“Christ is our Cornerstone; On Him alone we build”
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Oriki OTUNBA (DR) MICHAEL OLASUBOMI OLAYIWOLA OLADIMEJI OLAONIPEKUN BALOGUN, CON Ọmọ Borogun laa sẹsọ Siwọ siwọ laa sowo Ba re gbaa sowo bi ole lari Ba re ni gbekele atepa mo ise eni Sa sa eniyan ni n fẹni lawujọ Ise baba lowo lọwọ Teru tọmọ ni nma fẹni Ọmọ onile nla, oloko nla Omo onile nla to mba ole lẹru Omo a gun esin l’osan, gun enia l’oru Ọmọ abata butu alejo to nse onile daru daru Ọmọ osi loye joye Osi ni Baale o je Seriki ko to je Balogun Omo Balogun Dodondawa Ọmọ arojo j’oye adele teji teji Ọmọ afi aran pojo, Ọmọ ayi ninu aran bata butu Ọmọ olowo joye meji pọ O jẹ Awujalẹ tan, o tun jẹ Dagburewe O j’oye ki oye wuni je Omo Olisa, Ogeru ilu, Oru lamuren ewo l’orun Ọmọ Balogun Dodondawa iii
OTUNBA (DR.) MICHAEL OLASUBOMI BALOGUN, CON GROUP CHAIRMAN, FIRST CITY GROUP LIMITED THE OTUNBA TUNWASE, THE OLORI OMO-OBA OF IJEBU. THE ASIWAJU OF IJEBU CHRISTIANS, THE BABA OBA OF IJEBU-IFE & THE ASALU-OBA OF IJEBU MUSHIN Commander of the Order of the Niger; An acknowledged Baron of the Nigerian Capital and Money Markets; Doyen, Pioneer and Role Model of entrepreneurial banking in Nigeria; A constructive philanthropist who has devoted substantial part of his private resources towards the care and service of the less privileged in his immediate community and Nigeria. A lover of children, author, opinion leader and a respected community leader. BIOGRAPHY Otunba Balogun sitting at the extreme right, with the late Olorogun (Dr) Michael Ibru (OFR) standing in the last row, in a group photograph of Igbobi College students • Page 1 •
EARLY LIFE Otunba (Dr.) Michael Olasubomi Olayiwola Oladimeji Olaonipekun Balogun was born in Ijebu-Ode, in Ogun State on 9th March 1934. He had his secondary education at Igbobi College, Yaba, Lagos where he passed out with Cambridge School Certificate in Grade One in 1952. Otunba Balogun sitting next to Reverend P.B Parker, the renowned Principal of Igbobi College, in a group photograph • Page 2 •
Otunba Balogun’s dad bidding him farewell at the Apapa Port on his way to the United Kingdom • Page 3 •
He was a Secondary School teacher for one year before proceeding to the London School of Economics (“LSE”) to read Law in 1956 after having passed with distinction – 3 subjects at the GCE Advanced Level as one of the pioneer students of the Nigerian College of Arts, Science & Technology, Ibadan. He graduated from the LSE with Second Class Honours Degree in June, 1959 and was called to the English Bar in December 1959. Under the sponsorship of the then Western Regional Government, he was the first Nigerian to receive training in Legal Drafting in Whitehall and the City of London with particular specialisation in financial legislation, instruments and agreements. He served as a Crown Counsel in the Ministry of Justice of the then Western Nigeria and subsequently as Assistant Parliamentary Counsel in the Federal Ministry of Justice in Lagos. Otunba’s graduation from the London School of Economics Otunba Balogun’s Call to the English Bar, Lincoln Inn, in December 1959 • Page 4 •
BUSINESS & PHILANTHROPY For nine years, between 1966 and 1975, he was the first Principal Counsel and Company Secretary to the Nigerian Industrial Development Bank (“NIDB”). During this period, he received extensive training at the International Bank for Reconstruction and Development (IBRD), the World Bank, and its private sector affiliate, the International Finance Corporation (IFC), both in Washington DC. He also received extensive training from leading stockbrokers, investment banks and merchant banks in London and New York. Otunba Balogun, Director of ICON Securities, and Alhaji Babatunde Jose, Chairman and Managing Director of Daily Times, at the completion meeting for the sale of the shares of Daily Times in 1974. • Page 5 •
Otunba Balogun, Company Secretary (standing) and Ibrahim Jalo Waziri, Chairman, both of the Nigerian Industrial Development Bank (NIDB), flanked by other board members. Otunba and Olori at his send-forth party from NIDB in 1977. In 1973, he was appointed the Director in charge of the operations of Icon Securities Limited, a wholly owned subsidiary of NIDB. During his tenure, he spearheaded with other colleagues, under the direction of the then Managing Director of the NIDB, the conversion of Icon Securities into a merchant bank. He was instrumental to the establishment of Icon Stockbrokers Limited, a foremost stockbroking firm, which he subsequently headed. Following the establishment of Icon Limited (Merchant Bankers), Otunba was seconded to the bank as an Executive Director. During this time, he represented Icon on the Council of the Nigerian Stock Exchange (NSE) and he distinguished himself in the handling of many capital issues on the Exchange. He resigned in December 1977 to set up his own company, City Securities Limited, which was the first institution in Nigeria to combine Issuing House and Stockbroking businesses under one roof. At the end of the then Indigenisation Programme of the Federal Government of Nigeria, he had put against his name and that of his company, City Securities Limited, the public sale of shares of about 11 international companies, including Mobil, Texaco, Total, Nigeria Bottling Company and the private sale of shares of over 20 foreign companies. In less than two years of the establishment of City Securities Limited, he bestrode the Nigerian Capital Market like a colossus so much so that a leading and reputable financial and business journal, in a citation, described him as “a most distinguished and a leading Baron of the Nigerian Capital Market”. • Page 6 •
At the completion meeting of Mobil Issue; the Company Secretary, Bayo Kuku (standing), sitting to his left is Otunba Balogun, Chairman of the Issuing House. During this period, he was a member of the Council of the Stock Exchange, and served on the Council, representing ICON and City Securities Limited from 1973 until early 1988. In 1979, as a natural sequence to his outstanding performance in the Nigerian Financial Markets, he decided to set up the first wholly Nigerian owned merchant bank, entirely conceived and promoted by him, First City Merchant Bank Limited (FCMB). Under his leadership as Chairman & Chief Executive, FCMB in its first twenty years of existence, experienced steady and uninterrupted growth, and earned national and international recognition as market leaders in investment banking and capital market services. The bank’s paid-up share capital grew from N2 million at inception to N1.5 billion, while total shareholders’ fund rose to N2.65 billion as at December 2002. He was a constructive philanthropist. Apart from his wellknown commitment to the welfare of the less privileged and physically handicapped, in 1987, he was the first in Nigeria, through FCMB Limited, to endow a Professorial Chair in a University when at the University of Ibadan, he set up a Chair for Capital Market Studies in the Department of Economics and Finance. He also endowed a Research Fellowship in the Legal Department of the University of Lagos. He has equally donated to several causes in a number of institutions such as the Olabisi Onabanjo University (formerly Ogun State University), Yaba College of Technology, Kola Daisi University, African Leadership Forum, etc. He took over, reconstructed, refurbished and perpetually endowed the maintenance of The Children’s Emergency Unit in the University Teaching Hospital, Ibadan which was named after him, the “Otunba Tunwase Children’s Emergency Unit” and is responsible for the perpetual maintenance and upkeep of this Unit. In 1989, he donated to the Ijebu-Ode General Hospital a newly built and fully equipped air-conditioned 40-bed Children’s Centre which was named after his mother, “Iye Subomi’s Child Care Centre” and he made provision for the perpetual maintenance of the Children’s Centre. He has also actively supported and provided financial assistance to various local institutions, individuals and other charitable organisations. He donated a Police Post at Imoru in Ijebu-Ode and he also built a Civic Centre named “Otunba Tunwase Civic Centre” for the Ijebu-Ode Club. He also provided street lighting for the street named after his ancestor, Oba Adesimbo, Tunwase I, known as “Tunwase Drive”. He awarded several hundred scholarships to many Nigerians at secondary and tertiary levels and about ten years ago, he endowed perpetually an annual award of scholarships to the best students in Muslim College, IjebuOde in honour of his late father; and also set up another scholarship endowment in honour of his mother known as “Iye Subomi Scholarship”. • Page 7 •
He set up endowments for the Nigerian School for the Blind at Oshodi, and also instituted, through FCMB, an Annual National Marathon Championship for Disabled Athletes. He was known to have supported many religious organisations, both Christian and Muslim, in their development programmes and had endowed churches or even the establishment of dioceses in some Christian denominations in Nigeria. Several years ago, he established an umbrella organisation known as “Otunba Tunwase Foundation” to cater for all his philanthropic endeavours and services to the community. Under this Foundation, and on his 60th birthday, he commenced the construction of a special gift to the nation the “Otunba Tunwase National Paediatric Centre”. This is a referral institution to cater for the health care, survival and welfare of the Nigerian Child and to provide an avenue for specialised studies and academic researchers into all manners of children diseases and ailments. He had expended over N3.7 billion from personal resources and this was commissioned to commemorate his 70th birthday on 9th March 2004. • Page 8 •
