Weddings
Introduction
Warm and welcoming with an air of quiet, rural charm – Yew Lodge Country House is a classic Victorian house offering a top-class service for weddings. Named after the 800 year old tree in the beautiful 10 acre gardens, the estate is steeped in history, with first references dating back to 959ad. The house as it stands now was built around 1891, with substantial enhancements carried out over the years, including a new facility built in 2010, especially designed for wedding celebrations.
Exclusively for You
One of the great benefits of coming to Yew Lodge Country House is that you will have sole use of all the facilities in total privacy and seclusion. It is an intimate venue and many people have commented favourably on the special atmosphere.
For the wedding breakfast we offer a choice of two reception areas – both with direct access to patios and the gardens. For small, intimate weddings of up to 50 seated guests, we have the Oak Suite, so called due to the oak panelling in the main room, complimented by silk screens, which are part of the original building. For up to 130 seated guests, we have the Sycamore Suite, recently built and incorporating classic quality with modern features such as air conditioning. For evening receptions or more informal dining we can accommodate 180 guests in total.
As well as your choice of reception suites, guests can also enjoy the beauty and tranquillity of the gardens – whatever the season they provide the ideal opportunity to take in some fresh air and wonderful views.
Working in Partnership
We are an independent, family-run business, with a passion for quality and have been hosting weddings since 2006. We will be with you every step of the way to offer tips, guidance and re-assurance to ensure everything is how you would like it to be and the whole occasion is a great success.
“The wedding reception was truly amazing. The house, the gardens, the food made for a wonderful day. We cannot thank you enough. Just brilliant!”
DUNCAN & CAROLINE HALL Church Wedding & Reception
“Thank you so much for providing the perfect venue for our wedding day, we enjoyed every single moment. The whole day was perfect and we had so many lovely comments from our guests saying what a beautiful venue Yew Lodge was and the amazing wedding breakfast.”
LUKE & YOLANDA POTTER Church Wedding & Reception
“We were truly delighted with all the arrangements and the service we received from all of your team. It was a fabulous day and we cannot thank you enough.”
DAVID & MARIA BENSLEY Civil Ceremony & Reception
The Wedding Ceremony
We are licensed for civil ceremonies and partnerships, so your whole wedding celebration can take place at Yew Lodge Country House. Indoor weddings can be held at any time of the year and Outside weddings can be held May-September. Alternatively, several churches representing the main denominations are close by.
Wedding Reception
The contemporary styled Sycamore Suite has high ceilings, air conditioning sparkly floor and mood lighting, and can seat up to 130 for the wedding breakfast.
For more intimate weddings of 2 - 50 guests, the traditional Oak Suite in the main house has oak panelling, silk screens and many original features from the “arts & craft” period.
Both suites are on the ground floor with lots of natural lighting and direct access to their own patio and the gardens.
Catering
Knowing that good food, fine wine and attentive service are vital ingredients for the success of any event, Yew Lodge Country House offers a bespoke range of catering services. Having our own resident chef and kitchen team enables us to design menus to suit your individual taste and budget and we have established an excellent reputation for the quality of our catering.
Accommodation
Overnight accommodation is available, and we have a luxurious bridal suite and 10 additional en-suite bedrooms (including two family rooms).
“We feel so lucky to have found Yew Lodge and we have many happy memories of our wedding day. We really enjoyed the gardens where we got some fabulous photos and the food was fantastic. The staff were so attentive and went above and beyond to add a few little touches.”
ROB & MEL BENNETT Church Wedding & Reception
Our Wedding Venue at a Glance
“Exclusively Yours” Venue Hire
The history of Yew Lodge Country House goes back to 959AD and we offer exclusive use of all facilities, including both traditional features in the main house and a stylish wedding suite with air conditioning, sparkly floor and mood lighting.
Ceremony Type
Reception only or licensed for civil weddings and civil ceremonies/ partnerships
Indoor Weddings
Up to 95 seated guests.
