September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 49 A Special Invitation from Christopher M. Flood, ’13 First Vice President Eta Alumni Association There certainly was a surprise for the elected officers of the Eta Colony and Chapter during the re-chartering event held on March 12, 2011. Several months earlier, the Executive Committee of the Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa had adopted a legacy "Eta Alumni Pins Program." The program, developed and proposed by Robert G. "Bob" Pemberton, Class of 1958, and expertly administrated by then-First Vice President Wayne H. Bethards, Class of 1959, called for jeweled Phi Sigma Kappa fraternity pins, donated by alumni of the Eta Chapter, be outfitted with jeweled “Eta” guards and presidential dangles, and be used to establish an award or awards for those Active Members in recognition of their outstanding performance as an officer of the chapter. Brother Pemberton promoted the program via outreach by phone and committed to donations of a minimum of 17 pins to launch the program. Our hope was that the program would be sustainable over time so that it could become a traditional recognition element and an important part of the installation of officers ritual. At the re-chartering event, each newly-minted Eta Brother who had held elected office during the time when Eta was a colony was presented with a jeweled pin and guard as well as the dangle appropriate to his office. Where possible, the presentations were made by the donors themselves. In other cases, prominent Eta Alumni stood in as presenters for their absent Brothers. It was a very special and moving part of the re-chartering event. Since that time, the Eta Alumni Association has presented each newly-elected chapter president with a donated jeweled pin and guard, along with the presidential (gavel) dangle. Where the donor did not have a jeweled guard and/or presidential dangle, the association purchased these in order to read the pin for presentation So, over the years, we have continued to present pins and our inventory is now just two pins, so we are in need of additional jeweled pins for future presentations. Perhaps you have a jeweled pin that you would like to donate to this program? The program also calls for the pins that are to be awarded be accompanied by a short biographical sketch of the donor. If you would like to donate your Phi Sigma Kappa pin, our current inventory could really use your help. Please complete the donation form that follows this page and mail it with your jeweled pin to our Alumni Association. Donated pins will be inventoried, jeweled guards and presidential dangles will be purchased by the alumni association and the pins will be securely stored by the Eta Alumni Association until the time of their presentation. We look forward to your support of this special program! If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me at 443-553-5865 or drop me an e -mail at [email protected] An Urgent Update on the ETA ALUMNI PINS PROGRAM A Unique and Lasting Way to Share the Symbol of Our Fraternal Bonds Robert G. Pemberton ‘58
50 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE ETA RINGS & PINS PROGRAM DONATION About the Donor: Once complete, please mail this document, with your donation, to: Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa12806 Silverbirch LaneLaurel, MD 20708 The Story Behind this Donation: At the time of my donation I was: Retired from: Employed by: Company: Title: Type of Business: I graduated from UMD in: and received a Degree in While an undergraduate I held the following positions in our fraternity: Here’s the rest of my story / the story behind my donation: (additional pages may be attached) Signed: Donation: (please use one form per donation) Pin Class Ring Signet Ring Dr. Mr. First Name: M.I.: Last Name: Home Address: City: State: Zip: Home Phone: Cell Phone: Email Address: Please print clearly, as this document will be presented to the recipient of your Fraternity Ring and/or Pin. Thank You!
September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 51 Now, Please Take a Moment and Be Sure Your Fraternal History is Recorded as a Part of... You’ve Been So Very Important to Our Growth Measuring 4’ x 8’, the Eta Chapter Family Tree charts the relationships of big brothers & little brothers throughout our history. Simply complete the next page of this document to the best of your ability and mail it to the address at the bottom of that page to be a part of this enormous undertaking.
52 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE The Eta Chapter Family Tree Please mail your completed sheet to: Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa, 12806 Silverbirch Lane, Laurel, MD 20708 The Eta Chapter Family Tree, sponsored by the Eta Alumni Association, is an effort to identify the heritage of our Chapter by charting the Big and Little Brothers of all our alumni. But our Family Tree, and this record of our history, won’t be complete without your participation. If you have not already submitted this information (or if you’d like to add some detail) please complete this sheet as much as you are able, and mail it to us at the address below. Many thanks, and we’ll be sure that you’re a part of the Eta Family Tree. Fill in Your Name. 4 2 1 3 5 Fill in the Name of Your Big Brother. Did Your Big Brother have any other Little Brothers besides You? If so, indicate their names on the lines below. Can You Recall the Name of Your Big Brother’s Big Brother? Fill in the Name(s) of Your Little Brothers on these blue lines. Feel free to clip this page and make as many copies as you like - if your memory can help us with info on another Brother, then by all means let us know by completing a form for any Brother where you remember their Big and/or Little Brothers. START HERE
