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Table of Content

• Introduction
• Chapter 1 – Evaluating your Life
• Chapter 2- Breaking the Chains and Let Go
• Chapter 3- Planning your Next Move
• Chapter 4- Fake it until you Make it
• Chapter 5- Recycle your Plan
• Chapter 6- Walk In It
• Chapter 7- You have Arrived

This book is dedicated to all who seek
change and are looking for a better
way.

Introduction

• Have you ever wondered why it is so hard for you to get ahead?
• Do you ever wish you could have the things that you see others possessing?
• Do you ever wish you could take control over your current situation? No matter if it is financial,

love life, social life, personal, addiction, and career. Then this book will give you the necessary
tools to be successful by obtaining the true desires of your heart. God has given everyone a
talent and authority to be successful. This includes Forming your ideas, Storming into transition,
then Norming your way into your dreams by performing all the things necessary to obtain them.
Your life has been awaiting you to truly show up are you ready to start this new journey.

Lamentations 3:40

Let us examine and probe our ways, And let us return to the LORD

Chapter 1 The first thing you would need to do is evaluate your life.
Evaluating your Life There comes a time when you have to come terms with
things that are not helping you progress in your life. This
includes certain friends and family that you interact with
on a regular basis. It could be the person who is your
companion, a job position that you hold. Open your mind
and soul search on what you want out of life. I know you
see countless possibilities of what your life could be.

Evaluating Your Life

Nothing will change until you assess the current situation and see where you can improve to make
your life the way you desire. Just like in the good book of proverbs which is out of the bible states
where there is no vision the people shall perish (proverbs 29:18). Meaning in order to get the life
you deserve and truly desire you have to be able to visualize how to achieve it. This is the beginning
stage of how to build a new foundation for yourself. This should be where your success originates
from which is the vision you hold for yourself. This vision includes all the things you are passion
about but from some reason was thrown off track from pursing your dream.

Step 1 On Evaluating Your Life

• You need to really take a look back on your life as a whole and think about your overall goals.
• This would involve you sitting down and writing out all the goals that you have ever had in your

life. Then look at all the people you have in your life . Write down how each person that is in your
life will help contribute you reaching them.
• This process may actually turn into a big list showing how each person is fruitful to your situation
and be specific on what they bring to the table to help you reach your goals.

Step 2 On Evaluating Your Life

Once you have wrote how each person contributes to you reaching your goals. Then there is the
ranking system you should use on how important they fit in the equation. (literally you will have to
rank them using 1 to 100 or A to Z) depending on how you want to rank them and how big of an
evaluation you will be doing. Then the process of elimination is the critical part of Step to in
Evaluating your life. During this time for those who have religious guidance please meditate and ask
the Higher Power to guide you when making the selection of who to distance yourself from. This
helps you remove all dramatic things out of your path giving you the opportunity to concentrate on
you and your personal goals. Hard work pays off in the end for those who go after what they want
life is all about choices.

Evaluating your Life

When going through this transition just know that it is not going to be an easy task and you will definitely need
to stand the course. People will put a guilt trip on you to hold you down and trust it is not that you don’t love
them or care it is called self preservation making you number one. (note: This is definitely the time to distance
your self by being less available to those who may hinder your progress.) Example: Always have planned
engagements that you have committed too when those distractions come knocking at your door and want you
to engage with them along with drama they bring around. The goal is to gradually be less important to those
who seem to surround you with their negative energy by being unable to entertain any of it. Remember
greatness does not come with out sacrifice. So why sacrifice your dreams by entertaining things that are not
helping you grow to reach your full potential when your making over your life.

Evaluating your Life

• Entertaining Text Messages or emails
• Social Media Posts
• Phone Calls Both Landline and Cellphone
• When you entertain the mess it takes time

out of your personal progress and stunting
your growth needed to be successful in
reaching your goals. Take control of your life.

Evaluating Your Life

During this time when you literally take the timeout to further assess your life on where it could be
improved. Making small goals that need to be reached on a daily basis to help you along the way
while beginning to transition into moving forward with the things that interest you personally such
as your financial goals, career goals, relationship goals, etc. This is the time when you truly discover
you and what you want out of life. These interests should be written down for you to access without
any issues of being able to come back to it to edit, change or add things to it.

