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get out of this alive. Why do we invest more on the material wealth of the
wedding day traditions, and fail to see that marriage is an investment that
needs attention minute by minute and moment by moment?
I know that many times I based my actions on emotions and not the
covenant. Marriage is for the mature, and not just for people with a nice
wedding dress, a fancy venue or a fat bank account. If that were so, many
who are very rich would not have walked away from it.
Years of bitterness and loss were rolled up in that courtroom decision;
loss of property, cars, friends, and yes, my self-respect. It came with a
great price. We do not often see the effects that divorce can have on the
current generation and the generations to come. There is a seriousness that
comes with the ‘I do’ that should be turned around to ‘do I?’
Singles, make investments in yourselves. Know who you are fully.
Don’t let time, age, or a person define a stage of life for you. Be content
being single. Why do we put pressure on people to be what they don’t
want to be?
For those of you who are married and struggling: it starts with you,
not the other person. You change you. You grow and recommit. You stop
watching all those crazy shows that reflect the non-reality of marriage.
Remember that they are actors playing a part. Most of them, once you
go behind the veil of the story and look at their real lives, are in the same
predicament as you are.
You must invest in books on how to have a strong marriage. Perhaps,
if your spouse is willing, see a marriage counselor or seek marriage
mentorship from a couple that has a great marriage. I boldly profess that
I am a Christian, so my foundation is established on Christ’s original
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intent for marriage. In the Bible He speaks to the covenant. My principles
and belief in Him, with the wisdom He gives me, have allowed me to be
successful not only in this area but every area of my life. Having a great
marriage is what I strive for, each and every day.
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Diane’s Take-Aways
I CARE FOR YOU. REREAD WHAT I JUST SAID.
Diane’s Take-Aways
Self-Sufficiency
1. Get a skill: once you are taught something no one can take it away
from you.
2. Work your way up and become more. What person ever ran a
company without realizing that you need to know every facet
of how it runs to include the mailroom? I found out that John
Nordstrom, the father of Nordstrom, worked in a shoe store before
a department store. His boys’ work ethic derived from watching
him, I am sure.
3. Stop the victim mentality – so what if you have had it bad? I will
get out the violins and play for you myself. While the world is
becoming more innovative to include programs that once assisted
people in this area. You will be considered less and less.
4. Do it for you. Nobody should need to force you into, talk you into,
or threaten you into doing what is right
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CHARACTER AND INTEGRITY
My mother believed in keeping her word and was huge on integrity.
If she told you she would do a thing or be somewhere at a certain time,
you could trust and believe that not only would she be there, she would
be there before the time she told you. Rain, sleet, hail or snow, you could
count on Liz to make it happen.
People just knew that they could count on her. Many of her friends
have passed away; however, over the years I have watched her take care
of all of them, driving them to doctor’s appointments, sharing encouraging
words, doing their hair. She is a hundred percent reliable. I find that
attribute demonstrates such noble character. She is so character-driven
that it used to make me “despise her.” It’s funny now, because when I look
back at the life lessons, I am all the better for it
I remember going into People’s Drug Store, now known as CVS, as
a very young child no more than eight years old. Paper dolls were huge
then; they were sold in books. Well, I didn’t have the money to buy any,
so I went into the store and stole one. I took it to school, and was caught
by my teacher. She called my mother, who always seemed to find work
near wherever her children were. My mother came to school immediately
to discuss my behavior. Lying to my mother was not an option. She could
see right through us. Do you know my mother took me back into that store
with the already opened merchandise? She spoke with the manager and
made me apologize for taking it. I can’t tell you how, but if there was an
item in our household that was not purchased by her or someone bought
for us, she would know. It kept us honest. (Notice I did not say “perfect.”)
I now know that still, small voice inside of her was the Spirit of God.