September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 53 Chapter Eternal The Executive Committee regrets to report that the following Brothers of Eta Chapter have entered the Chapter Eternal since the publication of the last issue of The THIRD DEGREE, and ask that you join us in prayers for our departed Brothers and their families. April 20, 1921 - January 4, 2020 (age 98) Arthur C. Farnham (Art) was born April 20, 1921 in Washington D.C. to Ruth H. and Arthur B. Farnham. He grew up in the Wesley Heights section of Washington, D.C. with his two younger brothers, Henry (d. 1941), and Lowry (d. 2013) and spent summers in New Hampshire with his beloved aunts Jane (d. 1930) and Daisy (Margaret Joy Farnham, d. 1977), for whom he served as guardian prior to her passing. Art graduated from Woodrow Wilson High School and the University of Maryland, College Park (1943), where he was a member of the Phi Sigma Kappa fraternity and served as secretary of the Rossborough Club. Art described PSK as comprised of scholarly type members. He enjoyed living in the fraternity house and was close friends with Ed Pierce, who facilitated his meeting wife Barbara Kimball, who was a teacher. He served in the U.S. Navy from 1942 until 1946, stationed in Adak, Alaska. Art’s career as an engineer took him all over the Northeast and Upper Midwest. His longest employments were with US Testing in Hoboken, New Jersey and later in Boston, Massachusetts, and Superior Electric in Bristol, Connecticut. In 1951, he married Barbara. They had sons James and Richard and eventually settled in Needham, Massachusetts. Barbara unfortunately passed away in 1968. He later married Rita Creagan and had daughter Jennifer. Art retired early and stayed home with Jennifer as Rita made a career in psychiatric nursing in Colorado, Idaho, and Nevada. When Rita retired they moved to Arizona, living in Sedona for 19 years before moving to Scottsdale to be closer to family. In his retirement, Art enjoyed exploring the beauty of the Western U.S., reading, spending time with his family, watching television, and following politics and current events. Reflecting on his life, he was grateful to have had loving marriages and was happy that his children all had good marriages and happy lives. He passed away January 4, 2020, a few months shy of his 99th birthday, after 18 months on hospice, 17 of which were spent in the Royal Care Home in Scottsdale, where he received excellent care. He is survived by Rita and children James (Cheryl), Richard (Evelyn), and Jennifer (Stefan), 8 grandchildren, and 5 great-grandchildren. His final resting place will be the National Memorial Cemetery of Arizona in Phoenix, AZ. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Hospice of the Valley, 1510 E Flower Street, Phoenix, AZ 85014 (hov.org), which provided support to Arthur and Rita. About the Rossborough Club: One of the earliest organized social clubs on campus. First appeared in 1891. The club organized one dance a month, and its officers were in charge of inviting guests, providing refreshments, and the condition of the dance floor. Club’s first president was Pyon Su, the first Korean student to graduate from any U.S. college or university, receiving his degree from the Maryland Agricultural College in 1891. Arthur C. Farnham 1943 William B. McKinney 1950 Richard H. Nagle 1951 John S. Bingham 1952 Paul J. Hansen 1952 James E. Kenkel 1955 Allyn H. Myers, Jr. 1956 Louis V. Roy 1960 James H. Wood 1960 Russell T. Aaronson 1963 Thomas V. Miller, Jr. Esq. 1964 Robert L. Wagner 1964 A. James Comi 1968 George A. Braley 1970 Donald F. Swan 1970 Jeffrey S. Rueff 1979 Christopher R. Reed 1989 Gary S. Albert 1991 Daniel Clark Tatum 2015 Arthur C. Farnham Eta Class of 1943 Art in military uniform, mid 1940s Art (far left) and family at wedding, 2004 (others, from left, are Rita, Erin, Jim, Jennifer, Dick, Peter and Evelyn Farnham).
54 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE The Eta Alumni Association is responsible for notifications sent to our International Headquarters concerning Brothers who have entered the Chapter Eternal. A complete listing of the Brothers of Eta Chapter who have entered the Chapter Eternal is available upon request. Please provide any updates or corrections to this list to the association, via e-mail at [email protected] or via U.S. Mail addressed to 12806 Silverbirch Lane, Laurel, MD 20708. January 2, 1927 - January 10, 2020 William Butler McKinney (Age 93) passed away Friday, January 10, 2020 at his home in Gaithersburg, Maryland. Born January 2, 1927, in Florence Alabama, he was the son of the late William Butler McKinney Sr. and Lena Nelson McKinney. Mr. McKinney attended Coolidge High School in Washington, DC and then entered the Army Air Core where he served in Germany. Upon return to the States, he completed a Civil Engineering degree at the University of Maryland, followed by his law degree from George Washington University. Mr. McKinney worked for the Montgomery County Revenue Authority, retiring in 1980. He later worked for Northern Virginia Community College, retiring in 1989. In his retirement, he worked parttime as a licensed real estate broker and volunteered at the Kensington Maryland Fire Department. He is survived by his wife, Jean McKinney of Gaithersburg, MD, his daughter Patricia Stewart and her husband Gary of Ocean View, Delaware, his daughter Jo Colleran and her husband Jim of Leesburg, Virginia, his son William McKinney and his wife Cathy of Plano, Texas, and his son Alan McKinney and his wife Ann of Brentwood, Tennessee. He is also survived by twelve grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his sister, Elizabeth Jane McKinney Van Wagner. Memorial service will be private. Donations in his name may be made to the American Cancer Society. William Butler McKinney Eta Class of 1950 Richard H. “Dick” Nagle Eta Class of 1951 November 14, 1928 – February 6, 2022 Richard H. "Dick" Nagle, 93, of Stanley, Virginia and North Charleston, South Carolina, husband of the late Pauline Nagle, passed away on Sunday, February 6, 2022 at home. Dick was born on November 14, 1928 in Washington, DC, son of the late Ralph and Mary Nagle. He enjoyed woodworking, making wooden toys for his grandchildren, gardening, and supporting his church and community. Most of all, he enjoyed spending time with his family, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He served on the Board of the Luray Hospice. He was a member of Evangelical Presbyterian Church in Elkton, Virginia and had served as a Deacon and Elder. Survivors include: two children: Elizabeth Nagle Goodwin (Timothy) of Aberdeen, Maryland and Steven Richard Nagle (Liz) of North Charleston; four grandchildren: Matthew Goodwin (Dana), Jennifer Buchness (Drew), Joseph Nagle, and Christopher Nagle; four great-grandchildren: Owen Goodwin, Colton Buchness, Brynn Buchness and Grant Goodwin; niece, Patricia Renn; nephew, Phillip Renn (Nicole); and other beloved family. In addition to his late wife and parents, he was predeceased by his grandson, Andrew Goodwin. A memorial message may be written to the family by visiting the website at www.jamesadyal.com. Visit the guestbook at legacy.com/obituaries/Charleston A Celebration of Life service will be held at a later date in Virginia. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Evangelical Presbyterian Church of Elkton, 2580 Panorama Drive, Elkton, Virginia 22827.
