICES 845-600-8004 | www.bellmech.com
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PAGE 6 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 BY TOM BARTLEY CONTRIBUTING WRITER Less than 24 hours after Bedford Democrats reaffirmed their Town Hall lock with another election-day sweep, the party chair, Mark Dembo, was already turning his attention to the critical races of 2024. In a message to the party faithful, Dembo celebrated the re-election of Supervisor Ellen Calves, who had no opposition, and the return to Town Board seats of Bobbi Bittker and Thomas Catoliato, who turned back Republican challenges from Don Scott and Michael Palladino. But as national Democrats look ahead to next year’s contests for the White House and Congress, Dembo sought action at the local level, saying the party would “depend on your invaluable support and active involvement.” “Whether it’s through doorknocking, engaging with fellow residents, sharing your ideas, assisting with communication efforts or contributing to event organization,” he wrote, “your active participation is pivotal. If you are eager to take on a more-prominent role, please do not hesitate to reach out to us!” Dembo has been the Bedford Democratic chair since 2021, the year Calves, then a first-term councilwoman, launched her successful bid for the supervisor’s office. This year, running without an opponent, unofficial Board of Elections figures show, she rang up 3,155 votes in her run for a second term, leading the Democrats’ sweep. In the council contests, unofficial figures show, Bobbi Bittker, who was first elected to the board with Calves in 2019, captured 2,554 votes. Catoliato—appointed a councilman in 2021, then elected to a one-year term in 2022—compiled 2,411 votes to secure a full four years in office. Scott, a former Town Board member, posted 1,979 votes. Palladino, the Bedford GOP chair, had 1,856 votes and a “heart full of cherished memories,” he said in an election-night statement. “We poured our passion and dedication into this campaign,” Palladino said, “leaving no space for self-doubt or second-guessing.” Scott has had no comment since his election-day loss. For Dembo, the Democrats’ sweep, he said in his statement, “serves as a shining example of our party’s enduring strength and the principle that success paves the way for more success.” On election night, he joined the candidates and some 60 of the party faithful in a jubilant gathering at the Bedford Hills train station. Supporters cheered as reports from Bedford’s 18 election districts made clear the outcome and applauded as the candidates delivered victory remarks. Calves stood atop a chair to thank the happy throng. “Clearly . . . the residents like the work that we have been doing,” she told them. “We now have renewed hope that we will continue to move Bedford forward.” Speaking next, Bittker and Catoliato agreed on a commitment to future gains. While neither of them mounted chairs to speak, they both expressed similar optimism as they addressed the 60 or more party faithful, who filled Democrats sweep Bedford election Bedford Supervisor Ellen Calves addressing supporters after her re-election. Bobbi Bittker was re-elected after tallying 2,554 votes. Tom Catoliato was re-elected on Nov. 7. PHOTOS: TOM BARTLEY SEE BEDFORD PAGE 24 Contact ANTHONY J. ENEA, ESQ. Managing Member • Fluent in Italian 914.948.1500 WHITE PLAINS • SOMERS • WWW.ESSLAWFIRM.COM • Asset Protection • Elder Law • Medicaid Applications (Nursing Home/Home Care) • Guardianships (Contested/Non-Contested) • Wills, Trusts & Estates Past Chair of Elder Law Section of NYS Bar Association “Super Lawyer” In Elder Law for 16 consecutive years CALL NEW YORK’S ELDER LAW TEAM 914.948.1500 Do you know what the cost of your long-term care will be if you are not eligible for Medicaid?
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 7 BY TOM BARTLEY CONTRIBUTING WRITER Students and others in the Fox Lane community are being guaranteed a voice in choosing the next fox image to adorn school iconography. The school board took that step last week, making clear at its Nov. 8 meeting that the fox likeness unveiled at its Oct. 25 meeting was a work in progress, not a done deal. And likely not the only image we’ll see before a finalist is chosen. Worn by Fox Lane athletes since at least the 1950s, the bright red fox has been a revered symbol of the Bedford Central School District’s high school for generations of students, parents, alumni and others. So, it could not have surprised school board members when plans to redo the mammal, quietly underway since early this year but not made public till October, inspired a spirited public reaction. In messaging via email and social media, the community made clear that it wanted some say in choosing a new, standardized iteration of the fox. That redrawn logo is meant to replace what trustee Kristen Stoker calls the “hodgepodge” of ways the iconic mascot is now depicted on uniforms worn by teams in various sports as well as on walls and floors and bleachers and more. “We definitely took the community feedback into consideration,” Trustee Steven Matlin, the school board’s vice president, told the Nov. 8 meeting in disclosing steps to be more inclusive in the new logo design. At the board’s October meeting, BCSD superintendent Dr. Robert Glass presented three versions of essentially the same logo. They had been professionally prepared—at no charge, he noted—by designers at Dallas-based Varsity Brands, a maker of academic apparel and memorabilia. Glass said an “ad hoc group” comprising athletic officials, boosters, athletes and others had worked eight months on considerations for the new logo. The submission shown at the board’s Oct. 25 meeting had been drawn by an upstate Varsity Brands team, working in Lake Katrine in Ulster County, Susan Crumpton, a company spokesperson, said. She confirmed that the artwork was being provided gratis, saying, “This service is provided at no cost to the school.” Crumpton termed it “one example of how we deliver on our mission of elevating student experiences.” In presenting the professionals’ imagery in October, Glass told the board that he hoped the proposed new icon could be adopted at the next meeting, on Nov. 8. But in the interim, Matlin noted, the board had gotten “feedback from everyone.” He called the single submission inadequate and insisted, “We really need more options.” Matlin said the community should have a “multitude of options.” For the second straight meeting, the board’s mascot discussion consumed more than a half hour of the board’s time. “I didn’t mean to make it last that long,” Matlin said. Board members looked at a variety of ways to encourage, in Matlin’s words, “some form of community involvement” in preparing additional fox images and choosing from among them. At discussion’s end, nothing (including the specific shade of fox red) had been formally decided. Still, it was clear the board welcomed further stakeholder input (including their own submissions) and popular vote (including student participation in the balloting, probably limited to grades 9 through 12). “I think this has to live in the high school,” Robert Mazurek, the board president, said. Board of Ed considers new fox logo design A rendering of a proposed new logo for the Foxes. BEDFORD CENTRAL SCHOOL DISTRICT BY TOM WALOGORSKY EDITOR On Nov. 7, Pound Ridge voters re-elected Democratic incumbent Supervisor Kevin Hansan, who turned away Pound Ridge Party challenger John McCown by a measure of 1,078 to 829, according to unofficial results from the Westchester County Board of Elections. In the race to determine a pair of seats on the Pound Ridge Town Council, Democratic incumbent Alison Boak garnered 946 votes and will be joined by Namasha Schelling, who garnered 879 votes. The pair overcame a trio of Pound Ridge First candidates in Susan Lee (703 votes), Christopher Boey (702 votes), and Cynthia Shereda (440 votes). Town Clerk Erin Trostle and Town Justice Matthew Brotmann were both reelected, garnering 1,334 and 1,384 votes, respectively. The Town of Pound Ridge Proposition regarding contributions to the capital reserve fund passed by a measure of 1,185 to 622. Hansan re-elected as Pound Ridge supervisor Offering the Unique Flavors of Asian Cuisine MAKE A RESERVATION TODAY! 914-232-3900 tengdakatonah.com 286 Katonah Ave, Katonah Fall for Fabulous Flavors
PAGE 8 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 BY CAROL REIF STAFF WRITER Mount Kisco’s Mel Berger was the kind of rare bird who could make turning compassion into action look easy. The respected community volunteer and “unofficial mayor” didn’t just sit around carping about the problems of alcoholism, drug addiction, and homelessness in his adopted hometown, he actually did something about them, said those who gathered recently to honor him. That included founding the Mount Kisco Drug and Alcohol Abuse Prevention Council, pioneering a “Drug Court” that aimed to divert young drug and alcohol offenders away from prison and into recovery programs, and collaborating with local churches and synagogues to provide food, shelter, and support to the unhoused during the colder months. Berger’s name was added to the village’s Wall of Honor in a touching ceremony held on a blustery October afternoon in Leonard Park, a very apropos place considering that’s where he had spent many happy hours playing sports, ice skating, and sledding with his children. He was the fifth individual to have received that recognition since the wall was erected in 2018. Melvin “Mel” Berger died in 2021 at the age of 83, leaving a significant “void” in the community, several speakers noted. That lamentation was tempered by expressions of gratitude for his many contributions and also of hope that folks would feel inspired to follow in his footsteps. The tribute was introduced by Erin Heaton Meyer of the Leonard Park Committee and John Rhodes of the Conservation Advisory Council. Berger was skilled at “building coalitions and working with bureaucracies” but he “also knew that very often you have to act personally when the need is there, whether that meant searching for someone, even out in the woods to find them and help them make a court date or if it meant just spending some time with a neighbor who was in recovery and just needed some encouragement,” Rhodes said. Earlier this year, Berger was one of several outstanding residents nominated to have a street named after them. After the results of a village-wide poll were unveiled, he came in second behind the late Patricia Reilly, who’d been mayor for 10 years. In 2020, he was inducted into Westchester County’s Senior Hall of Fame. Raised in the Bronx, Berger lived in Hartsdale before moving to the village in 1984 as a co-owner of Mount Kisco Pharmacy, a business he would ultimately run and own by himself for more than two decades. It wasn’t too long before he began to take note of the increasing numbers of people trying to fill fake prescriptions. Concerned after witnessing firsthand the heartbreaking impact of addiction on the community’s most vulnerable members, he reached out to local police and a local judge, which started the ball rolling on “Drug Court.” Berger was known for being “a constant presence in the court on Thursdays,” according