RCA Civic Newsletter - Jan./Feb 2019

Covering the community of Rosedale

Est. 1946

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Newsletter  January/February 2019

FROM THE PRESIDENT'S DESK BOARD OF TRUSTEES:

Rosedale Chairman Emeritus Irnel L. Stephen

Thank you for the opportunity Elected Officers:
to serve you!
President & Board Chairperson Emmlynn L. Taylor
During my tenure as the Rosedale Civic
Association President & Board Chairperson First Vice President & Zanzana Meacham
I had the privilege of working closely with prior Civic Presidents, Board Civilian Patrol Leader
Members, Community Leaders, our local elected officials, our Merchant
Association (MARLS) and the community at large to help improve Second Vice President Marcia A. O’Brien
the quality of life in Rosedale. Together we overcame obstacles and
contributed to the betterment of our community and Rosedale gained a Secretary Evidelia Boyd
lot of respect due to such collaborative efforts.
Recording Secretary Phillip-Ann Allison
 We solidified partnerships with the 105th Precinct and the Neighbor-
hood Policing Program, initiating more accountability, visibility/ Treasurer Eric Ambrose
transparency of our police officers in Rosedale.
Membership Secretary Richard Fox
 We worked closely with past and present elected officials to install
surveillance cameras in strategic locations in Rosedale and Sergeant At Arms Samuel Elliott
represented Rosedale on Sewer/Flooding related issues at City Hall.
We fought diligently together with other Community leaders and Board Members:
elected officials to initiate the build-out of the 116th Precinct in
Rosedale to help minimize the response time and overall safety for Ann English William (Bill) Perkins
this side of Queens.
Franck D. Joseph Jules Taylor, Jr.
 We engaged DOT in numerous easy/uneasy conversations to install
stop signs, street redirections from two-ways to one-ways, Alfred G. Osbourne Chaplain:
and pushed back on what we considered to be unfair parking/permit Pastor Vincent Williams
practice at the LIRR Parking lot in Rosedale.
Newsletter Editing Team:
 We supported MARLS with its development and joined force
to engage DOT in our 5th Annual Rosedale Weekends Editor in Chief: Emmlynn L. Taylor
Walks/Pedestrian Mall/Street Festival. We supported MARLS and
Community Board-13 with Health Fairs and continue to collaborate Principal Contributors:
with our local block associations, Eastern Queens Alliance and The
Lions Club, etc. in their ventures. Alfred G. Osbourne Franck D. Joseph
Irnel L. Stephen Zanzana Meacham

Fundraising Committee Co-Chairs:

Ann English Jules Taylor, Jr.

Highlights in This Issue:

Final Msg. from President Marcia O’Brien Pg. 1-2

Upcoming Mtgs. & Food Pantry Info Pg. 3

Parenting, Financial & New Series Pg. 4-5

Christmas with Santa in Rosedale Pictures Pg. 6-7

Defensive Driving Classes in Rosedale Pg. 8

105th Precinct General Info & NCO Contact Pg. 9

Just Sharing …. Important Info, Safety, etc. Pg. 10-14

FROM THE PRESIDENT'S DESK (cont.) Community Assistance Request Form Pg. 15

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FROM THE PRESIDENT'S DESK (cont.)

 Our Quarterly Newsletter, Monthly Community Educational events and presentations offered at our General Civic
meetings, our annual Dinner Dance, our annual Memorial Day parades, our annual turkey distribution, and
co-sponsorship of our annual Christmas with Santa events has helped to strengthen the character of the Rosedale
community.

 Our Quality of Life Committee work closely with the Rosedale Civic Association Executive Board and Civilian Patrol to
help spearhead the removal of derelict vehicles and abandoned homes, dumping and graffiti removal and the ongoing
maintenance of Snake Road and Sunrise Highway Memorials, just to name a few.

