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“Dialogue Cheat Sheet”

Welcome to the Word 4 Word Seduction Cheat Sheet.
Here we will give you the tools and phrases you can use

to pick up and attract women tonight!

If you don’t have time to watch the videos, you can read this
handy guide to learn all the vital concepts you need to get
ANY WOMAN to fall for you.

This program is designed and broken up into four distinct
phases, which you will have to study and understand. By no
means should you skip or skim through any of the material
as every piece of information is important to your success

with attracting and seducing women.

By following these steps, this ensures you will be prepared
for every action, reaction, and counteraction that your target

woman might throw at you.

If you follow these steps to a tee, we guarantee you’ll be
able to predict every move the woman makes and ALWAYS

be two steps ahead of “the game”.

Because no matter what anybody says, one thing is for sure.
The Game of Seduction is very much like the game of Chess.
You need to master the proper skills, mental awareness and

execution to get the job done.

And when you’ve done it, YOU win.

Alright, then. Are you ready to take your dating game to the
next level and finally get the girl of your dreams?

Cool, let’s get started.

THE W4W SEDUCTION TEAM

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“Chapter 1”

 STAGE 1 : TARGETING YOUR POTENTIAL MATE_
GOAL: Saying “Hi” to your Dream Girl
MISSION: Scope out your potential mate and initiate her in
conversation.
 RULE #1: Your manner in approaching women should

always be a combination of playful, teasing, deprecating,
self-confident and a little bit cocky.

 STEP 1 : ADJUSTING TO YOUR SURROUNDINGS_

Tell me. You wouldn’t use the line you use at the club at a
grocery store, would you? NO! That is why we’ll need to
calibrate your approach given where you’re at.

NOTE: Every destination will require a modified approach.
Take for example these openers:

 If she’s at a bar, you might want to say:
 “So this is where all the cool people hang out.”

 If she’s at the grocery store, you could say:
 “So you’re a white-bread kind of person, huh?”

 If she’s at the movies, you’d can say:
 “Tell me you’re not here for the new Vampire
movie.”

What we want you to get out of this section is for you to get
acclimated with your environment, or the places where you
might end up finding your dream girl.

In order to do so, the first thing you must do is to ALWAYS be
perceptive of what’s around you.

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 RULE #2: Observe every detail of your surroundings and
ask yourself, “How will this affect my approach?”

This is especially true when you’re preparing to approach
your target. Pick up on specific, yet subtle cues, like what’s
she’s wearing, what she’s holding, who she’s with, why she’s
there, where she’s going, etc.
Once that’s accomplished, we will teach you the lines you’ll
be using in your cold approach.

 STEP 2: DETERMINING HER FACIAL CUES_
A second, just-as important part before initiating contact is
to ask yourself, “How is she feeling that day?”

DO NOT TAKE THIS PART FOR GRANTED!

Because if she’s having a bad day or god forbid she’s on her
period, you’re only going to make matters worse (ie... piss
her off!) if, out of nowhere, you spring a pocketful of
sunshine in her face.

What you want to do is gauge her mood and work off her.
Here are some of the moods to look out for:

 Is she having a bad day at work? Is she grumpy? Is
she PMSing? Be more sympathetic.

 Is she upset? Is she fed up or impatient? Offer her
some positive perspective.

 Is she “zoning people out” by listening to music or
talking for extended periods on the phone?
Take an interest in her.

 Is she running late? Does she seem to be in a rush?
Extend a helping hand.

 Is she having trouble deciding what kind of peanut
butter to buy? Does she look indecisive?
Give her your opinion.

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 Is she with friends? Her parents? A gay friend?
Her dog? Entertain them.

These are just some of the things to look out for BEFORE
approaching a woman, so remember…

 RULE #3: ALWAYS be sensitive to her situation at hand.

Once you’ve figured out what her mood is like, we will next
use that to formulate a plan to say, “Hello.”

 STEP 3: STRIKING A CHORD OF COMMONALITY_

After you’ve taken in your surroundings and read her facial
cues, you are now ready to initiate the approach.
First, you’ll want to grab her attention by holding a three-
second long eye contact, followed by a genuine smile.

Like so… . Ta-dah!
Now, when we say “genuine smile”, we mean the one you do
around your friends or after you’ve had a really good bowel
movement. It needs to be sincere and sweet.

PRACTICE EXERCISE #1

Spend a few minutes practicing your smile in the mirror.
You can do it after brushing your teeth. Start by hanging
your head, slowly looking up and flashing your pearly
whites.
Then ask yourself…

“What would my friends think of this smile?”

You can keep experimenting until you’ve found the perfect
balance of what looks good and what conveys honesty.
Because if there’s one person who can tell if you’re faking it
or not… IT’S WOMEN. Not to mention, that will be their first
impression of you!

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 RULE #4: SMILING shows her you’re SAFE, POLITE, &
UNASSUMING.

Hopefully, she’s smiled back at you, in which case, you can
proceed to walk up to her and say one of the following lines:

NOTE: These are categorized by location and its purpose.
All of these lines need to be said light-heartedly like a joke.
Most importantly, be confident in your approach!
If you’re at…

The BAR / NIGHTCLUB / STRIP CLUB / PARTY SCENE
(Or a place with open space to walk around & socialize)
Walk over to her casually and say…

 “You look cool enough to hang with.”
 “Y’all look like a fun bunch.”
 “You guys look like people I should get to know.”

The AIRPORT / LIBRARY / SUBWAY / BUS / ELEVATOR
(Or a place that is public and people keep to themselves)
Turn to her suavely and say…

 “Let me know if I’m too quiet for you.”
 “Should I start the conversation?”
 “This doesn’t need to be awkward, you know.”

The SUPERMARKET / FARMER’S MARKET / RETAIL SHOP
(Or a place where food & home goods are bought)
Walk up to her and say…

 “So you’re the one who’s been buying all the...”
 “That brand is my favorite.”
 “I would’ve sworn you’d choose the other one.”

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The COFFEE SHOP/ INTERNET CAFÉ / DINER
(Or a public place where you can work and talk)
Go to her table politely and ask…

 “Hi. Do you know what the Wi-Fi password is?”
 “Hey. Is there another plug over there?”
 “I’m curious. Where’d you get your laptop bag?”

The POST OFFICE / BANK / FAST FOOD JOINT
(Or a public place where you have to wait in line)
Turn towards her confidently and say…

 “Wake me up when the line starts moving?”
 “Time again to give money to a stranger.”
 “Doesn’t it feel like we spend most of our lives

waiting?”