Otunba, with other recipients of the Hallmark of Labour Awards Professor Ayo Banjo, the University of Ibadan’s Vice Chancellor, decorated Otunba with an honorary Doctorate. Otunba receiving the Business Person of the Decade Award from the Late Chief M.K.O Abiola. Otunba receiving one of the highest Italian honours - “Cavaliere dell’Ordine Al Merito della Repubblica Italiana” LAURELS AND AWARDS In August 2000 when he presented his Memoirs “The Cross, The Triumph and The Crown”, he directed that all proceeds from the sale of the book should be channeled to the Project. In August 1988, he was elected a Fellow of the Nigerian Institute of Management (NIM) in recognition of his contribution to the development of Corporate Management & Leadership. In 1988, he was appointed Chairman of the newly formed U.I. Ventures Limited by the University of Ibadan. This company was set up to commercialise and improve the efficiency of services provided by the university to its local and the general business communities. He held this position for five years before he voluntarily relinquished it, having turned U.I Ventures into a very profitable enterprise paying regular dividend to the University. • Page 9 •
Funmi Adedibu, Jide Balogun, Ladi Balogun, Mrs Ronke Atere, Otunba Balogun and his wife, Olori, Yemisi Edun, and Mrs Olubusola Adekusibe at the presentation of the Role Model for Excellence in Entrepreneurship and Corporate Governance award to Otunba. In January 1989, the American Biographical Institute Inc honoured him with a Distinguished Leadership Award for his outstanding contributions to the development of Banking. In November 1989, Nigeria’s premier University, the University of Ibadan, awarded him the Degree of Doctor of Laws (Honoris Causa) in recognition of his outstanding achievements both in the field of Law and his contributions to the socioeconomic development of Nigeria. In February 1990, the Business Concord newspaper (Nigeria’s leading Business Weekly at the time) named him the “Business Person of the Decade” in recognition of his outstanding achievements as an accomplished entrepreneur, having outpolled other prominent businessmen in a national poll conducted by a professional panel set up by the weekly newspaper. Also in 1990, the Ogun State Government gave him a Merit Award for his philanthropic services to the State in particular and the country as a whole. Later that year, the Ijebu Development Association added another Merit Award on the Obanta Day Celebration. In the same year, he was installed the Patron of the Ijebu Chamber of Commerce, Industry Mines and • Page 10 •
Agriculture. He was a Council Member of the Lagos Chamber of Commerce and Industry (LCCI) and the Nigerian-British Chamber of Commerce. In 1991, the Chartered Institute of Bankers of Nigeria (CIBN) made him a Fellow of the Institute for his pioneering and outstanding contribution of the Banking Industry. In January 1994, the President of the Republic of Italy conferred on him the prestigious honour of “Cavaliere” dell’Ordine “Al Merito della Repubblica Italiana,” which means “Knight of the Order of Merit of the Republic of Italy.” In October 1995, he was installed The Olori Omo-Oba Akile Ijebu by His Royal Majesty, the Awujale of Ijebuland. In 1996, he was conferred with the title of Baba Oba of Ijebu Ife by the Ajalorun of Ijebu Ife. Later that year, the Oloko of Ijebu-Mushin made him the Asalu-Oba of Ijebu Mushin. On the 9th of March 1997, he was installed the Asiwaju of Ijebu Christians by the entire Christian community in Ijebuland. On the 17th of October 1998, the Obanta Day, he was made the Patron of the Ijebu Development Association for his outstanding contributions to the development of Banking and Financial Industry in the country as well as his various philanthropic contributions in Ijebuland. In January 1999, the Ogun State University, now Olabisi Onabanjo University, awarded him another honourary degree of the Doctor of Science in Management Sciences, (Honoris Causa). This is in recognition of his contributions to the development and application of Management Sciences in the banking industry in particular and the business economy generally in Nigeria, as well as his philanthropic gestures, which cut across the nooks and corners of the country. In November 2000, he was conferred with the National Honour of “Commander of the Order of the Niger” by the President and Commander in Chief of the Armed Forces of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. In March 2001, the Governing Council of the Yaba College of Technology conferred on him the Fellowship of the institution. In October 2022, he was elevated to the position of Group Chairman, First City Group Limited - the financial services group comprising of First City Monument Bank Limited, FCMB Capital Markets Limited, First City Asset Management Limited, CSL Stockbrokers Limited and City Securities (Registrars) Limited. He is bringing to this position a boardroom experience spanning over 30 years. Otunba Balogun was an author, a prolific writer and a distinguished opinion leader. In these capacities, he contributed remarkably to the formulation of Nigeria’s economic policies. In recognition of his distinction in this area, he was appointed at the inception of the new democratic dispensation, a member of the National Presidential Advisory Committee on the Recovery of the Nigerian economy. He was a fellow of the Chartered Institute of Stockbrokers; Fellow of the Nigerian Institute of Management; Fellow Chartered Institute of Bankers; Former Deputy President, now Life Vice President, of the Nigerian British Chamber of Commerce; Council Member of the Lagos Chamber of Commerce and Industry; Chairman, Primrose Investments Limited; Chairman, Bluechip Holdings Limited; Chairman, Swiftdrill (Nigeria) Limited; Chairman, Primrose Properties Investments Limited and Director of a number of other companies. • Page 11 •
He is survived by Olori Abimbola Balogun (nee Ayoola), Yeye Olofin of Ijebu-Ife, Yeye Tunwase of Ijebu and Yeye Oba of Ode Remo and their sons, Bolaji, Jide, Ladi and Gboyega and their wives and 16 grandchildren. Otunba with Olori, love so amazing • Page 12 •
Otunba and Olori Balogun with their sons, Bolaji, Jide, Gboyega, and Ladi. • Page 13 •
Olori with Otunba’s beautiful daughters-in-law, Kemi, Uche, Banke and Emma. Otunba and Olori with some of their grandchildren • Page 14 •
My late father taught me that, if one got to the stage of being successful and wealthy, one had a corresponding duty of not enjoying the fruits of these endowments alone, but should try to benefit those around him. OTUNBA M.O. BALOGUN, CON • Page 15 •
Tributes • Page 16 •
Family • Page 17 •
Otunba and Olori Balogun with their four sons and their wives Otunba and Olori Balogun with the wives of their sons - Kemi, Uche, Banke and Emma • Page 18 •
Family Otunba surrounded by his grandchildren and the Atere grandchildren. • Page 19 •
Otunba surrounded by his grandchildren and the Atere grandchildren. • Page 20 •
Otunba’s Dad Otunba and Olori at the Acropolis in Athens, Greece. Otunba’s Mum Party to mark the departure of Mrs Margaret Olayinka Ajayi, Otunba’s cousin, from London in 1959. On the extreme right is Otunba Balogun, with Chief Bayo Kuku on the extreme left. Otunba Balogun with his Mom (Iye Subomi) and Sister, Mrs Olaronke Atere Otunba’s sister, Mrs Olaronke Atere, with their mother, Iye Subomi • Page 21 •
Otunba and Olori at the miniature city, Madurodam in Holland Otunba and Olori Otunba and Olori with some of their grandchildren Otunba and Olori with some of their grandchildren Otunba and Olori at a formal dinner in the 1970s • Page 22 •
