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Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 55 Our dear Uncle Kehinde has gone to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ and to be reunited with his siblings in heaven. Uncle was a very caring and loving gentleman who loved his extended family. He was (boyfriend) to all his nieces and cared so much for them and they also loved and cared for him. I met him about 65 years ago when my late husband Alaba (Paru) as Uncle called him took me to Dublin to visit Uncle and Aunty Mope. They were so welcoming and hospitable and radiated so much love that I decided to accept their brother’s proposal to marry him. Uncle Kehinde was also a solid rock of support to me and my children when my husband his Alaba passed on to be with the Lord. We shall never forget him and the part he played in our lives and we pray that his gentle loving soul will rest in perfect peace in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, and that God will continue to comfort his wife Yinka, his children and us his extended family and friends IJN Amen Ibironke Akinsete My dear Uncle Kehinde, brother and Confidant to my late Mum, Ayoka Sijuwola Victoria Akinsete despite your ages Rest in Perfect Peace, Your first contact with me was just over 70 years ago in the United Kingdom at my birth. Since then and over the years you have become a principal member and repository of Akinsete family history. TRIBUTES FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS You were an epitome of knowledge, principle, character, humor, kindness, gentility to all irrespective of age, standing, class etc., and always in touch. We thank Almighty God for your life and I remain grateful to him as well as fulfilled for being at your beside and praying with you in your final hours on earth with Heaven as destination. May Almighty God continue to be with Aunty Yinka, uncle Seinde, aburos, grandchildren, in-laws, extended family members, friends, colleagues, domestic helpers etc. Amen. Yours Sincerely, Hon justice Adeniyi & Mrs. Olabowale Ademola (Head of 3rd Generation Akinsete Cousins) SLEEP WELL…!! Words fail me as l don’t know how and what to say. Dr. Omokehinde Akinsete never prepared my mind that his time had come to depart. l have been a part of your family before your children were born as your wife Mrs. Yinka Akinsete is my mother’s niece. I want to say thank you for all you did for me. You were a great support system, who mentored me through my upbringing and my education.
56 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete Little wonder you transferred the same love you had for your children to me, and my children. I learnt a lot from your family values - also from your quietness and your hardworking nature. I felt saddened when I was told you had passed away. We all pray to have, hold and keep our dear loved ones for as long as possible, but in Almighty God’s appointed time to Him we all return. I know that you are gone but you will remain indelible in our hearts, and we will always cherish the love, laughter, fun, companionship and so many memorable moments we shared. I will still love your children as my own sisters and brothers. To say my children and I will miss you is an understatement. May your soul rest in perfect peace Amen. Ololade Shasanya (Mrs.) Tribute to my Uncle! My first meeting with my very dear Uncle Kehinde was in Ibadan many many, many years ago during the installation of High Chief Sasere Akinsete. Our parents had both gone ahead to Ondo and we had been told that our uncle would pick us from school/the Akintomides’ house and bring us down to meet them in Ondo. We were thoroughly spoiled throughout the trip - with drinks and snacks.... especially the newish CocaCola - the type that had treasures in the bottle caps. It was a really fun trip. When I lost my father - the late Dr Raphael Akinsete - unexpectedly, I very much remember that my dear Uncle Kehinde took leave from work in Lagos to position in Ago Itunu Hospital, Ondo (my Dad’s hospital) to take charge of things during those chaotic times and he brought much needed stability and support to my devastated mum. Though we were young, we recognised and appreciated this selfless act; and we will never forget it. Since then, Uncle Kehinde has been special. After my training in Oxford as a pilot and I returned to Nigeria, my Uncle Kehinde, being the Director of Medical services at the Nigeria Airways, he reached out and welcomed me as a pilot, being more aware of my professional path than most people. He took me round the industry as his son, and of course, I got all my paperwork done with ease as he was very much loved by all. I am still very active in the industry and I still get asked by several people if I am related to Dr V. O. Akinsete; I still enjoy his influence and the mark he had set by his work and goodwill in the aviation industry. Everyone still refers to him as “ Doctor wa” (our doctor) many decades after he left the Airways. Uncle Kehinde and Auntie were the first to welcome my then fiancée - Annette whom they welcomed very warmly. Uncle Kehinde and Annette have remained very close ever since - both professionally and as a very close father and daughter relationship. I find it too difficult to accept that he has left us. However, I am consoled as I know he has gone to the place of glory. Heaven has surely welcomed a saint. Annette will close this tribute with a few words: (FROM ANNETTE) ... My dearest Uncle, indeed you were the first Uncle I would meet in Sina’s family. But it felt as though I already