to Mount Kisco Judge Mark Farrell. He would sit in on court conferences where parties discuss cases and address possible settlements. “If he felt he had something to say, he would speak up. There were many defense attorneys who would say ‘Who’s he?’ and we’d just introduce him as our consultant,” said Farrell, adding that Berger was “not a bleeding heart by any means” but was simply responding to a need and hoping to find ways to address it. “But for Mel, many people who came through the court would not be where they are today, in a good way,” he asserted. When Community Resource Officer Eddie Ramirez first met Berger in 2008, he was wearing “one of his many hats.” “He and I clicked after realizing that we both shared similar views about community advocacy and support,” he recalled. Berger took him under his wing. “As I got to know Mel more and more, I observed that he was not a man of grand gestures or extravagant words. Instead, he demonstrated his greatness through his actions and his genuine care for others,” Ramirez told the crowd. “He had a remarkable ability to bring people together in a positive way, to bridge divides, and to instill a sense of unity in our community regardless of their backgrounds.” Berger was not just a name in the community, but a “cornerstone of the history of Mount Kisco,” Ramirez said. Although Berger’s passing has left “a very noticeable void,” Ramirez was confident that “his legacy will live on forever as a source of inspiration and guidance.” Former Mount Kisco police officer Lou Terlizzi recalled bonding with the honoree over their mutual love for the Mets. Berger helped “countless people” and it didn’t matter if they were neighbors, friends, or strangers. “He went above and beyond. Never said ‘no.’ Never lost his temper. He will be missed,” Terlizzi said. Remembering Mel Berger Community volunteer added to Wall of Honor Mel Berger founded the Mount Kisco Drug and Alcohol Abuse Prevention Council among other accomplishments. SEE BERGERPAGE 27 OUTDOOR DINING AVAILABLE • DINE IN • TAKE-OUT • PRIVATE EVENTS • CALL FOR RESERVATIONS 914-962-4090 • 673 Croton Heights Rd, Yorktown Heights, NY 10598 • www.peterprattsinn.com Wednesday – Sunday • Serving Dinner 5PM-9:30PM A True Historic Dining Experience SERVING NORTHERN WESTCHESTER SINCE 1926! 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NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 9 BY VIM WILKINSON CONTRIBUTING WRITER Pleasantville Wellness Group (PWG), co-founded by Ahimsa Luciano and Kelly Keck, serves as a nurturing sanctuary for individuals of all ages and backgrounds, offering empathetic care and support. Their team of licensed clinicians encompasses a wide array of specialists, from mental health counselors to licensed clinical social workers, ensuring that children, adolescents and adults can discover the tranquility and solace they seek. PWG provides a range of therapeutic options, including individual, group, and couples counseling, allowing clients to select the therapeutic setting that aligns best with their unique needs towards a happier and healthier life. The co-founders shared with us their vision and future plans for PWG. What inspired you to establish PWG and offer a diverse range of specialized services? In trying to find the best way to connect clients seeking therapists with openings, we realized the most efficient way might be to create the resource ourselves. We knew that there would need to be a variety of specialties in order to be able to meet the demands of the time. We aimed to serve as a community resource, offering therapists who could work with everyone who was seeking support; individuals, children, teens, adults couples and families. What are some of the future plans for PWG, especially with the group therapy sessions? Having both worked in settings where the groups were a fundamental part of healing and growth, we knew that we wanted to have groups going for different ages and needs. We are lucky enough to partner with a few agencies through the year and run a variety of groups. Serenity Stables in Darien, Conn., focuses primarily on women recovering from trauma and addiction and we are thrilled to work along the incredible power of the horses during the equine therapy. We have worked with Jacobi Hospital’s SUV gun violence prevention program for the past two summers to provide art therapy groups to their summer interns and create an art installation at the end of their groups. We currently have a women’s group running virtually for trauma; it is an art therapy group and is an open and rolling group that has been successful over the past few months. One of our more successful groups this year has been a five-week group for students diagnosed with autism who were preparing to go to college. What are your hopes and aspirations for the future of PWG and how do you envision its growth and development in the local communities? We look forward to connecting with local middle schools, high schools and colleges to establish relationships with those counseling centers and offer additional support. Creating relationships with local businesses and community centers allow us to provide resources and additional support where the need is greatest. We hope to continue to serve any and all Westchester individuals and families who are looking for support and resources. In the process of trying to make sure that therapy remains affordable and accessible for everyone, we will continue to provide sliding scale therapy sessions and work with insurance companies for those who have out-of-network benefits to lower the out-of-pocket costs. We also look forward to continuing to hire exceptional therapistswho have the specialties our clients are seeking support for. ADVERTORIAL Pleasantville Wellness Group 450 Manville Road • First Floor • Pleasantville • 914-538-2438 • pleasantvillewellnessgroup.com Pleasantville Wellness Group provides care and support for all Co-founders Ahimsa Luciano (left) and Kelly Keck (right) The team at Pleasantville Wellness Group PHOTOS COURTESY OF PLEASANTVILLE WELLNESS GROUP
PAGE 10 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES 118 N, BEDFORD ROAD, SUITE 100 MOUNT KISCO, NY 10549 ©2023 Halston Media, LLC Letters to the editor and op-ed submissions may be edited. The views and opinions expressed in letters and op-eds are not necessarily those of The Mt. Kisco-Bedford Times or its affiliates. Submissions must include a phone number and address for verification. Not all letters and op-eds will necessarily be published. Letters and op-eds which cannot be verified or are anonymous will not be published. Please send your submissions to the editor by e-mail at [email protected]. For more information, call the editor at 914-302-5830 Brett Freeman, Publisher Tom Walogorsky , Editor Tabitha Pearson Marshall, Creative Director Editorial Office: 914-302-5830 [email protected]. NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 Halston Media has a unique perspective on local elections, as we publish six newspapers covering eight towns. A few of our towns have a one-party board (whether all Republican or all Democrat). But it’s been my observation that the best municipal governments have at least one politician from the opposing party on the town or village board. This ensures that the municipal government has a watchdog to challenge the prevailing orthodoxy, ensure transparency and make sure that all actions are on the up-and-up. While the most vocal gadflies in some of our towns can be cavalier in their allegations of corruption, I do think a one-party board has the perception of a good-old boy (or good-old-girl) network. And good-old-boy networks always give off a sense of injustice to those residents who feel left out. Regardless of how fair and transparent the processes are in each of our towns, perception is important. When the default on a board (any board, whether in government or in private sector) is to protect the board, that’s not healthy. Opposition on a board prevents this from happening. I also find the unique level of engagement in each of our towns worthy of a study by Malcolm Gladwell, who has authored several sociological books on individual and group behaviors. For example, in our North Salem and Yorktown races in particular, we received and published several dozen letters to the editor in the past few weeks. We also had reader engagement in our Katonah-Lewisboro newspaper. In Mahopac, which had a number of hot races, our opinion section was like listening to crickets. Few people engaged in any letter-writing campaigns. I don’t know why that is, but I suspect it’s a little bit of a social contagion. If you see your opponents’ letters in the newspaper, you are going to encourage your own supporters to write letters also. I was pleased to see the level of engagement in The Mt. Kisco-Bedford Times. Publishing a monthly (versus a weekly) represents a unique challenge in terms of audience engagement, and it was gratifying to see the number of letters we received. Just a reminder to our readers: You now have our new website, News.HalstonMedia.com, so that you can read news relevant to you in-between issues. Then there is Somers, where all the action seems to be for school board races. The Somers Town Board election most years is like Democrats and Republicans sitting around a campfire singing “Kumbaya,” with both parties not running candidates against each other. While the absence of any vitriol in Somers is refreshing, it’s also boring for us journalists. And to be frank, I’m not sure how healthy it is for a town board race to have no competition. There has to be a healthier middleground. Then there are the accusations from readers on both sides of the aisle. Democrats are convinced we are a “right-wing” mouthpiece and Republicans are convinced we are a “liberal rag.” No matter how careful our editors are in terms of laying out our pre-election candidate profiles, some readers are convinced there is a conspiracy if a candidate profile jumped to the back of the newspaper, jumped to a page with a political ad on it, jumped to a left-hand page or whether a story jumped at all. My retort: you try putting together this jigsaw puzzle each week. I had one candidate in Yorktown threaten to withhold advertising because his/her team was convinced we purposely weren’t publishing letters to the editor endorsing them. This is because on one week, several weeks ago, we didn’t have room for two letters, one in support of a Democrat and one in support of a Republican. On the week before the election, we Behind the scenes at Halston Media From accusations of bias to the ethical obligations held by citizen journalists BRETT FREEMAN PUBLISHER’S MEMO Licking my wounds after an election defeat, I’m at the stage of reflecting on whether it was worth it. It is no small thing to jump into a local election. You start out telling yourself it isn’t really much of an effort to run a campaign. I mean after all, I had a running mate who was doing a lot of the heavy lifting. But as things got going, from Labor Day on, it ended up being pretty consuming, especially coming down the stretch. I wasn’t deluding myself about the odds of success. Running on the Republican line in Bedford means you are outnumbered more than 3 to 1 by party registration. I thought my chances were about 1 and 10 of prevailing. Old Testament oddsmakers had David at 20 to 1 when he went up against Goliath, so it was worth a shot. You have to win a lot of hearts and minds from registered Democrats in order to be successful. Being respectful, witty and charming only goes so far though. You have a lot of conversations sharing good ideas to convince people that your agenda makes sense and that a local election is about local, not national issues. Along the way, among other things, I was called an election denier, a Trumper, a Tea Partier, misogynist, gun nut, against diversity and a Jets fan. I was also told that silence was complicity. With the exception of being a Jets fan, none of the other descriptors fit. Changing hearts and minds is often an uphill battle. Seeking to find common ground to get past biases takes effort to listen and engage with a desire to understand, but that was the assignment. The vast majority of the conversations were pleasant and I found my neighbors open-minded. Still, with many tending to look at even a local election through a national The case for tilting at windmills DON SCOTT IN CASE YOU MISSED IT SEE FREEMAN PAGE 12 SEE SCOTT PAGE 11
