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Turf project officially underway                                                                            Snow problem?
BY WHIT ANDERSON                   Education Department ap-            many of the trees on the prem-      District considers remote learning solution
STAFF WRITER                       proved the project, bidding         ises, starting on Feb.  14. is
                                   proceeded in December, and          step must be completed before       BY CAROL REIF                       the Pequenakonck Elementary
  Nearly two years after the ini-  the nal hirings were made last      March 31 to avoid interference      STAFF WRITER                        School has used up its allotment
tial planning, construction for a  month.                              with the nesting of bats at that                                        of snow days and the district’s
new turf eld on the North Sa-                                          time.                                 It’s only February.               other schools aren’t far behind?
lem high school/middle school        “In our meeting this past Jan-                                          And if the famed furry fore-
campus will o cially begin this    uary, we were able to give the ap-    After the tree removal, opera-    caster, Punxsutawney Phil, is         When forced to make up for
month.                             proval of hiring the contractors,”  tions will shut down for a brief    right, there will be at six more    lost classroom time, the school
                                   said Board of Education trustee     period to let the ground defrost.   weeks of winter. Last Friday’s ice  district’s usual practice has been
     e proposition for the $6.9    Andrew Brown. “Having been                                              storm shut down North Salem         to start swiping the days out of
million project was approved last  involved with the project since       “We expect the eld to fully       schools and attested to the like-   spring break or other vacation
May, enabling the district to se-  2004, this was a huge step.”        defrost by the beginning of         lihood of more weather woes to      time.
cure a bond in that amount to be                                       April,” said Paul Tozzi, the        come.
paid back over the next 17 years        e school district selected     construction manager for Ar-          So what happens now that               e pandemic has added a new
by the town’s taxpayers.           Arris Contracting Co. to over-      ris. “ en we will remove the
                                   see the operations of the project.                                                                                          SEE SNOW PAGE 4
  Later in November, the State     Its rst step will be to remove                       SEE TURF PAGE 6
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morning time and location. nection’s Peer Counselors are also a  miniature  porcupine, though been scienti cally proven as a and all the weasels and worms
Looking forward to seeing you available for individual counsel- the animals are also not related.) weather predictor.                                   -- deserted Helice, Greece in
soon.                                 ing and assistance via phone and    While the groundhog-- aka Frogs, on the other hand, 373 B.C. days before a massive
       RideConnect                    email. Call 800-532-4290, or        woodchuck, whistle-pig, or might be worth paying attention earthquake struck.
                                      submit an online request at sup-    land-beaver -- is the most fa- to. e amphibians don’t drink Scientists do say that the ani-
                                      portconnection.org                  mous, there are other critters water, they absorb it through mals are better at sensing the
  Rideconnect has volunteers          Race Amity                          thought to be able to predict the their skin.                                 initial shock wave –  but  when
ready to help drive seniors to their
                                                                          weather.  Squirrels  for instance. Croaking to attract mates it’s happening,  and not neces-
medical appointments and assist         of Northern                       If their leafy nests are way, way is par for the course, but if the sarily far in advance.
with shopping. Services are free      Westchester &
to seniors residing in Westchester                                        up in trees,  it’s a sign that  the chorus gets really intense it And                   speaking              of
                                                                          winter will be – some folks be- could mean rain is on the way. scary,  wolves  are said to howl
and southern Putnam Counties.         Putnam                              lieve  – exceptionally  nasty. If After froggies get frisky, they lay more before a storm because the
To request assistance call (914)                                          built lower down, it might their eggs in fresh water. Hence, change in air pressure hurts their
242-7433. Anyone wishing to                                               be mild.                 a good downpour can create the hypersensitive ears.
volunteer for Rideconnect may MONTHLY MEETING                             Cows  are said to lie down in right conditions for romance Sharks can also detect di er-
do so by emailing [email protected] Please join us for our monthly pastures when bad weather is and reproduction.                                          ences in water and air pressure.