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 57 knew you before Sina brought me to Lagos and introduced me to you and Aunty and Tinu, Kenke, Bolanle, Arin and Tunbola... because Sina was always talking about you and always very fondly. You will forever remain very special to me and to all our children - Ebun, Lamide and Korede - who fondly call you “Papa”. Dearest Uncle, I choose not to mourn, but to celebrate your life… a life of conscientiousness, diligence, quiet dignity, love, humour... and so much more. THANK YOU, my dearest Uncle...I will miss your serene presence. I will miss your wise counsel. I will miss your love for family. Rest on my wonderful Uncle Kehinde in the Bosom of our God Amen. Love from Sina and Annette Akinsete Aunty Ronky, TunsTuns, BimBim and PoyamPoyam !!! Those were the Pet names that Uncle used to call us. We can’t believe that we won’t hear your voice again. You have always been a part of our lives. This is a totally new chapter in the book of life. But the script is Gods. Uncle Kehinde was everybody’s boyfriend but everyone knew who the ONLY Girlfriend was. Uncle was gentle, kind, soft, generous and sensitive. He could also be very stubborn, like all his siblings. The bond of unity between we the Akinsete next generation will continue to be strengthened. You have poured into us all the love, commitment and loyalty to the family name. We won’t let you down. As for your Egin, God will strengthen and comfort him. Rest in perfect peace dear Uncle. We love you but Jesus loves you more. Ronke, Tunde, Bimpe and Fola The Late Dr Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete was one of my Mum’s older brothers and we had a close and very special relationship. My Mum, Late Mrs Beatrice Oluwawemimo Akinkugbe nee Akinsete was very close to Uncle Kehinde and his wife, Auntie Yinka (Mama Tinu, as my Mum would fondly refer to Auntie Yinka) their frequent visits, they spoke to each other almost every day. Uncle Kehinde was loving, caring, witty, funny and a very clever man. When I was a toddler Uncle named me ‘Miss Kokorodu Road’, at this time my parents lived in the Ikorodu Road area of Lagos and when asked where I lived, I always said I lived on Kokorodu Road. A few weeks before Uncle Kehinde passed, my sister Temitayo was visiting him and put me on the phone to
58 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete Uncle Kehinde saying ‘’Miss Kokorodu Road is on the phone’’. I immediately joked and said the name was expensive and Temitayo would need to pay a fee to use it, Uncle Kehinde rose to the occasion and said ‘’oma ya milenu ke’’ (meaning - ‘’I am surprised’’ in the Yoruba language), in other words Temitayo should have requested permission prior to mentioning the name. We all burst into laughter; such was the exchange of loving banter between us all. Uncle called myself and my sisters Funmi and Temitayo his girlfriends. We were at the top of the list! Uncle Kehinde will be sorely missed, every memory of Uncle puts a smile on our faces, we thank God for a life well spent and celebrate Uncle Kehinde’s life. Glory to God With love Wola Akinkugbe-Akwenuke aka Miss Kokorodu Road An uncle in a million; always welcoming, ever so cheerful, humble, kind, loving, caring and good at heart and soul.!!! You are gone, but you will never be forgotten. Your memory (all the jokes) will live within me forever. Sleep well dear Uncle. DeRemi (Honorable Member, Girlfriends Association) To my darling uncle Kehinde, As far back as I can remember, you’ve always been a presence in my life. You were so soft spoken, sweet and kind. You always called my dad “Paaru” and I thought it was so funny! You always had time to speak and joke with us kids and we’d fight amongst ourselves to be called you girlfriend. There was a time I was playing with Kenke in front of your GRA house and I threw a rock that cracked your windshield. I was really scared that you’d be mad at me, but you said, “ well it’s just a car, are you ok?” That’s not what my dad would have said:-)......and Kenke got blamed for it anyway. I am so glad that you met my family, and they remember you and I was hoping to do the same very soon. I wanted to talk to you in the hospital, but it was already too late, I guess God had other plans for you. I will really miss your quiet, soft-spoken manner and just your kindness and personality uncle. Please say hello to my dad and your other brothers and sisters RIP uncle till we meet again. Love always, Bosola Akinsete Hurduc