Outside Weddings
Licensed for outside weddings May to September inclusive.
Gardens
Beautiful 10 acre gardens, with magnificent 900 year old Yew tree, level lawns, patios, flower beds, shrubs and light woodland
Inside Space
Choice of two suites, each with reception room; separate bar & all facilities; plus direct access to a private patio and gardens
Seated Meal Capacity
Oak Suite (2 - 50 for small, intimate receptions) or Sycamore Suite Up to 130, for larger gatherings)
Total Venue Capacity
150 (including evening guests)
Honeymoon Suite
Spacious and very attractive bedroom with lovely views over the gardens, full size en-suite bathroom & double bath
Guest Accommodation
10 en-suite bedrooms including two family rooms (24 total guests). Plenty of additional accommodation available in local hotels (budget & 4 star) & guest houses - all 5-15 minutes by car/taxi
Menus
Recommended menus or bespoke menus offered. Special dietary requirements catered for.
Separate children’s menu, if preferred
Licensed Bar
Yes
Musical Entertainment
We have our own resident DJ or you are welcome to book your own DJ; band; singers; individual/ small group musicians
Photography/Video
Both inside and outside - visit the photo gallery on our website
Fireworks
Allowed
Candles
Allowed
Parking
Two car parks providing plenty of private, off road parking for all guests
Disabled Access
Yes
Location
Secluded yet not remote; Felcourt is situated on the Surrey / West Sussex / Kent borders, between Lingfield and East Grinstead. We are surrounded by open countryside, yet only 5 minutes from the railway network and A22; 20 minutes from Caterham; Tunbridge Wells; Gatwick Airport; and M23/ M25/M26 motorways
Wedding Venue Prices
To see if Yew Lodge Country House is your dream wedding venue we’d love you to come for a showround and see everything we have to offer. As a guide, to hold your wedding at Yew Lodge Country House prices are given here based on a classic wedding celebration. However, if you would like something different we are more than happy to discuss this with you. We can then give you a personal quotation based on your own special wishes, giving you a unique wedding that’s as individual as you are!
What’s included?
• Advice and guidance from our expert in-house team who will be with you every step of the way in the lead up to your wedding and on the day
• Exclusive use of Yew Lodge Country House & gardens on the day of your wedding
• Private car parking for 100 cars
• A maximum number of 130 guests during the day and a total of 150 for the evening party. We ask for a minimum number of day/evening guests which depends on the day and month of your wedding date (see table overleaf).
• Honeymoon Suite for the wedding couple on the night of your wedding
• Civil Ceremony indoor facilities; outdoors option May - September (Registrar fees not included)
• Reception drink (one flute of prosecco or soft drink per person)
• Three course wedding breakfast (special dietary requirements catered for). Optional children’s menu
• 1⁄2 bottle of house wine per adult during the meal (and jugs of iced tap water)
• Toasts (one flute of prosecco per adult)
• Savoury evening buffet menu options
• Chairs, tables, table linen (white cloths & napkins)
• Crockery; cutlery; & glasses
• Flowers (if you are not using your own florist) – one large vase of flowers for general display and one small vase of flowers for each dining table
• Easel, table plan, table names/numbers & holders, place name cards & table menus
• Complimentary use of our antique silver cake stand (round) & knife
• Food and wine tasting in advance of your day
Price Per Person for Year: 2021
Monday - Thursday
Friday & Sunday
Saturday
Extra per Evening Guest All Days
Minimum No. of Day/ Evening Adult Guests
40
50
60
Total capacity of 150 guests
October – April (ex. December)
£65 per adult £38 per child
£80 per adult £38 per child
£95 per adult £38 per child
Adult: Child:
£15.00 No charge
May – September & December
£80 per adult £44 per child