Virtual Support                       discussion as we work to advance    approaching – maybe to keep at Birds  may have a built-in Maybe that’s why studies have
                                      cross-racial and cross-cultural     least one patch of grass dry be- bad weather radar, studies have shown them heading to deeper
       Groups                         amity to impact the public dis-     fore the rain descends.  found. Folks have already no- waters prior to hurricanes and
                                      course on race. Our monthly
                                                                          Most likely, they’re just ticed that they y lower when tropical storms. Again, that the-
Support groups have been meetings feature speakers,screen- lounging  while chewing their a storm’s a-brewing. Scientists ory hasn’t been proven.
transitioned to virtual platforms. ings, and presentations where cud. When it’s hot, they stand to now say that birds can hear low-
Virtual groups are accessible to discussions are aimed at educat- dissipate heat over a bigger body frequency noises days in advance CREEPY CRAWLIES
women from the comfort of their ing one another on who we really surface. But they also seek the of a system’s arrival. is also Ladybugs, one of the cutest in-
homes, regardless of where they are. Visit https://www.eventbrite. shade when it’s sunny.          helps them when migrating be- sects ever, swarm when it’s warm.
live. All groups are open to new com/e/138495877899 to register           Farmers swear that their woo- cause they can suss out danger- If you notice them seeking shel-
members as well as past partici- for this online event.                   ly barnyard buddies, sheep, also ous situations way before they ter, follow their lead.
                                                                                                                                                        Red and black ants kick it up
                                                                                                                                                        a notch – nest-building wise –
                                                                                                                                                        when bad weather’s on the way.
                                                                                                                                                        Bees and butter ies  also head
                                                                                                                                                        for the hills in advance of a storm.
                                                                                                                                                        Woolly bear caterpillars, the
                                                                          2021 was a                                                                    larval form of the Isabella tiger
                                                                          CRAZY YEAR!                                                                   moth, are the stu of weather
                                                                                                                                                        lore and legend too.
                                                                                                                                                          And they have an interesting
                                                                                                                                                        connection to the Hudson Valley.
                                                                                                                                                          Folk wisdom holds that its
                                                                                                                                                        distinctive bands of reddish-
                                                                                                                                                        brown and black can tell us just
                                                                                                                                                        how harsh the coming winter
                                                                                                                                                        will be.
                                                                                                                                                        When its rusty-colored band
                                                                                                                                                        is narrow, that means it’s time
                                                                                                                                                        to stock up on rewood and
                                                                                                                                                        long johns.  us, the wider the
                                                                                                                                                        brownish band, the milder it will
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                                                                                                                                                        Curran – in an attempt to prove
                                                                                                                                                        the old weather rule of thumb –
                                                                                                                                                        traveled with his wife to Orange
                                                                                                                                                        County’s  Bear  Mountain State
                                                                                                                                                        Park in the fall of 1948 where
                                                                                                                                                        they snapped up as many of the
                                                                                                                                                        creepy-crawlies as they could.
                                                                                                                                                        Dr. Curran, then curator of
                                                                                                                                                        insects at the American Muse-
                                                                                                                                                        um of Natural History in New
                                                                                                                                                        York City, carefully noted the
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e League of Women Vot- and an opportunity to shadow To be considered, a student North East Westchester’s website: of Women Voters of North
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Students Inside Albany program, responsibility in representative Salem or Pound Ridge); 2) be at back to LWVNEW no later than
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Happily
  Ever
 After
                                 A dog person’s tribute to a cat
People talk about being cat      and he had the typical vindictive       cats. After putting him on an IV
       people or dog people.     cat behavior. We quickly learned        overnight at the emergency vet
          I won’t pussy-foot     that we couldn’t leave glassware        and ushing out his system, Aish
                                                                         was on to Life No. 3.
around. It’s much easier to con- out, particularly wine glasses, be-
                                                                           Aish then moved to Montclair,
nect with dogs.                              cause he would              NJ, to live with us at my parents’
                                                                         house after Lauren and I got
Dogs emote                                   deliberately                married. Six months later, we
                                                                         rented our own place one town
and shower                       PUBLISHER’S knock them                  over, and our fur baby traveled
their owners                     MEMO        over. Soon                  with us to his new home.
with love.