My dear husband, my father, my lover, my prayer partner, my best friend. You mean everything to me. I cannot believe that you’re gone. On the fateful Sunday morning, you were taken to hospital, I thought with your characteristic bravery and faith, you would overcome your latest battle. I did not know it would be your last battle on this earth and that you would leave in a few days. You were confident that you would live till the age of 100. You were preparing for your 90th birthday, and we were shopping together for it just days before. At every moment, you would repeat that you want to thank God for all he had done for you. Your exit though painful and shocking to us all, was most dignified. There was no pain, and as you had always prayed for, you were surrounded by your four boys as you breathed your last breath. I often speak of you in the present tense as I know your soul lives on. You are a wonderful man, a man of grace and elegance, a man with so much faith. You are a man who loves people, always wanting to be surrounded by people. You are always ready to share your last penny with those in need, and your heart is ever forgiving. I have never heard you say anything negative about anybody, even when they hurt you. You are indeed an angel sent into this world. And I feel privileged to have a man like you as a husband. I will always remember how you nurtured me from the age of 20 to be what I am today. You were patient, so caring, and so devoted. From the first day we met, you called me your “Olori” and treated me as a special person. You always demonstrated your appreciation, saying “Thanks, my dear”, even for the little things. I will miss the words you uttered consistently every time you arrived home: “Where is my wife?”. It was an honour to walk this beautiful journey with you. You always made sure we prayed together first thing in the morning and last thing at night. You spoke to your God as if you were sitting by His side and asked Him what you want in life. God never failed you. He had been so wonderful to you. And you showed so much gratitude to your God for all he had done for you. You respected all people in authority because you believed, as the bible tells us in Romans 13:1, that they are placed there by God. Rarely would you openly criticise authority. You built a wonderful, united family. You ensured you provided for all of us to face life’s challenges. You believed that nothing would be impossible to achieve with hard work and faith. Honesty was your watchword. This is how you nurtured us: to be honest in whatever we do and to do everything with the fear of God in mind. You are the perfect doting father. Your love for your children and grandchildren was unparalleled. Your guidance, discipline, love and encouragement have prepared them to face any difficulty in life. Their upbringing was principled, enabling them to admirably uphold the responsibility of being Otunba Subomi Balogun’s children. As you’re in the bosom of our maker, I am sure he will be pleased with how you brought up our children. I don’t know how life will be without you. We were each other’s strength, facing many trials and battles and enduring pain together. I am yet to see a man with your unshakable faith. In your honour, I will try to emulate and uphold this faith by continuing to proclaim those words that became synonymous with you: “Through the love of Christ, our Saviour, all will be well.” • Page 23 •
May God’s perpetual light continue to shine upon you. I love you, but God loves you more. Good night my beloved, till we meet to part no more. Ọmọ Borogun laa sẹsọ Siwọ siwọ laa sowo Ba re gbaa sowo bi ole lari Ba re ni gbekele atepa mo ise eni Sa sa eniyan ni n fẹni lawujọ Ise baba lowo lọwọ Teru tọmọ ni nma fẹni Ọmọ onile nla, oloko nla Omo onile nla to mba ole lẹru Omo a gun esin l’osan, gun enia l’oru Ọmọ abata butu alejo to nse onile daru daru Ọmọ osi loye joye Osi ni Baale o je Seriki ko to je Balogun Omo Balogun Dodondawa Ọmọ arojo j’oye adele teji teji Ọmọ afi aran pojo, Ọmọ ayi ninu aran bata butu Ọmọ olowo joye meji pọ O jẹ Awujalẹ tan, o tun jẹ Dagburewe O j’oye ki oye wuni je Omo Olisa, Ogeru ilu, Oru lamuren ewo l’orun Ọmọ Balogun Dodondawa Your Loving Wife, Olori Abimbola Adetutu Balogun • Page 24 •
MY DADDY – THE OTUNBA MICHAEL OLASUBOMI BALOGUN, CON I have found it difficult writing a tribute over the last few days, as much has been written about your life, your faith, your impact and achievements, and your 89 years of doing it your way, by an immeasurable number of family, friends, acquaintances and even strangers, whom through your life well lived, you touched in several ways. As I write this on Father’s Day, I have been able to reflect on and contemplate the huge hole you have left, in my life and heart, and in our family. This tribute has taken a while, simply because, as much as I have tried, I do not understand how I can reduce to a few mere words, a tribute to my incomparable and great Dad, on his passing. My Dad, The Otunba Michael Olasubomi Olayiwola Oladimeji Olaonipekun Balogun, CON, Otunba Tunwase of Ijebu, Olori Omo-Oba of Ijebu and Asiwaju of Ijebu Christians, lived a life of great significance. In all things, we must give thanks, and I thank God for your life of significance, and our lives are so blessed, because of you. I have wondered since you passed about how much you packed into these 89 years. We were all looking forward to March 2024, and to the subsequent march to 100, but God knows best. This was not our plan, and when I asked you about the 90th birthday plan and arrangements, late in April, I recall you telling me, “I am much more organized than all of you, and I have already been planning it, but when I get back to Lagos, I will form a committee”. Such was your level of meticulous planning, and equally, such was your remarkable faith that you called things, and they came to pass, but alas, God knows best. Indeed, God does not make mistakes, and while I deal with this event we did not plan, I am now comforted that your work on earth was done, and a life well lived on your terms could only end on your terms. On the evening of Thursday, 18th May 2023, when my Daddy passed away in England, it was fitting that his family surrounded him. It was also his first grandchildren’s birthday, a remarkable coincidence in the amazing sequence of unplanned coincidences we share. I was not planning to be in England, as I had just returned from a trip, but when I got the call that Sunday morning, something in my spirit, just said, ‘gather everyone and head to London, immediately’. I cannot recall my Dad spending a night in the hospital in my lifetime. The rest is history, and so God willed it. When I reflect on the last few months, I now believe that you started saying a ‘long goodbye’ from that video of you dancing and waving, to ‘Nipa Ife Olugbala’ or ‘Through the Love of God Our Saviour’ at our annual Adura Odun or Prayer for the New Year in Ijebu Ode in January that went viral on social media. Some people mistook it for your 90th or 100th birthday. Your annual birthday communion in March felt different, and the attendance was unique and strong. I am so pleased that ‘Your Royal Twins’ both decided to fly to Lagos to spend that day with you. A few days later, several friends called to say that they saw you at the Boat Club with Mummy and Jide on Mother’s Day and that you looked strong. You were insistent, separately with Jide and I, that it was time for us to join the Met Club, something I should have done more than a decade and a half ago, and I am pleased we both started the process, attending a few lunches, in your presence. You and Mummy came to our home just before your last trip and spent a few hours. I now understand the significance of that visit. Feyisayo came to spend a few hours with you before she left for a trip to New York from London on the morning she was flying, still insisted on going out of her way in her Uber and stopping to say goodbye on the way to Heathrow. Apparently, you had both agreed that she should stop by on her way. She was stunned when I gave her the news that Dayo was riding in an ambulance with you, to the hospital. Every time we saw, these last few months, your message was about keeping our family united, ensuring we knew our extended family, sharing history which I knew and did not know, ensuring that all our children – your grandchildren, were doing well, praying for our businesses, praying for Nigeria and Nigerians and that things would • Page 25 •
get better in the country. It was a period when the generosity of your heart was apparent, as I saw you receive and interact warmly, even with those who had not been as generous with you. It affirmed to me your incredibly warm heart, humility and a heart for forgiveness. Some of you knew Otunba Balogun as family, your friend’s father, a boss, this old man, who lived life his own way, full on; some know him as the great banker and entrepreneur, the “Grandmaster of Nigerian banking”, a man who loved his God and ascribed everything to God, others as a philanthropist. But I knew him as Dad, our Daddy, a husband, father, grandfather, brother and Uncle. He may have passed but I want you to know the legend behind the crisp white agbada or kaftan and navy or black pinstripe suits. I want you to know him because he was an amazing man, who was kind and generous, disciplined and principled, had integrity and humility, who worked hard and prayed hard, who had dignity and did it his own way, who was detribalized and religiously inclusive, who taught me to love Nigeria and all Nigerians, and was a cultured global citizen. Dad was a lawyer and banker but made healthcare, children’s education, the expansion of faith and entrepreneurship, his life mission and everything he did, he did excellently well. I pray that someday, people might say that one has lived a life of significant influence as he did. We do not teach history in our country any longer, but I will ensure that long after his death, the good name he has bequeathed to us and his legacy remain strong, and he shall never be forgotten. I want to encourage young people, especially young Nigerians, to learn about my Dad by sharing a bit of what I learnt from being his son and him educating me over my life. My Dad did not tell us how to live; he lived and let us watch him