£95 per adult £44 per child
£110 per adult £44 per child
Adult: Child:
£17.00 No charge
Price Per Person for Year: 2022
Monday - Thursday
Friday & Sunday
Saturday
Extra per Evening Guest All Days
Minimum No. of Day/ Evening Adult Guests
40
50
60
Total capacity of 150 guests
October – April (ex. December)
£70 per adult £42 per child
£85 per adult £42 per child
£100 per adult £42 per child
Adult: Child:
£16.00 No charge
May – September & December
£85 per adult £48 per child
£100 per adult £48 per child
£115 per adult £48 per child
Adult: Child:
£18.00 No charge
Price Per Person for Year: 2023
Monday - Thursday
Friday & Sunday
Saturday
Extra per Evening Guest All Days
Minimum No. of Day/ Evening Adult Guests
40
50
60
Total capacity of 150 guests
October – April (ex. December)
£75 per adult £45 per child
£90 per adult £45 per child
£105 per adult £45 per child
Adult: Child:
£17.00 No charge
May – September & December
£90 per adult £50 per child
£105 per adult £50 per child
£120 per adult £50 per child
Adult: Child:
£19.00 No charge
Additional Options
2021
2022
2023
Reception canapés, per person
From £7.00
From £7.50
From £8.00
Voile backdrop with fairy lights behind the top table
£350
£375
£400
Chair cover & coloured sash per chair (complimentary coordinating table runner per dining table)
£3.60
£3.75
£3.90
Yew Lodge resident DJ - (or you are welcome to organise your own DJ or band)
From £350
From £375
From £400
11 guest bedrooms, all en-suite (to add to your account or for each guest to pay for)
From £65.00
From £70
From £75
“Thank you so much for making our wedding day so special and memorable. Everything was wonderful from the food to the venue itself. Our guests said it was the best wedding they had ever attended!”
PAUL & VICTORIA DUNNETT Civil Ceremony & Reception
Wedding Menu Options
Canapés
Depending on the timing of your wedding and reception, canapés aren’t always required and so we don’t include
them in our wedding package as standard. However, we can easily provide them as an additional option and the following selection of canapés is offered with the aim of meeting both individual preferences and budgets. Each menu has been especially chosen by our chef to suit a range of tastes and dietary requirements. However, you are welcome to “mix and match” or even suggest some of your own favourites. Once agreed, the menu and price becomes fixed.
Classic Menu
Please choose four from the following:
Smoked salmon blinis, served with crème fraîche & chives Mature Cheddar & onion straws (v)
Tandoori chicken skewers
Bruschetta Classico (tomato, onion, garlic, olive oil) on crostinis (v) Cocktail sausages with a honey and toasted sesame seed glaze Tomato, Brie & black olive kebab (v)
Chicken liver parfait with chutney on toasted ciabatta
Devils & Angels on horseback (prunes & apricots wrapped in Pancetta)
The price per person is £7.00 for 2021; £7.50 for 2022 & £8.00 for 2023
Premium Menu
Please choose four from the following::
Soy marinated chicken, green pepper & pineapple skewer
Baked new potatoes with Red Leicester (v)
Smoked salmon & cream cheese roulades
Aromatic duck pancakes
Mini toad in the hole
Garlic crostini with goats cheese & red onion marmalade (v)
King prawns wrapped in mange tout, with a sweet chilli dip
Crostini of Parma ham, tomato & Mozzarella
Mini lamb koftas with mint yoghurt dip
Caramelised sundried tomato tarte tatin with goats cheese (v) Scallops wrapped in bacon, finished with balsamic, served on a cocktail stick
The price per person is £8.50 for 2021; £9.25 for 2022 & £10.00 for 2023
For more informal dining, canapés can be served with the drinks reception, followed by a two course meal, as an alternative to a three course meal. Please ask for further information and inclusive prices.
All prices include VAT and are subject to change without notice.
Wedding Breakfast - Three Course Meal
This menu is included in our wedding package and is based on you selecting one choice from each course for all guests (dishes with supplementary prices in addition).