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 OPINION THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 11 Celebrating Our Thank you to our valued customers & friends, who have become like family. We appreciate your loyalty & support over the years! 25year! TH 914-666-2348 • 914-864-0783 • 914-864-0784 69 S. Moger Ave. Mt. Kisco Open 7 days • oishiiasianfusion.com DELIVERY • TAKE-OUT • DINE IN Rolling Up Anniversary Special With This Ad • Not Valid With Other Offers • EXP 1/31/24 10% OFF Any Check Cash Only Violence only begets more violence Publisher’s Note: The right course of action by Israel is totally open for debate. Because it is open for debate, we happily publish the letter writer’s thoughtful piece below. But the definition of genocide, according to the dictionary, is the “deliberate” killing of a large group of people. It is false to call Israel’s actions “genocide” when it does not purposely target civilians and when Hamas uses the Palestinians as human shields. Halston Media mourns the loss of all innocent lives, but it is committed to the use of accurate language when describing the tragic situation. We chose to publish the letter verbatim, but felt that this clarification of the definition of the word “genocide” was necessary. Dear Editor, How dismaying it is to see religious and community leaders clamoring for war and lusting for revenge, proclaiming solidarity with some people while denying the humanity of others. In an already tumultuous time, when our society seems irreparably fractured, those who wield the most power and influence are stoking more animus and division. Call me naive, but I assumed that good leadership, especially from those of faith, appeals to our better nature rather than our worst. It is equally appalling to see so many among us conflating identity with nationality and the state, using the atrocities of certain political entities to justify genocide, and the critique of others as evidence of bigotry. The bloodlust is palpable. The situation appears to be intractable, and it seems as if there is nothing we, as individuals, can do. When we feel powerless, spirituality offers us ways to begin healing within ourselves. In Buddhist and stoic traditions, there is a concept of non-reactivity. In Judaism, it is known as yishuv hadaas, and in Islam it is called muraqabah. The idea is that one should refrain from immediately reacting to an event or situation, no matter how harrowing. One should try to observe in a detached way, allowing oneself to feel and experience emotions without overidentifying with them and without rushing to judgement. This is the very heart of mindfulness, a word that has become a mere buzzword, but which nevertheless offers us a path towards the transcendence of harmful patterns. Maybe it seems trite to call for mindfulness right now, but surely I am not the first to point out that violence only begets more violence and that perpetrators of abuse are almost always victims of abuse themselves. Any spiritual leader claiming that war is the only way is an apostate and a charlatan. True justice is not born of hatred, and it is never delivered via bunkerbusting bombs. One holocaust doesn’t justify another. Contrary to what extremists say, God does not take sides. If our goal is to end these cycles of brutality, if our aspiration truly is peace, then perhaps it would behoove us to be a bit more mindful and less reactive. Perhaps we can give ourselves the space to see that policy based on or rationalized by extreme emotions and fear can only lead to more suffering. We are all brethren living on the same planet. If we stop merely reacting to the news and allowing the images we see on social media to inflame us, maybe we can stop succumbing to the illusion of our separateness and remember that we are each other’s keepers. -Gerald “Ray” Mak Mount Kisco LETTER SCOTT FROM PAGE 10 partisan lens, our work was cut out for us. Our goal was to get people to see us as individuals who can bring value to our community. We based our campaign on 101 ideas for Bedford: ideas today for making our town better tomorrow. We committed to not attacking or using demeaning tactics against our opponents. And we chose hot pink signs, the least political color we could think of, adorned with a dozen different messages describing who we were…dog lover, Boomer, millennial, Jets fan, Giants fan, etc. We even had one sign that said we loved the Barbie movie, which explained our choice of colors. We had a campaign playlist on Spotify along with a couple of tongue-in-cheek video ads, which got thousands of views. We wanted to have fun and make people smile in the hope they could know us as people rather than a party label, where they can appreciate our energy and our shared commitment to serve our community. We lost, but we got over 42% of the votes cast. Seventeen percent of voters crossed the partisan aisle to vote for us. We won in the neighborhoods who knew us best, which was heartening. However, we needed many more to prevail. Looking around our area, nearly half of the races were uncontested. Eight of 17 Westchester County legislator races had no opponent. Many town supervisor, mayor and council member races were uncontested. In the midst of this electoral vacuum, a few riveting races unfolded, notably an independent party’s upset in Mount Kisco and nail-bitingly close contests in North Salem and North Castle separated by just one vote as they wait for the last few absentee ballots to trickle in. Contested races serve as the crucible for debates, discussions and the exchange of ideas on how local government can improve. They provide a platform for new ideas and critiques of the status quo. Now I understand better than most the reason many take a pass on running a long-shot campaign. But they serve a purpose. Without them, there is zero accountability for those who serve us. Don Quixote understood the purpose of being in the game, even when the dream may be impossible.
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As Publisher and CEO, I pride myself in hiring the most talented people, and I couldn’t care less how my colleagues vote. Readers of my Publisher’s Memo can guess where I stand politically. But when it comes to the local level in particular, I’m far more concerned with how candidates treat our staff than how they voted in the last presidential election. Civility trumps whether or not I agree with you politically. I don’t see eye to eye with some of the nicest, most honest people. And some of the people who share my politics have been jerks to us. I assure you that if any bias is shown, it’s in favor of candidates who treat our staff with respect and not whether you have an “R” or a “D” next to your name. A little perspective In the 1800 presidential campaign between John Adams and Thomas Jefferson, pamphleteer James Calendar called Adams, the incumbent, a hermaphrodite, and the President’s supporters claimed that Jefferson, if elected, would promote prostitution, incest and adultery. Adams and Jefferson are revered today as giants among our Founding Fathers. Keeping this history in mind, it’s a common fallacy that the vitriol of modern politics is unprecedented. Before there was President Trump’s tweets and President Clinton’s dalliances with a White House intern, there were critics of George Washington, our first president, who mocked his dental hygiene by calling him “toothless.” Of course, town government is on a whole different level than state and national politics, and all of us in the community, including newspapers, have a responsibility to recognize that. Legally, public figures have a higher threshold in cases of libel, but ethically, there is a difference between criticizing a man or woman elected to Congress versus a man or woman who you’re likely to bump into at the supermarket. A resident on one of the local uncensored Facebook pages in Carmel criticized us for a paid advertisement that we published in the Oct. 19 issue, depicting his opponent as a marionette controlled by his father-in-law. This person had every right to criticize us (you know, the First Amendment and all, as well as our own status as a business in the public limelight). But the reader who questioned our integrity ironically failed to mention that we privately explained to her that we actually rejected the version of the advertisement that was mailed as a stand-alone flyer to the entire town. That version spewed all sorts of accusations that could have landed us in hot water, and I was not willing to put us in that sort of jeopardy, nor did I want that sort of mudslinging in a community paper. But just like political cartoons that have existed from the very founding of this country, the ad that we permitted was well within the American tradition of political satire. Additionally, considering the pile-on against us, there was a certain irony to a Facebook page celebrating its own “uncensored” status while simultaneously criticizing our newspaper for not censoring a candidate. People in the newspaper industry need to have thick skins, but outlets like Facebook give critics a megaphone not dissimilar to the reach of newspapers. I applaud this democratization of information. But when you hold a megaphone, you have the obligation to tell the full story. Being uncensored doesn’t mean there are no ethical obligations to what is being posted. In an age where everyone is a citizen journalist, it’s important to recognize the ethical obligations that accompany it. FREEMAN FROM PAGE 10 Letters and Op-Ed Policy Letters to the editor and op-ed submissions may be edited. The views and opinions expressed in letters and op-eds are not necessarily those of The Mt. Kisco-Bedford Times or its affiliates. Submissions must include a phone number and address for verification. Not all letters and op-eds will necessarily be published. Letters and op-eds which cannot be verified or are anonymous will not be published. Please send your submissions to the editor by e-mail at mkbt@ halstonmedia.com. For more information, call the editor at 914-302-5830.