The DOCTOR’S / DENTIST’S / MEDICAL OFFICE
(Or any place where you’re asked to sit, wait, and read a
magazine)
Turn towards her jokingly and ask…

 “Did you draw the mustache on the lady in the
Cialis ad?”

 “I never understood why doctors can’t afford
monthly subscriptions.”

 “Tell me you’re not here for a… too?”

The BOOKSTORE / LIBRARY / THRIFT SHOP / GARAGE SALE
(Or any place you can buy specialized goods)
Walk up to whatever she’s holding and say…

 “Hands down. One of my top ten favorite…”
 “Is that what I think you’re reading/holding?”
 “I’ll give you double for that. Cash.”

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The MOVIES / CONCERT / LIVE SHOW
(Or a place where a special event you attend is taking place)
Turn towards her and say…

 “Are you here to see… ?”
 “I’ve seen these guys twice already. They’re

amazing.”
 “You a fan of…?”

The DMV / SOCIAL SECURITY OFFICE
(Or a place where you’re forced to wait for a long time)
Face her indicatively and say…

 “What did they send you to detention for?”
 “Waiting this long has to be some form of

punishment.”
 “You in trouble with the car gods as well?”

The GYM / FITNESS CLASS / PARK
(Or a place where people come to work out and get fit)
On a workout machine, stop her and ask…

 “Hi. Can you tell me if I’m using this thing right?”
Doing some presses, ask her…

 “Excuse me. Would you mind spotting me for a
quick second?”

Walk up to her at the water fountain and say…
 “Hey. Do you have any tips on how I can look less
like me and more like you?”

The BUS / TRAIN / SUBWAY STOP
(Or any place where you have to wait for transportation)
Go to her and ask…

 “Excuse me. Do you know how to get to the… ?”

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 “You look like you could use some company.”
 “How come I’ve never seen you here before?”

The NON-SPECIFIC, ALL-PURPOSE GENERAL LINES:
Go up to her and ask…

 “Hi. Do you happen to have the time?”
 “Do you know where the nearest… is?”
 “Do you know where I can find… ?”

The key to these lines is to illicit a positive response from her
via being relatable. They’re not used to pick up girls.

WE REPEAT. THESE ARE NOT USED AS PICK UP LINES.
No matter what anyone tells you, even the dullest girls can
sniff out a pick-up line, so don’t bother wasting your time!

Learn them, practice them, memorize them, use them.

PRACTICE EXERCISE #2

Just like in the movies where the guy practices a suave line
in the mirror with different deliveries, so should you.

Once you’ve mastered them, practice on friends, family,
your pet, whomever. The keep is to familiarize yourself so

you don’t end up choking when it really happens.

 STEP 4: Deconstructing & Analyzing Her Response_
After feeding her the opening line, she should give you some
sort of response, whether verbally, physically, or both.

Trouble is, many guys have difficulty reading a woman if
she hasn’t outwardly told him so. This is why we will break
down each and every reaction she could possibly show and
tell you what they mean and how to proceed.

Firstly, we will dissect her body posture responses, which is a
quick way to see if she digs you.

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BODY POSTURE RESPONSE

GOOD INDICATORS
 Has her body posture relaxed/eased up?
 She’s comfortable around you.
 Has she turned and opened up to you?
 She’s being friendly to you.
 Are her feet pointing in your direction?
 She’s attentive to your presence.
 Does she happen to be standing closer to you?
 She’s personable around you.
 Does she cross her legs bashfully at you?
 She’s shy around you.

BAD INDICATORS
 Has she tensed up significantly?
 She feels uneasy around you.
 Has she closed herself off from you?
 She’s guarding herself from you.
 Does she shy herself away from you?
 She’s threatened by your presence.
 Does she give you the cold shoulder?
 She’s uninterested in what you have to say.
 Has she taken a step back?
 She’s distancing herself from you.

You should be able to tell just by her body language whether
she is seeking to continue this interaction with you.

This being one of the subtle pickups - pay close attention!

The next response you should look out for is if she’s vibing
with you through reading her facial reactions.

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FACIAL REACTIONS RESPONSE
GOOD INDICATORS

 Has her eyes diverted from what she was doing on to
you?
 She’s feels comfortable around you.

 Is she smiling or showing a positive sign of interest?
 She’s amused by you.

 Is she looking intently into your eyes?
 She’s being genuine with you.

BAD INDICATORS
 Does she glare at you?
 She’s keeping her guard up around you.
 Does she not look at you?
 She’s being dismissive of your approach.
 Does she give you “disgusting” eyes?
 She’s doesn’t think you’re her type.

Recognizing how her mood has changed can also tell you a
lot about if she’s interested in you.

BEHAVIOR CHANGES RESPONSE
GOOD INDICATORS

 Has her mood shifted for the better?
 She thinks you’re brightening her day.

 Is she grinning, smiling, or laughing?
 She thinks you’re amusing.

 Does she feel comfortable with you at that moment?
 She thinks you’re well-intentioned.

 Is her overall demeanor more relaxed than before?
 She thinks it’s because of YOU!

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BAD INDICATORS

 Does she look more guarded and closed off than
before?
 She’s getting turned off by you.

 Does she feel like she’s being imposed upon?
 She feels you’re wasting her time.

 Do you feel awkward tension between the two of
you?
 She doesn’t see you that way right now.

 Does she sound nice for the sake of being polite?
 She’s putting up an act.

And the most obvious & reliable response you can get is how
she verbally communicates how she’s feeling to you.

VERBAL RESPONSES

GOOD INDICATORS

 Does she play along with your sarcasm?
 She likes how you present yourself.

 Does she tease you back?
 She likes your aggressiveness.

 Is she self-deprecating for your amusement?
 She’s putting herself down to be at your level.

 Does she laugh and say you’re funny?
 She thinks that you are.

NEUTRAL INDICATORS

 Did she not hear you and say, “What?”
 She did it on accident or on purpose.

 Did she react, but made no effort to face you?
 She’s amused, but still has her guard up.

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BAD INDICATORS

 Is she ignoring you and turning the other way?
 She’s not feeling you.

 Does she look at you funny?
 She doesn’t understand why you’re still trying to
talk to her.

 Does she tell you off and walk away?
 She’s uninterested in you and what you have to
say.

If you received a neutral or bad indicator from her, we will
cover how to save your approach in the next section.

 RULE #5: Receiving ANY good indicators is a good
sign. If she gives you a negative or neutral response,
DON’T FRET. It’s still salvageable.

The take away is that if she’s exhibiting any of the positive
indicators, she’s sparked an interest for you. If that’s the
case, you are well on your way towards piquing her interest
and fast tracking her into falling for you!