Evaluating your Life

This is just the beginning of the storm and along with you taking charge of the your life by
acknowledging the things that have been hindering. This has also given you the
opportunity to concentrate on your diagram on what is keeping you from getting the life
you deserve and desire. Now it is time to actually start planning on how to reach your goals
since you have removed a lot of negativity out of your path. Remember you can do all
things through Christ who gives you strength.

2 Corinthians 5:17

"Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are
become new."

Chapter 2 Now it is time to let go of the past things that have
been hindering you from meeting your full potential.
Break the Chains and Let Go It doesn’t matter if it is a relationship, career, alcohol,
or drugs. This can be a pain staking task to
accomplish and can be somewhat emotional.
Especially when it comes to people who may mean
something to you. For those who are not used to
telling people no or not helping others it can really
cause you personal grief. This why prayer is vital to
keeping you focused on you and not on the things
going on around you.

Breaking the Chains and Let Go

Know that every thing has a time and a season and this is your season to succeed. Change is going to happen
regardless if you want it too or not but you have the ability to change the result. Even though the end result is
what you do have control over letting go of extra weight that is hindering you progress is key. What path your
life is on currently is something you can change and God has given you the authority. If you were not unhappy
about somethings in your life you would not read this book on how to Get the life you deserve. It comes from
evaluating your life looking at all the things that are not healthy for you and may create a barrier to where you
are trying to go on your goals list. You know your so called girlfriend or guy friend that comes around to be
nosey about your life because she or he does not have one for real. The one who you have shared your dreams
with that knows where your trying to go but always down plays your aspirations like they are unachievable.

Breaking the Chains and Let Go

That means even family members who only comes around to spill all there issues on you like you can fix their
problems… Let them Go! They need to sit back and evaluate their own situations. By figuring out why things
keep going in the wrong direction for themselves and how they can correct their own problems. It could be
that your mate that is jealous of the fact that you have more courage to seek goals to reach your dreams. You
have to just let it go believe that your purpose is greater than the current state it may be in right now. Tough
times don’t last but definitely tough people do. So the first most valuable things you can do for yourself is
cleanse your heart of anything that is negative weighing you down. Forgive in the situation which is easier said
than done but believe me it can be done.

Breaking the Chains and Let Go

Forgiving not only yourself for allowing the things to go on like this to where you have lost control of who you
are but if another person is involved forgive them too for being a dream stealer in your path. What your
dreams are and what type of person you inspire to be can be reach but this step is vital so you got to let go. If it
has to deal with other people due to faulty relationships forgive them. Even if they have done you wrong for
give them so that you can start to focus on something other than the negative that has happened that can not
be changed. If it is substance abuse know that you have purpose and that the drugs or alcohol does not define
you. You don’t need them to define who you are or to mask your pain anymore. You declare and decree your
freedom from substance abuse, bad relationships, financial difficulty. Then forgive yourself for allowing
anything other than the High Power meaning God for having that much power over your decision making
processes. Once this has been done it is finally time to start reclaiming you.

Breaking the Chains and Let Go

Reclaiming the person who you are destined to be does not come without work. So don’t get frustrated if you
don’t feel like you are not where you want to be in life overnight. Patience is everything when you are
transitioning from one state of living to another. Yes temptation may come to revert you back to your old ways
but you know that was not prosperous to you. This is why focusing on you is a must during this time. Those
who are religious I would strongly recommend praying without ceasing during your transition. If there is
someone who you can confide in during this time lean on them along with praying and reading scriptures from
the bible. Then try to focus on the next best thing which involves planning your next steps to victory.

Matthew 13:30-35

Let’s both grow together until the harvest, and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, Gather the weeds first and
bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn.’” He put another parable before them,
saying, “The kingdom of heaven is like a grain of mustard seed that a man took and sowed in his field. It is the
smallest of all seeds, but when it has grown it is larger than all the garden plants and becomes a tree, so that
the birds of the air come and make nests in its branches.” He told them another parable. “The kingdom of
heaven is like leaven that a woman took and hid in three measures of flour, till it was all leavened.” All these
things Jesus said to the crowds in parables; indeed, he said nothing to them without a parable. ...