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 OPINION THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 13 Celebrating 50 years Brewster, NY and Bethel, CT Design Centers On your project every day until completion...GUARANTEED! 845-278-0070 Southeastkitchenandbath.com I recently caught up with an old friend of mine, Westchester County Executive George Latimer, on my cable show, “All About Town with Jim Martorano.” Our friendship goes way back to our electoral beginnings back in the 1990s. But unlike yours truly, Mr. Latimer has never lost an election and now is widely thought to be setting his sights on Congress. Distinct from any elected official I have ever known, George has, against his own political interests, personally engineered the passage of a law which specifically prohibits him from running for a third term as County Executive. What politician does that? Only Mr. Latimer. There is no doubt that, given his limited remaining time as the leader of our county, he will soon set his sights on another office, this time in Washington. Yes, he has not yet announced his candidacy for Congress. But trust me, he will soon! The following are edited portions of my recent interview with the Westchester County Executive. Due to the length of our conversation, I have severely cut George’s responses to fit the limits of this column. The interview can be seen in its entirety on YouTube. Just type in All About Town -George Latimer, or if you have Optimum it will air on the public access channel 74 on Wednesday evenings at 9 p.m. Enjoy. Q: How long have you been in this position (Westchester County Executive)? Latimer: I have been in office six years, and I have asked the county legislature to pass the toughest term limit bill for my position…the maximum a county executive can serve is two 4-year terms. I am now in my sixth year. Not knowing what the future brings, I would serve another two years and then there will be a new county executive.” Q: How have you handled the immense pressures of being Westchester County Executive? Latimer: First of all, my private experience had been as a legislator prior to becoming County Executive…when you move into an executive position, it is a different animal altogether…it’s an around the clock job…24/7…like a mayor or town supervisor the pressure of the job is all encompassing…One thing I’ve learned in my business career, which by the way is the piece people often don’t see in my resume (I spent 20 years in sales and marketing) is that if you want to be effective in an administrative job, you must identify and hire the best possible people around you, particularly individuals who know what you don’t know. Next, you must listen to their advice… I think what has worked for these past six years as I traverse the county is that I have been blessed with terrific people and I have been very fortunate in that regard. Q: Have you made any decisions you regret? Latimer: Nothing is perfect. You make the best decisions you can, given the information you have. It won’t always be popular. But you must be willing to go back out and talk to people…It’s not easy to make the tough call. Not everyone will be happy. Naturally, everyone likes to be liked. But you have been elected to make what you consider to be the right decision. Most importantly, you must take time to explain to your constituents why you made your decision. That is always appreciated, even by people who may disagree with you. Q: Looking back on your 35 years of public service, what do you see as your biggest accomplishments? Latimer: This job, as an executive position, you see something that you want done, and with unitary power, you can get it done…when I was a legislator, you needed to get other people to agree with you and support your proposed legislation, so individually your actions could only take you so far…whereas as a county executive, in my present position, we’ve been able to unilaterally make major capital improvements in sites like Memorial Field in Mt. Vernon, New Rochelle Family Court, the Miller House in North White Plains, and so many other places in the county…we’ve been able to exact positive, lasting change in all these places... We’ve also been able to accomplish many other things via the legislative process, which have resulted in positive tangible change…we also were able to Latimer muses about Congressional run Martorano sits down for one-on-one interview with county executive JAMES MARTORANO MY PERSPECTIVE SEE MARTORANOPAGE 14
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It’s not because they were not outstanding; it’s the nature of turnover and the fastmoving nature of today’s world. Yes, if you’re Lincoln or Washington, your name will live on, but otherwise fame is quite temporal…I just hope when my time ends here that I will be able to look back at all we’ve done and feel, yes, this effort was worth it! Q: You’re now 70 years old and have been working at such a strenuous pace for many years now. Have you ever thought about retirement? Latimer: It will be hard to go from 100 miles per hour to a dead stop. I just can’t see myself relaxing at a senior center playing cards, although I do say those are wonderful opportunities for seniors… when my electoral career is over, I expect I will spend my senior years consulting, perhaps on the state level. Q: What about Congress? Latimer: It might be. Or it might be at the school board level…. But what I would love to be is general manager of the New York Mets, I want to turn that franchise around, one more championship! Q: People are all talking about you running for Congress. That is something I unsuccessfully tried to do back in 2006. But as I watch the news, I can’t imagine why anyone would want to be in the middle of such a dysfunctional body, which seems more interested in insults than results. What are your thoughts, can we find common ground between opposing sides? Latimer: You can still do that, certainly we have done that on the county level… Q: But can consensus really be achieved today on the Congressional level? Latimer: On the Congressional side, it’s become a cultural war 24/7… were I to go to Congress, I wouldn’t expect to change the culture, I would be one person out of many…I’ve already experienced that earlier in my career in the New York State Legislature… Were I to go to Congress, it would be like the line from one of the songs from the play Hamilton, “being in the room where it happens.” You must be in the room where it happens to effect positive change for your constituents. Q: If you were elected to Congress, what do you see as your role? Latimer: As a Congressperson, you are not Secretary of State. You may have positions, but your job is not to pontificate on matters that are not within your purview. Your job is to add value to major legislation that will have a positive and essential effect on the lives of your constituents. You must keep in mind the needs of the communities you represent and make sure that those needs are addressed in important legislation. I would seek to achieve consensus and support legislation that will precisely do that. Q: What do you see as the major problem in Congress today? Latimer: One of the major problems in Congress is the extreme wings on both sides, which are not really interested in passing legislation but rather are focused on a polemic on what they believe society should be…all my years in government have taught me that government is not going to shape how society will be, pop culture is more interested in who Taylor Swift is dating that what are the bills presently proposed in Congress. Q: If shaping society is not on the table, what do you see as the major role of a Congressperson? Latimer: Anyone who is lucky enough to go to Washington must realize you only get a certain amount of influence, and you must use it wisely and intensely…Your success may depend on how many of the people on the other side of the aisle will agree with you. It may be, in these polarized times, that the center won’t hold. But clearly it is worth the effort to try and find common ground. Q: Thank you so much for your time today. It has been my honor to call you my friend over these last several decades and I wish you luck in all your future endeavors. Latimer: It has been my pleasure. The foregoing was only a small snippet of my edited interview with Westchester County Executive George Latimer. Soon after Mr. Latimer announces his bid for Congress, I hope to sit down with him again about his plans moving forward for his district. MARTORANO FROM PAGE 13 To advertise in The Mt. Kisco-Bedford Times, call Brett Freeman at 845-208-8151 or email [email protected].
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Ask them what size bird you need to buy, how long it needs to be in the oven and how much stuffing you’ll need for it. This is a good activity for your kids from Grades 5-9. Let’s say you’re going to have dinner at 5 p.m. Ask the kids what time you need to put the turkey in the oven based on their calculations. Obviously, younger children can do easier calculations. Maybe you’re making a double batch of cranberry sauce and the bag says 1 cup of water and 1 cup of sugar; how much water and sugar would you need? And what about the stuffing? How many cups of stuffing will you need for your turkey? If you buy pre-packaged stuffing mix, how many bags will you need? They’ll need to read the fine print on the bags of stuffing when you go to the store. If you need a bag and a half, how much water and how much butter or margarine will you need? If you’re following Grandma’s recipe, will you need to double it? Cut it in half? 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PAGE 18 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES HEALTH & WELLNESS NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 The Greens provides safety, comfort, and a loving home filled with laughter and joy. We are a small intimate assisted living community for your loved one with memory impairment. Discover The Greens at Greenwich Home is a Feeling [email protected] • thegreensatgreenwich.com Awarded the Best Practice for Resident Care by the Connecticut Assisted Living Association Schedule a Tour 203.531.5500 www.pleasantvillewellnessgroup.com CONTACT US 450 Manville Road, First Floor Pleasantville NY 10570 [email protected] 914-538-2438 PLEASANTVILLE WELLNESS GROUP offers compassionate and affordable care for whatever you or a loved one may be struggling with. Reach out today to find out how we can support you through your mental health journey. Services offered in person and online. BY MARIA SCAROS GUEST COLUMNIST Choosing a living option when you’re over 65 is reminiscent of choosing a college. One decides on a geographic area. Do academics match up with your interests? Is the campus too big or too small? Is it the best bang for my buck? And most importantly, can I see myself living here? Let’s just say at this stage of the game I want to live in a safe, active community with amenities. While touring, I find myself walking into a palatial entryway with waterfalls and a concierge. So, this is “Senior Living?” I’m interested in an authentic living community. Not a private club. I want to walk into a “home,” not an upscale hotel. One’s initial reaction may be, “Wow. This is incredible. I don’t think I can afford this.” Or, “I don’t know if I’d be comfortable here” or “Yes. I deserve this. I’m in.” This can be what is referred to as Independent Living, as opposed to living independently. Independent Living is structured and has care levels. This can be comforting to many who do not want to be moving every few years as needs change. Living independently, one lives wherever they want and in whatever type of home they want. If they should need care, they can bring help in. This could work, but it can also prove to be lonely and isolating, especially if you do not have a partner. A CCRC (continuum of care residential community) is another option. This is a “buy-in,” meaning, you purchase a home and are cared for as your needs change. You would move, within the community, from Independent Living to Assisted Living and to Skilled nursing if you need to move. Assisted Living is just that. You need a bit of help, but for the most part, you can care for yourself. As your needs change, your fees are increased, which may prove cost prohibitive on a tight budget. Memory Care Assisted Living is care for those living with memory impairment, including Alzheimer’s disease. These folks are not thriving at home and may be unsafe, but they are not medically compromised enough to be in a skilled nursing facility (a nursing home). Skilled nursing is for those who require round-theclock medical supervision. It is the only facility that is paid for by Medicaid, once a person spends down all their assets. Each state has its own criteria. All others are private pay and accept long-term care insurance. Be honest with yourself when it is time to choose where to live. Only then will you make the best choice. What do you need to help you live the rest of your life with dignity, support and happiness? Senior Advisors can help at low or no cost to you. Be sure to call someone local as opposed to a large entity that is not familiar with the area in which you are interested. Think senior year and scouting for the next chapter. It is a new beginning. Maria Scaros is Executive Director of The Greens at Greenwich. For more information, visit www. thegreensatgreenwich.com, or call 203-531-5500. Living options after 65 How do I choose? Two different seniors need to think about “senior” living. IMAGE PRODUCED BY DALL-E