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 59 A tribute to a gentle, kind, soft spoken gentleman - uncle Kehinde. I t was always a pleasure to sit with you and have “discussions “I will miss those after church visits where we will sit in the kitchen or your bedroom and have tea (well it was aunty that offered us tea) and sometimes bread and egg. We were to go together to see where Paaru lay but I guess it was never to be. Thank you for all the love you showed at that very difficult time. We can never forget. Rest in peace my dear uncle/ boyfriend you have finished your race and your crown awaits you! Your siblings will be there waiting for you. Love you uncle, rest in peace. Temilola aka girlfriend 1 You were a soft spoken , precise and detailed person who saw the best in all of us. You encouraged us to achieve our dreams and be the best we can. You are loved and would surely be missed. Rest well with your maker. Okewusi Family Uncle Kehinde I spent a lot of my growing years at J15 Oduduwa way where my Mum Mrs. Wemimo Akinkugbe, his baby sister visited often. She loved her big brother, and they were close. Uncle Kehinde and Auntie made their home open and welcoming; I had many sleepovers at J15, on the mornings of the days I slept over, Uncle all dressed up for work at the Nigerian Airways in his smart clothes including suspenders would put on extra layers of white powder on his face just so he could do his scare face which had my cousins and I collapse more in giggles than fear. Those memories include Auntie’s famous jollof rice with onion rings, lots of laughs and family life, memories so beautiful and precious. When Uncle went to Saudi Arabia he would come back with all sorts of goodies, we missed him a lot at this time. As a young child, I marveled at the strength and focus Auntie showed at this time. Uncle had a wonderful personality, he would have a conversation with anyone and make them feel immediately at ease, he was funny, intelligent and had a fantastic memory. A visit to Maryland with my kids after a marathon Saturday shopping one day which had them grumpy became a lengthy visit of four hours. Uncle immediately wanted to know why they were grumpy and he went out of his way to cheer them up. Out came balloons from nowhere and several walks around the house engaging with the kids and they didn’t even want to leave. I knew immediately that this quality would have been gold in his profession and added to his successful career. He would ask for my daughter who he referred to as his “friend” after she sorted out an issue on his phone one day on one of our visits and he always had a new rank in the army for my son every time he
60 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete saw him or asked about him since he was nicknamed a general when he was born. Uncle you are greatly missed, rest in the bosom of the Lord, my lovely Uncle. Temitayo Ogunkoya Humm.......! Can’t still believe you are gone Words can’t express how loving you were to me and my family for your generosity, accommodating and visitation. Our own loving Uncle and Grandpa we will miss you so much. Continue to rest in the Lord. Babs, Tomisin, Seun and Oreofeoluwa Uncle Kehinde, my kind, sensitive uncle with the oh so gentle voice. Your favorite game with all your nieces was making us guess who was your girlfriend #1, or your favorite. I think it was your way of showing us how much you loved us all. Some of my fondest childhood memories include those of Bosola, Temilola and I spending days in your house in GRA Ikeja, running around the garden with Tinu, Kenke, Bolanle and later Arinola (Tunbola was not yet born). I am so grateful to God that I got to see you this year and was able to speak to you on the phone before you passed away. You and your siblings were so close and set a very high bar for us, your nieces and nephews, about what family really means. I will miss you. Rest in peace, dear uncle. Biola Akinsete Sarnecki My dear Brother, a distinguished doctor,a source of inspiration, a good father and grandfather graced this world for 93 years and left an indelible mark on our lives. Thank you for being a pillar of strength for our family and for the countless lives you touched through your healing hands and generous heart. You would be greatly missed by all. REST IN PERFECT PEACE EGIN. Bamidele Akinsete Tinu, Kenke, Bolanle, Arinola & Tunbola; it still feels most surreal that my favorite historian, storyteller, dot connector and general good pal is no longer here.