Chapter 3 Making sure your next move is the best move for your
situation. Life is really short so it is important to utilize
Plan Your Next Move every moment of it to live your best. This section of this
book is the order in which you should align your
transition of getting your life you deserve by planning
how you are going to arrive to your goals. The planning
stage can make or break your arrival to your desired life.
So with us being aware of this we will make sure that
things are carefully detailed out and have an alternative
plan to keep your ultimate goals afloat.

Plan your Next Move

When planning your next move make sure you have taken the time out and written down every
aspect of your plans. This would include putting down the things it would take to reach each goal
along with the people who help you reach your goals. This stage is intense and the planning could
be up to a five year time span with quarterly or monthly goals that need to be met in order to get
where you want to be. (The time span does not have to be for five years it could be shorter or
longer depending on how hard your willing to work to get to the desired position in life.)

Plan Your Next Move

Just as in the bible in the book of Proverbs 29:18 Where there is no vision, the people perish. So
having vision is vital when planning your next move on how you are going to obtain the success you
have been yearning for. When planning you should make out a nice diagram representing short
term and long term goals that you are wanting to obtain. This is very vital to executing out your plan
to walk into your destiny. So take this seriously as you write down your diagram on who and what it
would talk to reach each goal you have set to reach on this paper.

Planning your Next Move

Remember that when start to get deep into your planning stage that all the goals listed need to have a
time frame associated with them. Those goals need to have specifics listed in them so that you know
exactly what you are doing so you don’t fall off task as you are executing it. Make those goal realistic so
they are obtainable for example if your goal is to lose 100 pounds know that is impossible within 2
months unless there is something medically wrong to cause that. Making your dreams flexible is another
key component to obtain them so that if something in the original plan is not working you can deviate
from it and put revisions in where it is needed to still create a good plan to your success. Your planning
should be written out and even put into diagram to see who and what it is going to take to reach them.

Plan Your Next Move

.Example of what a diagram should look like when planning your next move to obtain your dreams

Plan Your Next Move

Once you sit down and actively think out what it would take to reach your goals and who can help you obtain
them. The saying it takes money to make money is so true, along with it takes positive like minded people to
help you reach your goals. So make sure your surrounding yourself around people who have already done what
your trying to do and have expertise in the area your trying to excel in. (FYI Never be afraid to ask for assistance
or guidance from someone who is experienced). Also make sure even if your circle is not filled at this time with
people of the expertise to still surround yourself with people who are positive to your situation for
encouragement during this time of transition.

Plan your next move

The execution of the list is the next vital part of the planning your next move. This would require you to make
some sacrifices in order to reach your goals once again. This goes in line with the strategic planning of your life
just as you would for a business on a professional level. This is the still apart of the “Storming Stage” and during
this time you should see that things you were immune to are starting to shift things. Not everyone will be
support of the changes that you are making this should be expected. Once you weed out the ones who are
not beneficial to your plans you should start to see your life normalize out once the plan is fully up and

operational.

Plan Your Next Move

Since your plan is fully visualized and the storm is starting to come as you embrace the necessary changes
needed to made in order for you to be successful. Now that you know what it will take to get you there
and what kind of people to surround yourself with. The decision to plan effectively will help you obtain
your goals both on short and long term. Now it is time to act on your plans and full execute
them…READY… SET… GO!!!!! Elevate your way of thinking transitioning day has finally come.
* At the end of each section their will be a note section for you to write your thoughts and fully evaluate
your situation out.

Psalms 23:4

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod
and your staff, they comfort me.