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 FOCUS ON ELDER LAW THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 19 For the longest time, whenever I heard someone ask another person how much money they make, the typical reply is, “It’s none of your business. Whatever I make is between me, God, and the IRS!” It is not unusual for an individual to be protective of their personal finances. The concern on this issue, especially for most parents, is often that if their children (and/or family) know what they have, they will be more likely to ask for money and less motivated to work hard and save their own money. While there is some merit to this point of view when children are younger and impressionable, as you and they age, the value of this secretive approach can have diminishing and detrimental returns. On those occasions when children have been kept in the dark about their parents’ and/or grandparents’ finances and a sudden illness or tragedy strikes, the family often has great difficulty handling the unknown financial affairs for their loved ones. This can adversely impact those finances from an estate tax and/or long-term care planning perspective. For example, let’s say Dad just had a heart attack and is mentally incapacitated and in need of significant physical therapy and care for the immediate future. Obviously, Dad’s finances are going to play a major role in whether or not he will be eligible for the Medicaid nursing home and/ or home care program. Additionally, depending on the size of his estate, Dad may also have estate tax issues that the family is unaware of. Thus, before they are able to even approach the hurdle of making a plan of care, the family will first be forced to gather all of this information, while simultaneously determining the best plan for Dad’s health needs. Without having an accurate picture of the income and other financial information for an ill individual, the individual’s family members and/ or named agents under a Power of Attorney will struggle to ascertain what steps they should be taking. They won’t, for example, be able to calculate how much of the ill person’s income is available to finance the cost of longterm care and how much of the loved one’s savings will need to be used to make up the difference. An attorney won’t be able to provide informed legal advice to the family on numerous important issues without knowledge of the finances. While it is always preferable for an aging person to provide specific financial information, if one is concerned about privacy, it may be sufficient to provide a detailed list of the assets, as well as how they are titled and the corresponding account numbers and financial institutions, without exact dollar amounts. In addition to making this financial information available in some form to trusted friends or family, it is equally as important to ensure that the person has executed a General Durable Power of Attorney with broad powers so that loved ones can handle the ill family member’s finances and undertake everything that the ill individual could have done themselves if they were competent. In conclusion, as one ages, keeping secrets from family may result in the family’s inability to take the necessary steps to protect their loved one’s estate from estate taxes and the cost of longterm care. It’s not the surprise a family wants! Anthony J. Enea is the managing attorney of Enea, Scanlan and Sirignano, LLP of White Plains. He also has an office in Somers. He focuses his practice on Wills, Trusts, Estates and Elder Law. Anthony is the Past Chair of the Elder Law and Special Needs Section of the New York State Bar Association (NYSBA), and is the past Chair of the 50+ Section of the NYSBA. He is a Past President and Founding member of the New York Chapter of the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (NAELA). Anthony is also the Immediate Past President of the Westchester County Bar Foundation and a Past President of the Westchester County Bar Association. He can be reached at 914-948-1500 or at www.esslawfirm. com. Have you kept your loved ones in the dark? Keeping secrets from family may result in the family’s inability to take the necessary steps to protect their loved one’s estate from estate taxes and the cost of longterm care.’ -Anthony J. Enea Enea, Scanlan and Sirignano, LLP ANTHONY J. ENEA GUEST CORNER
PAGE 20 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES HEALTH & WELLNESS NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 Pleasantville Wellness Group is your community haven, providing compassionate care and support to patients of all ages and walks of life. Our team of licensed clinicians have a wide range of specialties to help you find the peace of mind and comfort that is eluding you. Whether you are struggling with an immediate challenge, working through past trauma, or trying to answer the larger questions of life, we are here to support you through the journey. We offer individual, group, and couples counseling so that you can find the therapeutic environment best suited for your unique needs. Our Team SERVICES CURRENTLY OFFERED: INDIVIDUAL, GROUP & FAMILY THERAPY www.pleasantvillewellnessgroup.com CONTACT US 450 Manville Road, First Floor Pleasantville NY 10570 [email protected] 914-538-2438 WE ALSO OFFER: Neuropsychological and Our Team Psychoeducational Testing Services Just about every individual has mementos, collectibles and other belongings that they feel a sentimental attachment to. Such items take up residence in individuals’ homes, but also in their hearts. However, when individuals attach such feelings to more and more items, that could be an indication of a burgeoning hoarding disorder. Hoarding is a recognized mental health condition. The American Psychiatric Association says people with hoarding disorder have “persistent difficulty getting rid of or parting with possessions.” This desire to hold on to things comes from a “perceived need to save the items.” When items are tossed away or taken, it can contribute to considerable distress. The Mayo Clinic says those with hoarding disorder may quickly accumulate huge numbers of items, regardless of their actual value. Homes can become overrun with stuff piled in any conceivable location, eventually making the home unsafe to inhabit. While collecting involves acquiring possessions in an intentional and organized fashion, hoarding is largely impulsive and triggered by the sight of an item or another contributing factor. Hoarding can affect a person’s life in many ways, and recognizing potential signs of hoarding may help individuals get the help they need. • The APA says hoarding incidence rates are higher among people who are age 60 or older and those with psychiatric conditions like anxiety, schizophrenia or depression. • People who hoard are more likely to have had a deprived childhood, with either a lack of objects or poor relationships with other family members. • Hoarders tend to find it hard to categorize or organize items they keep. Many of these items have little or no monetary value, and may include junk mail, newspapers, books, or items they intend to reuse or repair. • Those with hoarding disorder may try to hide it and keep others out of their homes altogether, or have specific rooms that are off-limits, advises the San Francisco Bay Area Center for Cognitive Therapy. • Conversations may revolve around stuff rather than relationships. • Hoarding may be discovered when bills go unpaid or there is extreme debt due to compulsive spending. • Someone who hoards may have trouble finding things or insist on keeping their belongings piled in stacks rather than in closets or cabinets. • Many times hoarding disorder evolves when a person feels comforted and safe when surrounded by things, or feels he or she doesn’t want to waste anything. • Hoarding can extend to animals as well. Hoarding pets puts the animals at extreme risk, as they often cannot be cared for properly in homes where hoarding is taking place. If these symptoms sound familiar, then hoarding disorder may be present. While it can be uncomfortable to admit to hoarding, with the help of loved ones and a health professional, hoarding can be overcome. This article is from Metro Creative Connection. Indications you or a loved one may have a hoarding disorder
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 HEALTH & WELLNESS THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 21 ADVERTORIAL “DEM BONES” IN OUR BODY You probably have heard the spiritual song “Dem Bones” of the 1920s by James Weldon Johnson with the following lyrics: “Toe bones are connected to the foot bone, foot bone connected to the heel bone, heel bone connected to the ankle bone, ankle bone connected to the leg bone” …. all the way to the “shoulder bone connected to the neck bone; neck bone connected to the head bone “how “dem bones gonna walk around”. This song sums up in a nutshell the body’s kinetic chain how it is linked together to work together. HISTORY OF THE KINETIC CHAIN IN OUR BODIES The German engineer Franz Reuleuax is credited for defining the kinetic chain in machines in 1875: if both ends of a chain are fixed and an external force is applied, it receives and produces a force to the adjacent segment causing a movement pattern that generates a chain reaction. Years later, Orthopedic Surgeon Arthur Steindler applied the kinetic chain concept to the human body for rehabilitation when he stated, “the human body is linked together where energy is transferred from one fixed joint to the next joint to set the chain reaction in motion or make the body move.” * UNDERSTANDING OUR HUMAN CHAIN REACTION The musculoskeletal system is the movement mechanism of our bodies. It is a network of joints, muscles, ligaments, tendons, cartilage, connective tissue from our toes to the top of our head. The term “kinetic” means relates to or results from motion. Thus, for the body to move, or to set the kinetic chain reaction in motion, energy must be created and transferred in a coordinated and well-timed manner to move naturally and prevent injuries. The body can be divided in the upper and lower chain. • The upper kinetic chain includes our shoulders, shoulder blades, spinal column, arms, wrists, and hands. • The lower kinetic chain consists of our feet, ankles, legs, hips, pelvis, and lower spine. Within the musculoskeletal system our body can perform close or open chain movements. • Open chain movements refer to the end part of the body moving freely in space; for example, waving your hand of sitting and kicking your lower leg straight up. • Close chain movements refer to the distal/end part of the body being fixed against a solid object; for example, placing your foot on a stair to step up or put your hands on the wall. During our daily lives, our body’s kinetic chain performs open and close chain movements without interruption or conscious effort, unless you have an injury. When you take a step forward, your toes, feet and ankles are flexed back to plant your feet on the ground for a close chain reaction. Or lower legs, thighs, butts, pelvic, core and postural muscles keep our body upright and stable. The spine and upper body automatically rotate slightly with the arms swinging freely for a balanced, open chain motion to produce a normal walking cadence. INTERRUPTION OF OUR BODY’S NORMAL KINETIC CHAIN REACTION When you have an injury or are in pain, the connecting body parts compensate. For example, when you stub your toe and start limping, it may affect your knee, hip and back and can cause pain and unevenness of the pelvis that in turn results in pain, not only in your toe but in the rest of the lower kinetic chain. A similar problem can happen in the upper extremity when you slam your finger in the door and your neck goes into muscle spasm. STRENGTHENING EXERCISES TO STAY BALANCED AND MOVE FREELY When doing exercises try to use as many combined muscles as possible in close and open chain movements. Remember to breathe when the muscles contract and never hold your breath. Here are three suggestions: • Sit to stand: hold a 5lb weight in your hands. When upright, rotate your torso to the right and lift your left leg up to balance on your right leg. Sit down and repeat to the other side. • Lunges: forward and sideways; hold a 5lb weight in your hands and rotate your torso performing a core crunch. • Wall squats: with your back against the wall hold a 5lb weight in your hands. Squat down to a safe level, punch your arms forward and try to straighten up on one leg only. DAILY MOVEMENT FOR OUR HUMAN KINETIC CHAIN Doing physical activity for 30 minutes every day keeps your kinetic chain strong and healthy. Whether you do LIZE LUBBE GUEST CORNER Our Body’s Kinetic Chain and Free Movement fast-paced walking, gym workout, dancing, playing racquet ball, golf, do yoga or garden work…the key is not to sit all day. Include movement in your day-to-day routine. • Park your car far from the door to take extra steps. • When talking on the phone, walk around or march in place. • Climb the steps instead of taking the elevator. • When cooking in the kitchen, dance around. • Play outside with your kids, dogs, or grandkids. If you have any difficulty performing any exercises or feel your body’s kinetic chain is not moving freely or experience any pain, please contact your physician of physical therapist. *A. Steindler, Kinesiology of the Human Body - Under Normal and Pathological Conditions (Charles C. Thomas, 1955) We are hands on PTs! The professional services of the team at Lize Lubbe Physical Therapy include: • Pre & Post Surgery Rehabilitation • Sports Injury Rehabilitation • Neurological Rehabilitation • Treatment of Musculoskeletal & Orthopedic Conditions • Postural, Balance & Gait Training • Pain & Headache Management • Body Rebalancing through Diaphragm, Breathing & Pelvic Stability www.lizelubbept.com [email protected] 914.875.9430 892 NY-35, Cross River, NY 10518 (blue office building) Lize Lubbe is the owner of Lize Lubbe Physical Therapy with its main practice located at 892 Route 35 in Cross River and a PT Studio in the premises of Apex Fitness (where her team focus on the rehabilitation of sports-related injuries). Learn more by calling 914-875-9430, emailing contact@ lizelubbept.com or visiting www.lizelubbept.com.