Unfortunately my tenure has come to an end and the Rosedale Civic Association will continue its legacy with our incoming
President & Board Chairperson, Emmlynn Taylor. I will remain on the Executive Board as 2nd Vice-President working along
side our new president.
Thank you to the Rosedale Civic Association Executive Board and members, Congressman Gregory Meeks, Senator Leroy
Comrie, Senator James Sanders, Borough President Melinda Katz, Assemblywoman Alicia Hyndman, Assemblywoman
Michele Titus, Councilman Donovan Richards, District Leaders: Valerie West, Jacqueline Boyce, Robert Simmons and
Elmer Blackburne, The Rosedale Lions Club, MARLS, The Rosedale-Laurelton American Legion Hall Commanders,
Community Board-13 and the 105th Precinct for your ongoing support.
Special thank you to my family, especially my children Amanda Iris and Wendell, Jr., for the time they allowed me to share
with Rosedale.
I am confident that with your ongoing support Rosedale will continue to move in the right direction. See you at our next
General Meeting on January 29, 2019 @ 8:00 p.m. at Throop Memorial Presbyterian Church.
Best to you for the upcoming year!
Sincerely,

Marcia A. O’Brien

President & Board Chairperson (2017-2018)
Rosedale Civic Association, Inc.

Marcia,
A sincere thanks for the time, talent and treasure that you
invested into the Rosedale Community during your tenure as
President & Board Chairperson. We are grateful that you’ll be
continuing as the 2nd Vice-President!

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December 2018 & January 2019 Civic Meetings & Topics

Members, please find below the upcoming Civic meeting agenda topics and guest presenters. Please make sure
that you spread the word to your friends and neighbors and encourage them to come out and join us.

Meeting Time: 8:00 PM Eastern Time
Meeting Location: Throop Memorial Presbyterian Church

140-17 243rd Street, Rosedale, NY 11422
(at north-east corner of Memphis Avenue & 243rd Street
Entrance on 243rd Street)

 Tuesday, January 29, 2019, 8:00 p.m.
 First Monthly General Membership Meeting for 2019
 Throop Memorial Presbyterian Church of Rosedale/Lower Level Auditorium
 Agenda to be announced on Rosedale Civic Assoc./Facebook Page

 Tuesday, February 26, 2019, 8:00 p.m.
 First Monthly General Membership Meeting for 2019
 Throop Memorial Presbyterian Church of Rosedale/Lower Level Auditorium
 Agenda to be announced on Rosedale Civic Assoc./Facebook Page

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CONTINUATION OF THE

By: Irnel L. Stephen, MSW, MPA, LCSW-R
Chairman Emeritus, Rosedale Civic Association

Some of the Special Challenges of Stepparents at or from distance

In the November-December 2018 issue the two (2) essential characteristics of /for STEPPARENTING were
highlighted as “INTENTIONAL and RESILIENT” meaning “man or woman to want to be “responsible parent” of the
biological child / children of someone else, and be also willing and ready to deal with all the possible encumbrances
and overcome all associated obstacles”.

The notion of “stepparent at or from distance” is derived from amorous relationships initiated /developed either
during single /group cruises, vacations at resorts or at business conferences, regional professional meetings, annual
conventions when the “special friends”, lovers / partners of the custodial parents domicile/work in other towns,
cities, states or countries; maintaining regular communication mostly via texting, phone calls or “coded messages”
on social media when not “being together” in arranged encounters, and initially having no familiarity or no person
-to-person contact with the children living with the biological “Mom” or “Dad”.

Usually such situations do have their special challenges about gradual acceptance, but can also provide unique
opportunities for easier tolerance leading to collaborative rapports in phases. Generally approval or acceptance as
the most problematic element from the perspective of the children of the custodial mom or dad can be by-passed
when the relationship has already “matured” by the time the children are either formally informed or they have
come to notice it by themselves.

The stepparent at or from distance, as he or she assumes parental responsibilities and performs related parenting
duties, being removed from the day-to-day home tensions -psychological or environmental- between the custodial
parent and the children, can be in a better position to play “neutral arbiter” in most cases. However he / she must
be careful about “being parent first” and avoid the temptation of playing mostly the role of “closest /best friend”
of the children.

At times the children living with their custodial parents can be “resentful” about their Mom or Dad being in an
amorous relationship with someone other than their other biological parent, particularly when or if they have been
entertaining possible reconciliation of their parents, or if they are extremely concerned about their inheritance or
when they are truly protective of their Mom or Dad.