do it. I was proud to be at his feet learning and for the blessing of the decade I spent working at FCMB Group. There are many stories I could tell, but I have not been asked to write the entire book on my own. In thinking about his life, there are a few traits that stand out, which I would like to share. My Dad’s life reflected his Christian commitment and belief that God comes first in any undertaking. In good times and in the midst of challenges, his faith was a tower of strength and he had an ability to stand even stronger when faced with difficulty, completely certain of God’s unflinching support. In his own words, “There is no difficulty, which industry, prayers and perseverance cannot overcome”. “Even when the less faithful would believe that prospects are bleak, my prayers and my strong faith have always shown me bright light at the end of the tunnel”. He never started or ended a day without prayer, thanking God. I will always be blessed by my Dad’s devotion to our family, especially Mummy, his love and Olori for over 50 years, his children and our wives, his daughters, all of his 16 grandchildren, my Auntie Ronke Atere and her children, as well as his wider family. Over the last 5 years, even more than before, he taught me so much about our family’s history and heritage. He promised me that he would gather the extended family together later this year, so that we would get to know ourselves and not walk past each other without knowing. I will figure out how to do this. I cannot fully appreciate how much my life has been empowered from my father’s love. My Dad would always remind us about ‘our family’s heritage and culture of excellence’, later extended into slogans for FCMB. I was always reminded of the importance of personal discipline, humility and integrity in all things all the time. Often, I recall being told ‘I will not call a cow daddy, because I want to drink milk’, which has formed my character. I recall my dad writing me a lengthy personal letter, midway through my time at FCMB, based on Proverbs, sharing with me wisdom and important values. It has helped my personal journey. • Page 26 •
My dad taught me there was nothing hard work, perseverance and prayer could not solve. What most people may not have seen was the meticulous planning that went into everything he did and if you planned meticulously, you reduced the odds of failure. For everyone at Chapel Hill Denham, you now know why! My dad travelled the world and his taste for the best things in life, which I am told came early in life was further enhanced by his love of travel. There is so much that we have learnt from you through your love of travel, beautiful homes and things but in imbibing some of that, you also learn that if you try to copy Otunba in all things, you may get a nosebleed. I am so proud to be your son and as you often said, ‘a chip off the old block’. My dad had three names for me and whichever one he used, instantly told me how he was feeling or what was about to come next, Bolaji, Bonje or Mr. Balogun. That shall stay between us. I often thank God, for the “village of four mothers”, who in different ways are responsible for the man I have become, but above them all, I am grateful to be your son and for your influence in my life. My life has been blessed beyond measure because you paid so much forward for us all, in goodwill. Dad, thank you for your life choices. Firstly, thank you for being you - for being a lifelong educator, for teaching and role modelling strong values, work ethic, humility, integrity and kindness. And thank you for your infinite love and support. Thank you for never giving up on me, for your tough love and pragmatism, for acknowledging my success, with or without you, for loving everything I love, for our friendship and love. Thank you for teaching me fairness and to be a winner. I was not born first but Rotimi’s early death, destined me to be first and thank you for preparing me for the responsibility of leading our broader family. Thank you for your example of generosity and style in everything you did that has profoundly impacted us – because your example has shown what God is like: always creating with love, with painstaking care, with excellence, and with beauty. So, my darling father, I hope that as you sit with your God and Father, you fully realize the depth of the love, respect, and joy that you gave to us and are in turn given by your family. All my love and rest in perfect peace. Through the Love of God our Saviour, All Shall be Well. Amen. Mobolaji • Page 27 •
May 2023, we were not prepared. Daddy was strong and healthy. In the evening of Sunday 22nd April, we hosted Mummy and Daddy at our home in Lagos; he climbed all three floors of the house…entered every room without any struggle. He was not sick. GOD knows we were not ready…. But GOD knows best. I am honoured to have had the privilege to have been able to call Otunba Michael Olasubomi Balogun, “Daddy.” 30 years ago, I met Daddy. He asked Bolaji to call the young girl he had often seen walking into Bolaji’s apartment for a while, then. After Bolaji had done the introductions, I remember him asking me who my parents were. When I told him, he said he and my dad were in school at Igbobi College. He was in the year above him and also at the University College Ibadan. They both ended up living in the same house in Yaba after their university education. He described my mother as a dear aburo, who he also met while she was an undergraduate student at the same university. Next, he said to Bolaji, that he was not to bring any other lady to the house. I found it hilarious but it showed the kind of person Daddy was. Daddy had strong family values. The loss of a father-in-law has a double impact. You are grieving for your loss while emotionally supporting your spouse, who is also grieving… and Bolaji is. I have thought long and hard about this tribute; even prayed. What do you say about someone who you have known for more than half of your life? What part of your relationship would you want to share? Daddy welcomed me into the family. He was kind and protective towards me and would always remind me of the responsibilities of being the first daughter, and what was expected of me. Marriage made me grow up quickly. I smile when I think of this. Ecclesiastes 7:8, “Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.” • Page 28 •
Finding GOD, changed everything. I am so thankful for the last 5 years. Through our individual spiritual journeys we found a common ground. Our love for GOD and prayer drew us closer than ever. At the end of all my visits Daddy would say, “Kem Kem, pray for us, keep praying, don’t stop praying for the family, you know that is your special assignment.” And GOD knows I will not stop praying. During our last conversation, Daddy said, “Take care of Mummy, you have made me so happy as you are both so close now.” Mummy and I would joke and make fun of Daddy being jealous of us; we didn’t know what was around the corner. I am blessed to have been a part of his life, and to have the assurance that we will one day meet again. Daddy, we will miss you, but we will never forget you. Your daughter, Oluwakemi Balogun • Page 29 •
Dearest Daddy, “The great use of life is to spend it for something that will outlast it.” – William James The thought of having to write a tribute for my father has for years filled me with dread as it meant having to consider the unthinkable - that you will no longer be in my life! Alas, my dearest Daddy, the time is now, and I have to address one of my greatest fears. Over the last month, much has been said, and much has been written on the imprint you left on many – from those that knew you but also from many that didn’t have the opportunity to know you. As painful as it still is to have to confront your sudden but dignified exit the extraordinary outpour of commentaries, testimonies and stories has been a constant source of comfort and great pride to all of us. You lived a diverse life, and in all aspects of your life you blazed a trail and left your stamp – professionally in law, banking and real estate; building your home and family; your steadfast Christian faith, your legendary style and sartorial elegance and your philanthropic activities. You exemplified determination, never accepting the impossible and always guided by your mantra “there is no difficulty which prayers, hard work, industry, and perseverance cannot overcome”. Despite your larger-than-life persona, and your laudable achievements and successes, much of the reference was about the fundamentals of your character. You were generous in spirit, you were highly principled, unapologetically flamboyant and still a person of deep humility, your respect for others irrespective of status or age, your forgiving nature. Within the calls, messages, tributes and condolence visits I have often heard people say how their encounter with you was a life changing experience – you inspired, you were admired, you were copied! To many, you were a role model and a reference point for what was possible. You truly encapsulated the expression “a life well lived”, and as God in his infinite mercies showered his blessings on you, you also sought to give much back to your fellow man. As I reflect on the legacy you left for us, I cannot but think the most valuable of them is the name you have left behind and what Otunba Subomi Balogun connotes to many who shared and/or were present in the full life you lived. For your children, grandchildren and generations unborn we will continue to take benefit from your name. It will always be a source of pride, inspiration, determination and make us all strive for the better angels of our nature and follow your examples. For years, I would sign off my greeting cards to you with, “…from your proud and grateful son”. These words have taken a • Page 30 •