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 61 I’ll miss him to bits. He was not only a great uncle, he was an easy going friend that I loved sitting with, shooting the breeze. He died on a day that’s already important to me, September 22nd is my Dad’s birthday. Of course, I always remember my Dad on his birthday; and having Uncle tied to that date gives it even more significance. In recent years, I came round every so often to have lunch with him and Aunty. I learnt that once I gave a day and time for my visit, he would commit it to memory and hold me to it. He would sometimes call the morning of, to ensure that I hadn’t forgotten. Upon arriving, if I said I had only one hour, the visit usually stretched to three hours. When it was time to go, he would hold my handbag prisoner behind his back or sit on it. He would insist on escorting me to my car, then proceed to stand bang in front of the car, so moving was literally impossible, followed by recounting of another tale he forgot to mention; which leads to a further 15-20 minutes of recollection. Some specific conversations I cherish: -When I approached him to tell me about Akinsete family history, his response “….. I wish you had started this, whilst your Dad was alive. Between the two of us, we would have given you the details. Your Dad and I walked together. For the duration of our time at Ondo Boys High school, we were together, we came to Lagos together and even left for the UK at same time. Me, him and Ebun (Olawoye) shared a flat in the same building with Brother Gapson and his family at 152 Finborough road, Earl’s Court”. Using Google maps, I showed him a picture of the house, and further jog his memory. -“Damdam, I know your Mum’s family very well. I frequently accompanied your Dad to visit her parents’ house, when they were courting. I even remember her grandparents’ house at Campus”. -Damdam, let’s go through some photographs. Do you recognize this face? Let me explain who they are… In all, I am grateful for the years together, and blessed by the wonderful memories So long Uncle Kehinde Damilola Akinsete Daddy uncle Kehinde’ was what my brothers and I called you. You were the one we knew as our dad when our biological dad passed on almost 4 decades ago. We spent most of the weekends at your house in Ikeja with so much to eat and drink while rendering medical attention to my brothers and I when we took ill; a time when we had virtually nothing. You were a good man, caring, soft spoken and I cannot recall ever seeing you angry. I still look at my dad’s funeral album how you
62 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete wept profusely and used your handkerchief to wipe his defrosting corpse! What a show of love to your brother even after his demise! The memory of our last meeting is still fresh and you will surely missed. Femi Akinsete Our dearest Uncle Kehinde as we fondly referred to him was special to us in many ways, an amiable gentleman who was much loved. Even more special to us the children of Dipo and Mope Oladitan (Yinka, Funke,Kitan & Titi) as we understood later in life that Uncle brought our parents together during their sojourn as students at Trinity College Dublin in Ireland. This love story is endearing to us, however, not much can be said for the overprotective brothers we have in our midst these days! Our beloved mother was his immediate junior sister, his “Idowu” but fondly pronounced by Uncle in Ondo dialect as “Odowu!!!” Indeed, it’s not surprising that our cousin Tinu Oyekan is named ‘Mopelola’ after our mother, an expression of how close the siblings were. Uncle Kehinde was known to us as “Uncle Passpartout” because of the unique way he exchanged greetings with our Dad. Looking back now there must have been a private joke to this mode of hailing one another. To his nieces Uncle was the ‘boyfriend