NKEM BLESSED @ 50 AND THANKSGIVING BROCHURE

PROFILE OF THE CELEBRANT.

It is with a joyous heart that I celebrate the golden anniversary of my birth. Most importantly, to thank
and celebrate God Almighty that has made it possible for me to witness and testify to this day as my life
has being very miraculous.

I was born by awesome parents Mr. & Mrs. Augustine Chukwujekwu a.k.a. AU Jah ( Ugokwesili) &
Ezinnem Ọ ma Mmiriaku. I was born on June 22 at Mother of Christ Hospital, in the Coal City of
Enugu fty wonderful and eventful years ago and counting. My nursery, primary, secondary and
tertiary education were respectively at Foundation Nursery School, New Haven Enugu, Zik Avenue
Primary School, Uwani Enugu, Girls High School Awkwunanaw, St. Cyprian Special Science School
Nsukka and a little stint at Institute of Management and Technology where I studied Computer
Science. These were most glorious and memorable years of my life that I remember often with
nostalgia. I got all the requisite qualications from these institutions listed above.

Without break and at the heels of the above, I got married to Barrister Stanley Mbamelu in 1991.
Thereafter, I moved to the United States of America. Upon arriving in New York, I got admission to
City College of the City University of New York, where I majored in Biochemistry. I was privileged to be
accepted into the prestigious National Institute of Health Minority Access to Research Career
program (NIH-MARC) on full scholarship. Currently a staff of CUNY, I have by dint of hard work,
acquired numerous academic and professional certicates, and awards from the University and from
outside of the CUNY system.

My stay and education in America introduced me to the real world and life. Despite all the individual
and family vicissitudes, I joggled simultaneously child bearing, education, work, domestic chores, wife
and motherhood duties without let and with equanimity. These experiences those days were at times
fullling and joyful and at other times harrowing. Worse of it all, were the health challenges that at
times being comatose I “ransitioned in and out” from the physical to the eternal. Needless to say, that
each of these experiences did leave their scars on me. I was very lucky to have the benets of my
beloved mom and dad my AU Jah (of blessed memory) stepping in to help me and my husband raise
our four sons, which allowed me to complete my college education. I will forever be indebted to them.
Daddy mu, my AU Jah, I know that you are looking down on us with love and celebrating with us. We
love you dearly and we miss you. And to my beloved mother who I still call mommy; mommy mu…you
have been my rock and my refuge when the going becomes tough. You have seen my struggles and my
triumphs and you. Thanks to you and your powerful prayers that has resulted in miracles in my life
and that of my children. Mommy, Ezinnem I may not say this often, but I want you to know that my
children and I love you so much. We pray that God will continue to give you long, healthy, and
prosperous life.

I would not have been here today giving all these testimonies but for the love of God that has woven me
into his fabrics, protected and guided my path right to the present day. My faith that I still practice to
date, has kept me grounded and hopeful. I consider myself more of an extrovert and bubbly you know
what… for those that knows me. Behind my stern appearance and demeanor as observed by some, is a
loving, caring and compassionate being.

Based on lessons learnt so far from my life’ journey, I will advise my fellow women and mothers that
challenges are facts of life, to take them stoically for they are all temporal and equips us for a better life
ahead. I have as I navigate this unpredictable life for the past fty years learnt that the future is all in
the present and that the past can neither be gone back to or changed. Equally, we cannot go to the
future but to live the future that we wish for if possible in its present realities (Ịẹ chi fo ta lu…. That
there is no future but present. The future and the present are the same point in time. As a result, we

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should not mortgage our present good desires and happiness to the future.
In conclusion, as I reminisce on my life travails, I cannot help but to thank God for his
immeasurable blessings, miracles and privileges that I have been blessed with. To my wonderful
parents, my siblings and of course my beloved all in all sons that gave me the raison d’étre I say
daalu nu, daalu nu rinne. And same to my husband with whom the “biblical injunction journey found
in Genesis 1:28 started.
Many special thanks to all my guests and well-wishers that found the time to make this day not only
joyful but memorable for me. As you depart to your respective destinations, I hope and pray that
you get home to your families safe, merrier and in a better spirit than when you left your home.
TO YOU ALL AND TO GOD ALMIGHTY I REMAIN ETERNALLY THANKFUL.