It is also suggested that the custodial parent arranges visits of the partner at the “home” to meet and know the
children, and for the “stepparent at or from distance”, if practical or whenever appropriate, to plan regular and
special visits of the custodial parent with the children at his /her domicile, to develop greater familiarity and
attempt to facilitate improvement of rapports. The actual assumption of parental responsibilities necessarily
involves communication between the stepparent and the custodial parent with the children, jointly or separately
depending on the issues involved. Additionally the Stepparent’s parenting functions include advising, direct or
indirect disciplining, guidance, plus conversations about financial matters in relation to the care of the children,
their needs and their wants, vacation plans with and without the children, plus home maintenance...Several of
those relationships at or from distance have resulted in cohabitation later, some in legal marriages or
permanently “live-in together”.

Irnel L. Stephen, MSW, MPA, LCSW-R

Chairman Emeritus, Rosedale Civic Association

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Financial Planning For Families and Individuals Series
Family Finances: Q&A with a Financial Advisor

By Alfred G. Osbourne CFP®, CLU®, CRPC®, CPA, MBA
Member, Rosedale Civic Association Financial Advisor, Ameriprise Financial Services

Choosing a New Credit Card? Read This First

A quick glance at television commercials or online pop-up ads shows that reward programs are the name of the game for
many credit cards. If you have a high credit score and pay your bills on time and in full, chances are you can benefit from
choosing cards with attractive incentives. Are you getting the most bang for your buck when you pull out the plastic? Here are
four tips to consider as you look for a more rewarding approach to using credit cards:

Tip #1 – Review your current cards
Many investors hold the same cards for years – even decades. While this is often a responsible approach, now may be the
time to review the cards you own. Your credit worthiness (as determined by your income, credit history and other factors)
can change over time, along with your financial situation. This means the right cards for you today may be different than the
ones in your wallet. Opening and closing accounts may negatively impact your credit score, so proceed carefully.

Tip #2 – Identify cards that offer your best opportunities
Determine the type of rewards that matter most to you. Are you looking for airline miles, the chance to earn points toward
concert tickets, bikes and other items, or would you prefer cash back? Do your favorite retailers offer cards with appealing
rewards? Consider your financial goals and how credit card benefits could help get you closer to achieving them. For example,
earning airline miles could reduce the cost of your annual vacation, or extra cash could be invested in your IRA. Be selective
and don’t fall into the trap of spending money just to earn points.

Tip #3 – Find common ground
If you are single, decisions about which credit cards to hold are up to you. But for couples who share financial responsibilities,
it’s important to align on which cards to apply for and whether to have joint or separate accounts. Lay out your spending
strategy, such as determining who will pay the bills each month or a dollar amount that requires a conversation with your
spouse before purchase. Align on how to allocate your reward points so you’re working toward a common goal.

Tip #4 – Be stingy about fees
Many attractive credit cards have no annual fee or waive fees for an introductory period. Check the fine print, particularly if
you have plans to travel abroad, as foreign transaction fees may also apply. Minimizing fees can help you maximize the value
of your reward points.

Credit cards these days can be rewarding, especially if you use them wisely. Consult with a financial professional if you’d like
help reviewing your finances.

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Alfred G. Osbourne, CFP®, CLU®, CRPC®, CPA, MBA, is a Financial Advisor with Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc. in East Meadow, NY. He specializes in fee
-based financial planning and asset management strategies and has been in practice for over 30 years. To contact him, (516) 861-3528, 90 Merrick Ave-
nue, Suite 105, East Meadow, NY 11554.

Ameriprise Financial, Inc. and its affiliates do not offer tax or legal advice. Consumers should consult with their tax advisor or attorney regarding their
specific situation.

Investment advisory products and services are made available through Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc., a registered investment adviser.

Ameriprise Financial Services, Inc. Member FINRA and SIPC.

© 2018 Ameriprise Financial, Inc. All rights reserved. File #1982831 (Approved until 01/2019)

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Our annual Christmas with Santa event, held on Saturday, December 22, 2018 at 12:00pm, it
was such a success! The weather cooperated and we were able to set up outside the Rosedale Public
Library.
Our very own Councilmember, Donovan Richards, Jr., Santa, played by our very own Sam Elliot and the
newest member of the NCO Adam, Officer Benjamin helped to make this an extra special event.
Thank you to everyone that helped with donations, wrapping gifts, helping to set-up, volunteering, etc.,
we appreciate your ongoing support!
Santa’s Helpers: Councilmember, Donovan Richards, Jr., Assemblywoman Alicia Hyndman, Alpha Kappa
Alpha Sorority, Inc./Epsilon Pi Omega Chapter, Brookville Park Tennis Club, Alicia & Earnest Flow-
ers/MVP Pediatrics, MWA Realty Corp., MARLS, the 105th Precinct, Walgreens (Dutch Broadway,
Elmont), CRE Adult Daycare Center, Inc. and D.R.E.A.M., Inc.

