A words for you

Hello my dear, maisarah. Here i write a little letter for u cuz i remember u
said to me that u like to write a letter for ur friend. HAHA trust me this one
cringe af and i would definitely regret it. Sorry if it was not good enough
because this is the first time i ever write for someone. i just want to thank u
for what u did to me even the tiny little things i still appreciate it. i really
do. Im sorry if it seems like i didn’t appreciate it enough but i swear, only
god know how much i cherish those things that u did. I know we just met
and i still cannot judge who you really are but trust me, i was ready to
embrace all your goodness and flaws. And If one day we ever get into fight
or get hurt from each other, promise me u wont give up on me .I cannot
afford losing someone that i love anymore. I want us forever. I want u to be
my home,my ride or die,the rich aunty to my child and the one who actually
stay :’) You know 2022 was the worst year i’ve ever been but i couldn’t hate
it enough because it was the same year where i met u :’) Thank u for giving
me the slightest hope for that year. I want u to know that whenever u feel
down or sad just remember i will..not just ‘will’ but i would ‘love’ to hear
what hurting u inside.And even if u can’t say a words to me that time, i
would still sit there and listen to ur sadness. My dear, If you ever feel like
you are not good enough just remember i am here always thinking you are
the greatest person i ever met. I really meant it! You deserve the world my
dearrrrr and i wish i could give it to u…Sayang, lets make this 4years the
greatest of our life and so do the next :’) Love you.

Quotes for you cuz u deserve it:’)

You can't skip chapters, that's not how life
works. You have to read every line, meet every
character. You won't enjoy all of it.
Some chapters will make you cry for weeks.
You will read things you don't want to read,
you will have moments when you don't want
the pages to end. But you have to keep going.

As you get older,
you realize that you're not always right
and there's so many things you
could've handled better, so many
situations where you could've been
kinder and all you can really do is
forgive yourself and let your mistakes
make you a better person.

You don't have to know what comes next. You don't
have to have everything figured out right this
second. You don't need to know your entire story.
You are a living, changing, growing soul riding
through your unique and beautiful journey of life.
And that's exactly what it is- a journey- and it
wouldn't be a journey if you knew everything that
was coming next. It wouldn't be a journey if you
knew how it would all turn out in the end. So be
patient with yourself and smile at the not knowing,
because your story is just starting to be written.

life isn’t easy
as the days, years, go by...
you may find that your purpose becomes
more complicated.
What am I supposed to do?
Who am I supposed to be?
Is this the right path for me?
So many questions will fill your mind, but the
truth is that you may never have these answers.
But that's okay. Those questions are enough
without any answer.
Create answers by listening to your intuition,
trust it and make moves based on it.
Life isn't easy, but the greatest thing you can do
is trust and believe in yourself.

Decide,
You are the only one in charge of your destiny.
Unfair things may happen to you,
unfortunate times may come to you, but
you always get to choose how you respond.
You can live in frustration and bitterness, or
you can be the bigger person and just play the
hell out of the cards you are dealt.
The truth is,
that not a single person can choose the cards
they receive, but everyone can chooses how
they play with their cards.

It's okay to not fit in. You don't need to bend and break
yourself to simply earn someone's acceptance. You don't need
to spend all of your time doing something you don't even like
to earn others' approval. Learn to be uniquely yourself instead.
Remember that the only ones who ever changed history were
the ones who dared to listen and act upon their own ideas.
They might have been judged and critisized, but they dared
listen to their own hearts and changed the world because of it.
So be independent. Be bold... Because when it really comes
down to it, the only person's acceptance you need is your own.

if you're laying in bed wrapped up
in sheets of miserable thought,
go to sleep

if thumbing through old messages only causes
your heart to ache and long for something
unattainable,
erase them

if it hurts to keep everything you're feeling
bottled up inside,
let it out

if you're clinging onto someone that doesn't treat
you like you're worth the world,
let them go

because sometimes we choose to believe that
things are only indistinguishable shades of grey
when in reality,
life is more black and white than it seems
if you're unhappy with the way
you are living your life change it