                                             after we ad-                  After New Jersey, Aish moved
                                                                         with us to an apartment in Tar-
  Cats are no                    BRETT       opted him, we               rytown, where we found Aish a
di erent than                    FREEMAN     brought him to              brother. A feral stray black and
lions and tigers,                            the emergency               white kitten needed a home, so
                                                                         Aish showed him the ropes. is
except they are                              vet because he              new cat’s personality is the op-
                                                                         posite of Aish. Whereas Aish was
smaller. at’s                                cut himself on              friendly, greeted all people and
                                                                         was fearless, our new kitten was
the only reason cat people are still a fallen wine glass.                a fraidy-cat, so we named him
                                                                         Mayim, which means “water” in
alive. Just Google “Siegfried and On to Life No. 2.                      Hebrew.
Roy” if you want to understand   When we got home from                        e two cats then moved with
                                                                         us to Carmel, where they had
this fully. Cats are nice until they work each night, we’d user a laser  a whole townhouse in which                                                                     PHOTO: BRETT FREEMAN
                                                                         to run around. But when our
aren’t.                          pointer to get him to run up            daughter was born in 2009, Aish     Aish                                 about 4 years old, and we feared
                                                                         was displeased, and let us know it                                       for our cats’ lives after he lunged
But despite my obvious a n- and down our apartment build-                by urinating on items associated    traversed the woods around my        at them. At one point when the
                                                                         with the baby.                      house, and I pretty much went        dog attacked the cat, they liter-
ity towards dogs, this column is ing hallway until a neighbor                                                crazy if you ask Lauren. And         ally ran in circles with all sorts
                                                                           As cat owners know, once a        then, out of the blue, he came       of scary noises reminiscent of a
about a cat. I was 23 years old and complained to the management         cat urinates on the wrong spot,     back. When he walked up to           scene in a Tom and Jerry cartoon.
                                                                         it’s impossible to get them to      our back patio, Lauren ran and
my then-girlfriend (now wife), company.                                  stop unless 100% of the odor is     hugged him and began to cry.           Before our readers judge me, in
                                                                         removed. at’s when we decided       She later revealed that she was      hindsight, I probably should have
Lauren, was 22, and we had just  While we were sleeping, he              to tear up the carpeting and put    happier that she had her husband     returned the dog immediately on
                                                                         down a cherry-wood laminate.        back (I literally went insane those  that rst day. But instead, we put
moved in together at an apart- attacked our feet if they were                                                48 hours looking for him) than       the cats in the basement (a n-
                                                                           At one point when our daugh-      she was about the cat coming         ished basement with comfortable
ment in Washington, DC.          sticking out of the blanket. If we      ter was a baby, Aish, who was an    back.                                furniture). We hung out with the
                                                                         indoor cat, took a mini-vacation                                         cats daily while watching TV, and
Once a week, Lauren and          left kitchen cupboards open, Aish       when he somehow got outside.          He looked a little bit thinner     they had plenty of sunlight from
                                                                         For 48 hours, I handed out lost-    and was very hungry. Onto Life       a sliding glass door. We thought
I volunteered our time at the    thought it was a great place to         cat yers to my neighbors and        No. 4.                               this arrangement was going to be
                                                                                                                                                  temporary – it wasn’t – but we fell
Washington Animal Rescue         sleep. At one point when Lauren                                               Fast forward several of his nine   further in love with our dog. Dog
                                                                                                             lives, and we’re at Christmas in     people will understand!