extraordinaire’, this earned him the title of “Grandpa Boyfriend” from my daughter Folakemi. Uncle had a listening ear, had a word for everyone and his compassionate nature will be surely missed. As we celebrate an accomplished life, our condolences go out to Auntie Yinka and our cousins. May Uncle Kehinde’s gentle soul rest in eternal peace. Olufunke Oduwole Dearest Grandpa, To say I miss you is a huge understatement. I can’t believe you really have departed to be with the Lord. Like everyone else, I wasn’t expecting it would happen anytime soon. Thank you, Grandpa, for everything. For me you were the only Grandpa I knew and I’m so grateful to have been loved by you. Where do I begin? My earliest memories of you are from GRA - by the then New Yorkers on Oduduwa Way. I have memories though now fuzzy of visiting you and Grandma there. I remember the years you were in Saudi and when you finally moved back to Nigeria. I learnt so much from you when you returned and there was so much, I admired about you. I really loved the fact that you chose to continue teaching at the hospital in Lagos. In our private times, you’ll share about living in Saudi. I remember when
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 63 you told me about underground churches in Saudi and how you got filled with the Holy Spirit. There was barely any topic we couldn’t have a conversation about- I’ll really miss that. Grandpa you truly are a man of love. One of the memories forever etched in my mind was here in London after Grandma had her knee surgery. If I didn’t know previously how much you were Love personified, I definitely saw it in then. You became Grandma’s number 1 Caregiver even surpassing the carer hired to help her recover. You would want to carry Grandma to the bathroom yourself, bathe her, there was clearly nothing you wouldn’t have done to help ease the pain she felt. You really were a Man amongst men. I’m so blessed and eternally grateful to have experienced the love you gave. You loved everyone uniquely and individually- you always had either a nick name, or private joke for/with each person and that shows how much you truly valued people - a lesson for us all to take from you. Grandpa, I want to say thank you. Thank you for loving us as yours, for always having a listening ear, for remembering each person’s peculiarities and for always staying in touch. You set the bar really high. We have indeed lost a gem - a beyond stellar human. I miss you so much Grandpa. And until we see again, keep Resting in Our Lord’s Bossom. I love You forever. Jibike Shasanya Dearest Grandpa, You were an exceptional individual, a trusted confidant, and a true blessing to numerous people, including those whose paths briefly crossed with yours. Your impact on people’s lives was profound, and your absence will be deeply felt. The beautiful moments we shared will forever attest to the remarkable person you were. Your remarkable memory and your ability to recount the history, both within and outside our field, were truly impressive. You would call me to inquire about my well-being, as well as that of Timilehin, Arinola, and Kasope. If I failed to visit the weekend after you called to check on us, you’d come to see us. Today, we are not mourning your passing, but celebrating your life. You welcomed me as your son, offering guidance and support at every stage of my life. You were a consistent father figure and would introduce me to individuals, both in the medical and non-medical spheres, whom you believed could positively impact my life. I am profoundly grateful for the lasting influence you’ve had on my life. Today, I pay tribute to you with deep gratitude, boundless love, and an unwavering commitment to living a life that honors your memory. Your legacy endures through the values you instilled in me, and your memories will always be cherished.
