Jack and Jill of America, Inc. 70th Annual Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference Hosted by Capital City, Durham and Fayetteville Chapters June 22-25, 2023 Raleigh Convention Center
Regional Teen Exec Board Congratulations Class of 2023 Teen President Ciara Grant Teen Vice President Honesty McQueen Teen Treasurer Julian Duncan Teen Secretary Alexis Bennett Teen Foundation Chair Taylor David
Table of Contents Greetings Conference Standards Conference Attire and Agenda Regional Leadership Conference Delegates and Alternates Committee Description & Assignments Conference Awards & Winners Teen JJOA Foundation Contribution Speakers, Workshops & Entertainment TLC Attendees Regional Program Year Senior Ads Sponsors 3 24 32 46 49 52 58 64 69 72 78 81 126
Greetings
OFFICE OF THE MAYOR CITY OF DURHAM Sincerely, June 5, 2023 Elaine M. O'Neal Mayor Greetings Jack and Jill of America Incorporated Members, Teens, and Family Members from North Carolina, South Carolina, and Virginia On behalf of the Durham City Council and residents of Durham, I am honored to welcome Jack and Jill of America Incorporated members as you convene for your Mid-Atlantic Region's 70th Teen Leadership Conference hosted in North Carolina. Jack and Jill is long recognized for its leadership in serving the needs of children and families in various communities by providing constructive education and cultural, civic, recreational, social, and community service programs. At the conclusion of what I know will be an energizing and spirit-filled meeting, I am confident that each of you will depart feeling refreshed, challenged, and recommitted to continued service. Again, welcome to North Carolina. 101 City Hall Plaza, Second Floor, Durham, NC 27701 919.560.4333 DurharnNC.gov Follow Us @CityofDurhamNC oo e
Tarcia N. Flemming Regional Director Columbia Chapter Daralyn Bryant Regional Treasurer Fayetteville Chapter Tomisha Gladman Regional Secretary Winston-Salem Chapter Tiffany Spann-Wilder Foundation Member at Large Charleston Chapter Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary South Charlotte Chapter Marvelous Mid-Atlantic Regional families and guests, Greetings to a most spectacular group of conference attendees in Jack and Jill history! It is with great pride and excitement that I welcome you to the 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference – “Melanin Magic”. Your melanin is reflected in your skin color and your magic is reflected in your magnificent results. The Capital City, Durham and Fayetteville chapters in partnership with the Regional Executive Leadership Team have worked tirelessly to plan a memorable conference. Our prayer is the conference demonstrates a celebration of your excellence in leadership and programming - platinum style and your melanin magic - royalty style. Your participation is paramount to the success of our conference. I encourage you to engage in all conference activities. Network, learn something new, and be inspired by all that is in store for you. When you learn you are enhanced and when enhanced, you are unstoppable. Work your magic, pop your melanin and have fun as we work, play and live together over the next few days. Congratulations to the Class of 2023. May your strength, resilience and perseverance carry you on this journey designed specifically for you. We support you and we cheer loudly in anticipation of your success. Please accept this invitation to imagine vividly and accomplish the impossible while exceeding all expectations. May you each have continued success as you spread your “Melanin Magic” across the globe remembering these words from Eugene King in his song titled Pretty Brown Skin - your black presence is necessary. In Pink & Blue Service, Tarcia N. Flemming 23rd Mid-Atlantic Regional Director
Greetings MARvelous Mothers and Teens! I am honored to greet you as the Mid-Atlantic Regional Treasurer and t is with great excitement that we embark upon this 70th Platinum Teen Leadership Conference in Raleigh, North Carolina together to work, play and live in Jack and Jill. We gather in the spirit of gratitude and hope for a better tomorrow. Senior Class of 2023, congratulations! You should be extremely proud of this moment and know that you deserve all the successes and celebrations that you work diligently toward. As you've donned your cap and gown and turned your tassel from the right to the left, I urge you to pause, reflect and celebrate YOU fin this moment as you simply take it all in. High School Graduation is an accomplishment in itself - but you did not simply achieve the goal of graduating. You achieved that goal in the wake of an ongoing global pandemic that required us to create new norms in civil unrest. Teens, your Melanin Magic is demonstrated in your excellence in leadership and perseverance to adapt and thrive in any environment. You possess the skills and talents to change the world. I am proud of you, and I am thankful for the opportunity to enjoy this portion of the journey with you. To the moms of the Durham Chapter, Capital City Chapter and my home chapter, Fayetteville, I salute you for a job well done. Congratulations on a successful Teen Leadership Conference. With great admiration and gratitude, RT Daralyn Bryant 2021-2023 Mid-Atlantic Regional Treasurer Tarcia N. Flemming Regional Director Columbia Chapter Daralyn Bryant Regional Treasurer Fayetteville Chapter Tomisha Gladman Regional Secretary Winston-Salem Chapter Tiffany Spann-Wilder Foundation Member at Large Charleston Chapter Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary South Charlotte Chapter
Greetings MARvelous Jack and Jill Teens, Mothers, Fathers and Guests! It is with great pleasure that I welcome you to the 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference for the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill Incorporated. I always say, “Teen Leadership Conference is a magical time”. Thank you, MAR Regional Teen Officers, Capital City, Durham, and Fayetteville Chapters, and Regional Leadership Team for your collaboration in ensuring this Teen Leadership Conference is a true example of what Melanin Magic feels like. What is Melanin Magic? Well, I think of it as that superpower that each of you reading this greeting possesses. It is the way we make the impossible possible. Congratulations Class of 2023! We have enjoyed watching you complete this part of your journey and look forward to seeing where your next adventure takes you. Jack and Jill Teens, you are more than ready, and better than prepared. Go be great in your next chapter! Stand ready to unleash the true splendor of your “Melanin Magic” on the world. In Pink and Blue Service, Tomisha Gladman Mid-Atlantic Regional Secretary Tarcia N. Flemming Regional Director Columbia Chapter Daralyn Bryant Regional Treasurer Fayetteville Chapter Tomisha Gladman Regional Secretary Winston-Salem Chapter Tiffany Spann-Wilder Foundation Member at Large Charleston Chapter Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary South Charlotte Chapter