League. At the shelter, we would hurt her back, Aish lay by her side                                         2017, when we adopted a large
                                                                                                             dog from a local rescue organi-        We lived as if the basement
take the dogs outside and give for hours.                                                                    zation in Patterson. e rescue        door was the Berlin Wall for
                                                                                                             organization assured us that the
them exercise. As much as we     Aish traveled with us to Chi-                                               dog was about 1 year old and was               SEE FREEMAN PAGE 13
                                                                                                             good with other animals.
wanted to adopt a dog, our apart- cago for graduate school, where
                                                                                                               Turns out that he was probably
ment building only allowed cats. I bought a harness for him and
So, we found one adorable,       took him on small walks in our
friendly and feisty orange tabby, apartment courtyard. When I
which we were told was born in bought Lauren her favorite ower
West Virginia. While the rest of – lilies – for Valentine’s Day, and
the kittens were sleepy, the cat then came home to see that Aish
that we liked was full of energy. had eaten part of the ower, I de-
So, we took him home and we cided to Google which plants are
named him Aish (pronounced poisonous to cats (it was probably
aysh), which means “ re” in      Yahoo at the time).
Hebrew.                          Turns out that lilies are the
Aish was hilarious from Day 1, MOST poisonous plants to
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                  JUST              should be taken seriously.            Fun Facts by Jo Ann
                  JO ANN            Celebrities should remember
                                    the people who elevated their   The majority of people who receive feedback say that being recognized either positively or
                       JO ANN       status along the way.            negatively motivates them. Older people appreciate feedback more than younger ones.
                       FRANCELLA
                                       Believe it or not, my                     Halsto Medi present
At the beginning of each            column on e Language
         new year, I like to look   of Flowers prompted many                     Monthl Editoria Calenda
         back on the previous       readers to send pictures of
year’s columns and the feed-        the beautiful owers in their                                      Supplement to January 20, 2022                                                                      WinCeter r
back I have received.              gardens. I thank you for the
                                   bouquets of color and love.          NUEXPT! MARCH 10              Winter
  I thank the readers who            It was a di cult decision to        CAMPS, Boomers & Beyond,     gweetaewkeanydHaLoehpiCedhwdaeemlnlbJguoenrmdctiaiontnCur. ry.
were genuinely concerned           get another pup after losing                                                                                                                               Estate   -
about possible bat bites from      our beloved Chocolate Lab-                    Holidays, Spring                                                                                              . p. 3
when a rogue bat made its          rador, Coco in 2019. Ken and                                       iRne2a0l 2e2statefEoxrtsraaolerdin. ar.y
way into our bedroom in the        I missed the companionship,      COSOMOINNG! MOATPHRERIL'S1D4AY,   home                                                                              .     . p. 7
middle of the night. Our top       the unconditional love and the        Home & Garden, Real Estate   ...
window had fallen down a bit,      sweet kisses from a pet. Daisy,                                    s hRoemceenstly soldBasebosoltdvefaaltmisatsilkpyir-nicfgeriper.nicde. lya.nd. p.15
allowing the bat to slide right    an adorable Boston Terrier,                                        ki areasnearby. . . . . . . p. 8-9                                                                                                   THEGBAIGME
in. Shortly after that we had      came into our lives in July                                        Valentine’s Daygift ideas . . . . . .
animal control come, and they      2020 and made herself right                                                                                                                          p.13
found about 500 bats living        at home. Have we forgotten                                         APiTLnHeCOHUTCRoOhRpCaYeOmEwUSRebTTAloElTrSJEdYunOaFct tLCiEouCnrHryAMEBsOtaRtDe
behind the shutters on the sec-    about Coco and the other dogs
ond oor of my home. A long,        that came before her? No, we                                                                                                                                           Supplement to February 10, 2022
cold stream of water from our      never will, and we have learned
hose was all it took to rid the    that we have enough love for                  MAY 12                                                                                                                   TThIhILnLneAetAteMeRRrravavAmimieeTwsws--CweweqHiqitutuhhUiipBpmPmReenEntt.N.dd.i.irDre.e.cAc.t.toNo.r.r...B. ....U....Rpp...p.Gp33..6E6R
outside of our home of bats.       all our pets.  ank you for the         HOME & GARDEN,                                                                                                                   BBiiggGGaammeePREDICTIONS .. .. .. pp..1122
                                   opportunity to write about my        Memorial Day Outings                                                                                                                S-uFapveorrBitoewFloCotIbNalEl FMilmAs . . . . . . p. 14
  One of my Fun Facts this         wonderful pups.                                                                                                                                                           VALENTINE’S Gift Ideas . . . p. 21
past year was about the ingre-       Many readers agreed that                    JUNE 9
dients in V-8 juice – carrots,     Ken should absolutely enjoy      SUMMER DINING & EVENTS,
celery, beets, parsley, lettuce,   his sausage and peppers sand-
watercress and spinach. I          wich when we visit the Feast       Real Estate, Father's Day
learned through feedback that      of San Gennaro each year in
there is also a low sodium         Little Italy, New York. I agree                  JULY 14                                                                                             Hudso Valle Livin
variety.                           too, but my food of choice for         BOOMERS & BEYOND,                                                                                                  i fille wit ...