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Dear Nkem,
As you celebrate the golden birthday in your life , I wish to use this opportunity to
express my profound gratitude to the Almighty Lord for our wonderful union for
decades.
ndeed, you have stood as a beacon of inspiration, glamor and encouragement
throughout the union. Amid life challenges, you been a source of hope.
Your immeasurable personal contributions and sacrifices for the well-being of our
family are worthy of emulation.
You are an amazon to be reckoned with and to sum it up, I am eternally grateful
and indebted to you.
May the Almighty Lord grant you long life with good
health and happiness.
Happy Birthday, dear.
Stan

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OUR DEAR AND BELOVED MOTHER, CONFIDANT & OUR ROCK

Mother, we would love to say thank you, but a thankyou will never be enough for the
sacrifices you have made for us. Since birth, you provided for us and protected us.
Moreover, you made sure we had toys and goodies thecool American kids had. Without
you, our youth would never have been the same.

How can one ever forget the lengths you went to ensure we experienced a land we le
as kids? How can we forgetMother, we would love tosay thank you, but a thank you will
never be enough for the sacrifices you have made for us. Since birth, you provided for us
and protected us. Moreover, you made sure we had toys and goodies the cool American
kids had. Without you, our youth would never have been the same.

How can one ever forget the lengths you went to ensure we experienced a land we le as kids?
How can we forget the extents you went with your new york apples? Wrapping them up in
newspapers while traveling thousands of miles to reach us, insis ng you wanted us to taste a
country we could not remember as infants. How theseapples stayed intact, we would never know.
However, one thing is for sure, it speaks to the resiliency and will of a mother. You made sure that
your children were never le behind.

The strength of a mother is never to be underrated.For ages, as boys, we never knew the extent of
what you had to go through—working and looking out for your family and us as a young adult while
also finishing school. You ensured you shielded usfrom the challenges of being a parent un l we
were old enough to know the struggles of adulthood.

Truthfully we will never fully know the trial and tribula on that you navigated. In sickness and
health, you performed the role of a mother with aplomb, telling us things we needed to know about
your health only when we were ready to learn. How can we forget the night you called us together
to tell us the medical troubles you had been through, the risks, and the poten al outcome for the
future? You were terrified but stood strong. You ddi n't fully know the future, but you stayed calm.
You knew we would not fully understand, yet you made us understand by telling it as a light-hearted
story. The truth is that we all know what a great mother you have been. Not only to us but to all you
have crossed paths with.

Anywhere we go, we hear a tes mony of your goodness. Not an hour passes by in the City College
science building do we not hear students cha ng to their friends about how you have helped solve
their problems. You are a great mother to us, but more importantly, you are a great mother to
anyone who sought you out. You are a mother to anyworld you occupy.

They say the love of a mother is indescribable. S ll, we know the love of a mother is a miracle, the
love of a mother heals, the love of a mother protects, and the love of a mother paves the way-all
which your love has done for us. And for that, we say thank you, knowing that a "thank you" would
never be enough. May you live forever in good health.
We love you dearly,

Your sons

Nnaemeka, Nonso, Dubem & Arinze

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Ada mu, I thank God for keeping us alive to see this day. I am happy to be here
with you as you celebrate your 50th birthday. Indeed, it is more of a Thanksgiving
as you said. It has been quite a journey and in all we give glory and honor to God.
My prayer is that God will continue to guide and give you the wisdom, strength,
energy and peace to keep doing the work you are doing in your family, at your job
and in the community. May the coming days be better than the previous days.
May all your sacrifices never go unrewarded. You will live to enjoy your great
great grandchildren in good health. I will continue to pray for you. Nkemdilim,
may God continue to bless and protect you nne m.