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Marcia O’Brien

President, 148th Drive & Community Block Association, Inc.,
President & Board Chairperson, Rosedale Civic Association, Inc.

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NEIGHBORHOOD POLICING
PROTECTING AND CONNECTING

Neighborhood Policing and its Goals
Neighborhood Policing is the cornerstone of today’s New York City Police Department (NYPD). It’s a comprehensive
crime-fighting strategy, built on improved communication and collaboration between police officers and community
residents. Neighborhood Policing works to accomplish three core goals: to continue reducing crime; to promote trust and
respect; and to solve problems collaboratively, both within the department and with neighborhood residents. It is also a way
of improving police morale as officers engage with the more challenging and satisfying task of solving problems and fighting
crime at the sector level.

The 105th Precinct serves the easternmost portion of Queens. Queens Village, Cambria Heights, Laurelton, Rosedale,
Springfield Gardens, Bellerose, Glen Oaks, New Hyde Park, and Floral Park comprise the area covered by the precinct.

The NYPD is online and on social media as stated below.
Twitter: @NYPD105Pct
Facebook:www.facebook.com/NYPD105pct
Website:
http://www1.nyc.gov/site/nypd/bureaus/patrol/precincts/105th-precinct.page

Thank you for your time and attention.

Deputy Inspector Neteis Gilbert
Commanding Officer

105th Precinct

Community Council

President: Rose Funderburk
Meetings: Community Council meetings typically take place on the last Wednesday

of each month at 7:00 PM in the precinct.

You are encouraged to contact your NCO’s directly:

Neighborhood Coordination Officers, or NCOs, are your local problem solvers. They spend all their
working hours within the confines of their assigned sectors, actively engaging with local community
members and residents. They get to know the neighborhood, its people, and its problems extremely
well.

NCO Adam NCO Boy
Officer Luis Benzant Officer Christopher Kissane
Cell: (917) 603-0881 Cell: (917) 742-4918
Email: [email protected] Email: [email protected]

Welcome to Sector Adam! Officer Lonell Patrick
Cell: (917) 854-5287
Officer Kurt Benjamin Email: [email protected]
Cell: (929) 256-0694
Email: [email protected]

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SNAP [SERVICES NOW FOR ADULT PERSONS]
Providing for the Needs of Senior Citizens in Queens

www.snapqueens
Main Phone (718) 454-2100

SNAP Brookville Neighborhood Senior Center
Phone (718) 525-8899
SERVING ROSEDALE AND LAURELTON COMMUNITIES
1 Cross Island Plaza, Lower Level
Entrance from Merrick Blvd. and 242nd Street, Rosedale, NY 11422
AVAILABLE SERVICES:
 Delicious Breakfast and Lunch
 Stimulating Classes in:

 Arts and Culture
 Technology (Several levels of Computer classes)
 Health and Wellness
 Recreational Activities
 Case Assistance
 Support Groups
 Fun Filled Trips
 Informative Guest Speakers
 Volunteer Opportunities
 Transportation

PLEASE CALL OR VISIT
SNAP BROOKVILLE NEIGHBORHOOD SENIOR CENTER

AVOID THE EXORBITANT HIGH FEES
THE PRIVATE STRUCTURED SOCIAL ADULT DAY CARE CENTERS

CHARGE SENIORS DIRECTLY OR AGGRESSIVELY BILL
THEIR HEALTH INSURANCE COMPANIES

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Local School Options for your Children!

DISSATISFIED WITH LARGE CLASS SIZES AT YOUR LOCAL SCHOOL?