Chapter 3 Heart of a Lion Body of a Kitten

Fake it Until You Make IT This section involves making some sacrifices to prepare
you to elevate into this new life style. Now that you have
elevate your life, overcome fear by breaking the chains and
letting go with planning your next move. All this to give
you the change you desire from surrounding yourself
around people who are successful in the areas you are
trying to be in. Example if you are trying to have a
successful marriage. You have to surround yourself around
successfully married people. You have to mimic the life you

Fake it Until You Make It

How do you begin to involve yourself with people who are doing the things that you desire and dream to do?
How do I put together a plan that will help me be able to actually start living my dreams? Who do I choose to
mentor me to help me along the way? These may be some of the questions that you are asking yourself along
the way as you stride forward with your dreams and aspirations. With out speaking about your dream allowing
them to manifest into reality it is so hard to actually get them started. Example if you want to be an Chef and
own your own business doing catering. You have to first hang around people who are doing just what it is your
interested in doing. This may involve volunteering to learn what has help them be successful in that business.
Then take notes on things that will help your journey into that career. You may work closely with a few people
and then choose who you feel would be the best one to mentor you. Then ask them for assistance on your
journey into that area of life you are trying to master.

FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT

Then once you have gained some contacts of people who are doing like minded things that you are trying to
pursue then it is time for you to build your confidence up to actually go full fledge into your plan. This takes a
lot of practice to become successful which means it is a lot of faking it learning along the way. The faking it
part is actually when you do all the necessary research about the aspect in life that you are trying to walk into
and be successful at. Once you have built your confidence up the fake it part will no longer be relevant at all
due to you having the tools necessary to make it happen. Of course there may be some speed bumps along
the way but having a life line of people doing similar things to you will help smooth those out. During this time
you will learn how to definitely carry yourself appropriately for the lifestyle you desire.

FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT

This would also include the way you carry yourself the way you dress, talk would need to be modified to create
the persona you want to live. Birds of a Feather is so true when you are making the necessary connections with
people who are out in this world making power moves. So you have to dress for the part and uphold the
reputation that most of your well established friends carry throughout the community. Don’t allow fear to stop
you from role playing your way into the life style you think you deserve. So if you are aspiring to be a song
writer then continue to write songs and network with artist to become noticed for your talent. Don’t let fear of
rejection from peers keep you from doing what your dream. That is even more reason to run and keep pushing
until you get the desired results of your dream.

Chapter 4 During this section of the book establish a solution on
recycling your plan into other areas in your life so
Recycle your Plan that you will be successful in all the things that you
do. Nothing good happens without some kind of
adversity that has to be overcame so this does have
to be altered to fit the situation at hand that you are
facing. So with that already experienced with
changing and transitioning to where you are just a
reminder never to give up on the fight to have the
desires of you heart due to some adversity.

Recycle your Plan

Most people live by the saying if it is not broken don’t fix it and this exactly what attitude you will need to carry
when implementing your plan into other areas of your life. So if it is something that is universal and can benefit
your from your career goals to financial planning don’t fix it if it something that is currently working. You would
have to analysis the situation at hand to determine what is going to work and what is not. In many cases you
will be in the situation where you are acting applying the tools you learned into all aspects of you life without
and issue. Then in certain situation may come about and see the need to alter some things. Don’t be afraid to
make them because it all for the benefit of your life you want to live.

Recycle your Plan

Reduction is simple as it means reduce the things that have not been effective in helping you
expand and reach your full potential. Every plan is not a perfect one and comes with a lot of lessons
to be learned when executing them. Don’t beat yourself up for a simple learning curve we all must
endure when trying something new we have little to no experience in. If you did not make a mistake
some where you would not be human. Just take notes on where it went wrong and what you can do
not to stumble in the same aspect ever again.

Recycle your Plan

Reuse the things that have helped you along the path to success making sure you can connect it back to other
things in your life that are going well. The more you use the recycle method the better you can apply it to other
aspects of your life. Make notes of what has been working without any revisions needed. Then see what has
helped you become more proficient in other aspects of you life also and recycle those methods so if it applies
add it to the other area of your life it is as simple as that. This is how you are building a strong foundation in
your successful life. REUSE, REUSE, REUSE. This is the best part of the recycling process because it does not
take much effort other than you evaluating if the shoe will fit in the new area being worked on in your life
reuse it.

Philippians 4:13

.I can do all this through him who gives me strength

Chapter 5
Walk In It

Embrace the new way of thinking that you have just
taught yourself in this process. Know that even during
this transition you will feel a little alone at first. Know
that you have to keep encouraging yourself when
nobody else is around to do so.