HELLO MARvelous Mid-Atlantic Region Teens! I am honored to be the gatekeeper of your TLC giving and sharing experiences for this 70th Annual Mid-Atlantic Region Teen Leadership Conference (TLC). Teens, I am excited that you will be able to come together to create lasting relationships, learn more on topics of interest and provide service to the communities serviced by The Capital City, Durham and Fayetteville Chapters. The Jack and Jill of America Foundation and DoubleGood Popcorn have sponsored several unique community service opportunities during this conference. There will be opportunities to build bicycles, give the gift of reading which inspires a lifetime of learning, assist families whose children have no bed of their own to sleep on and provide youth in foster care with new bed linens for their stay with a new family. I hope that the opportunities for service at TLC 2023 will not only transform the children and families our efforts will impact, but that each of you will be transformed by recognizing that what you do for others truly makes a difference. The conference theme of “Melanin Magic” will show forth the power of your generation in making a difference for those that you will share the future of our great country with in your giving as you set the foundation for the future of Black America with your “each one, reach one” efforts. I also wish to commend the Regional Executive Board and fierce Mother Members of The Capital City, Durham and Fayetteville Chapters for the great lift in making this all come together. You will be in awe of the entire conference!!! Congratulations Class of 2023! You are evolving into our greatest model of, “Make Them Leaders We Must!” The resilience that you have shown in your high school career in pivoting out of the classroom to being educated at home and then back to the classroom without missing a beat is commendable! It is crystal clear that you are equipped to weather life’s storms. Finally, I wish to extend a special thank you to Regional Teen Foundation Chair (RTFC) Taylor David for her energetic and passionate leadership in urging the Mid-Atlantic Region Teens to “Give In Pink & Blue” with her vision of giving more time to hands-on service and encouraging an increase in teen Foundation giving. Your star shines bright, the future is waiting for you…..take your place. I am looking forward to working alongside each of you as we make a difference in our “Giving in Pink and Blue” as we add Melanin to make it Magic!! With a Servant’s Heart, Tiffany R. Spann-Wilder Tiffany R. Spann-Wilder Mid-Atlantic Regional Foundation Member-at-Large Tarcia N. Flemming Regional Director Columbia Chapter Daralyn Bryant Regional Treasurer Fayetteville Chapter Tomisha Gladman Regional Secretary Winston-Salem Chapter Tiffany Spann-Wilder Foundation Member at Large Charleston Chapter Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary South Charlotte Chapter
On Behalf of over 400 Associates in the Marvelous Mid-Atlantic Region, I welcome you to Raleigh, North Carolina for the 70th Teen Leadership Conference. All of us have traveled these roads, and we know the significance of this week, this day, this time, this moment…. A moment where you will envision all aspects of… “Melanin Magic.” To the teens who will soon experience another opportunity to gain knowledge and leadership skills, we wish you the very best as this is only the beginning of expectations you may not have imagined. You can do this. To the graduating seniors, we know that this can be a time of hesitation; however, know that you will have the strength to push through. Move forward with confidence believing that you can accomplish all things. You will never know unless you try. To the mothers who may soon find themselves bridging to the category of a tenured mother and Associate Jewel, we welcome you. As Associates, we continue to support our children and chapter through our knowledge and wisdom. You can make a difference throughout the region. Congratulations to the Regional Executive Board and Teen Executive Board for planning and implementing what will be another successful conference. Thank you for allowing me to serve and represent our Associate Jewels. Regards, Donna Moore Stoeling Regional Associate Chair Tarcia N. Flemming Regional Director Columbia Chapter Daralyn Bryant Regional Treasurer Fayetteville Chapter Tomisha Gladman Regional Secretary Winston-Salem Chapter Tiffany Spann-Wilder Foundation Member at Large Charleston Chapter Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary South Charlotte Chapter
Greetings to the MARvelous Mid-Atlantic Region, It is with mixed emotion that I welcome you to the 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference hosted by the Capital City, Durham and Fayetteville Chapters. My personal journey as a mother member will transition this year as I complete my tenure. I celebrate my own daughter’s commencement along with the hundreds of other graduating seniors we will honor this year during our Rites of Passage and gala.The Mid Atlantic Jack and Jill family has been our village for almost 15 years and we could not be more grateful. My gratitude begins with my predecessors, Associates Loury Floyd and Donna Stoeling who provided a blueprint for working with our teens and providing the tools necessary to keep them engaged, even through the virtual years. It is my hope to leave the next Regional Teen Advisor a legacy worthy of the one left to me to build on. Regional Directors Tarcia N. Flemming and Chanda Douglas Ward, along with National Officers Claudia Curtis and Nichelle Levy, I thank you all for the incredible opportunities to stretch my leadership skills on a regional and national level in our beloved organization. I have gained as much as I have given in my journey because of the wonderful sister moms I have had an opportunity to serve with. To all of the chapter moms who poured into my child, I love and appreciate your commitment to creating an environment of true sisterly support. I do not take for granted knowing that when our children come together they are safe, challenged and encouraged in a way that allows them to discover the Melanin Magic within themselves. Finally, it has been an incredible privilege to work alongside three groups of Regional Teen Officers and Appointees as they grew in poise and confidence taking the risk to imagine and create together. The world is much better off with you in it. As each of you moves on, don’t forget to Work, Play and Live! Warrenetta C. Mann Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Advisor Tarcia N. Flemming Regional Director Columbia Chapter Daralyn Bryant Regional Treasurer Fayetteville Chapter Tomisha Gladman Regional Secretary Winston-Salem Chapter Tiffany Spann-Wilder Foundation Member at Large Charleston Chapter Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary South Charlotte Chapter