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My Gracious sister

My family and I join your family, well wishers and friends to wish you the very
best as you celebrate your birthday today.
50 years is a milestone and it is worth celebrating. My dearest sister and friend.
Your life is a testimony of God's love. Ada Augustine, Ada Ide. The golden Lady.
You are beautiful inside out. Surely your new age looks good on you.
As you have landed safely on the fifth floor through the mercy of God, I pray
that the grace of God will always be sufficient for you to carry on. Goodness
and mercy of God will follow you all the days of your life. God will supply all
your needs and grant you your heart desires. You will live long in good health to
reap the fruit of your labour. You will walk and never stumble. May God keep
you under His watch and strengthen you to live to celebrate more glorious years
in Jesus name Amen.
Happy birthday my darling sister .Love you lots
Nze Ogechukwu Chukwujekwu and Family

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Happy 50th Birthday to an Amazing Cousin

Nkem,
Throughout our lives, you have been a great friend and a wonderful companion.
The age gap did not make too much difference in our rela onship. We cherish lots of happy and great memories
growing up together. Since we lived in the same area, we spent most of our me playing children’s games
together.
Your brilliant sense of humor made it fun to be around you. You are imagina ve and a person of high crea vity.
You are very organized and well-respected in your community because you are always willing to par cipate and
impart knowledge. You are indeed classy!
My prayer for you is God’s copious blessings upon your life, and sound health for you and your family.
The outstanding greatness of God’s favor will elevate you to a level higher than you have ever dreamed of. You will
live to celebrate many, many, happy birthdays ahead. And may you live to see your children’s children! Stormy
blessings are coming your way!
On behalf of my family and I, I wish you the best birthday ever. Enjoy your golden year!

Sir Joe/Lady Nkiru Anemelu & family

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In my eyes, you are and you will always be a great superstar. Because
you are the only who dared to chase the dreams regardless of what
others think about you. God's name is highly glorified in your life. This is
your best year yet. I love you. Have a wonderful birthday celebration
auntie❤
Chioma Chukwujekwu

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In Loving Memory
Mr. Augustine Chukwujekwu

(Ugokwesili)

We miss you daddy.

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ST CYPRAIN SPECIAL SCIENCE SCHOOL NSUKKA
OLD GIRLS ASSOCIATION (PIONEER SET)

MOTTO: Sisters United in Love for Greater Tomorrow

Tel: +2348178505050, +2348033094841

A GOLDEN BIRTHDAY WISHES TO A GREAT CLASSMATE

A Golden birthday wishes to you Nkemdilim aka Kemmy Baroka. Wao! Our own Kemmy has

stepped into the 5th floor. Girl, birthdays are inevitable, beau ful, and very par cular moments

in our lives! Moments that bring precious memories back, celebrate the present mes, and give

hope for the future. You’ve been a role model to so many, and always full of energy. Our own

‘Bull’ and accurate mekeeper who kept us alert for every ac vity in school. Our great bell

ringer but we always loved to hear the sound of ‘girls girls girls come and eat, come and

eat!

We cannot forget the bond we all shared in St. Cyprians Special Science School Nsukka and s ll

sharing.

Nkemdilim nee Chukwujekwu, Kemmy Chuks for short, your mates the Pioneer set, your fellow
Angels are praying for a greater you today. May your days be joyous. May all your wishes for this
day come true. Sweet Angel, today is the oldest you have been, and the youngest you will ever
be, make the most of it. The great thing about ge ng older is you don’t lose all the other ages
you have been. And the experience of all those ages makes a be er and greater you. Your
Pla num age celebra on will be MEGA. Long Life in good and sound health. Go on! Cut the cake
Swee e! Congratula ons and Happy Golden birthday celebra on !

SHALOM Secretary
President Chigoziennadozie
ConstanOckeeke Chigozie Nnaedozie
Constance Okeke

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Aunty Aunty, where do I even start…
I guess first, happy birthday and sorry I’m not there celebrating your special day with you but
I’m celebrating you nonetheless…
What do I love most about you? Maaaaaan I can’t pin point one thing as there’s so many of
them but at the top of the list is also how caring you are. You are probably one of the busiest
people I know with the tightest schedules but you never fail to look out…. making sure I’m set
and on top of classes, right from undergrad to linking me up with my first job (I still owe you a
paycheck ). Let’s not forget the fitness links you send me telling me to apply for things i maybe
interested in. That’s just how well you know me and how much you believe in me. Even the
“little” things that you do, I don’t take for granted, like inviting my foodie self to events you
organize just to come get food and just being there to listen…the list goes on and on
This new year, the big 50, I pray for nothing short of sound health for you, growth, happiness
and love all round you, unlimited blessing and some time off to get that break which you
soooooo deserve lol. All I want you to know is YOU ARE UNMEASURABLE
From Amy A ROYALHIGHNESS!!!