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I’ve had my share of character flaws. I have learned that the definition
of grace is God’s ability to understand that I won’t always get it right. I
have learned that grace does not mean that I have to be perfect. I do know
that talking to God and allowing God to talk back to me – prayer – has
been an incredible tool that keeps me focused. I literally stay on my knees
a lot. I have realized that I don’t have to do this life on my own, and that
Jesus is the center of my very existence. He placed me in the family that
I needed to be in. He gave me a mother who was not perfect but took on
the task to ensure that lying was not an option, and she had several ways
to ensure that I felt the wrath of the consequence.
In my own life, I am not so sure that beating a child to cooperate is the
best option. I see that love is better. For God so loved the world that He
gave us His only son. He loves me unconditionally no matter what I do
today, yesterday, or tomorrow. Why wouldn’t you do right or have plenty
of ‘Godfidence,’ as I call it, when you are loved like that?
He wants me to know His grace is sufficient, not my perfection.
He wants me to know that striving to do good is not necessary, and my
constant works to prove myself aren’t either. He wants you to know that
He has not left you either… maybe it’s the other way around. My life is
an open book. I have not received this great wisdom on my own. Jesus is
the Lord and Savior of my life; I write this unapologetically. If you say to
yourself as you have read through the pages of this book and have written
in your journals that you want your life to reflect the life of this author,
you must also understand that you need Jesus too.
Accepting Christ as Lord is very easy to do. You don’t have to be in
a church to do it. You can do it right where you are. The Bible tells us in
Romans 10:9,10 in the New King James Version (NKJV):
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v9 - “that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe
in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be
saved. 10 For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and
with the mouth confession is made unto salvation”
Simply make an open confession of what you believe in your heart.
Below is a sample prayer you can say:
v10 - “Jesus, I am a sinner. I believe that you were born of a virgin,
fathered by the Holy Spirit. I believe that you died on the cross for
my sins. I believe that you were buried and rose on the third day
and are now seated on the right of the Father making intercession
for me. I make you the Lord of my life. Come into my heart, change
my life, and save my soul, In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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Diane’s Take-aways
1. Life can be awesome if you allow God into it and let him lead.
2. Are you not exhausted from getting in your own way? I was.
3. My success or failure does not define me. God tells me who I am.
4. Your character is defined in the unsupervised area of your life
when no one is watching.
5. Character and integrity can neither be bought or sold. It is what
it is.
Chapter 3. Take-away (Pride – An overly high opinion of oneself)
EVERY Chapter prior to this one really speaks to one having a personal
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since of ownership concerning life. This chapter is no different. I get one
body. (Cloning is not an option yet, so I must master the body I have.) I
must say no to certain foods. I must walk or go to an organized gym, pay
a fee and go. I like Planet Fitness; I get the trainer and gym all rolled up
in one for a nominal fee. If I want to keep my teeth I have to take care of
them. I must make enough money and secure the bag (funds), along with
proper health insurance, to ensure that I can visit the doctors and dentists
that I need to see. How is it that some people place more value on buying
a car and keeping it clean than their body and/or health? I do not think it’s
a money problem or lack thereof. It’s more of a bad decision problem that
unfortunately spreads through the generations. You must understand that
for every bad decision you make, the generation behind you will follow.
We learn from what is around us first or closest to us first. What is closest
to us. Our family.
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PEARLS of LIFE
Our words have power. But our actions shape our lives.
Chapter 4
The chief work of a person’s lifetime
My mother and I talk often about her life and, I am richer because
of the invaluable lessons she’s taught me. She has lived a full life and
has loved every minute of it. She has tread through valleys and reached
mountaintops, and yet she knows to every good thing there is an end. No
doubt when she goes to be with the Lord, I will miss her. However, and
I say this with the utmost sincerity, she might actually outlive me. One
thing is for certain: she has left a mark on this earth that cannot be erased.
Many are chosen; however, few will give so unselfishly of their time,
talents and treasures as a great mother like her.
God has given us the ability to be, do, and achieve the impossible.
His chief concern, though, is people. Humanity is hurting. Humanity
needs a savior. Humanity needs to know that each one of us was born to
help people. People need people. No one was meant to go through life
on their own. Your life should represent the sphere of influence God has
given each one of us. It is a ministry. It is your life’s work. It is the most
rewarding job that you will ever do; in fact, you love it so much that you
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would do it for free and you probably have been.