September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 55 THE FUNERAL RITUAL of phi sigma kappa Inasmuch as it hath pleased Almighty God in His infinite wisdom to call our brother into everlasting life, we have come to perform a privileged duty which the dearest bonds of brotherhood enjoin, that of voicing our undying affection and appreciation of his character, loyalty and friendship. It is fitting that at this solemn time we should, as a fraternity, unbroken in the eternity of God, reffirm the Creed which we hold in common: (Repeat the Creed in unison.) In the firm conviction that my Fraternity demands of me a life of Faith and Purpose: I hereby solemnly declare MY FAITH in the wisdom and love of God; in the dignity and worth of my fellowmen; in the strength and beauty of true fraternity; in the history and future of my country; and in the traditions and program of my Alma Mater. Henceforward, therefore, it shall be MY PURPOSE to remain forever true to this, my Fraternity's faith in me and in turn, to preserve and promote courageously and unselfishly the chosen ideals of our mutual affection and common endeavor. To this end I dedicate MY LIFE to the maintenance of this Faith and the pursuit of this Purpose so that the ideals of Phi Sigma Kappa, being embodied in me, may be fulfilled in my character and conduct, and be known and honored by all men. By these things I stand. Let Us Pray Almighty and Merciful God, Our Heavenly Father, Who has taken unto Thyself the soul of our Brother, teach us to do well the tasks of life so that we may meet with Thy divine approval as workmen of whom Thou needest not to be ashamed. May the bonds of Brotherhood between us be unbroken and may our dependence upon Thy unfailing Fatherhood be strengthened. God of Light, God of Love, God of Life and Death, we commit to Thee our Brother; may he be approved of Thee and may we meet again in Brotherhood. Until day break, and these shadows flee away, we entrust ourselves to Thee. Oh, God, rest his soul and keep us steadfast. Amen. . James H. Wood Eta Class of 1960 March 12, 1938 – August 28, 2022 James “Woody” Wood passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on August 28, 2022 at the age of 84 after a lengthy battle with Parkinson’s. He is survived by his adoring wife, Deanne, 3 children, Andy (Christine), Sherri (John) and Ken (Renee), 7 grandchildren (Jennifer, Lauren, Jimmy, Jack, Allie, Drew, and Cole), sister Jeani, many nieces, nephews and cousins. Woody was born in Cambridge MD to James Wood Sr. and Marjorie Calta. He spent his formative years in Red Bank NJ, and attended Red Bank Catholic HS where he excelled in baseball and theater. After graduating with a Juris Doctorate from the University of Maryland, Woody spent the majority of his career as a labor negotiator with the U.S. government. Woody was a loving husband and devoted father who brought laughter and joy to all of those around him. He was an avid golfer and spent his retirement traveling where he and Deanne spent quality time with family and friends. His bigger than life personality was only exceeded by the size of his heart. Woody never shied away from helping someone in need and never ever spoke ill of anyone. He was truly one of a kind and will be remembered fondly by everyone who was fortunate enough to know him.
Paul J. Hansen Eta Class of 1952 March 20, 1931 - September 22, 2021 Paul James "Jim" Hansen, Jr. passed away on September 22nd, 2021, at Bayleigh Chase in Easton. He was 90. Jim was born in Cleveland, Ohio on March 20th, 1931, the son of the late Paul J. Hansen, Sr. and Marjorie Deforrest Hansen. He grew up in Washington, DC and graduated from Bullis High School in Silver Spring, MD. Following graduation from the University of Maryland ROTC, with a degree in journalism, Jim was commissioned in the United States Air Force in 1954 and honorably served for 21 years, retiring in 1975 as a Lt. Colonel. Following his retirement from the Air Force, Jim worked for Computer Science Corporation for 10 years, before working with the CIA beginning in 1985. In 1994, Jim retired with his late wife, Elizabeth Hansen, to Easton. Jim was a member of Phi Sigma Kappa Fraternity, the Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in Oxford, MD. He produced and edited films for the local Maryland Public Television channel. He videoed talks for the historical society and was a theater videographer for the Talbot County Public Library and Tred Avon Players. Jim is predeceased by his wife of 64 years, the late Elizabeth "Betty" J. Hansen. He is survived by his children, Susan J. Hansen of Laurel, MD, Elizabeth H. Coyne (Richard) of Maggie Valley, NC; grandchildren, Libbi Coyne Webb (Kerry) of Waynesville, NC, Paul James Coyne of Charlotte, NC and Katherine Anne Coyne of Atlanta, GA. In accordance with Jim's wishes, services will be private. Jim and Betty will be interred together in a service at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in his honor to the Alzheimer's Association, act.alz.org/donate For online condolences, please visit: www.fhnfuneralhome.com. 56 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE Allyn H. Myers, Jr. Eta Class of 1956 November 8, 1931 - June 22, 2018 Allyn Henry Myers, Jr. died on Friday morning, June 22, 2018 at his home in Gaithersburg, MD. He was 84 years old. Born in Thurmont, MD, Allyn and his family moved to Gaithersburg where he grew up, graduating with the Class of 52 from Gaithersburg High School. He went on to graduate from the University of Maryland and marry his college sweetheart, Sara Elizabeth “Bette” Welsh. The summer after graduation, Allyn worked and managed the farm of his father-in-law in Damascus, MD when Bette’s dad and brother contracted Scarlet Fever. Afterward he enlisted in the army and served for 3 years, spending one year in Germany where Bette joined him for 6 months. They were able to travel throughout Europe and even visited North Africa, this began their fondness for travel. When Allyn was discharged, he and Bette moved to Damascus and Allyn began a career with Liberty Mutual Insurance that would span 30 years. He managed the claims departments of the McLean, Fairfax and Rockville offices. Over the years and after retirement, Allyn and Bette enjoyed traveling, which included European tours, cruises and weekend trips visiting friends and cousins, civil war battlefields, historical societies and halls of records from North Carolina to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania to research family histories. Together, they volunteered with Damascus Help and Meals on Wheels which Allyn continued for several years after Bette’s death in 2006. Allyn is survived by his daughters, Laura Myers and Meighan Wilson, his son, Mark Myers and his wife, Patti, and his grandchildren, Madaline Wilson, Elias Wilson, Justin Myers, Jack Myers, and Olivia Myers.