For a truly gourmet meal, extra courses can be added, for example, a separate soup course to start with; a fish course; sorbet; or a separate cheese course at the end of the meal. Please ask for further details and prices.
To Start
Chicken liver paté with red onion marmalade & salad garnish
Fan of melon with cold water prawns with marie rose sauce & salad garnish
Pear, date & caramelised walnut salad with creamy blue cheese dressing (v)
Seasonal vegetable soup with crème fraîche & bacon lardons (or herb croutons)
Warm goats cheese & beetroot with rocket & balsamic dressed salad
A duo of fanned melon with Parma ham and mango coulis
Crispy aromatic duck salad, with toasted sesame seeds & plum dressing
Tomato, basil & mozzarella salad with green pesto (v)
Thai spiced fish cake with lime, chilli & ginger sauce
Prawn bisque with garlic croutons
Caesar salad (with anchovies)
Creamy bubble & squeak soup with crispy bacon lardons (herb croûtons option for vegetarians)
Per person supplement for the following: 2021: £2.50; 2022: £3.00; 2023: £3.50
Tartlet of roast Mediterranean vegetables, in a savoury egg custard, rocket salad & green pesto (v)
Fresh & smoked salmon salad niçoise
Duck liver parfait, served with pomegranate, rocket, watercress & spinach salad
Caramelised baby onion tart tatin, with goats cheese, slow roasted tomato & herb salad (v)
Delicate paté of smoked trout, chives & horseradish
Salad of smoked chicken and mixed leaves, with bacon lardons & garlic croutons, dressed in a hazelnut vinaigrette Sautéed asparagus, toasted almonds & Manchego cheese (v)
Pork terrine with apricots & Pistachios, apple & sultana chutney & melba toast
Fresh salmon & prawn tower with white crabmeat & smoked salmon
Main Course
(served with a choice of potatoes & seasonal vegetables)
Roast chicken breast in a cream & tarragon sauce
Jewelled cous cous (peppers) topped with roasted Mediterranean vegetables, goats cheese & red pesto (v)
Slow cooked belly of pork, served with sage stuffing & caramelised apples
Seared supreme of salmon with a tomato, olive & caper sauce
Roasted vegetables & leeks in a white wine sauce & Caerphilly cheese crumble topping (v)
Roast saddle of lamb, infused with rosemary & garlic
Creamy risotto of wild mushrooms with shaved Parmesan & rocket (v)
Classic roast chicken breast with chipolata, bacon rasher & sage stuffing
Medley of salmon & seafood in a white wine, cream & chive sauce
Steak Chasseur (individual steak, slowly braised in the oven with baby onions, mushrooms and white wine sauce) Ricotta cheese, spinach & nutmeg ravioli, with white wine & Parmesan sauce (v)
Butternut squash & pine nut risotto cakes with roasted Mediterranean vegetables, pesto, shaved Parmesan and balsamic reduction (v) Pork medallions with a cream & peppercorn sauce
Per person supplement for the following: 2021: £3.50; 2022: £4.00; 2023: £4.50
Roast sirloin of beef, horseradish, Yorkshire pudding & a rich red wine gravy
Pot roast shank of lamb, braised in red wine & rosemary, served with red current jus on a bed of spring onion mash Pine nut & parmesan crusted loin of cod, with herb beurre blanc
Pan fried duck breast, finished in the oven with cherry & port wine sauce
Fillet of salmon Wellington, filled with spinach, cream cheese & Parmesan, served with a white wine and tarragon sauce Rack of lamb with Dijon mustard & herb crust
To Follow
Chocolate brownie with vanilla ice cream & white chocolate anglais Fresh fruit platter with clotted cream & Langue d’Chat
Lemon posset with fresh raspberries & shortbread biscuit
Baked vanilla cheesecake with red berry compote
Seasonal fruit crumble & custard sauce
Profiteroles, filled with orange crème Chantilly & served with chocolate sauce Individual pavlova (meringue) with cream & mixed summer berries Tangy lemon tart with raspberry coulis
Grand Marnier crème brulée with raspberries
Strawberry shortbread stack
White chocolate tiramisu with cardamom coffee
Coconut & lime panna cotta with pistachio tuille biscuit & lime syrup
Per person supplement for the following: 2021: £2.50; 2022: £3.00; 2023: £3.50
Caramel, pecan & dark chocolate tart with clotted cream
Classic summer pudding with whipped vanilla cream
A rich, dark chocolate marquis with caramelised orange & Grand Marnier
Terrine of summer berries set in sparkling wine, with clotted cream
Individual apple or pear tart tatin with vanilla ice cream & drizzled with butterscotch sauce Trio of cheeses with biscuits, grapes, celery & chutney
To Finish
Tea/coffee & mints
We have our own chef and catering team and can cater for all special dietary requirements with no additional charge. We also have a separate Children’s Menu for children aged 2-11 years – please ask for details.