 STEP 5: REACTING WITH A COMPLIMENTARY
RESPONSE_

Once you’ve been able to distinguish how she’s reacted to
your ice-breaker, you can move on to THE FOLLOW UP.
Again, we will lay out the situations for you on how she
might respond, and then how you should react.
NOTE: Remember to say these with confidence and a smile.
GOOD RESPONSES

 If she laughs, say…
 “Yeah, I’ve been working on that line for awhile.”

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 If she plays along with you, say…
 “Glad we see eye-to-eye on… ”
 “Good to know we share the same views on…”

 If she teases you back, say…
 “I didn’t think you had it in you… ”
 “Ok, then. Leveling the playing field. ”
 “You dish it as well as you can take it. Respect.”

 If she becomes self-deprecating, say…
 “Don’t say that. You’ll be fine. With my help.”

NEUTRAL RESPONSES
 If she didn’t hear you and says “What?”, say…
 “Oh no, I was just talking to this...”
 If she doesn’t acknowledge you right away, say…
 “I knew that line wouldn’t work in/at the… ”
 If she looks at you strange, say…
 “I don’t have a pimple on my face, do I?”

BAD RESPONSES
 If she’s negative, tells you off, and walks away, say…
 “Wait. I was trying to find a way to talk to you.”
 “No, I was just trying to be friendly. That’s all.”

If for some odd reason you’re NEUTRAL REPLY turns into a
Bad Indicator for her, maneuver to the Bad Response lines!

“Why?”

Because though we want YOU to come off looking/sounding
slick and laid-back, if she keeps resisting or feels threatened
by your approach, you’ll need to reveal your true intentions
to her as to keep her from leaving.

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At this point, she’s either going to be intrigued by you or will
have responded negatively and walk away.

* If she responds positively, GREAT JOB!

* If she still tells you off and walks away, let her go.
Pursuing her any further will be creepy.

BUT if you do strike out…

PLEASE DON’T KICK YOURSELF FOR FAILING AND QUIT!

If we’ve learned anything, it’s that we all fail at some point.
And we might fail a lot. You might fail fifty times before a girl
finally warms up to you.
Try to think of seducing women like your batting average in
baseball. No one will be able “connect with the ball” 100%
of the time…

…NOT EVEN PROFESSIONAL PICK-UP ARTISTS!

But as long as you continue practicing the material,
improving on your mistakes, and executing without fear,
you’ll soon be able to succeed at least 1 out of 3 tries. And
that’s a lot.

 RULE #6: Just because ONE GIRL rejects you doesn’t
mean ALL GIRLS reject you.

 STEP 6: INTRODUCE YOURSELF AND TEASE AGAIN_
Once she has responded well to your approach, you should
continue keeping eye contact, extend your hand out and
introduce yourself with a smile.

“Hi, I’m…”

She’ll most likely do the same to you.

After she’s introduced herself to you, come back with a well-
placed tease to poke fun at her. Be playful, of course.

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Say something like…
 “I was just being nice before. Your choice in music
is horrendous.”

 “I’ll let you get away with store-brand peanut
butter this time, but next time we’re going to have
a problem.

 “I still can’t get over the fact that you ordered
Smirnoff Ice. And here I thought you were perfect.”

Like we’ve mentioned before, you want to formulate these
teases around things you observe in her. Whether that’s
some quirk, an emotion, a thing she says or does, don’t be
afraid to nail her on it teasingly.

For the most part, she will respond positively to that next
phrase, which will reinforce her piqued interest in you. This
in turn will make her want to get to know you further.

This concludes the first chapter of the program.

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“Chapter 2”

 STAGE 2 : PLANTING THE SEED OF ATTRACTION_
GOAL: Convincing her to say “Yes” to a Date
MISSION: Getting inside her head via demonstrating your
“aura of energy”, or your best traits, as well as discovering
her AOE.

NOTE: This is a continuation of Stage 1 and takes place at the
point of first contact (AKA “Where you first met her”).

The idea in this chapter is that by the end of this stage, she
will begin to take a deeper interest in you, thus beginning
the process of planting your seed of attraction.

 STEP 1: CHOOSING YOUR “AURA OF ENERGY”_
Here, we will dive into demonstrating your value to her, or
what we’d like to call “aura shining”. First, we need to figure
out which AOE best represents you.
Here’s the breakdown of the four categories:

 If you’re an intellectual, you are a MIND AURA.
 If you’re body-oriented, you are a BODY AURA.
 If you’re fun-spirited, you are a SOUL AURA.
 If you’re rich & established, you are a POWER AURA.

TIP: If you’re not sure which one you are, ask someone
you’re close to about what they think are your best qualities.
Take the first five adjectives and categorize each of them in
those following four Auras. Whichever has the most
adjectives will be your primary Aura.

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Once you’ve figured out which aura is for you, we can move
on to ACCENTUATE that energy onto your target woman.

 STEP 2: PROJECTING YOUR “AURA OF ENERGY”_
After going through the initial stages with your target, you
will now need to convince her that you are a suitable mate
for her given your “Aura of Energy”.

 RULE #7: EVERY WOMAN is attracted to each of the Four
Auras. But it is your job to win her over with yours.

So whether you’re a rich businessman or a nerdy bookworm,
you will need to make a conscious effort to show her you are
confident and compatible with her.
Here, we will discuss each “aura of energy” further:

MIND AURA
“You hold a deep conviction for your intelligence”
Strengths: Intelligence, Being Well-Informed & Opinionated.
Weaknesses: Stubbornness, Judgmental, Quick to Correct.

You will want to exercise your intelligence from the get-go.
Drop a few fun facts about something she wouldn’t know
beforehand. Preferably something related to where you’re
located or what you’re doing.
For example…
 At the book store reading War & Peace, say:

 “I love Tolstoy. Can you believe he spent seven
years writing that book?”

 At the movie rental store deciding movies, say:
 “Go with 2001 Space Odyssey. The things they
predicted could not be closer to the truth. It’s
really quite scary.”

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The key is to be interesting and knowledgeable in your
conversation.

 RULE #8: Use your vast knowledge to your strengths. It’s
fine to educate, but lecturing is a huge turn-off.

The Bottom Line: You’re smart, but be open to accepting
different cultures and philosophies. You’ll have the tendency
to be locked in your world, but allow to free yourself up from
judgment about other people’s intelligence.

BODY AURA

“You’re proud of your physique like you should be.”

Strengths: Epitome of Health & Fitness. In tune with body.