September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 57 January 1, 1934 - January 8, 2022 The Honorable James E. Kenkel, Captain US Navy, retired, 88, of Spotsylvania, passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 8, 2022, at Encompass Health and Rehabilitation Hospital of Fredericksburg. Judge Kenkel was born January 1, 1934, in Mt. Rainier, Maryland. He was a proud alumnus of Saint John's College High School in Washington, DC. After graduation from the University of Maryland in 1955, he entered US Navy Officer's Candidate School and served three years as an Aviation Intelligence Officer in California and deployed to the Western Pacific. He continued serving in the Navy Reserve, retiring as a Captain in 1987. Returning to his home state of Maryland, Judge Kenkel earned his law degree from Georgetown University Law School, and, after working for the Treasury Department, the Central Intelligence Agency, and the US Information Agency, Judge Kenkel embarked on a four-decade legal career in private practice and public service. He served as the Deputy State's Attorney for Prince George's County, Maryland, and later as a Juvenile Master (Judge), also in Prince George's. He was a partner at DePaul, Willoner, Kenkel, and Associates in College Park, and later served as the District Public Defender for Prince George's County. He was appointed a U.S. Magistrate Judge in 1985 and retired from the Federal bench in 1997. After retiring to Spotsylvania, Judge Kenkel pursued opportunities to volunteer in his community with the Lion's Club, with the Rappahannock Regional Library, and on the Vestry at Christ Episcopal Church. Judge Kenkel was a long-time member of the Civil Air Patrol, where he supported CAP's emergency search-and-rescue and US Air Force ROTC flight orientation programs. Judge Kenkel's survivors include Janice, his bride of 61 years; sons Col James D. Kenkel USMC (ret) (Donna) of Stafford, COL John D. Kenkel USA (Marka) of Washington DC; grandchildren Taylor Kenkel (Pam) of Columbia, Missouri, 1LT Matthew Kenkel USA (Charlotte) of Dupont, Washington, 2LT Hannah Kenkel USA of Ft. Huachuca, Arizona, and Noah Kenkel of Washington, D.C. Judge Kenkel was pre-deceased by his parents Anthony B. and Anne Marie Kenkel of Bladensburg, Maryland; and his siblings Phillip, John, William, Mary, and Joseph. The family wants to offer their sincere appreciation to the staff of Encompass Health and Rehabilitation Hospital for their patience, professionalism, and compassion during our loved one's time in their care. The family received friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Friday, January 21 at Covenant Funeral Service, 10830 Patriot Highway (US Rte 1), Fredericksburg. A private funeral took place on Saturday, January 22 at Christ Episcopal Church, Spotsylvania, with interment immediately following at the Church cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Christ Episcopal Church, 8951 Courthouse Road, Spotsylvania, VA 22553. James Edward Kenkel Eta Class of 1955
58 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE June 18, 1936 – November 12, 2021 Louis “Papa Lou” Victor Roy, 85, of Rehoboth Beach passed away Friday, November. 12, 2021, at his home, surrounded by his family. He was born June 18, 1936, in Montgomery, Alabama, son of the late Victor and Lucille Roy. Mr. Roy was a proud veteran, having honorably served in the U.S. Army from 1959- 1962. He built a lifelong career with the Federal Home Loan Bank Board, retiring in 1993 as vice president with FHLB of Topeka, Kansas, after 30 dedicated years. Mr. Roy was talented athlete in his younger years, and especially enjoyed body surfing. He was a skilled chess player and an avid composer of editorials, tackling many issues affecting the local community. Mr. Roy was active in the Boys & Girls Club of Laurel, and a member of the Maryland University Alumni and Phi Sigma Kappa Fraternity. He loved telling stories and jokes, and making those around him smile and laugh. Above all, Mr. Roy cherished time with those he held most dear. He was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend. He was loved by many, and will be deeply missed by all who knew him. In addition to his parents, Mr. Roy was preceded in death by his brother, Joe Roy. He is survived by his beloved wife of 56 years, Mary (Gallagher) Roy of Rehoboth Beach; his sons: Victor Roy of Annapolis, Maryland., David Roy of Poolesville, Maryland., and Joseph Roy of Rehoboth Beach; his grandchildren: Tyler Roy, Ryan Roy, Cole Roy, Amanda Roy and Ashley Roy; and his sisters: Vicky Galifaro, Sue McConville and Evelyn Canning. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, January 8, 2022, at 10:30 a.m., at St. Mary’s of Annapolis, 109 Duke of Gloucester St., Annapolis, Md. Burial will be held privately. Arrangements have been entrusted to Watson-Yates Funeral Home, a Parsell Family Funeral Home, Seaford. In lieu of flowers, the family requests contributions in Mr. Roy’s memory to Season’s Hospice, 220 Continental Drive, Suite 407, Newark, DE 19713. Louis V. Roy Eta Class of 1960 June 14, 1942 - August 17, 2021 It is with great sadness that the family of Robert Lynn Wagner announces his sudden passing on August 17th, 2021. He resided in Rockville, Maryland and was 79 years old. He will be lovingly remembered by his sister, Brenda Wagner Emmons, his two nieces, Rebecca Gardner and Megan Emmons, and his nephew Brendan Emmons. He was preceded by his loving wife of 33 years, Marianne Wagner, and his parents Ben and Alice Wagner. Bob was a fanatic of sports, a lifelong fan of the Washington football team and the Washington Capitals, a graduate of the University of Maryland, always rooting on the Terps whether it be basketball, lacrosse, or football. A lifelong friend to his Phi Sig brothers, the best uncle to his nieces and an even better great uncle to Henry, Elliott, Teagan, and Molly. His life was celebrated with a visitation at 10 am followed by a funeral service at 11 am on Wednesday August 25th at Collins Funeral Home, 500 University Boulevard West, Silver Spring, Maryland, (Valet Parking). Interment was at Gate of Heaven Cemetery. The family has requested that remembrances be made in the form of contributions to The American Legion. Robert Lynn Wagner Eta Class of 1964
September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 59 July 20, 1941 - December 13, 2020 Russell Taylor Aaronson, Jr., 79, passed away peacefully in Richmond on Sunday, December 13, 2020. We would like to thank the many friends and family who have reached out with their condolences, offers of assistance, stories, and memories. Dad was born on July 20, 1941 at Union Memorial Hospital on 33rd Street in Baltimore, Maryland, just down the road from Memorial Stadium, home to his Colts and Orioles. He was preceded in death by his parents, Russell T., Sr., and Dickey Jamison Aaronson. He is survived by his three children Russell T. Aaronson, III (Vaughan), Jennifer Aaronson Hardie (Scott) and Stephanie June Aaronson; his grandchildren Emily, Anna, Will, Kate, Taylor and Samuel; our mother Joan Farr Aaronson; his second wife Betty Aaronson; his sister Ann Aaronson Bender; and many beloved nieces, nephews, family, and friends. Dad grew up collecting stamps, maps, and snakes in Aberdeen, Maryland, where his father spent his career as a civilian employee at the Aberdeen Proving Ground and his mother taught third grade at Aberdeen Elementary School (including Cal and Billy Ripken among her students). Dad attended The Boys Latin School in Baltimore and the University of Maryland in College Park, where he was a member of Phi Sigma Kappa fraternity, played on the varsity golf team, and graduated with a degree in Business Administration. Following his early career as an investment broker, including several years in Richmond with Blyth, Eastman Dillon & Co., he soon embraced his entrepreneurial spirit and spent the bulk of his professional career as a real estate developer, primarily in the Washington, DC metropolitan area, with numerous side projects in such places as Brussels, Belgium, Deer Valley, Utah, St. Thomas, USVI, Denver, Colorado, Dallas, Texas and Allentown, Pennsylvania. Truly, he was driven by his lifelong pursuit of the next big deal. Dad was engaging and adventurous. When he wasn't working a deal, filing a rezoning or contending with bankers, Dad loved to attend our, and more recently his grandchildren's, sporting events, recitals and theatrical performances. He pursued many, many hobbies and diversions, including without limitation, golf, travel, running, hiking, cycling, horseback riding, skiing, hunting, birdwatching, attending theater, collecting art, singing at church, listening to Tchaikovsky, relaxing on the beach in Bethany, Rehoboth and Perdido Key, and tending to his impressive collection of duck decoys. Dad's greatest passion, however, was his love of sailing with his family on the Chesapeake Bay. We spent many wonderful days on the Bay, in and around Annapolis, Oxford and Tilghman Island aboard Mirrors, Wings and Susquehanna, listening to Willie Nelson's Stardust and looking forward to post-sail cocktails at Marmaduke's or crabcakes at the AYC. He loved his Sperry Topsiders, Chapman's Piloting, the paintings of John M. Barber, and nautical charts of the Chesapeake Bay, all of which you could often find him perusing in earnest at Fawcett Boat Supplies. Dad's infectious enthusiasm, even in tough times, was inspiring to all that knew and loved him, and great fun for all those who were along for the ride. After a private service next spring, we will return him to his beloved Chesapeake Bay. Fair winds and following seas, Dad. We love you and miss you. We would like to thank the nursing staff at Westminster Canterbury Richmond for the patient and compassionate care they provided Dad in his final years. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Chesapeake Bay Foundation, the Alzheimer's Association, the Westminster Canterbury Foundation, Classical WETA, of which Dad was a loyal listener and member, or any charity or cause about which you may be passionate. Russell Taylor Aaronson, Jr. Eta Class of 1963 The Eta Alumni Association is responsible for notifications sent to our International Headquarters concerning Brothers who have entered the Chapter Eternal. A complete listing of the Brothers of Eta Chapter who have entered the Chapter Eternal is available on our website. Please provide any updates or corrections to this list to the association, via e-mail at [email protected] or via U.S. Mail addressed to 12806 Silverbirch Lane, Laurel, MD 20708, or via phone at 301-802-6464.