I am thrilled to greet you all on behalf of the Mid-Atlantic Region Teen board and the Captivating Charlotte Chapter. The Regional Teen Board and I are extremely excited to welcome you all to the 70th annual Teen Leadership Conference of the Mid-Atlantic Region. The Teen board and I are excited to have this opportunity to host this year's Teen Leadership conference. We hope you guys have an amazing time and have the opportunity to meet all of the amazing teens hailing in the Mid-Atlantic Region. Our mission is to make this year's Teen Leadership Conference In Raleigh, North Carolina one to remember. I’ve had the pleasure of serving as your Regional Teen Vice President. This has been an amazing opportunity and experience for me. I had the chance to build amazing bonds with my Regional board. I’ve also met amazing teens, parents, children etc. at many of this year's events. I loved the opportunity to meet so many amazing people from different chapters and even different regions. As I serve the rest of my term as Regional Teen Vice President, I would like to thank everyone that has supported, listened and helped me through this amazing journey. I would like to give a special thank you to my mom for not only pushing me to be the very best, but encouraging me to keep going and taking me to all of our regional events. I would like to thank my chapter for being so supportive of me. I would like to thank my Regional Teen Board for being an amazing board and making this program year a success. I would like to thank RD Tarcia Flemming, all of the RTAs and the Regional Board for the never ending support and understanding. This year has been a pleasure. I also want to take the time to congratulate the class of 2023. We did it! I know it has not been easy, but each and every one of you pushed through and have made it. I want to wish all of you the very best as you journey through the new challenges and opportunities of adulthood. Let's make this Teen Leadership Conference a great one! With Love, Honesty McQueen Regional Teen Vice President
Hello Mid-Atlantic Region Teens! I am thrilled to welcome our Jack and Jill family to the 70th annual Teen Leadership Conference in Raleigh, North Carolina! This is a time for all teens to come together and learn valuable leadership skills, while having fun and making new friends. Our goal is to provide an unforgettable experience, filled with exciting activities, workshops, and opportunities for growth. This year's theme is Melanin Magic. All chapters will be able to show their unique and great perspectives on what Melanin Magic truly is. Serving as your 2022-2023 Regional Teen Treasurer has been an amazing experience. It was fun seeing different faces and meeting new people at events such as National Convention, FAWD, COPA, Jack and Jill Day, National Founders’ Day, and Children’s Cluster. As I serve the rest of my term as Regional Teen Treasurer, I would like to thank all the people that have supported me and helped me throughout my journey. I would like to thank my chapter for pushing me and supporting me through 2022 TLC. I would like to thank the 2022-2023 Teen Executive Board for always being attentive and helpful. I would like to thank the RTAs and RD Tarcia for guiding me this year. Most of all I would like to thank the Jack and Jill teens for being so accepting and allowing me to serve you. I would like to congratulate the Class of 2023. You all have contributed and done so much for your chapter, community and our Region during your busy and demanding last year of high school. As a sophomore, I have been able to see all the great things you all have been able to accomplish over your journey up to this point. I know our Region will remain strong as new groups of teens join and graduate out. Thank you all for allowing me to serve as your Regional Teen Treasurer during the 2022-2023 programming year. Sincerely, Julian Duncan Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Treasurer
Teens, Mothers, and Guests, I am thrilled to greet you on behalf of the Mid-Atlantic Region and the Fabulous Fayetteville Chapter of Jack & Jill of America, Incorporated. We welcome you to the 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference of the MidAtlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated. The Regional Teen Executive Board is excited to host you in Raleigh, North Carolina, for an exhilarating in-person teen conference! With last programming year being our first in-person conference in 2 years, the Regional Teen Executive Board and I are excited to bring you all some fun, exciting, and interactive activities! We hope you will enjoy this conference! We have prepared events and opportunities to collaborate and celebrate the achievements of all of our Jacks and Jill teens. Additionally, we will elect a new regional teen executive board to lead us into the 2023-2024 programming year. It has been an honor to serve as your Regional Secretary and as a host for this year’s teen conference. Furthermore, the Regional Teen Executive Board and I welcome you to North Carolina’s capital City, Raleigh, North Carolina. I hope that during this time, we can create community, exciting memories, and lifelong friendships through the various activities available during this year’s conference. Although, as you know, our 2023 Teen Conference theme is “Melanin Magic,” I am excited for the journey of all of our Jacks and Jills as we propel into the future that God has designed for each of us. Last but certainly not least, I would like to congratulate my class of 2023’s graduating seniors. It has been a wonderful experience laughing, leading, and learning with you over the years. I wish all of you the best of luck in your future endeavors and hope you know that you always have the support of your Jack & Jill family. I know you will continue to be strong leaders, strive for excellence, and remember the importance of volunteerism and community. Let’s have a fantastic 2023 Teen Leadership Conference and strive to learn, laugh and connect! Best, Regional Teen Secretary Alexis Bennett
BerniceBond TLCCo-Chair Durham Chapter Dr.PiaDuncan TLCCo-Chair CapitalCityChapter AndreaDurant TLCCo-Chair Durham Chapter FrancoiseDesir TLCCo-Chair CapitalCityChapter Dr.Yvette Stokes TLCCo-Chair FayettevilleChapter Greetings Teens, Mothers, and Guests of the MARvelous Mid-Atlantic Region! Welcome to Raleigh, North Carolina for the 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference and congratulations to the class of 2023! We are thrilled to welcome you to this exciting event celebrating the beauty and power of melanin! We believe that this conference will inspire and empower you to continue embracing your unique identity and achieving your full potential. The Capital City, Durham, and Fayetteville Chapters have diligently worked to ensure that over the course of the conference, you have the opportunity to attend engaging workshops and hear inspiring keynote speeches, participate in interactive activities, and connect with other teens from across the region. Our speakers and facilitators are all experts in their fields, and they are committed to providing you with valuable insights and tools to help you thrive. We hope that this conference will be a tranformative experience for you--one that helps you build confidence, cultivate meaningful relationships, and gain new perspectives on the world around you. Class of 2023 we are so proud of your accomplishments and can't wait to see what the future holds for you. For the Love of Jack and Jill,