far greater significance since your passing as I continue to acknowledge the scale of the legacy your left and how incredibly blessed I was to have a father like you. Your family was the very core of your life, your raison d’etre. From your “Olori”, our dear mother and your “four musketeers” (as you often proudly referred to us), you never made us or anyone else in doubt of this. In the early years you were a strict disciplinarian, your practice of “tough love” was your method of character-building and instilling values around tradition, respect, integrity, hard work and humility. Once you felt you had firmly established the important life foundations, in later years the firmness gave way to a softness and unreserved love, support, understanding and dedication to myself, my brothers and our children. You were always a dependable source of encouragement and wise counsel. I will always be grateful for the unwavering support structure provided by you and Mummy in our lives. You were a great double act each with your own distinctive and effective approach. In particular with you Daddy, I reflect with a smile the unashamed pride you would often display with my successes and accomplishments always ready to “shout about it from the rooftops”! It was an important element in confidence building for the young me, growing up. I recall my call to Bar and the luncheon you single-handedly arranged (because Mummy had travelled), to celebrate the event. The collection of guests and, in particular, legal luminaries assembled was the talk of the town. I remember the joy and pride in your eyes as you handed me the wig and gown you had used for your call to bar. I was recently reminded by Mummy that both you and your dear friend the late Justice Onolaja were crying tears of joy on the day. Only a few months ago and I believe that was our last outing, you and Mummy joined me for lunch at the Lagos Motor Boat Club to celebrate mother’s day. I remember your excitement when I asked you. You had throughout the year been asking I confirm a date when you could come to support your son the new Commodore of the Club. The day was memorable and by the end of it, you promised you would be coming to the Club regularly as your way of supporting me during my tenure as Commodore. God, however, had greater plans! You similarly extended this unfaltering love, dedication and support to our children. I remember the occasion, I had to attend a disciplinary hearing with my son Temi at his public school. You were concerned and had called me so we could go through the details of the incident and share views on the responses. On the day, despite my protestations, you insisted that you wanted to also come along to stand with myself and Temi. I recall the headmaster being visibly impressed to be confronted with 3 generations of Baloguns in attendance at the hearing and in particular their grandfather in his 80s who clearly still had his wits about him. Daddy, there are too many examples that I can write where you were always there for me, my children and your entire family! Mummy mentioned that during your regular morning and evening prayers together, one of your ever-present prayer points • Page 31 •
was for the good Lord to give you more years to continue to be able to stand by us to the stage where we shall have nothing to fear. Daddy in many aspects your prayers were answered – with the legacy you left us, the character fundamentals you demonstrated and established in us, the importance you placed on your family, you have left your family strong, united, able and committed to building on the family name. I will miss you deeply! Although you are no longer physically with us, I am in no doubt that I and the family have earned our greatest advocate and defender in Heaven. I know you will continue to spiritually stand by and watch over us and in your typical way, be unrelenting and tenacious in ensuring our interests are always best served. May your kind, beautiful and gentle soul rest in perfect peace - Omo Balogun Dodondawa!! From your ever proud and grateful son Jide Balogun • Page 32 •
TRIBUTE TO DADDY Sadness. Disbelief. Fear. Disappointment. Disappointed that God didn’t give us the outcome we prayed for. This is how I felt the moment my husband, Jide, informed me that you had taken your last breath. You were 89 Daddy, so I am grateful to God that you lived so long and so well. But I was under the impression that you would live to 100 years. I had no reason to doubt that, as you were built like a tank, strong and resilient with your mind razor sharp. Your senses – acute. Your comments – risible. Daddy, you truly were a self-reliant man who engaged with the world as a man who would be its master. You did everything to perfection. Every detail was worthy of attention. Your dress sense – pristine. Your style – impeccable. Your taste – exceptional. Your strength – indomitable. I came into your family not knowing what I’d find. I was nervous and apprehensive. But to my surprise you welcomed me with open arms and proceeded to tell me about your close relationship with my mother’s brother, Uncle Joseph Ibik, whom you shared a room with at the London School of Economics. You also expressed the fondness and mutual respect both you and my father had for each other. I would never forget how you truly embraced me not just as Jide’s wife but as your daughter. You showed genuine interest in me and my well-being. You encouraged one to be the best they could be. I would never forget how you encouraged me to finish my Doctorate degree whilst I was pregnant with my third child. Furthermore, I recall how you’d always come back with beautiful rosary beads for me each time you went on your yearly pilgrimage in Israel. I am truly blessed to have had you in my life. We all are. Daddy, family unity means everything to you. I promise we would try our best to make you proud. We would also ensure that mummy is well taken care of. Finally, you came, you saw and indeed you conquered. Now rest in peace. Your presence will be forever missed but your formidable spirit lives on. Your daughter, Uche Balogun • Page 33 •
My Dearest Dearest Daddy, If I were to do justice to your tribute, I would have to write a book of several hundred pages. Maybe one day I will. For now, all I want to say is thank you, Lord, and thank you, Daddy, for the incredible father, husband and leader that you were. Your passing was sudden. Everyone felt you would live forever if not at least 100 years. But alas, God knows best. I am glad we were by your side, holding your hand as you slipped away. It still gives me chills and brings tears to my eyes when I think of those final moments: devastating in sadness but peaceful, beautiful and dignified. Your biography tells us that it rained hailstones on the day you were born, signifying the arrival of abundance. Your life was one of incredible generosity to those whose path you crossed. I describe it as the beginning of 89 years of good trouble. On the day you passed, it was a peaceful sunny evening, which signified that “All will be well”. As I come to terms with your passing, I am filled with a mixture of sadness, immense gratitude and inspiration to do better. As the master planner that you were (the Grand Master, in fact), though your passing was unexpected even for you, you were impeccably and comprehensively prepared. You left us with the tools to continue your legacy, and you had the foresight to begin our preparation for life without you from our tender ages. Thank you for the values you have left for us. I reflected on these soon after your passing. I came up with 11 of these values. I noted them down. And I read them every day. They have become my north star. Thank you for the environment you raised us in. One of love, kind discipline and one in which excellence, Godliness and hard work would serve as the foundation that sustains us for generations to come. Thank you for your guidance on all matters: from family, education, career, spirituality, and choice of transportation (friends and family always recount your horror at the fact I wanted to drive a Toyota Corolla as a bank MD). Forgive me for every tantrum I threw. I know you did. Forgive me for every challenge I gave to your views, although most times, you knew that after reflection, I would come back and agree. Forgive me for my impatience at times, on the rare occasions I would interrupt you. Forgive me for every aspect of my life I did not share with you. I know that you will see it all in Heaven, and I hope I am not doing too badly. I only ask these for completeness and closure. As I know, you were one of the most compassionate human beings I met. I never knew you to bear a grudge. We saw many people attack you and attack that which you loved. You fought back bravely and honourably when these attacks posed an existential threat to things and people you loved. But whatever the outcome, and invariably you prevailed, you always forgave. Your heart was so generous. Be rest assured that we will protect everything you love to the best of our abilities and God’s grace. Most importantly, we will ensure your wife, my mother, never lacks and is always surrounded by love and family. There are many things I will miss about you: going to battle as your wingman in business to achieve the next lofty goal or overcome the latest challenge from external forces; your unifying force in our family; kissing you on the lips in public; the protection of your prayers on this earth, and the enthusiasm with which you would say “Lado!”, every time I called you on the phone. You literally would lift my spirit as you answered my call in exactly the same way and the same tone. On the rare occasion that you didn’t, maybe 5 out of 5,000 calls, I would know something was troubling you. Even though we will miss • Page 34 •