Weaknesses: Sensitive to criticism. Self-conscious of body.

Luckily enough, you won’t need to work as hard to persuade
her, seeing as “your physique” is already on show.

Exercise your strength in helping her carry her things.

If you’re in great shape, you’re probably unafraid of wearing
flattering clothes. Wear things that accentuate parts of your
body that prominently stand out.

“Basically, bust out them muscles!”

But you also must engage her in friendly banter like:
 If she’s going for a bottle of wine, say:

 “They say a glass of wine at night is like eating a slice
of cheesecake.”

 In a teasing manner, say:
 “Do you workout? And walking to and from your car
into the store doesn’t count.”

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 If she’s reaching for unhealthy food, say:
 “Aww. You don’t have to put that disgusting stuff in
your body, you know?”

 Or, if she happens to also be in good shape:

 “You have a great figure. What’s your secret?”
 “You’re in amazing shape. You used to play sports?”

The Bottom Line: It’s clear you care about your well-being,
but that can quickly slide on to either side of the extreme:
being too obsessed with yourself or being ultrasensitive.
Strike a delicate balance between the two.

 RULE #9: Be multi-dimensional. Express other interests
and hobbies other than health and fitness.

Like any other species, your physical sign of dominance will
show her that no matter what the circumstances, you’ll be
able to protect her.

And that…she will find very sexy!

SOUL AURA

“You’re impassioned, enthralling, vivacious, and full of life”

Strengths: Passionate, Pursuit of Happiness, Positive Attitude

Weaknesses: Quick to React, Emotional, Temperamental.

Otherwise known as the “passionate aura”. Here, you want
to present yourself in a stimulating and enticing fashion.
You’ll also be tapping into more of your emotional side.

This might be one of the harder AURAs to master as it will
require you to know a vast amount of knowledge about a
wide variety of topics.

Try to find and fixate on shared passions, through movies,
music, travel, cooking, current events etc.

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 “I love to cook. Sometimes I’ll throw dinner parties
for my friends and family. And then, if I feel like it, I
charge them an arm and a leg.”

Or on some shared humanitarian things you’ve done:

 “Yeah, I volunteer for 826LA. It’s a non-profit
program that helps tutor inner city students. Those
little devils are a handful, but I love’em.”

It’s all about expressing your positive outlook on life.

Keep in mind, being passionate is like being Fire. It can bring
warmth and light, but it can also burn!

 RULE #10: Be wary if your emotions are getting in the
way and clouding your judgment.

THE BOTTOM LINE: What you want her to get out of this is
that you are a caring, good-willed person. This translates to
seeing you as a loving, passionate partner if ever you two got
together.

POWER AURA

“You’re in a position of great influence.”

Strengths: Take Things in Stride, Enjoy Life, Support Others.

Weaknesses: Guarded, Sensitive, Questioning Intentions.

Like the BODY AURA, you will have an easy time showing off
your trait through “outward” displays of power.

But with great power comes great responsibility. You are
like a superhero. Use your power and money for good. Not
evil!

Focus on wearing name brand clothes, flashy suits, and
expensive accessories, but in moderation.

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Obviously, YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE THE ASSHOLE that
flaunts your nice things in people’s faces, especially in front
of a girl you’re thinking about asking out.

You just want to be confident in who you are and show her
this is how you roll and you’re not afraid to show it.

Remember, in order TO NOT come off sounding like a full-on
douche bag, you should say these lines sarcastically, as if it’s
true but it’s not entirely who you’re about.

 “Yeah, my father gave me this Rolex. This is his way
of telling me he loves me.”

Prove your worth to her by showing her you would be able
to take care of her and her needs financially, in an indirect
sort of way.

 “Speaking of food, I had dinner at Spago the other
night. I basically ordered the whole menu twice, it
was so good.”

If you’re handsome, that is another plus. But really focus on
being a confident, not too cocky, man who is comfortable in
his own success.

 “I live next to the beach, but I’m not rich enough to
have a butler bring out my surfboard for me.”

Make sure to mention what it is you do and how it is you
have acquired so much wealth.

 “I run an investment firm in downtown Los Angeles.
We specialize in whatever’s green and has dead
presidents on them.”

THE BOTTOM LINE: Money can only carry you so far, you
need to blend it with your personality. Money/power alone
can’t solve all your problems (being alone, finding love,
starting a relationship).

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 RULE #11: Don’t let your Aura of Energy dominate the
entire conversation.

Remember, this is a conversation, not a lecture. So while you
are continuing to prove your value to her, you also need to
be attentive to what she has to say.

TIP: Don’t be afraid to laugh if she says something funny or
show a little emotion if she says something out of the
ordinary or unexpected.

 STEP 3: IDENTIFYING & CONNECTING WITH HER
AOE_

Once you have demonstrated your value through your aura
of energy, it is now time to decode your target’s AOE and
fuse yours to compliment hers, or what we like to call “aura
blending”.

NOTE: She will exhibit the same sort of qualities of any of
the auras described before, but it will be your job to figure
out which one she is.

If she mostly talks about…

 Her intellectual pursuits, she’s a MIND AURA.
 Her obsession with appearance, she’s a BODY AURA.
 Her contributions to society, she’s a SOUL AURA.
 Her success and luxury, she’s a POWER AURA.

Once you’ve done that, we can best pinpoint how it is you
can go about blending your aura with hers.

But first, here’s a few things to keep in mind…

 RULE #12: Men are visual creatures. They are attracted
to appearance and movement.

 RULE #13: Women are emotional creatures. They are
attracted to heightened feelings like love and bonding.

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Here’s how the AOE – TO – AOE CONNECTION breaks down:

MIND AURA

YOU HER WHAT YOU SHOULD DO

MIND + MIND = Best Compatible Match Up.

MIND + BODY = Be more confident than you look.

MIND + SOUL = Connect on shared passion(s).

MIND + POWER = Show interest in HER, not her $.

BODY AURA

YOU HER WHAT YOU SHOULD DO
BODY + MIND = Revel in her intelligence.

BODY + BODY = Best Compatible Match Up.

BODY + SOUL = Connect on an emotional level.

BODY + POWER = Show interest in HER, not her $.

SOUL AURA

YOU HER WHAT YOU SHOULD DO
SOUL + MIND = Take Interest in Her Knowledge.
SOUL + BODY = Connect on an emotional level.
SOUL + SOUL = Best Compatible Match Up.
SOUL + POWER = Show interest in HER, not her $.

POWER AURA

YOU HER WHAT YOU SHOULD DO
POWER + MIND = Revel in her intelligence.