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Sir Chika and Lady Dr Ify Obi-Okoye wish Mrs Nkem Mbamelu (nee Chukwujekwu)
a fabulous 50th!
Welcome to the 5th floor.
Wishing you a blessed and fruitful year.
Enjoy your day!

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Kemy my sister from another mother!
We have known since the 80’s , lived in the same hostel. We have admired each
other back then and got each other’s back. It’s amazing that 33 years later after
school we are still in touch. We may not talk every day but we are in each other’s
thoughts and prayers. Kemy, that day you visited home and came to see me in the
hospital made me feel so much loved. You have continued to check up on us when
ever you are home. The last time you came in to the country even with your tight
schedule, you found your way to commiserate with my family . Kemy, it’s only a
sister who’s heart is golden can be this loving and caring. All I can offer is my
prayers that God’s Grace abound in your life to sustain you in your vicissitudes of
life .
It’s your fiftieth birthday and it can only be God that have blessed us with the gifts
of you. Happy birthday.
Engr. Dr. Obiageli Abba
SPA to Enugu State Governor on PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND
IMPLEMENTATION

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The Oguejiofors' family is wishing a hearty congratulations to my PP (personal person) . Your life
is a miracle, a testimony worthy of being celebrated. Being 50 is a privilege and grace from God.
You have inspired me ever since I met you, and that is why you became my personal person.
When I look at you, I see God's handiwork manifesting because I know what you have been
through, and I'm not saying that people don't go through stuff in life because we all do, but it's
not my story to tell, and that's all I can say. I'm happy to have known you and privileged to
celebrate you; your strength is impeccable. Is it in your dedication to your work, church activities,
communities you belong to, or social affairs? Sometimes it is your motivation that goes above
and beyond that pushes people to stand and do the things they already branded impossible to
become possible. People who have identified with you can relate to what I'm saying.
Nkem, you are one true friend who would stand by one's side and give the person the boost and
confidence like no other, both financial, physical, and otherwise. You are kind, loving, and most
of all, God-fearing. You are fearless, a great adventurer. I remember when AFNB decided on a
wellness program during the Covid-19 pandemic. I remember your strength and energy pulled
many people to the program because those who knew you were like, if Nkem could do this every
day relentlessly, then I should enroll as a life member. Shot This is some of the reasons you will
remain my quintessential personal person, and I'm glad that I'm celebrating this milestone with
you. Thank you for always being there for me.
Congratulations on this milestone and many more years to come. I know you plan to celebrate
but most importantly, to thank God for your life. My family prayer for you is you will live to see
your boys get married; you will enjoy your daughter's-in-law, and they, in turn, will bless you with
grandchildren and your mom with great-grandchildren. I know she is very proud of you. We all
are. Happy quinquagenarian birthday, my pp.

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We join your teeming friends and family to wish you a resounding happy birthday @ 50,may
you continue to draw from God's blessings to enjoy good health and prosperity.
Congratulations
Chief & Lolo Jude Umeokeke

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Happy Birthday to Our Dear Friend Nkem

Dear Nkem,

It is our pleasure and immense honor to join you today as you celebrate your

fiftieth birthday. We wish you a fabulous and fun-filled day and join you in
thanking God for your beautiful life and its many wonderful blessings. We are
here today not only to celebrate with you but also to show you how much you
are admired and loved. You have been blessed with wonderful family and
friends, impressive wisdom, captivating intelligence, and such radiant energy
which enlivens all who are blessed to meet you. You are a role model to many,
and a gift to all who know you. Today marks the beginning of more beautiful
things to come and we hope to be there to celebrate it all. We wish you
abundant joy, peace and health and pray for you to remain abundantly blessed
in Jesus name Amen

Sir Valentine & Lady Ifeoma Okwuka
( Onwa N’eti Eti / Osodieme)

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Congratulations on Your Birthday Celebration!