There are people who notice you only when you shine, or when you
fall into the darkness. Not the average you. Not the mediocre you. But
the great you, or the not-so-great you. The people who are worthiest of
your care are not those who only notice you at your best and worst but
those who see you at all times. They don't need an excuse to love you.
They don't need an excuse to talk to you, or to ask you how you're
doing. They don't need an excuse to share their happiness with you.
They don't need an explanation. They give you one without you asking
for it. They assume the good in you before the bad. So keep eyes open
just so you don't miss those people. Once you find them, never let
them go because those are not just friends but family members.
They're life companions. They are the people who will tell you when
you are wrong simply because they've allowed themselves to tie their
well-being to yours.

banyak hal
yang kau kira biasa
namun luar biasa bagi orang lain
banyak hal
yang kau kira sampah namun anugerah bagi orang lain
banyak hal
yang kau kira percuma namun segalanya bagi orang
lain
di bumi ini kita tidak hidup sendiri
yang paling diam lisannya
bisa jadi yang paling ramai pikirannya
juga yang jauh melangkah pergi bisa jadi yang paling
ingin untuk kembali

At this age, everything is changing.
Day by day we dont notice, but just look
back over the past year and you will realise
everything has. People you thought that were
going to be there forever aren't, and people
you never imagined you'd be speaking to are
now some of your closest friends.
Life makes little sense, and the more we
grow the less sense it will make.
So make the most of now, before it all
changes once again, because in the near
future, all of this is only going to be
memories.

you treat them like they
have a heart like yours.
you give and give till
they pull everything out
of you and leave you
empty.

There are some people who
could hear you speak a
thousand words and still not
understand you.
And there are others who
will understand without you
even speaking a word.

It's okay to be different. It's okay to not follow the
crowd. It's okay to be weird. It's okay to make your
own path. And it's okay to see the world differently.
The worst thing that you could possibly do is
pretend to be someone you're not, just to squish
yourself into someone else's standards. My lovely
friend, make your own standards. Be bravely
yourself. Stand out. Walk in the other direction. Be
yourself no matter what, and the rest will work
itself out.

Sometimes you think that you want to
disappear but all you really want is
to be found.

Sometimes we get so caught up in life that we forget
that we don't always have to be busy; we don't always
need to be checking our email or rushing to the next
thing. We need to remind ourselves that it's okay and
absolutely necessary to slow it all down. To take a
break and enjoy nature. To turn off the tv and simply
be together. To enjoy a game of cards. To ask our kids
what they're wondering about. To call our parents. To
watch the sunrise. To enjoy the smell of a burning
candle... We must never forget to enjoy the little
things because they are never as little as we think.

There is a big difference between who
wipes your tears and who keeps your
tears away.

Remember
to say no, when saying yes becomes too hard.
to give yourself time to heal and love again,
there's no reason
to rush things.
to schedule time.
to take care of everything.

sometimes life may be frustrating. But my dear,
you are strong.
you are capable.
you are worthy.

it is not love if all they want
from you is to fulfill
their expectations.

You know how sometimes you aren't even
aware you have a paper cut until you use
hand sanitizer?

Then all of a sudden, it hurts so much, but a
second ago you had no idea the cut even
existed.

I think healing is like that.
Sometimes you don't even know there's a part
of you that's still hurt until something comes
along that forces you to become aware of it,
forcing you to deal with it.

You can't force someone to respect
you, but you can refuse to be
disrespected.

Stop asking why they keep
doing it and start asking why
you keep allowing it.

You deserve someone who brings
peace to your chaos and loves
you to pieces.

Hurting someone can be as
easy as throwing a stone in
the sea. But do you have any
idea how deep that stone can
go?

Look at you, comforting
others with the words you
wish to hear.

"Perhaps one did not want to be loved
so much as to be understood."

