Helpful
Reminders
The most convincing aspect is
that someone is truly alive, is
there a lack of desire to show
the world that they're living
their best life.
Your best life won't seek
Social Validation.
Do not agree with other individual's
definition of "fun"
Fun just doesn't have to mean party,
smoke, drink, or socialize.
It can be a night alone with oneself, a walk,
reading a book, playing music, or a deep
conversation with oneself about life.
Fun is how you define it and feel
comfortable in it.
Individuals spend too much time trying to be
more physically attractive to find love that they
forget about the importance of being mentally
attractive as well.
Educate yourself, address your thoughts and
emotions effectively. Learn to be happy alone as
well. That's also Attractive.
"Fitting in" can make you feel miserable.
Caring too much about being "one of the
girls or guys", can kill potential and
happiness.
Spend some time with yourself, be your
own uncool, and whoever still wants to be
with you. keep them close because they
will be your real friends.
If You want to be happy,
love others for who
they are
If you want to be
frustrated/resentful, love
others for whom you hope
they will become.
Things we need to come on terms with
Changed behavior is the only behavior.
NO response is a response.
If they really wanted to, they would.
Taking no risk is the biggest risk.
Don't let your looks, feelings and
experiences get measured and validated
by some unnecessary means. They don't
define you!
Love yourself for who you are and for the
person you are becoming.
Avail online counselling, talk to a
counselor at Betterlyf and learn mindful
techniques to become a better version of
yourself.