64 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete Timilehin, Arinola, and Kasope will miss you deeply. In Arinola’s words, Grandpa has gone to heaven. Rest in peace, Grandpa. With love and the utmost respect, Dr. Temitope Falaiye A life well lived and loved! My darling boyfriend, I want to thank you for memories of a lifetime! You were such a constant in my life that it was almost unimaginable that this time would come; that you’d have to meet with your maker. Grandpa,I would miss all our chats and how you would always ask me, how’s Kabiyesi ? Did I climb a Nepa pole at work today? Talking with you was easy and light and was always a highlight of my visits to Maryland. To say that we would miss you is an understatement. Maryland would never be the same without you. Not upstairs, not your room, not even downstairs gathering around for birthdays, Christmas and random just because days. I love you forever Grandpa! I’ve definitely gained an angel. we love you and miss you dearly! I wish you could have held on just a little longer for me to hug you goodbye God knows best. I’m glad your life was full! Rest easy, my boyfriend (read Uncle) 93 Years Loved! Dr. Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete of blessed memory and thoughts. Your number one chic, Adeola Shasanya Dear Uncle, As a young girl I have always known you as the Jovial uncle whose jokes always leaves a pleasant smile on my face! You will be sorely missed! Rest well dear uncle. Foluke Omoworare Dearest Uncle, You were such a wonderful, welcoming, gentle, easy-going and loving person. Always full of smiles whenever I saw you. We lose people in life and at a certain age, it should be a celebration because of all you had achieved in life and the beautiful family you and Aunty had raised together, but hearing the news of your passing yesterday really hit me.
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 65 We didn’t see all the time but when we did, it was a memory for the books. I will surely miss you. Rest in peace. Oluwaseun Wright Grandpa Kehinde was a shining light. I remember him coming to visit us in London, he would always make jokes with Grandma and play with me. Always had so much energy and love to share. Thank you for being such a bright light on our lives. Oreofe Ogunkoya Dear Uncle, Though l never had the chance to truly know you, the tales of your kind heart, exceptional character and endearing personality echoes through the memories shared by family and friends. I truly regret not having the opportunity to be closer, to learn from you, and to create our own cherished moments. Your legacy of kindness, love, and compassion lives on in the hearts of many. I am grateful for the wonderful person you were and the positive impact you made on our family. Rest in peace Uncle, you are missed and remembered with love. Funmi Akin-Olugbenjo I t’s with mixed feelings I write this tribute for Baba Arin known as my “Boyfriend” I later found out that there are quite a number of us. He was so full of life, kind, compassionate and always has a listening ear and an unbiased mind, we had such a great friendship, I learnt alot from him, I must say he had a fantastic memory. He never forgets names, dates and every detail contained in past and current conversations. I remember him insisting I attended he’s 90th birthday reception, infact I was given the royal treatment, I went to greet him in the parlor where he sat on his throne according to Toyin (she’s such a clown). He came outside and sat beside me making sure I was comfortable throughout my stay. Most times when I visited him, the fruit basket I came along with was always a delight to him, he would be excited and you could see the joy in his face like a young lad given candies. He would
66 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete even be so quick to ask when next I’d be visiting, while the visit isn’t over. I would say to him “ah let me even recover from this visit first before planning another one, but soonest sir” We gist on the phone, Friday his PA is always on hand to attend to him. He always referred to me as his proprietor, infact, he said he did not mind coming to volunteer at my school. Arin always told me not to be surprised the day her dad comes to visit me at my school. I remember when I told him I had suspended running the school for a while, I was touched and thrilled at the genuine concern he showed, always asking what my next line of action is, he kept on asking how I was fairing? He said if he was younger he would talk to people on my behalf but alas most of those he could speak with amongst his friends and colleagues have also gone to be with the lord. That was the Dr. Kehinde Valentine Akinsete I knew. I must say a big thank you to his children for allowing him have friendships with us the younger ones, indeed he was a great husband, dad and friend to many. I always look forward to calling him and having a productive conversation with him. I would surely miss the calls and visits, rest well sir you are indeed a blessed man. E Sun re o. Amin Oluwakemi Adebajo Doherty Uncle Kehinde has gone the way of all flesh We rejoice at the blessing of many years of a life of humility and kindness. I will always appreciate his values of unabating love, welcoming acceptance and a remarkable disposition for making others feel comfortable in his company. Truly meek, but resolutely stood for fairness and equity. He spoke rather softly but with unflinching conviction. Uncle Kehinde made me feel part of the clan. His ‘dad jokes’ always made one ease up and put a smile on ones face. He always told of cooking me ‘òbé ila asepò’, he didn’t get a chance to, but perhaps he might when we meet again at his heavenly home. Adieu Uncle, I am glad to have met and known you. Ernest Akwenuke This world is not the same without you Your kind is very rare indeed. Heaven has gained a treasure. Safe journey my darling boyfriend, go with God Funmilayo Dipeolu Daddy, I got to know you since I got married to Ifedayo Orisaya. You took us like your children, you were soft spoken, principled and full of integrity. Your guidance and love touched my life deeply and I will forever cherish the lessons you imparted, you left a big blueprint.