these things, I promise you that we will fight and pray hard that nothing you love shall diminish after your passing to the Kingdom of Heaven. We will do you proud. Your troubles are no more. You can rest now in perfect peace. You ran the perfect race. You fought the good fight. Your name and your life stories will be celebrated for generations to come. Ese Pupo Daddy. We will all miss you, we love you. But God loves you more. You were indeed an angel on this earth that has now returned where you rightly belong. Thank you, Lord for sharing this gem with me for 51 years and with humanity for 89 years. Your Son, Ladipupo Oluwaseunfunmi Aka (in your words): “Lado, Monsieur Le Presido…” • Page 35 •
My Dear Daddy, Your ability to care and show compassion cannot be matched. You were an extremely loving and honest father to both your biological and foster children. I will never forget some of the very difficult conversations we had as Father and child. You were a formidable pillar of our great family, constantly showing us what it meant to be strong, brave, caring and courageous so that if and when we are tried, we will only shake but not fall. Thank you for always keeping me on my toes and for being unapologetically yourself. I remember your chat with me about why certain things happened to some people. Your advice and guidance will continue to carry me through the joys and trials that life has to offer. Contemplating your absence is unthinkable, but I pray that the Lord will fill the gap. Throughout your life, you embodied courage, honesty of purpose and passion for truth. You were so generous in spirit, and you abhorred hypocrisy and dishonesty. You were a man of many parts - a challenge to describe a son, a brother, a husband, a father, a grandfather, a friend, a philanthropist, a philosopher and above all, a man who feared and loved God. You played each part with unmitigated devotion and passion. Your love for horses, your uprightness, your nobility and your integrity are things I admire. A void exists within me, which I know will remain forever because there can never be another you, dear Dad. Rest well, “Daddy dearest” in the loving arms of the great and mighty Father of all humankind. May God’s grace and mercy continue to abide with you and those of us you’ve left behind. While I’m devastated by your painful departure, I’m consoled that you were such a loving and doting father whom I was privileged to call “Daddy dearest.” Love, Banke Balogun • Page 36 •
“He is still with us, and he is comfortable, Gboyega. I spent time with him this afternoon, telling him how much we all love him. You can do the same tomorrow.” This was the text I received from my wife Emma upon landing in Doha after an excruciating seven-hour flight from Lusaka with no Wi-Fi. Before leaving Lusaka, all I knew was that Daddy had lost consciousness and was en route to the hospital. Daddy was a fighter, my hero, and effectively immortal in my eyes. He had promised me he would live until at least a hundred, so whilst I knew it was serious, I believed he would pull through, just like he always did. Those words from Emma will forever be etched in my mind, especially as the specifics of the business trip were the last discussion I had with Daddy before I travelled, and he was so proud of what we were about to do! What followed were the hardest and most emotionally draining five days of my life, which culminated, by God’s Grace, in the most beautiful and peaceful end to a truly blessed life; my brothers and I holding daddy’s arms and legs and singing his favourite hymn ‘Through the love of God our saviour all will be well’ as he drew his last breath. The calls and messages I have received from every sphere of society have been a humbling experience. It has been a demonstration of the love and respect everyone has for my Dad, as well as the profound and positive impact he had on so many lives. I believe every individual has a unique calling. And with that calling, talent, and blessing, he, or she must bless and positively impact as many lives as possible. I can proudly say that Daddy fulfilled his mission on earth. He came, he saw, he conquered, and he did it uncompromisingly and unapologetically his way! He was proud, unique, and in your face, but only because he was confident of God’s presence in his life and wanted everyone to know what God had done for him and what he had used those blessings to do for humanity. He made the most of his blessings and impacted thousands, if not millions, within and outside of Nigeria. I began dreaming of your death a month before you passed. I woke up in floods of tears, and Emma had to comfort me. It was so real. Almost every night thereafter, I dreamt about your passing, right until the night before you had that ‘catastrophic’ stroke. I believe God was preparing me, as you had no pre-existing condition that would make me think your death was imminent, quite the contrary! These premonitions have truly strengthened my faith in the Almighty during this challenging period. It has all been quite surreal, but I am starting to find my feet again. Work does not mourn, especially when my work is one of your legacies, one that I intend to uphold. I will miss your calls, asking me to calculate the number of shares you held, the value in naira, and the value in dollars, right up to a few days before your stroke. To say you were a diligent man is an understatement. Out of frustration, I would at times say some random figure, but on each occasion, they were followed by those hallowed words that always put a smile on my face - “No, dear boy, calculate it again” - you knew the answer even before asking the question. So why ask it? It is only now I know that it was simply your way of ensuring I was fully on top of things. Or your calls asking me, ‘’How is the market?’’ which actually meant, ‘How are FCMB shares trading? Why are FCMB shares trading below XYZ bank?’ When I would say, ‘’Daddy, it is not the share price that you should be obsessing about, but the market capitalisation or the return on equity’’ -you would look at me with a wry smile (and I know that smile also meant “no, dear boy”) and repeat the same question about the share price, totally ignoring my advice. Only now do I see the wisdom in those very deliberate questions. Everything you did was deliberate, but to those who did not understand you, which included me in my younger days, we could not help but wonder why! Those who understood your focus, tenacity, and God-given mission, something I began to comprehend in my latter years, recognise the genius of your questions. • Page 37 •
I cannot write a testimony about you without mentioning your love for your daughters-in-law and your grandchildren. You practised tough love on your four boys, which I think all of us now appreciate, but with your daughters-in-law and your grandchildren, you were utterly disarmed. Seeing your interaction with them always put a smile on my face. With Emma in particular, despite your initial reservations about her not being Nigerian and potentially taking your son away, you not only fell in love with her but drew her close. Your love for her can only be described as ironic, given how it all began. But in your typical way, there was reason for your initial reservations. When all is said and done, I now see the pride you had in me. I think you saw a lot of yourself in me - single-mindedness bordering on stubbornness, pinstripe suits, flamboyance, fear of God, not taking ‘no’ for an answer, and focusing on a business that God gave during a period of adversity. I often recall the pride beaming on your face when you came to my office in London. So proud that you either did not see or chose to ignore the fact that our logo was totally different from that of the FCMB Group. I was so worried about your reaction to it that day, but you did not say a word. Instead, after saying hello to my staff, you proceeded downstairs to the jewellers, a co-tenant in the building, bought yourself a Rolex watch, and proudly told them, “You know my son’s office is above you, and he’s doing …….” Daddy, you