                                   that special day is zeppoli!
  My column about seeing             A friend of mine enjoyed                 Home & Garden                                                                                             • things to do with the family
Frank Sinatra in the lobby of      my column about applying my
the Copacabana when I was          makeup after going face-naked                AUGUST 11                                                                                                      • great food ideas
19 and watching him have           for a year and a half.  ank              BACK TO SCHOOL
such a visceral reaction to        you for your email Jacquie. I’m                                                                                                                           • home improvement
me being too close, really hit     glad I could make you laugh.              SEPTEMBER 15
home with some readers. I            I wrote what I intended                         FALL,                                                                                                    • interesting people
was picked up from under my        to be a funny column about                                                                                                                                  in your community
arms by one of his bodyguards      trying to nd a Christmas         Health/Nutrition/Fitness, Dining
and carried across the lobby.      tree this past year, but I was
I can tell you that I never felt   swiftly but nicely reminded                OCTOBER 13                                                                                                                  • great getaways
the same about him after that.     that I should have looked for    REAL ESTATE, Home & Garden                                                                                                                • gift ideas
                                   and supported my town’s local
   ank you to the reader who       businesses and re depart-        NOVEMBER 10                                                                                                                           and MUCH MORE!
shared that she could feel how     ment. I assure you, I will do
morti ed I must have felt. An-     just that during this year’s     HOLIDAYS/VENUES
other reader shared her Frank      holidays.
Sinatra story as well. After
spending good money on tick-             ank you for your honest,
ets to see him, Frank Sinatra      insightful and informative
sang only one song, ranted         feedback emails. I look for-
about an article written about     ward to hearing from you once
him and walked o the stage.        again this year.
Fame is a responsibility that
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                                     Our best friends
                SEASONAL             into his clinic or are on the house                                    judge what pet she chooses to care  years after that.                    I approached they scattered. She
                TIDBITS              or farm call roster. Many of his                                       for, even though it did seem a bit    As an adult with my own fam-       laughed and told me to hide. So
                                     patients leave with a prescription,                                    odd and expensive. I put the pot                                         I crouched behind her sofa and
                    LAURA            a cast or a cone of shame.  en                                         pie recipe back in the box.         ily, my husband and I decided        watched the sh come out one
                    CAMPAGNA         there are those, that for whatever                                                                         it was time for our girls to have    by one.  ey swam to the side
                                     reason do not respond to treat-                                             e chicken and her owner got    a pet of their own. We adopted       of the tank to greet her and I
It is that time of year when         ment and pass away, leaving the                                        me thinking how much animals,       a 3-year-old mini Dachshund          swear they were using their side
    love is in the air. Actually,    owners and the viewers heartbro-                                       no matter the kind, mean to us. As  and named him Nathan after
    love has been in the air before  ken.                                                                   a child I had an English Springer   the famous NY hot dog. He was         ns to wave hello. She continued
the Christmas items in the stores                                                                           Spaniel. My family wasn’t looking   a cute little man who loved to       her baby babble and gave them
went on sale for 50% o . ings          On a recent episode a lady                                           for a pet, especially a dog as my   snuggle under warm covers and        some dried shrimp (aren’t little
all red and pink have been on the    brought in her pet chicken. A pet                                      dad has severe asthma, but this     run free on any beach. He was a      shrimp sea monkeys, the pets of
shelves, and it gives me a warm      chicken. e chicken was losing                                          dog found us. She came running      great friend, and we all loved him   the 1970’s?) and sang them a little