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PAGE 24 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 BEDFORD FROM PAGE 6 TRACKS FROM PAGE 4 the train station’s erstwhile waiting room. Bittker, a Bedford Hills resident, referred to what Bedford Democrats call their “100-plus Accomplishments” for the town, actions achieved “despite the fact that we were severely disrupted by Covid.” “In the next four years,” she predicted, “we can get 200 accomplishments done. And I’m not saying that facetiously. I just have no idea what we can get done now that we don’t have a pandemic—knock on wood.” She expressed appreciation for the campaign workers’ efforts. “We have countless volunteers who show up for us,” Bittker observed. “I think that’s something the other side is lacking. And it makes such a difference. So, thank you.” In 2019, in their first runs for town office, Bittker and Calves were both elected to four-year Town Board terms, putting Democrats in all five Town Board seats for the first time in memory. But two years ago, three-term Supervisor Chris Burdick was elected to the state Assembly. Calves successfully ran to succeed Burdick, besting Scott, a four-year Town Board member and her Katonah neighbor, in yet another Democratic sweep. Catoliato was a Planning Board member in 2021 when he was appointed to fill Calves’ board seat, left vacant after she won the supervisor’s gavel. Last November he successfully ran to retain that seat for the final year of Calves’ original term. Catoliato, in his train station remarks, thanked Calves, crediting the supervisor’s popularity with clearly helping him with the electorate. Calves had appeared with the councilman on the campaign trail, including early-morning train station visits, he said, even though she was unchallenged in her own reelection bid. “I am absolutely honored— and I say this with the utmost respect—honored to be able to serve,” Catoliato told the supporters who gathered on election night. The Bedford Village resident said, “I’m excited to do things in town, in all three hamlets.” Referring to an economic alliance launched by the town this year to revitalize local business, he said, “I am very excited about Bedford Hills; I love what we’re doing there. We’re seeing tangible results. . . . The progress we’ve made is remarkable.” Made in NY Holiday Market Saturday, Nov. 18, from 11 a.m. to 6 p.m. Discover unique vendors along Westchester Avenue in Pound Ridge! Westchester Oratorio Society The Westchester Oratorio Society has begun its 26th season with rehearsals for the group’s fall concert featuring Bach: Cantata, BWV 706; Händel: Te Deum, HWV 280; Bach: Cantata, BWV 140 and Fauré: Cantique de Jean Racine, Op. 11. The concert will be on Saturday, Nov. 18 at 7:30 p.m. at the South Salem Presbyterian Church. The chorus will be accompanied by professional soloists and the WOS Baroque Orchestra. Bedford Free Library Located at 32 Village Green, Bedford, NY 10506. For more information or to register for events, visit www.bedfordfreelibrary.org BUILD WITH LEGOS WITH CAITLIN Mondays, Nov. 20 & 27, from 3:15 to 4 p.m. Bring your imagination and your camera, but not your Legos, which will be supplied by the library. Your creations can not be taken home. Registration is required. AUTHOR TALK Saturday, Dec. 2, from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. “My Stroke in the Fast Lane: A Journey to Recovery,” by Bonni Brodnick. Bedford Hills Free Library 26 Main St, Bedford Hills. 914-666-6472 For more information or to register for programs, visit www. bedfordhillsfreelibrary.org EVERYONE CAN WRITE Saturday, Nov. 18, from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. With Patti Ivry. Come try your hand (literally) at putting words on paper (or screen) to tell a story, describe a moment, express a viewpoint, or send some love. This interactive workshop will begin with learning about writing in a fun and dynamic way, followed by opportunities to write together. 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NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 25 congratulated Cindrich and his team at their gathering at the American Legion. Farber said she went to sleep Tuesday believing -- based on the numbers available around 10:30 p.m. -- that she had lost and so was genuinely surprised when people started calling to congratulate her the next morning. The unofficial results posted by the BOE early Wednesday morning had shown Farber and Flora winning trustee spots. Later in the week, it updated its website to show that Flora and Garcia-Guerra were leading. Farber declined to comment Friday until the official and final results are in. Flora and Garcia-Guerra did likewise for the same reason. Cindrich released the following statement: “I am proud and humbled that the people of Mount Kisco have again put their trust in me. The campaign was onerous and stressful, yet productive. I commend all those who put themselves in the arena of political discourse, those willing to serve and not stand on the sidelines. This was my 15th political campaign, 12 victories, when I lost, I offered no excuses and quietly moved on, accepting the fact that the government belongs to the people.” ABZUN In a Facebook post, Abzun expressed appreciation for Farber and for trustee colleague Patiño, who she said will be missed for her “passionate advocacy on the Village Board.” Thanking supporters for believing and trusting in MK Forward’s message, Abzun said she was confident that they will continue to fight for “financially reachable housing opportunities” and the creation of a “fully accessible and safe pedestrian-centered village.” She pledged to continue her efforts relative to the Complete Streets project. Abzun also thanked Picinich, who had appointed her to the board in 2021, for her six years of service and noted that her administration had “set the benchmark for fiscal responsibility, asset preservation, and community revitalization.” (Abzun ran for trustee in 2022 and won a full two-year term.) Congratulating Cindrich on his victory, she concluded by writing that she respected “the will of the voters” and that she was “proud to continue to serve the people of Mount Kisco as their village trustee.” PATIÑO Patiño released the following statement on Friday, Nov. 10: “I’m so thankful for Lisa and Jean. I am immensely proud of the campaign we ran, marked by dignity and respect for all. Despite enduring personal attacks that hurt my loved ones, dealing with fabricated lies, and confronting a barrage of misinformation, I can only hope that such disappointing tactics were solely meant for the campaign and not indicative of what lies ahead. True leaders must prioritize respect and must approach the role with facts and a commitment to collaboration and teamwork. I am very grateful to all the people who supported our campaign, who contributed their time and resources, and who believed in our work and vision. I am profoundly grateful for the outpouring of love and support from my community and I hold space for the community that is feeling uneasy. As your first-ever Latina representative and lifelong resident of Mount Kisco, it has been such an honor to serve all and it’s been so meaningful to give a voice to those who have historically lacked representation and to show what we’re capable of when given the opportunity and support. Our community is strong and resilient despite our rough history with Latino immigrants. Since the 90s, the Latino immigrant community in Mount Kisco has been welcomed at work but has struggled to achieve a sense of belonging and acceptance when it comes to housing, policies, and services. We must put fear-based rhetoric aside. The fact is, our community is talented, worthy, and needed for our Village to function and thrive; we depend on each other. We can’t solve federal issues locally, but we can make Mount Kisco thrive - that should be the focus. I am hopeful that the results of this election encourage those who are able to vote to register, to be involved, and to exercise such a precious privilege. Those who can’t need our support more than ever. Campaigning is over, the work for the incoming Board starts now and shouldn’t be approached as a need to “win” on each issue, but as a meaningful and collaborative effort to find a resolution that works for all. Again, it’s been my honor to serve. I am thankful beyond measure.” COUNTY/STATE RACES County Legislator Erika L. Pierce ran unopposed. The Democrat represents District 2, which includes North Salem, Somers, Lewisboro, Bedford, Mount Kisco, and Pound Ridge. She received 10,329 votes. Statewide, voters picked four Supreme Court justices from among a field of eight candidates. According to the unofficial BOE results, the top vote getters were: Francesca E. Connolly, with 102,832 votes; Charley Wood, 97,821; Rolf Thorsen, 92,793; and Larry Schwartz, with 94,979. All ran on the Democratic/Conservative lines. The other candidates were John A. Sarcone III (56,557); Susan M. Sullivan-Bisceglia (54,073); John Ciampoli (52,077); and Karen Ostberg (51,997). They ran on the Republican line. PROPOSITIONS State Propositions 1 and 2 regarding debt limits for small city school districts and for local governments’ sewage projects both passed, the first 92,541 - 52,259 and 102,822 - 41636 votes respectively. CINDRICH FROM PAGE 1 PHOTO COURTESY OF JOHN RHODES J. Michael Cindrich celebrates with wife Linda on election night. 845-279-9555 • TankRemovalServices.com Before you place your home on the market, contact ENVIROSTAR about replacing your aging underground storage tank (UST). 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NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 27 Lauding Berger as “a man of extraordinary compassion,” Mayor Gina Picinich said he “cared so deeply and took that compassion and actually turned it into action.” Picinich said Berger took her out to breakfast after she became mayor and explained “how things were supposed to go.” “So I listened and learned and appreciated that his care and regard for those who were in the greatest need, and who were the most vulnerable, was unyielding,” she said. Getting one’s name on the Wall of Honor is “a big deal,” Picinich said. “This is not done flippantly; it is only for someone who is truly deserving and it is extraordinarily appropriate that Mel’s name is added to the others.” DOOR ‘ALWAYS OPEN’ Dr. Nan Miller met Berger when she was a coordinator for, and he was the director of, the Mount Kisco Drug and Alcohol Abuse Prevention Council. Their first collaboration resulted in the group getting a federal grant for youth substance abuse initiatives, such as “Drug Court.” It went over so well that eventually surrounding communities asked Berger to help them set up programs of their own. The Emergency Shelter Partnership has also been a big success. After Berger arranged for the First Presbyterian Church in Bedford to take the inaugural shift, Miller and her husband got cots and slept there the first night. Calling Berger “an unassuming, humble man who pursued his causes relentlessly,” she said he “touched the lives of many, many residents and was widely known for his caring, kindness, and generosity.” Phyllis Rupert met Berger when they were living in the same housing complex. She was president of its board and he “was a very good ombudsman.” “Anyone who’s ever lived in a multiple family