CALL US AT (718) 525-6884
Tuition Starts at $4100 Per Year

Christ Lutheran School
Kindergarten through 8th Grade
Small Classes ~ After School Care Program
Liberal Tuition Payment Plans Available ~ Very Competitive Tuition Prices
French Language, Art ~ Computer Programs
248-01 Francis Lewis Blvd • Rosedale, New York 11422
FOR INFORMATION AND “OPEN HOUSE DATES” CALL (718) 525-6884

QUALITY EDUCATION IN SAFE ENVIRONMENT

St. Clare Catholic Academy
Kindergarten through 8th Grade
PARTICIPANT IN THE NYC FREE UNIVERSAL PRE-K FOR ALL
137-25 Brookville Blvd. • Rosedale, New York 11422
Located in the campus of the former St. Clare Parish School, the St. Clare Catholic Academy
is the regional elementary and middle school open to children residing within:
St Clare Catholic Parish of Main Rosedale and Eastern Laurelton;
St Pius X Catholic Parish of South-Rosedale and Eastern part of Brookville; Mary Madaglena Catholic Parish of
Central Laurelton; Christ the King Catholic Parish of Springfield Gardens and Western part of Brookville.

Children of all faiths are accepted at the St. Clare Catholic Academy
Small classes, Early Morning Drop in Program starting at 7:00 a.m. and

After School Care Program regularly till 6:30 p.m.,
FOR INFORMATION AND “OPEN HOUSE DATES” CALL (718) 528-7174
Website: http: stclarecatholicacademy.org • Facebook: SCCARosedale • Twitter: WERSCCA

Join and Lend an Extra Set of Hands

JOIN THE ROSEDALE CIVILIAN PATROL
 Help Us Make A Difference
 CALL US AT (718) 978-4735 FOR MORE INFORMATION .
 The Rosedale Civilian Patrol is seeking members to patrol our streets and be the eyes and ears of the NYPD.
 All patrol members are trained by the NYPD and ride in teams. Help make a difference in our neighborhood.
 The Civilian Patrol usually meets one hour before the Rosedale Civic Association, on the last Tuesday of the
month (except July, August, and December), at the Throop Memorial Presbyterian Church.

JOIN THE ROSEDALE WANDERERS:
 Anyone can join The Rosedale Wanderers; any age is welcome.
 If you are interested in becoming a member, contact Ann English at (718) 276-0016.
 We meet at THE ROSEDALE/LAURELTON AMERICAN LEGION HALL (Brookville Blvd and 135th Avenue) on
the third Friday of each month at 12:30 p.m.
 Dues for the year are $10.00. Come to your first meeting as our guest and join us for coffee and cake.

2019 Civic Membership Dues
$12 per household

Please remember to pay your membership dues.
Thank you for your support!

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Please Support Those Who Support Us!

Rosedale Lance Wine and Liquors/Crazy Arnie's Beverages
Community
658 Rockaway Turnpike
Lawrence, NY 11559
(516) 218-3811

[email protected]  www.crazyarnies.com
(Across from Party City on Rockaway Tpk.)

OPEN 7 Days a Week
Mon.-Sat. 8:00-7:00/Sun. 9:00-4:30

One Stop Shop for all your Beverage needs.

Conveniently Located with Plenty of Parking

We offer wholesale prices without any membership fees.
Family Owned & Operated

Come & Visit us Today … Ask for Lance!

Rosedale Auto Parts

147-36 Brookville Blvd.
Rosedale, NY 11422
(718) 276-4260

Bruce Gallub, Howie Gallub
Kenny Gallub

We are a family owned business in Rosedale for 18 years. Our reputation is very
important. We have been in the automotive wholesale and retail business for
over 44 years. Our entire family grew up in Rosedale until 1985. We played
Rosedale little league and also played football for the Rosedale Jets.

We sponsor the Rosedale Little league and are involved in the community. Our
prices are very competitive to the big box stores and we will match or beat

reasonable prices. Thanks for the support from our community.
www.facebook.com/Rosedaleautoparts1998

Dasmin Lane
Associate Real Estate Broker
HomeSmart Cross Island
242-14 Merrick Blvd.
Rosedale, NY 11422

(917) 907-4718 Mobile
(718) 341-9800 Office
(718) 341-9565 Fax

[email protected]
www.homesmartcrossisland.com

When it comes to Renting, Selling or Buying a Home,
Let Dasmin Lane be Your Agent!

Put my experience, knowledge
and professionalism to work for you.

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to the newsletter, and allows me to attend monthly meetings on the last Tuesday of the month, at THROOP

MEMORIAL PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH, on 243rd Street and Memphis Avenue, at 8:00 p.m. (PLEASE PRINT)

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