60 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE Thomas Vincent (Mike) Miller, Jr. Eta Class of 1964 December 3, 1942 - January 15, 2021 Thomas V. Mike Miller Jr. passed away peacefully at his home, surrounded by loved ones. He was 78 years old. He is survived by his wife, Patti, son, Tommy, daughters, Amanda, Michelle, Melissa and Melanie, sisters, Susan, Cynthia, Melinda, Nancy and Kim, brothers, Jonathan, David and Mark, and his 15 grandchildren, and was predeceased by his sister Judith. Miller will lie in state in the rotunda of the Maryland State House on Thursday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. and on Friday from 8 a.m. to 7 p.m. Due to COVID-19 restrictions, in-person visitation will be limited to appointments for invited guests only. The family held a private Mass and service at their family church St. John the Evangelist in Clinton, followed by a private entombment. The Mass and service was livestreamed on the St. John the Evangelist Facebook page. In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Calvert Health Cancer Foundation, the Dunkirk Fire Department, the Thomas V. Mike Miller Jr. Center for Leadership at the College of Southern Maryland or the Thomas V. Mike Miller Education Fund to support youth environmental education and career programs through the Chesapeake Bay Trust.
September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 61 A. James Comi Eta Class of 1968 September 27, 1945 - August 9, 2020 We lost a great man when sadly Arthur James (Jim) Comi, 74, lost his battle with cancer on August 9, 2020 with his family by his side at his favorite place, his summer home on Halls Lake, Newbury, VT. He was born on September, 27th, 1945 in Plainfield, NJ to Arthur & Ella Comi. He attended Plainfield High School (where he excelled in football) and went on to attend The University of Maryland and Fairleigh Dickinson University where he earned a BS in Business Administration and an MBA. He was also a member of the Boy Scouts of America (Eagle Scout 1959) and subsequent volunteer for many years (he was proud that his son and grandson also attained the rank of Eagle Scout). Jim served in the National Guard and United States Army during the Vietnam conflict. Jim opened his own employment recruiting business in Watchung, NJ in 1977 “Arthur James & Assoc.” which he successfully ran for over 30 years until his retirement in 2007. Many of his best friends resulted from partnerships he formed in business. He loved to play golf and spent much of his time with friends and family playing at his favorite courses in NJ & VT. He hosted “The Vermont Almost Open” for over 25 years with a group of close friends playing courses near his family summer home. He was an avid sports fan following his Maryland “Terps”, Chicago White Sox & Philadelphia Eagles (finally enjoying a Super Bowl victory in 2018) and often watching games with his brother and lifelong friend, Bob (who sadly passed last year). He enjoyed lasting friendships with many of his fraternity brothers from Phi Sigma Kappa (Univ. of Maryland). Most recently, he enjoyed spending time with his beloved yellow lab Ella. Jim was loved and will be missed by all whom he knew through his business, summers spent “at the lake” in Newbury, VT (visiting with his friends at the local general store each morning), winters on Lido Key at the Gulf Beach Resort in Sarasota, FL (where he was known as the “Mayor”), a large family, and being a devoted husband & father. Jim (“Dad”, “Pop Pop”) was always there to help anyone in need and always put others before himself. Jim is survived by his loving wife Pamela of 54 years, son Colin & wife Keri of Colchester, VT (grandchildren James and Sophia), daughter Laura Linabury & husband Dave of Townsend, MA (grandchildren Madison, Mackenzie, Mitchell, Brody, Dale and Ryan), sister Loretta of Easton, PA, sister Marie & husband Ed of Sandpoint, ID, sister-in-law Nancy of Berkeley Heights, NJ, and many nieces and nephews. A celebration of life will be scheduled at a later date. Memorial donations to the Halls Lake Association, c/o Betty Ann Roy, 713 Halls Lake Rd, Newbury, VT 05051 in lieu of flowers are appreciated. George Anderson Braley Eta Class of 1970 October 5, 1948 - March 28, 2021 George Anderson Braley, 72, died on Sunday, March 28, 2021 at Fairfax Hospital from congestive heart failure. He was born in Riverdale, MD, the second of two sons of Jeannette Anderson Braley and Berton James Braley. George is survived by his beloved wife of 46 years Margaret “Margy” Gallagher Braley; three children, Allison Braley-Patton (Bryant), Megan Braley (Matt Mahon), Colin Braley (Emily); his brother, Berton James Braley, Jr. (Linda); and four grandchildren, Nora and Clifton Patton, Craig Mahon and Jesse Braley. In addition, he is survived by numerous Gallagher in-laws who were like siblings, and beloved nieces and nephews. George Braley was a Senior Vice President for Government Relations and Public Policy for Feeding America and previously retired from the U.S. Department of Agriculture as deputy administrator for special nutrition programs, where he spent 30+ years developing policy for hunger issues. His work fulfilled his sense of purpose and fed the hungry. He attended the University of Maryland on a track scholarship, after excelling at high jump and triple jump in high school and beyond. George will be remembered for his quick wit, love of adventure, and deep devotion to his family. He could be found watching U of Maryland sports (Go Terps!), traveling to destinations near and far, skiing with his brothers-in-law, at Braley reunions in Iowa, or driving with the wind in his hair as an old favorite song played. Everyone who knew him could tell a funny story about him; he lit up every room and made an impression on everyone he met. A memorial service will be held on April 10, 2021 at 10 a.m. at Money and King in Vienna, Virginia. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be sent to Feeding America in memory of George Braley.