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POWER + BODY = Know her past her body.

POWER + SOUL = Connect on an emotional level.

POWER + POWER = Best Compatible Match Up.

It’s all about finding common ground with her, which is your
first real step towards creating a meaningful bond with her.
This is the power of “aura blending”.

And no matter what anyone says to the contrary, these are
hard fastened rules. You need to appeal to her senses as a
creature, and what that is involves working to her sense of
emotional security, stability, and sensibility.

 STEP 4: ESCALATING THE STAKES_

QUICK RECAP: In the span of 5-10 minutes you should have
already broken the tension, made a good impression on
her, and blended your aura with hers.

By this time, you should start to feel a bubble of chemistry
brewing between you and her. You should be able to tell if
you two are “vibing at the same level”.

TIP: Don’t mistake her politeness as responses. If she’s doing
this to tickle your ego, be sure to call her out on it.

If all is going well, we will move on to escalating the stakes
and priming her to view you attractively.
 1st MOVE: Get her to “fake deny” her sudden attraction

towards you.

You can tease her by saying one of the following…
 “Tell me if I’m wrong, but I think you’re starting to
like me.”

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 “If I’m not mistaken, I think you’re beginning to take
a shine in me.”

 “I can’t believe it. You’re starting to fall for me.”

If she laughs, smiles, or exerts any of the positive reactions
mentioned above, you’re in good standing.

If she denies it, it can be interpreted in one of two ways:

1) She thinks you’re amusing, but lets you know she’s
already seeing someone already. Whether she’s lying,
has a boyfriend, a fiancé, a husband, or if she’s gay.

If so, you can say something like:

 “That’s too bad, because I’d make quite the
catch.”

 “That’s a shame. I think we’d be perfect for
each other.”

Then walk away like you’ve got all the confidence and
swagger in the stratosphere.

You know why? Because you’re “The FUCKING Man”!

Because at that very point, no matter what she might
say or do to you next, you can leave knowing YOU
LEFT HER wondering whether she made the right
decision about you or not. And that rush is unlike any
other!

And trust us, there is no greater joy than to not have
to worry about why she rejected you.

In fact, she might even reconsider and approach you
back!

2) She denies it by playfully lying, covering up the fact
that she finds you appealing.

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This is what we want!

 2nd MOVE: Initiate a way to continue this back-and-forth
banter at another time, in a more intimate setting.

Given any of her prior arrangements, she might be in a rush
or have to go. In this case, you’ll need to finish by
postponing the set and setting a date to pick it back up.

 “Well, I’m glad to say you were much cooler than I
thought. But I’d like to see how well you pull it off at
night. Do you like sushi?”

 “I like your style [her name], but I want to see what
you’re like at night. Do you like seafood?”

Again, she will either…

1) Admit that she’s already seeing someone and
apologize. If that’s the case, use the same method
above. You want her questioning whether she made
the right move on you or not.

2) Be on the fence, indecisive. If she is, remind her that
you’re harmless and that you just want to show her a
good time, on your dime of course.
 “I assure you I’m a great date. Even my dog
thinks so.”
 “Give me a shot. Worse thing that’ll happen is
you fall head over heels in love with me.”
 “I’ll tell you what. If you don’t like the date, I’ll
let you exchange it for another one.”
 “Aww, come on. Are you really going to turn
down free food and good company?”

If she laughs and agrees, you’re solid.

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If she still insists no, don’t force it. Play it coy, wish
her well, and walk away. You did your best.

3) OR, she’ll just be down to go out for a date.
 In which case, you’ve done well. Exchange phone
numbers, emails, whatever is best to contact her.

Once you’ve exchanged contacts, smile, tell her “you’ll be in
touch” and be on your way.

 RULE #14: After this is done, one of you MUST, MUST,
MUST leave. Lingering together in the same place after
this conversation ends will lead to awkwardness, which
we don’t want happening AT ALL.

If you’ve done what we’ve taught you, you should be out the
door with her number in your pocket.

This concludes the end of Chapter 2.

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“Chapter 3”

 STAGE 3 : ERUPTING HER ATTRACTION VOLCANO_
GOAL: Convincing Her to Fall for You and Say “I Like You”
MISSION: Feed her growing attraction for you and woo her
into seduction submission.
This begins our Second Phase. At this point, you should have
successfully left a lasting impression on her, planted yourself
into her mind as a potential mate and have gotten her
number.
We call this section “Erupting Her Attraction Volcano”,
because just like the classic science project where you pour
vinegar into a Paper-Mache volcano filled with baking soda,
you too will strike an instant chemical reaction with her.

 STEP 1: SETTING UP THE DATE_
At this point, you should call her to set up the date. Do so
within a day of getting her number.

WE REPEAT, ONE DAY AFTER GETTING HER NUMBER!

Whoever tells you to wait three days before calling clearly
doesn’t know what they’re talking about. You can keep her
hanging AFTER creating intimacy with her, but not after
having just met.

 RULE #15: Call within 24 hours. Waiting three days is
faulty advice.

TIP: In order to sound the best you can, you want to smile
while talking on the phone. She will be able to sense your
eagerness.

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PRACTICE EXERCISE #3

Call someone you care about and talk to them about
anything with a smile on your face.

They will quickly pick up on your good mood.
Trust us, it’s infectious!

When she picks up, remind her who this is, maybe throw in a
good little teaser to jog her memory (which shouldn’t be the
case if you did a good job leaving your imprint on her!).
Say something like…

 “Hey, it’s Dave. The really good looking guy you
were talking to at the store the other day.”

Hopefully she will remember you right away. Once you get
the small talk out of the way…

You should ask her to dinner at a place YOU’RE familiar
with. Somewhere you go regularly and know is good.

 RULE #10: Using “Home Field Advantage” will work in
your advantage as she’ll be experiencing you in your
natural habitat.

So you’re going to want to say something like…

 “I’d like to take you to this place I love. The food
there is amazing.”

 There’s this place that serves amazing food. I think
you’ll really like it.”

If she’s every woman, she will most likely be down to go
there. In fact, she will even think highly of you for taking the
initiative.

Next, set a time and day to meet (within 2 days is preferable)
 “How does Tuesday at 6:30 sound?”

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She will help decide which day works for her and lock you in
her schedule. At which point, you should tell her…

 “Perfect. I’m looking forward to it.”
 “Awesome. I’m excited.”
She will voice her excitement as well. This will be the perfect
time to do a little “aura shining”, or reminding her of what
you two connect over in Chapter 2.
 “But I better not hear you obsess over your Lady

Gaga fascination all night.”
 “Just consider this your cheat meal with your very

special date.”
 “Don’t forget. I want you dressed head-to-toe in

Swarovski Crystals.”