dwelling knows noise complaints are absolutely the worst. Mel would take that on. He would go and resolve all of the complaints and he did it with compassion and grace,” she said. “His door was always open if you had a family member with an addiction problem. He was full of advice and I have to tell you that I took his advice and it was useful advice, it worked in my family,” Miller said, recalling that Berger eventually used his powers of persuasion to recruit her for a spot on the Emergency Shelter Partnership’s board. “How do you say ‘no’ to Mel? You don’t,” she said, adding: “I miss him. I kind of see him on the street all the time whether he’s there or not.” FAMILY MEMORIES Berger’s sons Michael, Craig, and Jonathan, and adopted son Bob Nowell, and Berger’s adopted daughter, Megan (Nowell) Castellano, attended the ceremony. (He is also survived by eight grandchildren.) While the family was “a little sad” when Holiday Inn Drive wasn’t renamed for Berger, Michael pointed out that his dad would have been “infinitely more proud” of making it on the Wall of Honor because of its being in Leonard Park. “We really spent a great deal of our childhood here,” he said. Brothers Jonathan and Craig agreed. “We played every sport imaginable,” the latter sibling said, joking that “the Mets got to go to Florida in February and practice. We got to come here and deal with the frost on the fields while taking ground balls from our dad.” Despite the inevitable freezing hands and feet, it was well worth the family bonding experience. “We also learned to drive in the parking lot,” revealed Jonathan to chuckles from the crowd, hastily assuring folks that the teens had had their learner’s permits. Megan held up a framed photo of the Tea House that her father had displayed in his home. It now hangs in her bedroom. “This was a special place for him, so the fact that you’re giving him this great honor in this location, is just something that I know we’re all very touched by as a family. But I know he would just be overjoyed,” she said. WRITTEN REFLECTIONS Ann Ramone read a letter from the Rev. Nicole Schwalbe, pastor of the Lutheran Church of the Resurrection in Mount Kisco, who was impressed by Berger’s dedication. “It was clear that Mel had a heart for the people of this community and wanted to help those he could. He made it a better place for everyone,” she wrote. JoAnne Hochstein of the Emergency Shelter Partnership remembered meeting Berger as a child at his pharmacy. “He was just this larger-than-life person standing behind the counter. Always very jovial, very nice,” she said. “One of the wonderful things about Mel is that he was able to bring 18 congregations together. We have people of all different religions and faiths helping,” she said. The biggest takeaway about Berger? “He knew that we are our brother’s keeper,” Hochstein said. She read a letter from Carola Otero Bracco, executive director of Neighbors Link, a nonprofit that provides employment and education opportunities for immigrant families. As its partner, Berger “worked diligently” to understand the community’s needs and was “tenacious” in his efforts to ensure that services addressed them. He was hands-on too, often driving clients to appointments, helping them fill out forms, and advocating on their behalf. Ralph Vigliotti of the Mount Kisco Historical Society read a letter from businessman Charles Benway, who noted Berger’s critical role in creating the ESP. “In doing so, he not only served those in need, he also served the congregational partners by providing means for people to put faith into action through an interfaith practice of compassion, acceptance, and generosity, values that Mel practiced daily,” Benway wrote. Village Trustee Karen Schleimer echoed those sentiments. “One of Mel’s best skills was to get us all involved. He corralled us all; he made us aware; he brought us into caring and so, for that, I thank him,” she said. Schleimer read a letter from Dolores Vidal-Roy, a retired social worker who’d been a co-coordinator with Miller at the council, now Partners in Prevention. Berger was “always hopeful and in good spirits, qualities that helped us maintain our faith and our trust in our community contacts,” VidalRoy wrote. BERGER FROM PAGE 8 Increase referrals and name recognition. Advertise in The Mt. Kisco-Bedford Times Bulletin Board and reach over 7,000 USPS delivered mailing addresses every week. Call 845-208-8151 today! 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PAGE 28 – THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES LEISURE NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 BY TOM WALOGORSKY EDITOR “I was just a sweet little boy who could throw a good left hook,” says Peter Wood. Shortly after the release of his newest book, “Surviving Myself: The Making of a Middleweight,” the former Golden Gloves boxerturned-author took time to explain how his personal experiences are channeled into his writing. “We all need some device to grow up strong and happy. Mine was sports, specifically boxing,” says the longtime Mt. Kisco resident. “I don’t like conflict or fighting, so it was contrary to my nature. I didn’t realize it at the time, but it was the best medicine for me. It was my way of sowing my wild oats.” With the support of his parents who didn’t mind their son coming home with the occasional black eye, Wood trained in the ring during his youth. That time spent fighting inside the ropes would later give him the foundation for the writer - and person - he would become. “You have to fire the metal to make it strong,” says Wood. Wood’s boxing career highlights include being the middleweight finalist in a bout at Madison Square Garden in 1971, representing the United States in an international competition in Montreal and was the country’s first alternate in the Maccabian Games in Tel Aviv. Following that, he enjoyed a long career in education as both a teacher and coach at White Plains High School. Unable to give up his love of the classroom, he still serves as a substitute teacher at Fox Lane High School. “There’s a rhyme and reason to a school,” Wood explains. “You have teachers and a schedule and rules, it just makes sense to me. And teachers are wonderful people.” “Surviving Myself,” is Wood’s fifth book and was released this summer. “The arc of the book is growing up,” the author explains. In addition to being a memoir about boxing, Wood also recounts his family’s complicated dynamic and issues such as divorce, drug addiction, alcoholism, and juvenile delinquency. Ultimately, it is also a tale of inspiration, determination, and the importance of not giving up your dreams. “I think everyone can relate to this book,” adds the author. “Surviving Myself: The Making of a Middleweight” is currently available on Amazon. For more information about Peter Wood, visit his website at www. authorpeterwood.com SURVIVING MYSELF Mt. Kisco author publishes new book Peter Wood “Surviving Myself” is Wood’s fifth book. To solve a sudoku, the numbers 1 through 9 must fill each row, column and box. Each number can appear only once in each row, column and box. You can figure out the order in which the numbers will appear by using the numeric clues already provided in the boxes. The more numbers you name, the easier it gets to solve the puzzle! For puzzle solutions, please see theparamountrehab.com CLUES ACROSS 1. Beats per minute 4. Hindu deity 10. Polynesian garland of flowers 11. Not chained to 12. Metric ton 14. Tall, rounded vase 15. Musical composition 16. St. Francis of __ 18. Discover the location of 22. Compact group of mountains 23. Mend 24. Not current 26. Atomic #64 27. Young hawk 28. Or __ 30. Pouches 31. Southern Thailand isthmus 34. Mends with yarn 36. Downwinds 37. One of two equal parts of a divisible whole 39. Italian archaeological site 40. Cold appetizer 41. Yes 42. Peninsula 48. Of that 50. A way to divide 51. Relating to the physical senses 52. One who makes money 53. __ Spumante (Italian wine) 54. Inconvenience (abbr.) 55. South Dakota 56. Snow sport 58. The products of human creativity 59. Change mind 60. Born of CLUES DOWN 1. Similar to the color of a clear unclouded sky 2. Former name of Iran 3. Made smaller 4. Type of meter 5. Revolt 6. Killed with rocks 7. Gregory __, US dancer 8. Nullifies 9. Home to the Flyers 12. Female parent 13. Pre-1917 Russian emperor 17. Outsourcing (abbr.) 19. Regal 20. Line 21. Hermann __, author of “Siddhartha 25. Clearing up 29. No seats available 31. Leaves of an Arabian shrub 32. Groove in organ or tissue 33. Not of this world 35. Cooking device 38. Forget 41. Operational flight 43. Actress Danes 44. Poke holes in 45. A way to discolor 46. Shouts of welcome or farewell 47. Pharrell’s group 49. Red fluorescent dye 56. Jr.’s dad 57. Electronics firm PHOTOS COURTESY OF PETER WOOD
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES – PAGE 29 Race Amity of Northern Westchester & Putnam MONTHLY MEETING Please join us for our monthly discussion as we work to advance cross-racial and crosscultural amity to impact the public discourse on race. Our monthly meetings feature speakers, screenings, and presentations where discussions are aimed at educating one another on who we really are. Visit www.eventbrite.com/e/138495877899 to register for this online event. Virtual Support Groups Support groups for women with breast and ovarian cancers have been transitioned to virtual platforms. Virtual groups are accessible to women from the comfort of their homes, regardless of where they live. All groups are open to new members as well as past participants. Advance registration is required by calling 914-962-6402 or 800-532- 4290. Support Connection’s Peer Counselors are also available for individual counseling and assistance via phone and email. Call 800-532-4290, or submit an online request at supportconnection.org. Mount Kisco Recreation Department SANTA CLAUS SPECIAL MAILBOXES Children, 8 & Under, are encouraged to write a letter to Santa Claus to express their holiday thoughts and wishes, and mail it to Santa in one of the special mailboxes that he has placed in our town at the Mount Kisco Recreation Department & the Mount Kisco Library to make sure your letter is received. Santa and his helpers put special care into answering each letter. PLEASE NOTE: Please make sure that every letter submitted includes your child’s: 1) Full Name (First & Last Name) 2) Full Mailing Address (Number, Street, Apt, City, State, & Zip Code) Drop Off Dates: Monday, Nov. 27 - Friday, Dec. 15 Drop Off Locations: Mount Kisco Recreation Department - 1 Wallace Drive Mount Kisco Library - 100 Main Street Times: Mount Kisco Recreation Department: 8:30 a.m. - 4 p.m. Mount Kisco Library: see library for hours of operations FESTIVAL OF LIGHTS CEREMONY Thursday, Dec. 7, at 6:30 p.m. Join in for a community-wide ceremony and celebration of the Festival of Lights or Festival of Dedication. Look on and celebrate in the Lighting of the Chanukkiah at Mount Kisco Village Hall, with treats and comradery. First Church of Christ, Scientist 13 Bedford Road in Katonah THANKSGIVING DAY SERVICE Thursday, Nov. 23, from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. All are welcome! Child care will be provided, no collection taken. For more information, call 914-232-3842. The Golden Apple Chorus HARMONY FOR THE HOLIDAYS Saturday, Dec. 9, at 3 p.m. The Golden Apple Chorus, under the direction