This is to wish you, Nkem, a very Happy Birthday from Fab & Oby Eyisi and family.
I met Nkem for the first time in her office almost twenty years ago. I was smitten by her
professionalism and humility. Her candor and politeness were unprecedented. She
made a remarkable impression on me. I thought within me that it would be
unconscionable if I failed to know more about her. I saw from the name plate on her
table which read, “Nkem Stanley Mbamelu” that she was Igbo. I therefore made bold to
ask what part of the Igboland she was from. She immediately obliged me with details of
her origin. I was astounded and happy to learn she is not only from my state but married
to a person I know very well.

I was superfluously elated considering my mission to her office was to ask how my kid
was faring having been newly admitted to City University of New York. I was hoping to
find a guardian for my daughter in the campus. It became obvious to me that my
mission was partially accomplished. From that first meeting to date we forged a family
relationship that has remained ever close. She willingly accepted to look after my
daughter, assist and monitor her as she overcame the cultural shock of coming to school
in America from Nigeria. Since then, we have evolved into a cordial family relationship.

Nkem facilitated my decision to send my other children to CUNY. She was always there
for my kids as they journeyed through college. She mentored, advised, supported and
cared for them while ensuring they remained focused on achieving their academic goals.
We are happy to celebrate with you on this milestone in your life. You deserve to pop
the bottles because at the age of fifty your achievements speak volume of your
personality.

On behalf of my wife and children, we are wishing you a successful celebration and a
very happy birthday. Our prayer is that God will continue to bless you, your kids and
your extended family. May your days be long and may favor follow you all the days of
your life.

Signed

Fabian Eyisi

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I am wishing you happy birthday, God’s protection, prosperity, good
health and a very good long life in Jesus name.
Franca Ogbonna

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Happy Fabulous 50, Nkem!!

Nkem my dear, once you turn 50, you realize that life is a wonderful journey.
Welcome to the real middle age!!You are amazing and you exude a contagious
sparkling personality. May God continue to bless your remaining birthdays with
great favors. Here's to the next 5th floor.

Love,
Lolo Tessy Obioha (Akwaugo 1 of NYC)

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU MY BEAUTIFUL DIVA! AS YOU TOP-UP TODAY MAY THE
GOOD LORD CONTINUE TO KEEP AND PRESEEVE YOU,MAY THE LORDS FAVOUR AND
GRACE BE SUFFICIENT TO YOU.YOU WILL LIVE TO REAP THE FRUIT OF YOUR
LABOUR IN JESUS NAME,AMEN!!! NKEM CONTINUE TO SOAR LIKE THE EAGLE THAT
YOU ARE! I LOVE YOU SO MUCH SIS.CONGRATULATIONS ZIONS
DAUGHTER.........FROM HER MAJESTY LADY CHIKA KELVIN UGWU.( Nee Akubue)

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Happy Birthday To My Darling Kemmy
Today is about you
Here’s to 50 years of Awesomeness ❤
You’re 50 and fabulous and I pray the good lord blesses you and guides
you in all your endeavors
We’re all so lucky to have had half a century of wonderful, brilliant,you
Wishing you a fun filled fabulous 50th
I wish you all the good things coming in the years. , you deserve peace ,
love, success and good health

Nwafor Grace Chinyere Okoli

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The Mba family rejoices and celebrates with our beautiful friend
Kemmy on her golden age.
We glorify the almighty God for his blessings and love upon you
beautiful friend.
Praying that he will give you extra 50 in Jesus name amen.
Let the celebration continue.
Happy birthday Kemmy.

Love,
Pauli and Chinwe Mba
Miami Florida.

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NKEM @ 50, CONGRATULATIONS!
I rejoice with you on the occasion of your 50th birthday celebration/ thanksgiving
today. 50 years is the age when life gives a second chance to you. It is the time
to turn and start life's new page to add more accomplishments to your life
achievements. Enjoy the best of this fabulous day. Thanks and be assured of my
prayers & best wishes today and always. Happy birthday!

Fr. Martin Ene.
Archdiocese of New York.

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Sir Bart & Lady Eunice Ogbennaya
Congratulates Nkem Mbamelu on her 50th Birthday.

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Congratulations! Wishing you many more years to come.
Engr. Mezue Eyisi

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The family of Prince Iyke and Princess Dr. Victoria Ihemmadu wish to congratulate
Our Amiable friend and Sister on this occasion of her Golden Jubilee Birthday
celebration. We rejoice with you today and pray that you will celebrate many more
years in Good health and plenty.

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