We are always happy to discuss any ideas you may have and if you have a favourite dish you would like to include do let us know. All prices include VAT and are subject to change without notice.
Evening Wedding Reception
Included in our wedding package is your choice of one of the following for the evening reception:
Savoury Hot & Cold Finger Buffet
Selection of sandwiches & wraps (inc. v) Vegetarian quiche selection (v) Lamb koftas with mint yoghurt Chicken satay
Garlic & lime marinated tiger prawns
Crudités & dips (v)
Cocktail sausages with a honey & toasted sesame seed glaze
The wedding cake is often served at the same time.
International Cheese & Paté Buffet
Choice of three fine cheeses (English Stilton; French Brie; & Mature Cheddar) Chicken liver paté
Selection of biscuits and speciality breads
Grapes & celery; Pickled onions & gherkins
The wedding cake is often served at the same time.
BBQ style” Finger Buffet”
“BBQ style” finger buffet, cooked on the BBQ then served in gastronomes:
Beef burgers in baps
Pork sausages in rolls
Lemon & herb marinated chicken drumsticks
Halloumi & vegetable skewers, Quorn burgers & vegetarian sausages alternative for vegetarians. All served with salad garnish & sauces (tomato ketchup, brown sauce, mustard)
The wedding cake is often served at the same time.
International Cheese & Paté Buffet
Bacon “butties” and fried sausages in rolls
Cheese & tomato bap or vegetarian sausages in rolls alternative for vegetarians Chip cones
All served with a choice of tomato ketchup, brown sauce & mustard The wedding cake is often served at the same time.
All prices include VAT and are subject to change without notice.
“Thank you for a truly memorable day. Everyone commented on the quality of the venue, food and high level of service. We also greatly appreciated the helpful advice and guidance you gave us in the lead up to our wedding.”
PETER & ROSITA HARTNETT Wedding Reception
Residential Accommodation
In addition to the Honeymoon Suite, we have 10 bedrooms available (all en-suite) and if they are all used to capacity we can accommodate a total of 28 guests. They are all situated on the first floor and as we don’t have lifts, unfortunately they are
not suitable for infirm or disabled guests. Depending on size and quality, current prices per room, per night are given below (includes VAT & cold buffet breakfast):
Honeymoon Suite
Superior Rooms
Type
Total Available
Price per room per night
Max No. Persons
Large double room, very well appointed with full size bathroom and double bath.
1
Included in Wedding Package
2
Type
Total Available
Price per room per night
Max No. Persons
Double Room
1
£95
2
Large double room plus full size bunk beds
1
£95 for 2 £110 for 3 £120 for 4
4
Twin bedded rooms
2
£85 for 1 £95 for 2
4
Total:
4
10
Standard Rooms
Type
Total Available
Price per room per night
Max No. Persons
Single
1
£50
1
Standard Double
3
£50-£70
6
Large double plus single “put-u-up” (typically for child up to 12 years)
1
£85 for 2 £95 for 3
3
Large double room plus full size bunk beds
1
£85 for 2 £100 for 3 £110 for 4
4
Total:
6
16
“What can we say? The weekend was everything we had hoped for and more! Thank you for making it so special and responding to all our last minute changes in a professional manner and yet with a personal touch. Our heartfelt thanks to you and your hardworking team.”