Greetings Teens of the MARvelous Mid-Atlantic Region, On behalf of the Mid-Atlantic Region’s first chapter, the Dynamic and Devastating Durham Chapter, consisting of 73 mothers and families - it is an absolute joy to welcome you to the capital of the beautiful state of North Carolina for the 70th Teen Leadership Conference. We extend our appreciation and gratitude to the guidance and leadership provided by our phenomenal National President, Kornisha McGill-Brown, the Mid-Atlantic Regional Executive Board led by Regional Director Tarcia Flemming and Regional Teen President Ciara Grant and the Regional Teen Officers. Over the past year, we have worked tirelessly with the REB and RTOs to bring you an unforgettable conference experience. We look forward to honoring the class of 2023, serving the community, delivering a memorable experience with impactful speakers and workshops, and celebrating your many accomplishments. To the class of 2023, we are so incredibly proud of each of you. We are excited to see what the future holds as you move boldly forward to the next phase of your life. Be assured that your Jack and Jill family will always be here to encourage, support and lift you up as you begin the journey to become the future leaders of organizations, corporations, and indeed our country, as you make an impact on the world! Over the next few days, we will celebrate the Melanin Magic in each of you. While you are in the Research Triangle, we encourage you to take advantage of the opportunity to form lasting connections with teens from across the MidAtlantic Region. Many of the friends you make, you will have the fortune of seeing again as you matriculate beyond high school. We invite you to enjoy the 2023 Teen Leadership Conference to the fullest as you work, play, and live together. Long Live Jack and Jill!! Chandra S. Hollier, MD President, Durham Chapter Jack and Jill of America, Inc. Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated Durham Chapter – 2023-2025 Editor Chaplain Historian President Treasurer Vice-President Program Directors Financial Secretary Recording Secretary Corresponding Secretary Durham Chapter Website: Jack and Jill of America, Inc. Jack and Jill of America, Inc., Durham Chapter Kimberly Truesdale [email protected] Nakenge Robertson jjdurhamvp@gmailcom Danielle Range [email protected] Stephanie Ebron [email protected] Lakisha Robinson [email protected] Chandra S. Hollier [email protected] http://www.jack-and-jill.org/ http://jackandjilldurham.org/ Jovania Lewis [email protected] Anitra Royster [email protected] Gladys Mitchell-Walthour [email protected] PO Box 2902 Durham, NC 27715 [email protected] Stephanie Hawkins- Anderson Danyell Miller [email protected] [email protected]
Lisa Ellis Hailey, EdD President, Fayetteville Chapter Jack and Jill of America, Inc Greetings Mid-Atlantic Region Teens, Families and Friends, On behalf of the Fayetteville Chapter of Jack and Jill, we welcome you to the 70th Annual Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference. Our theme this year is Melanin Magic. One of Merriam-Websters’ definitions informs that magic is “an extraordinary power or influence seeming from a supernatural source”. This is the power and influence that dwells within our teens. In collaboration, the Fayetteville Chapter joined with the Capital City Chapter and Durham Chapter to co-host you during this year’s conference. Before the start of last summer, our teens and Chapter moms were preparing for the opportunity to greet you in our states’ capital. We are excited about the conference, and we are ready to allow the epitome of Melanin Magic among the Mid-Atlantic Region Teens to mesmerize as we encounter their compelling greatness! Throughout this year we have been captivated by the work of the Regional Teen Officers, especially our own amazing Alexis Bennett who has served well as Regional Teen Secretary. Beloved MAR Teens, from your expanding your financial knowledge and your philanthropic giving, to your action in civic responsibilities with letter-writing to support the Crown Act and the George Floyd Justice in Policing Act, and everything in-between, your commitment to your fellow teens and to society as young leaders have not gone unnoticed. The power of your Melanin Magic is dispersed like dust trails of change for a better society for us all. Congratulations to the Class of 2023! This is your time. Continue to sparkle and shine. Rise to the occasion. Stretch your limits. There is nothing impossible for you, after all, you possess Melanin Magic. On mission; on purpose, Lisa Ellis Hailey
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REGIONAL DIRECTOR: We hereby assemble to open formally the 70th annual meeting of the Teens of the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. We have come together from the chapters that comprise this region to make decisions which help to determine the future of our organization. We must remain ever mindful of the aims and objectives of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. To paraphrase these goals: The members of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated are committed to creating a medium of contact for you, our children, which will stimulate your growth and development into responsible citizens of tomorrow; and provide you with constructive educational, cultural, civic, recreational, and social experiences, many of which you have had an opportunity to assist in planning. We are committed to learn more about each other and dedicated to the pursuit of lofty goals which contribute significantly to self-improvement and the betterment of all mankind. We want to join hands with other members of our organization and subsequently with our fellow man. We must learn the HOW, the WHY, and the WHEN. Hence, we assemble for this regional conference. (LIGHT CANDLE.) TEEN PRESIDENT: Let us enter into the spirit of this meeting with love. (LIGHT CANDLE.) MEMBERS: We pledge ourselves to work together, in harmony. TEEN VICE PRESIDENT: Whatever tasks that we may be required to do we know it will be asked with love; therefore, we pledge ourselves. (LIGHT CANDLE) MEMBERS: Let us know that the race moves forward swiftly through its children and by the Grace of Almighty God. Setting our faces toward the morning, let us dedicate ourselves anew to the service and the welfare of mankind. TEEN SECRETARY: History will record the efforts of those who envisioned new things; and then, having dreamed, to make dreams realities through positive actions. (LIGHT CANDLE.) Mid-Atlantic Region Teen Conference “Melanin Magic” FORMAL OPENING REGIONAL TEEN CONFERENCE