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 67 Nike, that’s what you always called me and it stuck! You reminded me so much of my late biological father. Each time you were always asking me about the welfare of people at home. You impacted so many lives and truly you were a gem. I am glad I came in contact with you and I am blessed by your words of encouragement especially the last time you spoke with me. You will always be loved and your legacy lives on in our hearts. Till we meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus. Goodnight Daddy!! Engr. Nike Orisaya and Children Dear Uncle, An epitome of what a gentleman should be. I know the angels have received you into the bosom of our Lord Jesus. Thank you for everything till we meet on resurrection morning, continue to rest in perfect peace. Akinwale Akinbulum Colleagues & Associates I t is with heavy heart that I write this tribute to my teacher because no matter how old one is, no one wants to lose somebody close to one’s heart. Yes, you were one of the teachers who taught me the rudiments of Anaesthesia when I joined the department of Anaesthesia LUTH in 1977. You were one of a kind a special breed who taught with a lot of compassion and gentleness so much so that all of us trainees then were always happy when assigned to your theatre. We were all so distraught when you eventually left us for greener pastures. By the time you came back, you were delighted to hear of my progress, even heading the department then and you came to see and congratulate me. When you joined LASUTH in later years and you had to set up the dept you did not hesitate to come over on several occasions for assistance that was how humble you were. We got closer when I came to LASUTH on a sabbatical leave infact you encouraged me to come. In your usual accommodating way, you made the year a very pleasant and fulfilling one, making sure I got all my entitlements. You were a perfect gentleman with a strong passion for our specialty Anaesthesia. Even when I used to pull your legs that at your age you should be on the golf course, you used to say that you would rather be in theatre!! A very caring family man who never stopped telling me about the children and pranks of the grandchildren.
68 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete I was privileged to have taught Tinu and Arin in Medical school. Arin and my daughter Yeside are lifelong friends and of course Kenke my son in laws good friend. My oga and mentor you have lived a well fulfilled life and it’s time to take your rest. May God grant you eternal rest and console all you have left behind especially Aunty, your very dear wife. Adieu Sir! Prof. Sola Kushimo
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete 69 •. R. O. OLAGUNJU & CO. (CHARTERED ACCOUNTANTS) IBADAN OFFICE: S6/388 Kudeti Church Road Oke Oluokun, lbadan. LAGOS·OFFICE: Plot 534-Aina Akingbala Street, Omole Phase II Ojodu/Berger Lagos. 08023002798 017948315 TRIBUTE TO DR. VALENTINE OMOKEHINDE AKINSETE Dr. V.O Akinsete was our doctor in Nigeria Airways when I was an accountant and later Controller of Internal Audit. He was the most humble and tolerant of all the medical heads we had. He was so humble for his age and experience. He was one of the doctors who would treat you in the clinic and visit you in your office. My relationship with him was very cordial (unlike the relationship of the auditor with other Heads of Department). He would advise me and other staff about what we should eat. He always reminded me about not using hot water to bathe and what kind of mattress to use etc. He made sure that the company provided the right things for those of us living in the staff quarters. Some of the things I cannot forget about him: a) When we went to open our office in Karachi, Pakistan; immediately I arrived he came and met me and told me not to eat any of their food. He said the best I could do was drink Coca Cola and eat groundnuts. He had asked the controller of catering who was also with us to give us a good breakfast the following morning. He did not have any medicine for me…so he said. b) When I needed treatment abroad, he sent me to Harley Street and gave a very comprehensive report about my health. c) He helped refer my mother to Lagos University Teaching Hospital accompanied by a lady Doctor. d) One of my staff had a London Medical appointment whilst Dr. Akinsete was himself on sick leave at home. His deputy said she could not sign the papers. I took the lady to Dr. Akinsete on his sick bed to sign but he could not sign as he was on sick leave: he wrote a note authorizing his deputy to sign and so she signed. There are so many more instances like these. I knew him as a wonderful man: he was a doctor of doctors. May his soul rest in peace and may God protect the family he left behind. He had a wonderful wife too; God-bless her. R.O Olagunju Former Controller of Audit, Nigeria Airways Ltd.