God says thank you, thank you, thank you. You see, He needed your
‘yes,’ and now He has painted a mental picture in your mind of what that
looks like. And He still needs that ‘yes.’
My mother’s life’s work was that of a servant and a giver. When I
was young I just could not for the life me understand why she would
take in family members and give them money that we needed ourselves,
because we were broke many times, to say the least. I couldn’t understand
why we moved into certain areas. Although our neighborhood reflected
poverty, our home reflected wealth, prosperity and love. You see, her soul
was bigger than her circumstances. In fact, she changed the course of
her world by creating an environment and a standard of what excellence
looked like. Our lives are not over; they are just beginning.
LIFE
My mother has seen many of her friends pass away, but her memory
of them is still sharp and intact. In fact, often she reminds me of different
times in our history and relationships with her peers. She spends much of
her time now continuing to do her favorite things; cooking, ironing and
cleaning. However, her absolute joys in life are her great-grandchildren,
Gabrielle, Addison, Lonnie, Elizabeth (her name- sake), and Armon. She
treasures her time with each one of them. She shares her wisdom on hair
techniques, anecdotes on health and ways to keep their clothes looking
good. She insists that their clothes be ironed. She loves her great-Grands.
Each has a special place in her heart. They love her too.
Yes, life has been full. She has seen her share of tragedies and triumphs.
There is a song that comes to mind as I close. “I won’t complain.
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To complain means to murmur, to not see the rainbows, to not know
that life is constant.” My mom and I both trust God to be the center of our
joy. We take each day at a time knowing that our trust is built on Jesus and
everything else is just sinking sand.
Mom taught us to choose not to lean unto our own understanding,
for that is like a three-legged table: unstable. I’ve learned to adjust and
overcome. To use God to anchor my table and keep it steady.
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Diane’s Take-Aways
1. I want my honor on this side of heaven in the now.
2. You can determine the length of your days.
FAITH
My mother trusts God so much that she believes she can do anything.
As a young child I always attributed her strength to her stubbornness
or “can do spirit.” I know now that her strength was not natural but
supernatural, working with God as her guide. My Mom has come through
so many trials. My Mom has come through a lot – too many trials to name.
What I remember through all of them is her unwavering, resounding trust
in God. She has truly fought a good fight and has won so many victories.
She is the matriarch of our family whose answer is always prayer. My
mother did not always know how to pray, at least not with specific
scripture; but she would recite the Lord’s Prayer and stay there until she
received some form of guidance. She has prayed her way through every
situation, great and small. God has ordered her steps and has always been
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faithful. All my siblings have witnessed that. All of us are in churches and
flourishing. I know that is only because of my mother’s answered prayers.
She has had financial setbacks, health challenges and yet, she has always
bounced back strong.
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Diane’s Take-Aways on Faith
I watched my mother’s life and learned that her Faith was the foundation
and a shield even in hard times. It is with that same fervency that I pursue
my life. I found principles in my Bible that have taught me that I am the
church without a building, and when I pray that I could believe that I
would receive whatsoever I desire. It is with that Faith and belief system I
govern my entire life and existence to include writing this book as a first
time author. No, I cannot not see God. No, I cannot see Jesus; however,
by Faith I take what is unseen and bring it into the seen arena, and I am
absolutely without reservation assured of the existence of both.
DEATH
My mother now 90 but she is not afraid of death because she is too
busy living life. She tells us all the time, that “When am I ready to go I
will talk to God and tell Him I am ready”.” She has said several times that
she does not want to linger in this life, but hopes she can go quietly and
peacefully to be with her Lord. I know the Lord will honor that, so I go
about my business of honoring her while she lives. I know when the time
comes, I will be sad; however, she has really lived... she’s laughed and
loved this life of hers, and is so grateful for it to this very day. She has told
me what song she wants sung at her funeral when the day comes. It is a
song called “The River Jordan” song by a guy from my family’s church.