ran a good race, completing it in your unique style by catching us all by surprise. But more importantly, you bowed out at the very top of your game. Although I miss you deeply, I would not have enjoyed seeing my hero and my colossus adversely affected by the pitfalls of old age; and I believe you would not have relished such a prospect either. Despite your constant assurances that you would reach the age of one hundred, I could see you were fighting old age. I would regularly ask you how you were doing, and you would reply, “I am fine but for the vestiges of old age.” I love you, Daddy, and I am missing you so much already. But I will honour your memory by staying strong and relentless, despite adversity, to achieve my unique calling. I will be following the example you set for me and so many across the globe. Rest well, Daddy. We will take care of your first love, Mummy, until we inevitably meet again on resurrection day, when I will hear you say in that booming voice and slight American accent that only you, and Cameron mimics, can do …. “How are you?” I end by reciting the lyrics of Frank Sinatra’s ‘My Way’, as it so aptly describes you: (Verse 1] And now, the end is near And so I face the final curtain My friend, I’ll say it clear I’ll state my case, of which I’m certain I’ve lived a life that’s full I travelled each and every highway And more, much more than this I did it my way [Verse 2] Regrets, I’ve had a few But then again, too few to mention I did what I had to do And saw it through without exemption I planned each charted course Each careful step along the byway And more, much more than this I did it my way • Page 38 •
[Chorus] Yes, there were times, I’m sure you knew When I bit off more than I could chew But through it all, when there was doubt I ate it up and spit it out I faced it all, and I stood tall And did it my way [Verse 3] I’ve loved, I’ve laughed and cried I’ve had my fill, my share of losing And now, as tears subside I find it all so amusing To think I did all that And may I say, not in a shy way Oh, no, oh, no, not me I did it my way [Chorus] For what is a man, what has he got? If not himself, then he has naught To say the things he truly feels And not the words of one who kneels The record shows I took the blows And did it my way Gboyega Balogun • Page 39 •
We are utterly heartbroken to lose this giant of a man. There will be many things written about my wonderful father-in-law over the coming years – about his accomplishments, achievements, and his legacy. And they are all true, he was an incredible man – an icon, a pioneer and a philanthropist. But to me, he was Daddy and Grandpa. A kind, gentle and generous man with a cheeky sense of humour and endless patience for me and his Grandchildren. He gave me the Yoruba name Funsho, which means “God has given me to watch over” and he really did. He took me into his family and his heart and always made me feel welcome and loved. He liked to boast of his “United Nations” of daughters. I have many happy memories of Daddy. He always chuckled when I wore traditional outfits with a gele and he referred to me as his “darling daughter”. When I was in hospital in Chelsea having just given birth to our second child, a hush descended over the entire ward when Daddy and the Awujale entered the corridor bedecked in full agbada with their coral necklaces and beaded canes. They had gone out for a drive together and decided to pop by and check on the latest addition to the Balogun clan (number 8 of 16). He adored his Grandchildren and nothing pleased him more than sitting with them sharing stories of his youth, in exchange for updates on how their schooling was going and their future plans for world domination. Daddy encouraged us to work hard and not to falter. He led with integrity and taught us discipline, loyalty and kindness. These traits he instilled in Gboyega have already been passed down to our children Oluwaseunfunmi, Olukayode and Abimbola. They are his true legacy. Farewell to thee! but not farewell To all my fondest thoughts of thee: Within my heart they still shall dwell; And they shall cheer and comfort me. (Anna Bronte) Sleep well Daddy. Emma Balogun • Page 40 •
If you have my grandpa’s number on WhatsApp you may be wondering who the lady in his display picture is. That’s me, his first grandchild. I just had to mention this as it makes me so happy that he thought of me so fondly to put me as his WhatsApp profile picture for everyone to see (and he called me to let me know he had put me on there haha!) Subomi Balogun became a grandfather on the 18th of May 1997 when I was born, followed shortly after by my twin brother. For the longest time it was just us two, the Royal Twins, as Mama Ijebu (our great grandmother, grandpa’s mother) called us. We ran riot in grandpa’s house on Sanusi Fafunwa, playing so much in and on the glass topped table upstairs in the living room outside his bedroom that we broke the glass (with zero repercussions). Another core memory of mine was going to Ijebu as toddlers as the only two grandchildren for more than five years. Grandpa decided to create a petting zoo for us as ‘children’s entertainment’, which, looking back now I find absolutely wild and hilarious. We literally had ostrich, antelope, rabbits, chickens in a coop, peacocks and various other farm animals in our backyard, I’m not sure of many people that can boast of a childhood memory like this, not even my cousins or younger siblings experienced it the way my twin brother, Michael and I did. I vividly remember how we would spend early mornings collecting eggs to take to the kitchen for our breakfast that day. Grandpa also opened a paediatric ward and dedicated it to my brother and I who were born pre-term. He bought neonatal baby incubators for the hospital (which were scarce at the time) as Michael and I spent a large chunk of time growing and developing in these as newborn babies. I just look back and think about what an amazing show of love that was! He used his love for us and gratefulness to God to foster an environment that could help others. My grandpa gave the love of many to us and I will forever love him for that. I was fortunate enough to have spent a large chunk of the last few years of my grandpa’s life with him in Lagos and in London, talking with him and really getting to know him more intimately as a person. It was in these quiet moments that I got to see the striking similarities between him and my dad (physically and behaviourally) and understand the reasons why he was the way that he was. He was an extremely disciplined man who strove to be the very best at anything he set his mind to do. He held his family close and always emphasised the importance of remembering the home you come from. My grandpa was an exemplary Nigerian. This is evident in the things I have found out in the immediate aftermath of his passing, about historical events he was involved in such as the drafting of the act that initiated Nigeria’s independence or the things he did to ensure he always had a crisp white shirt with no browning at the neckline (funny, I know). I feel blessed to have all these stories and memories to carry with me even though my grandpa is no longer here. I am still in disbelief but find joy in the fact that my grandpa lived a full and impactful life in all ways. 2020 - 2023 were particularly special as he was able to witness many of my personal milestones like my graduation from University, completion of NYSC, and securing my first job and my first pay check which he told me I need to give to my parents (lol). As his only grandchild to have achieved all 3 of these whilst he was alive, I feel very fortunate that he was able to see this and he made sure to let me know just how proud he was of me. I loved my grandpa dearly and as I got older used to randomly turn up at his house on my own or with my friends just to sit and talk with him, listen to stories of his life or just update him on what was going on in my life. I love watching event videos on YouTube and remember the day my mummy and I introduced my grandpa to YouTube in London and bought AppleTV • Page 41 •