MEMBERS: In the name of the founder and organizer of Jack and Jill of America, Inc. whose wisdom and action made it possible for us to be here, we dedicate ourselves anew. TEEN TREASURER: I light this candle in honor of the financial sacrifices that our parents have made, not only in assisting us to attend this kind of conference, but also, in respectful recognition of the innumerable times they have shown us that they are willing to do whatever is essential to support us in achieving worthwhile goals. (LIGHT CANDLE.) MEMBERS: We dedicate ourselves, to happy union, and to thoughtful deliberations; we humbly acknowledge our many blessings. TEEN FOUNDATION CHAIR: I light this candle in the spirit of giving. May we continue to make progress and uphold the purpose of this organization for which we are here assembled. (LIGHT CANDLE.) MEMBERS: We thank God for making us dear and kind, one to another, and for a giving heart. TEEN PARLIAMENTARIAN: I light this candle in honor of the rules and regulations that have been established by and for us. May we be mindful of them at all times, realizing that privileges require responsible conduct. (LIGHT CANDLE.) TEEN PRESIDENT: Let us repeat, in unison, the charge of the members of this assembly: MEMBERS: Grant, O God, that we may all feel that this conference is in every way OURS; that we would see great questions from a wider perspective and approach our problems equipped with the best resources and methods for solving them; and that we would prove ourselves capable of independent thinking, assuming responsibility, and justifying confidence. Give us, we beseech Thee, the willingness to consider the viewpoints of others and to acknowledge the merit of their work. In these sessions, may we get a chance to think through a few crucial questions and to deliberate current issues effectively. May this conference help us to see things more clearly and provide for us a sense of duty and a new call to service. Help us to make this meeting our own by making our real needs known, Give us all, O God, a desire to use these sessions to make ourselves better prepared to become responsible adults through our words and deeds. TEEN PRESIDENT: Let us sing the Jack and Jill Hymn. ALL: Jack and Jill Hymn. TEEN PRESIDENT: I here and now declare the 70th Annual Teen Conference of the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated, open in due form.
INSTALLATION OF REGIONAL TEEN OFFICERS (ALL STAND) LEADER: Blessed is the leader who considers leadership an opportunity to serve. Blessed is the leader who seeks" the best for those they serve Will those individuals who have been elected as Regional Teen Officers please stand. The members of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated are committed to creating a medium of contact for you, our children, which will stimulate your growth and development into responsible citizens of tomorrow; and provide opportunities for your social, cultural, educational and emotional growth through the medium of group experiences. Teens of Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated, you have selected these individuals as your leaders showing that you have confidence in their ability to carry on the work of your group in an effective way. Do you pledge your loyalty to them in supporting them and working for the best interest of the group? MEMBERS: We do. (MEMBERS MAY BE SEATED) LEADER: Each officer who has been chosen for a place of leadership in your group shall perform his or her duties under the direction of and with approval from the Regional Director. Will the officers step forward, in turn, to light your candle from the beam which represents the spirit of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated burning in the heart and soul of every member of this organization and throughout the land. As you take on your duties, may the remembrance of what this flame represents serve as a light to help you find answers and guide you in carrying out your responsibilities. LEADER: President (name) Light your candle. Your candle symbolizes Leadership and Work. Your duty as President shall be to preside over all meetings, conducting them impartially with grace and dignity, and to be encouraging but not dominating. You will work with the Mothers' Regional officers and host chapter in planning the Teen Conference; and attend the National Convention, when eligible, as a representative of the Md-Atlantic Region, to serve as a Page. Mid-Atlantic Region 70th Annual Teen Conference “Melanin Magic”
LEADER: Vice President (name) Light your candle. Your candle represents Service. As Vice President, you stand ready to preside in the absence of the President, to be of assistance to the President; and perform those specific duties as designated by the Region’s Rules of Order. RESPONSE: (Repeat after me) I will assume the responsibilities as Vice President and seek to fulfill, to the best of my ability, the obligations of this office. LEADER: Secretary (name) Light your candle. This is the candle of Duty. As Secretary, you will keep records of the business sessions of the Teen Regional meeting; record all votes, and compile all committee reports for inclusion in the minutes. You shall work under the direct supervision of the Mothers’ Regional Secretary on the recording of minutes. In addition, you will conduct roll call at each plenary session, to include seating of the delegates and recording their tardiness and absences. RESPONSE: (Repeat after me) I will assume the responsibilities of Secretary and seek to fulfill, to the best of my ability, the obligations of this office. LEADER: Treasurer (name) Light your candle. Your candle is the candle of Giving. As Treasurer, you will serve as Chairperson of the Budget Committee and work under the supervision of the Regional Treasurer. You will keep an accurate account of all income and expenditures and submit a copy at the Mid-Atlantic Teen Regional Conference. In addition, you are to record and report the Teen Chapters’ Contributions to Jack and Jill of America Foundation. RESPONSE: (Repeat after me) I will assume the responsibilities of Treasurer and seek to fulfill, to the best of my ability, the obligations of this office. LEADER: Foundation Chair (name) Light your candle. Your candle symbolizes service to the community. With you lies the responsibility of serving as the region’s teen liaison to the Regional Foundation Member-at-Large and represent the best interest of the region’s teens as it relates to the Jack and Jill of America Foundation. RESPONSE: (Repeat after me) I will assume the responsibilities of Foundation Chair and seek to fulfill, to the best of my ability, the obligations of this office.