Walk In It

You have come this far and so there is definitely no need to look back on a situation on
which was not beneficial to you. So now you must walk in your new world you created. You
must act like you own it and make sure to speak the things you want into existence in every
aspect of your world. Promote good Karma so that it will continue to produce good Karma
in the future for you. Know that the Higher Power which is God to many has created the
earth for you to live abundantly. You are the head of the situation and not the tail.

Walk In It

The Most High for others who are not religiously Christian but for those who are Christian, God has given you
the authority to determine your life. You have to walk as if you have that authority and use it in every aspect of
your life. You know if put good seeds down in the field onto good soil to plant when it comes time for harvest
the reward will always come back beyond measure when you begin to lay the foundation for your life on solid
grounds. There is nothing more rewarding than seeing where you started from and looking at where you have
progressed too. Now days so many people get caught up in the moment type of living until they realize they
really are not living at all but merely existing. This is due to lack of building a solid foundation through all the
steps in the previous chapters.

Walk in It

As you continue to grow and get stronger in your new life then it will be time for you to
walk in faith on somethings that you really know will take hard work to obtain. Even if the
situation looks very dark and grim that you can reach the goal. You have to speak life into
the situation and continue to put people in your path that will continue to bring out the
best in you. Those people may also continue to breathe life into the situation that is
manifesting because you are speaking your dreams into reality. Now that you have the
proper tools to evaluate and plan to reach your dreams should be endless to achieving.

Walk in It

Since you are walking into your dreams you can continue to build on them to
acquire all the things your have set on your list to accomplish. It does take hard
work but greatness does not come without sacrifice. The sacrifices may cause you
to become real busy and not having time for pleasure which is only temporary once
it all falls in place. Especially when the time is right meaning your harvest is ready.

Deuteronomy 28:8

“The LORD will command the blessing upon you in your barns and in all that you put your hand to, and He will
bless you in the land which the LORD your God gives you.”

You have Arrived!!!

Chapter 7

Now that you have owned your desire to over
come all the trials that life have thrown at you
and have arrived to your destiny. It is time to
reflect on past experiences and strive to keep
excelling in life's jungle.

You have Arrived!

Now are starting to see the fruits of your labor come into season due to taking control over you life.
It is really time for you as things settle down to start planting new seeds. Making new goals so that
you will continue to grow into the person that you have always knew you could be. Your confidence
should be built to the point where you can actually see your blessings opening up for you. As long as
you continue to put God in the mix of your plans making him the head of the situation everything
will continue to work in your favor. You have struggle through the storm and encouraged yourself
when many who you though were with you have shown they were not for you.

Step by Step and day by day you will continue to see blessings upon you when it comes to everything your
involved in. Which will let you know that all the things you have done up to this point where in the plans for the
Most High (meaning God) for you. People will notice the new you and may ask how did you overcome all the
obstacles you had in your life. This is a great way for you to give back. While never forgetting where you came
from during this point in your life and always be willing to assist others obtain their dreams by being a testimony
of what the Most High has done for you. This way all glory is given to him and you will be continually blessed as
you do this. Now that you have arrived and are on solid ground may grace continue to fall upon you now you
have Got the life you deserve. God has promised all of his people this we all must take a stand and walk out on
faith to obtain it.

This is a journey we all must walk in order to live our full potential and get the things that Our Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ has made available to us. He gave man the dominion over the earth which give us the authority to
make the decisions on what kind of life we want to live. If you want to be one of the people who always don’t
have needing to borrow constantly it means you are not living according to God’s plan for you and your life
definitely needs revision. Living according to the authority given to you will make it so your the one who is
fruitful blessed enough to be the lender. We as people of faith have to start taking that authority seriously
using it to live our best. God created us to be in his image and with that we are blessed beyond measure. So we
have to remember that by his authority we as mankind are the head and definitely not the tail. So continue to
strive for greatness. You have successful stormed, transformed and now your way of life is the norm all because
of God’s grace.

2 Corinthians 5:7

.For we walk by faith, not by sight