so he could have it connected in his room. The day I walked into his house and he said to Mr Koffi, ‘turn on the YouTube’ I laughed to myself because before now it was NTA or DVDs he would watch on repeat. I am happy for the latter part of my grandpa’s life, he was someone I could crack jokes about various things you wouldn’t even imagine. I remember my grandpa told me he would be in London from the start of May. I was quite excited that I might get to see him around my birthday as I don’t think this hasn’t happened since I started school in England in 2008. I had a strong leading to visit him as much as I could. I had planned to spend my birthday in the US with my sisters and was leaving London on the 10th so I didn’t have long before my departure. I managed to see my grandpa three times in this period between the 4th and 10th of May and I really wish I could have seen him some more. I am grateful to God for being able to have those moments alone with him. The morning I was leaving London I woke up extra early and decided to go and spend some time with him at home. I was with him for about 45 mins and he just seemed so happy and content with his life, in a way, it is comforting for me to know he didn’t have worries in his final days. On this same day, 18th of May 2023 (exactly 26 years after he became a grandfather) my grandpa went to be with God. It’s kind of special that Michael and I were the only grandchildren present for his last birthday in March and he ‘waited’ for our birthday to come before leaving us. I am grateful for the 26 years I got of grandpa Sanusi, I pray for his soul and ask that God grant him eternal rest. I am sad that there is still so much of life to live and he won’t be here to experience it all, but I hold on to the time we had and my family members that are left behind that we can continue to share in the joy he brought to this world and remember him for the good he did whilst on this earth. Thank you for the numerous memories I will forever cherish and never forget. I love you and even though I used to pose, I wish I could give you one last peck. Your ‘Accountant’ and Royal Twin 1 Michele Oluwafeyisayo Balogun OTUNBA MICHAEL OLASUBOMI BALOGUN My Bittersweet Symphony. 18th of May I was born. 18th of May you became a Grandad, my Grandad. 18th of May you left me on my birthday and I am heartbroken and I miss you everyday Grandpa. I see that you waited for my birthday before you went to be with GOD Almighty so I take comfort that we could share one • Page 42 •
last birthday together. MICHAEL, “Who is like GOD?” It’s an honour not only to be his first grandson but to bear the same name as him. Otunba Michael Olasubomi Balogun CON, The Olori Omo Oba Akile Ijebu and Asiwaju of ljebu Christians was my Grandad. My Grandfather was a great man he was stern, disciplined, elegant, hardworking, excellent, honest, courageous and tenacious man. Strong in his Christian faith he lived his life on his own terms but lived the way JESUS wants. Growing up, it seemed my twin and I were living a fairytale. We would go to Grandpa’s office and scatter the whole place. If it was a board meeting day, Grandpa would take us into the meeting to show us off. I remember once being carried by a female board member and mistakenly I poured her drink of Fanta on her. I wanted to cry and Grandpa told her she was lucky to have one of his Royal Twins (as Mama Ijebu had christened us) bless her with Fanta. Our mother asked Grandpa if we could have a play area in Ijebu, the next time we visited, Grandpa had built an animal enclosure with antelope, and ostriches! Grandpa loved his children and Grandchildren. His philanthropy, his love for children is unparalleled. The Otunba Tunwase National Paediatric Centre, Ijebu-Ode, Ogun, a facility built by Grandpa and equipped to cater for research, training and medical care of infants, children and adolescents is a testament to his deep devotion to children’s health and welfare. Grandpa loved his sons, I can only pray that as he has gone to rest, none of them will let him down. That they will hold onto the great and enormous legacy that he has left behind. I pray this family remains united in JESUS Name. I miss him so much. Michael Oluwadayo Balogun My Grandpa was a man who touched the lives of everyone around him. His warm smile, gentle demeanor, and unwavering love created a sense of comfort and security that made him the center of our family. He was a pillar of strength, always offering me guidance and support whenever I needed it. Icon is the word that comes closest to describing my Grandpa, yet even that does not capture the essence of this remarkable man. I remember how proud I felt when he came to visit my school in Lagos and how cool all my friends thought his all white agbada, fila, and matching cane looked. Grandpa was someone I could boast about not only because of his fashion choices but because of his kindness and patience - especially with his grandchildren. No matter what we did wrong, in his eyes, we were always loved unconditionally. Family meant everything to Grandpa, and he instilled in us the importance of cherishing those closest to us. He created • Page 43 •
countless memories that I will forever hold dear. I remember sitting alongside all of my siblings, cousins and our beaming Grandpa as we all said what we enjoyed about coming together in Ijebu Ode each Christmas; during these moments, I’d get tired after I said my part knowing there were 13 more grandchildren after me but right now I miss those times more than anything. From family gatherings filled with laughter and love to quiet moments of togetherness, he created a strong bond that will continue to unite us, even in his absence. One of the greatest gifts Grandpa bestowed upon me was his wisdom. He possessed a wealth of knowledge that extended far beyond textbooks and encyclopedias. Our conversations about his experience in school, both at Igbobi College and the London School Economics, heavily influenced me and my studies. Grandpa and I would talk about the courses I’m taking each semester and it would always make me smile when he’d point out how similar they were to what he had studied. I felt strengthened even when I experience difficulties in university in Los Angeles knowing that my Grandpa had done so before me and with more obstacles than me and excelled. He taught us all life lessons through his own actions, demonstrating the importance of kindness, compassion, and integrity. His stories and anecdotes not only entertained us but also imparted invaluable wisdom and advice that we will carry with us throughout our lives. Grandpa had an infectious passion for life. He cherished every moment, embracing the beauty of the world around him. Whether it was walking around the farm in Otunba Tunwase Court, sharing stories of his adventures, or simply sitting quietly, amongst the rest of the family, he reminded us of the preciousness of time and the importance of finding joy in the little things no matter how mundane they seemed. Grandpa’s passing leaves a void in our lives, but it also serves as a reminder to live each day to the fullest and to make every moment count. I hope to honor his memory by embodying the qualities he so gracefully displayed; and to continue his legacy of love, kindness, and resilience, ensuring that his spirit lives on through us. I am so thankful that I was blessed enough to have lived 20 years of my life with Grandpa. Although he is no longer with us I take solace in knowing that Grandpa lived a life worth emulating and is now at rest with his maker in heaven. I miss you so much Grandpa. Tim Tim Michaela Oluwatimilehin Balogun My grandpa was born March 1934 and I was born March 2004 meaning that we celebrated all our milestone birthdays together. The news of Grandpa’s passing was truly so shocking and it hurts to know that our next big milestone 90 and 20 will be celebrated alone. I’m so grateful to Grandpa and the ways that he guided me throughout my life. From general life lessons, to school, or even • Page 44 •
the little things. I remember when I was 11 and I had gotten braces to close the gap in my teeth but it had reopened. Grandpa helped me to be proud of my gap and it became a symbol of the bond that we had. Grandpa took every opportunity to show his grandchildren how loved and blessed they were. His generosity knew no end and these qualities are some that I wish to emulate in my life. He instilled in us values that brought out the best in us. He made sure that we were appreciative of our heritage and where we came from – calling us by our Yoruba names at all times. When we would go to Grandpa’s house, we sat in his room and would watch all the old Ojude Oba videos and Grandpa made sure to explain to us the meaning of everything surrounding it. Although at the time I wasn’t as interested, I have grown so appreciative of the lessons that Grandpa taught us. I didn’t realise it before but Grandpa is and will continue to be one of my greatest role models. I’m so grateful to GOD for all the time we were able to spend together. Not only because of the influence he had on my studies at school and the inspiration of his work ethic but because of his character. Grandpa showed so much generosity and integrity throughout his life and was a mentor to so many people because of this. Losing grandpa has been very hard but I am comforted in knowing that the values he held so dear live on in the many people he helped throughout his life. I’m so blessed to have been his granddaughter. I love and miss my Grandpa so much. Marianne Olukonyinsola Balogun TRIBUTE FOR GRANDPA I have always been close to my grandfather, Michael Olasubomi Balogun and he was always rather involved in my interests. We shared many similarities from our passion for Classics, specifically Latin, which he taught at one point on leaving Igbobi College after completing his secondary school education; another area we found great discussion points was Philosophy, Politics and Economics. He was quick to encourage me to pursue those disciplines as they had in his development as a young man contributed to his standing in life. Grandpa would always remind me of our similarity in appearance and often complimented my smart looks, telling me to maintain my high grades at school and very good academic reports which my mother always shared with him. I miss Grandpa. • Page 45 •