62 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE Jeffrey Steven Rueff Eta Class of 1979 August 12, 1957 – September 2, 2021 Jeffrey Steven Rueff passed away peacefully on Thursday, September 2 with devoted wife Joanne and his cherished sons Jack and Connor by his side. Born on August 12, 1957 in New York, New York, Jeff attended Livingston High School, University of West Virginia, and University of Maryland. He was a competitive athlete who played soccer in high school and college, and he continued to be a big sports fan throughout his life. After college he spend a short time working in the food industry where he learned about good food, good wine, good scotch, and good chocolate, before he began his career in the scrap metal industry. Jeff’s greatest love was his family. Before kids, Jeff delighted in having a home-cooked gourmet meal on the table when Joanne got home every day, which they would enjoy together before he turned in early to be ready for an early tee time the next morning. Once his sons were born, he threw himself into fatherhood whole-heartedly. He was the ultimate hockey dad, always ready to pitch in as needed in the penalty box, doing the scoresheet, or playing Jack’s hand-picked playlist over the sound system between whistles. He looked forward to annual family vacations at Lake George where he enjoyed swimming, fishing, and water-skiing with his boys. Despite his busy schedule, Jeff found the time to earn his pilot’s license so he could indulge his love of travel. Friends and family will especially miss Jeff’s great sense of humor. He was a connoisseur of Dad Jokes, and you would often find him laughing hours after a particularly clever (or corny) joke. In fact, it was his humor that first won Joanne’s heart when on their first date he pulled the ever popular “look over there” while stealing a lobster tail from her plate. Joanne, Jack and Connor are grateful for the support they have received during this difficult time. In lieu of flowers, the Rueffs ask that donations in his memory be sent to Memorial Sloan Kettering, where Jeff received excellent and compassionate care during his battle with lymphoma. Donald French Swan Eta Class of 1970 June 28, 1947 – January 17, 2022 On January 17, 2022, Donald French Swan, of Ellicott City, Maryland passed away after a 21 year battle with Parkinson’s Disease. He was 74 years old. Don was born on June 28, 1947 to Donald A. Swan and Dorothy F. Swan in Somers Point, New Jersey. He grew up on the beaches of Ocean City, New Jersey where his passion for sports emerged with surfing. That passion grew into love for other sports as well such as basketball, golf and racquetball. In high school, Don found his heart in basketball and football. He was a member of the 1963-64 Ocean City High School basketball team which was inducted into the school’s Hall of Fame in 1991. After high school, Don went on to earn a spot on the University of Maryland’s football team where he played defensive linebacker while earning his Bachelors in Business degree. After college, Don’s next adventure landed him at Xerox Corporation where he worked for 39 years. He became decorated with many sales awards over his career and earned at least 26 President’s Clubs that took him to many wonderful places around the world. Besides work, Don enjoyed volunteering for HCYP, coaching his childrens’ sports teams, and attending their sporting events in high school and college. It didn’t matter the location or distance of these events as he always made it a point to be there. Don’s greatest joy, though, was spending time with his family and friends. He loved to go on vacation to the beach whether it was back in New Jersey, Florida, the Virgin Islands or Hawaii; he was always drawn to the water. Don is survived by his beloved wife of 42 years, Anita Marino; devoted father of Donald (Kelly) Swan, Erika (Mark) Lupo and Kristina (Sean) Cunningham; loving nephew of Helen Foor; dear brother of Donna DeRocher; dear uncle to niece Chantal Tilbrook; beloved uncle of nephews Donald DeRocher and David DeRocher; he leaves behind four grandchildren: Donald & Marina Swan and Caden & Tristan Lupo. Don was preceded in death by his parents Donald A. Swan (2005) and Dorothy F. Swan (2016). Memorial donations may be made to: The Michael J. Fox Foundation or American Parkinson Disease Association.
Christopher R. Reed Eta Class of 1989 March 24, 1967 – February 7, 2022 By Beverly Loss Reed February 9, 2022 This week I lost my best friend. Chris passed peacefully on Monday morning after courageously battling pancreatic cancer for nearly 7 months. He was not in any pain and was here at home, just as he wanted to be. I know this news will come as a surprise to many, but as he wished, his cancer diagnosis was not widely shared. We were devastated after receiving the news last July; we had so many dreams and plans for the future. But, in typical Chris fashion, he met the challenge head on, managing to tolerate the very aggressive chemo treatments rather well (even keeping his hair!) It gave us hope that he might be with us just a little longer than the average and give us more time to adjust to what our world would be like without him. He was our superman. Things began to change in mid-December, when one thing after another happened and his health began to decline. It all seemed to happen so quickly and before we were ready. I had the privilege of having him in my life for almost 34 years and I see him in the kids - Hunter’s sly smile and easy going way, Maddie’s kindness and thick wavy hair. We will miss him terribly each and every day, but we know he will be watching over us. We will be okay. Rest in peace our precious angel, we love you so much. June 18, 1936 – June 24, 2021 Gary Albert of Potomac, MD passed away on Thursday, June 24, 2021, at the age of 53. Beloved husband of 27 years to Maddie Albert; devoted and proud father of Adam and Riley Albert. He was survived by his parents Joel and Charlotte Albert, the extended Albert family, including his many nephews, nieces and great nephews and niece. He will be deeply missed by the loving group of childhood friends that he remained close with throughout his lifetime. Gary's many successes include his businesses Pearly White Pets and ActivTrax among others which includes phenomenal longtime employees. Funeral services were held Friday, June 25, 2021 at Congregation B'nai Tzedek and interment followed at Garden of Remembrance Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the National Brain Tumor Society. Gary S. Albert Eta Class of 1991 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE 63