LEADER: And so we illumine the spirit of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated, with these candles, by these pledges, and with the help of all members we will keep our candles bright. WILL ALL WHO ARE PRESENT PLEASE STAND. Teens of the Mid-Atlantic Region of Jack and Jill of America, Incorporated, you have heard these Teen Officers pledge to fulfill to the best of their ability the obligations of the office. Do you pledge your loyalty to them in supporting them and working for the best interests of the group? MEMBERS: We do. LEADER: Let us Pray: Heavenly Father, look with favor upon these young officers assembled here; help them to perform their duties individually and collectively to the greater glory of Thy Kingdom.
Mid-Atlantic Region 70th Annual Teen Conference “Melanin Magic” JACK AND JILL PRAYER Our Father, make us better parents. Teach us to understand our children, to listen patiently to what they have to say and to answer all their questions kindly. Keep us from interrupting them, talking back to them and contradicting them. Make us as courteous to them as we would have them be to us. Give us the courage to confess our sins against our children and to ask of them forgiveness when we know that we have done them wrong. May we not vainly hurt the feelings of our children. Forbid that we should laugh at their mistakes or resort to shame and ridicule as punishment. Let us not tempt our children to lie or steal. So guide us hour by hour that we may demonstrate by all we say and do that honesty produces happiness. Reduce, we pray, the meanness in us. May we cease to nag; and when we are out of sorts, help us, O Lord, to hold our tongues. Blind us to the little errors of our children and help us to see the good things they do. Give us a ready word for honest praise. Help us to grow up with our children, to treat them as those of their own age; but let us not expect of them the judgments and convictions of adults. Allow us not to rob them of the opportunity to wait upon themselves, to think, to choose and make decisions. Forbid that we should ever punish them for our selfish gain. May we grant them all their wishes that are reasonable and have the courage always to withhold a privilege that we know will do them harm. Make us so fair and just, so considerate and companionable to our children that they will have genuine esteem for us. Fit us to be loved and imitated by our children. With these gifts, Dear God, give us calm and poise and self-control. Amen
National Hymn Samuel J. Brown, III Father, Philadelphia (PA) Chapter—12/15/87 (Lyrics only) Let’s work, let’s play, let’s live together is our Jack and Jill motto forever. We’re one big family of love with blessings from God up above. Gain our children’s trust, make them leaders we must, to believe in themselves, to achieve and excel. Let’s work, let’s play, let’s live together is our Jack and Jill motto forever. In our hearts we pray that everyday our motto’s fulfilled. Long live Jack and Jill. Mid-Atlantic Region 70th Annual Teen Conference “Melanin Magic”
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Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference AGENDA AT A GLANCE THURSDAY, JUNE 22, 2023 CHAPTER PHOTOS - 10:00a-2:00p COLLEGE FAIR - 10:45a-2:00p TEEN LOUNGE - 9:00a-2:00p LUNCH - 12:00p-2:00p CONFERENCE KICK OFF - 3:00p-4:30p OFFSITE ACTIVITIES - 7:00p-10:00p TALENT REHEARSAL - 11:00p-11:45p FRIDAY, JUNE 23, 2023 ARTS & LETTERS BREAKFAST - 8:00a-10:00a PLENARY I - 10:30a-12:30p LEADERSHIP LUNCHEON - 1:00p-3:00p PLENARY II - 3:30p-4:30p COMMUNITY SERVICE - 5:45p-7:30p TALENT SHOW - 9:15p-10:15p BLACK PARTY - 10:30p-11:45p SATURDAY, JUNE 24, 2023 CANDIDATE'S FORUM PLENARY III - 7:30a-9:00a FOUNDATION BRUNCH - 9:30a-11:30a WORKSHOPS - 1:45p-6:00p RITES OF PASSAGE - 6:00p-7:00p SENIOR GALA - 8:00p-10:30p AFTER PARTY - 10:30p-12:00a SUNDAY, JUNE 25, 2023 INSPIRATIONAL SERVICE - 9:00a-10:00a PLENARY IV - 10:45a-11:45a INSTALLATION OFFICERS - 12:00p
Welcome & Introduction of Speakers Host Teen Presidents Ellis Charles, Capital City Chapter Mia Durant, Durham Chapter Julian Stokes, Fayetteville Chapter Representative Zach Hawkins Dr. Bobbie Richardson College Fair Drawing Regional Teen President Ciara Grant Fayetteville Teen President Julian Stokes Greetings Regional Teen President Ciara Greeting Regional Director Tarcia N. Flemming Instrumental Exhibition Winner Mina Richardson, Durham Chapter Roll Call Spoken Word Exhibition Winner Kyndal Quinn, Fayetteville Chapter Raleigh Rockers Akilah Anderson Regional Teen Protocol Chair Safety Briefing National Emergency Response Task Force Chandra Hollier Conference Expectations Regional Director Tarcia N. Flemming Dismissal Jack and Jill of America, Inc. 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference TTeeeennCCoonnffeerreenncceeKKiicckkooffff Dr. Bobbie Richardson has dedicated her life to education as a Director, School Administrator, consultant, teacher and school board member for 35 years. Dr. Richardson served as a State Representative for House District 7. She was appointed in January 2013 and served until 2018. Dr. Richardson is the immediate past Chair of the NC Democratic Party (the 1st African American to serve as the Chair of the State Party). She is a proud graduate of NC Central University and UNC at Chapel Hill and a member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority. She is the mother of our very own Regional Director Tarcia Flemming. Zach Hawkins is a Durham Chapter Father and a Democratic member of the NC House of Representatives. He has represented the 31st district since 2019. He is a graduate of Elizabeth City State College and NC Central University.