-George Orwell, 1984

learn to wait for the stars
on days when sunset
doesn't feel like a poetry.

They won't treat you better if you
keep giving them more of what
they already don't appreciate.

And if tomorrow
does not bring better,
then may it bring the
promise that one day, it will
be.

i will tell you about selfish people. even when they know they will
hurt you, they walk into your life to taste you because you are the
type they don't want to miss out on. you have too much shine in you
to not be felt. so when they have gotten a good look at everything you
have to offer. when they have taken your skin your hair your secrets
with them.

that is when the cowardice sets in. that is when the person you
thought they were, is replaced by the sad reality of what they really
are. that is when they lose every fighting bone in their body and leave
you hanging.

you will stand there naked with half of them still hidden somewhere
inside you. asking them why they did it. why they forced you to love
them when they had no intention of loving you back.

This isn't romantic. it isn't sweet. the idea that they were so engulfed
by your existence they had to risk breaking it for the sake of knowing
they weren't the one missing out. your existence meant so little next
to their curiosity of you.

Fulfilling their
expectations is not love,
when yours are sidelined
everytime.

Nothing lasts forever. Everything is
momentary. They all flow away.
And that's not always a bad thing.

Perhaps one did not want to be
loved so much as to be
understood.

- George Orwell, 1984

you didn't go through all
that for nothing

Tidak akan ada yang baik-baik saja
dengan kehilangan.
Semanis apa pun perpisahan,
rasanya tidak akan pernah jadi
menyenangkan.

Tutup telingamu untuk
hal-hal yang menyakiti
hatimu, tutup mulutmu
untuk hal-hal yang
menyakiti hati orang lain

"Aku berteman dengan banyak orang,
kusangka tanganku sudah penuh.
Tapi saat aku sedang diuji,
kudapati sahabat-sahabatku (seperti masa
dalam tipuan) tak tersisa walau seorang.
Ketika aku terpencil dan terabai pilu,
orang terjahat mencaci-makiku.
Ketika aku sakit dan menderita,
orang terbaik pun tak pernah tiba.
Saat mereka melihatku bahagia,
kebahagiaanku menyusahkan hati mereka.
Saat mereka melihatku susah,
kesusahanku membahagiakan mereka."

"Ketika kamu menyampaikan kebenaran,
kamu akan mendapatkan tiga reaksi:

Orang cerdas yang merenung;
Orang bodoh yang tersinggung;
Dan orang yang bersikap tak peduli
namun di dalam hati dan pikirannya
bingung."

Semesta ini akan terus melaju. Tidak
peduli telah memberimu cerita yang
pelik. Yang jelas kamu harus tetap
melangkah mengikuti mampumu.
Bukan maumu.

If you ever see a person happy, promise me
that you won’t get jealous,
just rejoice, be happy for them.
Only God knows if that person may have
cried before it.

Say no.
A 'No' for someone else is a 'Yes' for you.
It's a form of self respect. Don't please to
make someone else feel at ease.

Ungrateful people complain
about the one thing you
haven't done for them
instead of being thankful for
the thousands of things you
have done for them.

You could give some people a
drop of water, and they'd still
appreciate you.

You could give other people the
entire ocean, and they'd still take
you for granted.

Never waste your time
trying to explain who you
are to people who ave
committed to
misunderstanding you.

People will notice the change in
your attitude towards them, but
won't notice their behavior that
made you change.

And when it all feels dull,
It's okay to take your own time to shine,
even the sun & moon take turns to light
up the sky.

People are never fully present in the
now, because unconsciously they
believe that the next moment must be
more important than this one.
But then, they miss their whole life,
which is never now.

We’ve been telling ourself
that we are working toward a better self,
but in reality, we were chasing
society's validation, not our own.

There are silences inside you that you have yet
to explore.
There are things inside you that are still
fighting a war.
Some days will be unkind
Some days you will want to forget
But stay for those days
that are worth more than all the rest.
Be easy on your soul it needs softness it needs
time it needs patience.