fuzzy feeling inside. It is more of  weight, some feathers and overall                                      on our front lawn one summer        dearly. He was 15 when he died       lullaby, turned o the tank light
a warm memory, than an in the        just didn’t look like it wanted to                                     and stayed for 15 years. We think   in his sleep beside me.              and came over to me and took
moment feeling.                      strut around the hen house much                                        she was about a year old and was                                         my hand and whispered “I love
                                     longer. I wasn’t sure if I should cry                                  being trained to be a hunting         I have a good friend who hates     my babies.” A few weeks after
  On a recent snowy day, I was       or nd my favorite chicken pot pie                                      dog but was afraid of the loud      all things furry. She doesn’t like   that, we had a major storm that
binge-watching a show about          recipe.  e vet took the chicken                                        sounds of the guns being used       dogs, cats or hamsters. She is all   left power out in neighborhoods
an old mid-western vet. is guy       and wrapped it in a towel and                                          and was just left in the woods.     about the scales and ns. She         for weeks. Panicked, my friend
can do it all, and at his age, I am  gave it a once over. He thought for                                    We thought this because every       has a huge sh tank in her living     made her husband go to Home
sure he has seen it all. Animals of  a moment and decided to draw                                           July 4th she was so traumatized     room that is the equivalent of Sea   Depot to get a generator, not for
all shapes and sizes either come     blood and run some tests. It was                                       that she would nd the low-          World. Her sh will swim with-        her family, but for her sh tank.
                                     at this moment that I thought                                          est point in our house and just     out a care in the world, but when
                                     WOW this lady really LOVES                                             shake.  is was before pet anxiety   someone, other than my friend          We all fall in love with our
                                     her chicken and who am I to                                            medications were a thing, and we    approaches the tank they scatter     own unique pets, and they fall
                                                                                                            would ride out the reworks with     behind the nearest coral or rock. I  in love with us and as I think
                NOTICE TO                                                                                   her. She had a great life with us   know this to be true because I       about that, I am reminded of the
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Thursday, February 10, 2022                                                    OPINION                                                                    North Salem News – Page 13
Rick Melén’s Super Sunday Primer 
                    MAN                 new to the Big Game, I’ve put          and I never once heard a medical      value of “taking what the defense    is a line that coaches tell a player
                    OVERBOARD           together a compendium of some          professional use the phrase in a      gives him,” he may shout out         to inspire him to play his hardest,
                                        of the phrases and jargon you’re       diagnostic context.                   a di erent play just before the      expend every ounce of his energy
                    RICK                likely to hear during the broad-                                             snap. Since there are 70,000 fans    and have no regrets at the end of
                    MELÉN               cast, and exactly what they mean:        “We’re not going to speculate       screaming various other things       the game, other than that he did
                                                                               on the extent of his injury...” is    at the players, some of which are    not sign a guaranteed contract.
Idon’t know if I’m ready for               “We’re going to take what the       sentence is followed by a period      not technically true, the result-
    a full-blown Super Bowl             defense gives us...” is is some-       of intense speculation on the         ing modi cation is heard by only        is is why coaches get paid
    party just yet, but we’re           thing coaches tell their players       extent of a player’s injuries, along  the two or three players nearest     so much, because I would have
having a little get-together of         before the game, when there is         with gruesome video in slow mo-       to the quarterback, and totally      wasted that line on a player who
some friends that are vaccinated        still some hope that the defense is    tion that on any other broadcast      inaudible to the rest.               couldn’t nd his keys and wallet.
against Coronavirus, Smallpox,          going to give them anything. Af-       would garner an “R” rating.