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The person she wants to sing it is John Berry. My Mommy isn’t a fussy
person, so I know the service will be simple. I can imagine the church
being full, though, because she has impacted the lives of so many both
old and young.
Unfortunately, John preceded her in death. Now what, Mom? I see
her being celebrated all over the world for the contribution that this very
simple, unknowingly, brave and courageous woman’s life truly meant.
Her still picture or oil will be placed in a renowned gallery and celebrated
for the wisdom and love that she gave to not only her family, but the
world.
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Diane’s Take-aways
Death is inevitable – that is for sure. I live my life to the fullest until
it overflows. I have bucket list for everything I desire to do in life and
those bucket list go from the very simple to extravagant. Many have been
crossed off and yet there is so much more to discover as I continue to
max out on life. Live your life. Don’t concentrate on the “woulda coulda”
things. Stay in the present without regrets.
INHERITANCE
My mother has been blessed. She has not always been aware of her
blessings. Now at 90 she really has no need for anything. It’s amazing
how the things you’ve acquired as you get older mean very little to you.
You find yourself spending your days giving things away, assuring that
your legacy will continue.
Even in a pandemic she has thrived. She has entered into a “no-need
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state” not because of what she gets from others, but because of what she
has sown to put her in a position in the lives of others monetarily. Her life
is in order. She took care of that in her younger years, when forced into
retirement due to her health. She has a portfolio in writing concerning her
financial arrangements, and all the details concerning that day. She has
her household in order; as a result, we, her children, observed and put
ourselves in position. These actions have been noted by our children and
no doubt their children.
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Diane’s Take-aways
1. Reclaim your time and stop spending money on things you can not
afford, to impress people that you don’t even like.
2. If you have money, balance your life. Money is not everything;
are you sacrificing your life and the lives of the people around you
to keep it?
3. Develop a relationship with God and you will see that money is
relative but peace of mind while still having money is the best
thing since sliced bread (really telling my age now).
4. The more you give the more you receive.
5. Why would you get more if you can’t be trusted with what you
already have.
6. Stop selling or giving away heirlooms – they are wealth that
money can’t buy.
7. Leave a will which lets people know what priceless things they
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have and where they are located
8. Adult children should not be left wealth. Teach a man to fish and
he can fish for a lifetime.
9. Teach your adult children wisdom and they can do this life even
greater than you.
10. Invest in yourselves first.
11. Stop letting people borrow your money with already bad habits of
handling money; you know you will never see it again.
12. Sowing and reaping is still the greatest way to protect money. Live
your life and stop comparing yourself and your success to others.
You have no idea of their regrets, their struggles, or the true way
they got wealth or whether indeed they even have wealth at all.
13. Secure a financial planner early to help you navigate, invest your
wealth,
14. budget and plan your future. Stop living for the now and plan for
what’s ahead of you.
15. Buy property... own something and stop renting. There is no
financial gain in renting whatsoever.
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A Message to My Mother
Dear Mommy,
I know that it must have been difficult at times raising five children all
by yourself. It’s not like there were books readily available of what to do
and when you need to do it. And even if there were, who had time to read
them when you were just trying to live in the present at the speed of life.
Mommy, while growing up I did not always see your tears of
disappointment when things did not go as planned concerning our family.
I did not understand the overwhelming responsibilities that you had to
handle, just to make sure nothing was lacking for us. I only saw your
resilient spirit and can-do attitude, which you faithfully demonstrated in
spite of your tears and fears about the future.
Mommy, I believe “more is caught than taught” in a child’s life. I
know this is true for me; it was your actions that spoke louder than your
words. It was your actions that I have penned and highlighted throughout
the pages of this book. It was your consistent actions that shaped our
family. It was your own undeniable character that you instilled in us – the
very best way you knew how.
Mommy, I will forever cherish the necessary corrections and choices
you had to make in order to ensure our successful future. You saw the
generations to come. You saw the road ahead. You saw dangers seen and
unseen that we could not. You saw a day when you would not be here
physically, when your life would live on in us and through us.