PRACTICE EXERCISE #4

If you’re still a little nervous about making the call,
you can practice your lines in the mirror until you got it

down pat.
There will be a chance that she doesn’t pick up. If so, you
should practice leaving yourself a voicemail and hear it back.

If you get her VM, remind her who this is, leave your
Number, and ask her to call you back.

Finally, say goodbye and hang up.

 RULE #16: Keep the phone call short and concise. You’re
not her best friend checking up on her.

 ATTENTION ! : FORK IN THE ROAD_
Once you’ve successfully set the date with her, it is time to
find out where you should go:

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 If you are watching this before an actual date, we will
detour you to the VIP Makeover DVD to get you looking
the best you can before coming back.

 If you are just reading this all the way through, please
continue forward.

 STEP 2: PICKING YOUR DATE UP_
Once the date has arrived, and you’re smelling and looking
like a righteous stud, it’s time to pick up your date.

Here’s a rundown of what to do:
 Get there 5 minutes early. Most women hate guys
who are late.
 If she told you where she lives, go up to her door
and knock/ring the doorbell ONCE.
 If not, go to the main gate and ring for her.
 The last option is to call her and tell her you’re
waiting outside.

This would be a good time to practice the proper etiquette
you’ve learned from the MAN ON A MISSION DVD. Things
like standing straight and smiling will make all the difference.

When she opens the door, she’ll most likely start with…
“Hi.”

Your first move should be to compliment how she looks…
 “Wow, you look stunning...”
 “I did not expect all of this...”
 “I must say, you look remarkable...”

Let her ride the compliment for a second before teasing her:
 “… But not as stunning as me.”
 “… But do you know where can I find Mary?”

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If she’s overdressed for you, joke with her and say:

 “I should have told you we were going to a rodeo
bar.”

If she’s underdressed, joke with her and say:

 “That’s what you’re going to wear to meet my
parents?”

Once she’s got her stuff and is ready to go, say:

 “Shall we?”

If you think she’d like it, you can extend the courtesy of
letting her latch onto one of your arms for stability,
particularly if she’s wearing high heels.

Keep the same light, playful banter going until you reach the
car, which YOU will open the door for her.

 RULE #17: No matter who you are, ALWAYS BE A
GENTLEMAN.

 STEP 3: CHANNELING YOUR “AURA OF ENERGY”_

On the car ride over, you will want to reintroduce your “aura
of energy” to her in small bits. You don’t want to usurp the
conversation talking about how magnificent you are.

If you’re a MIND AURA, tell her what you were in the middle
of doing before this.

 “I was finishing up Voltaire, but I didn’t want you
to think you were any less important.”

If you’re a BODY AURA, bring up how hard your workout was
at the gym.

 “I knocked out a killer workout before picking
you up. So if my legs give out, you’ll have to carry
me home.”

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If you’re a SOUL AURA, bring up something interesting that
happened and are particularly proud of.

 “Good news. You know that kid I was tutoring?
He got into UCLA. You should have seen him.”

If you’re a POWER AURA, inform her about the cool new
expensive thing you just purchased.

 “I picked up this fancy schmancy suit just for you.
What do you think?”

Think of your conversation with her like a ping-pong match.
You want to talk for a little, have her respond, have you
respond, have her respond… etc.

 STEP 4: ARRIVING AT THE MARK’S SPOT_

Once you arrive at Valet or a parking spot, open the door for
her like a gentleman.

Again, it doesn’t matter how badly you want to seduce her,
you have to allow her to respond to your “male instincts of
civility”, which she will translate into how you would treat
her if she was in a relationship with you.

Like opening the door for her into the restaurant.

 STEP 5: TURNING ON THE CHARM_

As soon as you enter, you want to start acting chummy with
people who work there, from the host who seats you to the
waiter who takes your orders to even the busser who cleans
up for you afterwards.
 RULE #18: Having fun and being social around strangers

shows her how you will be around people IMPORTANT
TO HER.

Even if you don’t know them well, act as if you do. Joke with
them, be playful and lighthearted around them.

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BONUS: Try to get your date involved as well. The more
you can get her in the mix, the better.
 To the host, you can joke with her and say:

 “Hi. I have a reservation for two under Davis.
Give us the windiest, busiest, nosiest table you
can find.”

 To the server, you can play around and say:
 “My date has a rare food allergy that only allows
her to eat white cheese and olives. Do you any
dishes that serve that?”

 To the busser, you can buddy up to him and say:
 “Hey, I think my date likes you. Are you single?”

PRACTICE EXERCISE #5

If you don’t have a place where people know you, go on a
practice dinner with a friend and get acquainted with some

of the people there.
Remember their names and what you talked about so

you can bring them up during the official date.

Don’t get TOO carried away with the chumminess, or else
you will begin to neglect your date... which is BAD!

When you reach your table, thank your host and seat your
date first before you sit down.

Here, you want to try and fall into a natural rhythm of
conversation with your date. Be able to sound interested
(even if you’re not) in her stories and personal life.

Laugh at her jokes and really sound interested in what she
has to say. BUT ALWAYS BE TEASING HER WHEN YOU CAN!
 RULE #19: It’s not all about you. Find out more about

your date, even if find them boring.

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 STAGE 6: SPRINKLING HOT KEY WORDS_

At some point after you’ve been friendly with the waiter and
have put in your order, start dropping choice key words that
show you are a suitable mate for her.

Say things like:

If you’re a MIND AURA…
- Drop things about “your education”, “what you like to
study/read”, and “your knowledge”.
 “I am a firm believer that the brain is a lot more
powerful than what we give it credit for.”

 “It took me forever to graduate college because I
couldn’t choose what I wanted to study.”

 “I’ve always enjoyed learning. There’s something
about unraveling truth that I’m fascinated by.”

If you’re a BODY AURA…
- Drop things about “your physique”, “who/what
inspires you to workout”, and “your health”.
 “I love wine. The way it detoxifies you. Anymore
and my stomach would turn back to flab.”

 “My dad had a long history of heart disease, so I
wanted do something about it.”

 “I’ve always been puny and older kids bullied me,
so I wanted to show them up at our high school
reunion.”

If you’re a SOUL AURA…
- Drop things about “your passions”, “how you’d like to
make an impact on the world”, and “dreams”.
 “I love that guy. Such a hardworking father and
husband. I hope to be just like him one day.”

 “I’ve always wanted to travel around the world. Go
back and trace my ancestor’s roots.”