and in fact any-sized pox. It’s         ter the game has been lost 45-0,                                               “You don’t want to miss half-        Well, I hope this helps you
time to start living again, time to     at the press conference the Head         “We’re told that he’s undergo-      time for ANY reason today...”        enjoy the game. I’m going to have
go back to being frightened of the      Coach can then explain that            ing concussion protocols right        Normally, this is a phrase that      to get used to being around people
things we used to be frightened         the defense gave them nothing,         now...” Concussion protocols are      underestimates the amount of         in person again, because right now
of before the pandemic: spiders,        and would not accept a personal        where they ask you a series of        chocolate in my refrigerator.        I’m used saying mostly inap-
trigonometry and redheads. I’ve         check even with two forms of           questions, such as your name, the     Certainly the Halftime Show          propriate things while wearing
even invented a new cocktail for        identi cation.                         date, who is the current rightful     at the Super Bowl is ramped          my bathrobe. If you want to use a
the occasion, it’s called a “vaccini,”                                         President of the United States,       up, with an artist of interna-       face-mask during Super Bowl, go
and you make it with a dash of            “He seems to be a bit shaken         and they determine whether you        tional renown pretending to sing a   right ahead. Just be aware that if
dry vermouth, a couple ounces of        up out there...” If a player is lying  are su ering the after-e ects of a    medley of his or her greatest hits,  you use one on the football eld it
gin and a splash of Ivermectin.         face down on the eld in a pool         serious blow to the head, or have     consisting of two or three words     will result in a 15-yard penalty.
For those of you who might be           of blood with all his limbs facing     always been this dumb.                each. ere is a lot of dancing,
                                        to di erent compass points, the                                              some reworks, and an aerobat         Look for Rickster Melen on
                                        announcers may describe him              “He’s calling an ‘audible’ right    parachuting into the stadium,        Facebook! Say hello at: rlife8@
                                        as “shaken up.”To me, “shaken          now...” If the quarterback sees a     sometimes on purpose.                hotmail.com
                                        up” is how you might describe a        con guration that might result                                             See “Gidget gets Hypnotized”
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FREEMAN                                 his fur got all matted. I felt like    litter box with softer litter, and    He had trouble walking and one       know, it was an excruciating
                                        one of those delinquent pet            placed it near where he slept.        of his paws was bent weirdly, so     decision.
FROM PAGE 10                            owners because if you didn’t                                                 we think he had a stroke. e vet
                                        know his health condition and            We also bought something to         gave him an antibiotic in the o        Aish wasn’t just a cat. He was
several years. e dog was free in        the fact that we were attempting       raise the height of his food dish     chance that all of this was due to   a loving member of our fam-
the West, and the poor cats lived       to brush out his fur, it was a bit     so that he could eat more com-        an infection.                        ily. He was there for the very
behind the Iron Curtain in the          embarrassing. His latest shave         fortably, and we picked up some                                            beginning of my relationship
east. It was a stressful situation.     was a few months ago.                  pain medication from the vet.           On Jan. 30, Aish had zero in-      with Lauren. He was there for
Now with two little kids in the                                                                                      terest in food, and we knew that     our wedding and the birth of our
mix who behaved like President            In the summer of 2020, we              Unfortunately, he deteriorated      was goodbye. We had been told        two children. He was a ection-
Reagan at the Brandenburg               moved to Connecticut, where we         rapidly. When the vet weighed         that starvation is the most pain-    ate and gentle. He was by our
Gate, there were some scary             live just a stone’s throw from the     him, he had lost two pounds, and      ful way to die, so we euthanized     side for half our lives and the
close calls.                            towns covered by our newspa-           a couple months before that, he       him that day. As all pet owners      entirety of our adult lives.