Thank you, Mommy. I can only hope that I have made you proud. I
can only hope that my children, their children and their children’s children
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will redeem the time given them. Our foundation could not and would not
have been built if the pearl had not been hidden in the oyster… that is your
loving wisdom and life lessons. Pearls upon pearls of wisdom you have
imparted in my life. Thus, the reason for this book – Pearls of Wisdom
from My Mother.
Love always,
Diane
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Letter from Your Granddaughter
Hey Girl! You better not be running out there in these streets!
(Laughing out loud)
No, but seriously, Grandma, you know I love you more than all the
words in the world can explain. You have taught me to be a lady, to be
clean (of course), but most importantly, not to take no sh*t. I chuckle
because when you do curse it makes me laugh.
I see so many people who have grown up without certain things and
can’t help but think, “That could have been me!” My grandma would
have rescued me, as you have done so many times. I often think back to
how I would spend the night over at your house, when you lived in the
apartment off of Naylor Road in SE, Washington, DC. We would have a
pint of Häagen-Dazs ice cream and visit with your late sister (Aunt Julia).
When the day was over, I would fall asleep in your arms as we watched
the Disney Channel. Sweet, sweet memories for me.
You have been a constant rock to not just me, but to our entire family.
You are not my favorite person just because you give me things. You are my
favorite person because you are what real love looks like. It is not always
about your smiles, hugs and kisses. Sometimes it’s about your fussing and
cussing… because you know I am capable of better. It’s teaching me that
I have only one mother and to cherish her, because she will go to the ends
of the world and back for me. It’s also about how you show forgiveness
and grace, even when you don’t want to; but in the same breath telling me
“don’t ever do it again and I mean that!” Again, I chuckle.
Grandma, you are my best friend. When I don’t hear your voice, I get
a little off balance. I appreciate our daily calls to talk about nothing; they
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make me smile.
I am blessed to have you as a grandmother…and even more blessed to
have my children call you GiGi.
I love you, Ashley.
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Afterword
I won’t complain
written by Rev. Paul Jones
I’ve had some good days I’ve had some hills to climb I’ve had some
weary days
I’ve had some sleepless nights but when I look around
And I think things over All of my good days Outweigh my bad days
So, I won’t complain Sometimes the clouds hang low I can hardly see
the road
And then I ask the question Lord why so much pain
But He knows what’s best for me Although my weary eyes can’t see
So, I’ll just say thank you Lord I won’t complain
God’s been so good to me
The Lord has been so good to me More than this old world Or you
could ever be
The Lord has been so good to me And He dried my tears away
And He turn all my midnights into days
So, I’ll say thank you Lord I just say thank you Lord I’ll just say thank
you Lord I won’t complain
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My Soul’s Been Anchored in the Lord Written by Douglas Miller
Though the storms keep on raging in my life
And sometimes it’s hard to tell my night from day Still that hope that
lies within is reassured As I keep my eyes upon the distant shore; I
know He’ll lead me safely to that
Blessed place He has prepared
But if the storms don’t cease
And if the wind keeps on blowing, (in my life) My soul has been
anchored in the Lord
I realize that sometimes in this life You’re gonna be tossed by the
waves
And the currents that seem so fierce
But in the word of God I’ve got an anchor; And it keeps me steadfast
and unmovable
Despite the tide
But if the storms don’t cease
But in case the wind keeps on blowing, (in my life)
My soul has been anchored in the Lord
Billows may roll
The breakers may dash I shall not sway because He holds me fast
So dark the day Clouds in the sky I know it’s alright
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Because Jesus is nigh
My soul has been anchored
My soul has been anchored in the Lord
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Acknowledgements
First and fore-most let me start by acknowledging the Lord and Savior
of my Life the Lord Jesus who allowed me to pen and share this book.
To my wonderful shepherd and priest of my home Earnest Linwood
Moore, who has been there from the beginning to motivate me to thrive
and rise up.