64 September 2022 The THIRD DEGREE Those who would like to prepare a tribute to a Brother of Eta Chapter who has entered the Chapter Eternal may submit content for publication in The THIRD DEGREE via e-mail to [email protected] or via U.S. Mail addressed to 12806 Silverbirch Lane, Laurel, MD 20708. Manuscripts and photographs are submitted at the sender’s risk. Please enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope for return of materials. Submission of material implies a right to edit and publish all or in part. Daniel Clark Tatum Eta Class of 2015 July 8, 1993 – February 14, 2021 Daniel Clark Tatum, 27, of Arlington, Virginia died Sunday, February 14, 2021. Born July 8, 1993 in New York, New York, he was raised in Princeton, New Jersey and attended St. Paul’s School. Daniel was a graduate of Notre Dame High School ’11 and graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering from the University of Maryland. Daniel loved golf and grew up caddying at the National Golf Links of America. He was an avid snowboarder and runner. He had a passion for cars and would spend hours fixing up his old Volvo. He was often referred to as “Mr. Fix It” and would repair any appliance or electronic his roommates or grandparents needed. As he served as president of his fraternity, Phi Sigma Kappa, he became an incredible leader and role model to his friends. He had an appetite for life and continued to live life to the fullest whether it be through traveling, drinking good bourbon, watching marvel comic movies, or spending time with family and friends. Daniel is survived by his loving parents Clark and Ann (Schnell) Tatum, his sister Elise Tatum, his grandparents John and Antonia Schnell, Sam and Marcella Tatum, his girlfriend Olivia Mathias, and several aunts, uncles and cousins including the Ellwood’s, the Helstrom’s, the Schnell’s, the Cunningham’s, and the Tatum’s. A visitation was held on Sunday, February 21, 2021, at the M.J. Murphy Funeral Home at 616 Ridge Road at New Road, Monmouth Junction, New Jersey. Visitation was from 1:00 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial was held at 10:30 a.m on Monday February 22, 2021, at St. Paul’s Church, 216 Nassau Street, Princeton New Jersey. Although attendance in the church was somewhat limited, the funeral mass was live streamed to the Spiritual Center at the church and was available on-line through the St. Paul Parish web-site.
ALUMNI NEWS COORDINATOR Eta Alumni needed to gather “Alumni Notes” & photos for inclusion in award winning magazine published 2x per yr. No exp. needed. Must be willing to contact alumni, seek news items & pics, and send to layout artist via email. Alumni database provided. Send an e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Alumni News Coordinator” HELP (still) WANTED WRITERS WANTED Write feature articles for inclusion in award winning magazine published 2x per yr. No exp. needed. Must be willing to pitch ideas, create content and be edited. Knowledge of MS Word a must. Apply via e-mail with your 1st article idea to [email protected] Subject: “Feature Writer” CHAPTER ADVISORS Work with undergrads of greek letter org. at BIG10, Research 1 Univ. Did you excel at Recruiting, Member Educ., Academics, Financial, Risk Mgmt.? Then this may be for you! Prev. exp. w/Chap. Leadership pref. but not necessary. Apply via e-mail with resume to [email protected] Subject: “Chapter Advisors” DECADE CAPTAINS NEEDED NOW! Top-notch alumni assn. needs help with member recruitment & retention. A few phone calls or e-mails is all that is required. Excellent support (magazine, website, social media) will make this job easy. Compete w/other decades to claim bragging rights and help grow this group to next level. Send resume via e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Decade Captain” FUNDRAISING IS FUN WITH US! Unlimited number of positions available with UMD’s #1 greek alumni assn. Help us expand # of donors and encourage annual gifts to our successful buttkicking capital campaign and scholarship fund. Send resume via e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Fundraising Fun with Eta” ALUMNI PROFILE COORDINATOR Prof. needed to prod and poke other Alumni to answer questions/provide pic for “Alumni Profile” for award winning magazine published 2x per yr. No exp. needed. Must be willing to contact alumni, seek copy & pic, and send to layout artist via e-mail. Alumni database provided. Apply via e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Alumni Profile Coord.” SOCIAL MEDIA GURUS Create content for our Facebook +/or LinkedIn presence. Must be willing to share ideas, create content & take direction. Knowl. of MS Publisher pref. but not necessary. Apply via e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Social Media Guru” SOCIAL EVENTS ASSISTANT Help #1 PSK alum. assn. plan/hold major social events 2x per yr. Build # of guests & be part of an already great events mgmt. team. Send 3 ideas on how to improve our Open House and/or Homecoming Tailgate & resume to [email protected] Subject: “Social Events” NETWORKING COORDINATOR Develop networking program for assn. benefitting mbrs. & undergrads incl. Mentors Program, Events (reg. & special), & Social Media exch. Send 1 page concept statement and resume via e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Networking Coordinator” FAMILY TREE COORDINATOR! Your interest in history and genealogy could mean an exciting position with our assn. Contact alums and learn their Big/Little Brothers to help complete a huge “Family Tree” for the chapter. See your work at the Reunion. No design, just getting the info. Apply via e-mail to [email protected] Subject: “Family Tree Coordinator” PHOTO ARCHIVIST Seek photos from members for Photo Vault. Apply to [email protected] Subject: “Photo Archivist” HISTORY BUFFS WANTED Seek memories of PSK fr. members for Hist. Project. Apply to [email protected] Subject: “History Buffs” Back Cover in support of our First Lady, Grace M. Criscuoli The Eta Alumni Association of Phi Sigma Kappa ...for the Next 100 Years of Your Eta Chapter Terps. Tradition. Time. Talent. Treasure…. ...and Triumph.
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