Alexis Bennett, Presiding Regional Teen Secretary Inspiration Christopher Arnold Capital City Teen Chaplain -BreakfastIntroduction of Speaker Alexis Bennett Regional Teen Secretary Speaker-Poet Sharlene Provilus Performers Dance Exhibition Winner - Khouri Marshall, Charlotte Vocal Exhibition Winner - August Daye, Greater Chapel Hill Presentation Artist of the Year Announcements Jordan Benjamin Regional Teen Logistic Chair Closing Remarks Alexis Bennet Regional Teen Vice President Jack and Jill of America, Inc. 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference Arts and Letters Breakfast BBllaacckkEExxcceelllleenncceeiinntthheeAArrttss: AAnnIImmmmeerrssiivveeEExxppeerriieennccee Sharlene is a spoken word poet, speaker and author. She is the Founder and CEO at Write Speak Inspire, LLC. For nearly two decades, Sharlene has been inspiring audiences with her story. She has led workshops, delivered keynotes, and shared her most vulnerable moments through spoken word performances with tens of thousands of people. Sharlene talks about the power of adoption, having had the rare experience of being adopted twice in one lifetime. Sharlene is currently working on the manuscript for her first book and is excited to share this project when it becomes available. Help me welcome Sharlene Alice Provilus. PO Box 61411 Raleigh, NC 27661-1411 [email protected] www.writespeakinspire.com SHARLENE PROVILUS SPEAKER INTRODUCTION Management Group Write Speak Inspire | Storytellers Team I www.writespeakinspire.com
Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference OPENING CEREMONY AND PLENARY I FRIDAY, JUNE 23, 2023 - 10:00 AM Processional Akilah Anderson Regional Teen Protocol Chair Formal Opening Ceremony Mrs. Tarcia N. Flemming 23rd Mid-Atlantic Regional Director Call to Order Ciara Grant Regional Teen President The Black National Anthem August Daye Lift Every Voice & Sing Greater Chapel Hill Chapter Invocation Skyler Woods Regional Teen Chaplain Welcome & Greetings The Honorable Mitch Colvin Mayor of the City of FayetteVille Mrs. Tarcia N. Flemming, 23rd Mid-Atlantic Regional Director Mrs. Kornisha McGill Brown 27th National President Mrs. Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary Roll Call of Delegates/ Alexis Bennett Credentials Report Regional Teen Secretary
Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference OPENING CEREMONY AND PLENARY I FRIDAY, JUNE 23, 2023 - 10:00 AM Adoption of Agenda Ciara Grant Acceptance of 2022 TLC Minutes Regional Teen President Rules and Regulations Report Ava Cabbell Regional Teen Parliamentarian Charge to Delegates Mrs. Tarcia N. Flemming 23rd Mid-Atlantic Regional Director Conference Appointments Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Committee Reports Judicial Committee Honesty McQueen Regional Teen Vice President Nominating Committee Kennedy Batts Regional Teen Nominating Chair 2023-2024 Call for Nominations Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Announcements Jordan Benjamin Regional Teen Logistics Chair Grace Skyler Woods Regional Teen Chaplain Adjournment Ciara Grant Regional Teen President
Honesty McQueen Presiding Regional Teen Vice President - LunchIntroduction of Speaker Honesty McQueen Presiding Regional Teen Vice President Speaker Tezlyn Figaro Awards Ellis Charles Capital City Chapter Teen President Mia Durant Durham Chapter Teen President Julian Stokes Fayetteville Chapter Teen President Announcements Jordan Benjamin Regional Teen Logistic Chair Closing Remarks Honesty McQueen Presiding Regional Teen Vice President Jack and Jill of America, Inc. 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference Leadership Luncheon MMeellaanniinnMMaaggiicc::SShhaaddeessooffBBrroowwnn As the Founder of the award-winning Tezlyn Figaro Communications Group, Tezlyn Figaro, a certified Florida Supreme Court Certified Civil, Circuit, and Appellate Conflict Resolution Mediator and trainer provides communications solutions, political strategy, crisis management, and customized training for America's most influential political, social, and cultural leaders. Tezlyn is a sought-after public speaker whose prophetic and powerful message stirs the conscience and inspires listeners across demographics. She is the host of the "Straight Shot, No Chaser" podcast on Charlamagne Tha God Tha God's Black Effect Podcast Network on iHeartRadio, the largest digital radio and music streaming service in America. In addition to hosting her weekly podcast, Tezlyn curates the Front-Page News daily on the popular nationally syndicated in over 90 markets, hall of fame radio show, The Breakfast Club. The Breakfast Club is also seen daily on Black Entertainment Television (BET). She can also be seen sharing her independent, nonpartisan, black-centered perspective as a political contributor on Revolt Black News, The Hill, Fox News, MSNBC, The Grio, and more. As Founder, instructional designer, and lead trainer for the 'Push the Line' nonpartisan political training program, Tezlyn developed the core program curriculum framework and successfully organized over 300 political candidates, operatives, and organizers from all over America to attend a 12-hour in-person boot camp in Atlanta, Georgia. Tezlyn was featured as the senior public policy consultant for Attorney Benjamin Crump in the awardwinning documentary Civil on Netflix and has led public policy strategy for high-profile clients of the Ben Crump Law Firm. In 2023, Tezlyn was the recipient of the 'Champion of Change' award by the UCLA Black Law Students Association.
Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference PLENARY II FRIDAY, JUNE 23, 2023 - 3:00 PM Call to Order Ciara Grant, Presiding Regional Teen President Invocation Skyler Woods Regional Teen Chaplain Roll Call of Delegates/ Alexis Bennett Credentials Report Regional Teen Secretary Adoption of Agenda Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Regional Teen Officer’s Reports Teen President Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Teen Vice President Honesty McQueen Regional Teen Vice President Teen Treasurer Julian Duncan Regional Teen Treasurer Teen Secretary Alexis Bennett Regional Teen Secretary Foundation Chair Taylor David Regional Teen Foundation Chair Nominating Committee Kennedy Batts Regional Teen Nominating Chair Announcements Jordan Benjamin Regional Teen Logistics Chair Adjournment Ciara Grant Regional Teen President
Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference Candidate’s Speeches & Fishbowl Questions Kennedy Batts, Regional Teen Nominating Chair PLENARY III SATURDAY, JUNE 24, 2023 - 7:30 AM Call to Order Ciara Grant, Presiding Regional Teen President Inspiration Skyler Woods Regional Teen Chaplain Roll Call of Delegates/ Alexis Bennett Credentials Report Regional Teen Secretary Adoption of Agenda Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Elections Report Dwight Vauters Regional Teen Teller Chair Election Results Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Committee Reports Legislative Committee Todd Bond Regional Teen Legislative Chair We Are One Task Force Caleb Parr Regional Teen We Are One Chair Announcements Jordan Benjamin Regional Teen Logistics Chair Adjournment Ciara Grant Regional Teen President
Brunch Taylor David, Presiding Regional Teen Foundation Chair Introduction of Speaker Taylor David Regional Teen Foundation Chair Speakers Collin, Ryan & Austin Gill Frères Branchiaux Candle Company Founders Awards Host Chapter Teen Foundation Chairs Announcements Jordan Benjamin Regional Teen Logistic Chair Closing Remarks Taylor David Presiding Regional Teen Foundation Chair Jack and Jill of America, Inc. 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Leadership Conference Foundation Luncheon EEnnttrreepprreenneeuurrsshhiippaannddPPhhiillaanntthhrrooppyy: WWhheerreePPaassssiioonnMMeeeettssPPuurrppoossee We are Frères Branchiaux Candle Company, an award- winning home fragrance company founded by 3 brothers, Collin, Ryan, and Austin Gill, under the age of 18. We create beautifully scented vegan candles with a conscience for those who care want self-care that gives back. We’ve designed a line of vegan and eco-friendly candles help you relax and reconnect to you to the feeling of home. Frères Branchiaux is a mission-based home and hospitality fragrance company. With every purchase, we give a 10% donation to pre-vetted charitable organizations that benefit the homeless. We believe that everyone deserves luxurious eco-friendly scents that transport them to a place of satisfaction and serenity. Our products can be found online and in-stores at retailers such as Target, Macys, Whole Foods, Lowes, Sur La Table and a host of other retailers. We also provide fragrance products to hotels chains such as Marriott and Hyatt. And, we debut our pet fragrance product line on HSN this summer!
Skyler Woods, Presiding Regional Teen Chaplain Praise and Worship Regional Teen Choir Prayer Julian Stokes Fayetteville Teen Chaplain Scripture Genesis Crawford Durham Teen Chaplain Introduction of Speaker Christopher Arnold Capital City Teen Chaplain Selection Regional Teen Choir Speaker Minister Eric Edwards Presentation Regional Teen President Ciara Grant Regional Director Tarcia Flemming Announcements Regional Teen Secretary Alexis Bennett Closing Jack and Jill Hymn 70th Mid-Atlantic Regional Teen Conference Inspirational Service - Sunday, June 25, 2023 Minister Eric Edwards, Jr. is a native of Charlotte, North Carolina. He is the youngest son of Eric and Mary Edwards. In May 2020, Minister Eric graduated from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro with a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science. During his Junior year of college, he heard the call of God and was licensed into the Gospel Ministry at the St. Paul Baptist Church, Charlotte, NC where the Rev. Dr. Robert C. Scott is the senior pastor. After graduating from UNCG, Minister Eric began his next academic journey at Duke University. Minister Eric graduated with a Master of Divinity degree in May 2023 with three certificates in Baptist studies, Preaching, and the Black Church. While at Duke Divinity School, Minister Eric was selected to be a part of the inaugural cohort of the Office of Black Church Studies Fellows. As a Fellow, he received a full scholarship during his final year at Duke Divinity School. Moreover, in August 2023, Minister Eric will further his education at Emory - Candler School of Theology where he will pursue his Doctor of Ministry degree. Outside of preaching and academic coursework, Minister Eric enjoys reading preaching and theological books, watching sports, and spending time with his family. Minister Eric Jr. prides himself on showing love and compassion to everyone he meets. It is his hope that through his shared love, somebody might experience the love of Christ.
Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference PLENARY IV SUNDAY, JUNE 25, 2023 - 9:30 AM Senior Processional Mrs. Tarcia N. Flemming 23rd Mid-Atlantic Regional Director Call to Order Ciara Grant, Presiding Regional Teen President Inspiration Skyler Woods Regional Teen Chaplain Roll Call of Delegates/ Alexis Bennett Credentials Report Regional Teen Secretary Adoption of Agenda Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Committee Reports Statistics Alexis Bennett Regional Teen Secretary Evaluations Jordyn DePina Sergeant-at-Arms Tellers Dwight Vauters Regional Teen Committee Chair Foundation Committee Taylor David Regional Teen Foundation Chair Competition Awards Presentation Taylor David Regional Teen Foundation Chair
Mid-Atlantic Region – 70th Annual Teen Leadership Conference PLENARY IV SUNDAY, JUNE 25, 2023 - 9:30 AM 71st Teen Leadership Conference Ciara Grant 2024 Conference Theme Winner & Invitation Regional Teen President Closing Remarks Announcements Ciara Grant Regional Teen President Special Presentations Mrs. Tarcia N. Flemming 23rd Mid-Atlantic Regional Director Regional Teen Officer Installation Mrs. Nichelle Nicholes Levy National Corresponding Secretary Adjournment 2024 Regional Teen President
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2022-23 Mid-Atlantic Region Teen Executive Board Ciara Grant Teen President Honesty McQueen Teen Vice President Julian Duncan Teen Treasurer Alexis Bennett Teen Secretary Taylor David Teen Foundation Chair
2021-2023 Mid-Atlantic Regional Leadership Team Mid-Atlantic Regional Director Tarcia N. Flemming Mid-Atlantic Regional Treasurer Daralyn Bryant Mid-Atlantic Regional Secretary Tomisha Gladman Mid-Atlantic Regional Member at Large Tiffany Spann-Wilder National Corresponding Secretary Nichelle Nicholes Levy
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