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78 Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete The Akinsete Family would like to express our profound gratitude and deep appreciation to you for the love and support, your kindness, generosity and gifts, your time and presence, and most especially your prayers since the transition to glory of our beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, cousin and friend, Dr. Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete We thank you for honouring us with your presence at the funeral ceremonies… We pray that the Lord Almighty bless and keep you in all your ways. May He guide and guard you as you return to your various destinations in mighty name of Jesus. Amen!!! May we all live long, live well and prosper even as our souls prospers and at the end of this earthly journey make it to heaven, in Jesus name Amen!!! Appreciation
Valentine Omokehinde Akinsete For counselling, prayers and enquiries, please contact: 0806-2766051, 0802-3149601, 0803-3100270, 0803-8171702 E-Mail: [email protected] | Website: www.avmcc.org.ng 7.00a.m 10.00a.m 6.00p.m 1st Sunday Holy Communion Holy Communion Holy Communion Anointing 2nd Sunday Holy Communion Mattins Family Evening 3rd Sunday Holy Communion Holy Communion Even-Song 4th Sunday Holy Communion Mattins Youth Evening YOUTH CHAPEL 7.00a.m 10.00a.m 1st Sunday Holy Communion Holy Communion 2nd Sunday Mattins Mattins 3rd Sunday Holy Communion Holy Communion 4th Sunday Mattins Mattins CHILDREN CHURCH 7.00a.m 10.00a.m Sundays Mattins Mattins WEEKLY PROGRAMMES Tuesdays 6.00p.m– 8.00p.m Bible Study Wednesdays 6.00p.m– 8.00p.m Prayer Meeting Mondays-Saturdays 7.00a.m – 8.00a.m Holy Communion MONTHLY ACTIVITIES 3rd Fridays 6.00p.m – 8.00p.m Deliverance & Healing 3rd Thursday 6.00p.m – 8.00p.m Counseling & Prayer Tuesdays 6.00p.m – 8.00p.m Counseling & Prayer Wednesdays 6.00p.m – 8.00p.m Counseling & Prayer Sundays 7.00a.m–10.00a.m Counseling & Prayer Every Sunday after services Last Fridays 10.00p.m Vigil 1st Day Monthly 6.00a.m – 7.00a.m Hour of Blessing CHOIR PRACTICE HOLDS ON MONDAYS & FRIDAYS: 6: 30p.m BOYS AND GIRLS BRIGADE MEETING HOLDS ON SATURDAYS: 4:00p.m CHURCH PROGRAMME Please feel free to join any of the Services/Activities of the Church listed below. Family members, relatives, friends, staff or colleagues at work are also invited.
OUR VISION: To be the leading Diocese in the Church of Nigeria in preparing the Nation for the second coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. OUR MISSION STATEMENT: * To ensure a sustained growth in the number of churches and worshippers within the Diocese * To continue to enhance the mode of worship, teach and preach the word of God in all our churches thereby creating worshippers fit for the kingdom of Heaven * To assist every member in the understanding and practice of the 39 Articles of our faith. * To develop and inspire in every church the principles of self-sufficiency and Christian generosity, thereby ensuring a strong and viable Diocese. * To continue to promote peaceful and cordial relationship with the other Dioceses, in order to ensure the success of our common commitment.