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 “If it were up to me, I wouldn’t let a single person on
this world go hungry.”

If you’re a POWER AURA…
- Drop things about “the life”, “being comfortable”, and
“having it all”.
 “That’s my favorite vintage bottle of wine. It’s made
at a little winery up in the Napa Valley. I go there
every year.”

 “I love that I’m my own boss. I can buy a plane ticket
to Paris and charge it to the company card. “

 “I have all these great things, but no one to share it
with.”

 STAGE 7: FLOATING HER AURA OF ENERGY_
After you’ve demonstrated your AOE to her, you’ll next need
to flip the tables by feeding into her AOE. Here, you’ll briefly
be disqualifying yourself as her potential mate.

 “I hope you don’t mind me asking, but what made
you agree to go out with me?”

 “What I don’t get though is why of all people you’re
going out with me?”

 “Tell me. Why would somebody like you want to go
out with somebody like me?”

She’ll probably answer something along the lines of…

 “… because you seemed nice.”
 “… because I think you’re funny.”
 “… because you looked like somebody who could

show me a good time.”

Getting her to bear her true motives for you is important for
creating an honest baseline between you and her, the first
step towards triggering her attraction towards you.

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Following that moment of sincerity, you should follow up (as
to deter the talk from getting to intimate to fast):

 “I’m glad you say that. I mean, you’re smart and
funny and beautiful, but what I could never figure
out until now was how on earth I could ever get you.
(PAUSE TO LET HER HEART MELT) Because, let’s face
it. I am WAY out of your league.”

This line serves two purposes. First, it relieves the tension in
the seriousness of her response. Secondly, it teases her and
reestablishes your stance as her potential mate.

 STAGE 8: CREATING PHYSICAL CONTACT WITH HER_

Say what you will about the theory of evolution, but it hasn’t
been disproved quite yet. And a big component of that, as it
applies to seduction, is sparking her attraction for you by
incorporating the sense of touch.

Throughout dinner, try to find moments where you can
touch her.

 RULE #20: If she is really digging you, initiating a form of
touch will send her attraction level for you through the
roof!

Here’s how you can do it…

Throughout dinner and a little bit following, try to see if you
can get her to touch you.

So once the plates have been cleared and the conversation
has simmered down, you can say…

 “Let me see your hands.”

She will reach over the table and hold hands with you. At
which point, you can slowly caress, rub and massage it. Keep
intimate eye contact going and smile at her.

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At some point, she’ll ask you what you’re doing.
You can respond…

 “Your skin is so soft. Like velvety ribbon.”
 “I never told you this, but you have the most

amazing smile.”
 “Just wanted to see if I could get used to holding

this hand.”
 (FAKING LIKE HER HAND SHOCKED YOU, FLINCH)

“Jeez! Did you just shock me?”
If all the pieces have fallen into place, her attraction switch
should be on the brink of exploding for you. She will respond
positively and show you appreciation.

You are now in the perfect moment to seal the deal.

 STEP 7: DELIVERING THE “VOILA FINISHER”_

This is the final step in triggering her “I like you” switch.
When you can feel that the moment is right, where she’s locked
eyes with you and smiling, and the sexual tension between you
is palpable, we want you to say these three simple words with
the utmost sincerity and confidence:

“I LIKE YOU.”

If the timing is spot on and the moment feels absolutely right,
she should have a wave of emotion rush over her.
Here we breakdown her indicators for you:
GOOD INDICATORS

 Does she tell you she likes you too?
 Smile and say, “I’m glad”.

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 Does she smile, blush, or get shy for a moment?
 Smirk and ask, “I’ll take that as ‘you like me too’?”

 Does she squeeze your hands tighter?
 Smile and say, “Tell me that’s Morse code for ‘you
feel the same way’.”

BAD INDICATORS
 Does she say sorry, but she doesn’t feel that way?
 Say, “That’s OK. I appreciate the honesty.”
 Does she pull away her hands from you?
 Say, “I hope I didn’t say anything to insult you.”
 Does the moment quickly turn awkward?
 Say, “Did I say something wrong?”

Whatever the case, you don’t want to pressure her into
telling you she how she feels or if she feels the same way.
However she responds, accept it and leave it that way for
now.

Smile and slowly break away hands.

 RULE #21: You can’t force her to tell you she likes you.
When she’s ready, she will gladly let you know.

Finish up by paying for dinner, thanking everyone you talked
to earlier on your way out, and leave with your date.

This concludes the end of Chapter 3.

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 STAGE 4 : CASHING IN ON HER ATTRACTION_

GOAL: Turning Her “I Like You” Into “I Want You”
MISSION: Harvest her attraction for you and get her to
commit to you in some capacity.
In this last stage of the program, we will talk about various
ways “to cash in” on her attraction for you. Because let’s
face it, not everyone is looking for a long term relationship!

But before we get into that, let’s pick up where we left off in
the last chapter.

 STEP 1: KEEPING PHYSICAL CONTACT WITH HER_

To quickly recap, you have sparked her attraction switch and
she is high on emotions for you.

When you leave the restaurant, find a way to preserve the
physical contact:

 If you are walking into a crowded street, have her
hold onto your hand.

 If she is cold, give her your jacket and drape your arm
over her shoulder.

 If you didn’t bring a jacket, pretend to keep her warm
by rubbing your hands on her shoulders.

On the drive back, focus on keeping the intimate feelings
flowing. While you’re driving, get her to hold onto your right
hand. Squeeze it lightly every now and then. You want her
to feel the electricity and keep the emotions running high.

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TIP: At red lights, turn to her and look warmly into her eyes.

 RULE #22: Do not look at her every chance you get like
some deprived psycho. Make each moment natural and
exhilarating.

The beauty of this last stage is that there isn’t much to be
said at this point. If you’ve followed the stages laid out for
you exactly as described, she should be bursting at the
seams for you attraction-wise.

 RULE #23: Trying to ad-lib or speak more at this juncture
will only deter you from “getting her off” for you.

 STEP 2: DECIDING WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF HER_

When you’ve arrived back at her place, you should know
what you want to get out of her…

DISCLAIMER: ONLY PERFORM THIS IF SHE’S SHOWN OR
TOLD YOU SHE LIKES YOU! IF YOU GOT A TEPID RESPONSE
AT THE RESTAURANT, SKIP TO THE 10TH MOVE.

 STEPS TO LANDING HER IN A RELATIONSHIP :
1st MOVE : After you’ve reached her home, sit in the car for
a moment. Soak up all the unspoken sexual tension there is
between you and her.