To my wonderful parents Elizabeth Mitchell Weaver and William
Henry Campbell, for to whom much is given much is required. Not
perfect, but one must honor the gift put in the inside of them to show me
through their lives the richness of living long and strong through trials
and tribulation and endure like a good soldier. Walking by faith and not
by sight.
To my wonderful children Ashley, Allison, Adrian, and Taylor: thank
you for allowing me to be your Mother in the good times, not so good
times and at times the worst of times. We push, we soar to heights that
only God himself envelops. I know that there is more He is requiring of
us as His Unit, His Remnant, His Family. We are capable and can do all
things through Christ that gives us His Grace. Victorious!
To Apostle Michael Aaron Freeman and Deloris (Dr. Dee Dee)
Freeman, I thank God for ordering my steps to Anacostia High School
November 1990 and my new birth experience and resurrection into the
Body of Christ.
To Iris Saunders, who would not let me let this book go but carefully
and lovingly pursued after me. Words cannot express my indebtedness.
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May His face shine upon you. May He fill you with all the richness of His
glory. New dreams, new possibilities … outright crazy new visions and a
limitless lifestyle I decree to be yours.
To Elder Barry Taylor, you told me by way of a FedEx piece of paper
that I would write books. You said I would write books to heal the broken-
hearted and set captives free, and you gave me the gift of the double
anointing on your life. I get it Sir… I get it.
To the host of family and friends who have remained steadfast, and
constant in my life. I thank you for the treasure in each one of you. I am
who I am by the Grace of God; however, in each season you were all
strategically placed. May the Lord richly bless everything you set your
hands to do. If I can do it, Jack is out the Box. One Love – u -n -I- t- y.
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Elizabeth M. Weaver
Our Mother
One of the great times in our history was 1931. At that time,
• The average cost of a new house was $6,790
• The average wages per year was $1,850
• The average cost for house rent was $18 per month
• The loaf of bread was 8 cents
• The cost of a gallon of gas was 10 cents
• The empire State Building was completed. It became the tallest
building in the world
The greatest moment of that year came on April 1, 1931; it was a
gift from God, Elizabeth M. Weaver was born in Patrick, South Carolina
(Chesterfield Country) to the late William and Minnie Mitchell.
Elizabeth attended the public school system in Cheraw, South Carolina.
She later moved to Washington, D.C. to begin her career. She worked
various jobs while aggressively seeking to develop and enhance her skills
for better career opportunities. After two marriages and five children,
Elizabeth worked hard to fulfill her ambition. She entered the workforce
as a full-time clerk with Safeway Stores, Inc. During her tenure there,
she held several positions. Her passion for learning eventually earned her
a position as Customer Service Manager. Because of health issues, she
eventually retired from that position.
Elizabeth began her Christian journey as a child in South Carolina;
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however, once she moved to D.C., she made her commitment to Greater
St. John Church, formerly known as St. John Free Will Baptist Church,
where she was a faithful member. She joined the Pastor’s Aid Committee
and the Nursing Ministry where she served diligently until she relocated
to Monroeville, Pennsylvania. She now calls First Baptist of Highland
Park her church home. Her Pastor, Dr. Henry P. Davis, III, adores her. She
spends her days well taken care of by everyone there.
Elizabeth is a very caring and devoted mother, aunt, and friend who
enjoys the company of her family and close friends. While in D.C., she
loved hosting and planning family dinners to celebrate holidays, birthdays,
and special occasions for her family. Her place was where all relatives
and friends stayed during their visits to D.C. She is always willing to
lend a hand with a smile, which has led to her close connections with
numerous people in and out of church, through volunteer efforts, and at
social gatherings. She also loves cooking, cleaning, washing, and ironing
activities that she taught all of her children.