                                        pers. My cats had been relegated       was six pounds. When you pet          who have chosen euthanasia
  As Aish got older, he devel-          to an even bigger basement –           him, you could feel his skeleton.                                            Rest in Peace, our sweet Aish.
oped a thyroid condition, so for        kind of like an apartment.
years we’ve had to shove a pill                                                                                      APARPR
down his throat twice daily. He           All of a sudden, a few weeks
lost a lot of weight due to his         ago, Aish was unable to jump
condition, and his grooming             onto the counter for his meal.
habits were less than stellar. A        He also started peeing on the
couple of times, we had to have         carpet instead of his litter box, so
him shaved at the vet because           we bought a new, easier to enter
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How important is grammar on greeting cards?
                            Dear Dr. Linda,                   your readers. It’s important for par-  tine’s Day cards from my grandchil-     sue. How important is it that the
                                                                                                     dren with one written mistake after     punctuation on the card and the
STRONG                      I’m the retired English teacher ents and grandparents to hear.           another. And I’m upset that my          grammar and spelling be perfect?
LEARNING                                                                                             children let them send these cards      It seems there’s a generational dif-
                            that emailed you last year about                  Mary                   to me with commas missing and           ference of opinion. Grandparents
DR. LINDA                                                                                            misspellings. When I mentioned          spent years in school being taught
SILBERT                     spelling and grammar mistakes                                            to my son and daughter that I was       how to write correctly according to
                                                                                                     going to explain the mistakes to my     the rules of that era.You can be sure
                            on Valentine’s Day cards from my Dear Mary,                              grandchildren, they were actually       that when the children exchanged
                                                                                                     angry at me and told me that I ab-      valentine cards in school, there was
                            grandchildren. Your answer was I’d be delighted to reprint it.           solutely could not do that. ey ac-      a comma after a salutation, like
                                                                                                     cused me of caring more about the       “Dear Susan,” and a comma after
                            much appreciated by my children, Dear Dr. Linda,                         rules of writing than about receiv-     closings like “Your friend!” Your
                                                                                                     ing cards from my grandchildren.        children’s generation likely also ex-
                            and I must say, by myself as well. As a retired English teacher, I’m                                             changed valentine cards in school,
                                                                                                       Believe me, I’m happy that they       but probably weren’t as concerned
                            Please share my email this year with concerned when I receive Valen-     are thinking of me and do appreci-      about where they placed their com-
                                                                                                     ate the cards, but I have to admit      mas. You, being a retired English
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                an amazing team of employees!                                                        write.Curious what your opinion is.     in school, and most likely don’t
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                                                                                                     ing the importance of punctuation,      what’s my opinion? As a grand-
                                                                                                     grammar, and spelling.                  mother, I too would see the missing
                                                                                                                                             commas and the spelling mistakes
                                                                                                       Let’s rst address your children’s     because I’m also from that gen-
                                                                                                     anger that you were more con-           eration. Would I mention it to my
                                                                                                     cerned about how your grandchil-        grandchildren? No.
                                                                                                     dren wrote the cards than the fact
                                                                                                     that they sent you the cards.If I hear    If they send me a paper they were
                                                                                                     you right, you value both.Your chil-    handing into school and asked me
                                                                                                     dren are teaching their children the    to look over it for punctuation and
                                                                                                     art of giving. Look around, you’ll      spelling errors, I would be delighted
                                                                                                     see a book a student gave you as a      to help them. But a card, letter, or
                                                                                                     holiday gift, a bracelet your sister    gift, sent out of love to show that
                                                                                                     gave you for your birthday, or a vase   they’re thinking of me, is just that.
                                                                                                     you received as a house gift from a
                                                                                                     friend.You’ll nd cards you received       Treasure the cards from your
                                                                                                     from hundreds of people and each        grandchildren and say,“ ank You!”
                                                                                                     one is telling you that they’re think-
                                                                                                     ing about you. Giving and receiv-         Happy Valentine’s Day,
                                                                                                     ing gifts and cards are part of our                                 Dr. Linda
                                                                                                     lives. ey add meaning and make
                                                                                                     us feel good whether we’re giving or    Send your questions to Linda@
                                                                                                     receiving.                              stronglearning.com.
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