2nd MOVE : Say to her in a genuine, teasing tone…
 “I had a really nice time. Minus the way you kept
staring at me all night.”

... she’ll probably laugh and say something similar back. If
she does, continue to next move.
If she doesn’t, something’s gone wrong. SKIP TO 10th MOVE.

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3rd MOVE : If AND only if you know she has fallen for you,
slowly gaze into her eyes and down towards her lips and then
back up again.

By doing such, you are telling her you want to kiss her. Do
this for a few seconds to let her know.

4th MOVE : She will start to pick up after the silence and
your eyes that you’re going in for a kiss.

If she wants you to kiss her, you will see her body posture
open up to you slowly. She will lock eyes with you and
slowly move into you.

5th MOVE : Move yourself ever so closely to her lips, not
losing sight of her eyes or lips.

If at any point, she shies or turns away, STOP IMMEDIATELY.

6th MOVE : As she moves into you, lift your left hand and
caress the side of her right cheek. Then, have the tips of
your fingers wrapped oh-so gently around her neck.

7th MOVE : As your lips finally touch, don’t force your
mouth onto hers. Start off soft, like you’re rubbing lips.

Start to guide and pace the speed and rhythm with which
you kiss. Be gentle and sensitive.

8th MOVE : Do not be the first to initiate tongue. Be soft
and tender, staying on top of the motion.

If she initiates tongue, then you have the green-light to
match the intensity with which she is using her tongue.

Keep the pace comfortable and relaxed. This isn’t a speed
make-out session.

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9th MOVE : Be aware of when she wants to pull away. If you
don’t know, you’re better off cutting the kiss short rather
than running long.

Be romantic about separating lips. Look into her eyes, show
warmth and appreciation for what she has allowed you to
do. Most importantly, SMILE!

10th MOVE : Walk her to her door and wish her a good night.
Tell her you’ll call her again and be off on your merry way.
You can say…

 “I can’t wait to do this again. Good night.”
 “I’m really looking forward to seeing you again.”
 “When can I see you again?”
In retrospect, the first 9 moves can be done after the 10th
move, but being in a car is much more intimate.

 STEPS TO SLEEPING WITH HER THAT NIGHT :

Following the 9th Move, let the moment linger a little while
longer. This can be accomplished by holding onto her neck
softly, touching foreheads and smiling at her.

ALTERNATIVE 10th MOVE : After the kiss, wait for her to get
her composure and then simply ask…

 “So… now what?”

If she responds with something like…

 “Would you like to come in?”

... you’re golden.

11th MOVE : If after the kiss, she thanks you for a good time
and begins heading in, not all hope is lost. Follow up quickly
by saying…

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 “You’re not going to invite me in?”
 “But the night’s still young. Are you sure you

want this to be goodbye?”

If she relents… again, you’re golden.

 RULE #24: If she invites you in, keep your conversing
to a minimum and quickly establish physical petting,
kissing until you reach that point where she wants
you.

If she still says it isn’t a good idea, don’t push it. You can
give her all the puppy eyes you want, but you aren’t going to
get lucky tonight.

But do say…

 “Ok then, you’re missing out on all this.”

… and then wish her goodnight and be on your way.

Like we mentioned earlier, no matter if you receive rejection
of any form (ie… asking a girl out, getting a kiss, sleeping with
her), you always want to be the one with the last say.

The goal from this is to have her wondering if she’s made the
right move on you, and not the other way around.

 STEPS TO MAKING HER YOUR “FRIENDS W/ BENEFITS” :
 Fulfill the steps to getting her to sleep with you first
and then restart the cycle from STAGE 3 over.
 To have a true FWB, you need to show her you’re
competent (if not GODLY) in bed.

 IF YOU CAN’T GET HER TO SLEEP W/ YOU RIGHT AWAY :
 Don’t worry. If you’ve gotten this far without a hitch,
you’re on the right track. She just might need a little
more time to get to know you (which is perfectly fine).

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 Repeat from Stage 3 at a different place and
reintroduce your “aura of energy”.

 IF SHE TURNED DOWN YOUR ATTEMPT TO KISS HER :
 You’ve made a mistake somewhere along the way.
Either her attraction trigger isn’t flipped for you like
you thought or she feels you’re rushing into things.
 This results from a lack of pushing her to her
attraction apex for you.

But for the most part, if you’ve gotten here this far, your
forwardness will usually be rewarded more times than
penalized.

And that’s really all there is to it!

This concludes the end of Chapter 4.

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“Final Words”

Congratulations.

We first off want to commend you for sticking through the
program from start to finish.

Really. Pat yourself on the back. You did good.

It’s no mystery that the game of attracting and seducing
women can be a complicated and daunting one – hell, that’s
why you’re here in the first place, right?

But beyond any of the stages or the golden rules, you need
to have the drive, that fire inside of you, to want to change.
Something, unfortunately, we cannot teach.

So you have to ask yourself…

“How badly do I want this?”

Once you’ve done so, you’ll be taking the first steps towards
conquering your fear with women – simply by a matter of
convincing yourself that you CAN do it!

Wait, there’s something more…

Not only do you need to be in the proper mindset, you’ll also
need the fortitude, discipline, and determination to study the
material backwards-and-forwards.

By that, we mean know them by heart. From the stages, to
the steps, the transitions, the responses – everything!

No one said it was going to be easy, but we know for a fact
that if you put in the work, you will be rewarded by your
immediate success picking up women.

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But, most importantly…

We urge you to just follow through with it. Put yourself out
there and actively put these skills to the test.

Simply reading this guide or watching the videos just won’t
do it. You need to set a goal for yourself to go out once a
week, every weekend, a dozen times a month, so on and so
forth, to train and learn in the “real world”.

“Why?”

Because you get instant feedback from the girls you talk to.
You’ll see what your strengths and weaknesses are. Maybe
you’re bad at the cold approach, but kill it with your AEO…

WELL, YOU WON’T KNOW THAT IF YOU DON’T GO OUT
THERE AND FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF!

You need to practice, hone, and perfect your craft through
repeated trials, fail or succeed, until you’ve got it down pat.

If you do, there should be NO REASON why she won’t want to
talk to you.

And our final words…

Everything takes time. Women, especially, require a huge
time investment. But the payout is worth the work you put
in. Trust us.

And we mean what we said before. If even the best major
league baseball players can score about 1/3 of the time, you
can too with women. So remember…

“Be confident, be forward, don’t ever apologize, and always
be smiling.”

Best of luck on your women endeavors,

THE W4W SEDUCTION TEAM

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