of Sharon Vitkovsky, presents “Harmony for the Holidays” at St. Luke’s Church at 331 Route 100 in Somers. Featuring special guest quartet Impact. Donation/$20, Seniors/Students/$15 and children under 10 are free. For tickets or more information, email [email protected]. Bedford Recreation Department ICE SKATING AT THE HARVEY SCHOOL Friday, Nov. 24, from 12:45 to 2:45 p.m. In cooperation with the Harvey School the department is offering public recreational skating for all ages. $5 per person, please pay at the door. You must supply your own skates. No hockey playing permitted. GINGERBREAD HOUSE DECORATING Friday, Dec. 8, from 6 to 8 p.m. It’s holiday time and it is time to decorate! Gingerbread house decorating will be filled with creativity and fun. Get your friends together and come for a fun time, with seasonal crafts, playing games, and having loads of fun. Dinner will be served. To be held at the Bedford Hills Community House. $25 – Residents/Schooldistrict Residents, $30 – NonResidents. BREAKFAST FUN WITH FROSTY & FRIENDS Saturday, Dec. 9, at 9 a.m. Thumpity, thump, thump, thumpity, thump thump, come meet Frosty the Snowman! Frosty is stopping by the Bedford Hills Community House for a visit. Don’t miss this opportunity for photos. Join in for breakfast and enjoy a special show with our winter friends. Donuts, Eggo pancakes, cold cereal, yogurt, and juice/milk will be served. Coffee will be available for the adults. Entertainment provide by Magical Memories Entertainment. Preregistration is strongly requested for all attendees as space is limited and registrations are accepted on a first-come, first-serve basis. $8 in advance – Residents/ School-district Residents, $10 in advance – Non-Residents, $20 at the door, if space available. TRACKS FROM PAGE 24 Make the smart and ONLY CHOICE when tackling your roof! 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The local provider of internet, mobile, television, and phone services said the state-of-the-art store offers a “modern and interactive” experience where customers can explore Optimum’s complete line of connectivity offerings, including internet, Smart WiFi 6, mobile, TV and home phone services. They can also register for service, shop the latest mobile devices and accessories, pay bills, and receive assistance from a retail associate. “Providing exceptional service and support to our local Westchester County customers continues to be a key priority for Optimum,” according to the company’s senior vice president of consumer sales, Morgan Collins. “We are excited to open a new store in Mount Kisco and we encourage new and existing customers to visit our brand-new location to explore our internet, mobile, and TV offerings.” GOOD TO KNOW Address: 41 S. Moger Ave., Space G-1, Mount Kisco, N.Y., 10549 Phone Number: (888) 467-8468 Hours: Monday - Saturday 10 a.m. - 7 p.m. / Sunday 12 p.m. - 5 p.m. Optimum opens new Mount Kisco location BY CAROL REIF STAFF WRITER The pond at Lasdon Park and Arboretum in Katonah was Patricia “Pat” Gorski’s “happy place.” Now the county has named it in honor of the late public servant. A plaque was unveiled late this summer by County Executive George Latimer and members of the Friends of Lasdon Park. Gorski began her lengthy and devoted career with the county Board of Legislators when she was hired in 1977 as a secretary to its clerk. In 1992, she was unanimously elected clerk and chief of staff of the BOL, a position she held for six terms until she retired in 2002. In 1971, Gorski was a summer intern in the Department of Public Works. She moved on to the office of County Executive Edward Michaelian and then became the secretary to the commissioner of social services and to the commissioner of finance. Gorski and her husband, Walter, were married for almost 50 years. After retiring, the couple strolled the paths at Lasdon Park several times each week. Their walks started on the woodland trails, extended across the fields, and always ended with them relaxing on the bench at the pond. It was Pat’s “happy place” where she found peace and serenity, according to Walter. Calling Gorski “a true friend,” Latimer praised her as “dedicated, fair, kind, and hardworking.” “It is our pleasure to honor and memorialize Pat for all time at Lasdon Park,” he said Friday. “Pat adored every job she had during her long career in public service for the county,” said County Parks Commissioner Kathleen O’Connor. “Her love of Lasdon Park and her ‘happy place’ there made naming the pond after Pat an easy and appropriate choice.” “The halls of the Board of Legislators are full of memories of Patricia’s selfless spirit and her dedication to serving the people of Westchester County,” said Board of Legislators Chair Vedat Gashi.” “She believed that every task, great or small, is an act of service, and that every person, regardless of title, is worthy of equal respect. She loved Lasdon Park, and now her legacy will forever be memorialized there through this dedication,” he added. GOOD TO KNOW Lasdon Park, Arboretum and Veterans Memorial is a Westchester County Park. It is located on Route 35 in Somers. The GPS address is 2610 Amawalk Road, Katonah, NY 10536. Lasdon Park pond renamed in honor of Patricia Gorski County executive George Latimer unveils plaque naming a pond at Lasdon Park in Katonah after Patricia Gorski. PHOTO COURTESY OF WESTCHESTER COUNTY
NOVEMBER 16 - DECEMBER 7, 2023 BUSINESS & REAL ESTATE THE MT. KISCO-BEDFORD TIMES– PAGE 31 As you know, the gig economy has been booming over the past several years. If you’re thinking of using your skills to take on a side gig, what should you do with the money you’ll make? There’s no one right answer for everyone, and the decisions you make should be based on your individual situation. And of course, you may simply need the extra income to support your lifestyle and pay the bills. But if you already have your cash flow in good shape, and you have some freedom with your gig money, consider these suggestions: • Contribute more to your IRA. If you couldn’t afford to contribute the maximum amount to your IRA, you may find it easier to do so when you have additional money coming in from a side gig. For the 2023 tax year, you can put in up to $6,500 to a traditional or Roth IRA, or $7,500 if you’re 50 or older. (Starting in 2024, this extra $1,000 “catch-up” contribution amount may be indexed for inflation.) The amount you can contribute to a Roth IRA is reduced, and eventually eliminated, at certain income levels. • Look for new investment opportunities. If you’re already maxing out your IRA, you might be able to find other investment possibilities for your side gig money. For example, if you have young children, perhaps you could use some of the money to invest in a 529 education savings plan. A 529 plan offers potential tax advantages and can be used for college, qualified trade school programs, and possibly some K-12 expenses. Please keep in mind that potential tax advantages will vary from state to state. • Build an emergency fund. Life is full of unexpected events — and some can be quite expensive. What if you needed a major car repair or required a medical procedure that wasn’t totally covered by your health insurance? Would you have the cash available to pay these bills? If not, would you be forced to dip into your IRA or 401(k)? This might not be a good move, as it could incur taxes and penalties, and deprive you of resources you might eventually need for retirement. That’s why you might want to use your gig earnings to help fund an emergency fund containing several months’ worth of living expenses, with the money kept in a liquid, low-risk account. To avoid being tempted to dip into your emergency fund, you may want to keep it separate from your daily spending accounts. • Pay down debts. Most of us will always carry some debts, but we can usually find ways to include the bigger ones — mortgage, car payments and so on — into our monthly budgets. It’s often the smaller debt payments, frequently associated with high-interest-rate credit cards, that cause us the most trouble, in terms of affecting our cash flow. If you can use some of your side gig money to pay down these types of debts, you could possibly ease some of the financial stress you might be feeling. And instead of directing money to pay for things you purchased in the past, you could use the funds to invest for your future. As we’ve seen, your side gig money could open several promising windows of opportunity — so take a look through all of them. This article was written by Edward Jones for use by your local Financial Advisor, Judi McAnaw, a resident of Katonah. She has an office at 200 Business Park Drive, Suite 107, in Armonk. Judi can be reached at 914-669-5329. What should you do with ‘side gig’ money? ‘It’s often the smaller debt payments, frequently associated with highinterest-rate credit cards, that cause us the most trouble, in terms of affecting our cash flow.’ -Judi McAnaw Edward Jones Financial Advisor Linda Murphy was running herself ragged. The busy mom, wife, breast cancer survivor and CEO of sales powerhouse, Product Launchers, had returned home to Westchester (after living in Florida) and was driving over 30 minutes each way to her favorite yoga, pilates, and barre classes several times per week. She was staying fit, but lacking a critical purpose of self-care: to build awareness and harmony in the mind and body. Instead, she was exhausting herself with her routine. The epiphany for Plank Katonah came during savasana, the yoga pose in which participants are supposed to get as comfortable as possible, rest and let go of all distractions. Clearly, it wasn’t working for Murphy, as all she could think about was her massive to-do list. She realized Northern Westchester needed a studio--and she was just the person to bring it to life. “The inspiration came from my grandmother, Mavis Ruby, a professional dancer in England, where she met my grandfather during WWI. An only child, she left her parents, came to America with him, and continued her dance career teaching at the Arthur Murray Dance studio,” Murphy said. Ironically, a barre instructor at the studio is from England and most recently taught in New York City. Plank Katonah offers barre, pilates and yoga fusion classes to both energize and relax guests. Fitness challenges, designed to motivate members, offer prizes such as workout gear and other gifts. A retail shop will feature Lululemon apparel and other merchandise, like handcrafted, must-have ballerina shrugs, post workout replenishment smoothies, high-quality skin care essentials and more. Future plans include hosting events such as kids’ birthday parties, sound healing workshops, craft wine tasting, business idea sessions and so much more. “We want guests to leave feeling like they’ve had an amazing workout, help them age gracefully and inspire them to come back for more,” Murphy said. “We look forward to making new friends, forge new business relationships, and being an active and positive presence in the Katonah community.” Learn more about Plank Katonah at plankkatonah.com. Plank Katonah is located at 200 Katonah Ave., in Katonah. For more information, call 914-600-3711. For the new owner of Plank Katonah, it’s personal. Linda Murphy is the owner of Plank Katonah PHOTO COURTESY OF LINDA MURPHY JUDI MCANAW GUEST CORNER
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