ROGER & SARAH GUALTIERI Weekend Wedding Party
Surrey Registration Information for Civil Weddings and Partnerships
Yew Lodge Country House comes under Tandridge District Council in Surrey and our register office is at Leatherhead. Booking the registrar is the responsibility of the bride and groom and further information and costs are given below (as supplied by Leatherhead Register Office). These costs are in addition to the hire of the ceremony room and facilities at Yew Lodge Country House.
Once you have booked a ceremony with your chosen venue, you must book a registrar for a ceremony, you can do this up to two years before your ceremony date.
Bookings are taken strictly on a first come, first served basis. You can request a call from the ceremonies office by completing a ceremonies enquiry form on their website.
You can make a booking up to two years in advance of the day of your ceremony. The Register Office is unable to predict the demand on any particular day and bookings are taken on a first come, first served basis. At the time of booking you will be required to pay the costs of the ceremony in full by debit/credit card. The booking process will take 10-15 minutes.
There are a limited amount of time-slots offered for ceremonies depending on the day of the week. Please contact us as soon as possible.
Confirmation of your booking
Once you have booked your ceremony, confirmation will be emailed to you and will contain:
• • •
Essential information regarding the legal requirements for giving your notice of intent to marry/form a civil partnership. A ceremony pack which contains useful information about preparing for your ceremony.
The terms and conditions of your booking, cooling-off period and cancellation policy.
Wedding/Civil Partnership Ceremonies at Surrey Licensed Venues:
1 April 2020 to 31 March 2021
1 April 2021 to 31 March 2022
1 April 2022 to 31 March 2023
Monday - Thursday .
£486
£496
TBC
Friday
£536
£546
TBC
Saturday
£586
£596
TBC
Sunday/Bank Holidays
£636
£646
TBC
PLEASE NOTE:
• There will be an administration charge of £45 to amend date, time or venue after the initial booking.
• The Notice fee is a statutory fee and is in addition to the ceremony fees. This fee is subject to change by the Registrar General for England and Wales and should be checked at the time of booking your notice appointment. Ceremony’s taking place before 9.30 am and after 5pm are subject to additional fees. Please contact us as above for information.
• Registration Staff do not conduct ceremonies on Easter Sunday, Christmas Day or Boxing Day.
Contact:
Email: [email protected]
Website: Surrey County Council - Book your marriage or civil partnership ceremony
Opening Times:
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, Friday 9.00-4.30 Wednesday 9.30-4.30
Location
Yew Lodge Country House is located on the borders of West Sussex, Surrey and Kent, close to Crawley, Croydon, Sevenoaks and Royal Tunbridge Wells. It is within easy reach of the M25, M23, and M26/M20 motorways. Gatwick Airport is 20 minutes by road.
East Grinstead railway station (2 miles) provides regular, direct services
to London Victoria and London Bridge (both 50 minutes). East Croydon and London Bridge stations provide connections to Thameslink which has direct services to North London, Luton Airport and Bedford.
Yew Lodge is on the outskirts of East Grinstead, set well back from the road. It is approached by a long, private drive, making us secluded but
not remote. We have ample, private parking.
Click here to schedule a Showround of our wonderful wedding venue!
Find Out More
Yew Lodge Country House is an ideal venue for a wedding celebration as both the house and gardens provide many and varied, wonderful photographic opportunities. Our website www.yewlodge.co.uk has further details and photographs – however, to fully appreciate what Yew Lodge Country House has to offer, we invite you to contact us to arrange a personal viewing when you can see the beautiful gardens and fabulous wedding suite for yourselves.
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