Our mom is the woman who gave birth to us, the person who nurtured
us, changed our diapers, raised us, supported us, and instilled in us high
ethical and moral codes; she is a proud, beaming parent who loves us
more than life itself. Many times, our mom said, “Raising children is a
full- time job.” Because attending to our every need required a tremendous
investment of time and energy, she was forced to make sacrifices that
involved prioritizing child rearing over dedicating herself to a career. God
knows we are grateful for having such a giant in our midst.
We thank you Lord for the life and contributions of our mother.
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About the Author
Diane Moore is a Trainer, author and visual storyteller. She has
travelled extensively all over the globe teaching and inspiring others about
“greatness.” She can be viewed on such vehicles as Facebook, YouTube
and an influencer on Instagram and Twitter.
Diane is married to her husband Earnest L. Moore. They have been
married for 12 years. They are a blended family of four Ashley, Allison,
Adrian and Taylor.
Diane is the grandmother of three wonderful grandchildren Lonnie
(LP), Elizabeth and Armon. Pearls of Wisdom is a book of honor dedicated
to all nurturers of some sort. Often in our busylives, we should reflect
on the life lessons and traditions that make up who we are and how we
have derived in that way of doing life. Journal and spend quality time in
conversation with your loved ones.
Our history must be passed down throughout generations. I dedicate
this book to every nurturer. Your labor shall not be in vain.
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FROM:
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It is my desire that this free journal that accompanies your book will
be a self- introspection from chapter to chapter for you. Pearls of Wisdom
is a simple book of take-aways and life skills from a generational point of
view. In it you might see yourself and perhaps reflect and remember the
wisdom you gained throughout the years from your Mother or someone
you held in high esteem. Navigating this thing called life requires that we
also remember our past, present and future. I hope you enjoy and journal
along creating memories for those you plan to leave your life lessons to
as well.
Chapter One : “The Early Bird Always Gets The Worm”
Do you remember this quote? If so, do you remember stories or lessons
taught on getting up early.
Has this area been something you now do or will improve in?
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Record how you implement now some of the life lessons taught to you
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Preparation
It’s been said that preparation prevents poor performance. In the book
we discussed some of the ways we handled preparation. What are some
of the life lessons you were taught regarding it?
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Do you have special moments in which wisdom was shared regarding
preparation such as prepared meals for the week. Please share in your
journal.
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Chapter Two
Every chapter is different and people regard domestic ways of doing
things in the home different as well. However memories and the wisdom
taught from someone you honored even down to quotes regarding this
area are gems.
What do you remember most of about your mother or someone you
honored concerning cooking, cleaning your home or even washing clothes
that you can pass on to someone reading your words of wisdom in these
areas. Listen, take your time and let’s not forget to add those funny or
sometimes serious conversations.
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Chapter Three
Self-care takes on so many meanings these days physically, mentally
and spiritually. However, I know it to be true. We do not do enough of it
in our lives and thus the reason when you reflect in this area. Remember
you are not only journaling for you but making a commitment to yourself
and others around you that you have a great deal of influence that you will
do better for you and them.
What will you tell yourself about the value you will leave your legacy
regarding this chapter?
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Chapter 4
If you were to leave this earth tomorrow. how would your obituary
read? It’s sobering to think about this last chapter because it encompasses
so much to self-reflect on. What wisdom would you leave regarding this
chapter on:
Your life’s work
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On Death: Have you ever stop to think about what you want people to
do, how you want to remembered? Who you want to speak? Perhaps this
journal is a start.
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Everyone believes or has faith in someone or something or at least I
hope you do. Remember this book contains wisdom or take-aways that
you might not get a chance to directly affect all in your sphere of influence
but a great deal of them through your conversations and actions should
sense something different in you as an individual that will translate into
your everyday way of thinking and doing. The last areas of Faith, Finances
and Life, I would like you to think and write about.
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And lastly, whether living or now deceased what would you like to say
to your mother. It is my hope if the person you honor is still living not only
will you write the letter but you will also mail the letter to the individual.
If your mother or the person you honor is no longer living, I still believe
this is a letter that you should do for yourself. We live our lives with no
regrets just a great hope that we give our flowers of honor while we are
yet still living.
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